EVERYTHING I needed. Thank you for being obedient and creating this platform. 1. Accept the need to let go 2. Explore why you stayed so long 3. Forgive the person for hurting you. 4. Share your reasons for disconnect without malice intent. Psalm 68:5 Blessings to you.
This was timely. My brothers and sisters, please help me pray to let go of the pain I feel after being treated unfairly by someone I truly love. People don't see heartbreak as a big deal, but it has a way of disturbing your very existence. Even more so when you thought you had found your person. For anyone in a similar situation, I pray God heals your heart and brings you restoration ❤
Me too! I just had to confront a sister who tried the "honor thy mother & thy father" scripture to guilt shame me about not giving in and begging my mom's forgiveness for something she did to me. I have had so much peace since I stopped trying to make my mother hear me and love me. I surrender our relationship to God. Finally, I'm free!
Me, too, on a level. I’m a very loving person, but the truth is, I’ve never really felt bonded to my mother. For so long I wondered what was wrong with me, but I’ve started to accept that this is normal for someone with my raising and it’s not my fault.
Thank you so much for being so transparent about your relationship with your Mom ~ Just so you know God is using you to bring healing, hope and wisdom to those who are having the same struggles God has already delivered you from to bring healing and freedom to us.😭🙏 Thank you Nona ❤ HUGS ❤️
Thank you for truth and vulnerability🫂 I’m in Chapter 9 of “Killing Comparisons” and it has been LIFE CHANGING!! Thank GOD for you!!! I love you sister 🙏🏾💫
I'm currently toiling whether or not to let go of 29 years of marriage. I explored my reason for staying and it was because I liked the institute of marriage and I wanted to be wanted. I believe there is better, I just need to strengthn and courage to get to the other side of this transition instead of staying in the famililar dysfunction.
Wow, I am uncomfortable in both my fairly recent new job and new relationship. I was literally just texting my friend that things shifted last night and not in a good way. This has been on repeat, and I keep attempting to work at it. But I find myself in this cyclical unhealthy stall. Thank you. Lord give me the strength to properly handle these dynamic.
Hi Nona, your relationship with your mom is similar to my relationship with my sister, but my mom died, and I had to move in with that sister. I love her genuinely, but that love isn't returned. I don't have the financial means to leave, so I am stuck and feel like a burden even though I help a lot. I've prayed and prayed, but what if this is my wilderness? God bless you!
I really needed to hear this today. I’m Autistic and I have trouble working out boundaries and when to let go. I did have to let a friend go a number of years ago because they were not putting the effort in and basically lied to police around something that happened to me. They were also autistic and I think the hardest part is learning even sometimes just because a person is disabled doesn’t immune them from intentionally hurting people as well.
The reality is there are alot of guys out here that are spiritually empty but continue to function in society. I know a guy currently on several social media sites posting relationship advice with Bible scriptures. This individual wears a wedding ring to keep up a good man image. What he is not doing is being transparent & disclosing that the woman he was with walked out & left him months ago & that he's dating multiple women. Transparency is key! Ladies, don't allow a male to sell you dreams & smoke screens! Walk away from situations that don't feel right or serve your best interest. God already validated you, no other validation needed.
This was good. I must be in relationships with people who are willing to change because I'm present rather than change because I'll leave. That's it right there
My husband is a serious cheater and I can’t anymore. My heart is broken and I am slowly dying. We have two children and I don’t want them growing up thinking this is okay. I am trying to let go.
His cheating has nothing to do with you. It’s him. When a man cheats he’s essentially cheating on himself. I don’t want you to ever believe that you’re not enough because you are. It’s something deep down in him. You can’t and shouldn’t fix him. Love yourself enough to make that ultimate decision. Of course pray about it. But, once a cheater unfortunately they are habitual offenders. And God doesn’t even like that remember you are Gods daughter. That means you are a princess/queen. Never forget that. Again it’s not being the others are better it’s because he can’t heal his true trauma and now has all off the soul ties/demons on him. If you decide to leave never tell another man you were abused or Cheated on. Always say you were treated the best.
Jesus's ❤️ is all you need. He will see you thru this as he has seen you suffering. You deserve to be treated as a princess 👸 of The King 🤴. King Jesus. ✝️
I was in your shoes, sweetheart. I stayed in my marriage for 30 years because I thought it was good for my kids. When my daughter said he was never a part of our family, I put him out and never been happier. While I was waiting on God, God was waiting on me to take the first steps. I'm not going to say I wasn't afraid, but God made a way out of no way, honey. Trust me, when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, trust me, you will know !!!!! Praying for strength for you 🙏
Thank you Nona for sharing your story.❤You were smart to let go before it ruined your health. Some of us are not as fortunate or did not walk in the wisdom of self-care. Good people take care of yourself. I almost died from foolishness. Listen to Nona and take care of yourselves.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Such wisdom thank you for this and backing it up with scripture. I was struggling to let my mother in law go. Now I know that it was the right thing to do by letting her go. God bless you my sister.
❤ Thank you, knowing when to let go is when you’re dealing with an unsafe person, the unrepentance person! I needed to hear that, thank you so much for your teaching ma’am❤
Exactly my story on the job part.....leaving was so hard ....but the environment wasn't comfortable I prayed and the Holy spirit said leave and I obeyed...God is faithful😊
This is so good and so timely that I had to go back and watch again from the 20 minutes mark. I recently broke up with my friend of 19 years, and this was confirmation that it was time to let go 🙏🙌❤️
I love you, Nona, ❤ You truly are a wisdom of Gods love. ✝️ Thank you for sharing 🙏 So many of us stay in relationship's because of childhood experiences, time spent with the person, children involved, and what people would say. Instead of what would God say? or What would God want for them? Unfortunately, people fear man more than God. 😢
I am currently living the workplace situation you are talking about. My boss is on the side of my subordinates and he micromanage me. I have prayed and God gave me piece about leaving my job and go to another position.
Thank you!! This message is confirmation in so many ways! Healing the mother wound is so hard but so necessary. So many people try to guilt trip me into putting my feelings aside and nurturing a relationship with my mother… oh but they don’t know my story… and they don’t realize they are teaching children who eventually become adults that it’s okay to accept toxic behavior, people and relationships! Praying for all of us trying to heal our mother wound and let go❤️🩹!
Thaaaaaaaank Abba God for yur commitment and sharing this video. I just told a dear friend that I don’t trust me to stay away from my mother whom I adore who does not want a relationship with me. I had to walk away from her on my birthday Feb this year. But I also told her that I have a funni feelin that I am no longer willing to ignore the truth. And because I had the courage to speak these truthz PappaGod brought me this video the very next day. Thaaaaaank yu Nona soooo much. I saw yu in person at Faithful Central last year and I was never the same.❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you. I decided to let it go. He hurt me and I came to apologize to him. Afterwards, I realized that he never asked me to forgive him. I think it’s my time to forgive him and letting him go
Friendships... some people believe they honour you by making you being their private, unpaid coach or a therapist. And rather sooner or later you are the sole giver, they are the sole taker. These people believe that the fact you support them stems from your strength and a "calling to help", not just out of your empathy. I believe, that if I became a pro psychotherapist, they would NEVER make a formal appointment with me, because it would cost them something. And since they get help for free ,then they can treat me as perpetuum mobile, who is never rewarded for fixing their lives. I've decided I may only support people (from time to time), who actually DO something to change their lives.
I've kept quiet to my spouse for betrayal infidelity and am praying for breakthrough is it possible that am sinning coz I need stand still and wait upon salvation of GOD IS it the right direction
Im so happy the Lord brought me to your channel. This message is right on time. You have a new subscriber and I cant wait to hear and see what's next 💕
Nona Nona my dear friend please allow me to call you a friend thank you so much for speaking all these words I had wish for someone to tell me my friend am dying of loneliness and rejection every day I feel weaker and weaker please I really want to leave the relationship am in just no idea how I should start please Nona I know the God who stood with you will also stand with me please pray for me and my children Thanks and may the Lord Almighty God keep on using you in Jesus name Amen
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EVERYTHING I needed. Thank you for being obedient and creating this platform.
1. Accept the need to let go
2. Explore why you stayed so long
3. Forgive the person for hurting you.
4. Share your reasons for disconnect without malice intent.
Psalm 68:5
Blessings to you.
"There's a huge difference between an Apology and Repentance" so profound
"You want so badly to be wanted, you were badly wanted" - I felt that.
This was timely.
My brothers and sisters, please help me pray to let go of the pain I feel after being treated unfairly by someone I truly love.
People don't see heartbreak as a big deal, but it has a way of disturbing your very existence. Even more so when you thought you had found your person.
For anyone in a similar situation, I pray God heals your heart and brings you restoration ❤
Your story about your mom makes me feel so heard! I am in the same situation❤. Thank you for sharing it.
Me too, same situation with my mom.🙏🏽
Me too! I just had to confront a sister who tried the "honor thy mother & thy father" scripture to guilt shame me about not giving in and begging my mom's forgiveness for something she did to me. I have had so much peace since I stopped trying to make my mother hear me and love me. I surrender our relationship to God. Finally, I'm free!
Me, too, on a level. I’m a very loving person, but the truth is, I’ve never really felt bonded to my mother. For so long I wondered what was wrong with me, but I’ve started to accept that this is normal for someone with my raising and it’s not my fault.
Thank you so much for being so transparent about your relationship with your Mom ~ Just so you know God is using you to bring healing, hope and wisdom to those who are having the same struggles God has already delivered you from to bring healing and freedom to us.😭🙏 Thank you Nona ❤ HUGS ❤️
"Forgiveness is necessary because it frees your future from the pain of the past" Nona Jones
Such an important message. Letting go is sometimes the hardest part of life.
Thank you for truth and vulnerability🫂 I’m in Chapter 9 of “Killing Comparisons” and it has been LIFE CHANGING!! Thank GOD for you!!! I love you sister 🙏🏾💫
This was all some GEMS💎👑 Thank you, Lord.
I'm currently toiling whether or not to let go of 29 years of marriage. I explored my reason for staying and it was because I liked the institute of marriage and I wanted to be wanted. I believe there is better, I just need to strengthn and courage to get to the other side of this transition instead of staying in the famililar dysfunction.
Thank you for addressing this, researching it, and sharing your truth. 💐💐💐💐
You can apologize and try to make it right but some people are emotionally committed to their own version of history, and they are not safe.
Full of wisdom Nona...all you said but the airplane "analogy" is mindblowing! Thank you for this podcast
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow, I am uncomfortable in both my fairly recent new job and new relationship. I was literally just texting my friend that things shifted last night and not in a good way. This has been on repeat, and I keep attempting to work at it. But I find myself in this cyclical unhealthy stall. Thank you. Lord give me the strength to properly handle these dynamic.
Hi Nona, your relationship with your mom is similar to my relationship with my sister, but my mom died, and I had to move in with that sister. I love her genuinely, but that love isn't returned. I don't have the financial means to leave, so I am stuck and feel like a burden even though I help a lot. I've prayed and prayed, but what if this is my wilderness? God bless you!
I really needed to hear this today. I’m Autistic and I have trouble working out boundaries and when to let go. I did have to let a friend go a number of years ago because they were not putting the effort in and basically lied to police around something that happened to me. They were also autistic and I think the hardest part is learning even sometimes just because a person is disabled doesn’t immune them from intentionally hurting people as well.
1.) accept you need to let go
2.) explore why you stayed
3.) forgive the person
4.) communicate your decision to that person without malice
My God this spoke to me!!! I wanted to be badly "wanted". I was the one carrying the relationship!
The reality is there are alot of guys out here that are spiritually empty but continue to function in society. I know a guy currently on several social media sites posting relationship advice with Bible scriptures. This individual wears a wedding ring to keep up a good man image. What he is not doing is being transparent & disclosing that the woman he was with walked out & left him months ago & that he's dating multiple women. Transparency is key! Ladies, don't allow a male to sell you dreams & smoke screens! Walk away from situations that don't feel right or serve your best interest. God already validated you, no other validation needed.
This was good. I must be in relationships with people who are willing to change because I'm present rather than change because I'll leave. That's it right there
I’m so grateful that in this season I’m in God gave voice to my season! Thank you Nona
My husband is a serious cheater and I can’t anymore. My heart is broken and I am slowly dying. We have two children and I don’t want them growing up thinking this is okay. I am trying to let go.
His cheating has nothing to do with you. It’s him. When a man cheats he’s essentially cheating on himself. I don’t want you to ever believe that you’re not enough because you are. It’s something deep down in him. You can’t and shouldn’t fix him. Love yourself enough to make that ultimate decision. Of course pray about it. But, once a cheater unfortunately they are habitual offenders. And God doesn’t even like that remember you are Gods daughter. That means you are a princess/queen. Never forget that. Again it’s not being the others are better it’s because he can’t heal his true trauma and now has all off the soul ties/demons on him. If you decide to leave never tell another man you were abused or Cheated on. Always say you were treated the best.
Jesus's ❤️ is all you need. He will see you thru this as he has seen you suffering. You deserve to be treated as a princess 👸 of The King 🤴. King Jesus. ✝️
Courage ma'am God will go with you...leave the toxicity and grow 😊
I was in your shoes, sweetheart. I stayed in my marriage for 30 years because I thought it was good for my kids. When my daughter said he was never a part of our family, I put him out and never been happier. While I was waiting on God, God was waiting on me to take the first steps. I'm not going to say I wasn't afraid, but God made a way out of no way, honey. Trust me, when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, trust me, you will know !!!!! Praying for strength for you 🙏
So good and so needed in this season of my life!!! Thank you woman of God!!❤
God bless you for this. I needed to hear this explained in the proper way. To use the scripures is a blessing for me. ❤️🙏🏾
Thank you Nona for sharing your story.❤You were smart to let go before it ruined your health. Some of us are not as fortunate or did not walk in the wisdom of self-care. Good people take care of yourself. I almost died from foolishness. Listen to Nona and take care of yourselves.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Such wisdom thank you for this and backing it up with scripture. I was struggling to let my mother in law go. Now I know that it was the right thing to do by letting her go. God bless you my sister.
❤ Thank you, knowing when to let go is when you’re dealing with an unsafe person, the unrepentance person! I needed to hear that, thank you so much for your teaching ma’am❤
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Exactly my story on the job part.....leaving was so hard ....but the environment wasn't comfortable I prayed and the Holy spirit said leave and I obeyed...God is faithful😊
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Thank you, my sister. For being so vulnerable and sharing so many important pointers. Thank God for you and your love to bless the people of God.
Powerful message, Glory to God , Amen Amen , Amen.
This is so good and so timely that I had to go back and watch again from the 20 minutes mark. I recently broke up with my friend of 19 years, and this was confirmation that it was time to let go 🙏🙌❤️
Nona, this is so true. My husband and I were just talking about this very subject. This is true enlightenment. Deep, keep it coming.
Thank you Nona for being so open and honest. You are helping so many of us, you are a blessing
Amen thanks for your obediences ❤
I love you, Nona, ❤ You truly are a wisdom of Gods love. ✝️
Thank you for sharing 🙏 So many of us stay in relationship's because of childhood experiences, time spent with the person, children involved, and what people would say. Instead of what would God say? or What would God want for them?
Unfortunately, people fear man more than God. 😢
I am currently living the workplace situation you are talking about. My boss is on the side of my subordinates and he micromanage me. I have prayed and God gave me piece about leaving my job and go to another position.
These tips. This conversation is none we’ve not heard before. We have to BELIEVE AND DO THE TIPS.
Get into the WORD. Believe GOD’S TRUTH.
Thank you so much. This was so good and something that I really needed to hear today.
Thank you!! This message is confirmation in so many ways! Healing the mother wound is so hard but so necessary. So many people try to guilt trip me into putting my feelings aside and nurturing a relationship with my mother… oh but they don’t know my story… and they don’t realize they are teaching children who eventually become adults that it’s okay to accept toxic behavior, people and relationships!
Praying for all of us trying to heal our mother wound and let go❤️🩹!
Thaaaaaaaank Abba God for yur commitment and sharing this video. I just told a dear friend that I don’t trust me to stay away from my mother whom I adore who does not want a relationship with me. I had to walk away from her on my birthday Feb this year. But I also told her that I have a funni feelin that I am no longer willing to ignore the truth. And because I had the courage to speak these truthz PappaGod brought me this video the very next day. Thaaaaaank yu Nona soooo much. I saw yu in person at Faithful Central last year and I was never the same.❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you. I decided to let it go. He hurt me and I came to apologize to him. Afterwards, I realized that he never asked me to forgive him. I think it’s my time to forgive him and letting him go
I really needed this!! Thanks for the wisdom! ❤
“If you DO that’s called a crash” was hilarious!!!
Thank you for this series
thank you Ms. Nona 💛
Amen and thank you 😊🙏🏾❤️
Can’t wait until I get your book in the mail ❤️
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Woooo
Thank God for this video
Again say, oh Nona.... you're a God send for this conversation. 🌬🙏🏽💙
This was good and right on time.
So well done and said Nona,
Thank you ❤
Thanks Amen❤🙏🙌
Thank you for sharing this. I am walking this very thing out. I thank God for going through this because it taught me a lot about myself.
Thank you so much this was just for me im going through all what was said God spoke directly through you to me
😊😊😊😊 thanks for sharing your testimonial Pastor Nona Jones 😊😊😊
This is soooo good! I needed to hear this Nona🙏🏽😊
Thank you so much for sharing.
This was good. 🙏🏽
Thank you. This is such an on time word for me ❤
Very much liked the Godly counsel in this video..... THANKYOU
A great topic delivered beautifully. Thank you.
So Powerful Thank U!
To God be Thy Glory ❤️🤗🙏🙏 Thank You Father for everything you do for Us 🙏🙏🗣️🗣️📛📛✅✅😇😇🌈🌈 Amen 😇 Amen 😇
Yes Ma'am... Amen❤❤👍🏾🙌🏿
Oh, Nona.... thank you 🌬🙏🏽💙
Thank you!!
I needed this. This is such great timing♥️🙌
Thank you for sharing ❤
You are truly an answer to my prayers. Thank you very much!❤️
Thank you so much! Such a blessing. I felt peace and clarity listening to you
Nona I could look at your videos all day long RUclips University ❤❤❤
We had the same mother ..you freed me today
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*Yes, I understand.*
Thank you
Thanks nona
Huge heart and need to be more direct... 🙏🏽
Amen
Nona what about marriage relationships!
Friendships... some people believe they honour you by making you being their private, unpaid coach or a therapist. And rather sooner or later you are the sole giver, they are the sole taker. These people believe that the fact you support them stems from your strength and a "calling to help", not just out of your empathy. I believe, that if I became a pro psychotherapist, they would NEVER make a formal appointment with me, because it would cost them something. And since they get help for free ,then they can treat me as perpetuum mobile, who is never rewarded for fixing their lives. I've decided I may only support people (from time to time), who actually DO something to change their lives.
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*The experience.*
I've kept quiet to my spouse for betrayal infidelity and am praying for breakthrough is it possible that am sinning coz I need stand still and wait upon salvation of GOD IS it the right direction
omg where you been all my life
An apology is about relieving our feelings of guilt, but we repent when we don’t want to hurt a person anymore.
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Does this message apply to marriage? Explain: toxic and abusive. A lot of church leaders say to stay.
My goodness....
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You can forgive, but you don't have to have a relationship with her.😊
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What about letting jobs go
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I just found you
Im so happy the Lord brought me to your channel. This message is right on time. You have a new subscriber and I cant wait to hear and see what's next 💕
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Nona am in kenya nairobi please help my son get a job in your country he has a passport
I love u
Spiritual Narcissism.
Nona Nona my dear friend please allow me to call you a friend thank you so much for speaking all these words I had wish for someone to tell me my friend am dying of loneliness and rejection every day I feel weaker and weaker please I really want to leave the relationship am in just no idea how I should start please Nona I know the God who stood with you will also stand with me please pray for me and my children
Thanks and may the Lord Almighty God keep on using you in Jesus name Amen
Nona, sounds like emotional abuse.....glad you did not allow her to break you....
Spiritual bypassing...🧎🏾♀️