Salam aleykum sis, well said, I really cannot stress enough the importance of being able to put a meal together for your family.. there are so many easy recipes easily available at this day and age.. please get yourself the basic ingredients and get cooking 💗 I understand it can be difficult if you are also working, you can make a bigger batch and freeze a few portions to defrost at your convenience. Pro tip: master one dessert that can be switched up easily so you can prepare it in different variations from time to time. Mine is a classic sponge cake that you can just personalise in so many ways. One time you can add spices, next time add some citrus zest, or even add some chocolate powder.. and may Allah SWT keep our marriages grounded ameen 🙌
I think the problem is men often don’t change after marriage, they still act and think like a single person. Sometimes it makes it hard because you feel like as the wife you are doing your part and changing to fit into his world, whereas he hasn’t changed much🤷🏽♀️. Even with communication, I think it’s the comprehension that’s important, you can communicate all you want but if the person doesn’t listen or see it as a issue, then what’s the point.
Get married by a man who your heart feels right with. Don't marry with the hopes of changing a man. If he's not exactly what Allah describes in the Quran and you've seen the signs of him getting bored with u sometimes or not caring enough to communicate or they still think about stuff that make you uncomfortable , these are signs not to continue with them. The biggest mistake is ignoring them hoping they'll change. People don't change. Either you're an improving person at a fast rate or a slow rate. A man should be better than women in manners so that wives can look upto them for better growth and getting closer to Allah. Anything short of this, don't settle for it.
I am a med student from India, I have my exams with in few days so I couldn’t watch the video but I saved it for later inshallah after exams will watch it❤❤❤, sister please keep uploading these kind of topics regularly bcoz most of the young Muslim girls aren’t much aware of these kind of topics, we assume that marriage is like a fantasy but we often forget the amount of sacrifices it requires. Please give us reality checks 😅and also please share any book recommendations (pre marriage) in order to make the marriage more blissful . Please share us marriage tips also. Sister I love you for the sake of Allah ❤❤❤❤❤ when you upload any video, I feel like I have my elder sis giving me mature and wise advices 😊❤❤❤
I have been watching you for years Alhamdillilah, first time commenting. Wallahi I love you sister for the sake of Allah. Your videos always come at the right time when needed❤ May Allah bless you and your family. اللهم بارك
One thing that work for me was, what I wanted in a man I must have those qualities too, pray to Allah and seek help from surrounding family and friends if they know someone ready to get married and most importantly get all the knowledge about marriage, rights and duties of man and woman in marriage, self analyse like who are you and how are you around people. Go to muslim event
@Sadaf Ahmed I have tried all of the above and this isn't true. You eventually have just give in, as it will destroy you psychologically. There are no good men left, its qadar, Allah swt doesn't give to everyone. We have to accept this. Sad so sad, but this is reality..... Allah hu Alam
May Allah ease the struggle. There is no one place to go pick a husband, every married woman will have her story of how she met her husband so just make use of people you engage with and as Allah wills, it will happen. Furthermore, finding a man is not difficult but finding the right one for you is the challenge for some. May Allah ease everyone’s struggle.
SubhanaAllah!!!!! My beautiful Sister Ma shaa Allah thank you for this beautiful beneficial knowledge and amazing reminder and advice ❤️🫶🏾 by the way you look amazing Sis Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah 🤲🏾🫶🏾❤️🌹
beautiful useful tips Nafisa mashallah love the baby sounds! Could you please make a video on effective communication between men and women? That's something I think will be useful for everyone single and married women too. jazakhallah Khair
Amazing video Nafisa! Many congratulations on the birth of your daughter! May Allah bless you and your growing family. Also hearing your baby girl's sneeze was so ADORABLE 7:39! ♥🎉
Love your beautiful video love the advice very uplifting and encouraging. I was married for 34 years love listening to all your advice as a Muslim a child Muslim still learning.
Assalam Aleykum Sister Thank you so so so much for This Video. Im newly married and this Video is a Perfect Advise for me. May Allah bless you and your Beautiful Family ♥️♥️🤲🏽
can't explain how helpful this is! We always see vids on how to find someone but never on how to prepare for this new phase. You're definitely right that it will take a lot of patience and understanding, I heard recently that married people are more empathetic and see the perspective of others better than unmarried people and it definitely makes a lot of sense having seen this video - may Allah allow us to be effective communicators with our spouses and be kind and compassionate to one another, Ameen!
As-Salaamualaykum and ✌️Peace! Sister Nafisa please remember to say In'shaa'Allah regarding your next videos. There are Muslim marriage websites but some charge fees. One problem I have with one is that it has the option to chat alone with each other before getting the Wali involved, which allows Shaytan to be the third person in their communications of getting to know one another. And that is not a good way to start the marriage process. So fear Allah and seek out halal ways to get to know your potential spouse. May Allah guide and help us get and stay in a satisfactory marriage that is best for our Dunya and our Akhira Aameen ya Rabbil'Alamin 🤲🥰.
My husband was wonderful but after we had children he was like they were his children. I told them it was bedtime and he said they could stay up. I said they need a bedtime. He just flipped and hit me. The neighbors called the police and they sent me to ER with the children in an ambulance. Saudi men don’t want to feel like their word is challenged. 🤷🏻♀️🇺🇸🇸🇦
You inspire me Sister,what are the signs that you are meeting your soulmate(which I believe your spouse is),like how do you know he is the one for you?
can u please do a video on pregnancy and having kids i have been married for almost a year now and too scared to get pregnant i want to enjoy life and i fear having bad children or having to ruin my body and sacrificing my life fun and focusing my lofe on my child only idk but just wolf like some motivation on having kids
@@MSC226 I believe it was on people, asking others why they’re not having kids yet but for me I’m trying to ask the mental state a person should be in when they are actually pregnant and going into that motherhood life
Marriage is not like the way it used to be there is no respect, no more patience, no more family time. People just like the idea I'm married n should have kids
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Salam aleykum sis, well said, I really cannot stress enough the importance of being able to put a meal together for your family.. there are so many easy recipes easily available at this day and age.. please get yourself the basic ingredients and get cooking 💗 I understand it can be difficult if you are also working, you can make a bigger batch and freeze a few portions to defrost at your convenience. Pro tip: master one dessert that can be switched up easily so you can prepare it in different variations from time to time. Mine is a classic sponge cake that you can just personalise in so many ways. One time you can add spices, next time add some citrus zest, or even add some chocolate powder.. and may Allah SWT keep our marriages grounded ameen 🙌
I think the problem is men often don’t change after marriage, they still act and think like a single person. Sometimes it makes it hard because you feel like as the wife you are doing your part and changing to fit into his world, whereas he hasn’t changed much🤷🏽♀️. Even with communication, I think it’s the comprehension that’s important, you can communicate all you want but if the person doesn’t listen or see it as a issue, then what’s the point.
I agree everything u wrote. U so right
Get married by a man who your heart feels right with. Don't marry with the hopes of changing a man. If he's not exactly what Allah describes in the Quran and you've seen the signs of him getting bored with u sometimes or not caring enough to communicate or they still think about stuff that make you uncomfortable , these are signs not to continue with them. The biggest mistake is ignoring them hoping they'll change. People don't change. Either you're an improving person at a fast rate or a slow rate. A man should be better than women in manners so that wives can look upto them for better growth and getting closer to Allah. Anything short of this, don't settle for it.
I am a med student from India, I have my exams with in few days so I couldn’t watch the video but I saved it for later inshallah after exams will watch it❤❤❤, sister please keep uploading these kind of topics regularly bcoz most of the young Muslim girls aren’t much aware of these kind of topics, we assume that marriage is like a fantasy but we often forget the amount of sacrifices it requires. Please give us reality checks 😅and also please share any book recommendations (pre marriage) in order to make the marriage more blissful . Please share us marriage tips also. Sister I love you for the sake of Allah ❤❤❤❤❤ when you upload any video, I feel like I have my elder sis giving me mature and wise advices 😊❤❤❤
Be aware of your expectations and challenge/question them. Be thorough, be honest.
Every thing you said just resonates with me.
I instantly becomes excited on seeing her video alert.
May Allah continue to bless you sis Nafisa
I have been watching you for years Alhamdillilah, first time commenting. Wallahi I love you sister for the sake of Allah. Your videos always come at the right time when needed❤
May Allah bless you and your family. اللهم بارك
Thank you so much for the support throughout the years. May Allah make it a means of blessings for you 🤲🏾
What a great topic. You are an inspiration Nafisa. I have learnt alot from you. May Allah reward you with jannatul firdaus.
Ameen. I’m glad it is of benefit. May Allah continue to bless you too.
Dear I think for a muslimah the biggest challenge finding a husband..how can we find one ?
One thing that work for me was, what I wanted in a man I must have those qualities too, pray to Allah and seek help from surrounding family and friends if they know someone ready to get married and most importantly get all the knowledge about marriage, rights and duties of man and woman in marriage, self analyse like who are you and how are you around people. Go to muslim event
@Sadaf Ahmed I have tried all of the above and this isn't true. You eventually have just give in, as it will destroy you psychologically. There are no good men left, its qadar, Allah swt doesn't give to everyone. We have to accept this. Sad so sad, but this is reality..... Allah hu Alam
May Allah ease the struggle. There is no one place to go pick a husband, every married woman will have her story of how she met her husband so just make use of people you engage with and as Allah wills, it will happen.
Furthermore, finding a man is not difficult but finding the right one for you is the challenge for some. May Allah ease everyone’s struggle.
SubhanaAllah!!!!! My beautiful Sister Ma shaa Allah thank you for this beautiful beneficial knowledge and amazing reminder and advice ❤️🫶🏾 by the way you look amazing Sis Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah 🤲🏾🫶🏾❤️🌹
@@NafisasPearlz Well said and the truth!!!! Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah 🤲🏾🤲🏾
beautiful useful tips Nafisa mashallah love the baby sounds! Could you please make a video on effective communication between men and women? That's something I think will be useful for everyone single and married women too. jazakhallah Khair
Amazing video Nafisa! Many congratulations on the birth of your daughter! May Allah bless you and your growing family. Also hearing your baby girl's sneeze was so ADORABLE 7:39! ♥🎉
Love your beautiful video love the advice very uplifting and encouraging. I was married for 34 years love listening to all your advice as a Muslim a child Muslim still learning.
May Allah reward you abundantly 🤲
Dear Nafeesa
Can u please do a video on how to be more confident as a person
She is so adorable when I can hear her talk may allah continue to bless you
Assalam Aleykum Sister Thank you so so so much for This Video. Im newly married and this Video is a Perfect Advise for me. May Allah bless you and your Beautiful Family ♥️♥️🤲🏽
Baarakallahu fiikum. I wish I knew these tips long time a go.
MashaAllah I just want to say you have inspired me a lot and how I have opened a RUclips channel to inspire more people Allah bless you ❤
Alhamdulilah. May Allah put Barakah in it for you
Thank you ❤
I love you FisabilillAh.. I'm grateful for this piece
can't explain how helpful this is! We always see vids on how to find someone but never on how to prepare for this new phase.
You're definitely right that it will take a lot of patience and understanding, I heard recently that married people are more empathetic and see the perspective of others better than unmarried people and it definitely makes a lot of sense having seen this video - may Allah allow us to be effective communicators with our spouses and be kind and compassionate to one another, Ameen!
Beautiful, I heard your baby as you began. Salam to her and of course, salam to you too!! 🥰💛💛
Allahuma barik . I needed to see this; I'm always looking forward to seeing your videos. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Salam 'aleykoum ! Do you have please a video talking about Money - Finance management for Muslim couple ?
As-Salaamualaykum and ✌️Peace! Sister Nafisa please remember to say In'shaa'Allah regarding your next videos. There are Muslim marriage websites but some charge fees. One problem I have with one is that it has the option to chat alone with each other before getting the Wali involved, which allows Shaytan to be the third person in their communications of getting to know one another. And that is not a good way to start the marriage process. So fear Allah and seek out halal ways to get to know your potential spouse. May Allah guide and help us get and stay in a satisfactory marriage that is best for our Dunya and our Akhira Aameen ya Rabbil'Alamin 🤲🥰.
what app is that sister ? I know of pure matrimony only but that allows u to add a wali or mahram
I agree sister..talk less and observe because you' being judged..oh I wish I do this 7 years ago when I was married to my husband..
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
My dear sister for this beneficial video and to find the time to provide us with this amazing information ❤❤❤
Waiyakum my dear. ❤
Thank you sister May Allah continue to bless you 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for this wonderful topic may Allah continue to bless you and your growing family 🤲
My husband was wonderful but after we had children he was like they were his children. I told them it was bedtime and he said they could stay up. I said they need a bedtime. He just flipped and hit me. The neighbors called the police and they sent me to ER with the children in an ambulance. Saudi men don’t want to feel like their word is challenged. 🤷🏻♀️🇺🇸🇸🇦
You inspire me Sister,what are the signs that you are meeting your soulmate(which I believe your spouse is),like how do you know he is the one for you?
assalamualikum lovely sister❤ can you talk about post partum self care and recovery?
Jazakallahu Khairan for all that you do🎉❤
JazakaAllah kheir Sister for the reminder.
Jazkhallah khair sis for posting
Mash Allah sister may Allah bless you
MashaAllah, thank you. ❣️ Do you recommand islamic pre-marriage councelling ?
Amin 😇
can u please do a video on pregnancy and having kids i have been married for almost a year now and too scared to get pregnant i want to enjoy life and i fear having bad children or having to ruin my body and sacrificing my life fun and focusing my lofe on my child only idk but just wolf like some motivation on having kids
If you look at her page I think that was 2 uploads ago.
@@MSC226 I believe it was on people, asking others why they’re not having kids yet but for me I’m trying to ask the mental state a person should be in when they are actually pregnant and going into that motherhood life
@@oh_its.fatima7024 it was the one before that
Marriage is not like the way it used to be there is no respect, no more patience, no more family time.
People just like the idea I'm married n should have kids
Why do u do when someone is narstatics no matter what you do for them you can never change a husband who is narstatics believe me.
jesus loves u