des i know that you have been having some bad days recently and i know that you always feel like you don’t do enough content-wise, but i wanted to let you know that we all appreciate everything that you do and all of your content that you put out is always enjoyable!! i love you and take care of yourself because you deserve it girly🩷
girl I’m 26 with social anxiety and making phone calls is like going to war😭 I always see if I can make the appointments online first and if I can’t I just pick a day and tell them I need an appointment on said day. If they don’t have that available then I’ll just take whatever is closest, it’s soooo nerve wracking. I always reward myself with something when I’m done because I will think about the stuttering I did ALL DAY🤣🤣
My birthday is June 29 so I’ve always thought of that as mid year. My mom has always told me I have the best birthday since every 6 months I get presents
I know you probably won't see this comment, but sending you so much love. I've been in the exact same mental state, even when it comes to thinking about the passage of time. It's a roller coaster of emotion every day, I could literally cry at any moment. I wouldn't wish anyone to go through this, but you are definitely not alone!!!
I'm also someone who keeps thinking about how I will never relive a moment again too especially in the last year. I went to the Eras Tour and for months leading to it I was already sad for it to be over before it even happened. Ever since I get upset I can't live that moment again and having a bad memory doesn't help but I have found myself doing it more and you talking about it really opened my eyes to that
destiny i hope you know how muh we love you and we will love to watch anything that you post. everytime i see one of your videos in my subcription box it makes my day and I know for a fact that so many thousands of other people feel the same way. you dont need to please everyone in the world. you have already brought joy to so many people. most people will never bring this much joy to so many people, you should be so proud of yourself everyday. never doubt yourself
Whenever I’m hating my hair all the time I know that means I need a change! So I suggest have fun dye or cut your hair..maybe some bangs? I just dyed my hair red and I love it! Love how real you are your vids! 💕💇♀️
I just went to kings island on the Tuesday before!! I so wish i could have seen/met you there!! You are such an inspiration to me and I love you!❤️ I'm sorry you've been struggling recently, but just know we all love you and are here for you and there are brighter days ahead!!🥰❤️
I just started reading Not in Love by Ali Hazelwood and I’m so disappointed!! I think it’s so different to her previous books, I’m considering DNFing which I never thought I would say about her. Love this video ❤
I can’t wait to watch Inside Out 2! The first Inside Out means so much to me. From the age of like 9-13 I had to have a full body MRI twice a year, which each one took almost 3 hours, but I was able to choose from the hospitals selection of movies to watch with a headset that looked like a virtual reality headset, and I always chose Inside Out to watch, because I have really bad panic attacks, especially when it’s a very inconvenient time to have one, and there’s practically no worse time to have one than during an MRI. But during my first MRI, I managed to make it through the whole time without having one, so I got weirdly superstitious about it and I refused to watch any other movie during my future MRI’s, because if I did I was convinced I’d have a panic attack. So Inside Out has become extremely important to me, and when I heard they were coming out with a second I was elated.
I just want you to know that if you ever feel like talking about your mental health, we want to listen ❤ If you don't feel like talking about it, that's perfectly okay too. You need to do what makes you feel best and we will support you and whatever that may look like. Love you!
I was also so scared to lipstick, my first lipstick was a red and since then I’ve never worn another colour apart from red lipstick. I wear it everyday to shops, uni, post office etc everywhere can’t go a day without 😂
Around this time last year I was having the same issue with my blonde hair. My roots were constantly grown out and it was so frustrating. I got lowlights and started putting less blonde in my hair. So it’s mainly with natural color but with some highlights and I love how low maintenance it is!!!
You have to read The Women, it was such a heartbreaking story, I teared up so many times while reading it. I think about it almost everyday. Also that first page of Rebecca is the most stunning beginning of a book ever!
I would love a Taylor Swift book recommendation video!! And the all things bookish vid. Maybe you could also do one of those ideas with Sara on the podcast 😊
Love all your videos!! Kings Island 😍 I used to go often!! I used to spend my summers in OH 🫶🏼 Keep your chin up! Also can’t wait to see what you do with your hair!
Everytime Des mentions her age I gasp because I think she's my age but watching inside out in elementary school / early middle school when I watched that movie in the tenth grade whilst on a date that my SISTER CHAPERONED IS SOMETHING ELSE
I felt seen by Anxiety too... Loved that it was Maya Hawke too!!! My theater for Inside Out 2 was mostly adults with like 2 kids haha! I went by myself and felt better not being around lots of kids... ok so here is the embarrassment and Anxiety talking.
Ahh the hair crisis is so real 😅 I had one a few months ago and cut my hair almost to my shoulders and I’ve never loved it more!! Also another great vlog!! 🫶🏻
From a fellow Aquarian: your random thoughts make me feel so seen! I go down the same mental rabbit holes as you do. P.s. you have the coolest bedroom layout ❤
Des if you wanna then you can TOTALLY get a new haircut cause whenever I feel my hair has been destroyed I just get a new cut + you always slay and look gorgeous
Girl same struggle with the photo thing omg, it’s the worst. I haven’t made an appt for myself since I was pregnant which is probably bad but thanks for reminding me to make one lol
I haven't been to Kings Island in so long. But I feel you on the hot complaint. One time I passed out... twice? I think, standing in the same line at Kings Island. Oops.
Also, super yes on book recs for Taylor Swift albums as a series. I have been doing it on my blog VERY sporadically and going in reverse chronological order. Sort of. I started with folklore, I think? So I've kept up to date, but then have worked my way backward to Speak Now. Then I hit a wall for unknown reasons. Should probably return to it. Lol
I know you said you struggle with anxiety, but have you thought about some of it being triggered from all the Alani/caffeine you drink???? Maybe try taking a break from them! I used to get incredibly bad anxiety junior year of college and half of it was from drinking so much caffeine. It doesn't solve it completely, but it could a little bit. Also, fun fact: Dots Pretzels were created in North Dakota before they were bought out by Hersey's!
' i kind hate my hair every time i do it and my makeup and my outfit ' the relatable queen you are destiny
des i know that you have been having some bad days recently and i know that you always feel like you don’t do enough content-wise, but i wanted to let you know that we all appreciate everything that you do and all of your content that you put out is always enjoyable!! i love you and take care of yourself because you deserve it girly🩷
29:23 girl you are so funny and beautiful please reply
I think darker hair would look so good with your eyes.. Even black hair ✨✨😳
With Her complexion too! She would KILL a dark hair look!! ❤
your week in my life vlogs are honestly my happy place!💗 i would love to see a 'book recs based on taylor swift songs' series!!💕💌
girl I’m 26 with social anxiety and making phone calls is like going to war😭 I always see if I can make the appointments online first and if I can’t I just pick a day and tell them I need an appointment on said day. If they don’t have that available then I’ll just take whatever is closest, it’s soooo nerve wracking. I always reward myself with something when I’m done because I will think about the stuttering I did ALL DAY🤣🤣
I’m also 26 and it’s literally the same for me too! I don’t know when and if I’ll ever chill out lol
My birthday is June 29 so I’ve always thought of that as mid year. My mom has always told me I have the best birthday since every 6 months I get presents
Omg same! Well mine is June 30th but close enough lol. Happy early bday!❤
@@Sof_rha Same to you!
@@Sof_rhamines June 30th too! Bday twins ❤
Having a bday at the end of June is elite
birthday twins 🩷🫶🏼
I’m in a funk too. You’re not alone 🫶🏼 you could post once a month and I’d still love you! Thanks for all you do, Des!
I also saw inside out 2 and I definitely felt seen with the anxiety. I was also brought to tears in a theater full of kids 😅
Me to the panic attack scene was just amazing
I know you probably won't see this comment, but sending you so much love. I've been in the exact same mental state, even when it comes to thinking about the passage of time. It's a roller coaster of emotion every day, I could literally cry at any moment. I wouldn't wish anyone to go through this, but you are definitely not alone!!!
so random but i would love you talking about the workouts you do and your favorite gym clothes and stuff
Same!!
the fact that i just sat down to watch tiktok and then Des posted 💗
always a great day when destiny posts🤭
des your vlogs genuinely motivate me to become more disciplined and organized (and a morning person lol) thank you for these and hope you're well
I'm also someone who keeps thinking about how I will never relive a moment again too especially in the last year. I went to the Eras Tour and for months leading to it I was already sad for it to be over before it even happened. Ever since I get upset I can't live that moment again and having a bad memory doesn't help but I have found myself doing it more and you talking about it really opened my eyes to that
I would love to see a room tour and a current bookshelf tour!💕
PLEASE do the Taylor Swift recommendation series!! That sounds so fun!
I always love watching your videos. It’s helping me to calm down in such a comforting way ❤❤❤
I’m in awe of your consistency in the gym 🩷 you’re such an inspiration
always love upload days thank you queen
You’d look so good with light brown hair it would make your eyes and eyebrows pop!🫶🏼
i love the new format of the vlogs des, hope you keep showing more of your days no just talking. thank you so much
destiny i hope you know how muh we love you and we will love to watch anything that you post. everytime i see one of your videos in my subcription box it makes my day and I know for a fact that so many thousands of other people feel the same way. you dont need to please everyone in the world. you have already brought joy to so many people. most people will never bring this much joy to so many people, you should be so proud of yourself everyday. never doubt yourself
If you ever made a reading video with any of Kristin Hannah’s book I would be SAT! I would love to know what you think of her books!! 💗💕🩷
Love when i click youtube and you post at the same time 💓💓
Whenever I’m hating my hair all the time I know that means I need a change! So I suggest have fun dye or cut your hair..maybe some bangs? I just dyed my hair red and I love it! Love how real you are your vids! 💕💇♀️
we love you so much des, your videos always feel like face-timing with a friend. i always appreciate you queen 🫶🏼🩷
Alanis have just came over to Ireland and girl you are gods strongest soldier because the caffeine levels almost had me incapacitated
I just went to kings island on the Tuesday before!! I so wish i could have seen/met you there!! You are such an inspiration to me and I love you!❤️ I'm sorry you've been struggling recently, but just know we all love you and are here for you and there are brighter days ahead!!🥰❤️
I would love to see you reading, doing errands etc. (Like your gym shots) it is super motivating ❤
would 100 percent love the Taylor swift album book rec series
These videos are my comfort zone! It calms my anxiety - ♡♡♡
PLEASE do more sit down talking videos!! I love watching them and listening to them while cleaning ❤
The excitement i get when i see youve uploaded a new vlog is unlike anything else. Youre putting pure serotonin into these videos ❤
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE cut your hair and style it exactly like Sabrina Carpenter you will look like twins!!!!
Obsessed with your monsters university hat 🥹
It’s always a great day when Des posts ❤❤❤
loved this vlog as always. never fails to make me feel happy, especially after days where i feel lower as i feel not alone ❤
sitting down from a long day and can’t wait to watch this, love your vlogs always Des! 🫶🏼
I just started reading Not in Love by Ali Hazelwood and I’m so disappointed!! I think it’s so different to her previous books, I’m considering DNFing which I never thought I would say about her. Love this video ❤
I can’t wait to watch Inside Out 2! The first Inside Out means so much to me. From the age of like 9-13 I had to have a full body MRI twice a year, which each one took almost 3 hours, but I was able to choose from the hospitals selection of movies to watch with a headset that looked like a virtual reality headset, and I always chose Inside Out to watch, because I have really bad panic attacks, especially when it’s a very inconvenient time to have one, and there’s practically no worse time to have one than during an MRI. But during my first MRI, I managed to make it through the whole time without having one, so I got weirdly superstitious about it and I refused to watch any other movie during my future MRI’s, because if I did I was convinced I’d have a panic attack. So Inside Out has become extremely important to me, and when I heard they were coming out with a second I was elated.
You are without a doubt becoming one of my fav RUclipsrs 😩🫶🏼
Yes rating system vid would be awesome!!
bestie des posted!!!! fav ever💗 ur videos keep me sane 🙏🙏
17:51 makeup slay
Destiny vlog Sundays are my favorite weekly tradition
this is always the best part of my week!! i love destiny with my entire soul☺️🩷
I just want you to know that if you ever feel like talking about your mental health, we want to listen ❤ If you don't feel like talking about it, that's perfectly okay too. You need to do what makes you feel best and we will support you and whatever that may look like. Love you!
I was also so scared to lipstick, my first lipstick was a red and since then I’ve never worn another colour apart from red lipstick. I wear it everyday to shops, uni, post office etc everywhere can’t go a day without 😂
The appointment making calls anxiety is real 🙌🏼
your weekly vlogs are my favourite videos to watch 🙌🏼❤️❤️
Around this time last year I was having the same issue with my blonde hair. My roots were constantly grown out and it was so frustrating. I got lowlights and started putting less blonde in my hair. So it’s mainly with natural color but with some highlights and I love how low maintenance it is!!!
You have to read The Women, it was such a heartbreaking story, I teared up so many times while reading it. I think about it almost everyday. Also that first page of Rebecca is the most stunning beginning of a book ever!
I would love a Taylor Swift book recommendation video!! And the all things bookish vid. Maybe you could also do one of those ideas with Sara on the podcast 😊
I literally lookout for ANY AND EVERY video of yours.
Its my decompression time ❤
Love all your videos!! Kings Island 😍 I used to go often!! I used to spend my summers in OH 🫶🏼 Keep your chin up! Also can’t wait to see what you do with your hair!
Everytime Des mentions her age I gasp because I think she's my age but watching inside out in elementary school / early middle school when I watched that movie in the tenth grade whilst on a date that my SISTER CHAPERONED IS SOMETHING ELSE
youre so relatable, i have had the SAME exact feelings about time recently too
So happy when I see Destiny post
got to the part where des says her goal is to post more vertical content and then immediately get a notification that she posted on tik tok😂
Yay the lovely Des posts again❤ I’m sending you and all of you watching love (:
Your vlogs are so fun & comforting❤
I felt seen by Anxiety too... Loved that it was Maya Hawke too!!! My theater for Inside Out 2 was mostly adults with like 2 kids haha! I went by myself and felt better not being around lots of kids... ok so here is the embarrassment and Anxiety talking.
100% do the Taylor Swift book recommendations series!!! ❤
Ahh the hair crisis is so real 😅 I had one a few months ago and cut my hair almost to my shoulders and I’ve never loved it more!! Also another great vlog!! 🫶🏻
Would you ever consider doing like a health/fitness type video?
Also yes on the Taylor swift book recs please!
does anyone know where her cardigan at 1:45 is from?? its so cute!! and im def planning on seeing inside out 2 this week, i am prepared to cry!!!!😭
From a fellow Aquarian: your random thoughts make me feel so seen! I go down the same mental rabbit holes as you do.
P.s. you have the coolest bedroom layout ❤
I really recommend reading “The Power of Now.”
Des if you wanna then you can TOTALLY get a new haircut cause whenever I feel my hair has been destroyed I just get a new cut + you always slay and look gorgeous
fav part of the week has arrived!!
this is so random but i feel like you'd look very good with light brown cool tone hair
When queen destiny posts I am so happy ❤😊
Not you making my day!!! Love you bestie🫶🏻❤️
Destiny be like I’m a mess GIRL me too! I felt that!❤
Girl same struggle with the photo thing omg, it’s the worst. I haven’t made an appt for myself since I was pregnant which is probably bad but thanks for reminding me to make one lol
I love listening to bestie Destiny!💗💗
YES PLEASE on the Taylor Swift series!
I haven't been to Kings Island in so long. But I feel you on the hot complaint. One time I passed out... twice? I think, standing in the same line at Kings Island. Oops.
Also, super yes on book recs for Taylor Swift albums as a series. I have been doing it on my blog VERY sporadically and going in reverse chronological order. Sort of. I started with folklore, I think? So I've kept up to date, but then have worked my way backward to Speak Now. Then I hit a wall for unknown reasons. Should probably return to it. Lol
you talking about time is so realllll
you should do a workout video/what i eat in a day!
can we please get a video on how you edit?? love the way you do it
I live in cincinnati right by Kings Island!! Used to go there every summer as a kid
Could you do a week of workouts where you show your routine and gym split for a week?!
omg i would love the album by album taylor swift series!!!!
loving the camera quality!!!
I love your videos so much! Can’t wait to watch ❤
I really think you would look DAZZLING as a fair red head! With the skin tone and the blue eyes 🤩
I grew up going to Kings Island! I miss it sm 😭 I gotta go back soon
I am so excited for this video!!!❤❤❤❤
YEAY1 new vloggg! loved it!!
hey des, i would LOVE the album by album taylor swift book recs honestly 😭love u so much girl thanks for another amazing video xxx
I know you said you struggle with anxiety, but have you thought about some of it being triggered from all the Alani/caffeine you drink???? Maybe try taking a break from them! I used to get incredibly bad anxiety junior year of college and half of it was from drinking so much caffeine. It doesn't solve it completely, but it could a little bit.
Also, fun fact: Dots Pretzels were created in North Dakota before they were bought out by Hersey's!
Yes agreed, caffeine deff causes anxiety and stomach issues. Also I love DOTS! 🥨
@@JulEnglefaris they're so good!!! I love them.
I'm going to follow your logic, July 2nd is my mid year check in. Thanks, bestie!❤
your hair is STUNNING!
Sipping an alani at 8pm?! Bestie, that is nuts. 😭😂😵💫 I would never fall asleep I fear.
omg I didn’t notice that this was posted 4 mins ago😍😍
yay just in time for my workout! 🎉
call me nosy, but i’d love to see a quick flip-through of your annotated books
you should watch the rebecca movie! i’ve seen it in both of my film classes in college and it’s really good
these videos bring me comfort🥹
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