Message well received. There are several quotes to live by....1) Stop trying to figure out something that you didnt cause..stop breaking yourself down into bite size pieces to serve others, stay whole and let them choke. ..2)How people treat you is on them, how you react is on you..You are not what happened to you, you are what you choose to become..3) Forget what hurt you,but never forget what it taught you..If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, him,or her because everything you hate is engraved upon your heart..4) The best revenge is to show them that your life is much better with them gone.
I needed to hear this.. Never hurt someone who’s never hurt you, you will feel it 10x worst. That’s why I’m careful how I treat people. I have moved myself from those who have hurt me to the core.
I've been there too, but God has bought me a mighty long way. I will never do anyone like I've been done. I do believe in we reap what we sow. I want my blessings.
I understand and know how to treat people, but I recently left a relationship that hurt me to my core, and I'm trying to get over it, and let it go. I really am, but its really hard and I want revenge REALLY bad. I know that its not okay to hold grudges, but I'm struggling with this, because I was good to him, and treated him like a King, and he didn't care about me at ALL, and really did me dirty!!😡😡😡😡😰😰😰
Elaine Gomillion revenge will only hurt you at the end.. so, let God seek that revenge for you. It’s goin to hurt for awhile but use that strength that you have and take your life back. I been there just recently and every time I get to that place I look at my kids ..
I'm a nurse and I took care of an 89 year old woman who tripped and fell on her face, the facial trauma was horrendous, unrecognizable from purple bruising, but she was ok, no closed head injury nor neurological defiicits. She giggled when we talked I say look at you after such a traumatic fall, but you can still laugh and smile. She says if I don't laugh I will cry. She was a sharp, fun, and funny! Joyous woman I was so blessed to meet her and experience her light. She didn't feel sorry for herself and kept me smiling and laughing all day in spite of my job being challenging. I was blessed to be in the right time and place to meet her Great sermon Tony thank you
I didn't know how to get up from the Pain. I Pray I screamed I shout I got down right pissed the hell off, because I was tired of wasting time. Then God sent you Sir approx 1-2 months ago. Ive stopped talking to the x husband completely, because one day God spoke through you straight to my ears and gave me instruction on what to do and how to move. Everyday is a day of survival of not picking up the phone and calling him. Everyday is a survival putting those thoughts up under subjections. Everyday is a new day to push forward and do has God told me 7byears ago Dont Look Back. I did and yes I became a pillar of salt stuck right there in that place. God has shown me and released me again. Mr. Tony im moving with intent to speak and help another survive the bitter pain of rejection rebellion regret rewritten there story because my is now been rewritten.Much love Sir. You are the real deal out here in this world of hurt and pain
Thank you for sharing your story Wanda. Praise God. I feel the same way about my own pain I've gone through. I too rejoiced in the Lord knowing that he led me to Tony's videos. I left my ex as well, was wasting my time. 11yrs. I said, I knew this was not from the Lord yet I stayed.but then I said not today satan! I will surve my Lord Jesus with purpose from now on. Amen. I'm so happy that more women are seeing their worth and turning that pain to purpose. Stay blessed.
Short,sweet and to the point. This video may have only been 24min long but it was packed with so much truth all I could do was say "yassssss" to everything you were saying .
Hello Mr. Gaskins! This Sunday sermon put the icing on the cake. When I first discovered you about 5 months ago, I was a victim & I never thought I would be a victim. Since then, I have never missed a video or a live because each video & live brought me closer to my healing & deliverance. Now, I am completely healed, whole & a victor! Currently, I am reaching back & sowing everything you sowed into me & others into victims & watching them become victors. You are God sent & if one listens to you & follows what you say-one will be healed-men & women both. I am a witness. Thanks a trillion because before meeting you-I was in complete darkness & now I have embraced the marvelous light & I am still “STANDING!” No one told me about you, God pointed me to you & your beautiful wife through You Tube... P.S. Life changing & God sent message!!!
I prayed about it. God revealed who I was dealing with, and he set me free. I'm beginning to look around, see my blessings, and be more grateful for what I have worked so hard for in life. I got my joy back. (Find myself singing and dancing around the house...Covid 19😒). But still! Lol I'm also greatful that I listened when felt God saying to me, "This is sub-standard for your life." You had alot to do with my initial healing process Tony Gaskins. When you talked about "privacy vs secrecy", and so many other important topics you discussed, I got a fresh and real perspective on what is really going on out here. The way it ended was manipulated and contrived from the beginning, and I accept all of it so that I can move on. Thanks for opening my mind up about it all. The icing on the cake for me is that I have a second chance at actually experiencing real love. When it comes to this stuff, my personal advice would be to listen to God and then listen to Tony everyone. I promise it gets better y'all. Hang in there.💗💚
You can only help a person who wants to be helped, not a person who would use the opportunity to use you. In that case, you would be the one who would end up in need of help.
Thank you Sir Tony!!!👍👍👍 I'm trying to completely heal from a very taxic marriage of 31 years. We were together for 36 years and I'm disabled from his abuse. Then he abused me through the court system and I got almost nothing. I live with my narrisst parents!!! Its hard to heal when your still getting abused and triggered by narrisst but God will heal me completely!!! I thank God for that and and thank you for your word!!!❤❤❤
Thank you Tony. I will never be a victim again. I have learned and changed for the better. I’ve received my karma and honestly i deserved it. Do not cast your anger for the past on others. Be pure. People love you. You truly reap what you sew.
Love this video! Even though my ex who is very broken, tried to break me, i left but i still pray for him. I don’t like him but i loved him. I pray for all who suffer, because I understand and have suffered myself. I am whole now and able to offer kindness, compassion and understanding to anyone. Boy I am blessed! 🙌🙏🏻
I’m so glad I had that notification on 22 seconds after it dropped just what I needed to start my week and month off on a new mindset! Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🔥mess to a message
Great Sunday sermon. I had to remove myself from an ex who goes to my church. The relationship ended over 20 years ago yet he’s still holding a grudge. Also still angry at me for not answering my phone a few years ago even though I was asleep. Now what sense does that make. He pretended to be a church friend but still throwing that in my face with anger. Lord help him.
I, last month, started to remember a past that I wanted to forget and to hide from myself. And that hurted, but it helped me realize certain behaviors of mine and why I am how I am and why I do what I do or why I think the way I do...wich is what you need to do to change. I stayed in a victim place for a couple of weeks, then I gave myself compassion and I tryed to understand those who have hurted me and to accept what has happen. Now I know that the past doesn't have to define me. I'm trying to be happy again, and it's kinda working. I Still have a lot of things to work on, but I'm much better than I was, less bitter and more open. Allow yourself to be vulnerable but don't be a victim, take accountability and allow yourself to fail at the same time. Take action, but know that this is not gonna happen over a night. Once we're healed and on a healthy place, we will be able to help others. Its our responsibility to do that, at least that's what I think. I can't be waiting on people to be how I want them to if I'm not even willing to help them to do so. But now focus on your problems, then...try to help someone fix their problems. Helping people can be a distraction from helping yourself.
If I didn't know what it hurt like to be broken Then how would I know what it feels like to be whole If I didn't know what the cut's like to be rejected Then I wouldn't know that Your love coming home Maybe it's okay if I'm not okay 'Cause the One who holds the world is holding onto me Maybe it's all right if I'm not all right 'Cause the One who holds the stars is holding my whole life Borrowed from We Are Messengers Be blessed
Amen! I needed this reminder cuz lately I’ve been in a bit of a funk. I know that I am valuable and I can help people so I need to shift my energy to make it happen for myself and others. Thank you Tony
Thank you Tony. Blessings to you. This needed to be said. I don't know if you realize how much God is using you. I mean the Lord spoke through you directly to me. God is working on me. But I struggled recently. Because the enemy was trying to make me bitter based off of things that I have experienced. Trying to convince me that mindset was to protect me. But he is a lie. I know now that I'm an Empath, and I wasn't always using the gift God gave me properly. Lord help me/us to release our pain and hurt over to you in Jesus name. So we can do what you called and created us to do. Be blessed and encouraged in the Lord everyone.
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for that Sunday message. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. You are truly helping me. God bless you and continue to bless the ones who want to hear the word.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Tony I've played the victim way to long. Listening this morning I didn't realize that how I've been showing up. Im no one victim. Im a Fearfully and Wonderfully Made Child of God, who see today this is my Exodus July 7,2020 starting over again. Focusing on being intentional of being intentional. Thank you Sir.
I have removed myself from a few people. I will never forgive those ppl who back stabbed me when l have supported them when they were going through things!They will never have my support IN LIFE!!! I don't weaponize my pain on others . I recognize the real from the fake. I support those who l see deserve it.
Thank you tony, so much! this resonated with me and made me cry because its true and it is from god, and helps me to continue to work on myself and to help my significant other by allowing him to work on himself at his pace
This video was for me I learned you have to look at everything as lesson you go threw sometimes it is hard to look at the pain one thing learned is pain that you've gone threw sometimes makes you stronger as person
Delivered! Thank you TG. This message was confirmation I'm on the right path. I released the pain and let God carry my pain for me. Because without God I would be nothing. All Glory to God.
Many people think that they have to be in a pulpit to share truth, but here is an example of how God can use you to bring Glory to His Kingdom. To God be all the Glory and thank you for this message.
Yes Yes Tony G. Thank you so so much cause you’re telling the truth I love listening to you cause when we fall down, we can get back up again and help someone in life. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
This is a word! A lot of us has been through things and if we would just remove the fear of judgement and allow God to use us for his glory then we could touch so many others! Lord give me the boldness to open my mouth to help others as you’ve helped me. It is because of you that I am a victor and no longer a victim.
I am really enjoying these Sunday Sermons Tony. Thank you. God bless. I’ve listened to this twice while doing some chores and running errands...probably need to hear it once more. God bless Gaskins Family 🙏🏾
Great message Tony!; An on time word! Thank you for allowing the Lord to use you. You are truly a blessing to those who follow you. I am definitely turning my mess into a message and allowing my story to be used for His glory!!
Excellent message on turning your pain into purpose, recognizing your strengths and not allowing others to cause you to relapse. Rely on our Heavenly Father. Thank you!
Every word of this felt as though it was a message directly from the lord. I have found my purpose through this message. From victim to Victor God bless!
Tony even 4 years later, i would like u to knw tht this video is helping in my healing process, deciding to use this pain into purpose, with prayer & faith, although my heart feels fragmented... i bless God for u & your witness, & relationship ministry.... i listen to u almost daily fr edifying & male wisdom!!
What an encouraging Excellent way 2 move 4ward. I am NOT a victim & I have the "Victory" N Jesus Christ & He will Never abandon me!!! Blessings my 4Ever bro, Tony G...💯🙏🏾
I had to keep it moving ,the ore I showed love ,spoke with love and encouraged them did it all sleep life and all they gave me was rejection because they wanted t wallow in their pain and be a victim . they were comfortable in their mess.
Thank you Tony for this message today! I really needed this. I appreciate all that you do. I'm very emotional as I'm writing this but you are definitely GOD SENT. God bless you and your family exceedingly and abundantly. 🙏🏽❤
You have spoke to my HEART ❤ My LIFE❤ ❤ My situation in life💯 Your words of wisdom are PRICELESS! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 💙 BEAUTIFUL SUNDAY SERMON🙏💙
This was an amazing message. God bless you! I hear you! I’m putting in the work and I can’t feel bad when I need to take what is necessary to continue to heal. I need me first then I will be blessed to help others.
Bless tribe, Tony, glad to here this message. I was a victim and a test of someone else pain, and i thank God to know His living word and to speak it to my self and allowed it to give me clarity n bring me thru and out to continue to move forward n help n share my gifts with others. Tony you also have sparked my interest in mental health counseling particularly for my black population. Peace, Love n Light.
Hi Tony, can you PLEASE do a video on being in relationship with a man that have kids! Especially for women who are 40 and up! What should a balanced relationship look like with the man, the new woman, and the kids and their mother. When Timeframe when she should meet the kids and their mother, etc. I don't have any kids. I would like to hear your perspective on this topic. Thanks in advance!!! 💯 truth speaking
Idk if he can speak to that... not saying that requires real life experiences but ppl over 40 plus has to realize it goes to his self love course. When you understand yourself you know what boundaries to put into place. Being over 40 has already taught you some life lessons, but you have to acknowledge and accept them. Communication about his/ your kids has to have boundaries. His relationship with you should never feel like it's being compromised or placed on the back burner. If you express that with respect and it's not unreasonable and this the big one not coming from a totally selfish place. You also have to accept that he is co-parenting so you got to take the sidelines.If he is willing to hear you and ACT differently then there are not going to be a lot of issues. When y'all are together that's y'alls time and when he is with them that's their time. Then y'all have to set aside time all together. A man with kids can be managed when you love yourself enough to know the boundaries and what YOU are going to come to terms with. If he is great with his and your kids awesome but us 40+ see that as a means to sticking with something that ain't working in your spirit. It's hard for us out here that are over 40 dating and marrying into set families but self love goes both ways. He has to love himself not just as a great father but a overall great man. I know great fathers who suck in relationships. So I'm saying all that to say is love yourself, communicate your feelings and above all you and him demand the respect of the boundaries you all have discussed and agreed on. When you love yourself the truth speaks to you with clarity. Tony's self love university is the best. Sometimes I play it just as a little reminder to follow the steps I placed on myself. Good luck and Be blessed The struggle is real for us. Stay in encouraged and enlightened ❤
I am not a victim. I am bold as a lion, gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent.
Blessings!!!!💪💕
Hi
Decision made... I am no longer a victim!
That simple choice is the difference between success and failure
Message well received. There are several quotes to live by....1) Stop trying to figure out something that you didnt cause..stop breaking yourself down into bite size pieces to serve others, stay whole and let them choke. ..2)How people treat you is on them, how you react is on you..You are not what happened to you, you are what you choose to become..3) Forget what hurt you,but never forget what it taught you..If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, him,or her because everything you hate is engraved upon your heart..4) The best revenge is to show them that your life is much better with them gone.
Everything u said is 💯💯
Thank you
Yep ✅
Lord, now I see that it was not my fault, but it is my responsibility, how I respond to the situation 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Thank you Tony 🙏🏾
I needed to hear this.. Never hurt someone who’s never hurt you, you will feel it 10x worst. That’s why I’m careful how I treat people. I have moved myself from those who have hurt me to the core.
I've been there too, but God has bought me a mighty long way. I will never do anyone like I've been done. I do believe in we reap what we sow. I want my blessings.
Marie Walton amen
I understand and know how to treat people, but I recently left a relationship that hurt me to my core, and I'm trying to get over it, and let it go. I really am, but its really hard and I want revenge REALLY bad. I know that its not okay to hold grudges, but I'm struggling with this, because I was good to him, and treated him like a King, and he didn't care about me at ALL, and really did me dirty!!😡😡😡😡😰😰😰
Elaine Gomillion revenge will only hurt you at the end.. so, let God seek that revenge for you. It’s goin to hurt for awhile but use that strength that you have and take your life back. I been there just recently and every time I get to that place I look at my kids ..
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Thank you
The title was enough for me ....and the first few words They will weep what they sow spoke to me ...I always say "I'm not bitter but better".
So true, as long as you have breath in your body, you have a chance to change your life and touch someone else's! 💎🙌🏾
I'm a nurse and I took care of an 89 year old woman who tripped and fell on her face, the facial trauma was horrendous, unrecognizable from purple bruising, but she was ok, no closed head injury nor neurological defiicits. She giggled when we talked I say look at you after such a traumatic fall, but you can still laugh and smile.
She says if I don't laugh I will cry. She was a sharp, fun, and funny! Joyous woman I was so blessed to meet her and experience her light. She didn't feel sorry for herself and kept me smiling and laughing all day in spite of my job being challenging. I was blessed to be in the right time and place to meet her
Great sermon Tony thank you
I didn't know how to get up from the Pain. I Pray I screamed I shout I got down right pissed the hell off, because I was tired of wasting time. Then God sent you Sir approx 1-2 months ago. Ive stopped talking to the x husband completely, because one day God spoke through you straight to my ears and gave me instruction on what to do and how to move. Everyday is a day of survival of not picking up the phone and calling him. Everyday is a survival putting those thoughts up under subjections. Everyday is a new day to push forward and do has God told me 7byears ago Dont Look Back. I did and yes I became a pillar of salt stuck right there in that place. God has shown me and released me again. Mr. Tony im moving with intent to speak and help another survive the bitter pain of rejection rebellion regret rewritten there story because my is now been rewritten.Much love Sir. You are the real deal out here in this world of hurt and pain
Thanks. You are amazing.
Thank you for sharing your story Wanda. Praise God. I feel the same way about my own pain I've gone through. I too rejoiced in the Lord knowing that he led me to Tony's videos. I left my ex as well, was wasting my time. 11yrs. I said, I knew this was not from the Lord yet I stayed.but then I said not today satan! I will surve my Lord Jesus with purpose from now on. Amen. I'm so happy that more women are seeing their worth and turning that pain to purpose. Stay blessed.
Short,sweet and to the point. This video may have only been 24min long but it was packed with so much truth all I could do was say "yassssss" to everything you were saying .
Yyyyyaaaassss Kiia🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Hello Mr. Gaskins! This Sunday sermon put the icing on the cake. When I first discovered you about 5 months ago, I was a victim & I never thought I would be a victim. Since then, I have never missed a video or a live because each video & live brought me closer to my healing & deliverance. Now, I am completely healed, whole & a victor! Currently, I am reaching back & sowing everything you sowed into me & others into victims & watching them become victors. You are God sent & if one listens to you & follows what you say-one will be healed-men & women both. I am a witness. Thanks a trillion because before meeting you-I was in complete darkness & now I have embraced the marvelous light & I am still “STANDING!” No one told me about you, God pointed me to you & your beautiful wife through You Tube...
P.S.
Life changing & God sent message!!!
Turning Pain to Power!!!!
"I'm gonna turn that mess into a message." Tony, I love that. You are wise beyond your years, a real old soul. God bless you.
I choose to be a victor because my children deserves a healthy mother.
Let’s get it with the Sunday sermon 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I prayed about it. God revealed who I was dealing with, and he set me free. I'm beginning to look around, see my blessings, and be more grateful for what I have worked so hard for in life. I got my joy back. (Find myself singing and dancing around the house...Covid 19😒). But still! Lol I'm also greatful that I listened when felt God saying to me, "This is sub-standard for your life." You had alot to do with my initial healing process Tony Gaskins. When you talked about "privacy vs secrecy", and so many other important topics you discussed, I got a fresh and real perspective on what is really going on out here. The way it ended was manipulated and contrived from the beginning, and I accept all of it so that I can move on. Thanks for opening my mind up about it all. The icing on the cake for me is that I have a second chance at actually experiencing real love. When it comes to this stuff, my personal advice would be to listen to God and then listen to Tony everyone. I promise it gets better y'all. Hang in there.💗💚
Sow good seeds for yourself and others when you stop people who sow bad seeds by setting boundaries and taking preventive measures.
You can only help a person who wants to be helped, not a person who would use the opportunity to use you. In that case, you would be the one who would end up in need of help.
@Eternity With Christ Hear, hear!
I am a victor still healing I'm still on the path with God 🙏
Thank you Sir Tony!!!👍👍👍 I'm trying to completely heal from a very taxic marriage of 31 years. We were together for 36 years and I'm disabled from his abuse. Then he abused me through the court system and I got almost nothing. I live with my narrisst parents!!! Its hard to heal when your still getting abused and triggered by narrisst but God will heal me completely!!! I thank God for that and and thank you for your word!!!❤❤❤
Ooo Lord “ CAST MY CARES ON THE LORD “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😩 Jesus. Come on Tony !
This just changed my whole 2020.
Can’t thank you enough.
Thank you Tony. I will never be a victim again. I have learned and changed for the better. I’ve received my karma and honestly i deserved it. Do not cast your anger for the past on others. Be pure. People love you. You truly reap what you sew.
I had to understand feel what I feel go through it cry, scream, kick,but I can not stay in it, I must move forward.
Love this video! Even though my ex who is very broken, tried to break me, i left but i still pray for him. I don’t like him but i loved him. I pray for all who suffer, because I understand and have suffered myself. I am whole now and able to offer kindness, compassion and understanding to anyone. Boy I am blessed! 🙌🙏🏻
I’m so glad I had that notification on 22 seconds after it dropped just what I needed to start my week and month off on a new mindset! Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🔥mess to a message
Great Sunday sermon. I had to remove myself from an ex who goes to my church. The relationship ended over 20 years ago yet he’s still holding a grudge. Also still angry at me for not answering my phone a few years ago even though I was asleep. Now what sense does that make. He pretended to be a church friend but still throwing that in my face with anger. Lord help him.
Sooo much needed wisdom! I have been a that fork in the road for a few weeks! Peace be still in my life and I'm letting go and letting God..Amen
I, last month, started to remember a past that I wanted to forget and to hide from myself. And that hurted, but it helped me realize certain behaviors of mine and why I am how I am and why I do what I do or why I think the way I do...wich is what you need to do to change.
I stayed in a victim place for a couple of weeks, then I gave myself compassion and I tryed to understand those who have hurted me and to accept what has happen. Now I know that the past doesn't have to define me. I'm trying to be happy again, and it's kinda working. I Still have a lot of things to work on, but I'm much better than I was, less bitter and more open.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable but don't be a victim, take accountability and allow yourself to fail at the same time. Take action, but know that this is not gonna happen over a night.
Once we're healed and on a healthy place, we will be able to help others. Its our responsibility to do that, at least that's what I think. I can't be waiting on people to be how I want them to if I'm not even willing to help them to do so.
But now focus on your problems, then...try to help someone fix their problems. Helping people can be a distraction from helping yourself.
Tony, great message! I am that victor and I learned this through my pain. I realize it more and more. My stories have to be shared.
"you can't change the past but what you can do is affect the future by what you decide in the present"
Right on time.😍
If I didn't know what it hurt like to be broken
Then how would I know what it feels like to be whole
If I didn't know what the cut's like to be rejected
Then I wouldn't know that Your love coming home
Maybe it's okay if I'm not okay
'Cause the One who holds the world is holding onto me
Maybe it's all right if I'm not all right
'Cause the One who holds the stars is holding my whole life
Borrowed from We Are Messengers
Be blessed
Be blessed in Jesus name !✨keep going with the best spiritually aligned talks, needed this right now !
Yup, I know a lot of ppl who hold grudges & it’s been years. Half of the stuff they remember about me, I forgot..
Amen! I needed this reminder cuz lately I’ve been in a bit of a funk. I know that I am valuable and I can help people so I need to shift my energy to make it happen for myself and others. Thank you Tony
Heart and ears open..Amen 🙏🏿
Amen! Such a inspiring message that shifted me back into perspective 🙌🏽🦋
Thank you Tony. Blessings to you. This needed to be said. I don't know if you realize how much God is using you. I mean the Lord spoke through you directly to me. God is working on me. But I struggled recently. Because the enemy was trying to make me bitter based off of things that I have experienced. Trying to convince me that mindset was to protect me. But he is a lie. I know now that I'm an Empath, and I wasn't always using the gift God gave me properly. Lord help me/us to release our pain and hurt over to you in Jesus name. So we can do what you called and created us to do. Be blessed and encouraged in the Lord everyone.
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for that Sunday message. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. You are truly helping me. God bless you and continue to bless the ones who want to hear the word.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That was real talk.
Message received and greatly appreciated!
Thank you!!!!
Tony I've played the victim way to long. Listening this morning I didn't realize that how I've been showing up. Im no one victim. Im a Fearfully and Wonderfully Made Child of God, who see today this is my Exodus
July 7,2020 starting over again. Focusing on being intentional of being intentional. Thank you Sir.
I have removed myself from a few people. I will never forgive those ppl who back stabbed me when l have supported them when they were going through things!They will never have my support IN LIFE!!! I don't weaponize my pain on others . I recognize the real from the fake. I support those who l see deserve it.
Weaponized pain..wow! That is so perfectly worded!
Thank you tony, so much! this resonated with me and made me cry because its true and it is from god, and helps me to continue to work on myself and to help my significant other by allowing him to work on himself at his pace
This was for me....amen
Stay blessed
This video was for me I learned you have to look at everything as lesson you go threw sometimes it is hard to look at the pain one thing learned is pain that you've gone threw sometimes makes you stronger as person
Amazing video! Wonderfully articulated. I just did a video on this. It's not victim blaming! It's getting yourself out of the victim state
Thank you very much! Your message here really spoke to my mind and heart.
Good night and God bless the Gaskins. ✝
I had to let him go it's hard I love him but my GOD has a better plan for me.
Happy Sunday Tony and Blessed Tribe !!
My motto.... I’m breathing! Amen & Thank you!
Wow!! This was so on point!! Thank you Tony.
Delivered! Thank you TG. This message was confirmation I'm on the right path. I released the pain and let God carry my pain for me. Because without God I would be nothing. All Glory to God.
Many people think that they have to be in a pulpit to share truth, but here is an example of how God can use you to bring Glory to His Kingdom. To God be all the Glory and thank you for this message.
Yes Yes Tony G. Thank you so so much cause you’re telling the truth I love listening to you cause when we fall down, we can get back up again and help someone in life. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Hello Blessed Tribe! Thanks for the Sunday Sermon Mr. Gaskins! Be Blessed Everybody!
This is a word! A lot of us has been through things and if we would just remove the fear of judgement and allow God to use us for his glory then we could touch so many others! Lord give me the boldness to open my mouth to help others as you’ve helped me. It is because of you that I am a victor and no longer a victim.
Thank you! I needed this.
Today's sermon was for me. Thank You Jesus!!
I am really enjoying these Sunday Sermons Tony. Thank you. God bless. I’ve listened to this twice while doing some chores and running errands...probably need to hear it once more. God bless Gaskins Family 🙏🏾
I needed to hear this today 😢
Happy Sunday!
Great message Tony!; An on time word! Thank you for allowing the Lord to use you. You are truly a blessing to those who follow you. I am definitely turning my mess into a message and allowing my story to be used for His glory!!
Very encouraging message. Once I decided to live my life like an overcomer, the strength and power of God took away any thoughts of being a victim.
You are a blessing to people thanks for your message 🙏
Thank you 🙏🏽 again Tony for today’s Sunday Sermon and giving us all “Food for Thought. “ Be blessed.
Wasn’t able to listen right when this was uploaded but listening while at the gym now and it couldn’t be a more perfect reminder!!! 🙌🏽🔥
Excellent message on turning your pain into purpose, recognizing your strengths and not allowing others to cause you to relapse. Rely on our Heavenly Father. Thank you!
Thank you Tony
Your videos have changed my life
Thank you Tony!! Well said, I need to keep this message on repeat!
Coming at the right time.
God bless you and your family🙏🙏
**I am a Victor in Christ name Amen**
I needed this confirmation today. Right on time. God is truly blessings lives through you🙌
Cast your cares and receive God's prayers for you.
Thank you for letting Him use you Tony!🙏🏾
Great message! Thank you Tony💛💛
Thank you for the Sunday sermon 🧎🏾♀️
Every word of this felt as though it was a message directly from the lord.
I have found my purpose through this message. From victim to Victor
God bless!
Tony even 4 years later, i would like u to knw tht this video is helping in my healing process, deciding to use this pain into purpose, with prayer & faith, although my heart feels fragmented... i bless God for u & your witness, & relationship ministry.... i listen to u almost daily fr edifying & male wisdom!!
AMEN, AMEN, AMEN (confirmation as always). Thank you for the Sunday Sermon. Honorary Pastor Gaskin 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for that message Tony 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amazing message, been holding on trying to stay positive through a very painful breakup...
What an encouraging Excellent way 2 move 4ward. I am NOT a victim & I have the "Victory" N Jesus Christ & He will Never abandon me!!! Blessings my 4Ever bro, Tony G...💯🙏🏾
I had to keep it moving ,the ore I showed love ,spoke with love and encouraged them did it all sleep life and all they gave me was rejection because they wanted t wallow in their pain and be a victim . they were comfortable in their mess.
Wow. So much wisdom. God bless you for this message.
Grateful for this message. Be blessed Tony 🙏🏽
Be blessed. Thank you for the sermon Tony Gaskins.
Thank you Tony for this message today! I really needed this. I appreciate all that you do. I'm very emotional as I'm writing this but you are definitely GOD SENT. God bless you and your family exceedingly and abundantly. 🙏🏽❤
You have spoke to my HEART ❤ My LIFE❤ ❤ My situation in life💯 Your words of wisdom are PRICELESS! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 💙 BEAUTIFUL SUNDAY SERMON🙏💙
This was an amazing message. God bless you! I hear you! I’m putting in the work and I can’t feel bad when I need to take what is necessary to continue to heal. I need me first then I will be blessed to help others.
Thank You Pastor❤
Bless tribe, Tony, glad to here this message. I was a victim and a test of someone else pain, and i thank God to know His living word and to speak it to my self and allowed it to give me clarity n bring me thru and out to continue to move forward n help n share my gifts with others. Tony you also have sparked my interest in mental health counseling particularly for my black population. Peace, Love n Light.
Happy Sunday 🌞
Blessed
This video is just what I needed! Thank you for the ad removal on this video
Thank you lord!! thank u lord. And thank you Tony for delivering this message today. I cant even put into words but Wow wow wow goosebumps!!
Hi Tony, can you PLEASE do a video on being in relationship with a man that have kids! Especially for women who are 40 and up! What should a balanced relationship look like with the man, the new woman, and the kids and their mother. When Timeframe when she should meet the kids and their mother, etc. I don't have any kids. I would like to hear your perspective on this topic. Thanks in advance!!!
💯 truth speaking
Idk if he can speak to that... not saying that requires real life experiences but ppl over 40 plus has to realize it goes to his self love course. When you understand yourself you know what boundaries to put into place. Being over 40 has already taught you some life lessons, but you have to acknowledge and accept them. Communication about his/ your kids has to have boundaries. His relationship with you should never feel like it's being compromised or placed on the back burner. If you express that with respect and it's not unreasonable and this the big one not coming from a totally selfish place. You also have to accept that he is co-parenting so you got to take the sidelines.If he is willing to hear you and ACT differently then there are not going to be a lot of issues. When y'all are together that's y'alls time and when he is with them that's their time. Then y'all have to set aside time all together. A man with kids can be managed when you love yourself enough to know the boundaries and what YOU are going to come to terms with. If he is great with his and your kids awesome but us 40+ see that as a means to sticking with something that ain't working in your spirit. It's hard for us out here that are over 40 dating and marrying into set families but self love goes both ways. He has to love himself not just as a great father but a overall great man. I know great fathers who suck in relationships. So I'm saying all that to say is love yourself, communicate your feelings and above all you and him demand the respect of the boundaries you all have discussed and agreed on. When you love yourself the truth speaks to you with clarity. Tony's self love university is the best. Sometimes I play it just as a little reminder to follow the steps I placed on myself. Good luck and Be blessed The struggle is real for us. Stay in encouraged and enlightened ❤
@@serenar.magwood8186 lovely response 🥰
@@MichElle-py8lk black sista hood has to be real thank you my sista ❤
@@serenar.magwood8186 Well said, self love and boundaries are key...
@@serenar.magwood8186 Thank you so much for this response. Yes! The struggle is real. I'm going to check out that course.
Be Blessed 🙏
Thank you for this deep message! 🙏 I am listening
Tony, you betta preach!!❤🙌🏽
This was so good and powerful. To God be the Glory! Thank you so much! You and your beautiful family!
I need to hear this, this guy ended up being friends with someone that hurts him the most & I can’t get played like I’m that person.
Hey bro, you are really changing lives here. God bless you😍😍