This is why I can’t get on board with Tik Tok so much nonsense. You are right no other race has this issue. It’s self hate. If anyone doesn’t like my type 4 hair, they can close their eyes. I refuse to apologize for how I am biologically.
@@Cathie30 Girl,that's the spirit. Can't believe we're still debating about afro hair in 2024. Makes me wonder if we're making progress at all 😞 The lady is a live streamer here on RUclips. People just cut out parts of her videos and upload on tiktok.
I love my curly hair. My man loves my curly hair. Diana Ross vibes, sexy, classic beauty. High class people with wealth like those who fit with them naturally. Not fake ass people who catfish period!
We were all taught that they come first, it’s a knowledge that has been ingrained in us. It might take a while, but I’ll advice women to start thinking for themselves!
Hii essie Pls what can i use for my front hair it's just one side and its embarrassing I am currently on a low cut and i am using this mediana product but its not showing progress
so many women agreed with her until this I never followed her her advice is outdated she's much older than her target audience so she's speaking on her experience from back in her day things have changed now she also spoke on high value men so maybe in those settings natural hair may not be the standard i have seen plenty of men say they prefer natural hair and I myself have no issue with my natural hair there are plenty of other dating coaches/content that do promote natural hair so if you are looking for that type of content be intentional when going to that sector of youtube the ones i follow all have natural hair
@@joimonae4090 You can't talk about a community and not expect a reaction. She was clearly talking bout natural hair and you expect us with natural hair to not react because her videos are for a certain group of people? That doesn't make sense. And yes,as an older person from a different generation,she has more experience,she has seen how most of these men treat women... isn't she supposed to come here and educate wen to develop themselves?instead of coming out here to deceive young women and girls. Additionally,what is high value men? Most of these men are out here disrespecting women,cos these women can't be themselves around them. To what end? How long should women live to appease men? And no,i do not expect anything from her literally,I never watch her contents,but I do know about her. My sis told me about sprinkle sprinkle,that was how I even knew who she was .I saw this particular video on my tiktok fyp. Why? I talk about natural hair and the algorithm brought it to me.
@@natura__essie there’s nothing wrong with dating and relationships coaches content if that’s what you like to watch but it’s clear she doesn’t like herself I watch dating and relationship content all the time but I intentionally make sure to watch women who are not self hating there are plenty of natural hair women who teach feminine/ marriage dating relationships so those are who I watch I think it’s important to shed light on positive black women and not give anymore clout to the self hating ones
@@joimonae4090 truly, there's nothing wrong in dating or even manifesting the kind of man you want. However,my problem is,when you have to forget about whole being,just cos you want to attract a man. Its mentally and physically exhausting. I don't care about relationship coaches myself. I do not even watch their content,unless RUclips bring it my way,if its good enough,i night subcribe.
@@natura__essie being honest people do that in life not just dating, we change to please our parents our friends our jobs ours schools that's just human nature but there is defiantly a balance to everything thanks i wont comment anymore
@@bridgetajari297 fr...I mean,I feel she should channel her teachings towards self development. Teach women how to make their own money,build a strong self esteem,etc
For me even if you have a long natural hair and you now left it as a massive afro to a date.😢it can be packed moderately.let your date see your face now. you are not modelling for hair growth oil.there is no natural hair that can't be moderately packed.you are not egungun.afro anything is a no for me for first date abeg.
@@adetolaoluwatosinakorede5303 from that video you can deduce she wasn't necessarily talking about afro to a date. It's about natural hair in general. She even talked about braids,and went on to advice a silk press or wig. Simply put,she's advising not to wear your natural hair at all. Now,for dates... there are classy and simple hairstyles you can wear to a date. I personally wouldn't rock my "big fro" to a date A low bun/puff, or swoop hairstyle or claw clip hairstyle can be very elegant.
@@natura__essie 😂 nah man send her work or she send herself?....why will she be speaking for men.most men loves natural hair..some even ask whats the need for the wig self when you have a good natural hair.she dey talk rubbish
Nopeee. On a first date I’m putting my best foot forward, and I believe my beautiful hair is one of the best parts of me. Therefore, it’s out. If he’s not into that then we’ve discovered we’re incompatible. Not an issue. If I like certain things about a man I’n never going to tell him to HIDE or it on a first date lol. Wear a baggy shirt! Your muscles take away from you! Why are you showing off your tall height? Hunch over! Lmaooooo + the man I’m going for will see my hair AND my face, and see them both as gorgeous regardless. i’m not trying to catch the majority of men, i’m trying to catch *one* that fits with *me.*
This is my first commentary. Let me know what you think! Don’t forget to like as well ❤
This is why I can’t get on board with Tik Tok so much nonsense. You are right no other race has this issue. It’s self hate. If anyone doesn’t like my type 4 hair, they can close their eyes. I refuse to apologize for how I am biologically.
@@Cathie30 Girl,that's the spirit. Can't believe we're still debating about afro hair in 2024. Makes me wonder if we're making progress at all 😞
The lady is a live streamer here on RUclips. People just cut out parts of her videos and upload on tiktok.
I love my curly hair. My man loves my curly hair. Diana Ross vibes, sexy, classic beauty. High class people with wealth like those who fit with them naturally. Not fake ass people who catfish period!
@@Eden-f1b Like, How can you say natural hair is not classy? I'm still amused by this like of thought!
4:06 😂😂 do more commentary videos abeg
😂😂 I go try
So sad😢. Most people have been programmed to live to please men.
We were all taught that they come first, it’s a knowledge that has been ingrained in us. It might take a while, but I’ll advice women to start thinking for themselves!
Hii essie
Pls what can i use for my front hair it's just one side and its embarrassing
I am currently on a low cut and i am using this mediana product but its not showing progress
@@shessmarvellous20 kindly check out this video,it was posted recently> ruclips.net/video/OgxdJm8CyqI/видео.htmlsi=8HF_gUQObs5l_NyD
And she's highly insecure
If there's no man who likes it, then we would stay single, I'm pissed for real
@@milcahdiesob3799 exactly my thought,let's remain single fr 😂
so many women agreed with her until this I never followed her her advice is outdated she's much older than her target audience so she's speaking on her experience from back in her day things have changed now she also spoke on high value men so maybe in those settings natural hair may not be the standard i have seen plenty of men say they prefer natural hair and I myself have no issue with my natural hair there are plenty of other dating coaches/content that do promote natural hair so if you are looking for that type of content be intentional when going to that sector of youtube the ones i follow all have natural hair
@@joimonae4090 You can't talk about a community and not expect a reaction. She was clearly talking bout natural hair and you expect us with natural hair to not react because her videos are for a certain group of people? That doesn't make sense. And yes,as an older person from a different generation,she has more experience,she has seen how most of these men treat women... isn't she supposed to come here and educate wen to develop themselves?instead of coming out here to deceive young women and girls. Additionally,what is high value men? Most of these men are out here disrespecting women,cos these women can't be themselves around them. To what end? How long should women live to appease men?
And no,i do not expect anything from her literally,I never watch her contents,but I do know about her. My sis told me about sprinkle sprinkle,that was how I even knew who she was .I saw this particular video on my tiktok fyp. Why? I talk about natural hair and the algorithm brought it to me.
@@natura__essie there’s nothing wrong with dating and relationships coaches content if that’s what you like to watch but it’s clear she doesn’t like herself I watch dating and relationship content all the time but I intentionally make sure to watch women who are not self hating there are plenty of natural hair women who teach feminine/ marriage dating relationships so those are who I watch I think it’s important to shed light on positive black women and not give anymore clout to the self hating ones
@@joimonae4090 truly, there's nothing wrong in dating or even manifesting the kind of man you want. However,my problem is,when you have to forget about whole being,just cos you want to attract a man. Its mentally and physically exhausting.
I don't care about relationship coaches myself. I do not even watch their content,unless RUclips bring it my way,if its good enough,i night subcribe.
@@natura__essie being honest people do that in life not just dating, we change to please our parents our friends our jobs ours schools that's just human nature but there is defiantly a balance to everything thanks i wont comment anymore
She lost me with spending an hour doing makeup 😂
@@shawnsandridge5677 Like? Fr 😂
Thats absolutely BS. Was following her before now but i just unfollowed. Got no time for nonsense
@@bridgetajari297 fr...I mean,I feel she should channel her teachings towards self development. Teach women how to make their own money,build a strong self esteem,etc
For me even if you have a long natural hair and you now left it as a massive afro to a date.😢it can be packed moderately.let your date see your face now. you are not modelling for hair growth oil.there is no natural hair that can't be moderately packed.you are not egungun.afro anything is a no for me for first date abeg.
@@adetolaoluwatosinakorede5303 from that video you can deduce she wasn't necessarily talking about afro to a date. It's about natural hair in general. She even talked about braids,and went on to advice a silk press or wig.
Simply put,she's advising not to wear your natural hair at all.
Now,for dates... there are classy and simple hairstyles you can wear to a date. I personally wouldn't rock my "big fro" to a date
A low bun/puff, or swoop hairstyle or claw clip hairstyle can be very elegant.
@@natura__essie 😂 nah man send her work or she send herself?....why will she be speaking for men.most men loves natural hair..some even ask whats the need for the wig self when you have a good natural hair.she dey talk rubbish
I'm so happy my man loves my afro so much he wants me to wear it anytime.
Nopeee. On a first date I’m putting my best foot forward, and I believe my beautiful hair is one of the best parts of me. Therefore, it’s out. If he’s not into that then we’ve discovered we’re incompatible. Not an issue.
If I like certain things about a man I’n never going to tell him to HIDE or it on a first date lol. Wear a baggy shirt! Your muscles take away from you! Why are you showing off your tall height? Hunch over! Lmaooooo
+ the man I’m going for will see my hair AND my face, and see them both as gorgeous regardless. i’m not trying to catch the majority of men, i’m trying to catch *one* that fits with *me.*
She should sleep off if they don't like our hair and men are all different so how do you speak as if all of them are the same, she's sick
@@milcahdiesob3799 I'm seriously wondering where she got the statistics. It's tiring.