-She looks at me a lot, looks away if I catch her. -She gets into my bubble all the time -She imitates my behavior -She plays the music she knows I like -She asks my friends about me, and what I think of her. -She never looks at me when I talk in a group. -She's loud when I'm close to her group -Whenever I want to talk to her, she's super rude to me and walks away WHAT SHOULD I DO????
"If she tells you she likes you... then she likes you" Geezous! Not even a bold girl is going to do that...and you expect a shy girl to come up to a guy and say "I Like you!" SMH!!!
Great advice, Kenzie, thanks. There's this shy girl I'm super attracted to, but can't tell if it's mutual. This video was very helpful. Btw, you're super cute and funny. I love the glasses!
TheKenzieJ15 or the girls are just nice with us and we think that they like us a lot and want to be with us , its so annoying when we find that's not true. Please girls don't use us like your best friend before you say "I'm not interested in you on "
How about this: This girl, who seems super shy, stares at me, when I catch her, she will quickly look away, she will sometimes do a small gesture and she will always sit beside me, but she never talks! When I ask her something, she will quickly reply, smile, and then goes back to staring at the table. How do I make her talk? No, wait. How do I make her say at least a single word besides hi and bye? :)
i have on a couple of occasions and i haven't been able to speak to her for a couple of weeks because i came into class late when i did talk to her she thought some of my jokes are funny, she did give me eye contact and also she still gives me those random stares in class and when i catch her she looks away but then there are certain times when someone else says something funny and we look at each other and smile
That actually did help quite a bit. I have a shy girl friend, and recently it seems as if she wanted to be more. This video confirms that she is flirting with me etc. I needed this cause I'm hopeless with decoding signs, so I wouldn't have known unless she straight out said it. Thanks for the help!
You could scare her away totally in case you are being extremely aggressive. be flexible and if you could, use secret seduction method such as RAPID Women Seducer (just search on goggle to know more about it). Though, I'm sure that we can all succeed with something more basic. Of course, applying something as powerful as *RAPID Women Seducer* shall be far too much when you only want to ask a hot woman out, not have sex with her instantly!
I completely agree! Almost all points in this video fit me too, including the look and the gift. PS. if the girl wants to give you sth, even if it's just food, it's a good idea to actually accept it or share it with her, unless you're deathly allergic of course.
Does she still like me if Looks at me in class and looks away(makes a straight face when I catch her) Is nice to me Appears more often Dresses up all nice When she with her friends and I'm around the laughs and smiles She hasn't told her friends about me Still think she do
B F oh gosh I made this video so long ago I hope it still helps you guys! I’m hoping that if you want it to be what you want it is. Maybe she is! :) best of wishes to you
I think my friend might like me, but I'm a pretty shy girl. He follows me a little, always sits next to me, touches me, laughs at or with me, and teases me.Anyone wanna give me some advice?
like she is staring at you and may take secret glances. If you catch her doing that, smile at her. I think if you keep trying you will be able to find out how she feels about you. Just note that it requires patience because there is obviously a reason why she is shy in the first place. Don't give up on her. I know she's a good girl and may be special. Don't set your hopes up too high because she may not like you but i wish you the best and hope it helps!. I'm always here for help. Let me know :)
Hi that really was insightful. I have a shy woman that crushes on me and she does weird things the usual utube videos don't really describe the way she is, but your video touched on several things she does
know if you're ever going to end up seeing this but I legitimately caught a girl staring at me I glanced at her while she was staring at me and I'm confused she acknowledged that I saw her and she kept staring
Ok there's a girl I like. She's one of the prettiest girls in my school so she's confident, isolated herself from all the guys and is usually with her girl friends. Usually all of the guys go for her but during lunch whenever we sit next to each other, she taps me and asks her to watch her stuff, usually when I have conversations, she gets involved, and whenever I start to lose an argument with someone, she defends me. Thing is, when I try to approach her by herself, she acts all disinterested way more than when other guys talk to her. I'm just thrown off by that so idek if she likes me or what. Does she like me or am I just looking at the signs wrong??
I'm a shy girl but around the guy I love I feel like I could eventually tell him my feelings but I can't now because he's taken. He thinks his girlfriend is cheating but I wouldn't cheat on him.
There was a girl who studied at the same university as me. I noticed that she did the signs that you described ,looking at me all the time during classes and breaks etc. since first year. I can tell she was shy. Finally, in the last year , she couldn't stand the tension and brought herself to start a conversation.Many signs also: closing distance,hand gestures, eye contact. When she ralised that I wasn't attracted to her she had a strong reaction ( upset, sad, angry etc.). On the other hand I made the first move to a couple of girls I really liked. Unfortunatelly they all were either not interested or already had someone.
This might seem crazy but this video doesn't only give great advice to straight people but also the lesbian community. Everything you said (most) describes the way I act around the girl I like. This video helped a fellow lesbian thank you :)
Yes. Of Course I will help you as best as I can! Well, for starters since you're shy as well you can begin the conversation with an icebreaker and compliment how she looks and ask her how her day was. Then, since you are at bible study sit near or by her and talk to her about whatever you are going over at Bible Study. See how she feels about it and if she seems interested in you while you're talking and just afraid, express your thoughts about. Girls love open guys who aren't afraid to say
Speaking as a guy. If a girl texts a guy. please don't keep him waiting for hours for the reply back. Unless of course she fell alseep, ladies room, house chores, or time consuming things like that. But, communicate with the guy.. text " hey, I am tired, hey, going to wash some laundry/going to do some chores, I will text you in the morning. DON'T Text " BRB " we don't know what you're doing, or how long you will be. I respect your privacy. But, give us guys a small detail. This is why I rather girls that are my friends to call me. And, if I choose to date a girl. I let her know as a gentleman. If your shy... don't know what to say during a call. Don't talk about each other. Talk about movie trivia, book trivia, have the guy ask questions... etc.
This girl has admitted to liking me, and she shows quite a few of these signs. Like she doesn't like talking on the phone- to the point where if I call her she won't pick up haha. She also continues to flake on me when we've arranged to meet up. Starting to doubt if she cares...
Kenzie this may sound stupid but what makes shy girls shy? are they introverted, not confident enough. you don't look so shy and just curious to know why.
I already have my 👁's on one , my shy crush. I'm pretty much shy myself aswell. I think we have a lot in common , i just need to approach her more and ask her more about herself. I have had conversations with her before lockdown, but she couldn't look me in the eyes , she came and helped me with things before anyone else , i tried talking to her after lockdown, but again can't look at me , but that's ok , i understand she's shy and i know what it feels like , their is more , but i think you probably get it anyway though. Oh yeah, she keeps apologizing to me especially when i walk past her and we say hi to each other and talks to more guys and other people than me , i take this as that she is probably nervous around me when i come i to the room (and try talking to her). I know she loves and has the ambition of Creative Writing and i like poetry as i have got older (31 today aswell) , so we can build a better (emotional) connection on that. Anyway I'm definitely going to make a (physical and emotional) move on her at Christmas if there us a Christmas party this year , then again i might try doing it before Christmas if i get the right opportunity / opportunities. Ask her if she wants to join me for a dance while holding my hand out for her , take her hand softly and gently in my hand then after our dance together, take her somewhere we can be alone and have our own little bit of space, brush her hair out of her eyes and tuck in behind her ears for her then gently, softly and delicately take my hand caresses it down the side of her cheek all the way down to her chin and let her know how much i really like and care about her , most of all though attempt to kiss her (on the lips, forehead, cheeks, nose , top of her head , hands , possibly her neck and (behind her) ears. I will tell her this is something i have to do , then plant my lips on her lips and kiss then snog her for few seconds then look at her or better yet touch her head with my head then keep push and pull while kissing / snogging her.
Your honesty is admirable, and I say this as one engages in clinical psychology and female psychology studies just as a one of my hobbies! There is a very spetial shy girl with me in German class. the problem is that she's really religious unlike me. Yesterday I broke off contact with her after a month of Befriending because I'm starting to feel pathetic now. I told her about how I feel yesterday and My conscience is clean. I hope that she will choose me over "God". Too bad she does not understand that "love is God". :)))
This is old and I don’t expect an answer but a girl that I’ve been talking to for a few weeks has social anxiety. The conversations kept going and I asked a couple times about getting together to meet and she ignored those questions (she answered other questions I asked though and continued messaging). We talk just about every day (it’s pretty much just been one long conversation). Then last week, about four weeks after we’ve started talking she asks if I can go to a movie with her. Thoughts on this?
This video doesn't really apply to REALLY shy girls. If a really shy girl likes you she will do everything possible to make it look like she doesn't. No talking, no flirting, no eye contact. Basically every possible sign to make it seem like she is not interested. The way you can tell though is if you see her staring at you out of the corner of your eye. Once you look at her though she will look away and then not look back again for awhile.
I know a girl that does 20/25 of these signs towards me. I still can't tell if she's being overly friendly or likes me. When I ask her to hang out, she never wants to come. But when we do hang out, its always her idea. I dunno, maybe I'm imagining things.
Thanks for replying. I asked other people for advice and they said I can't be too sweet or else I may push her away. They said she's already reaching out to me because every time we hang out, it looks like a date but I'd dare not mention it. And its always her idea. I'll play it cool for a while. I've never really asked her out without the company of mutual friends involved in the plans. Maybe if its just the two of us like how she prefers, I'll get a different result. Just waiting for the right time.
Hello, I just have some questions about if a girl at my job likes me. She usually don't like new employees but she was really nice & helpful to me, she also talks to me on the phone for hours, but I usually call or text her first. When I come to her to pickup paper work she sometimes wouldn't let the paper go. She also pushed me as a joke, when they call me on the radio to do something she doesn't want me to leave and she asked me if I wanted to have kids in the future, and she friend requested me on Facebook. She told me that she looked at my face book, after work we would talk for half an hour in the parking lot, she was mad at work and she didn't talk to me and she said that she hade to go. But little later on she texted me saying sorry and she didn't mean to be a ass, and she felt bad. She saw me walking with another female coworker and when I went to see her she said to me want I go out with her instead. She made me chocolate truffles, and she told me and text that if I don't like it to tell her that i likes it anyway. I told her that it was really good and she gave me more. She would be shy with me when I ask her certain question she will say I don't know and Act shy. She seems to be happy to talk to me. Pleas get back to me and let me know what you think if she likes me but I am the one who initiates the call and a text always
A girl ask me to do her homework and help her out in her school work cause shes from china , she plays with me a little when im doing her work , but anyway when i ask if she wanna hang out its a no but when she needs help i always say yes, she only carry me with her once to get a smoothy (she paid for me and her once) but yea i dont know if im being used or is it just not ..help
in all honesty, as pathetic as it sounds for a man like me, for a reason i like watching this stuff o.O i know you people didnt ask for my opinion, but has anyone else como to my same realization?
Out of all the videos I've seen, this one is the one I find most accurate. There is a girl I like and she smiles whenever I spark a conversation with her. Not only that but she stutters when she speaks and turns her head looking like she's trying to think what to say next (that also includes me).
So I have a problem here, i like this girl but she is really shy. I caught her staring at me and messing with her hair but when I looked back she didn't look away, she just made eye contact with me and didnt look away. This was at a baseball tourneyment. After every game she would leave, like really quickly. I've never seen her smile either or let alone hear her talk. But I saw her smile when i caught her before she got to her car and asked her for her number, she gave it to me and texted me for hours and hours. We talked almost all day the next day too and I asked her out on a "date"... Not directly, over text message and to go golfing, which we both enjoy because we are on the golf team. But she said that she couldn't, because she had to babysit her neighbors kids. I tried texting her again today but she didn't respond. And that leads us to right now, me trying to figure out if she likes me or all this just randomly happens. She has held the door for me and done 20/25 of those things in the video. Is it just a coincidence or does she like me? If someone could help that would be great but it would have to be quick. Like before Friday this week because I'm leaving and might not see her again for 2-3 weeks. I would like to know to ask her out to be my girlfriend or go on a "date". HELP ME PLEASE!
I am #3.... I REFUSE to put myself out for anyone who I even slightly feel don't have the same feelings for me. After you have your heart broken, causing your self-esteem to severely drop, your find waay more reasons not to take risks than to take risks...as sad as that sounds.. so you don't put yourself in situation like that again..
What i experienced...shy OR not so attractive girls are more honest when it comes to showing their true feelings to a guy. They don`t play these mind-games just because they don`t know them as good like the hot girls do.
I'm broke sad and lonely now . Publishers Clearing is a bad scam like many others sell lies to everyone and this year is absolutely horrible for many .
I know how it feels to be shy, I battle this feeling every time I come close to a girl I find interest in, I have some many girls as friends its not funny lol. In truth its very hard for me to talk to girls that i like because Im not that finacially sound at the moment, I have an immense volume of love that wells in my heart, I care about the well being of everyone I meet and I wish them nothing but joy and happiness. But I think I deserve happiness and joy of my own with someone. I feel that this reality would be casted on deaf ears if I would ask or try to venture out of being just friends with girls. I wish things would be easier for all of us who are shy.
Nathaniel Comstock You don't need a LOT of money. There are lots of things you can do, take a girl out for, that are cheap or nothing. Women want a guy with 'ambition', you don't actually need to have money right now, as long as they see that you WILL eventually have some. I don't know your situation but there's ways to take a girl out for a fun time without spending much. Student? Do you have a job at all? How old are you? I can help. Respond here. I'll get back with you.
Im very young inexperienced thirty. Im unsure about this world, as a child i went to catholic school, my parents kept me busy, kept me away from girls. Education was and is still important. but also im still not comfortable around girls. Im think im just looking for the right one, that gets my quirks as do hers. Im very kind and honest, understanding. Im just awkward from the start. When it comes to employment its mixed, im working, but i need more of stable flow. In all honest even when i had stable employment women look at me like im a cute puppy, patronizing me. I appologize for my long response, but i like to be thorough in my comments. In the end, im confident, i just feel its stupid to put up with world led by ego. Im working on becoming better at being me, any assistance is great, thank you
I have a girl every class if i come in she will look at me and if i look at her she will look away. If we are sitting and taking notes and if i catch her staring at me she will also look away. sometimes if multiple people are talking in class about the lesson we will then look at each other and share for a few seconds then look away. Ive tried talking to her its just for me i can't read if she likes me or not. what do you suggest?
this girl is killing me because she show a lot of the sign you mentioned but will not look at me when i see her in the college caf but i will see her friends look at me and say somthing but im not a mind reader so i don't fucking know and its stressing me out cuz this girl is very beautiful and cool and i want her to get to know me better
Yes i had class with her last term. we sat and talked every class walked together after every class. I even asked her before xmas break to hang out when we get back(it was threw text) and she said ya sure. now i see her at the caf with her friends and she never looks to say hi. but her friends poke her and stuff to let her know im around its really weird =S. i could go on about this all day but she has shown signs that i didn't pick up at first. and also i don't wanna just text her out of nowhere to hang out i want to ask her in person. i don't wanna waste your time but if your willing to help just reply and i can tell you more cuz i need some advice =) PS thx for your vid it has really good information
this is how it began lol she gave me her number by saying "i was going to ask for your number but my phone isn't charged" then i gave her my phone and she put hers in she also said your welcome under her breath in a quite maybe nervous kind of way but im really bad at knowing for sure she has shown some signs she might like me back for example -she sits with me almost always in class -she walks with me after class -i tape the college's basketball games (shes on the women's team ) and i catch her looking at me while on the bench and in the game =) -when i walk by her friends they look at me like they are judging me in a good or bad way i don't know -i was eating launch and with my friends and i saw her and waved and she did the same in the flirtyst way ever it was awesome my friend told me her friends pushed her to come talk to me and she did -one time this guy came up to her and started hugging and groping her and then after i was walking away she caught up to me and told me she isn't with him like 2 times really fast and i was never going to ask. then we just started talking again like nothing happend Before xmas break i didn't get a chance to say goodbye so i text have a good xmas break and she repleyed with the Yooouu too =) quite smily face thing lol and other stuff. the thing she always doesn't say hi in the caf but everywhere else i see her she would say hi and smile and its just those moment when she is cold to me is the only thing holding me back from asking her out cuz like most people rejection is not fun to deal with. And i still haven't seen her anywhere else yet so i don't know if she will notice me or not. i know that was long but if you have any thoughts on all the stuff i said that would be great thanks!
it's just a suggestion lol but did you think maybe she's embarassed by you. I know a lot of people who like people but are ashamed because they like them. It's terrible to admit but it's a big problem I'm noticing among people.
So I just had a first date with girl at a restaurant and she held her arm with the opposite hand most the time. She kept eye contact with me and we have common interests and philosophies. She also brought some homemade brownies for me to take home. I know crossed arms means that she isn't interested but does a partial arm barrier mean? Just nervous or shy?
K I was soooooo shy I almost couldn't do it and said something like 3 times but I think I was 2 quiet and I finally said something with a complement as we were about 2 prey and leave. I saw her looking at me and when looked at her she turned away fast and when I gave the complement I saw her smile a little, but my sister said she blushed and laughed.
calling her out of the blue and saying hi. I know it's awkward but us shy girls love that. just keep the conversation going by asking her questions about herself. We love to know if you care about us. Be straightforward about it. I know that texting is a lot easier because we don't have to be face to face with the person and it allows us comfortable amount of time to build up confidence and think about what to say to you. I do what she does. I want to stop but she may not want to come across
25 boy she is so right about 25! Most girls all you hear them talk about is money and things. And yes we all like nice things and money but its almost all their Concerned about it. And if they found out you have money im afraid all they'll like is that.......to much to talk about
I got a crush on this quiet girl in my college class we've never talked the whole semester but today I'm going to approach her. I've never done something like this before hehe. Wish me luck!! I'll need it.
everytime i talk to her in person she smiles but doesnt make eye contact and plays with her hair looking elsewhere and i dont know i cant tell if she likes me but i like her and ive told her i dont just want to be friends what do you think?
I have this girl at my job and I have always thought she was cute but one day I accidently looked at her for too long and now she gets nervous. One time I went to ask for some keys and I when I came back and asked if the person with the keys was there she said that she would be back and so I got some gloves and looked back at her and she was just staring at me. She wasn't smiling or giving any facial expression. Why did she do this? I caught her another time looking at me and as soon as she saw that I looked at her she looked away all nervous. Then the last time that I saw her she was talking to another worker and as soon as I was about to walk pass the ile to put some things away I think she saw me and she quickly turned around all nervous and walked away. Why is that? Is she interested and shy or does she find me weird? I am confused.
well she is on it but she hasen't been on in like a year nor have I.also I saw her at church on sunday but was tho nervous to even wave at her or talk to her. what should I say to her? I feal so lost
Lol, in my school, the guys in my school are gossip queens, yes, i mean queens… I do find a lot of these accurate… lol i laughed at some of these since they are silly and true :-P
if she says she likes you or asks you on a date then that means she isn't shy
-She looks at me a lot, looks away if I catch her.
-She gets into my bubble all the time
-She imitates my behavior
-She plays the music she knows I like
-She asks my friends about me, and what I think of her.
-She never looks at me when I talk in a group.
-She's loud when I'm close to her group
-Whenever I want to talk to her, she's super rude to me and walks away
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
"If she tells you she likes you... then she likes you" Geezous! Not even a bold girl is going to do that...and you expect a shy girl to come up to a guy and say "I Like you!"
SMH!!!
If she says she likes me, she likes me?! HOLY CRAP, I never would've guessed.
IKR😱
If a girl tells me she likes me, she likes me?!....Fuck if only I knew that earlier
"Signs a SHY girl likes you" ... aske a guy for a date? tell him she likes him? I dont think you know what shy means
Some of these really apply to me.
Great advice, Kenzie, thanks. There's this shy girl I'm super attracted to, but can't tell if it's mutual. This video was very helpful. Btw, you're super cute and funny. I love the glasses!
I am a shy girl and this is 100% what we do! Nice!
Oh Bullocks I’m hear 6 years later
Thank you for watching !
Shy girls are the best, cause thats when it gets really interesting, I luv shy girls, 1:44 yeh I luv the challenge of chasing them.
a girl likes me, 0 fucks given..
I know how you feel! I have a girlfriend but she doesn't have a crush on me she actually loves me and we make out every spare moment we get!
thehoosierfortheUK Infatuation is not the same as love, bud.
What if your hot teacher exhibits these behaviors?
Thats gotta be some teacher
if your 18 have her teach you some thangs
Hard Luck Dude my teacher would brush soft hands with my hands and biting her lips while smiling.
If she likes you, she likes you.
YOU DONT SAY?
I meant it like, don't question it. People tend to doubt what they hear!
Lol :)
TheKenzieJ15 or the girls are just nice with us and we think that they like us a lot and want to be with us , its so annoying when we find that's not true. Please girls don't use us like your best friend before you say "I'm not interested in you on "
How about this: This girl, who seems super shy, stares at me, when I catch her, she will quickly look away, she will sometimes do a small gesture and she will always sit beside me, but she never talks! When I ask her something, she will quickly reply, smile, and then goes back to staring at the table. How do I make her talk? No, wait. How do I make her say at least a single word besides hi and bye? :)
Comfortably the best video broaching this subject, i.e. genuine, and not coming across as being irritating or pompous.
i have on a couple of occasions and i haven't been able to speak to her for a couple of weeks because i came into class late when i did talk to her she thought some of my jokes are funny, she did give me eye contact and also she still gives me those random stares in class and when i catch her she looks away but then there are certain times when someone else says something funny and we look at each other and smile
That actually did help quite a bit. I have a shy girl friend, and recently it seems as if she wanted to be more. This video confirms that she is flirting with me etc. I needed this cause I'm hopeless with decoding signs, so I wouldn't have known unless she straight out said it. Thanks for the help!
i'm glad. always here to help!
You could scare her away totally in case you are being extremely aggressive. be flexible and if you could, use secret seduction method such as RAPID Women Seducer (just search on goggle to know more about it). Though, I'm sure that we can all succeed with something more basic. Of course, applying something as powerful as *RAPID Women Seducer* shall be far too much when you only want to ask a hot woman out, not have sex with her instantly!
same
Took her phone. She slapped me silly
oh goodness! i'm sorry bout that
+TheKenzieJ15 Ur hot
TheKenzieJ15 I am shy I do most of these things. ☺
Bahahaha
I completely agree! Almost all points in this video fit me too, including the look and the gift. PS. if the girl wants to give you sth, even if it's just food, it's a good idea to actually accept it or share it with her, unless you're deathly allergic of course.
Thank you for watching!
Does she still like me if
Looks at me in class and looks away(makes a straight face when I catch her)
Is nice to me
Appears more often
Dresses up all nice
When she with her friends and I'm around the laughs and smiles
She hasn't told her friends about me
Still think she do
Yes sounds like shes totally into you!
So when this girl at my job passes by she lets out this grin or smirk and when we have eye contact she does the same thing so what does that mean?????
B F oh gosh I made this video so long ago I hope it still helps you guys! I’m hoping that if you want it to be what you want it is. Maybe she is! :) best of wishes to you
OMG number 5 is SO true if you really want to know just ask her friends girls love to gossip so true they tell their friends everything ;)
Hello madam
I think my friend might like me, but I'm a pretty shy girl. He follows me a little, always sits next to me, touches me, laughs at or with me, and teases me.Anyone wanna give me some advice?
Ci. 12:00
Girls don't do the flirt with other guys to make us jealous ,if it drives you nuts ,chances it does us .Sorry
Good advice.
Thank you :)
like she is staring at you and may take secret glances. If you catch her doing that, smile at her. I think if you keep trying you will be able to find out how she feels about you. Just note that it requires patience because there is obviously a reason why she is shy in the first place. Don't give up on her. I know she's a good girl and may be special. Don't set your hopes up too high because she may not like you but i wish you the best and hope it helps!. I'm always here for help. Let me know :)
What about stuttering
at first i thought this was my english teacher
This is so cute! Could you make more advice for shy girls, please?
Of Course, I'd be glad to. Anything specific?
Thanks for watching and the sweet comment. :)
Hi that really was insightful. I have a shy woman that crushes on me and she does weird things the usual utube videos don't really describe the way she is, but your video touched on several things she does
know if you're ever going to end up seeing this but I legitimately caught a girl staring at me I glanced at her while she was staring at me and I'm confused she acknowledged that I saw her and she kept staring
The Sceptre oooh! Maybe she’s interested! Best of luck to you
00:1 rip headphone users
good advice. you're very cute. you remind me a lot of actress Emmy Rossum!!
Thanks so much. I have never heard that before but I love her. She's so beautiful and extremely talented.
Wait a minute... I thought shy girls weren't gutsy, playful or confident...
Ok there's a girl I like. She's one of the prettiest girls in my school so she's confident, isolated herself from all the guys and is usually with her girl friends. Usually all of the guys go for her but during lunch whenever we sit next to each other, she taps me and asks her to watch her stuff, usually when I have conversations, she gets involved, and whenever I start to lose an argument with someone, she defends me. Thing is, when I try to approach her by herself, she acts all disinterested way more than when other guys talk to her. I'm just thrown off by that so idek if she likes me or what. Does she like me or am I just looking at the signs wrong??
She definitely likes u. She asks like that because she doesn't want you to think she likes you
bro wait for a cold day if there is any cold days where you live ;)
then you'll give her your jacket :}
So if a girl ask me out, that means she likes me? Duly noted.
sometimes I find my self why do I watch this type of videos
I'm a shy girl but around the guy I love I feel like I could eventually tell him my feelings but I can't now because he's taken. He thinks his girlfriend is cheating but I wouldn't cheat on him.
He might cheat for you 😉
There was a girl who studied at the same university as me. I noticed that she did the signs that you described ,looking at me all the time during classes and breaks etc. since first year. I can tell she was shy. Finally, in the last year , she couldn't stand the tension and brought herself to start a conversation.Many signs also: closing distance,hand gestures, eye contact. When she ralised that I wasn't attracted to her she had a strong reaction
( upset, sad, angry etc.). On the other hand I made the first move to a couple of girls I really liked. Unfortunatelly they all were either not interested or already had someone.
There is this girl named Andrea Anzaldo who does all of these things and I like her too!!!
well find out if she likes you lol :)
Shy Boy By Jordan Pruitt Love her!
This might seem crazy but this video doesn't only give great advice to straight people but also the lesbian community. Everything you said (most) describes the way I act around the girl I like. This video helped a fellow lesbian thank you :)
They may behave slightly differently considering that they would be dealing with girls instead of boys.
No cauae im seeing her things as if she was the girl I like
My god... your eyes are gorgeous, your nose is very cute, your lips are nice, your eyebrows are just right.. wow.
Yes. Of Course I will help you as best as I can! Well, for starters since you're shy as well you can begin the conversation with an icebreaker and compliment how she looks and ask her how her day was. Then, since you are at bible study sit near or by her and talk to her about whatever you are going over at Bible Study. See how she feels about it and if she seems interested in you while you're talking and just afraid, express your thoughts about. Girls love open guys who aren't afraid to say
Speaking as a guy. If a girl texts a guy. please don't keep him waiting for hours for the reply back. Unless of course she fell alseep, ladies room, house chores, or time consuming things like that. But, communicate with the guy.. text " hey, I am tired, hey, going to wash some laundry/going to do some chores, I will text you in the morning. DON'T Text " BRB " we don't know what you're doing, or how long you will be. I respect your privacy. But, give us guys a small detail. This is why I rather girls that are my friends to call me. And, if I choose to date a girl. I let her know as a gentleman. If your shy... don't know what to say during a call. Don't talk about each other. Talk about movie trivia, book trivia, have the guy ask questions... etc.
This girl has admitted to liking me, and she shows quite a few of these signs. Like she doesn't like talking on the phone- to the point where if I call her she won't pick up haha. She also continues to flake on me when we've arranged to meet up. Starting to doubt if she cares...
Kenzie this may sound stupid but what makes shy girls shy? are they introverted, not confident enough. you don't look so shy and just curious to know why.
what's the point of no1?
Shy girls who wear glasses are incredible in bed and in life. Buy one today, you won't regret it.
I already have my 👁's on one , my shy crush. I'm pretty much shy myself aswell. I think we have a lot in common , i just need to approach her more and ask her more about herself.
I have had conversations with her before lockdown, but she couldn't look me in the eyes , she came and helped me with things before anyone else , i tried talking to her after lockdown, but again can't look at me , but that's ok , i understand she's shy and i know what it feels like , their is more , but i think you probably get it anyway though.
Oh yeah, she keeps apologizing to me especially when i walk past her and we say hi to each other and talks to more guys and other people than me , i take this as that she is probably nervous around me when i come i to the room (and try talking to her).
I know she loves and has the ambition of Creative Writing and i like poetry as i have got older (31 today aswell) , so we can build a better (emotional) connection on that.
Anyway I'm definitely going to make a (physical and emotional) move on her at Christmas if there us a Christmas party this year , then again i might try doing it before Christmas if i get the right opportunity / opportunities.
Ask her if she wants to join me for a dance while holding my hand out for her , take her hand softly and gently in my hand then after our dance together, take her somewhere we can be alone and have our own little bit of space, brush her hair out of her eyes and tuck in behind her ears for her then gently, softly and delicately take my hand caresses it down the side of her cheek all the way down to her chin and let her know how much i really like and care about her , most of all though attempt to kiss her (on the lips, forehead, cheeks, nose , top of her head , hands , possibly her neck and (behind her) ears.
I will tell her this is something i have to do , then plant my lips on her lips and kiss then snog her for few seconds then look at her or better yet touch her head with my head then keep push and pull while kissing / snogging her.
Your honesty is admirable, and I say this as one engages in clinical psychology and female psychology studies just as a one of my hobbies!
There is a very spetial shy girl with me in German class. the problem is that she's really religious unlike me. Yesterday I broke off contact with her after a month of Befriending because I'm starting to feel pathetic now. I told her about how I feel yesterday and My conscience is clean. I hope that she will choose me over "God". Too bad she does not understand that "love is God". :)))
Thanks :)
She noticed that I got a haircut, and she would take a fuzz off of my hat or my shirt. And we went out twice.
This is old and I don’t expect an answer but a girl that I’ve been talking to for a few weeks has social anxiety. The conversations kept going and I asked a couple times about getting together to meet and she ignored those questions (she answered other questions I asked though and continued messaging). We talk just about every day (it’s pretty much just been one long conversation).
Then last week, about four weeks after we’ve started talking she asks if I can go to a movie with her. Thoughts on this?
My thoughts are.. your not Sherlock Holmes
Girls and WW2 Germans have something in common: incredibly tough fronts. Why do they have to have to have a front it sucks for a shy person like me.
I do agree. fronts are terrible and so hard to see through sometimes.
what to do if a shy girl wants to go out with you but I made the first move because she's shy I don't know what to do
This video doesn't really apply to REALLY shy girls. If a really shy girl likes you she will do everything possible to make it look like she doesn't. No talking, no flirting, no eye contact. Basically every possible sign to make it seem like she is not interested. The way you can tell though is if you see her staring at you out of the corner of your eye. Once you look at her though she will look away and then not look back again for awhile.
I know a girl that does 20/25 of these signs towards me. I still can't tell if she's being overly friendly or likes me. When I ask her to hang out, she never wants to come. But when we do hang out, its always her idea. I dunno, maybe I'm imagining things.
I say try not to overthink it too much and go with the flow. Just continue to be sweet to her and maybe she'll come around.
Thanks for replying. I asked other people for advice and they said I can't be too sweet or else I may push her away. They said she's already reaching out to me because every time we hang out, it looks like a date but I'd dare not mention it. And its always her idea.
I'll play it cool for a while. I've never really asked her out without the company of mutual friends involved in the plans. Maybe if its just the two of us like how she prefers, I'll get a different result. Just waiting for the right time.
Hello, I just have some questions about if a girl at my job likes me. She usually don't like new employees but she was really nice & helpful to me, she also talks to me on the phone for hours, but I usually call or text her first. When I come to her to pickup paper work she sometimes wouldn't let the paper go. She also pushed me as a joke, when they call me on the radio to do something she doesn't want me to leave and she asked me if I wanted to have kids in the future, and she friend requested me on Facebook. She told me that she looked at my face book, after work we would talk for half an hour in the parking lot, she was mad at work and she didn't talk to me and she said that she hade to go. But little later on she texted me saying sorry and she didn't mean to be a ass, and she felt bad. She saw me walking with another female coworker and when I went to see her she said to me want I go out with her instead. She made me chocolate truffles, and she told me and text that if I don't like it to tell her that i likes it anyway. I told her that it was really good and she gave me more. She would be shy with me when I ask her certain question she will say I don't know and Act shy. She seems to be happy to talk to me. Pleas get back to me and let me know what you think if she likes me but I am the one who initiates the call and a text always
This girl need to chill. She want a ken but she ain't no Barbie
A girl ask me to do her homework and help her out in her school work cause shes from china , she plays with me a little when im doing her work , but anyway when i ask if she wanna hang out its a no but when she needs help i always say yes, she only carry me with her once to get a smoothy (she paid for me and her once) but yea i dont know if im being used or is it just not ..help
Just ask her if she wants to do something after school. If she says "No" and doesn't give you a reason, you are most likely being used 😔
in all honesty, as pathetic as it sounds for a man like me, for a reason i like watching this stuff o.O i know you people didnt ask for my opinion, but has anyone else como to my same realization?
Out of all the videos I've seen, this one is the one I find most accurate. There is a girl I like and she smiles whenever I spark a conversation with her. Not only that but she stutters when she speaks and turns her head looking like she's trying to think what to say next (that also includes me).
Thank you! I kept it as real as I could :) Good luck to you.
So I have a problem here, i like this girl but she is really shy. I caught her staring at me and messing with her hair but when I looked back she didn't look away, she just made eye contact with me and didnt look away. This was at a baseball tourneyment. After every game she would leave, like really quickly. I've never seen her smile either or let alone hear her talk. But I saw her smile when i caught her before she got to her car and asked her for her number, she gave it to me and texted me for hours and hours. We talked almost all day the next day too and I asked her out on a "date"... Not directly, over text message and to go golfing, which we both enjoy because we are on the golf team. But she said that she couldn't, because she had to babysit her neighbors kids. I tried texting her again today but she didn't respond. And that leads us to right now, me trying to figure out if she likes me or all this just randomly happens. She has held the door for me and done 20/25 of those things in the video. Is it just a coincidence or does she like me? If someone could help that would be great but it would have to be quick. Like before Friday this week because I'm leaving and might not see her again for 2-3 weeks. I would like to know to ask her out to be my girlfriend or go on a "date". HELP ME PLEASE!
Some girls scare the living shit out of me when they stare at me for a long time ,
Awe. I'm sorry. We don't intend to scare you , sometimes we are just admiring what we see.
I don't look like I'm shy but in my videos I get really awkward and shy. Everyone says I'm shy. But I'm not really sure.
4:36 "Eight: She pimps around you..."
I would say that's a definite sign all right! ;)
Hey! She might lol ;)
great video..loved the advice you gave for us guys out here..by the way love the curls. they look really pretty on you
I do too, it's so bad. I'm trying to stop because it makes no sense to be mean to someone you like. You know?
I am #3.... I REFUSE to put myself out for anyone who I even slightly feel don't have the same feelings for me. After you have your heart broken, causing your self-esteem to severely drop, your find waay more reasons not to take risks than to take risks...as sad as that sounds.. so you don't put yourself in situation like that again..
Thank you for commenting!
0:00 RIP in pepperonis head phone users.
i know im sooooo sorry
i must say...what if your a shy person too? what then....i'm a shy guy and it bothers me sometimes.
What i experienced...shy OR not so attractive girls are more honest when it comes to showing their true feelings to a guy.
They don`t play these mind-games just because they don`t know them as good like the hot girls do.
What if you get a bunch of these from someone already in a relationship
I took this girl phone like you told me and she told me to give it back before I tell on the teacher.
....quite insightful...
I'm broke sad and lonely now .
Publishers Clearing is a bad scam like many others sell lies to everyone and this year is absolutely horrible for many .
I know how it feels to be shy, I battle this feeling every time I come close to a girl I find interest in, I have some many girls as friends its not funny lol. In truth its very hard for me to talk to girls that i like because Im not that finacially sound at the moment, I have an immense volume of love that wells in my heart, I care about the well being of everyone I meet and I wish them nothing but joy and happiness. But I think I deserve happiness and joy of my own with someone. I feel that this reality would be casted on deaf ears if I would ask or try to venture out of being just friends with girls. I wish things would be easier for all of us who are shy.
Nathaniel Comstock You don't need a LOT of money. There are lots of things you can do, take a girl out for, that are cheap or nothing. Women want a guy with 'ambition', you don't actually need to have money right now, as long as they see that you WILL eventually have some. I don't know your situation but there's ways to take a girl out for a fun time without spending much. Student? Do you have a job at all? How old are you? I can help. Respond here. I'll get back with you.
Im very young inexperienced thirty. Im unsure about this world, as a child i went to catholic school, my parents kept me busy, kept me away from girls. Education was and is still important. but also im still not comfortable around girls. Im think im just looking for the right one, that gets my quirks as do hers. Im very kind and honest, understanding. Im just awkward from the start. When it comes to employment its mixed, im working, but i need more of stable flow. In all honest even when i had stable employment women look at me like im a cute puppy, patronizing me. I appologize for my long response, but i like to be thorough in my comments. In the end, im confident, i just feel its stupid to put up with world led by ego. Im working on becoming better at being me, any assistance is great, thank you
I have a girl every class if i come in she will look at me and if i look at her she will look away. If we are sitting and taking notes and if i catch her staring at me she will also look away. sometimes if multiple people are talking in class about the lesson we will then look at each other and share for a few seconds then look away. Ive tried talking to her its just for me i can't read if she likes me or not. what do you suggest?
this girl is killing me because she show a lot of the sign you mentioned but will not look at me when i see her in the college caf but i will see her friends look at me and say somthing but im not a mind reader so i don't fucking know and its stressing me out cuz this girl is very beautiful and cool and i want her to get to know me better
Well have you tried talking to her yourself?
Yes i had class with her last term. we sat and talked every class walked together after every class. I even asked her before xmas break to hang out when we get back(it was threw text) and she said ya sure. now i see her at the caf with her friends and she never looks to say hi. but her friends poke her and stuff to let her know im around its really weird =S. i could go on about this all day but she has shown signs that i didn't pick up at first. and also i don't wanna just text her out of nowhere to hang out i want to ask her in person. i don't wanna waste your time but if your willing to help just reply and i can tell you more cuz i need some advice =) PS thx for your vid it has really good information
I'll gladly help you best I can.
PS: You're not wasting my time. I love helping others.
this is how it began lol
she gave me her number by saying
"i was going to ask for your number but my phone isn't charged" then i gave her my phone and she put hers in
she also said your welcome under her breath in a quite maybe nervous kind of way but im really bad at knowing for sure
she has shown some signs she might like me back for example
-she sits with me almost always in class
-she walks with me after class
-i tape the college's basketball games (shes on the women's team ) and i catch her looking at me while on the bench and in the game =)
-when i walk by her friends they look at me like they are judging me in a good or bad way i don't know
-i was eating launch and with my friends and i saw her and waved and she did the same in the flirtyst way ever it was awesome my friend told me her friends pushed her to come talk to me and she did
-one time this guy came up to her and started hugging and groping her and then after i was walking away she caught up to me and told me she isn't with him like 2 times really fast and i was never going to ask. then we just started talking again like nothing happend
Before xmas break i didn't get a chance to say goodbye so i text have a good xmas break and she repleyed with the Yooouu too =) quite smily face thing lol
and other stuff.
the thing she always doesn't say hi in the caf but everywhere else i see her she would say hi and smile and its just those moment when she is cold to me is the only thing holding me back from asking her out cuz like most people rejection is not fun to deal with. And i still haven't seen her anywhere else yet so i don't know if she will notice me or not.
i know that was long but if you have any thoughts on all the stuff i said that would be great thanks!
it's just a suggestion lol but did you think maybe she's embarassed by you. I know a lot of people who like people but are ashamed because they like them. It's terrible to admit but it's a big problem I'm noticing among people.
if we are shy how do we now if the boy likes us
So I just had a first date with girl at a restaurant and she held her arm with the opposite hand most the time. She kept eye contact with me and we have common interests and philosophies. She also brought some homemade brownies for me to take home. I know crossed arms means that she isn't interested but does a partial arm barrier mean? Just nervous or shy?
She could be nervous and shy. First dates typically are very nerve wracking even for normal confident people. Follow your intuition!
Thanks,
Kenzie :)
K I was soooooo shy I almost couldn't do it and said something like 3 times but I think I was 2 quiet and I finally said something with a complement as we were about 2 prey and leave. I saw her looking at me and when looked at her she turned away fast and when I gave the complement I saw her smile a little, but my sister said she blushed and laughed.
calling her out of the blue and saying hi. I know it's awkward but us shy girls love that. just keep the conversation going by asking her questions about herself. We love to know if you care about us. Be straightforward about it. I know that texting is a lot easier because we don't have to be face to face with the person and it allows us comfortable amount of time to build up confidence and think about what to say to you. I do what she does. I want to stop but she may not want to come across
25 boy she is so right about 25! Most girls all you hear them talk about is money and things. And yes we all like nice things and money but its almost all their Concerned about it. And if they found out you have money im afraid all they'll like is that.......to much to talk about
some guys will tell their friends who they like i know i have.
Thank you for your comment! You’re definitely right on that one
I'm the shyest girl in my whole school I'm also the only emo my friend is goth she's the only goth we are called weirdos
Guys only tell there closest friends if they like a girl
I got a crush on this quiet girl in my college class we've never talked the whole semester but today I'm going to approach her. I've never done something like this before hehe. Wish me luck!! I'll need it.
sorry i never saw this. Hope it went great. How did it go? :)
There's a girl I like named sia and I see her pretty confident around her friends but kinda shy when she sees me there
everytime i talk to her in person she smiles but doesnt make eye contact and plays with her hair looking elsewhere and i dont know i cant tell if she likes me but i like her and ive told her i dont just want to be friends what do you think?
PS...some more like all aren't shy
I have this girl at my job and I have always thought she was cute but one day I accidently looked at her for too long and now she gets nervous. One time I went to ask for some keys and I when I came back and asked if the person with the keys was there she said that she would be back and so I got some gloves and looked back at her and she was just staring at me. She wasn't smiling or giving any facial expression. Why did she do this?
I caught her another time looking at me and as soon as she saw that I looked at her she looked away all nervous.
Then the last time that I saw her she was talking to another worker and as soon as I was about to walk pass the ile to put some things away I think she saw me and she quickly turned around all nervous and walked away. Why is that? Is she interested and shy or does she find me weird? I am confused.
well she is on it but she hasen't been on in like a year nor have I.also I saw her at church on sunday but was tho nervous to even wave at her or talk to her. what should I say to her? I feal so lost
Mean?! Nah. We rib each other all the time. That's what makes us brothers, we don't take it seriously.
Guys tell there friends and end up regretting it because they always push the person to ask her out
I've seen that a lot.
she looks kind of good.
When i looked at my crush she was looking at me she turned her head violently idk what that means
(happens somewhat frequently)
(sorry if I'm late) that means she wants the tip go head and go deep inside mane
go up to her and ask her "aye girl what u always starin at in class" be cheesing while you doin this it's a ice breaker man
when I'm nervous around boys I bite my lip
thats usually what girls do 😂 :P I do it too and im a boy well only when it itches
when im nervous, i blush, studder, sweat, and bite my finger nails. its so annoying. i get nervous/ embarrassed VERY easily. it sucks
Lol, in my school, the guys in my school are gossip queens, yes, i mean queens…
I do find a lot of these accurate… lol i laughed at some of these since they are silly and true :-P
Hmm I had this girl on my recent job mean to me but nice to everybody else then said "come spend time with me on break". Was she interested?
I'm glad I watched this to know I'm not the only one that's does these things
I'm here to let you know. Yes, you are not alone! :)
Tells You she likes you,Asks you out=Shy girl
GURL,ppl came here for advice.....:/
Nice job. You are a sweet girl.
thanks