Depending on God to Move in Your Spouse's Heart
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- As I have journeyed through my time of standing for marriage restoration I have learned so much! My heart's desire is to share those lessons the Lord has taught me with you. My hope is that you will feel encouraged and grow in your faith as you continue your stand and know that you are not alone. God's ways are always the best ways and may His perfect will be your portion.
Blessings!
Jamie
Condition your heart to love your spouse no matter what final out come may be. The only way to do that is to love God with all your heart.
I’ve been listening to you for the last 10 months, I was strong and close to God, I am drifting away and losing hope. I’m just asking that you pray for me that I continue to seek God‘s will for my life, I don’t want my heart to grow cold and hard.
Yes I am praying for you! Keep pressing into him and he won’t disappoint!
Praying for you God will renew your spirit and give you the peace and strength you need.
Amen
Once again, your message is right on target. I asked the Lord how I'm supposed to communicate with my wife when she has shut me out. The Holy Spirit clearly told me "you wait for Me!" You're right, it all sounds counterproductive to remain silent, but God's ways are higher than our ways, and when I try to speak to my wife, I'm just getting in the way of His ultimate perfect plan for the healing of my wife and our marriage. Thanks for your video post. I look forward to seeing them every Sunday evening!
This message is so spot o! We all want to “try to fix” the situation but this is where we must learn to step aside and let God do the “heavy lifting” of our spouse’s heart with God’s Holy Spirit convictions
God told me to be silent and I was doing so good. Something happened and I responded in my own flesh. It caused a full day of arguing and I felt like we were set back. I repented and now I'm back to being the silent warrior. This video was confirmation bc I have so much to say and need so many answers. Thank you God for your holy spirit and for letting me know you're still with me. ❤
Yes we all miss the mark at times. Good job repenting and getting back on track. Sometimes it feels like two steps forward and one step back. Just keep pressing and you’ll get there!! I’m proud of you!!
I understand God told me to be patient 🥹 and something also went wrong I asked God for repent. and I would never do it again. I keep praying. But I know God is guiding me every day.❤🙏🏼
I receive in Jesus mighty name Amen. I’m still standing for my married please keep me in prayers. I have court tomorrow morning with my husband 11:00 mountain time
The divorce ritual is a counterfeit plot of the enemy that should not have any impact on the covenant of marriage.
Sometimes, God allows the process to expose and eliminate the filth in the spouses so that His salvation and healing virtue can mend what is broken and purify the sacred covenant.
Divorce shouldn't control our attitude towards our spouse or our stand..
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These other ministries helped me personally and also to understand my marriage.
If it's your first covenant marriage, God will restore.
Don't listen to anyone who tells you to give up.
God is faithful to keep His covenant.
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Praying!! But remember that even if divorce happens that does not mean god doesn’t want reconciliation. He is bigger than divorce!
Do you have an update on your situation? Praying for reconciliation 🙏🏼
@@ryanr6607 update is we had court 04/22/24 divorce is finalized just waiting for everyone to sign so the judge can sign it back and give us our copies
We have to zip our lips, and love them unconditionally.
Keep doing these exhortations! You ARE reminding and encouraging people to walk with Jesus and grow in TRUE personal faith in Him!
Praise Jesus Christ forever!!!
@@romans12always Thanks for your encouragement!
Yes ! Your behavior seen by your spouse will bring the change
@@faithreid5959 Yes and amen!!
This is exactly that what God was telling me 🔥 this conformation!!
This video is confirmation to what Gods been telling me because he’s been telling me to trust him to change my wife’s heart. I can’t change her heart. Only God can. I’ve had that same longing as you wanting to discuss some things with my spouse and just telling God I have so many questions.
Yes it’s a challenging place to be in but God is worthy of our trust and he will reveal truth much better than we can with a lasting change!
@@roadtorestoration5371 Right and if you try to convince them of something it could come across as manipulative and it could push them away.
Ye are the light of the world.
A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen.
Thank you so so much. Today is my 14th wedding anniversary. I didn’t think I would see this day. Still praying for my spouse and my marriage. I appreciate your transparency. This podcast is a blessing.
Amen during the 2.5yrs of separation and in zero contact I truly believe if our God has not brought my husband back is because he is still working in Randy and I want him back with Gods flesh not what I want in Jesus name 🙏
Yes we surrender them to god and trust he is working in the waiting. It’s a process!
Abba please help me my husband need to turn his heart back to you
God showed me to keep marching around Jericho. Don’t speak while marching. When I tell you to shout then you shout!
Ohh that’s good!! Yes we just trust him to speak!!
@@roadtorestoration5371 I still open my mouth from time to time😬. 6 month separation for me and waiting for dissolution papers from my wife. I believe Gods word for restoration! I spent my life not trusting in God, but now he’s putting me through the season to show me that I cannot rely on myself.
This is such deep wisdom. I thank the Lord for this message. God has shown me exactly this.
I have a hard time holding my tongue sometimes. I went Three weeks no texts to him. He just seems happy to have me waiting . His last text to me regarding our marriage was' It is what it is'
I really don't know what he is thinking or doing. It makes me feel angry sometimes and I want to lash out at him. I rebuke myself quite often and those passing made up thoughts of him having his best life right now while I'm being a faithful wife and child of God. Some days are better then others but I am working on myself to just be still ..But It is Hard...Thank you for your video's they are helpful reminders that I'm not alone. God Bless..❤🙏
Don’t believe he’s having his best life. Life away from gods perfect will is not a best life. That’s the enemy trying to discourage you. Keep focused on the lord promises over what you see or feel!
Last night I couldn't sleep. I tossed and turned for hours thinking how mad I am at how he is treating me. So I sent a late night text telling him I made appointment with a lawyer then got drunk and celebrated!
I know it was wrong. Oh Jamie I can't get my emotions in check. If I do it's only last for a week or two. I don't have any close friends he was my best friend and I'm so hurt.
I'm probably going to end up divorced me being the cause.
Thank you listening any way. I appreciate your first reply and I can't help wondering if he seeing someone else, which he has denied.
Thank you Jamie and God bless you
@debrapeterson448 You sound just like me!😂 I know it isn't actually funny, but it's such a mirror that it makes me laugh. I can't tell you how many times I screwed up and reacted in a way I shouldn't. I then had to take my tears of regret to the Lord and ask Him if He would fix what I messed up - and He did each time. I am much better now about stopping myself from saying and doing what I shouldn't, but those feelings are still there. Without mentioning divorce to me, my husband gave an engagement ring to the other woman, who made a point of making sure I knew about it. She has no idea how much involvement he and I actually have with each other. My husband's sister said her $10,000 diamond ring went missing the last day he was over at her house; it had been sitting on her dresser. I haven't been able to get a look at this "engagement" ring, so I don't know if it's the missing ring. Yes, my husband would do such a low thing. What also infuriates me is when he either withholds displays of affection from me because he doesn't want i to get back to that tramp, or when we do kiss each other goodbye and he tries to be thorough in making sure none of my lipstick is left on his face.😡 The Lord told me that if I'm angry or I need to cry, no matter what my husband has done to upset me, I am to bring it to Him and He will deal with my husband. Debra, go to your Daddy in heaven and ask him to clean up the mess you made by text, lay all of your tears of anger and pain at the foot of the cross, and trust the Lord to handle it. Believe me, I know what you're going through.
What you have shared today is so similar to my situation. I continue to stand for my spouse and try to be very wise with my communication. Like you, I want to share truth in a loving way. It’s really hard because I have three children that have been turned against me, and she has made false accusations and taken me to court on those false accusations. All of this is affecting my child custody. I don’t want to fight her and set things back, but I also have rights to my children. All of them should know better, i’ve been a very good father and husband. The veil of deception on them is incredible. Your message was a good reminder to me and I don’t want to do anything to get in God‘s way. It’s amazing how many people are putting out great information and I keep on stumbling on new people like yourself that offer great advice and I new perspective.
Yes it’s very common for the prodigal to tell lies. It’s part of the deception of the enemy.
Wow! I needed to hear this! I told my husband of all the wrong things he did to us. I guess I must repent for not trusting God to change his heart. Although, it’s difficult when you see so many wrong things!
Yes it’s difficult. But Gods ways are not our ways. We must trust him.
I hear you, Sabrina. I did the same thing! And, boy, can I relate to what you said about so many things being wrong!😂 The Lord set me straight, though, and He was absolutely correct.
In the very first part where you talk about being blindsided by the divorce, i too was that way. I remember my spouse trying to control even my saying that! She wouldn't even acknowledge that i could feel blindsided! That was over 2 years ago so i'm not saying this out of bitterness. You just helped me see this for what it was.
These words spoken are so true! I have been so excited about what God has revealed tome and how he has given me peace, and have been sharing with friends, but when I tell my spouse that I’ve been reading my bible and watching these scripture filled videos, I know it’s only to see if he will respond that he is in the word and seeking God during this time. This is so manipulative! Thank you for letting me see this! I must trust that God will reveal truth to him in God’s perfect timing because that’s when my spouse will be ready to hear and receive it! Amen! Thank you for this message!
Yes, you’ve got it!! Keep up the good work and stay trusting god to do what only he can do in each of your lives.
Please pray for my marriage. My wife's cousins prayed to santeria candles and received word from "god" she is to divorce me. She was raised 7th Day Advent in Cuba, but left the church years ago. Please pray the Holy Spirit moves my wife's heart. I love my wife. Thank you very much.
Amen. This was needed
I recently received an email from my husband saying he is not trying to be rude but he thinks it’s best if we don’t communicate cause it’s unhealthy for the both of us. I was going to reply but I didn’t especially after hearing this. You just showed up in my feed and I pasted your message by but God had me go back. Thank you
Yes sometimes god needs to work in us before he’ll allow us to communicate with our spouse. Make sure you listen to the talk I’m posting tonight. It touches on this some more :).
Awesome word and thank you for putting me in my place .
I confess that I start speaking the truth when my wife starts throwing false accusations towards me. I felt I was trying to defend myself but really I'm just arguing back. I know better. Lord show me the wisdom of silence.
Yes it can come across as argumentative and accusatory. Best to let god do the concocting and we stay quiet and blameless.
So good. Yes, God has been telling me the same thing. I don’t know that I’ve done the best job though. I’m praying God will help me in this area.
Yes …we have all messed up! Repent and let god teach you the right way. And don’t let the enemy condemn you.
Spot on
You are speaking to me
Thank you, Jesus. I needed this!!❤
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Amen
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this ❤️🙏🏾
This is exactly what God had me do, practice silence in response to a brief conversation we had over a month ago. I didn’t feel led to express my hurt in that moment, and thought he still doesn’t see it! Why try, as I’m walking in silent submission to God’s Will in this? Amen.
Hey Jamie! God bless you!
Thank you, I needed to hear this.
Praise God for making his people blossom through his best will for our lives! I therefore bind myself and my god-ordained spouse to desire one another and oneself to fully live out one's own potential of gifts and talents given by God for the glory of God while binding to hell every desire to not want another to fully live out one's potential of gifts and talents given by God for the glory of God, in accordance with this word and proverbs 21:1, 1 corinthians 11:7, genesis 2:28, matthew 6:10, 2 corinthians 12:9, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
I come into agreement!! Amen!!
Am so challenged. I have something to repent for. God bless you
Yes I’ve had to repent too!!
Confirmation and warning heeded! Thank you God!
Amen amen amen and it is so in Jesus mighty name
Thank you... ❤
I just found out my husband and the 1st OW who seems to have sneaked back are going to spend the weekend of 1 Sep together at a resort. She is married with 2 young kids. We have been married for 30 yrs. I really feel that her husband should know. I know how I felt when all our friends knew about my husband's affair and did not tell me.
I am so torn between telling him what they planning or to keep quiet knowing he is busy with 2 women. 😢. Been standing for 7 years and I am so tired of keeping quiet.
Seek the lord on this and ask him to guide and lead you.
I was also furious when I found out there were people who knew about my husband's adultery but didn't tell me about it. I hope you did tell her husband; he has a right to know. My husband gave me a venereal infection because people kept silent, which left me unable at that time to make an informed decision as to whether I wanted to continue to have sex with my husband. (Yes, the Lord wanted me to continue to do my marital duties so my husband would be without excuse in that department. It was an infection he passed me, not a disease, and it was used to help convict him. He actually became more destructive to himself and our marriage, but that's because of the conviction. I could see it all over his face.) This woman's husband has a right to know. Any other actions you would take would be wrong. God doesn't need our help to straighten out our spouses. Jamie is correct, though. Inquire of the Lord as to what He wants you to do in your own situation.
This question below is very sincere and I need a true understanding.
Do we suppose to stand, as it relates to 1 Cor. 7. It states, "If the unbeliever leaves let him for God has called you to peace."
Does this mean, if we are standing we are doing so against the Word?
I believe “letting them go” means we entrust them to God as opposed to giving up and “moving on”. Think of the father in the parable of prodigal son. The father didn’t chase after his son but never gave up on the hope that his son would one day return…and when he did the father had open arms with unconditional love and forgiveness. This is a great example of the posture we can take with our prodigal spouse.
Please watch my video called “Are You Prepared For The Promise”. I posted it 9 months ago and I talk about the parable of prodigal son.
Please pray for me I am so broken 💔
Praying and uplifting you now. Lean on God. Hold firm to your faith and His promises!!
In Jesus name 🙏
You are so correct, Jamie. We standers tend to want to be our spouse's Nathan (2 Sam. 12). It won't work that way. We have to shut our mouths and take our hands off; otherwise, all we do is contaminate.
There's no contact for 6yrs now. 😥
Don’t loose hope!! With god all things are possible. Use this time to grow in your relationship with the lord prepare for your spouses return.
Praying he reaches out to you
Hope🩵 LORD YOU KNOW THE ENDING OF THESE STORIES
I just prayed for you, Christina. I asked the Lord to give you "something", something to lift your heart and help you to hold on. I asked if you could have a "suddenly", the start of a breakthrough, if not the breakthrough itself.
It's May 2024. I've been standing for 19 years this month. I find this discouraging because you are assuming that God has given us all equal opportunities to communicate with our spouses. That's not been my case and I'm feeling a bit hopeless.
I have heard many testimonies where God restores without any communication. Nothing is impossible for Him!
I agree and don't agree. 😊 I agree: the structural change of the prodigal ex spouse's heart can made only by God. You can't able to do it. And yes: the prodigal spouse doesn't want to hear the truth from your mouth. Yes, this is a serious observation. 😢 When I was in adultery, I didn't want to hear the Christian truth, although I didn't cheat my wife, because I should have felt out love with her. I was simple impacted by own ego and bad spirits. (Unfortunately we not reconciled at the moment.) But I don't agree: you won't leave everything to God. God works, you wait in faith only? No. You must make steps as well. I can offer the free video courses of Clay Andrews and Chris Seiter on RUclips. 😊
@@akosfellner5061 Correct, we do have a part to play. We need to seek the Lord and get direction from him.
Amsn
May the BLESSINGS of the LORD overtake you in JESUS MIGHTY Name. ✝️✨🤍
Amen