How to be that Proverbs 31 woman who won't chase her man away (marriage advice for Christians) 🌸

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2023
  • You’ve heard about the Proverbs 31 woman I’m sure, but have you truly learned to be her in your own marriage? Growing a close and healthy marriage is WORK, but it’s worth every bit of your sanity to have a partner for life.
    Today I’ll break down the role of the godly wife and how to keep God at the core of your relationship.
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Комментарии • 145

  • @hloshichuene2420
    @hloshichuene2420 8 месяцев назад +80

    ...an entire pre-marital counseling in less than 20min, I'm glad I stumbled upon the video❤❤ Thank you Adriel😇

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes ma'am

  • @meggo329
    @meggo329 4 месяца назад +24

    I bought my husband flowers yesterday. He had rough day of work. Men like flowers too ❤

  • @Coolct
    @Coolct 8 месяцев назад +45

    This was so good, I’m trusting God for a spouse even with 2 months left!🙏🏾

    • @lindamngadi_irl
      @lindamngadi_irl 7 месяцев назад +1

      Me too sis, me too!!! 🙏🏾✨

  • @malebelomaphutha6566
    @malebelomaphutha6566 8 месяцев назад +19

    Just paused for a moment to appreciate this amazing biblical advise. Caught me at "just because you're living together doesn't mean you should not respect one another ". As someone who values respect this has really caught my attention and I pray when the time comes I'll be able to implement along with my future partner.

  • @Itztoxins3
    @Itztoxins3 8 месяцев назад +31

    This showed up in my algorithm and this is helping me so much I’m currently 19 and totally nervous about marriage and being a good Christian wife. I’ve been so nervous about this very subject ,Thank you so much for making this video!!

  • @JAH-iu3yh
    @JAH-iu3yh 2 месяца назад +6

    Wow, thank you.
    My husband has grown a lot in his faith within the past year. I am what you might call a “baby Christian” and this is all understandable. (I wanted to be a “trad wife” in my first relationship as a teen but took it way too far.)
    Anyway, still healing from that and both our childhoods has been very tough & confusing. I grew up in a typical 90s family where the “strong, independent woman” was revered. Both our mothers were dominant. Our parents stayed married but there has been so much strife over the years, like my mom will still tell me she would leave my father if such & such happens… girl I am 38 years old and y’all been together my whole life!
    Many times I had to tell my parents i am your daughter not your therapist or marriage counselor, please go find one.🙉
    This video was a true blessing to me. Thank you again, God bless.❤

  • @lillianedwards-walker4384
    @lillianedwards-walker4384 8 месяцев назад +26

    That was just pure goodness... And, that's how you make and keep a successful marriage ladies and gentleman ☝🏾️💖

  • @kathiwinter1215
    @kathiwinter1215 3 месяца назад +7

    I'm 1 month into my marriage & I am finding myself bringing the baggage. I immediately went on a search to learn to be a godly wife determined to be successful. I am so glad I found you. Thank you for your advice ❤🙏

    • @sugadiamond
      @sugadiamond 2 месяца назад +2

      May God richly bless your union.

  • @dream.zile29
    @dream.zile29 7 месяцев назад +9

    Before even clicking the video, you were giving me Proverbs 31 vibes❤❤❤

  • @eniolaoluranti4269
    @eniolaoluranti4269 12 дней назад +1

    Patiently waiting and preparing for my Godly man🥰.

  • @sydg3n
    @sydg3n 5 месяцев назад +4

    I love that passwords and things like that were included in vulnerability here. I believe that both people should trust the other to act right on social media as well as trust the other to act right when they have access to the other’s social media or other “locked” app/site. If you are scared to allow your partner to know your current password, that says sooo much about what you’re doing or looking at.

  • @PeacefulPrime
    @PeacefulPrime 7 месяцев назад +5

    I wish I knew all this 10 hrs ago when my husband and I married! I’m thankful to know these things now and am trying to make up for those first several years ❤

  • @TiffanyA837
    @TiffanyA837 8 месяцев назад +11

    As someone getting married soon, i really appreciated this advice. God bless you!

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  8 месяцев назад +1

      Of course! I pray God’s blessings over your marriage!

  • @nyemahwest64
    @nyemahwest64 Месяц назад +2

    This is GOOD! 5 minutes in and I’m so informed!!

  • @yocomdw1274
    @yocomdw1274 20 дней назад

    Such a wonderful conversation about a truly God fearing marriage. Thank you! ❤❤

  • @PrevailingWomen
    @PrevailingWomen Месяц назад +1

    Wow, all these tips are so helpful, God bless you and yours☺️

  • @Britneys31
    @Britneys31 7 месяцев назад +3

    God really wanted me to see this video. It was continuously showing up on my feed.
    Thank you! 💗💗

  • @daisywilliam6170
    @daisywilliam6170 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for the reminders. Seems that I forgot all the things I know when I was single. Thanks

  • @adrielnicolesparks
    @adrielnicolesparks  8 месяцев назад +6

    Hi! If you'd like to access some great prayers you can seal over your marriage, I created some in this blog for you. Much love! www.adrielnicolesparks.com/blog-1/prayers-for-a-christian-marriage-that-defies-the-odds

  • @toneasmith5069
    @toneasmith5069 Месяц назад +2

    Please keep these videos coming!! The way that you give real life context to biblical truths is everything! 😩🙌🏾 I Also just got done watching your video on God’s timing and the break down you gave on the Universe blew my mind 🤯!!! I pray that God bless you and heals you supernaturally!! In Jesus name, Amen!

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Месяц назад

      Yes ma’am I will! Thank you so very much for these kind words 💕💕

  • @Sunflower_01
    @Sunflower_01 8 месяцев назад +1

    I needed to hear this today, thank you❤️

  • @user-gn7bk1nz8j
    @user-gn7bk1nz8j 2 месяца назад +3

    Tho I have got this about 10 years in marriage, it's so humbling...but my husband wants to divorce... I gues I have failed him so much. But before we sign the papers...am gonna take this advice seriously. So, thank you

    • @aminadodd7531
      @aminadodd7531 2 месяца назад

      Why do you think you failed him?

  • @Hanaabc
    @Hanaabc 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @Vircago
    @Vircago 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @Ariel-yy7wh
    @Ariel-yy7wh 6 месяцев назад +2

    What i needed to hear !!❤

  • @empresstalk3999
    @empresstalk3999 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much for this. 💕

  • @natashameiring
    @natashameiring 7 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful message 😊❤

  • @Vaale7_
    @Vaale7_ 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you! This was so helpful

  • @shannon5O
    @shannon5O 6 месяцев назад +1

    So helpful and I loved this!! ❤

  • @jessicacerda702
    @jessicacerda702 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was beautiful

  • @Mrs.T305
    @Mrs.T305 7 месяцев назад +1

    I need this. Thank you so much

  • @laythev
    @laythev 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is such great advice,thank you! Keep making videos

  • @charliecharles8517
    @charliecharles8517 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video. 🙏🏾❤

  • @oaprilmiro
    @oaprilmiro 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you 😊🤍🤍🤍

  • @rjsantics7156
    @rjsantics7156 7 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Glory Hallelujah ❤😊 THANK YOU for being so honest ❤

  • @alicebentilministries
    @alicebentilministries 8 месяцев назад +2

    Great wisdom 💯 God bless you and your marriage

  • @terrylynpierre2281
    @terrylynpierre2281 8 месяцев назад +6

    Really great video!

  • @Verah___
    @Verah___ 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for all the wisdom ❤

  • @mariamukungu4236
    @mariamukungu4236 7 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful message and encouragement. Thank you

  • @Mind2Breath
    @Mind2Breath 8 месяцев назад +2

    It just eats at us! I felt that in my soul.

  • @kenikathreatt4597
    @kenikathreatt4597 5 месяцев назад +2

    AWESOME, GOD BASED, CLEAR, CONCISE AND WISE!!!!! ABUNDANT BLESSINGS on you, your husband and family🙏🏽🫶🏽

  • @charityngandu1066
    @charityngandu1066 7 месяцев назад +1

    You're such a humble soul.. thanks for the word

  • @brittneystark8667
    @brittneystark8667 Месяц назад +1

    Very helpful indeed 👌 ❤❤❤thank you

  • @DissentOrConcur
    @DissentOrConcur 7 месяцев назад +2

    Keep it up, this is Excellent.

  • @TheGoodFathersClub
    @TheGoodFathersClub 8 месяцев назад +6

    ❤You just popped up in my algorithm, I’m glad I was led here I have shared this with every woman I know. This is powerful food for the soul. Subscribed!

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist Месяц назад +1

    Great and practical tips 🙏🏾

  • @GodsButterflyy
    @GodsButterflyy 7 месяцев назад +3

    Awww thank you for sharing this beautiful! May God bless you and keep you and your husband and marriage, children and family! 🙏🏽🩷🥺

  • @KarenGist
    @KarenGist Месяц назад +1

    This advice will save a marriage. Please listen to her ladies

  • @keekee8760
    @keekee8760 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video, thank you for sharing. You were speaking the truth.

  • @angelafichtel3878
    @angelafichtel3878 4 месяца назад +1

    This came at just the right moment. Thank you so much. This really encourages me.

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thsnk you gfor sharing your testimoney. Im still waiting to be married.

  • @anastasiexoraz3376
    @anastasiexoraz3376 7 месяцев назад +1

    That video was Sooo helpful thank you so much sister in Christ!!!!

  • @asiaisabellaa
    @asiaisabellaa 4 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful

  • @PeacefulPrime
    @PeacefulPrime 7 месяцев назад +3

    May God bless you and your marriage for spreading such a humble beautiful message

  • @anitadeh1086
    @anitadeh1086 6 месяцев назад +2

    Wow so much wisdom.
    I just subscribed because i need more of this as i prepare for marriage.

  • @vogueflower7384
    @vogueflower7384 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this! As soon as I finished the video, I started it again. There’s a word here! Amen

  • @anniefrankenstein1989
    @anniefrankenstein1989 7 месяцев назад +1

    So good to hear your honest comments, a lot of these things I idealize but I am only beginning to realize how much work I need...

  • @user-ew7ff4mb1u
    @user-ew7ff4mb1u 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for creating this content for us married women. I’m on a new journey with myself and in my marriage. This shined light on my prayers. Thank you again. New subscriber! I will be watching. Have a blessed one❤

  • @latoyiadionne3905
    @latoyiadionne3905 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing. I was previously married for 4 years. Everything that you are saying is absolutely true. I did not do all the things that you mentioned but I did try. I ended up leaving and would feel guilty because I didn’t have the tenacity to endure. I have forgiven my self and completely understand that there is no condemnation in Christ. My ex husband expresses no interest in being together. I do desire marriage and pray to God for a second chance if it’s in God’s will. I continue to prepare myself for marriage as a Proverbs 31 woman. Thank you again. Many blessings to you and your husband..

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  7 месяцев назад +1

      I am so impressed by your healthy outlook on marriage (and yourself) after that experience. That speaks volumes about your character. As you said, there is no condemnation and I do believe God will open up another opportunity for you 💕

  • @Aylaaliyeva8
    @Aylaaliyeva8 3 месяца назад +1

    Love that❤

  • @shesonfire_
    @shesonfire_ 5 месяцев назад +2

    Very informative video. ❤ just a tid bit for us to remember. The marriage bed can be defiled if we defile it. Porn and other sexual acts that we know we are doing with an ungodly motive in mind can defile it. For instance, Things like needing a safe word because you have a desire for hyper aggressive, demeaning abusive sex. Marriage does not make that type of act holy simply because it’s marriage. God judges our hearts and there is nothing pure about wanting to be degraded during sex. When God cleanses you from whatever caused us to be attracted to that you will no longer want to do those things.
    Also, Your partner shld always be in agreement before you just do things to them as well.

  • @Christfindersministers
    @Christfindersministers 3 месяца назад +1

    I respect your honesty of marriage ❤❤❤❤God bless you ... I'm a woman in waiting . So thank you being real ❤❤❤

  • @Lafashionista862
    @Lafashionista862 7 месяцев назад +1

    Can we please get more videos like this. I’m 22 I need the help and perspective so much.

  • @hdfan5742
    @hdfan5742 6 месяцев назад +1

    Very wise advice thank you

  • @DailyHolyGospel
    @DailyHolyGospel 7 месяцев назад +1

    Give the glory to God!!! That's who God wants you to be!!!

  • @briennebedi
    @briennebedi 6 месяцев назад +2

    What a blessing! I took so much from this and the Lord knew I needed this so badly! I am so thankful to have been led here to you! God is truly always working. ❤

  • @susanlagura8314
    @susanlagura8314 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great biblical advise♥

  • @irinapaulson4879
    @irinapaulson4879 8 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful message ❤️

  • @faith-manages
    @faith-manages 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for putting all that good advice out there, as a single man who is really longing for the right woman I appreciate that there are women offering advice for other women in preparation for marriage, and also that there are women out there that are seeking it!

  • @MsLakeri
    @MsLakeri 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is absolutely beautiful. Just landed on your channel and woow...

  • @glamgyrl0999
    @glamgyrl0999 8 месяцев назад +5

    I, too, stumbled on this video and I thank God for you. This has taught me so much that I have been yearning to learn over the last 10 years. I see WHY we've been engaged for so long. I'll be happy to come back with a wedding celebration announcement thanks to you. Please keep these coming. I'd love to hear your tactics in remaining humble and not naggy. ❤❤❤

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  8 месяцев назад +1

      This warms my heart! Prayers over the both of you! ❤️

    • @glamgyrl0999
      @glamgyrl0999 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@adrielnicolesparks I mean it! I'm in corporate so I have to be reactionary in order to stand my ground but it's been hard to turn it off when I get home. This has helped me ALREADY! THANK YOU SO MUCH and may God continue to bless you so you may continue to bless us!

  • @shivanieshiv7432
    @shivanieshiv7432 8 месяцев назад +4

    I particularly like how God took time to Build women to be the help meet for man..as in Eve for Adam.

  • @barbaramorrison9008
    @barbaramorrison9008 7 месяцев назад +1

    Moral character yes sister

  • @DPickron
    @DPickron 8 месяцев назад +3

    You are so wise. This was helpful. It sounds very hard to do but still very insightful. Patience isn't easy.

  • @tamaraslay
    @tamaraslay 8 месяцев назад +1

    Amen

  • @keyahninaylor4974
    @keyahninaylor4974 8 месяцев назад +1

    Amen 🙏

  • @itsashleynicole3278
    @itsashleynicole3278 8 месяцев назад +7

    Amazing guidance and understanding

  • @preciousa-vavo
    @preciousa-vavo 8 месяцев назад +2

    Gems

  • @joecam1167
    @joecam1167 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for putting all this out there.
    I cannot begin to express the hurt that neo feminism has put upon men by teaching women and men to be competitive with each other instead of working together.
    17 years married, entirely faithful, 6 wonderful kids, a wife i love with all of my heart, but no one has ever told her this, despite being raised in a household which read the bible.
    There is almost nothing worse than being called and yelled at in front of coworkers, subordinates, etc. Abd disrespected by the woman you have built up to everyone.
    It has brought so much shame, and its no wonder that men commit suicide at such high rates.

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  Месяц назад

      You are right on. I truly felt led to share this, so I'm thankful that it's been helpful.

  • @sewmehone1736
    @sewmehone1736 8 месяцев назад +2

    I WENT MERRIAGE PRAYE 🤲🤲🤲 ME I !!!

  • @britanyd
    @britanyd 8 месяцев назад +2

  • @Bronx_Bombers
    @Bronx_Bombers 24 дня назад +1

    Let me share this ladies. Chinese proverb states, “A male bird will not land in a nest with thorns in it.” 😉

  • @SandraLuz3
    @SandraLuz3 Месяц назад +1

    He's not out to kill you. You're not out to get him. 😅 ❤

  • @marymekano
    @marymekano 7 месяцев назад +2

    The colors of your nails ❤

  • @shenettabrewster8979
    @shenettabrewster8979 7 месяцев назад +1

    That was good. However, I have questions. Like if the woman is supposed to do all those things, and stay strong. Dies the husband / man supposed to do the same, or do they get to run wild, like the woman / wife feelings or the marriage doesn't matter at all? Like what makes that right?

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  7 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely not. If that was the case, I would NOT be married lol. The husband is supposed to love us as Christ loves the church. He gave Himself for us, tends to our every need, is faithful and trustworthy. This is the role model whom the man should follow. Your husband should make you feel like you’re the only one for him. But I spoke on us being strong and patient because it may take some time for him to learn how to fully do that. Hope that made sense ❤️ great question!

  • @Nieshas_mind
    @Nieshas_mind 7 месяцев назад +3

    I'm a wife.. not meant to be a wife. It's hard to say especially now that I accepted christ. Married almost 10 years and it's just not right.

    • @adrielnicolesparks
      @adrielnicolesparks  7 месяцев назад +3

      Honestly I have felt that very thing many times. I struggled with loving him but not loving the job of the wife. It’s completely normal. Just see where God leads you ❤

    • @joyelvenezia7016
      @joyelvenezia7016 Месяц назад

      Its a curse attacking your mind. Be still and get into your bible, He will send messengers pay close attention.

    • @joyelvenezia7016
      @joyelvenezia7016 Месяц назад

      An attack can happen any year of your marriage stay in the word, you will have to surrender and humble yourself and over again.

  • @TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFather
    @TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFather Месяц назад

    Who is the head of the woman?

  • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
    @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

    Im going to marry a black woman just because divorce rate is like zero for white man black woman. But delemma because I am okay with having black kids but I need a white son. So as long as she is okay with that then I'll use a white woman and then after that I'll stay faithful to my wife.

    • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
      @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

      It's not exactly Christian but Christianity is not the real knowledge it is just the dumb down version for the masses. It isn't fake it is just dumbed down.
      I am close to royalty right now and by the time I'm 50/60 I will be, if not it will be my son who will finish the job. I need the best possible genetics in my son to make this happen.
      It's possible my black son will be capable but the chances are way lower. Just research some eugenics and you'll see.
      I dont want to cheat but I have to buy God's will. I am okay with test tube son though, as long as I have a white son. Royal is devine rights. It is God's will to anoint you.

    • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
      @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

      My manhood is not dependant on my wife believe me. Its good what you are saying tho. It is good to live by this if you are female. But even if you are having this social media I would leave you for this alone.

    • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
      @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

      Also I can tell you something. Adam and Eve is the white origin story. The black origin is different. The modern black race is created from white race. Eventually Adams sons carried down to Noah and Noah landed on the mountain. He carried us down to Africa and we mated with the tribes there and created the modern black man. The origin is different tho. The out of Africa thing is propoganda.

    • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
      @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

      The reason why this is in the Bible Adam and Eve is because the white race is the first race. Before Adam and Eve there was Neanderthals and homo erectus and a few other species. We had common ancestry to the black tribes in Africa (homo erectus) but the white race created all races. We mated with Asians Indians and blacks to create the modern versions.

    • @JasonDeville-fi4dh
      @JasonDeville-fi4dh 3 месяца назад

      If you take 100 percent alcohaul and mix it with 40 percent alcohol, you can't get 100 percent alcohol. The best it could be is 90. Eugenics doesn't lie and the Bible doesn't lie either but they will not tell you the literal origin. The Bible hides the esoteric information in it. This is knowledge for kings until the internet came.

  • @superniftysuzy1
    @superniftysuzy1 8 месяцев назад +1

    Be light skin and pretty that’s all

    • @tribecalledmaya
      @tribecalledmaya 8 месяцев назад +3

      😭

    • @danimiller2865
      @danimiller2865 8 месяцев назад +17

      She made some very nice points, regardless of how beautiful she is. Saying this in the most respectful tone, if you have nothing nice to say, it's best to just dislike the video and go about your day. Stay Blessed.

    • @Jessicastill93
      @Jessicastill93 8 месяцев назад

      @@danimiller2865 I think it’s important that women don’t come to her channel and actually believe that her looks didn’t play the biggest factor in her success. We all know women who’ve done this and much more but still didn’t get her results.

    • @malebelomaphutha6566
      @malebelomaphutha6566 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂wow

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 7 месяцев назад

      Your butter.

  • @superniftysuzy1
    @superniftysuzy1 8 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely nothing to hear or listen to her

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 7 месяцев назад +5

      It's a wonderful video. Your jealous.