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  • It's become a tradition that I'm single and dating myself on Valentine's day every year, so why should 2024 be an exception? Come thrifting, cake eating and plant nursery shopping with me. I hope that you have a lovely day, and remember yourself too
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Комментарии • 676

  • @Gigismom59
    @Gigismom59 7 месяцев назад +118

    Happy Valentine’s Day Elise!❤ I’m 64 years old and I live alone in New York. I woke up early and walked to my favorite bakery and got myself a valentine cake and some espresso. Be good to yourself always! Love your channel!

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +3

      Sounds like a wonderful morning 🥰Thank you so much!

  • @dietkeh.582
    @dietkeh.582 7 месяцев назад +14

    Hy elise, happy Valentinsday I am a divorced Single since ten years. It is what it is. Better than being in an unhappy relationship.

    • @GOPexorcism-we4mp
      @GOPexorcism-we4mp 7 месяцев назад +1

      True that an unhappy relationship is a great deal worse than being alone.

  • @skye4743
    @skye4743 7 месяцев назад

    My Spiritual teacher once told me, "It takes intelligence to live alone." Elise, you are beautiful and intelligent. Happy Vakentines Day! ❤❤

  • @vickinoeske1154
    @vickinoeske1154 7 месяцев назад +6

    The swan needlepoint is so beautiful. 🦢🦢🦢

  • @twilightcave
    @twilightcave 7 месяцев назад

    Elise, it warms my heart to see the love you always pour into your beautiful home, garden and boutique, and most of all the love you give yourself. You are half my age but you have the wisdom of someone older. Continue surrounding yourself with beautiful things and may every success be yours. You are so lovely. I want to visit Denmark because of what you have shown us. Love from Helen in Melbourne, Australia 🌷.

  • @freedomwalkerpeace3727
    @freedomwalkerpeace3727 7 месяцев назад

    When I was young I didn't date much. 10 years I was alone then 7 years I was alone then 5, then 3 and when I was older, 11 years alone. I've been alone for most of my life. In the beginning it is frustrating and sad but then I learned how to be alone and enjoyed it. 2019 I wasn't looking for anyone and my partner came into my life. Everyday we show appreciation towards each other. Everyday is Valentine's Day for us. We support each other during our bad days and celebrate our good ones. We see ourselves growing old together. It's about uniting as a couple. Our relationship has gone beyond the sexual part of a relationship. It is about having inner peace, inner stability. Every day we find something to laugh about.

  • @TheMarlacrane
    @TheMarlacrane 7 месяцев назад

    Happy Valentine's day Elise 💘 I love your videos, you have such a peaceful vibe 🫶

  • @patroberts185
    @patroberts185 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lucygale336
    @lucygale336 7 месяцев назад

    Happy valentines 💝

  • @artistikitty
    @artistikitty 7 месяцев назад +116

    From a more “mature” 😉woman.... Sometimes being in a “relationship” can feel THE LONELIEST! Even more so than being single on Valentines Day. I quite liked my single life tbh. And never felt lonely. 😌 Don’t ever settle for less than you deserve. You are an amazing woman and deserve the BEST. Happy Valentines Day sweetie❣️❣️❣️😘

    • @jennifermanian1420
      @jennifermanian1420 7 месяцев назад +4

      Be good to yourself on this day. I bought two books and a sewing pattern. Take care of yourself and do what you love.

    • @CAILINSONA
      @CAILINSONA 7 месяцев назад

      💖

  • @cindyclark3318
    @cindyclark3318 7 месяцев назад +118

    I was married to my best friend for 17 years. He died in October 2021. I decorated my office space and said Happy Valentines day to him when i woke up today. I will take flowers out this pm to him. Miss him every day, but I've adjusted to the single life. Each day is a blessing! ❤️❤️

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +13

      aww this hit me 🥰Hope to meet my best friend and get to have 17 years together with someone, some day. Yes, each day is indeed a blessing.

    • @LCLand
      @LCLand 6 месяцев назад

      🙏🏼♥️

  • @tracidaniel7462
    @tracidaniel7462 7 месяцев назад +117

    My Valentine and I have been together for 35 years. This year he was diagnosed with cancer. He always gave me cards and gifts for Valentines days. This year he can not get out and shop. He did ask me to buy what I wanted. I just want him well.

    • @lucindabunch7828
      @lucindabunch7828 7 месяцев назад +7

      I'm so sorry to hear this💔 All the love and care for you and your spouse ❤ I hope each and every day you're together continues to be the most special. Idk if you're spiritual. But I will say a prayer for you both!

    • @flowerlady-e5u
      @flowerlady-e5u 7 месяцев назад +6

      So sorry . I pray he goes into remission 🙏

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker 7 месяцев назад +4

      I hope your days with him are happy and I hope he heals so you can have more time together.

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +8

      aww I'm so sorry to hear that! Good that you have each other. The most beautiful love is the one where you stick through whatever life throws at you, so I really admire that. I send you all the love! 🥰

    • @Katt1447
      @Katt1447 7 месяцев назад +1

      Enjoy every minute❤ Praying for recovery.

  • @martindurkin8837
    @martindurkin8837 7 месяцев назад +59

    As a single gentleman who is not reluctant to say Valentine's Day can be difficult I like the idea of turning it into a self care day I think we can all use more days like that in today's world. Sending you a little love and best wishes. ❤ (I'm actually going to a thrift shop in a few minutes but mine is not as interesting as that one!)

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +7

      Yaaay! Thrifting for Valentine's day should be the number one thing to do 🥰hehe

  • @hortenseotten4729
    @hortenseotten4729 7 месяцев назад +90

    I can buy myself flowers…..💐

    • @dianebaker5243
      @dianebaker5243 7 месяцев назад +7

      Brilliant song 👍🥰

    • @theMermaidRhonda
      @theMermaidRhonda 7 месяцев назад +5

      How many others sang this? LOL

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi 7 месяцев назад +3

      I thought exactly the same thing :)

    • @makim4199
      @makim4199 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@user-vc3pm7mw7y you kinda sound ignorant and missed the point of the song. I CAN buy myself flowers etc. it's a choice. Everything's a choice. If we don't want to settle for something that isn't fulfilling, that is our choice. Obviously there's nothing wrong with being happy in a relationship. Just as there's nothing wrong with being happy without someone. And statistics show that single childless women are happier than women who are married have kids. Surprise surprise.

    • @AlishaRich-s3s
      @AlishaRich-s3s 7 месяцев назад

      @@makim4199 I stopped reading as soon as you insulted me.

  • @Poutinen
    @Poutinen 7 месяцев назад +26

    Thank you Elise for reminding that it's okay to spend valentine's day by yourself! ❤
    I'm single and happy by myself. ☺️

  • @maureenp581
    @maureenp581 7 месяцев назад +246

    I've had the same valentine for 42 years and we basically ignore valentine's day. And I've noticed that the healthiest relationships around me do the same. Showing love should be a daily thing, not an on-special-occasions thing.

    • @karenholt8441
      @karenholt8441 7 месяцев назад +16

      I’ve never celebrated it either, and have had two great loves!
      1st for 30 years until the death of my husband, and been married for 5 years to my now husband.

    • @cynthiamurphy3669
      @cynthiamurphy3669 7 месяцев назад +9

      My best valentine memories are when I was a kid. My dad would buy a really good box of chocolates for Mom and us kids, and he'd buy himself a 6-pack of beer, lol. Everybody was happy. Valentine's is definitely no biggy. It wasn't when I was married, either.

    • @dhall75608
      @dhall75608 7 месяцев назад +6

      Same. My husband and I have never celebrated. We have a little something for our daughter just to be fun and cute. His bday is actually tomorrow so he gets celebrated instead.

    • @suejohnson6254
      @suejohnson6254 7 месяцев назад +6

      I have been married for 54 years and we also don't think about it too much. This year we are going out to dinner with another couple by a happy accident, when we made the reservations we just knew it was on a Wednesday😊

    • @nicoleswanson787
      @nicoleswanson787 7 месяцев назад +9

      That's kinda sad though. I love celebrating holidays. Doesn't have to be anything big. Been with my husband for 20 years and we definitely used to go all out as kids but even just a card or coffee, a treat, watching a special movie together. Although we would never go out on valentines day bc that's a nightmare but a special home-cooked meal is nice!

  • @heatherburrill
    @heatherburrill 7 месяцев назад +33

    Read through a lot of these comments and I say ignore the “how to get a man advice”, my advice for a happy life is know your self, love yourself and make your best life, filling it with all sorts of loving relationships- family, friends, pets, garden, nature, creativity etc. From what I see you do that on a daily basis 🥰

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you. Yes, I do that 🥰I'm a professional single woman haha

    • @heatherburrill
      @heatherburrill 7 месяцев назад

      I hope that I didn’t offend you. Being single and everything I mentioned about aren’t mutually exclusive! You can have it all. All I meant was that you can live a full and happy life regardless of finding a life partner. There are so many types of lives to live fully and happily. I just remember feeling so much social pressure in finding marriage in my 30s that i had a nagging feeling in the back of my mind that something was wrong with me if I didn’t. With 20 years more experience, and a marriage behind me, that voice is gone. Way too simplistic those nagging, unhelpful voices.

  • @annl5200
    @annl5200 7 месяцев назад +12

    I bought a Valentine's Day gift for myself and also one for my sister-in-law. My brother passed away suddenly quite a while ago but she still feels lonely on this holiday. I visited her today and gave her the gift. A win-win!!!!

  • @nanjahnke-6776
    @nanjahnke-6776 7 месяцев назад +28

    I was married for 25 years and have been single for 20. Being your own favorite person, being willing to try new things, and enjoying your own company are far better for me. ❤

  • @gwyn192
    @gwyn192 7 месяцев назад +22

    I am not a romantic. In my opinion only, Valentine's Day is just another commercially motivated holiday to encourage spending. My idea of love is when individual, partners or friends work through the good and the not so good days for the sake of wellness, relationship and family. I love flowers, but they fade. I love chocolate, but it gives me migraines. To love is to be there through life's 'stuff' and grow deeper in understanding of myself and my partner. Love, to me, is caring more about the wellness of relationship than being the one that is right. Love is allowing another to flow in their own natural way.
    Enjoying your videos and LOVE your style, your talents and YOU!

  • @sundog3150
    @sundog3150 7 месяцев назад +48

    Married 55 years, we took a drive out into the country. We enjoy the ride, laugh, tell stories and when he sees something I might like to take a picture of he stops for me. We are friends, doesn’t mean we don’t have disagreements but we know, laughter, being kind and remembering life is very short carry us through. It is a day of self care, self love and thenyou are in better shape to love others.❤❤❤❤ oh, and tonight we will watch 100foot Journey, a movie we love to see on Valentine’s Day and per your suggestion we will order some Indian food. perfect for the movie!

    • @JosephineJames-x7b
      @JosephineJames-x7b 7 месяцев назад +3

      I am sitting here watching this with my mum drinking Prosecco happy valentine ❤all. Great vlog as usual

    • @LCLand
      @LCLand 6 месяцев назад

      Congratulations that’s wonderful ❤😊 I’m 55 it’s great number! Hee hee

  • @getthoma300
    @getthoma300 7 месяцев назад +18

    Happy Valentines Day. Well done Elise! Showing love,kindness and self acceptance is the best gift to oneself.🙏🏽🌺💯

  • @CleoHarperReturns
    @CleoHarperReturns 7 месяцев назад +106

    💖Happy Valentine's Day, Elise!💖
    I am extremely happily old and single. No one can make me miserable like a man.😁
    Today, my mom and I will be baking a raspberry cake, dying our hair and drinking some wine in our new pajamas. No pressure, no disappointment. Unless I don't like my hair color.
    Thank you for another beautiful video! You look stunning as always.

    • @GOPexorcism-we4mp
      @GOPexorcism-we4mp 7 месяцев назад +5

      A great song from the 1950's movie "Moulin Rouge" goes - "Wine can make you pale but a man can make you paler." I never forgot that - it's so true

    • @andreastrom
      @andreastrom 7 месяцев назад +6

      me toooooooooooooooooo i adore my life that way , and i do not no intention to change , absolutly not

    • @lizdaugherty5607
      @lizdaugherty5607 7 месяцев назад +2

      Sounds like a great time ❤

    • @sari2412
      @sari2412 7 месяцев назад +2

      Happy valentines day, i love to watch your videos❤

    • @CleoHarperReturns
      @CleoHarperReturns 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@GOPexorcism-we4mpI love that so much!

  • @stone.durfey5862
    @stone.durfey5862 7 месяцев назад +17

    Happy Valentines Day Sweetheart. I went shopping at Walmart yesterday...took my time and was surprised to see so many men out buying valentines gifts. Carrying flowers, chocolates, and other gifts for their loved ones. I'm not in a relationship, nor plan on ever being in one again at almost 67 I am content to just be me and me alone. I answer to nobody, can do as I please, and just enjoy life the way I want. Even slept in a bit. So for us single ladies out there Happy Valentines Day! Spend time for happiness today.💟💙💚💛💜💖💘💝❤

  • @AM-bm2xw
    @AM-bm2xw 7 месяцев назад +14

    My husband and I have had 12 (or 13 😬😅) Valentine's together and the more the expectations have faded over the years, the better it's become. This year he bought us some Lego flowers to build together and we will probably watch a cozy movie and eat chocolate 😊

    • @teresacarle294
      @teresacarle294 7 месяцев назад +2

      😊Sounds like a sweet way to connect w/your hubby, esp. w/Legos💗. Romance doesn't have to be some 🪄big grand or glorious✨️ gesture.
      😬The 📺 media puts out a lot of unnecessary pressure on both ♂️men & women♀️ leading up to the day. 🎀Simple & thoughtful is the best way to go when it comes to couples. 💝Figure having it on the calendar is only an opportunity to spoil ourselves or a loved one.
      💫 Happy 💘 Valentine's!
      💚Bridget from Cali☘️
      (using my pal's YT acct)

  • @janicenorris8726
    @janicenorris8726 7 месяцев назад +16

    A self-love care day is perfect!!!
    I have been married 25 years to a most wonderful, thoughtful, loving man who is also my best friend for life. Valentine's Day to us is just another day. Every day for us is what we want to make it. Love your videos ! You're a great inspiration to us .

  • @michelewright9090
    @michelewright9090 7 месяцев назад +6

    My husband and I shared Valentine’s Day with my 90 year old mom who lives 3 hours away. She will be moving from her familial home of 30 years to a retirement home at end of month. We agreed that, hopefully, we will have many more Valentine’s Days to share together, but felt it was important to spend time with her. It was lovely, shared a yummy meal, took her for a haircut and clothes shopping for her new home. Every day is an opportunity to share love with important people in our lives. Your day looked perfect!❤️

  • @divinerdetective44
    @divinerdetective44 7 месяцев назад +4

    I've never paid any attention to Valentine's Day, to me it's just a commercial Hallmark kind of deal, another bogus holiday so people will spend $$$. I also love being single and not part of a couple, but everybody is different.

  • @colinburke3758
    @colinburke3758 7 месяцев назад +16

    I love this and this is a great message. Ladies need to see the day as a self love and not just relationship based. Great message!!!!!!

  • @polowandering3496
    @polowandering3496 7 месяцев назад +12

    Happy Valentine’s Day as a single woman🌹🫰🎸🥳! Celebrate Us!! ❤🎉

  • @tracymaddox8546
    @tracymaddox8546 7 месяцев назад +8

    I love the swan picture. The minute you held it up in the store I was in love!! The floral picture would be beautiful above your fireplace. I love your eclectic style. You always seem to be able to pull it all together and make it look cohesive. You get joy from simplicity and I love that way of life. Love watching you and I wish you a very wonderful Valentine's Day. 🎉

  • @maya-gur695
    @maya-gur695 7 месяцев назад +10

    Thrifting and cake is my ideal date with myself! It's the best.

  • @terrykoss3668
    @terrykoss3668 7 месяцев назад +8

    You are such a joy little one. Blessings from a grandma in America…❤️

  • @purplelitta
    @purplelitta 7 месяцев назад +13

    A sunny day is here in my hometown, I borrowed a book from the library, drank coffee in the sun, and tonight I have an education, all in all magical. As for valentines, I've been solo for 5-something years and I don't feel any pressure about it. 🎉😊 🌱

  • @Nia_von_L
    @Nia_von_L 7 месяцев назад +10

    What a treat on Valentine's Day for us single ladies 💖 I watched this with a glass of champagne because I derseve it! 🥰 Have a lovely day everyone!

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +1

      Yesss! Ohh I missed out on Champagne on my Valentine's day hehe 🥰Thank you!

  • @debbiemalina
    @debbiemalina 7 месяцев назад +27

    Happy Valentines day Elise ,who needs a Man ? Miley Cyrus’ song says it all !i can buy myself flowers and hold my own hand, I can Love myself better !
    I think your floral painting would look nice over your mantle !

  • @LotusLady70
    @LotusLady70 7 месяцев назад +6

    WOW!!I love the needle work Swans in the beautiful gold frame!!So glad you had a fun self care day!!The flowers 🌹 you bought are so pretty ❤️ Happy Valentine's Day to you ❤

  • @maggiehernandez7670
    @maggiehernandez7670 7 месяцев назад +9

    I was married 38 yrs and I’m soooo happy being alone , I love my life more than ever !! I’m very good to myself

    • @CleoHarperReturns
      @CleoHarperReturns 7 месяцев назад +3

      No one buys you better presents than yourself😁

  • @Bamgeutcutiepie
    @Bamgeutcutiepie 7 месяцев назад +25

    i can top that! .... i have been single since i was 23. i am now 32 🤡 uuuugh i miss being in love 🌺 i literally don't care about this day. the only reason i remember it, is cause online people remind me. i think it is SO STUP!D the world has this day, that forces most people to either be sad or forced to do something romantic for their partner. maybe i was sad last week? today i am not sad, just bc today is the day it is valentines. you can't force a feeling or a gesture on a specific day. if i had a love, i would definitely tell them to show their love on any other day. not this day. i don't mind if others find it so romantic with valentines day. but to me it holds no value. :) 💕

    • @choochcardinale6595
      @choochcardinale6595 7 месяцев назад +2

      Being in love isn't what is cracked up to be anymore.

    • @heatherburrill
      @heatherburrill 7 месяцев назад +2

      For me I have made it a time that I tell my family and friends how much I love them 🥰

    • @annaibarra3447
      @annaibarra3447 7 месяцев назад +1

      I think most of today, people are making it their own. I spent a wonderful, fun time with my girlfriends. 2 of us lost our hubbies, 1 never married or had anyone. Another divorced, another on her 3rd and last hubby. We celebrated ourselves. ❤

    • @annaibarra3447
      @annaibarra3447 7 месяцев назад +1

      Also, don’t allow yourselves to forced to be lonely and sad. Do as Elise here is doing, being a beautiful woman doing what she loves to do! ❤. If your sad and lonely then your allowing yourself to be. ❤

    • @GOPexorcism-we4mp
      @GOPexorcism-we4mp 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@choochcardinale6595 Remember when Prince Charles said "Whatever in love means." Diana should have vacated right then and there.

  • @sammiehall4415
    @sammiehall4415 7 месяцев назад +3

    Im 49 ive been single every year apart from one year of my life, no mind games no heartbreak, I am good at unrequited love however never met someone were it was mutual m fussy!

    • @JosephineJames-x7b
      @JosephineJames-x7b 7 месяцев назад +3

      Met my partner, had a baby late in life. Sadly he was taken from us. My daughter is in UNI so I am here watching Elise with my mum and drinking a glass of Prosecco so here’s to all single, together or whatever enjoy

  • @brennagreenglasspeacock
    @brennagreenglasspeacock 7 месяцев назад +5

    I’ve had the same Valentine for 22 years (I’m 42). We don’t really celebrate it but I feel like every day I know I’m loved and they know they’re loved and that’s all that matters ❤

  • @jessicajones6995
    @jessicajones6995 7 месяцев назад +4

    I am widowed and spent the day with my grand daughters. It was lovely. They are lovely. I always tried to make Valentines a special Day for my husband and kids. Now they do for their significant others and kids. I have always believed in taking the opportunity of a special day to show those that I love that they are important and make my life better. There is always a chance to do that but it’s nice to join the world in a day that celebrates love.

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 7 месяцев назад +2

    I pray God will.send someone to share your life you are such a beautiful person and can sing
    ❤your channel

  • @kleiter9
    @kleiter9 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Elise! I just want you to be happy and fulfilled. You have an evolving style and class with great appeal - be proud lovely Lady of your accomplishments. Self-care is one of the most important things to do for yourself - Kudos. Your being positive and upbeat is a strength. It (falling in love) will happen when you least expect it - it did for me! Remember - never to settle, though there may be need to compromise - there is a difference - which you will know in your heart. You're one of those type of young women - knowing when it's right and when it's not -- trusting your heart! K in Connecticut

  • @Nekoyasha92
    @Nekoyasha92 7 месяцев назад +5

    i started to celebrate last night. grabbed a single rose while checking out of target. happy love day to everyone

  • @Cookie_moonlove
    @Cookie_moonlove 7 месяцев назад +5

    11:59 Oh, is that a Orrefors Hallon (Raspberry) candleholder? What a nice find!

    • @evastr2942
      @evastr2942 7 месяцев назад +1

      It Is, and I think I could see another one on the shelf

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 7 месяцев назад +1

    BE KIND TO YOURSELF.
    ALSO CELEBRATE GALETINE Day.
    Many single women and men.
    We have to CELEBRATE life.
    Do something special for yourself.
    If you have friends you could have CELEBRATED GALETINE DAY
    NOW THERE IS MALETINE
    I THOUGHT YOU WOULD HAVE SPENT THE Day with your mother and sisters.
    We❤you!

  • @mr6144
    @mr6144 7 месяцев назад +3

    Today is always a hard day for me, my husband and I were married 13yrs ago today. I remember saying that I wanted it be today to always remember this day forever. However it's been 2 years and my love is no longer here. Today I will go and grab food and make a nice dinner and have a glass of wine and watch a movie with our son who is 13. I found out a week later we were going to be parents so my son is the reason I smile on this day.

    • @rikkemeek1506
      @rikkemeek1506 7 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 7 years ago. Life does get easier. Grief never really goes away. It gets quieter, slower and sometimes it comes rushing back like the sea❤

    • @mr6144
      @mr6144 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@rikkemeek1506 yes that's exactly how it feels. Sorry for your loss as well❤

  • @jessicahennen1047
    @jessicahennen1047 7 месяцев назад +2

    My Valentine and I have been married 16 years. We have two beautiful babies that look just like us. I am beyond grateful for this lovely little life. It all happened because he came thru the place I worked. Out of the blue, without warning. He stole my heart and helped me live. ❤

  • @AnneSmith-mu2ph
    @AnneSmith-mu2ph 5 месяцев назад +1

    The garden is a beautiful place to be in ,you forget all your troubles,and go into a lovely peaceful place .It always amazes me how something growers from a seed .i have many bonsai trees and to think how many seasons they have gone through.sending blessings and love Elise Ann uk ❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @MiaMultitool
    @MiaMultitool 7 месяцев назад +4

    As you hold the flowerpainting up in your living room, I guess you are finding your "deep with in" style, that brings you joy and helps building your house. This painting is so good looking with your living room and not "just another flower painting".
    Any passion that we reflect is a true passion ❤ Love your videos and wish you the best Elise 😊

  • @ALISONCOCO
    @ALISONCOCO 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Valentine’s Day! Thank you for making this and sharing your heart day with us! Loved it! ❤️

  • @selqui
    @selqui 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Valentine's Day, Elise!! I've had my share of Valentine's Day on my own - but have now been with my boyfriend for twelve-and-a-half years (we met in our late 30s). We got to spend a bit of time together today - I am in a play and we are in the middle of production week, so we had a small window, but we had a coffee together and watched Age of Adaline, a random selection that I had seen, but he hadn't. It felt good to be cozy before heading to rehearsal! Thanks for producing such great videos, I enjoy them so much!

  • @swisslions
    @swisslions 7 месяцев назад +4

    Happy Valentine’s day. I’m taking my 11 year old rescue dog to the vet. Maybe I’ll treat myself to some Thai takeout food tonight.

  • @myfathersdaughter324
    @myfathersdaughter324 7 месяцев назад +1

    Maybe you are a little too intimidating to the average man. Young, beautiful and successful can be a high bar to meet for some. Why not join some fun groups with others of like mind? For example, there are groups such as steampunk, 50's clubs for those who love the 1950s fashion and decor, cosplay, music and book clubs....anything that takes your fancy really. I don't know about where you are, but certainly there are in other countries. Romance doesn't last forever unless both parties are into making a full commitment to it.

  • @BiornBear
    @BiornBear 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m jealous of you because I’d DEFINITELY date you 😂

  • @a2zin125
    @a2zin125 7 месяцев назад +2

    No, no, no, no , no, Elise!! Take off the goofy poofy wedding gown; you don't need to be married to be happy kiddo. The cinderella story is for children and belong in storybooks!

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +1

      Who says I even want to get married. It was a joke 🤭🤭 I just happen to have a vintage wedding gown in the store.

  • @JacquelinOliverlulagrimez99
    @JacquelinOliverlulagrimez99 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm amazed how hung up some women get about Valentines , its a pointless 'holiday' that makes people spend money. I didn't care about it when I was in a relationship or now I'm single . It doesn't signify anything , just live your life the way you want .

  • @apt221bbakerst
    @apt221bbakerst 7 месяцев назад +1

    I don't remember if it was Valentine's Day or my birthday, but the guy I was dating wasn't interested in taking me out to celebrate so I took myself out on a date. I dressed up, took myself to my favorite oriental restaurant and a movie. Best date ever! I dumped the jerk after that.

  • @sallyannchappell5671
    @sallyannchappell5671 7 месяцев назад +2

    Shopping, gardening, take away while watching a fave romcom or two. Sounds like the perfect day to me!

  • @BridgetsAnimalHouse
    @BridgetsAnimalHouse 7 месяцев назад +2

    Elise, you really know how to do cozy:) And I love how you wore the beautiful, vintage bridal gown as a regular dress… good idea!

  • @luannianke8110
    @luannianke8110 7 месяцев назад +4

    Be your own Valentine everyday. Nothing better.

  • @1minigrem
    @1minigrem 7 месяцев назад +4

    Well done Elise, you value yourself and that’s the most important thing.

  • @zrinkamaiden8575
    @zrinkamaiden8575 7 месяцев назад +1

    What's up with the dudes today?
    A young woman like this is single, what's going on?!

  • @beachbumetta
    @beachbumetta 7 месяцев назад +1

    My husband and I both had Dr appointments today so we celebrated by not being put on another medication. We are old. 😂

  • @crystalsdance
    @crystalsdance 7 месяцев назад +2

    The rose painting is one of the most beautiful I have seen thrifted by anyone and my favorite art piece of yours! And, the embroidered swans are exquisite! I love both of these!
    I'm 51, never married, one dog, one cat, and have had many Valentine's days with boyfriends. But, I have had most with either galpals for a night in or nice dinner out with a close manfriend in my life, also single and fantastic company all! All were special!
    Embrace your lovely life, find excitment in your business transitions to come, continue to fill your home and garden with love and beauty, and surround yourself with those you love and things that challenge you and bring you peace!
    As for your singleness... roll with it. I've always lived alone and downright hate it at times when loneliness hits me like a train. I've dated very little ... mainly because I had a few really heartbreaking experiences. Unfortunately, I allowed those to shut me down. Ive been living a rather Miss Habersham life, and I'm trying to break that!
    I became very ill in my thirties which left me disabled. I'm functioning in that I am mobile and independent for the most part, but I live in constant pain and still suffer everyday. I fight every minute of my life! This has kept me from really feeling like much of a "catch" or even having the energy to seek a partner or even contribute to a relationship. But, I know God has His plans for me. So, I stand in faith!
    I'm glad you date ... keep it up. Enjoy yourself meeting others and exploring new places and experiences. Most if all, remember who you are! Are you where you want to be (studio hunt aside)? Are you nurturing your relationships with your family and friends?
    I'm glad you sent that "open relationship" dude packing! Keeping your chin up and standing up to your high morals are one of the most cherished virtues in life, especially nowadays!
    My mother and I adore your being such a lovely lady and your sweet grace, boho style, work ethic, and kindness. You are being prepared for that special someone, I feel most assured. I still feel that for me, even at my age! I pray for you peace, love, and rock-and-roll til you find it! XO
    P.s. My Mother and I are off to our Valentine's lunch, now! ;)

  • @rachele932
    @rachele932 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think you were meaning conch shell when you were thinking of something beginning with C😁

  • @Cloud-577
    @Cloud-577 7 месяцев назад +3

    Happy Valentine dear Elise, you have made my life happier. You resilience and creativity inspired me a lot in life. Your way of life has inspired me to look at mines in a kinder perspective and look for ways I could make it a little more happier. You are loved by the community you have built and that’s the best type of love if you ask me.

    • @Cloud-577
      @Cloud-577 7 месяцев назад +1

      I also wanted to take a moment and share with you the conditions the Palestinian have been enduring for 75+ years of occupation by Israel and most recently the brutal and inhumane war on civilians children women and men for the past 5 months. Palestinian are murdered and starved to death by the IDF. Your vintage drops often include kftan a traditional dress worn by the Palestinian women. It’s beautiful isn’t it? So I hope you would love and care for the Palestinian as much as you love their traditional clothing. I encourage you to educate yourself on this topic and I’m here to share resources with you. I also encourage to checkout the bds list and participate in the boycott. You are a very kind person and I just know Bisan would love to support your small business

  • @margaretwillis7306
    @margaretwillis7306 7 месяцев назад +1

    I bought myself an orchid plant & some chocolates!

  • @TheCarole63
    @TheCarole63 7 месяцев назад +1

    My son’s family has me over for a pizza night. We make our individual “heart shaped” pizzas for dinner together. ❤

  • @islandgirl1818
    @islandgirl1818 7 месяцев назад +4

    Happy Valentine's Day Elise ❤. My Valentine is my little Maltipoo baby dog 😅. One of my clients surprised me with a card and flower on Monday and that made my day. I don't mind not having a significant other as long as I'm mentally happy. I see some of my friends that are in relationships and they're miserable. So I appreciate not having any of their heartaches and headaches. Maybe next year 😊 And I'm so excited about seeing your beautiful garden come to life! I've also bought seeds and my mom is planting roses all over my new house front yard

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +1

      Aww will be stunning and lovely for you to see your roses grow! Roses are amazing. I understand, I also really value just being me sometimes, despite I also sometimes miss haveing someone to cuddle hehe. There's pros and cons of both 🥰And it will happen, when it's supposed to happen.

  • @scc6454
    @scc6454 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Valentine's Day! You give me inspiration for being a bit self-indulgent today!

  • @nancywindbigler6434
    @nancywindbigler6434 7 месяцев назад +2

    Married 38 years and we love each other every day so Valentine's isn't a big deal. We did go to dinner with a group of friends which was nice. I loved your self indulgent day....especially the cake!!!

  • @karenhurd9792
    @karenhurd9792 7 месяцев назад +1

    Spending Valentine's Day in bed with a bad head cold🥴🤧....well, whatcha going to do? 🤷‍♀️.
    ❤Happy Valentine's Day, Everyone❤

  • @brandontodd3799
    @brandontodd3799 7 месяцев назад +2

    My husband and I took our morning walk then went and had a casual lunch and now I'm planting my seeds and my garden and tomato and onion plants.❤ Just a normal day. PS... You're never alone if you don't abandon yourself ❤️

  • @juliannearlene7244
    @juliannearlene7244 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have a wall full of flower paintings - most thrifted.

  • @roadtrekstuff1404
    @roadtrekstuff1404 7 месяцев назад +1

    If you want a serious boyfriend stop looking in the kiddie pool and start shopping in the professional man pool.

  • @pennynickels5216
    @pennynickels5216 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Love ❤️ Day dear! This world needs a lot more of it. 😊 really love the fireplace

  • @beccaorta
    @beccaorta 7 месяцев назад +2

    What an important message you give us in this video, you don't need anyone to feel happy and complete. You're the love of your life!!!! Self-love first then all the rest. The moments of your life you share through your videos reminds me how to really enjoy life, looking you, so independent, gorgeous and so loving with yourself, for me, you're inspiring. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 7 месяцев назад +1

    USA SHARING VALENTINES DAY WITH YOU.❤❤

  • @jennifercaskie3895
    @jennifercaskie3895 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am 78 and have been single since 37. You don’t use ice in your soda? We have 3 Elvis movies coming on tonight.

  • @GoWithDaFlowMo
    @GoWithDaFlowMo 7 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Valentine's day Elise and everyone... ❤ I have to work till late today, so I promissed myself a selflove day this Saturday... I'll just pretend it's Valentine's day then and as a bonus, no squishy squishy couples everywhere that day..... 😅😂

  • @oliviakrause3336
    @oliviakrause3336 7 месяцев назад +1

    The flower painting just fits so perfectly with all the colors of your life. It was meant to be. Also, your dress is so cute.

  • @angelsolitaire6456
    @angelsolitaire6456 7 месяцев назад +1

    Greetings from USA.....NO worries if you don't have any date on Valentines Day. I used to date myself and just enjoy everyday not only Valentines day. Sometimes....it is better to date yourself rather than having someone that will gives you problems in your life. At least you have your family that you can spent time with any time of the day. You are still young Elise...so just enjoy life the best you can...and one day your destiny will come to the right person who will love and respect you dearly.

  • @danafindwell
    @danafindwell 7 месяцев назад

    Happy Valentines Day, Elise! I really enjoyed spending the day with you. 🥰

  • @dianebaker5243
    @dianebaker5243 7 месяцев назад +3

    Be kind to yourself is a really lovely thing to say.Happy Valentine's ♥️

  • @irenav5910
    @irenav5910 7 месяцев назад +1

    So, you made me laugh out loud when I saw you in your wedding dress. Thank you for that madness! I enjoyed your video. Otherwise, Valentine's Day is a huge nothing for me. Just big business and marketing and imposed expectations. I will continue to follow you... Have a nice day!

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад

      I'm glad that could put a smile on your face 🥰

  • @maureenuhlmeyer9157
    @maureenuhlmeyer9157 7 месяцев назад +1

    You have a beautiful singing voice!

  • @justjane6975
    @justjane6975 7 месяцев назад +1

    Spending Valentines Day looking after my daughters dog. Todd (the dog) turned up wearing a red bow tie and gave me a bunch of red roses, jelly baby sweets and a card.

  • @alokasiablackmagic3444
    @alokasiablackmagic3444 7 месяцев назад +2

    I wish with all my heart that next valentine's day you spend happy and loved, being in a healthy retirement

  • @melaniemckown
    @melaniemckown 7 месяцев назад +1

    Probably not a lot of single men are out Thrifting .. just saying. Leave your sofa the way you moved it in Volg .. lots of times when I watch I think reposition to sofa

    • @EliseBuch
      @EliseBuch  7 месяцев назад +2

      I don't go thrifting to look for a man 🤭

  • @Rebelhomeland
    @Rebelhomeland 7 месяцев назад +2

    Happy Valentines day! It was a lovely day with you! ❤

  • @sarzbeth
    @sarzbeth 7 месяцев назад +1

    Conch shell 🐚 pronounce conk

  • @jillychandler
    @jillychandler 7 месяцев назад +1

    That is a Conch shell in English. The wedding dress looks just like the one my best friend wore for her wedding in 70s in England! You are an amazing woman, like artistikitty said, and do deserve the best. Happy Valentines Day to you. xxx

  • @Ladythyme
    @Ladythyme 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like you are having a Pity Party more than anything else 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @izzalapalice1785
    @izzalapalice1785 7 месяцев назад +6

    That yellow dress looked so pretty on you! Also I cant get over how the furniture is AMAZING in Danish thrift stores...if you saw the ones in Canada you wouldn't know whether to laugh or cry.

  • @sherrylinzer8649
    @sherrylinzer8649 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am having a great Valentines day.. I went Thrifting with a good friend. We bought lots of nice things..I will have a glass of wine and make a lovely dinner for myself...Life is peaceful and that is all I need at this time of my life, Men have come and gone,,,,being alone now is good for me...Best of Luck to you.

  • @pauletteh7578
    @pauletteh7578 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m sure you have soooo many people who love you and you don’t even know them…..subscribers all over the world…..❤. Love your outfit !!!

  • @katemoore6249
    @katemoore6249 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have been a widow for almost 34 years! I am certainly accustomed to singular Valentine's day! I really don't mind it!!

  • @suehall3298
    @suehall3298 7 месяцев назад

    Loved watching celebrate Valentine's day 🤗🌹🌹❤🌹🌹🤗
    Had a glass of wine with my Husband married 54 years 🌹❤🌹
    Love Sue ❤❤❤🇬🇧❤❤❤