Story 1 was relatable. My wife and I have a second house in a remote area in the SE USA. It’s 8 hours from our residence. Since we’re only there a few times per year, I worry that someone will break in or even worse, move in and trash the place. After hearing OP’s story, we definitely need to invest in security cameras. Glad for OP that it was just a mess and no damage.
Story 1 could very well have been true on karens part as there are cases where a house has been put up for rent on airbnb sites without the owners knowledge.
IMHO I think that the story was just a creative writing project. Otherwise 'karen' should have been able to provide proof that it was indeed rented, even if it was illegal.
That certainly happens. But it probably wasn't happening here, because she couldn't name the source of the rental or show her agreement. She would've had the Airbnb details if they'd gotten it from there, or anywhere similar.
Not only that, a summer home near my grandmas summer home was "scam rented" to not one, not two, but FOUR families the same weekend, they all showed up within the same 15 minutes and there was nobody to let them in while they tried to figure out what had happened, from what my grandma was told someone had rented it via social media, not a website that does background checks (where i'm from you MUST prove you own the property to be able to rent it), so the scammer had taken all the money up front from multiple people and of course didn't show up to let them in, scammer was caught, apparently had an easy-to-follow electronic paper-trail.
Story #2 - It was more than just a childhood misdeed, because he showed that as an adult that he had no remorse for what he had done and still thought it was a funny story worth sharing
With the first story the mother free place ti stay in and away and destroy the place because they book on any website and the poor owner accommodation had paid any clan and/or repair. I think she thinks doing is funny getting accommodation free and destroying the so call accommodation and think getting any free and not pausing any is funny damage. If was the op I will during the for changing the locks and destroying my place and laying about saying she booked one and she asked to booking confirmation she would not let any see it and police asked see her she make any reason why couldn’t get it
The Fact that no one cared for Arthur should tell you what that person grew up in a Town where kids his age all though because he was shy and meek that it's ok to traumatized and bully the kid out of town, and all the people of that age group (Mid 30s) where likely the ones calling OP crazy, I bet the Dad and a who didn't grow up in that Town were the ones on OP side as showing no remorse and saying they wish to go further and do something illegal is messed up, simply his date left him hanging as she doesn't want to be with a man who willing to ruin lives just because he can.
2nd story, Thomas and his friends still have not grown up. They still laugh about what they did to Arthur. Thomas and his friends will never grow up. OP NTA.
Story 2) as a child I was bullied, and even now at the age of 35 some of the things the bullies did haunt me, I struggled to trust anyone, including family, I had no dating life well into my adult years, it took a very special person and a lot of therapy to open up and trust again, even then I still have deep seeded trust issues. What the bullies did, and yes they are bullies, will probably have/had lasting effects on their victim too. Good on OP for leaving that immature idiot, as he still thinks it was just a harmless joke even as an adult proves he has not emotional matured at all, and is actually a massive red flag.
The first story, OP's key didn't work, that means SOMEONE changed the locks on the door. Could very well be that someone, also was illegally renting out OPs cabin. That would mean that the karen and her family 'might' have actually rented the cabin in good faith, although why she couldn't provide name/proof of rental payment .... Most likely though, this is just a creative writing project.
NTA on the ineternet bully, the fact that he and his cronies were still gloating over his misdeeds proves he hasn't matured or otherwise grown out of his intitaled idiotic Karenness. Tyeing yourself to him in any way would be a from of self hate, as he would eventually attack and destroy anyone he thought weaker than himself.
I think he got off lightly A young arthers mental health would had been extremely bad where Tomas was an adult he should have suffered more punishment for what he did good on you for sticking it to him
As to the first story op should have done a walk thru before they left and upon seeing the mess filed charges and sued for cleaning costs. As to the second story what goes around comes around. As to the third story that idiot got what she deserved. If she fired op for going into labor at work and having the baby she would be in serious legal trouble. As to the fourth story b had a major ego problem and is lucky to still have a business. As to the last story that is an awesome couple. The wife's coworker is delusional.
I hope Arthur overcame the trauma of the bulling he suffered and no, you are not an AH! Thomas's drunken state showed a side of him that he hides but it is there and you are well rid of him.
There was nothing in the story that didn't indicate that the lady had been scammed by the site, but OP was so sure that she wS behind it. Later turned out to be true, but from the start there was no evidence of that.
Pregnant story. What? That was your stupid plan, 😂. Why would you do that it was probably a joke or something she knew if she fired you it would be wrong.
It might not have been Karen tho. Since he didn’t mention that the door was busted, but that the locks were changed that might’ve been his most recent rentee who switched out the locks so they could try the profit off the cabin and the website is not gonna actually verify fraud because it looks negative on their agenda.
The locks were strange. He said no one should have been borrowing the place that weekend so no one should have had keys. Did she previously borrow the place and keep the key? Pick the lock? Didn't seem like her hubby would've changed the lock.
Story one ... all sounds believable until you re-listen to the story. OP said his key didn't work when he tried to enter his cabin ... suggesting someone had changed the locks. So, how is it that Karen was able to get into the cabin with her husband and kids in tow? Did she arrive early and change the locks? Was her husband in on it and he changed the locks. How do you change locks without the door first being open unless you busted the door/frame to get in? Come on ... if you're gonna make up a story try and get your details in order.
Still very hard to listen to. I can't tell if it is a human or computer reading it. So dry and many mistake. I will try again in a few months and see if it improves.
Story 1 was relatable. My wife and I have a second house in a remote area in the SE USA. It’s 8 hours from our residence. Since we’re only there a few times per year, I worry that someone will break in or even worse, move in and trash the place. After hearing OP’s story, we definitely need to invest in security cameras. Glad for OP that it was just a mess and no damage.
any home or residence you have make sure to have security cameras. they can also come in handy for SUING people for cleaning and damages.
Story 1 could very well have been true on karens part as there are cases where a house has been put up for rent on airbnb sites without the owners knowledge.
IMHO I think that the story was just a creative writing project. Otherwise 'karen' should have been able to provide proof that it was indeed rented, even if it was illegal.
He took out keys to unlock the door. Did she previously borrow the place and keep a key? Pick the lock?
That certainly happens. But it probably wasn't happening here, because she couldn't name the source of the rental or show her agreement. She would've had the Airbnb details if they'd gotten it from there, or anywhere similar.
Not only that, a summer home near my grandmas summer home was "scam rented" to not one, not two, but FOUR families the same weekend, they all showed up within the same 15 minutes and there was nobody to let them in while they tried to figure out what had happened, from what my grandma was told someone had rented it via social media, not a website that does background checks (where i'm from you MUST prove you own the property to be able to rent it), so the scammer had taken all the money up front from multiple people and of course didn't show up to let them in, scammer was caught, apparently had an easy-to-follow electronic paper-trail.
The wife in the last story & I would be Besties for sure! ❤
Story #2 - It was more than just a childhood misdeed, because he showed that as an adult that he had no remorse for what he had done and still thought it was a funny story worth sharing
With the first story the mother free place ti stay in and away and destroy the place because they book on any website and the poor owner accommodation had paid any clan and/or repair. I think she thinks doing is funny getting accommodation free and destroying the so call accommodation and think getting any free and not pausing any is funny damage. If was the op I will during the for changing the locks and destroying my place and laying about saying she booked one and she asked to booking confirmation she would not let any see it and police asked see her she make any reason why couldn’t get it
The Fact that no one cared for Arthur should tell you what that person grew up in a Town where kids his age all though because he was shy and meek that it's ok to traumatized and bully the kid out of town, and all the people of that age group (Mid 30s) where likely the ones calling OP crazy, I bet the Dad and a who didn't grow up in that Town were the ones on OP side as showing no remorse and saying they wish to go further and do something illegal is messed up, simply his date left him hanging as she doesn't want to be with a man who willing to ruin lives just because he can.
47 years for me and mine. I must be dong some thing right, she knows where the key to my gun safe is and I still wake up every morning.
I heard that bell and I thought one of my ships in Runescape had come back
Something similar happened to me in the story about Arthur. I’m still dealing with effects from it years later. It’s very isolating and traumatic
im confused..sounds like did rent it out sometimes...just not this time
Did he rent it? Or lend it out to friends, family kinda thing? Wondering if I missed something or they left it out???
My first marriage my dress was from sear and my second marriage hubby and bro cut the cake with sword lol
You are definitely our tribe! 😁
the whole "lady wife" in the last story was funny
It's a sweet endearment he's always used for me. ❤
Last story. That's my hubby!!! ❤
2nd story, Thomas and his friends still have not grown up. They still laugh about what they did to Arthur. Thomas and his friends will never grow up. OP NTA.
Story 2) as a child I was bullied, and even now at the age of 35 some of the things the bullies did haunt me, I struggled to trust anyone, including family, I had no dating life well into my adult years, it took a very special person and a lot of therapy to open up and trust again, even then I still have deep seeded trust issues. What the bullies did, and yes they are bullies, will probably have/had lasting effects on their victim too. Good on OP for leaving that immature idiot, as he still thinks it was just a harmless joke even as an adult proves he has not emotional matured at all, and is actually a massive red flag.
I am glad you taught him a lesson
The first story, OP's key didn't work, that means SOMEONE changed the locks on the door. Could very well be that someone, also was illegally renting out OPs cabin. That would mean that the karen and her family 'might' have actually rented the cabin in good faith, although why she couldn't provide name/proof of rental payment ....
Most likely though, this is just a creative writing project.
He mentioned that they didnt work, not were changed. Many locks cannot be opened if they are locked from the other side, and the key left in place
NTA on the ineternet bully, the fact that he and his cronies were still gloating over his misdeeds proves he hasn't matured or otherwise grown out of his intitaled idiotic Karenness. Tyeing yourself to him in any way would be a from of self hate, as he would eventually attack and destroy anyone he thought weaker than himself.
I think he got off lightly A young arthers mental health would had been extremely bad where Tomas was an adult he should have suffered more punishment for what he did good on you for sticking it to him
As to the first story op should have done a walk thru before they left and upon seeing the mess filed charges and sued for cleaning costs. As to the second story what goes around comes around. As to the third story that idiot got what she deserved. If she fired op for going into labor at work and having the baby she would be in serious legal trouble. As to the fourth story b had a major ego problem and is lucky to still have a business. As to the last story that is an awesome couple. The wife's coworker is delusional.
I hope Arthur overcame the trauma of the bulling he suffered and no, you are not an AH! Thomas's drunken state showed a side of him that he hides but it is there and you are well rid of him.
17:37 “mall”, I believe there is a typo where the author meant “moll”.
Story 2. I think she should have gone to Thomas's father before she left and explained to him and thanked him for allowing her to visit.
As stated in the story, Thomas's father heard the entire story at the same time and was just as disgusted as she was.
@@TALON_SILVERI still think she should have thanked his father for allowing her to visit before she left.
There was nothing in the story that didn't indicate that the lady had been scammed by the site, but OP was so sure that she wS behind it. Later turned out to be true, but from the start there was no evidence of that.
Pregnant story. What? That was your stupid plan, 😂. Why would you do that it was probably a joke or something she knew if she fired you it would be wrong.
It might not have been Karen tho. Since he didn’t mention that the door was busted, but that the locks were changed that might’ve been his most recent rentee who switched out the locks so they could try the profit off the cabin and the website is not gonna actually verify fraud because it looks negative on their agenda.
The locks were strange. He said no one should have been borrowing the place that weekend so no one should have had keys. Did she previously borrow the place and keep the key? Pick the lock? Didn't seem like her hubby would've changed the lock.
It’s amazing how obtuse people are!!
Story one ... all sounds believable until you re-listen to the story. OP said his key didn't work when he tried to enter his cabin ... suggesting someone had changed the locks. So, how is it that Karen was able to get into the cabin with her husband and kids in tow? Did she arrive early and change the locks? Was her husband in on it and he changed the locks. How do you change locks without the door first being open unless you busted the door/frame to get in? Come on ... if you're gonna make up a story try and get your details in order.
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Still very hard to listen to. I can't tell if it is a human or computer reading it. So dry and many mistake. I will try again in a few months and see if it improves.
Story 1: who changed the locks?
All he showed police was his I.D and his keys which no longer fitted the locks.
At least make a story believable.