Thank you, Cathy. Great video today. I liked it . Yes . I need a new mattress. King size. This one is hurting my back tailbone it's way to soft. My hubby and I want a firmer mattress not totally firm a bit cushioney. But we'll ask the sales specialist agent both of us are having backaches. Thanks for your view into things. And everyone is different. And they know whats best for themselves. See you. Im going to watch your decluttering video tonight. ❤❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ ✌️. 👋 😊 youf looking very pretty today.
Whoa! Number one is get rid of toxic people.....I needed to hear to this one. And, it gives me 'permission' to stop attending a monthly social gathering that has just become toxic. Thank YOU!
@ We had words. They no longer wanted me in their lives also. So it worked out fine. If I see one of them in a store I just walk by and say nothing. I feel great! It’s been 3 yrs now.
I am an award winning procrastinator! I would win the biggest trophy they make. If they called me to come pick it up, it would take me forever to stop by and get it.
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen from anyone ever, seriously! We’ve been working on many of these points for a while but wish we’d realized how important this stuff is when we were a lot younger. Prioritizing ourselves isn’t in the least selfish - we’ve actually been able to reach out to help many people in our lives in different ways because we can empathize with how they feel. What’s really important to us is how we make other people feel. If we think about it, that’s our legacy rather than any riches we could ever accrue. Thank you for making this video!
Hi Cathy, I told my husband to stop saying “it’s ok”when someone has said or done something that’s not right. Sometimes it’s really not ok, and you need to say something. I deal with comparisons too. What helps me when I start to compare myself, is that I immediately start to be thankful for what I have, and gain inspiration when I see other people succeeding. I want to genuinely be happy for them, and I am.❤
Great video Cathy! I’m 70 and can attest to these suggestions being so smart and DOABLE! Loved this a lot! Thanks for the time you spent putting this together! Enjoy watching you so much!❤
Hi Cathy , it really shows that you had to self reflect to put this video together. Thanks so much for the hard work and heart that you put into this. I needed to hear a lot of these things. Thank you for starting my day off right today and for always bringing a smile.😊 wishing you a great day❤
For not comparing myself to others - I am trying to work on not comparing myself to who I was too. Love your whole list. Put ourselves first and be thankful and grateful.
Hi Cathy, I'm a new subscriber. (Yes, I hit that subscribe button) I've had the pleasure of watching a few of your videos now and continuing.. I appreciate your insights and your pleasant and calming energy. Your subject matter really is so much more than fashion, diet and style. Your talks cover many faucets of life in general. I recently and unexpectedly lost my dear husband of 35 years. I struggle often, however staying engaged and productive helps. This video is a great punch list of actions to embrace and follow through on. I rarely ever comment on channels. You're a lovely lady and I wanted to tell you so. Thank you.
Number 4, that used to be me. It was my way of keeping the peace and it made me miserable and was ineffective!! Done with that! This is such a great video and a good reminder to monitor where we are putting our focus. I like the idea of challenging ourselves to conquer fears. Mine is claustrophobia. Going to work on that like you did on the bridge. Procrastinating used to be a way of avoidance, but when I stopped, it was truly liberating! Number 15...so true!!! Thank you for this video...I enjoy things like this!
A wealth of good advice, thank you. I used to tell my son when he was young and wondered why we didn’t have holidays etc. that it is what we own, not what we owe. He still repeats that to me, in his mid-30s.
Women tend to "apologize" too often....a bad habit and I had heard that advice years ago, so I catch myself before saying it. As you indicated, there are times when one does need to say "I am sorry."
Hi Cathy! You make some very good points to follow. Here are a couple of sayings I like. “ If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they’ll fly away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you.” “When you talk, you are only repeating what you know. But if you listen, you may learn something new. “ -Dalai Lama Love and Kindness, Teresa
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Thank you, Cathy. Great video today. I liked it . Yes . I need a new mattress. King size. This one is hurting my back tailbone it's way to soft. My hubby and I want a firmer mattress not totally firm a bit cushioney. But we'll ask the sales specialist agent both of us are having backaches. Thanks for your view into things. And everyone is different. And they know whats best for themselves. See you. Im going to watch your decluttering video tonight. ❤❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ ✌️. 👋 😊 youf looking very pretty today.
Whoa! Number one is get rid of toxic people.....I needed to hear to this one. And, it gives me 'permission' to stop attending a monthly social gathering that has just become toxic. Thank YOU!
Already got rid of 5 toxic people! I’ve never felt so good!
@ did you say anything to them or did you just bow out of invites? I'm thinking of taking the bowing out path.
@ We had words. They no longer wanted me in their lives also. So it worked out fine. If I see one of them in a store I just walk by and say nothing. I feel great! It’s been 3 yrs now.
I am an award winning procrastinator! I would win the biggest trophy they make. If they called me to come pick it up, it would take me forever to stop by and get it.
I procrastinate too. I try not to and am getting worse. Am making an effort to do better.
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Thank you! 🤗
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen from anyone ever, seriously! We’ve been working on many of these points for a while but wish we’d realized how important this stuff is when we were a lot younger. Prioritizing ourselves isn’t in the least selfish - we’ve actually been able to reach out to help many people in our lives in different ways because we can empathize with how they feel. What’s really important to us is how we make other people feel. If we think about it, that’s our legacy rather than any riches we could ever accrue. Thank you for making this video!
Thanks Patricia, I appreciate your kind words!💖
Hi Cathy- Great tips! I’ll try to keep these in mind. ❤❤❤
A really thoughtful list. Thanks for these reminders
I absolutely love this video, Cathy! Thank you! ❤
Amen
Hi Cathy,
I told my husband to stop saying “it’s ok”when someone has said or done something that’s not right.
Sometimes it’s really not ok, and you need to say something.
I deal with comparisons too.
What helps me when I start to compare myself, is that I immediately start to be thankful for what I have, and gain inspiration when I see other people succeeding.
I want to genuinely be happy for them, and I am.❤
That's great advice my friend!
Red is a great color for you
Great video Cathy! I’m 70 and can attest to these suggestions being so smart and DOABLE! Loved this a lot! Thanks for the time you spent putting this together! Enjoy watching you so much!❤
Thank you!
Listening to you is listening to a friend.
Great video Cathy! These are my new Happiness Commandments 💜
Great tips!💕
Love this. You are right on. This is good to hear and remind yourself of these things. Looking pretty today in red.
Hi Cathy , it really shows that you had to self reflect to put this video together. Thanks so much for the hard work and heart that you put into this. I needed to hear a lot of these things. Thank you for starting my day off right today and for always bringing a smile.😊 wishing you a great day❤
Thank you!💖
Amen amen. Amen. You are so right I am 76 negativity people just put me down. Yep you’re right. Stay away from people like that.
For not comparing myself to others - I am trying to work on not comparing myself to who I was too. Love your whole list. Put ourselves first and be thankful and grateful.
Excellent video, Cathy!
Hi Cathy,
I'm a new subscriber. (Yes, I hit that subscribe button)
I've had the pleasure of watching a few of your videos now and continuing..
I appreciate your insights and your pleasant and calming energy. Your subject matter really is so much more than fashion, diet and style.
Your talks cover many faucets of life in general.
I recently and unexpectedly lost my dear husband of 35 years. I struggle often, however staying engaged and productive helps. This video is a great punch list of actions to embrace and follow through on. I rarely ever comment on channels. You're a lovely lady and I wanted to tell you so.
Thank you.
Thank you for leaving your comment Leslie, I'm very sorry for the loss of your husband.
Number 4, that used to be me. It was my way of keeping the peace and it made me miserable and was ineffective!! Done with that! This is such a great video and a good reminder to monitor where we are putting our focus. I like the idea of challenging ourselves to conquer fears. Mine is claustrophobia. Going to work on that like you did on the bridge. Procrastinating used to be a way of avoidance, but when I stopped, it was truly liberating! Number 15...so true!!! Thank you for this video...I enjoy things like this!
A wealth of good advice, thank you. I used to tell my son when he was young and wondered why we didn’t have holidays etc. that it is what we own, not what we owe. He still repeats that to me, in his mid-30s.
Women tend to "apologize" too often....a bad habit and I had heard that advice years ago, so I catch myself before saying it. As you indicated, there are times when one does need to say "I am sorry."
You are so correct! Good advice
thank you for saying these points out loud...it's important to hear...
Hi Cathy - Kudos again to your fabulous workout video! OK viewers, go do it now!
A great list, Kathy❤
Thank you! 🤗
What a great thought provoking video Cathy. Really appreciate the hearing the 15 things to ditch.
Thanks for these excellent ideas!
Thanks!
Fellow procrastinator here. Such a struggle. I have some good days but still struggle.
great advice Cathy, have a beautiful day friend♥
Thank you! You too!
Hi Cathy!
You make some very good points to follow. Here are a couple of sayings I like.
“ If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they’ll fly away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you.”
“When you talk, you are only repeating what you know. But if you listen, you may learn something new. “
-Dalai Lama
Love and Kindness, Teresa
Love both of those sayings Teresa! 💖
Thank you so much for this video
You are so welcome!
Great suggestions
Thanks for watching!
A much needed reminder
Someone said this about fear:
F- false
E- evidence
A- appearing
R- real.
Never heard that before, thanks for sharing.😊
Great suggestions, do I have permission to get rid of my husband? He’s toxic and negative and a complainer!
yes...if you're no longer compatible...show him the exit...