'I need to propose perfectly because she might leave me soon!' So... don't propose, then? Marrying when the relationship is on the verge of collapse is stupid as hell
The idea of a 30yo manchild calling his grandmother to fight his battles is hilarious. Anyway, here are some missing updates: OP's wedding was a success. Grandma tried to attend, but security stopped her. This, coupled with everyone excluding her, caused her to spiral out of control and turn her narcissism and anger on the only remaining outlet - the brother. She even attacked him and spent some days in a cell. The brother sent OP a letter, apologizing for some things but still blaming him for everything, mainly for the way grandma is treating him now and for the parents not letting him back in their house, and complaining about being uninvited to the wedding. Still a spoiled manchild who takes no accountability, though now he's looking for a new place to live. The parents are fine, still crawling out of their financial hole. OP's honeymoon also went smoothly.
There more after your post ruclips.net/video/Cmt6_ekGGuk/видео.html Long story short, the brother FINALLY give a heartfelt apology to the OP as due to the Grandmother targeting hih, he get why OP felt miserable a kid for the favourtism and wanted their help to moved his stuff out of grandma plase as she refuse. She was hellbent on stopping her "favourite" grandson moving that she try to commit suicide by taking too many pills and got sent to hospital (but she thrown up most of it). Turns out she was in such a bad health (diabetes and need an oxygen mask) cos she avoided the doctors for years, she had to be put into a nursing home which only infuriate her! She was miserable and try to get out like try to commit suicide again but overtime just gave up and didn't speak to anyone. She only peak up when the OP wife was pregnant and allow her to feel her stomach. Anyway she died from a stroke in her sleep. With her out of everyone life, the brother did started to get better like went to therapy and helping dad with the artic (didn't had time to turned it into another room)!
@@adrianflores7269 The was another update in this channel somewhere. Brother apologise geninue to the OP to the point he went to therapy and they reconsile. Brother needed help moving out as he did find a place but Gramda was being an ass about it. When attempt to moved out, the ambulance had to be called cos she attempted to end herself via pill overdose but vomited out anyway. From the Hospital, it reveal she basically needed to be send to a nusing home cos she was diabetes and needed an oxygen tank (she refuse going to the doctor until that incident). From the nursing home, she was a pain in the ass until she gave up some time later and became a miserable sod. When OP wife became pregnant, she did allow the grandma to touch her stomach which she ligthen up abit. Grandma passed away sometime later from having a stroke in her sleep.
I'm glad OP had the confidence/balls/self respect to stand up for himself. That was a shitty thing the brother was trying to do, and the fact that he and the gramdma refuse to see it as such shows how toxic they are. I'm also glad that the parents were able to see what they'd done and start making things right. It would've been so easy for them to blame OP, but they took a step back, reflected, and realized their mistake. I wish OP and his fiance a happy wedding and marriage.
@@kingthe13 I dunno, the brother was probably costing them more than the 500 was helping. The fact that they not only refused the idea, but called both the brother and the grandma makes me think this was about more than just money.
Honestly, I have heard a lot of golden child stories, of parents crying when it blows up in their faces... but this is the first time that I actually think the parents are on the right track for making amends: sticking to their change, therapy, amonishing the influences, and not pretending they were on OP's side from the begining but remarking how he's been a great son for the things he's done since D-day.
Funny fact, is that it's her fault, her favorite grandson isn't married. If she didn't enable him lik a 5 year old all these years, he would've grow up a decent man and woman wouldn't run from him after a few weeks of living together and he probably would've been married or atleast engaged. The only person she can blamr is herself, lmao
Yeah, Mordecai crashed and ruined Muscle Man's wedding. Mordecai was reading a letter left by Muscleman's dead dad talking about how proud he was for getting married. Then, Mordecai made the speech about himself and accidentally used it to break up with his girlfriend CJ (the cloud lady) lmao
It’s so refreshing to hear a story where the OP isn’t a doormat. In fact, he was the opposite. He nipped in the bud quite fast and threw out some harsh truths to his family. This helped his mom and dad see the error in their ways, while also cutting out the toxic grandma and brother. OP dealt with this situation with flying colors!
With people who constantly pull the “I just don’t understand why…” when you know they fully understand, you can always pivot to a point of that they don’t need to understand your point of view, it’s not your job to persuade them, they just need to respect it if they care about you. Those types of people are trying to exhaust you in an argument by making you repeat yourself over and over and then ultimately make you doubt the validity of your own position.
There's more updates to this story. Before Wedding: Op's grandmother went mental. She went and attacked his brother, since she didnt have a scapegoat anymore, he was her target now. Police was called by the neighbor and she was taken to a psyche hold. Parents visited but she still blames op for everything, but mom shut that down. Brother stayed at grandmother's place while she was away, never visited. Wedding: everything went smoothly, but grandma did try to get in after she got out the hold. Drove 200 miles and yet was denied entry by the guards, was threatened with police but she left. Brother sent op a text with half apologies and half blaming him for uninviting grandmother and making her lose her temper. After Wedding: Brother asked to move back in with parents but they said no and he cried and down booze the whole night at the parents place. Dad kicked him out and said if he doesnt apologize to op, he will be no longer considered a son. After a few days he came with a letter apologizing how he is a shetty person and a shitter brother. Finale: Brother asked his parents and op to help move him as he is apartment hunting but said no. He had to call movers and police becuz grandma wouldnt let the movers in and threatened to unalive herself. After brother left, grandma actually downed pills and called police, she threw up the pills and the doctors pumped her anyways to be sure; they ran tests and found many problems: kidney function low, lung problems, diabetes. She avoided doctors her whole life. Parents moved her into a care home where she was treated as a child and had to wear an oxygen mask 24/7. She played the victim card hard with the parents to have her taken back home as she is miserable there, but they said no. Soon, op's wife is expecting and that made grandma abit nicer. Soon, she died due a stroke. Nobody but mother cried at the funeral. The brother actually got help and went to therapy and has improved alot.
I'm impressed with his parents. In the stories like this, the parents never take responsibility for their favoritism. It took their son nearly bankrupting them, but at least now they have a chance to develop a better relationship with OP. Grandma, though, is a real peach, totally delulu!
Parents aren't so clean themselves... They didn't paid of OP College fund.. took a loan to pay brother college.. thn he drop out... Whn OP said he gonna Stop paying 500$ per month, thn they realised they hav another son.
It’s Ops and his wife’s wedding. Their wedding their rules. And proposing at someone else’s wedding is majorly disrespectful towards the bride and groom as it’s their day.
There is at least one more update to this story. The abridged version is that it's trouble in paradise between the narcissistic brother and grandmother, as both began going at each other. Not surprising, since narcissists absolutely cannot stand not being the "alpha", so when you have two of them under the same roof, it was only a matter of time before one tried to pull BS to control the other.
Personally I don't see anything wrong with a 30 year old still living with parents I should know because I have older siblings who are in their 30s and haven't move out yet but not supporting the parents financially that's a red flag
Toxic family: "I just don't understand." What OP should have said: "You don't need to understand, nor will I explain why. You just need to listen and follow directions. If you can't, then you can't come."
The fact that grandma STILL said she just "doesn't understand" even after reading about OP roasting her for continuing to say that exact thing is effing HILARIOUS.
I'm surprised this guy didn't try to get her pregnant. Marriage and babies only amplify what's already there. If miserable then more miserable. At least he asked. I'm sure he did it so they could tell someone to put the spotlight on him and dj play a certain song.
My gradma was very similar. She had clear bias of her kids and her daughters were the golden childs while boys were basically nothing. She would favor the grandchildren from daughters side while badmouthing the son's children. One of my uncles children has down syndrome and she basically blamed it on the mother's gene's even tho she and granpa were cousins My dad basically cut all contacts with her when she started talk shit about me and my mother. For over 10 years we didn't go to see her untill the aunts convinced my dad that she is remorseful and that he should come to visit since grandpa was in bad shape from Alzheimer. I think she started to have a change of heart when grandpa had to be taken to care home and she started to notice even her mortality and wanted to fix relationships She had many illnesses and it became a joke that it was her sheer anger that kept her alive as long as she was
True but OP is also being pett I wont hurt his wedding to let the brother propose and he just did it out of spite That girlfriend was also a problem, she should have ended things earlier if she wasnt happy.
True but OP is also being pett I wont hurt his wedding to let the brother propose and he just did it out of spite That girlfriend was also a problem, she should have ended things earlier if she wasnt happy.
I hope that brother is still out here seeing all this content created from his selfish manchild actions. imagine if he grew up and made decisions and choices and steps in his life instead of trying to crib off his brother?
Let's just say it's ur special day, the one day you get in which the spotlight is for you and your wife, then ur brother uses ur special day as a springboard for proposing, taking the spotlight from you on your special day
Who cares if the brother proposes on the day. It sounds as if OP just has other issues with his brother likely because he felt as if his brother was much more loved
@Business458 "It sounds like you're a misogynist. The brother was trying to trap and gaslight that poor girl. Sounds like you have issues with critical thinking and empathy for why people simply don't want to be used." This is how u sound like btw. But dumber.
I haven’t gotten married so I don’t understand, but I don’t see the big deal of proposing at it. Just do it at the end during the party. It would be cute and supportive. OP just seems like a prick to me.
30yo, lives with his parents, doesn't support them financially, is on the verge of a brakeup and wants to propose on his lil bros wedding. Damn.
People think proposing could fix their relationship. Same idiotic thinking as thinking a baby will fix the relationship
Now he'll be in his thirties, single, living with his enabling grandmother and have no one sensible willing to put up with his antics.
These Golden child enabler lines crack me up 🤣
“I don’t understand why?”
“Just do it for Dan” 🤭
that was such a classic story🤭😂
@@palakrcdo it for Dan is a story almost all redditors have heard, lmao 😂😂
D o I t f o r d a n
Do it for dan story is the first one I watched. And now I'm hooked at these stories! 😂😂😂
Dan is iconic ngl
'I need to propose perfectly because she might leave me soon!'
So... don't propose, then? Marrying when the relationship is on the verge of collapse is stupid as hell
Same energy as having a baby to ‘fix’ a relationship
parents of a golden child having a wake up call in a short period of time and even apologize?! This has to be a fever dream!
It's real. XO Stories covered this one a while back and they mostly do AITA stuff.
I was coming here to say the same thing
Ofc thy do, who wanna say no to 500$ free check per month whn thy hav mortgage loan to pay.
The idea of a 30yo manchild calling his grandmother to fight his battles is hilarious.
Anyway, here are some missing updates:
OP's wedding was a success. Grandma tried to attend, but security stopped her. This, coupled with everyone excluding her, caused her to spiral out of control and turn her narcissism and anger on the only remaining outlet - the brother. She even attacked him and spent some days in a cell.
The brother sent OP a letter, apologizing for some things but still blaming him for everything, mainly for the way grandma is treating him now and for the parents not letting him back in their house, and complaining about being uninvited to the wedding. Still a spoiled manchild who takes no accountability, though now he's looking for a new place to live.
The parents are fine, still crawling out of their financial hole. OP's honeymoon also went smoothly.
There more after your post ruclips.net/video/Cmt6_ekGGuk/видео.html
Long story short, the brother FINALLY give a heartfelt apology to the OP as due to the Grandmother targeting hih, he get why OP felt miserable a kid for the favourtism and wanted their help to moved his stuff out of grandma plase as she refuse. She was hellbent on stopping her "favourite" grandson moving that she try to commit suicide by taking too many pills and got sent to hospital (but she thrown up most of it). Turns out she was in such a bad health (diabetes and need an oxygen mask) cos she avoided the doctors for years, she had to be put into a nursing home which only infuriate her!
She was miserable and try to get out like try to commit suicide again but overtime just gave up and didn't speak to anyone. She only peak up when the OP wife was pregnant and allow her to feel her stomach. Anyway she died from a stroke in her sleep.
With her out of everyone life, the brother did started to get better like went to therapy and helping dad with the artic (didn't had time to turned it into another room)!
Thanks for the updates
Grandma on a cell? Hahahahahahaha. Great!
@@adrianflores7269 The was another update in this channel somewhere.
Brother apologise geninue to the OP to the point he went to therapy and they reconsile.
Brother needed help moving out as he did find a place but Gramda was being an ass about it.
When attempt to moved out, the ambulance had to be called cos she attempted to end herself via pill overdose but vomited out anyway.
From the Hospital, it reveal she basically needed to be send to a nusing home cos she was diabetes and needed an oxygen tank (she refuse going to the doctor until that incident).
From the nursing home, she was a pain in the ass until she gave up some time later and became a miserable sod.
When OP wife became pregnant, she did allow the grandma to touch her stomach which she ligthen up abit.
Grandma passed away sometime later from having a stroke in her sleep.
Can you all tell me where the video with these new updates? The channel name
I'm glad OP had the confidence/balls/self respect to stand up for himself. That was a shitty thing the brother was trying to do, and the fact that he and the gramdma refuse to see it as such shows how toxic they are. I'm also glad that the parents were able to see what they'd done and start making things right. It would've been so easy for them to blame OP, but they took a step back, reflected, and realized their mistake. I wish OP and his fiance a happy wedding and marriage.
I 5think it was more realized theyed lose there 500 a month chance are theyed of stood with the golden child otherwise
@@kingthe13 I dunno, the brother was probably costing them more than the 500 was helping. The fact that they not only refused the idea, but called both the brother and the grandma makes me think this was about more than just money.
@@kingthe13 They needed the 500 a month in the first place because the golden child spent them into a hole.
Wow... parents who actually have the decency to own up to their mistakes? That's refreshing.
Don't forget, they can't afford their own mortgage payments.
It's all about money.
Can't believe he is 27 meters 😂😭
These stories come straight from the Giants above the beanstalk😭
@@SoldierOfGodwyn straight from wall maria
@@SoldierOfGodwyn Their Pronouns are Fe/Fi/Fo/Fum
Honestly, I have heard a lot of golden child stories, of parents crying when it blows up in their faces... but this is the first time that I actually think the parents are on the right track for making amends: sticking to their change, therapy, amonishing the influences, and not pretending they were on OP's side from the begining but remarking how he's been a great son for the things he's done since D-day.
Funny fact, is that it's her fault, her favorite grandson isn't married. If she didn't enable him lik a 5 year old all these years, he would've grow up a decent man and woman wouldn't run from him after a few weeks of living together and he probably would've been married or atleast engaged. The only person she can blamr is herself, lmao
Isn't this literally a regular show plot
Mordecai, you idiot…
No way really???😂
Couldn't be. No one got pulled into an alternate dimension for plugging in a toaster wrong.
Rigby and his family dynamics?
Yeah, Mordecai crashed and ruined Muscle Man's wedding. Mordecai was reading a letter left by Muscleman's dead dad talking about how proud he was for getting married. Then, Mordecai made the speech about himself and accidentally used it to break up with his girlfriend CJ (the cloud lady) lmao
It’s so refreshing to hear a story where the OP isn’t a doormat. In fact, he was the opposite. He nipped in the bud quite fast and threw out some harsh truths to his family. This helped his mom and dad see the error in their ways, while also cutting out the toxic grandma and brother. OP dealt with this situation with flying colors!
I love the ‘I 25 meters’, you should also do it for women ‘I 25 feet’
must be a pain to be 25 meters tall
With people who constantly pull the “I just don’t understand why…” when you know they fully understand, you can always pivot to a point of that they don’t need to understand your point of view, it’s not your job to persuade them, they just need to respect it if they care about you. Those types of people are trying to exhaust you in an argument by making you repeat yourself over and over and then ultimately make you doubt the validity of your own position.
There's more updates to this story.
Before Wedding: Op's grandmother went mental. She went and attacked his brother, since she didnt have a scapegoat anymore, he was her target now. Police was called by the neighbor and she was taken to a psyche hold. Parents visited but she still blames op for everything, but mom shut that down. Brother stayed at grandmother's place while she was away, never visited.
Wedding: everything went smoothly, but grandma did try to get in after she got out the hold. Drove 200 miles and yet was denied entry by the guards, was threatened with police but she left. Brother sent op a text with half apologies and half blaming him for uninviting grandmother and making her lose her temper.
After Wedding: Brother asked to move back in with parents but they said no and he cried and down booze the whole night at the parents place. Dad kicked him out and said if he doesnt apologize to op, he will be no longer considered a son. After a few days he came with a letter apologizing how he is a shetty person and a shitter brother.
Finale: Brother asked his parents and op to help move him as he is apartment hunting but said no. He had to call movers and police becuz grandma wouldnt let the movers in and threatened to unalive herself. After brother left, grandma actually downed pills and called police, she threw up the pills and the doctors pumped her anyways to be sure; they ran tests and found many problems: kidney function low, lung problems, diabetes. She avoided doctors her whole life.
Parents moved her into a care home where she was treated as a child and had to wear an oxygen mask 24/7. She played the victim card hard with the parents to have her taken back home as she is miserable there, but they said no. Soon, op's wife is expecting and that made grandma abit nicer. Soon, she died due a stroke. Nobody but mother cried at the funeral. The brother actually got help and went to therapy and has improved alot.
There were two more updates
This story had more updates.
THE WAY I GASPED WHEN HE ADMITTED TO MAKING HIS GMA CRY LMAO
Why do they never bring up the last part ? When did grandma dies?
I'm impressed with his parents. In the stories like this, the parents never take responsibility for their favoritism. It took their son nearly bankrupting them, but at least now they have a chance to develop a better relationship with OP. Grandma, though, is a real peach, totally delulu!
Parents aren't so clean themselves... They didn't paid of OP College fund.. took a loan to pay brother college.. thn he drop out... Whn OP said he gonna Stop paying 500$ per month, thn they realised they hav another son.
It’s Ops and his wife’s wedding. Their wedding their rules. And proposing at someone else’s wedding is majorly disrespectful towards the bride and groom as it’s their day.
The parents got a redemption ark, those are always the greatest parts of these videos.
Comprehension is not a prerequisite of cooperation is the perfect retort to the grandmas i don't understand bs.
Imagine id he had never asked and just proposed at his brother wedding anyway just to get a a,"no" 💀
There is at least one more update to this story. The abridged version is that it's trouble in paradise between the narcissistic brother and grandmother, as both began going at each other. Not surprising, since narcissists absolutely cannot stand not being the "alpha", so when you have two of them under the same roof, it was only a matter of time before one tried to pull BS to control the other.
i keep watching all these stories thinking "Man I thought my family was dysfunctional."
Yo these people are huge, 27 meters?!
Personally I don't see anything wrong with a 30 year old still living with parents I should know because I have older siblings who are in their 30s and haven't move out yet but not supporting the parents financially that's a red flag
Wait, this isn't the whole story. There is more to it.
Toxic family: "I just don't understand." What OP should have said: "You don't need to understand, nor will I explain why. You just need to listen and follow directions. If you can't, then you can't come."
The fact that grandma STILL said she just "doesn't understand" even after reading about OP roasting her for continuing to say that exact thing is effing HILARIOUS.
But when grandmother dies? Would he be mad if he doesn't get any inheritance?.
I'm surprised this guy didn't try to get her pregnant. Marriage and babies only amplify what's already there. If miserable then more miserable. At least he asked. I'm sure he did it so they could tell someone to put the spotlight on him and dj play a certain song.
My gradma was very similar. She had clear bias of her kids and her daughters were the golden childs while boys were basically nothing. She would favor the grandchildren from daughters side while badmouthing the son's children.
One of my uncles children has down syndrome and she basically blamed it on the mother's gene's even tho she and granpa were cousins
My dad basically cut all contacts with her when she started talk shit about me and my mother.
For over 10 years we didn't go to see her untill the aunts convinced my dad that she is remorseful and that he should come to visit since grandpa was in bad shape from Alzheimer. I think she started to have a change of heart when grandpa had to be taken to care home and she started to notice even her mortality and wanted to fix relationships
She had many illnesses and it became a joke that it was her sheer anger that kept her alive as long as she was
I would have been unforgiving for when his mom and dad . Finally seen the real goood son and not the favorite.
i'd say "if you wanna propose at my wedding then you can pay for the party (reception)"
Grandma catches wind of the reddit post exposing her catchphrase and she goest to the parents to let them know she doesnt understand why
No wonder him and grandma get along because they are the same.
this is what happens when you treat one child better and fells like the parents only siding with op to not look bad but that's just how i see it
True but OP is also being pett
I wont hurt his wedding to let the brother propose and he just did it out of spite
That girlfriend was also a problem, she should have ended things earlier if she wasnt happy.
True but OP is also being pett
I wont hurt his wedding to let the brother propose and he just did it out of spite
That girlfriend was also a problem, she should have ended things earlier if she wasnt happy.
I forgot his brother was older than OP for a second.
Why didn’t you post all the updates?
1st
Where can I find this in Reddit
Grandma has room temp IQ
3rd
27 meters is crazy
2nd
I hope that brother is still out here seeing all this content created from his selfish manchild actions. imagine if he grew up and made decisions and choices and steps in his life instead of trying to crib off his brother?
So the reason why OP's grandmother favored his brother was because he was older. . .
I don’t understand why people pick up the phone for toxic people. Do they like to listen to BS
there should be a drinking game of every time it says meters instead of male eh on the other you be dead in 2 seconds
Banana
what's the problem in allowing your brother to propose ? is it wrong to celebrate a major milestone and share happiness with your brother ?
Let's just say it's ur special day, the one day you get in which the spotlight is for you and your wife, then ur brother uses ur special day as a springboard for proposing, taking the spotlight from you on your special day
Who cares if the brother proposes on the day.
It sounds as if OP just has other issues with his brother likely because he felt as if his brother was much more loved
@Business458
"It sounds like you're a misogynist. The brother was trying to trap and gaslight that poor girl. Sounds like you have issues with critical thinking and empathy for why people simply don't want to be used."
This is how u sound like btw. But dumber.
I haven’t gotten married so I don’t understand, but I don’t see the big deal of proposing at it. Just do it at the end during the party. It would be cute and supportive. OP just seems like a prick to me.
ya im not buying this fake a ss story