If you ignore these gym girls they’ll want you even more. I ignore them because I already got a lady but these girls most of the time just want validation.
Yeah, I wish I could relate, but in 15 years I've never, not once, ignored a girl and had her suddenly become interested in me. Didn't matter if we'd never talked, or if I was previously interested, approached her, and got rejected.
Gents and when you're on you're grind. These signs will start happening everywhere you go. So pls. Never focus on them. Give them the chance to focus on You!! 🎉
I gotta disagree. Over 15 years I've been all over the spectrum from being hyper focused on working out to being relaxed and social. No matter my current state, no girls have ever tried to be around me or been interested in me.
After a year in the gym, I finally got a crush, I didn’t see it coming at all bc I’m always focused on whatever I’m doing. But i caught him staring at me a few times and I was hooked. oh Lord he’s scorching hot. I hate it, my heart can’t take it😭
Damn 2 girls came to squat rack next to me with many open. 1st one I thought was a fluke, but 2nd one I didn’t make the same mistake and introduced myself
i thought i was connecting with a gym babe.. eye contact, smiles, working out next to me, the whole 9.. never spoke to her though. i tried to slip her my number on a piece of folded up paper.. no response. i am dead inside.
That was funny, it would have been cute if it worked 🤷🏼♀️. Let me give you a tip, just ask for her instagram, its less personal than a phone number, makes us feel more safe. Better if you try to talk to her about trivial things first so she can get to know you first before instead of just passing information to a stranger 😅.
Some women do that just to get you to talk to them. Validation. It’s a risk. Happens to the best of us. Women come and women go. Focus on you! Be the man that women want to approach. Real talk.
@@LectioMundihow is instagram even less personal than a number😂 stop the cap please girls this is so goofy. If a girl doesn’t wanna give me her number than i see that as a clear sign of no interest and i move on.. you probably miss your crush like that 🤷🏻
I remember a girl checked me out one time. I was on a machine that works on my obliques, and a girl was done for the day and on her way out. She saw me from the corner of her eye, and gave me a smirk and a little head tilt. If I see her again, I’ll give her the same look and see how she reacts.
Sometimes they don't give you a single sign. My gym crush, who I ended up bagging, didn't send me a single signal except the very first time we saw one another we locked eyes for about 5-7 seconds until she finally broke contact. After that, she did absolutely nothing that indicated she wanted me. But i wanted her so much, I talked to her 3 different times before getting her number and going out. We kissed lustfully after getting her baxk home after our first date, to the point I almost smashed. It was her to stopped it, saying not on the first date. She became my chick 2 months later. My point fellas, don't feel bad if you don't get any of the signs in the video. Sometimes you just have to just go after her.
Or the more serious gym girls, the ones that have been lifting heavy for some time and don´t wear those "up your ass" leggings, will do the opposite and avoid looking at the guy they like. They absolutely ignore him, maybe just a friendly bro smile when they happen to cross eyes. She does not want him to think she likes him before she knows if it is mutual. She might ask him something casual in a respectful way after having seen him a few times at the gym and make sure he does NOT notice she is interested. WE all know the gym is for training not picking people up!
Fr and why did she keep staring at me if shes with men i said hi today she said hi back n smiled thats it so i left it at that. Afterwards she left with a guy I had no idea they were together 😂 She can say Hi next time I guess idk i dont wanna get involved as last week she was with a different guy as well
A lot of what ppl miss too is your tone. The way you say things. Think about it. Someone can say something small but if they say it in an aggressive manner it could start a lot of animosity. It works the same way with dating.
Why everybody keep saying .. it’s a missed opportunity & she won’t like you anymore ? That is not .. True ! EX: Just because somebody can’t afford an expensive sport car at the moment, doesn’t mean their desire for it is completely gone, females are more understanding/ socially aware than a lot of people think, she might takes it as you being taking.. females like a challenge anyways,not understanding women is why the divorce rate is so high, stop misleading people with that saying Because it’s not true !!! Ask them how many celebrities have they been liking sense a child but never seen a day in their life !
Good video. This girl that i have seen a few times at the gym actually worked right next to me. She walked over. I know women wont just walk over and workout right next to you unless they like what they see. We made eye contact a few times. Smiled. I 👍 het she smiled and did the same. And she went to the same machine i had recently finished when she could have went to the one right beside it. I know she was digging me. But here is the thing. Unless they say somwyhing to me. I will not ask for info. I will look smile something. Cause guys will be called creeps and i will not inflate a girl's ego at my expense. If she wants to takk to me. She makes the move. A few weeks ago this hot chick said to me my hair looks nice i shot my shot and she said no. Nomore sir. Im not playing games. Im at the gym to get in shape have fun doing it. And if something happens it happens 👍
Im 20 in somewhat good physical shape tatted up always focused on my workout they stay flocking anywhere i go but idgaf tbh i just stay working out then leave
Idk how RUclips brought me here but to answer the men, I make no eye contact and do not want to be approached at the gym, especially when I am during sets. Even if he’s attractive, I wouldn’t budge. When I ask someone how many more sets, I truly mean it. I’m here to work out, not get hit on. However, if a man wants to approach, do it naturally and organically. I would be more attracted to a man who is friendly and respectful. Right time, right place. Mainly it’s eye contact. Constant stares, validation, standing around and barely doing anything. Constantly starring at other people to see if others stare at them back, wearing slutty clothes. A little desperate and she’s probably really young. Understand the difference between certain women and what you are looking for. Some are reserved quiet and focused, some are obnoxious, desperate, and aren’t focused, eyes constantly wander. Good luck !
Why are you judging other girls and why are you even looking at them? You don’t know their situation that doesn’t mean that they’re desperate. A gym is a wonderful place to meet someone because people are there to become a higher version of themselves meaning they are in high vibration so why not start a conversation with the opposite sex? It’s not bad and it should not be shamed upon. Where else are you gonna find a guy at the club? Hell no the best places to find the opposite sex is at the gym and at school. These are places where people are bettering themselves. So please don’t call other women desperate just because she looks around. You should always look around anyways for situational awareness. You never know when a weirdo, my walk-in with the gun you gotta know who’s around.
This video and channel is so under rated is should be more recognized, i truly love your facts, they are unique and experience based not like other channels they bring all internet facts.
I get females at the gym staring all the time. I am not interested since I already have a great looking woman who treats me well. Nothing a 304 can offer to me except a disease. I just go to the gym to workout without all the socializing time drain and my physique reflects that. I ignore them, but there were 2 instances where I had to tell them to leave me alone and stop talking to me. Other guys who are desperate to get laid notice that women are on me and they start hating hard because they are try hards but never get any action, meanwhile I mind my business and have women approaching me. Even my GF who comes with me sometimes (and does her own workout) has noticed and laughs about it later. She also noticed the guys hating hard and I didnt even tell her about it, she just picked up on it and told me.
My question is can you still shoot your shot after all this? Cause I was leaving but she had just got there but came in my area. I didn’t step cause I was in a rush. She was fine though lol
There's this one girl in the gym that moves near me every time I move tho another machine at the gym ; and a couple of days ago she asked me to spot her and she seemed very nervous , it's so obvious but now that I am in a good healthy relatiobship and that I don't pay attention to nobody at the gym just go there to mind my bussines now a couple of girls want my atention😂😂😂😂. No Thank's I'm good
After reading the comments. Guys please, if a girl use the machine next to you or or ask you for a remaining set or ask a help with the machine it doesn’t necessarily means a girl like you! Dont assume! Cause If we do like you we will tell you! Just focus on your work out and be the best version of yourself
I noticed this girl at my gym a few times last three months then all of a sudden I was focused on my workouts but noticed she was making an effort to try and workout in my area. Who goes legs to abs then back to a leg press machine which was in my area. So end of her workout she was stretching and I checked out a white board at the gym with the question when do you like working out. 2 mins later I noticed she wrote on it. Went back to check what she wrote and it was “weekdays at 1pm” coincidence?
I mean, what are we like? Invisible beings where we could just read people signals and stuff like that like communication is verbal communication what if she gives off the wrong signal when you go over there and make yourself look stupid
Sounds good im theory but if yall dont work out or break up. Then its just weird afterwards. Tbh i dont pick up at girls at the gym for that reason. Just be friends lol. I'll pick up women at target instesd lmaooooo
The girls with the boyfriends/children are the DOGS in the gym. My gym crush has spoken about me so much to her friend, yesterday they were hovering around me again and her friend would slap her cheeks right in front of me. I like women that don't play games tho. I'm not looking for a prize I need to figure out. She's just a cute stranger
I had this happen the other day. I was working out Tri’s and noticed this baddie walking towards me during my workout and she starts working out right next to me and asks me to see I can see if she is curling right. So I was watching her curl and bruh she was not doing it right at all. I wonder if she was doing that on purpose so I put my hand on her back to keep it straight and put my hand on her elbow and was helping her. Was she hitting on me or was she legit need help lol
women at the gym scare me lol i dont know if they looking at me cause im ok looking or if they looking cause they are just between sets, i sometimes look at people casue of that it doesnt mean im into them.
I’m in this position but I don’t know if she still has a crush on me. The first time we met was when she asked and said how long do you have and I said roughly about 2 mins, but I knew she wanted to speak to me, the next thing she did when I went to another machine she followed me and did her squats on front of me. Then u know she always looked at me her eyes everyday in the gym, and she did the same thing, but gradually we spoke with eachother and obviously guys were abit jealous and that, I was shy in the beginning, but I get confident then she gave me her number coz I asked for it, and later she didn’t reply I dunno why, but days after I never respond to her, but she kept on smiling to me and looking at me time to time but it has gone less, I dunno what to do at this point, if she still have a crush with me or she wants to be with me, we don’t really speak, but then she’s more talking to that guy now and I feel she will go with him instead of me….i dunno anymore
@@Matt-g8h when she really wants you she’s not gonna play as much games, she’s gonna make talking and linking up with her easy as possible, she’ll match the energy you bring
Yesterday a girl at the gym was twerking on my left back hamstring while i wwas standing up looking at my phone they tried to get your attention when you’re non chalant
They come when you're enjoying life without them, that's when they come.
It’s funny how that works 🤣
true
This comment deserves more likes 😂
Fucking true😂
Yeah, then they come closer and closer😅
This confirms what I already knew.
I'm nobody's gym crush and never will be.
Nah bruh don’t say that, in due time
@elexcels It's been long enough, I'm fine with being ugly.
Not everyone in the world will be attractive, and that's perfectly fine.
Work on your physique bro
@@ankurghata3753 My face is too ugly
@@UserRobot215 doesn't matter, get a jawline. Work on physique, your fashion. You will definitely get your partner.
Just grind for gains and the ladies will come as a byproduct. Happened to me a few times and I started working out 2 years ago.
If you ignore these gym girls they’ll want you even more. I ignore them because I already got a lady but these girls most of the time just want validation.
A lot of them
You’ve just cracked the Secret
No girls is there to get a boyfriend. We are there to workout.
@@roser8911 Attention..that’s the keyword.
Yeah, I wish I could relate, but in 15 years I've never, not once, ignored a girl and had her suddenly become interested in me. Didn't matter if we'd never talked, or if I was previously interested, approached her, and got rejected.
Gents and when you're on you're grind. These signs will start happening everywhere you go. So pls. Never focus on them. Give them the chance to focus on You!! 🎉
You worded that perfectly
Literally go homosexual and tell these girls they not it. (Secretly im hungry for them)
Yeah you got to give them a chance to check YOU out
I gotta disagree. Over 15 years I've been all over the spectrum from being hyper focused on working out to being relaxed and social. No matter my current state, no girls have ever tried to be around me or been interested in me.
@@fuzzypanda1684Change your look or see the signs.
After a year in the gym, I finally got a crush, I didn’t see it coming at all bc I’m always focused on whatever I’m doing. But i caught him staring at me a few times and I was hooked. oh Lord he’s scorching hot. I hate it, my heart can’t take it😭
Same! Don't feel bad 😢
You're a girl? Girl, as long as you're in decent shape go talk to him! You have nothing to lose.
SAME! I was not expecting it
Don't forget when she senses you watching and straight bends at the waist to pick up her water bottle:)
🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 lmfao
Damn 2 girls came to squat rack next to me with many open. 1st one I thought was a fluke, but 2nd one I didn’t make the same mistake and introduced myself
That’s what I like to hear
If you got curved or bagged it keep that dog mentality
Hahahah, can relate to many of these signs. Been there. Liked.
🙌🏽
I like this guy he's pretty smart
Thanks bro
Some give eye contact and even smile at you then when you approach they hit you with “I have a boyfriend”
i thought i was connecting with a gym babe.. eye contact, smiles, working out next to me, the whole 9.. never spoke to her though. i tried to slip her my number on a piece of folded up paper.. no response. i am dead inside.
Bro you should of been direct and talk to her, women like that confidence
That was funny, it would have been cute if it worked 🤷🏼♀️. Let me give you a tip, just ask for her instagram, its less personal than a phone number, makes us feel more safe. Better if you try to talk to her about trivial things first so she can get to know you first before instead of just passing information to a stranger 😅.
Some women do that just to get you to talk to them. Validation. It’s a risk. Happens to the best of us. Women come and women go. Focus on you! Be the man that women want to approach. Real talk.
are you 12? 😂
@@LectioMundihow is instagram even less personal than a number😂 stop the cap please girls this is so goofy. If a girl doesn’t wanna give me her number than i see that as a clear sign of no interest and i move on.. you probably miss your crush like that 🤷🏻
Great vid bro, I’m gonna approach the girl I think is good looking at the gym
Go do it dude
I remember a girl checked me out one time. I was on a machine that works on my obliques, and a girl was done for the day and on her way out. She saw me from the corner of her eye, and gave me a smirk and a little head tilt. If I see her again, I’ll give her the same look and see how she reacts.
I would just talk to her bro
I went to the gym the other day and spotted a females looking at me through the workout equipment, she thought I didn’t see her😂😂
They’re sneaky 🤣
@@elexcels Yes they certainly are! Women are VERY sneaky and they have excellent peripheral vision too. They see you trust me!
😂 you may be onto something
@@sarahcook6901 I know
@@elexcels very sneaky I just act like ion see it but I be laughing inside😂💯
Sometimes they don't give you a single sign. My gym crush, who I ended up bagging, didn't send me a single signal except the very first time we saw one another we locked eyes for about 5-7 seconds until she finally broke contact. After that, she did absolutely nothing that indicated she wanted me. But i wanted her so much, I talked to her 3 different times before getting her number and going out. We kissed lustfully after getting her baxk home after our first date, to the point I almost smashed. It was her to stopped it, saying not on the first date. She became my chick 2 months later. My point fellas, don't feel bad if you don't get any of the signs in the video. Sometimes you just have to just go after her.
Or the more serious gym girls, the ones that have been lifting heavy for some time and don´t wear those "up your ass" leggings, will do the opposite and avoid looking at the guy they like. They absolutely ignore him, maybe just a friendly bro smile when they happen to cross eyes. She does not want him to think she likes him before she knows if it is mutual. She might ask him something casual in a respectful way after having seen him a few times at the gym and make sure he does NOT notice she is interested. WE all know the gym is for training not picking people up!
girls be working out right next to me right infront of there boyfriend...
get used to it
Fr and why did she keep staring at me if shes with men i said hi today she said hi back n smiled thats it so i left it at that. Afterwards she left with a guy I had no idea they were together 😂
She can say Hi next time I guess idk i dont wanna get involved as last week she was with a different guy as well
A lot of what ppl miss too is your tone. The way you say things. Think about it. Someone can say something small but if they say it in an aggressive manner it could start a lot of animosity. It works the same way with dating.
100%
The comments about the leggings!! 😂😂
@@AR-xk8du 🤣
Why everybody keep saying .. it’s a missed opportunity & she won’t like you anymore ? That is not .. True ! EX: Just because somebody can’t afford an expensive sport car at the moment, doesn’t mean their desire for it is completely gone, females are more understanding/ socially aware than a lot of people think, she might takes it as you being taking.. females like a challenge anyways,not understanding women is why the divorce rate is so high, stop misleading people with that saying Because it’s not true !!! Ask them how many celebrities have they been liking sense a child but never seen a day in their life !
Good video. This girl that i have seen a few times at the gym actually worked right next to me. She walked over. I know women wont just walk over and workout right next to you unless they like what they see. We made eye contact a few times. Smiled. I 👍 het she smiled and did the same. And she went to the same machine i had recently finished when she could have went to the one right beside it. I know she was digging me. But here is the thing. Unless they say somwyhing to me. I will not ask for info. I will look smile something. Cause guys will be called creeps and i will not inflate a girl's ego at my expense. If she wants to takk to me. She makes the move. A few weeks ago this hot chick said to me my hair looks nice i shot my shot and she said no. Nomore sir. Im not playing games. Im at the gym to get in shape have fun doing it. And if something happens it happens 👍
we all girls there to workout… we don’t want bf lmao 🤣
@@roser8911 is that so? I beg to differ 🤣
@@roser8911gotten multiple women from the gym 😂 stop speaking for all women
Thanks for the advice mate, really helpful.
🙌🏽
It's Bro....not mate....bro
Im 20 in somewhat good physical shape tatted up always focused on my workout they stay flocking anywhere i go but idgaf tbh i just stay working out then leave
Crazy part is some of them got boyfriends😂👎
Just keep focusing on you
Idk how RUclips brought me here but to answer the men, I make no eye contact and do not want to be approached at the gym, especially when I am during sets. Even if he’s attractive, I wouldn’t budge. When I ask someone how many more sets, I truly mean it. I’m here to work out, not get hit on. However, if a man wants to approach, do it naturally and organically. I would be more attracted to a man who is friendly and respectful. Right time, right place.
Mainly it’s eye contact. Constant stares, validation, standing around and barely doing anything. Constantly starring at other people to see if others stare at them back, wearing slutty clothes. A little desperate and she’s probably really young.
Understand the difference between certain women and what you are looking for. Some are reserved quiet and focused, some are obnoxious, desperate, and aren’t focused, eyes constantly wander. Good luck !
Thank you, it's good to have a female opinion. I'm usually like that too. Gym time is gym time
Why are you judging other girls and why are you even looking at them? You don’t know their situation that doesn’t mean that they’re desperate. A gym is a wonderful place to meet someone because people are there to become a higher version of themselves meaning they are in high vibration so why not start a conversation with the opposite sex? It’s not bad and it should not be shamed upon. Where else are you gonna find a guy at the club? Hell no the best places to find the opposite sex is at the gym and at school. These are places where people are bettering themselves. So please don’t call other women desperate just because she looks around. You should always look around anyways for situational awareness. You never know when a weirdo, my walk-in with the gun you gotta know who’s around.
This video and channel is so under rated is should be more recognized, i truly love your facts, they are unique and experience based not like other channels they bring all internet facts.
Thanks my dude 💯
Happened to me , i was doing dips and she walked up to me and said can i join you , can you help me fix the machine ? ( she knew how to do it herself)
That was her excuse to talk to you
I get females at the gym staring all the time. I am not interested since I already have a great looking woman who treats me well. Nothing a 304 can offer to me except a disease. I just go to the gym to workout without all the socializing time drain and my physique reflects that.
I ignore them, but there were 2 instances where I had to tell them to leave me alone and stop talking to me. Other guys who are desperate to get laid notice that women are on me and they start hating hard because they are try hards but never get any action, meanwhile I mind my business and have women approaching me. Even my GF who comes with me sometimes (and does her own workout) has noticed and laughs about it later. She also noticed the guys hating hard and I didnt even tell her about it, she just picked up on it and told me.
i have a younger girl always staring at me but shes always working out with 2 other guys
We need a video on other men giving pick me signs. I can’t read the room😢
I’ll make a video
@@elexcels I’ll subscribe now lol. Keep up the good work
What’s ur opinion on tucking in your shirt at the gym if you’re super fit? Feel like it gives off a super clean look but also old man vibes 😂
@@TempleofShaolin personally I don’t do it
How do you tell if it’s just leg day for the both of you and she’s using the machines next to you bc it’s her next workout?
My question is can you still shoot your shot after all this? Cause I was leaving but she had just got there but came in my area. I didn’t step cause I was in a rush. She was fine though lol
Yep you should if shes with no men
There's this one girl in the gym that moves near me every time I move tho another machine at the gym ; and a couple of days ago she asked me to spot her and she seemed very nervous , it's so obvious but now that I am in a good healthy relatiobship and that I don't pay attention to nobody at the gym just go there to mind my bussines now a couple of girls want my atention😂😂😂😂.
No Thank's I'm good
your relatable for kids bro
You’re wrong he is a real man unlike you.
After reading the comments. Guys please, if a girl use the machine next to you or or ask you for a remaining set or ask a help with the machine it doesn’t necessarily means a girl like you! Dont assume! Cause If we do like you we will tell you! Just focus on your work out and be the best version of yourself
It means she wants the Bama black snake.
Absolutely true. As a guy, I was getting the same vibe off these pathetic comments. A bunch of desperate Simp clowns posting
Gay
I noticed this girl at my gym a few times last three months then all of a sudden I was focused on my workouts but noticed she was making an effort to try and workout in my area. Who goes legs to abs then back to a leg press machine which was in my area. So end of her workout she was stretching and I checked out a white board at the gym with the question when do you like working out. 2 mins later I noticed she wrote on it. Went back to check what she wrote and it was “weekdays at 1pm” coincidence?
I mean, what are we like? Invisible beings where we could just read people signals and stuff like that like communication is verbal communication what if she gives off the wrong signal when you go over there and make yourself look stupid
Women are emotional creatures bro you gotta learn how they think
U said it right chase dats what y'all be doing I'm not included
@@DinoSmith-z9d exactly
Sounds good im theory but if yall dont work out or break up. Then its just weird afterwards. Tbh i dont pick up at girls at the gym for that reason. Just be friends lol. I'll pick up women at target instesd lmaooooo
The girls with the boyfriends/children are the DOGS in the gym.
My gym crush has spoken about me so much to her friend, yesterday they were hovering around me again and her friend would slap her cheeks right in front of me. I like women that don't play games tho. I'm not looking for a prize I need to figure out. She's just a cute stranger
I respect that
7:00 damn this happened to me but i still didn't get it😫
Don’t forget some girls *use* some guys for free personal training….Lol
🤣😭
I had this happen the other day. I was working out Tri’s and noticed this baddie walking towards me during my workout and she starts working out right next to me and asks me to see I can see if she is curling right. So I was watching her curl and bruh she was not doing it right at all. I wonder if she was doing that on purpose so I put my hand on her back to keep it straight and put my hand on her elbow and was helping her. Was she hitting on me or was she legit need help lol
@@PlaybookFantasy she was hitting on you
@@elexcels appreciate the feedback bro! What would be your game if you saw shorty again in the gym?
@@PlaybookFantasy if shes interested, let her throw you signs so you know and then make your move
Great video 💯
Thanks bro
women at the gym scare me lol i dont know if they looking at me cause im ok looking or if they looking cause they are just between sets, i sometimes look at people casue of that it doesnt mean im into them.
Don’t let women scare you
@@elexcels nah its more like i dont want to be seen as the gym creep lol
I’m black and I agree with son message salute king
Heard that queen
Never chase women
how do u get a 20 yr old to date u if ur 30
Be normal or be jacked
bro said lets say you're doing pull ups
and did bicep curls lmao tf
The day I almost commited SA . . . 0:34
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I’m in this position but I don’t know if she still has a crush on me. The first time we met was when she asked and said how long do you have and I said roughly about 2 mins, but I knew she wanted to speak to me, the next thing she did when I went to another machine she followed me and did her squats on front of me. Then u know she always looked at me her eyes everyday in the gym, and she did the same thing, but gradually we spoke with eachother and obviously guys were abit jealous and that, I was shy in the beginning, but I get confident then she gave me her number coz I asked for it, and later she didn’t reply I dunno why, but days after I never respond to her, but she kept on smiling to me and looking at me time to time but it has gone less, I dunno what to do at this point, if she still have a crush with me or she wants to be with me, we don’t really speak, but then she’s more talking to that guy now and I feel she will go with him instead of me….i dunno anymore
Bruh if she’s interested in a guy, she’s not gonna play games
@@elexcels like what do you mean ?? Coz I feel like she’s just teasing me with her hair and her body
@@Matt-g8h when she really wants you she’s not gonna play as much games, she’s gonna make talking and linking up with her easy as possible, she’ll match the energy you bring
@@elexcels so basically most women that are interested in men will link up and make the conversation easy to be their partner…..
But if shes playing with me this whole time I gotta think that she’s wasting my time
Yesterday a girl at the gym was twerking on my left back hamstring while i wwas standing up looking at my phone they tried to get your attention when you’re non chalant