DATING YOUNGER MEN, MAKING FRIENDS AS AN ADULT, BOOKS + FIRST DAUGHTER WAHALA...ETC | LET'S CHAT
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
- #dimmaumeh #jolaayeye #iswis #q&a
Hey loves,
In this video, I chat with my friend Jola Ayeye and we answer some very important questions about dating, friendships, books, birth order, money and so much more. FYI we shot this video at the end of 2022.
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- Jola's Channel - bit.ly/3ArWDtM
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RECOMMENDED BOOKS
- Daily Weds Destiny - amzn.to/3ElYnpE
- Lessons in Chemistry - amzn.to/3EiUxh3
- Of this our Country - amzn.to/3EMAmt2
- Half of a Yellow sun - amzn.to/3TJRUKQ
- Purple Hibiscus - amzn.to/3US9ihU
ROMANCE AUTHORS
- Lisa Kleypas
- Tessa Dare
- Judith McNaught
“Look at the birds: they do not sow seeds, gather a harvest and put it in barns; yet your Father in heaven takes care of them! Aren't you worth much more than birds?” Matthew 6:26
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Jola’s sincerity about her faith journey is honestly refreshing and remarkable. I pray you find the answers you seek and be fully convinced of your faith in Christ Jesus.
As an ISWIS and Dimma fan, I stan, re-stan, understand and over-stan this combo!!!!
Lezz have itttt🎉
Sameeeee girl ❤😂
I Paki-stan sef😭😂
Best in comment 💯
Jola and Dinma. .woooooosh
here for all it
The way I ran to RUclips the minute I saw this notification,my slippers almost cut😩,I'm sweating seriously from the race😩😂😂
😂oh waoo
😂😂😂
We need to win best in running. Tobi must be shaking wherever she is 😂😂
Can relate 😂😂😂
😭😭😭😂😂😂
Hmmm.. I have struggled with my faith too. I'm an only child, lost my dad when I was 13 and my mum when I was 23. For so long I didn't know how to relate with God. I felt like the least favourite of HIS children. I just could not understand the trajectory of my life, couldn't open my bible, hardly prayed.. Felt so alone.. Few years ago I started doubting the existence of God literally, but out of HIS bowel of compassion, HE allowed me come across messages by Apostle Joshua Selman and gradually I began to find Him again. I'm not where I want to be in my relationship and intimacy with God but I'm in a far better place, and I trust God to get better as I go.
I genuinely pray for everyone to find God and have all their burning questions answered because one thing I know is that there is an answer to every puzzle about our loving God
This gives such elder sister vibes and my God the insight. Jola is so eloquent. This was a match made in heaven.
I didn't want this to end. Jola is so articulate. And it's so obvious you both genuinely like each other ❤️❤️❤️
Me too😪
I love how Jola composes herself, speaks so calmly but clearly. Totally enjoyed this chat.
Jola seems so authentic and original. There’s something about her that keeps drawing me to her. Really enjoyed this episode!
Jola was preaching. Nigerians don't understand simplicity and contentment. Dimma is also right about how lookism is a big deal, especially in Lagos...they call it "packaging".
Lagos and Packaging 🤝🏾😅
I really like how Jola articulates her thoughts 😊
Very true!!!
It's so difficult building female friendships in adulthood. At this stage, I am open to who is open to me.
True
So true
True..
📌📌📌
Exactly
Jola and Dimma a combo I never knew I needed 😩😩
Me too.
This thing about Jola being so bold is one of the so many reasons I love herrr. My queen fr
Same 😂😂🥺🧡
Same here😂😂😂
Two of my faves!! I kept smiling and cackling during this episode. Jola is such a bibliophile, it makes sense that she's so articulate as well. I want to be like her when I grow up lmaooo. I'm so happy to see you laugh out loud and have a good time on camera, Dimma. Isn't the Lord so good!!
They spoke absolute truth through out... Jola spoke a lot of sense when she spoke about Nigerian youths not being contented and wanting to live a luxurious life
Dinma broke the table that all these gals are standing on 😂😂
Loved this, more of Jola please and more advice on life, I need them, I’m 21 and sometimes I let these things social media project make me feel inferior 😅, but hearing things like this from time to time, helps alot
I thoroughly enjoyed this team up. It was so fun and insightful. Thank you for the book recommendations as well. I've been reading a lot of self help books and sometimes they can become a tad bit heavy. So I'm looking forward to exploring the Romance genre again. I used to love reading Harlequin Romance when I was younger, so I'm sure it'll be really nostalgic but also different.
In terms of friendships, you are both right, but you especially hit the nail on the head with appreciating the friends we already have. Anyways this was such a treat! Thank you both.
This was such a good watch….thank you dinma and Jollz!!!!❤️
so excited for this!!!! This was so nice to watch
Love love love love love this episode. Learnt alot and you guys preached! Thank youuuuu. Never knew I needed this duo so much!
Thank you Dim Dim and Jollz for this chat. Its very soothing when you hear people that share your struggles too
This video is soooooo enjoyable! Thank you, DimDim. Thank you Jollz!❤😂
Jola and Dinma pls do more of this I so much love this combo like I literally don’t want it to end 😊
I haven’t even started watching but I’m just so excited to see Jollz on the thumbnail 💃🏾💃🏾
This felt like therapy especially the money talk. I have honestly never cared about how my life looks, I’m more invested in making it feel good. Love this video. Thank you♥️
I absolutely love listening to women talk and this gave all it was supposed to give. So insightful and refreshing. I’ll always stan.
I could literally watch these two talk all day. I love this video a lot ❤️❤️❤️
Wow!!!
I feel like I'll keep coming back to this video.
It was so insightful and fun! The energy 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love this video so much. From the genuine love I can see between you two, to how much I relate to Jola’s faith-vs-unbelief situation. Keep ‘em coming, Dimma! 😁❤️
ISWIS & Dimma gang member let us gather & mark ✍🏽 attendance🫶🏾
Aaahhhh, chief enjoyer has graced us with her presence. I already love it 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’ve been waiting for this since Dimma’s first time on ISWIS 🎉❤❤❤❤! Let’s go🥂
Can't express how much I love this Video! Keep coming back to it!
Am a huge fan, love how real you are Dims.
Also love how coordinate and profound this video is, especially with every response.
Honestly, I didn't want this video to end but I'm glad you made this. It was really insightful and both of you make great friends
This is the best realistic and relatable Q&A I have ever watched. Loved and enjoyed this soooo much. The rawness,reality and truth!
Oh Jola and Dimma are so articulate. This video was so relaxing.
Yesssssssss. Jola is so bold and I love it so much. So assertive, bold, truthful. I love it so much
Everything Jola and Dimma said about faith, felt. This was such a lovely time❤️
The video quality is so impeccable. Listening and staring at his beautiful both of you look .
The grown-up content I didn't know I needed. But absolutely devoured. As always, Ms Dimma you're a delight to watch and listen. Ms Jola, get on RUclips again!!!!!!
OMG!!!! The collaboration we have all been waiting for :D
This was such a fun and insightful watch! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don’t know how but I know that what y’all both said about what you liked about each other is true. I get that exact intuition from watching, listening and reading from each of you. You both are beautiful in your own unique ways❤❤
“Jola or Jollz whatever you want to call me is fine”happy noise maker OG🤲🏾🤲🏾
This was such a fun watch🤩
I love listening to you ladies talk❤️
My faves together yes please !!!😩I didn’t want this video to end , hope for another real soon ❤
My two faves in a video! Mad oh! I honestly really loved this! I’ve always thought Jola was funny but I feel like this is the first time I’ve gotten an insight into who you are! I am shameless stanning here.
I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed listening to two people talk 🥺, soo much insight 🥰🥰🥰…. More please 🙏🏽
I didn’t realize I would love to see and hear Jola speaking so much. I resonate with everything she said.
Watching Dimma is always like a breath of fresh air.
The way I screamed when I saw the cover😍. My two faves!🫶🏽
This was so interesting and I didn’t want it to end😢 Jola has a really beautiful skin and she’s very articulate ❤
❤❤❤ I don’t even have the words to describe how this video made me feel. Two of my favorite ever.
I’m so glad they made time stamps make it so easy to watch.
I really enjoyed this! 🥰 That age gap conversation had all the jokes we needed! 🤣
Jola is actually so brave. I see myself in Jola so much. So so graceful with it.
OMG! Jola and Dimma! 😍😍
My day has been made! ❤❤
A friendship with genuine admiration for each other, it’s beautiful to see ❤
I love all your sit down videos.
They’re always so interesting ❤
This was really fun to watch. And Jola is so eloquent
I really enjoyed it. Jola really has the gift of speech. Heading over to your podcast 🏃♂️
This video was actually so insightful. Enjoyed it way too much 🥰
Since I was younger I hardly had more than 2 or 3 friends. As an adult I have 3 very good friends that I love. I realized having a small but genuine circle saved me from a lot of things. 💕
My Dim Dim
Biko be giving us the length, I can’t get tired of listening to you ever ❤️
The scream that I scum! My favs ❤️ and y’all gave us 53mins! God bless you!
I honestly have waited so long for this collab🙌🏾 two faves❤
Omo Jola is so deep 😍😍😍 Cheers to quality friendships. 🥂
I loved this too much; mature, fun and well thought out view points
This is my third time watching Dinma's content but i subscribed from the first view. I have to say I really love this. So much truth, originality, take-homes, so much to think about. This Q&A broadened my scpectrum. Your POVs are so amazing. I LOVEEEEE JOLA. I love Dinma too. Oh my i really love. Your truths, the energy, the friendship. I love you girls for you girls.
As someone who's not active on SM, I only heard about Jola during endsars, but I'm just getting to put a face to name. She's such a lovely and relatable lady.
Dimma’s description of Jolla’s bravery is how I’ve felt about her since I started following her on Twitter. She is truly a role model to me
Finally!!! We’ve been waiting for this episode!!
A whole 53 plus minutes of chit-chat with Dimmah and her friend Jola. Ain't we lucky guys?
We are ❤️❤️
We areeee
Jola is always in the corner!!! I didn’t know I needed this. You two are absolutely amazing. If you want more of this go and listen to i said what i said podcast.
I feel so seen. I knew I could not be the only one who felt what I felt when I read of this
our country. Normally I wouldn’t read the authors name till I finish the short story, but from the very first sentence I knew it was our sister, our Aunty, our author Chimamanda. I had to close to book after her story. Nothing was going to come close to the way she captured Lagos. It took me two days to come back to the book.
I loved every single aspect of this video. Didn’t feel like 53 minutes at all. Thank you Dimma for this Gem. Especially the part about finances and “struggling” in your 20’s. It’s so easy to lose sight of that.
Gosh this was so funnn! 🥰. I wanted to watch for 20-30 mins but ended up watching till the end and even replaying some scenes like 3 times.
I really enjoyed all the insights from the both of you.
Thank you 😂🤩
this has to be my favorite video now.i loved everv bit of it sha
This was such a fun & insightful watch.
Thank you both ☺️
Jollzzzzzzzzz … I resonate with everything you said and I admire your self awareness so much
ISWIS to the worlddddddd
Really loved this video, it’s hard to find realistic content these days. I love how real this video was. Shoutout to Jola❤❤
I had no idea how much I needed this collab until now😂😂. Two of my favourite people ❤️
I love the honesty of Jola in her reaction to spirituality because that is how I feel and Dinma is a wealth of knowledge. Love the combo of these two powerhouses ❤❤🎉
I admire these ladies alot! Dimma for her put together life, and Jola for her eloquence and her speaking in the face of authority.
This just reminds me of an episode on submaroach where Bolu Jola's brother spoke about Jola and it is exactly as Dimma said it. Jola is so passionate about societal issues, and if she decides to ever go into politics she has my support.
Clicked immediately! Love you both
I honestly didn't want the video to end. It was really insightful. Thank you guys.
This Jola is making so much sense. Contentment is essential
Thank you Jola! Purple hibiscus is my favourite book ever
I've read it a million times
Jola is hereeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you DimDim!!!
Jola!!!! The eloquence is articulate-ing. what!!! Dimma!!! The beauty is electrify-ing.What!!!!
What time is it? It’s DIMMA time 😍😍 ran here with the speed of light 🥰🥰🥰👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Oh my goodness, when the 'dating in the 30s' question popped, I literally started the "hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm" song 😂😂😂😂😂Jola, my babe, she never disappoints.
Love you both so much
#ISWIS fan
So so enlightening❤ You both look great! Half of the yellow sun is also my favorite book by Chimamanda 🤩
This was so beautiful to watch. I actually didn’t want it to end at all. Dimma was right, it was also very insightful. Currently a broke 20-something so I know there’s hope for me
Jola's voice 😩😩😩❤️. She is also so pretty and has this calm look. I loved this chitchat and I didn't even realize it was almost an hour because it was so interesting to watch. Heading over to ISWIS series😘
Omo, I love this and I'm continuing with this series cause I was feeling all I can't talk about but just watching this shifted my paradigm, thanks❤
Jola is so amazing 😊😊. I love her already. This was very entertaining and enlightening. Please bring Jola back oh Dim Dim😂
OMG!!! I had a great time watching this. I even paused at some point to get some ice cream because I was having such a good time. Both of you seem to share similar values and beliefs and I think that is an important ingredient in friendships. I love how playful you both are with each other.
Also, how Jola articulated about people trying to "contentify" their lives and friendships is very apt. I think it's really sad to know that people are focused more on how their circle is perceived by others than if they are actually building a great quality/wholesome circle/friendships. I love what Dimma said about focusing on the genuine friendships you have even if they world doesn't see it. I honestly do not think these things need to be publicised to be genuine.
What all these points to is the need for social validation. Because in my opinion, resisting pressure especially in our late 20s/early 30s should be a walk in the park, if not for the need for validation and "acceptance" by people whose opinion should not matter.
I'm looking to read Chimamanda's books this year; will start with Half of a Yellow Sun.
Sending you both love.
This video is packed with vital information for young adults. I'm very grateful I watched this, learned from it, and I'm inspired by it. Thank you Dimma and Jola.
I enjoyed this so so much!!
Listening to Jola gave me goosebumps... loved this discussion so much!
The most anticipated YT collabo!! To say I enjoyed this video is to say the least tbh! We need a Part 2!! Jolas vibe is unmatched😄 Your individual takes on friendships, life and finances was spot on.. Oh and the part where you both described yourselves, more like two peas in a pod🥹🫶🏼
The friendship between you two is so admirable(Bursts of emotions, tears and laughter while watching esp at the end😂) I hope I find a soul friendship like this soon!!❤️
I hope I do too😄