Couple has vasectomy debate in public
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- Опубликовано: 26 мар 2024
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I like the topic but they have been cutting the scenes way too soon. I need to hear more from these people before they cut them off mid-thought
i agree with you
Well it's about Vasectomy so they need to "Cut it" with precision you know. 😂
Agreed
Totally agree
True and real
I’d be like “why tf are you talking about this in public” 😂
Entertainment
Exactly
A LOT of stuff gets talked about in the barbershop lol I used to have to go to the shop with my Dad and brother and I would hear the craziest stuff waiting for them to get their cuts 😂 This isn't even that wild.
@@mylifeasjess8202oh was gonna say, a lot of the time I’m barber shops if a interesting convo pops up everyone’s just chatting to chill and pass the time
So I can eat my popcorn
So it’s ok for them to talk about his balls in public, but when I do it I’m inappropriate
😂😂
Barber shop any topic is open especially Jamaican ones
@@Euwanh85 Maybe where you live. I've never heard a conversation even close to this in a barber shop. Football? Yes. This? No.
@@austindashcamdiaries921go to your local hood
😂😂😂
Bro said I got my tubes tied 😂😂
I've known tons of men who have accidentally said that and some ladies who have said "i got the lady version of a vasectomy" loooool
Transgender king 🤩🤩🤩
Are they not technically tubes, though?
“if he ain’t that strong to do it then-“ the shade lmao
My friend got a vasectomy and they offered him Xanax for his nerves, I went to get an IUD and they offered me NOTHING for a highly invasive and painful procedure. It ended up hurting so bad I didn't go through with it.
edit: for context I was unable to properly advocate for myself unfortunately as I was younger and an anxious person. I didn't necessarily need meds but they did nothing to tell me about what the procedure would do and how much it could hurt. If they told me that I would have started with a different option.
I’ve had an IUD twice and I highly recommend taking ibuprofen beforehand. Before getting one in and before getting it out. It didn’t hurt a bit afterwards and I don’t have high pain tolerance.
I went for an IUD and the pain meds they prescribed me before were so daunting that I ended up not going through with it. It was like they were letting me know beforehand that it would be a horrible experience.
It really isn’t as bad as you think! It’s so quick and easy. There might be a little bleeding afterwards but I highly recommend it. But do what makes you comfortable. Again, I don’t have high pain tolerance and this was fine.
That’s just a bad doctor. It’s not a double standard. You should advocate for a better doctor. Most people aren’t offered Xanax
@@Pine_ViewThat’s YOUR experience. Certain factors make it extremely painful for other women. I don’t think you’re super educated on the risks and how it affects certain women. It’s not about high pain tolerance or not. It’s really fcked some ppl up!
THE ACTORS LOOK LIKE THEY BELONG THERE GOOD JOB WITH CASTING I COULDNT EVEN TELL THEY WERE PAID ACTORS
Please consider proper punctuation.
@@brandonbrooks3033 it's a comment section on a you tube video not a professional news article. You know what they were saying....
This is a topic that couples should talk about before marriage. Have kids or don't, your happiness is yours alone. Don't let anyone discourage you.
Disagreed. Leave it to the latest moment then argue about it at a point when you want to have kids. Duh.
Well said 👏
@@acoolyoutubechannel7849 I hope you're kidding
100% you should already agree on a timeline and the amount of kids you want (0, 1, 2, 3+) before getting married.
Yeess🎉
As someone who works in anesthesia, I can tell you a man getting a vasectomy is 10 times easier than a woman getting a total hysterectomy. The hysterectomy is under general anesthesia and has a long recovery--robotic hysterectomies can even take 8-10 hours and have weeks of recovery. A vasectomy o the other hand is done in an operating room under sedation anesthesia--much like the medication you would be given for a colonoscopy-so you are not at all aware of what is going on. The surgeon injects local and we can give IV pain medications and anxiolytics so the guy won't remember anything. It's maybe a 20 min procedure or less and a recovery of a few days. The difference between the two procedures is drastic from a clinical perspective.
My robotic hysterectomy only took about 2 hours and I had everything removed
With a robotic hysterectomy you go home the same day unlike an abdominal hysterectomy you're kept in the hospital for a week or two
@@heddystgeorge3756 yeah, I had one and it was just a keyhole surgery. 3 teeny inch long cuts in my stomach and that's it's. I left my ovaries so it didn't effect my hormones and they just took everything else. Obviously that's extreme and I had other issues but hey, it worked. And I went home the same day and the pain was no worse than a bad period ache.
I know a hysterectomy is more drastic but everyone is different I guess.
I've had kids already and my periods have always been extreme and a giant problem so I was more than happy to get a hysterectomy and it was great then it covered birth control as well. They left my ovaries, took everything else. It was only 3 very tiny cuts, I barely had any pain and I went home the same day.
And it’s reversible for men
This is one of the most organic and natural feeling WWYDs. Just chatting in a barbershop.
Some of the best conversation happen in the barbershop. I loved taking my nephews to get their haircuts just for the conversations.
What a weird topic. This is more about a matter of opinions than testing people’s morality and empathy to a stranger
this new season has really missed the mark so far, terrible and very short videos
@@OwO-de4pl I like the topic . In the past they also did eps for opinions. And secondly, this isn't the full episode. This is just the little bit they show on RUclips
It's good they have more actors so people are less likely to spot them now lol but I wonder where Tracy is.
Lol yeah she was great
She was actually just in a video last week. She was playing the mom of a social media influencer
@@aaronjames3228 right!
@@SomethingSomethingg oh nice. I'll watch that one next!
I've seen her in several already this season.
i dont feel comfortable as a woman getting my tubes tied so i can understand a man not wanting to get treatment either, so i'd never pressure anyone who didn't feel comfortable.
It's not as simple as that, though, is it? It's not like you're going to be going up to random men encouraging them to get vasectomies. You may be in a situation where if he doesn't want to get a vasectomy, you might have to stay on the pill which you may not be comfortable with either. You may get pregnant which neither of you may be comfortable with.
I'm getting one done soon no kids for me.
At least have one man !
@@dre6616 why? That's his choice. Don't encourage people to have children when they don't want to. It could turn out very badly for all involved. People have their reasons and it's stupid and disrespectful to advise them otherwise.
I had mine at 21 with no kids. The procedure was like sitting on a bike wrong and staying like that. I was about to barf the entire time. Then the next few days I couldn't get out of the car or go up and down stairs without a shock. Also the bruise on my ballsack was brutal. But that all went away and there have been zero side effects since.
Its not worth it brother, you never know what the future holds, you could be at your 50's and just finally want to have children, your current relationship could fall apart etc etc, there are so many other options than to disfigure your body with the possible accidents that could happen with the procedure
The women had to be on birth control for years and then carry the baby- i think he owes her
No
Yeah then she cheats on you or your children die now you have no bloodline to continue your legacy.
i agree that vasectomies are more ethical and better overall but it should be a private conversation between partners, its rude to be trying to force him in public
He owes no one but himself. And it’s equal responsibilities of both parties.
@@ayden958 This is a situational show to see how people react. This is not real life. Also, how is it rude to discuss medical procedures in public. Freedom of speech rules.
If you’re getting this procedure done wether man or women, get it for yourself and not for someone else. Not even your spouse, if it ends you got a body altering procedure because of someone else, not even a vasectomy is 100% reversible
yes exactly! i totally agree with your point. this is about consent.
Here is the problem, a lot of Dr will NOT approve for a woman to have it done becausr "what if your partner wants kids later on?" I want them out because of health risks and mental health complications but they still won't let me. They expect my future "husband" will want kids. I am over forty and have a partner who also wants them out, but because she is a woman they think I will have a husband later in my life.
If you as a couple don't want any more kids then both should do it and there will be no guilt.
The women had to be on birth control for years and then carry the baby- i think he owes her
And tubes tied is much more invasive
@@Emma-wm9jgnah
both are procedures and things can go wrong and then the mate that didn't do it then they can end up leaving and being like ok you figure yourself out, so both do the procedure or neither do one. condoms and other things exist, but it is up to whoever is comfortable with it, so think of it as a by yourself would you personally want more kids.
@@Peaceandlighting fr
WWYD never fails to stretch my cheeks and fill me with content
No diddy
Well, that was extremely vivid
holy fuck
That just happened to someone in a video I saw earlier. Weird coincidence 😭
same 🤤
Wish my father had the procedure before I was conceived.
Nah your comment is too relatable bro
If that's true then you need to see a therapist
@@ksismom2692if that's relatable you need therapy
Not 100% effective. I have a friend who was a vasectomy baby. I also know many IUD babies and other forms of birth control that failed.
Agreed! 😔😪
Hysterectomy - NO PERIODS AGAIN EVER!! 🎉
I'm on y 3rd IUD and no periods since the Obama administration!😂
Doesn’t that throw your hormones off though? I don’t know anyone who had one so I am genuinely curious
@@Hulachowdownnot really, most hormones are made by the ovaries and ruptured ovarian follicles, not the uterus, the amount of estrogen that the uterus contributes to make is significantly less than that made by the ovaries
There are so many side effects to hysterectomy besides “no periods”. It is a major surgery. You will have other symptoms of menopause earlier than usual, and it increases your long-term risk of pelvic prolapse. Unless there’s a medical reason, I wouldn’t get a hysterectomy for merely birth control.
Oh sure why not just undergo major irreversible abdominal surgery with a possibility of MAJOR complications versus a very simple potentially reversible procedure. Come on.
It is not solely up to a woman to prevent pregnancy. It infuriates me when people say "Well she spread her legs". Or if birth control fails suddenly everyone accuses them of doing it on purpose to trap a man because they "wanted" to get pregnant. Ridiculous.
After my mom had my brother, she told my father to close it up, and he did.
I would have said no
@@aaronjames3228 pathetic 😂
And now she’s pregnant again…
@@OurEpicStory #FakeNews
@@mommy-mar why? Men can choose how to handle their bodies, too. If nobody wants to make changes to their bodies there's always condoms.
This is one of the most wholesome chapters from wwyd. They all were Respectful to each other and shared their honest opinions.👏
Never been this early, so gladddd this show is back!!
Having your tubes tied can have some big side effects too, especially if you haven't been through menopause. However, it's not unheard of for a woman to get pregnant with a man who's had a vasectomy. That can really turn ugly, I just listened to a story about that a few hours ago. An engaged couple, the man had been sniped, but the woman still got pregnant, and the man decided she must have been cheating, didn't even talk to her about it, and dumped her. Then when she was far enough along, they did a paternity test, and the baby was his. He wanted to take her back, but she was really hurt he trusted her so little (though she could understand where he was coming from), and wasn't sure if she wanted him back. In this day and age, it's a tough situation to be in, I have no doubt.
For males it's called andropause, not menopause.
@@x-dusk3137 Thanks for the info, I didn't know that! But I was referring strictly to women in that sentence. I've never heard of a man getting "their tubes tied." Men have a tube there, but it's usually snipped, not tied.
I am SO DAMN HAPPY you guys are back. But please, let them react longer before breaking/intervening. So much content we could get!!❤❤❤ I love WWYD
What happened to the original host. Please
He’s still in majority episodes. This season has different celeb hosting episodes too though. Check the channel for more of John’s episodes.
These are running out of ideas. 🙄
Love watching WWYD , it's always like a roller coaster emotional ride. Love all the way from the Philippines!
I don’t want kids but I wouldn’t tell any guy to get a surgery that is irreversible. I don’t even want my tubes tied cuz it’s irreversible.
Vasectomys are irreversable
Vasectomies are reversible
@@Emma-wm9jg oh I didn’t realized I spelled it wrong 🤣😭😂
@@aaronjames3228 If is not always possible.
Anything to CHANGE the human body that god made is sick and disgusting..
As a gay man, I see this as an absolute win. I don’t need a vasectomy 😂 nor does my partner
That’s gay
nah idk man that sounds kinda gay to me ngl
The lady is so on when she say black women come in the hospital and don’t come out and it’s really sad and something needs to be done about … I felt that in my soul. We are often misdiagnosed or even ignored and the doctors tell us to just go home take a Tylenol or you will be fine or say something else and we end up not waking up the next morning it’s sad.
Can you explain this more, I really didn't understand what she meant, like we don't come home?
@@Marieq no lmao side effect of pregnancy, idk what they are schizoing about but if you live in the west you have a 0.0204% maternal morality rate, nothing to worry about it, you're more likely to get into a plane accident than die from childbirth
i mean they both equally have the right to protect their bodies and surgery is scary even if it ain't on a special area like id just limit how often you sex
Finally a comment that agrees with my stance! Whether it's better or worse than a birth or having tubes tied isn't the point. NO ONE should be guilt-tripped into getting a surgical procedure done on them they aren't comfortable with...! I hope there are non-surgical options available that work well to prevent pregnancies so couples can weigh that too.
Man said he's a pharmacist, is That the proper formal way to say he's the dope boy 🤣
Johnny and Amy from Love Is Blind lol
Shout out to the older gentleman who spoke up and said there are a lot of side effects to birth control. I think most men have no idea nor do they care to think about how much the pill can screw with a woman's body. They think it's simple, like popping a vitamin pill or something.
Hello all you early people! Hope you have a wonderful day!
It's a good night my end😊
Thank you.
@@edithdlp8045 Many thanks! even from the late folk!
If women have the choice (in places it’s allowed) then men should as well.
He appears every other episode. He still does the voiceovers though.
We don't. I've been trying to get my uterus removed since I was 20 and the man doctor keeps saying no.
Not that man got his tubes tied 😂 I’m dead af
Where the hell is the original host?
Awesome video!
It’s been out for 50 seconds, how could you have watched all of it 😂
This show is always interesting and you're always expecting what will be next but is not the same anymore because the episodes are to short.
Enjoy this show!! Interesting view points
what happened to 'my body my choice'
My horse didn't get a choice, he had his testicles removed before he was 2. He has always been such a happy guy with no testosterone causing him problems.
This is dumb and inappropriate. That is between them. Imagine the reverse a guy telling her to get her tubes tied while she is at the salon. This show keeps getting worse and worse. It used to be good but I think they ran out of good ideas.
Hello!
Thank you!
Men's body men's choice
none of women's business and if they force me i'd divorce her
I'd be so uncomfortable in this situation
LOVE THESE EPISODES
The DOCTORS 👨⚕️👩⚕️🩺often recommend that a man should do it because it has little to no side effects for a man...compared to a woman who suffers and then her kids suffer and then the entire family gets disrupted!! YOU DON'T WANT THAT
Fun fact, if you take birth control pills for over 5 years it increases the risk of cervical and breast cancer. 2 of the most common cancer's in women. Not to mention it also increases the risk of blood clots, a young woman died from blood clots in her lungs due to birth control pills and she was only on them a short time.
Luckily for me I've been on them 7 years (every day for 3 months then a 7 day break as my gyno suggested) because I don't want kids, as he said, no periods, no babies) but I haven't had many side effects, maybe some weight gain but that's about it. I've gotten lucky the pills I'm on agree with my body, some of them don't and can do awful things to a woman's body. Of course just because I have no effects now, doesn't mean the cancer won't come before in 40. (It is genetic in my family)
In my opinion this is too TMI to talk about this topic in public
1) yes men and women are responsible for preganancy but a man shouldn’t feel pressured just like a woman shouldn’t
2) as a black woman what is sis in the braid getting done in that barber chair?!!
This is actually a good example of what’s wrong with the world today; Keep your private business PRIVATE. Not everything concerns the world or needs to be put on display.
Wish the videos were longer!! 🥲
My husband and I both did. Mine was for endometriosis and he chose to have a vasectomy due to the effects of birth control on myself after 20 some years. Neither of us also chose to never have children whether or not we stay together or not. sadly we did not but neither of us regret it
I think it should be whoever wants to stop having kids the most!
If the one with a uterus wants to stop having kids, they should be the one; it is not any more ok for a woman to have a man sterilized, than it would be for him to have her sterilized.
Yeah but The women had to be on birth control for years and then carry the baby- and vascetomys are much less invasive and much more reversible then uterus out
@@Emma-wm9jg why u on every comment
never eating frozen peas again.
Tubal ligation
I like the old wwyd. When its just john quiñones.
Yeah. Me too
Yeah I'm not a fan of this guy
I miss when they paused
yeah i’m pissed this new guy sucks
Instead of having a vasectomy and instead of tying up tubes, just practise abstinence for goodness sakes!!!
This show doesn't have the same feel to it as it used to
I'm sorry but who talks about this in public?
This is such a strange topic 😭
To all men; Thank you for being sensitive towards a woman's needs!
Its nice to hear the men here doesn't put everything on us women. My ex was sexist. He can deny that all he wants. He even said oh im not sexist but he definitely was. The things he say about women in my opinion is just outrages. He just doesnt see it
It's more sexist if women force men to have vasectomy
@Ihsanneknijawanno they aren't trying to force him. Just convince him, if they both don't wanna have kids the person who can go in and out easily should get it done.
@@thegamerchampie8351 neither should do it then, relationships can break, people might change their minds years later, if you dont want the chance of pregnancy dont fuck in the first place the fuck you expect its existence is for in the first place
I wish for the sake of my mother that my father had gotten his vasectomy BEFORE I was conceived. 🤣
Are you ok? Do you need a hug?
these mfs have everything and still depressed lmao
Out of all topics why this topic 8n public, thats private.
Keep options open. The human mind is subject to change when circumstances change.
Now what’s sis doing in that chair with the cape on? 😂
Feminist logic,
When it's a man - you do what we want.
When it's a woman - we do what we want.
That's not true at all 😭😭
@@princessofhell4639 really, for them it's my body my choice. But they demand men to get vasectomies?
True
Men's body and men's choice
women have no touch on men's decision on pipecuts
Vasectomies and getting tubes tied can be reversed by the doctor or simply the body undos it. It’s extremely rare, but both procedures have a small failure rate resulting in pregnancy. Again it’s extremely rare, but it happens
Have this conversation in private & not in public
It's a show but IRL if it's something you can't agree on bring a trusted 3rd party.
@ms.rstake_1211 yes, I am aware of that. If I was there, I would pull one of them to side & say this is uncomfortable for everyone, please talk about this in private
Man, I rode the Red Line in Chicago for 12 years. Heard these kinds of conversations ALL the time. Best response: look down.
i dont miss a single video
It's nice of them to explore new topics but this one seems tad too unrealistic for someone to be discussing openly and loudly in the public. If i was there i would had known within a matter of seconds that I'm on WWYD 😂
Do it like Hal from malcolm in the middle
I'm of the belief that we should never manipulate our bodies, if it is not a sickness or a disease that you are trying to cure.
If u don't wanna get pregnant than u should
I’m getting one
A really high number, I believe it was 75% of men end up with autoimmune issues after the procedure so that is something to really consider! Put them at a higher risk for other issues.
We dont want anymore kids. But in my head I have a hard time wanting to do this because it’s the thought of never being able to do it that makes me sad. Not saying it would make me less of a man. Just not being able to help make life.
I get that but you've already had what you want. Its probably the "what if" but it is reversable regardless
@@Emma-wm9jg It should be considered permanent due to the decreasing success rates and increased risks of reversal surgeries over time.
My husband had it done after our 2nd child. He was sore for about a week. Lots of his friends have also had it done once they were finished having children.
If i'd gone through the most painful thing in the world (childbirth) for my husband and he wouldnt do a 10 minute reversible procedure for me ID BE CALLING A LAYWER
It's the most painful thing in the world that millions of women want to do over and over again lol 😂😂😂
@@SomethingSomethingg um... mabye you dont know from your own life but usually mothers think the pain is worth having a child lmao😅 what else are they going to do 🤣
@@SomethingSomethinggbecause it’s worth it? You’re bringing a child into the world. On top of that once it comes down to it you don’t have a choice the baby has to come out one way or another? Lmfao
That’s sad 😢
@@Emma-wm9jg adopt
I got my tubes tied after I had my unplanned second child by a second man. That was NOT happening a 3rd time.
All I need to know is who is the client in the first scene because damn he is fine 😭😭😭😭😭😭 lmao
Dude is neutered,heh!👀🤣
The man needs to get the snip!
Uh no.
Absolutely 💯
Less invasive surgery, significantly less risk of complications, shorter recovery time, less expensive. Makes sense.
Nobody “needs” to do anything.
This topic should be talked about between married couples
I'm a happy bachelor and not in a relationship. No drama. No one to answer to.
A vasectomy isn't 100% effective. I have a friend who is a vasectomy baby. Still gotta use other forms of birth control.
You all should make a dvd collection of this show
Ok this is one of those ones where if I saw people loudly discussing this publicly I’d go looking for John Quiñones
love you john !
but where is john
Upload more
This is something that should definitely be discussed in the courting stage imo. I personally would never be with someone who would not be on board with vasectomy or at least condoms forever (if they didn’t want vasectomy) and then abortion pill if there was a slip up.
I admit I'm too scared.
Am I the only one who feels like these new episodes are MUCH shorter than previous scenarios? I feel like we get a few snippets, and then it's over. And these topics are kind of weak. The scenarios used to be more hard-hitting while these new scenarios seem rather meek and mild.
The format has also changed. They are now engaging surrounding people much more than they ever have, asking them to enter into a conversation about a certain subject rather than allow the public to choose whether or not to "get involved." I understand that engaging directly with strangers helps facilitate a dialogue about a certain subject, but it's so contrived at that point - it's no longer spontaneous. And then to have the celebrity guests come out to the crowd and talk to them afterward - it's so controlled now. Polished. It's no longer, "What would you do?" It's more, "Tell me what you think about this or that."
I, like many of us, have been WAITING for WWYD to come back after the pandemic, but so far I am disappointed.
Where is John?
they always love to say my body my choice so he should have a right
"I'm glad I did it, but I wouldn't do it again." Good thing it's only a one-time procedure. ;)
Well, one procedure is much easier, quicker, and has far less complications than the other. It’s really a no-brainer.
Takes 20min for women with a very small incision 5 days of recovery doctor will watch you for a hour then send you home
@@Md-sz8ys as standard procedure, it should be for several hours, especially considering a woman will have general anesthesia for a tubal whereas vasectomies only require a local. Additionally, the recovery time for a tubal is longer and the risk of complications is greater.
@@onestepcloseraway437 5 days recovery 2 weeks no heavy lifting same for men.