I will be very excited the day you announce your pregnant. But if you don’t, you have a beautiful , smart, funny daughter who we all enjoy watching her grow. Love you guys!
My husband had cancer diagnosed when our son was 1 (on his birthday) he had 6 months of chemo, we were told he could be infertile which he was but they said it could comeback if it did it could take 6-12 months. He deposited some samples to the bank just in case but 10 months after he finished chemo we got pregnant 🥰 and 19 months ago I gave birth to our 5th baby 🥰. Hubby will celebrate 12 years in remission this coming September. I can’t wait to follow your journey so exciting.
So awesome, Congratulations guys! Can't wait when you announce you're pregnant! My kids are 3 years apart and I think its a great time in between. Because you get to spend all this time with your child and once Remi goes to school, you can spend time the same with your new baby.🥰
Hi just wanna say..you guys have always been a light in my life..ive watch Charles since I was 14ish..ive had a couple of surgerys because of my Celebral Palsey..but you always serve as an awesome distraction 💖 thank u 💖
I admire your strength and they approach you guys are taking in this journey. I have been trying to conceive my second child for 10 months and I have been tracking ovulation and timing intercourse and still haven't gotten pregnant. It's rough to not lose hope but I really appreciate videos like yours. I hope you can have your BFP soon
You guys are doing this the right way. By not being obsessed with it all. We tried for ten years and it never happened. I was obsessed. Good luck y’all. Love following you.
I agree with doing what feels right to you both. I did ovulation tests along with meditation to really put me in zen mode but that was comfortable for me. It’s all about knowing yourself and you’ve both always really been introspective. Remi is such a little joyous, boisterous, and sassy pants that it’s like having two already 😂
Do what you both want! It doesn’t matter what anyone else says! It’s a special time, your time. My husband and I tried for children and had four cycles of IUI treatment but children weren’t meant to be for us! We’re happy nonetheless! Ovulation kits are all well and good but it still applies pressure. Just be spontaneous - it’ll happen when it happens! Love you guys! Greetings from England xxxx
I have one daughter and we wanted to have another. I actually started out wanting 5 children. After 5 years with no success. I am now at a point where I am content and happy to have only one child. She is perfect. To this day we don't take any preventative measures and have never had any success. We could not and cannot afford to seek out solutions but I am no longer wanting more. I am very blessed to have my daughter who will be 10 this year. Instead of more children we have 3 dogs. Lol. If we somehow do get pregnant in the future it will be a blessing but it is no longer something I dwell on and letting go of that relieved a lot of stress. I wish you guys the best in whatever happens and enjoy your videos everyday. Remi is the star of the show.
I call our daughter our “miracle baby.” She’s an only child and we’re so grateful because of my lifelong chronic health issues. Go easy on yourselves because you’ve been through a LOT over the last few years. You’re a wonderful couple and team. It’s no one’s business what you guys do behind the scenes/how you’re handling this next chapter. Just take care of yourselves. We’re here and we support you.
hey char and allie i feel weird commenting about this as im not a parent or will i never be as i been diagnosed with rear womb cancer so no kids for me I will be very excited the day you announce your pregnant.. i love little remi shes beautiful , smart, funny and her sassyness i love it ❣❣❣❣ love from worcstershire in england ❣❣❣❣❣
Can’t wait for when you announce baby #2 is cooking. So very excited for you and Charles. Don’t stress it will happen . I’m sending you nothing but love and prayers.♥️🙏🏻
All the love to you guys!! Enjoy each other. Enjoy Remi. If life gives you another bundle of joy I will be so incredibly excited for you. In the mean time just know you're all amazing! Cannot wait to see what is in store for your family ❤️ Ps, Allie, love the glasses! They are so cute on you 😊
Waiting that long seemed odd to hear at that time, most cancer Dr’s encourage closer to 1yr, lesser heard of 1-3yrs, so glad u’ve dug in & know what’s best for you…
You guys have overcome many obstacles and are strong and beatiful, your daughter is amazing. Enjoy This chapter of your life without stress and see what life will bring. A new life is welcome and safe with you. Thumbs up!
My kids are 5yrs apart. That wasn’t really the plan, but that’s what was meant to be. My husband and I had the same feeling as you guys; we had a child already and were so thankful for him, we tried to focus on that as much as we could. I tried all kinds of things to help get pregnant during my secondary infertility time such as, Chinese medicine, change in diet and even iui. In the end it was Chinese medicine (acupuncture and herbs) and diet that worked. For now, just keep staying healthy and having fun!! 😜 Wishing you both all the best! 😀
Sending all the good happy vibes for baby #2! 💜💜💜 My daughter is our miracle baby after so many surgeries on my ovaries for having pre-cancerous cells in the process of turning into cancer cells and a miscarriage during the beginning of the pandemic. Found out I was pregnant in April 2020 as a surprise! I didn't know I could get pregnant that fast after a miscarriage and surgery. Let the universe tell you when it's time ✨✨ 😊
At a young age i was given the diagnosis of PCOS and was told that i would never het pregnant, well when i was high school i got pregnant but sadly miscarried and then in college i had two more pregnancies that ended in miscarriage but all of that has givin my and my husband hope that eventually we will be able to have a child of our own. dont ever give up hope because if its ment to be it will happen.
My boys are close in age, my oldest turned 6 in feb, my 4yr old will be 5 in may and my youngest turned 3 in March. It will definitely happen for you guys. When the time is right things will fall right into place. The moment you guys announced the pregnancy with remi my heart grew even bigger! I was like wow one of the most genuine people I have been fortunate enough to grow with all these years on here is finally getting their blessing. The next blessing will be here as soon as those stars align❤️
My husband and I have our daughter ,and like you ,we would have liked more , it never happened but we are just so blessed to have her ,we accepted whatever fate gave us ,and that was just one , but she is the best ! I hope you do get another little one , but if not , thankfully you have your sparkling little Remi xx
Hi Allie❣️ I hope and pray you do get pregnant soon too and I will be praying a little extra every night till you are❣️ Don't feel bad about being sad when your results aren't what you hoped and wished for, it's a natural thing to feel that way❣️ Mucho Love❣️
Our miracle baby is about to turn 13 😱 After our second child was born we had three miscarriages in a row 😞 we then took a break trying for over a year and then decided to try one last time. No tracking or IVF we just said if it is supposed to happen it will. We gave ourselves 12 months and if it happened wonderful and if it didn’t it meant that our family was complete. Six months in and we became pregnant and this little one stuck and we are so grateful. Wishing you guys the very best of luck 💕💕💕
When I was pregnant with my daughter 15 years ago I didn’t find out I was pregnant until I was 5 months! It was insane! She’s the best! My husband and I are trying for a baby (this will be his first) and we’ve been trying for a year and 4 months and I’m still not pregnant. I’m not tracking my fertility either I just take prenatal vitamins every day. I really want another baby so I’m hoping it happens soon. I’m 36 so I’m getting up there in age and know it’s more tricky the older we get. I’m praying and crossing my fingers for you guys! 🤞🏻💜 I love you and your fam 🤍🤍
I had my children at 33,34,37,two days off 39 and the youngest was born November 30 and I was 41 in the next February So there’s plenty of time for you…..just have a good time
Wishing you both the best and good luck🍀 Hope Remi has a little brother or sister soon. My kids are 3 yrs apart my son is older that's good spacing so God willing it will happen for you guys too ❤
Well I’m gunna be honest but I’ve watched you guys since I was 16 and I’m now 22. I’ve watched the struggles. The ups and the downs. I’m still young and don’t know if I want children but I realize it’s such a fulfilling role if your at the age where you feel like you’ve done all you want to do as a person without children and if having kids is something that will fulfill you for the rest of your life. I’m hoping this isn’t too TMI but I heard that if a women orgasms it’s more likely that you will become pregnant. So I hope as much as Charles is having fun in this process, you are too, lol. Might high-ten your chances cuz you’ll be more actively wanting to go through the steps. None the less, I wish you both the best with your baby making 😂❤️😝 You’ll be fine! I’m sure you guys will have it happen at some point because I just know you guys want this. I can tell Charles really does so I feel like it will happen at some point. Good things happen to those who wait. So I can’t wait to follow you guys on this amazing journey 💯🙌❤️
My niece and nephew are five years apart. And my cousin’s daughter’s kids are about two years apart, her oldest daughter is Remi’s age. Good luck you guys.
Sick day mean self care by catching up with my favorite online family 💜👼💕👼💙👼 sending love peace and light to you three...FOUR👼👼👼👼 also goofy fact my mother & father are nine years apart as well as me and my siblings are ALL nine years apart. Sometimes !!!!divine!!! timing is a lil secret key 💕💕
When we were trying for our bug, we really were trying not stress over it either. I did quit birth control in Dec 2019 (after almost 11 years on it) so obviously it was a conscious decision but I actively tried not to do any of those things you mentioned so as not to stress myself too much. I didn't use any ovulation tests or trackers or measured my temperature or any of that. I am lucky in the sense I always feel when I ovulate but we didn't have sex "on schedule" either. We just randomly had sex whenever we felt like it. 😂 I always ovulated on day 11 or 12 and the month Nina Mae was conceived it happened on day 8. The same day I ovulated she was conceived and I was convinced that it wouldn't work out anyway since I had already felt the ovulation. Turns out it wasn't too late haha. This was in August 2020. So roughly 8 months after quitting birth control. Considering I only ovulated the first time in March and we didn't have sex on "those days" every single month it really only took us 3 months. She was born on May 4th, 2021. We aren't sure we want a second. Nina is something else haha and I am already 34. Plus, because of breastfeeding I am not really ovulating yet anyway. I will breastfeed for as long as Nina wants me to so who knows how long it takes for my cycle to return back to normal. I dont want to go back on birth control and so we've decided if it's meant to happen then it'll happen without actively trying or trying to prevent it from happening, you know. We sort of did it the same way the first time around after all. I feel like in certain aspects you and I are similar so I get completely where you are at! I am keeping my fingers crossed for you and I would be so happy for you if you got your wish come true sometime this year. ☺️🥰
My husband always says to always do a handstand after you do the deed 🤣🤣🤣 and I will say I did not do that lol The waiting seasons are so hard and I totally understand not wanting to put the pressure and expectations of doing the ovulating strips it definitely takes away from some of the “naturalness” when you make it more of a science experiment
Would you ever be willing to discuss how Charles chemo and brain tumor effected you? My husband is going through his second time with cancer and it’s been really hard to stay positive and support him through. I’m the only one working we have 4 kids and a tree fell on our house so we’re in a temporary house while ours gets fixed. How did you stay positive and how did you handle the stress? Any advice?
I wish you two the very best in trying for baby No. 2. Remi is just so darn cute & smart too, she will be a lot of help to mama if it’s meant to be. 🧔🏻👱♀️👧👶🏻? 💙♥️💖👍💜? xoxoxoxo
Allie hi! Not that it matters at all but have you had Botox? And would you ever consider sharing your experience? As a young mom who is always stressed I consider doing this more and more. Sending love and light!
When you are blessed with another little one keep that to yourselves for a while. I don’t say that to be rude but rather because y’all need that time for yourselves to many online couples tell the world and there are so many thing that could go wrong and having the weight of everyone knowing could be a lot for you mentally. I hope that made sense.
You’ve been trying for 8 months and are clearly disappointed when it doesn’t happen. That in of itself can be stressful. If you’d track your ovulation you could just be missing your fertile window. It can make a HUGE difference and you could have been pregnant by now.
You guys are trying too hard.. Relax.. you are BLESSED to have a beautiful, smart little angel in Remi. If it's meant to be, it will happen naturally. & if not, then it wasn't meant to be. You 2 are so cute tho. I love watching both of your channels. By telling you this, I'm not in any way trying to gett you guys down, but my wife and I are so ecstatic. My 22 year old daughter started trying to get pregnant about 1 year ago. And unfortunately, she had back to back miscarriages. So at that point we figured, maybe it's not meant to be. But FINALLY, she is 4 months pregnant with a healthy baby boy. And just over the past few days we started to very slightly feel the baby hopping around in her belly. It totally brings me back to when my wife was pregnant with our daughter. And every night when I came home from work I couldn't wait for my wife to lay down so I could play with & talk to my daughter in the womb.. I know, your probably saying this guy is a wacko, but that was always the highlight of My day. And now I get to play with & sing & talk to my grandson in my daughter's belly.. But anyway... Keep your heads up. Don't stress about it.. When God feels the time is right, it will happen.. Sending big hugs & prayers your way.. 🤗🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I know this is a super personal question. So, answer if your ok with it, but im just curious with you being on the pill form of chemo were you able to be sexual active? Is that why you guys had to wait? My boyfriend has testicular cancer and went through chemo, but durning chemo he could not be sexually active because he could possibly put the chemo into my system. Was that an issue for you guys? Cancer makes it so complicated... I hope when I get this point we will have these options. I'm happy for you guys though. Cancer sucks for sure! But I'm glad your doing well!!! 😊
We are also trying for our baby #2 (on earth). We are using a very similar approach as you. I am tracking on the app, mainly so I can remember when my last period was 🤣, but otherwise we are trying to keep it as chill and stress free as possible.
I'm very discouraged about getting pregnant again. Got pregnant with my daughter in 2011 the natural way. I wasn't trying it just happened at the right moment in my life. I was 23. It's 12 years later and I haven't been able to get pregnant since. No scares no nothing. I've been to the doctor and had tests upon tests done just to show no reason as to why I can't get pregnant again. I've taken meds and have trying just about everything to get pregnant and nothing. I'm going to be 36 and I just feel like giving up at this point.
Don’t give up!! I got a surprise at 38 . 2 months later I turned 39 she took me for a run of my Money lol high school was horrid . But she’s better now
Please don’t loss hope. A very close friend of mine struggled to get pregnant for years. Went through countless fertility treatments (IUI, IVF, etc), was tested for everything and same with her husband. They found no reason as to why they weren’t getting pregnant. Then after their third IVF treatment they said they wanted to take a break from all of it and just have a little time to themselves…. THEY GOT PREGNANT THEY ALL NATURAL WAY. Life has a weird way of working out. Obviously everyone’s situation and circumstance and body is different, but I just wanted to give you that information to let you know that sometimes, just sometimes life has a weird way of showing up and truly surprising you
Why you take easy take nature baby 2 my lovely two daughters grow up now my future saw fast my life 42 years old woman relationship out down my life my daughter two adults now adoption family 2 daughters she very harder life now not see me real birth mum x
Doctors have said that after covid vaccinations is very difficult to get pregnant. If one have had it, then it’s little bit better when the both have had it. Just for youre knowledge 🙂
If you want a boy you're supposed to be stressed to get the opposite sex. That stressed part works for both men & women. So allie needs to be stressed during the deed, but Charles needs to be relaxed, if you're shooting for a boy 😉 😜 😘
I will be very excited the day you announce your pregnant. But if you don’t, you have a beautiful , smart, funny daughter who we all enjoy watching her grow. Love you guys!
My husband had cancer diagnosed when our son was 1 (on his birthday) he had 6 months of chemo, we were told he could be infertile which he was but they said it could comeback if it did it could take 6-12 months. He deposited some samples to the bank just in case but 10 months after he finished chemo we got pregnant 🥰 and 19 months ago I gave birth to our 5th baby 🥰. Hubby will celebrate 12 years in remission this coming September.
I can’t wait to follow your journey so exciting.
Congrats on all
So awesome, Congratulations guys! Can't wait when you announce you're pregnant! My kids are 3 years apart and I think its a great time in between. Because you get to spend all this time with your child and once Remi goes to school, you can spend time the same with your new baby.🥰
Hi just wanna say..you guys have always been a light in my life..ive watch Charles since I was 14ish..ive had a couple of surgerys because of my Celebral Palsey..but you always serve as an awesome distraction 💖 thank u 💖
It takes the fun out of trying for a baby when you're tracking and things. Like you said, if it's meant to be it will be. :)
Well if you have to do fertility drugs you have to track!! They have to tell you when you can have sex etc
Praying that you guys will get the best news very soon! I just found out recently that I am expecting my first baby! 🤱🍼🤰🏼
Congratulations!
@@noraann6372 Thank you!
I admire your strength and they approach you guys are taking in this journey. I have been trying to conceive my second child for 10 months and I have been tracking ovulation and timing intercourse and still haven't gotten pregnant. It's rough to not lose hope but I really appreciate videos like yours. I hope you can have your BFP soon
My parents always said you can't improve on perfection when they only had me. I hope whatever happens for you, you find peace and love in the journey
Wish you two all the best! Your vulnerability will help so many people
You guys are doing this the right way. By not being obsessed with it all. We tried for ten years and it never happened. I was obsessed. Good luck y’all. Love following you.
I agree with doing what feels right to you both. I did ovulation tests along with meditation to really put me in zen mode but that was comfortable for me. It’s all about knowing yourself and you’ve both always really been introspective. Remi is such a little joyous, boisterous, and sassy pants that it’s like having two already 😂
Aww good luck guys! You are both amazing parents so keeping everything crossed you get baby number 2 this year ❤️
Impossible to get baby number two this year!! Unless it’s a premiee
@@carol2girls I didn't mean that they actually give birth to baby this year, but that they conceive this year as they plan to.
We can't wait for your new addition to the family Charles is so supportive with it and wholesome ❤️
Knowing you'll trying everytime I watch you both talking at the end I think GO have beep now 😆 🤣 😂
Don't have telegram my tech skills are ridiculously bad but keep smiling and wishing you luck for baby # 2
Praying for you and baby #2. It will happen Dear Ally.
Do what you both want! It doesn’t matter what anyone else says! It’s a special time, your time. My husband and I tried for children and had four cycles of IUI treatment but children weren’t meant to be for us! We’re happy nonetheless! Ovulation kits are all well and good but it still applies pressure. Just be spontaneous - it’ll happen when it happens! Love you guys! Greetings from England xxxx
congratulations!
congratulations!
I can’t wait for for baby 2 👶🏼. Have fun 😜 lol. 😘
I have one daughter and we wanted to have another. I actually started out wanting 5 children. After 5 years with no success. I am now at a point where I am content and happy to have only one child. She is perfect. To this day we don't take any preventative measures and have never had any success. We could not and cannot afford to seek out solutions but I am no longer wanting more. I am very blessed to have my daughter who will be 10 this year. Instead of more children we have 3 dogs. Lol. If we somehow do get pregnant in the future it will be a blessing but it is no longer something I dwell on and letting go of that relieved a lot of stress. I wish you guys the best in whatever happens and enjoy your videos everyday. Remi is the star of the show.
I call our daughter our “miracle baby.” She’s an only child and we’re so grateful because of my lifelong chronic health issues. Go easy on yourselves because you’ve been through a LOT over the last few years. You’re a wonderful couple and team. It’s no one’s business what you guys do behind the scenes/how you’re handling this next chapter. Just take care of yourselves. We’re here and we support you.
hey char and allie i feel weird commenting about this as im not a parent or will i never be as i been diagnosed with rear womb cancer so no kids for me I will be very excited the day you announce your pregnant.. i love little remi shes beautiful , smart, funny and her sassyness i love it ❣❣❣❣ love from worcstershire in england ❣❣❣❣❣
Allie I didn’t know you had a channel! 😱😱 instant follow.
Thank you!
Can’t wait for when you announce baby #2 is cooking. So very excited for you and Charles. Don’t stress it will happen . I’m sending you nothing but love and prayers.♥️🙏🏻
All the love to you guys!!
Enjoy each other.
Enjoy Remi.
If life gives you another bundle of joy I will be so incredibly excited for you.
In the mean time just know you're all amazing! Cannot wait to see what is in store for your family ❤️
Ps, Allie, love the glasses! They are so cute on you 😊
Waiting that long seemed odd to hear at that time, most cancer Dr’s encourage closer to 1yr, lesser heard of 1-3yrs, so glad u’ve dug in & know what’s best for you…
You guys have overcome many obstacles and are strong and beatiful, your daughter is amazing. Enjoy This chapter of your life without stress and see what life will bring. A new life is welcome and safe with you. Thumbs up!
My kids are 5yrs apart. That wasn’t really the plan, but that’s what was meant to be. My husband and I had the same feeling as you guys; we had a child already and were so thankful for him, we tried to focus on that as much as we could. I tried all kinds of things to help get pregnant during my secondary infertility time such as, Chinese medicine, change in diet and even iui. In the end it was Chinese medicine (acupuncture and herbs) and diet that worked. For now, just keep staying healthy and having fun!! 😜 Wishing you both all the best! 😀
Sending all the good happy vibes for baby #2! 💜💜💜 My daughter is our miracle baby after so many surgeries on my ovaries for having pre-cancerous cells in the process of turning into cancer cells and a miscarriage during the beginning of the pandemic. Found out I was pregnant in April 2020 as a surprise! I didn't know I could get pregnant that fast after a miscarriage and surgery. Let the universe tell you when it's time ✨✨ 😊
At a young age i was given the diagnosis of PCOS and was told that i would never het pregnant, well when i was high school i got pregnant but sadly miscarried and then in college i had two more pregnancies that ended in miscarriage but all of that has givin my and my husband hope that eventually we will be able to have a child of our own. dont ever give up hope because if its ment to be it will happen.
My boys are close in age, my oldest turned 6 in feb, my 4yr old will be 5 in may and my youngest turned 3 in March. It will definitely happen for you guys. When the time is right things will fall right into place. The moment you guys announced the pregnancy with remi my heart grew even bigger! I was like wow one of the most genuine people I have been fortunate enough to grow with all these years on here is finally getting their blessing. The next blessing will be here as soon as those stars align❤️
My kids are 5 years apart, didn’t plan it that way but life happened. I love it, they love each other. It will happen ♥️😬
My husband and I have our daughter ,and like you ,we would have liked more , it never happened but we are just so blessed to have her ,we accepted whatever fate gave us ,and that was just one , but she is the best !
I hope you do get another little one , but if not , thankfully you have your sparkling little Remi xx
I 100% can’t have kids but I can be an amazing uncle. Great video. Now Charles put down the camera and get to work buddy lol
It’s harder then you think lol!!! They have a 2 1/2 ye old only time is when she’s in bed sleeping
Love you guys! Praying and hoping for baby #2 for you soon!
I have so many prayers for you both. Thanks for sharing I think this video will help other families.
just love and enjoy each other and raising Remi and if it happens it happens and if not you still have your love and cute lil Remi
We love you, A. ❤️
Awwww!!!! I cannot wait for baby #2 if it is meant to be! :)
Congrats on trying don’t stress !! It will come
wishing all the best luck with you two :) you two are amazing parents.
Hi Allie❣️ I hope and pray you do get pregnant soon too and I will be praying a little extra every night till you are❣️ Don't feel bad about being sad when your results aren't what you hoped and wished for, it's a natural thing to feel that way❣️ Mucho Love❣️
Our miracle baby is about to turn 13 😱 After our second child was born we had three miscarriages in a row 😞 we then took a break trying for over a year and then decided to try one last time. No tracking or IVF we just said if it is supposed to happen it will. We gave ourselves 12 months and if it happened wonderful and if it didn’t it meant that our family was complete. Six months in and we became pregnant and this little one stuck and we are so grateful. Wishing you guys the very best of luck 💕💕💕
When I was pregnant with my daughter 15 years ago I didn’t find out I was pregnant until I was 5 months! It was insane! She’s the best! My husband and I are trying for a baby (this will be his first) and we’ve been trying for a year and 4 months and I’m still not pregnant. I’m not tracking my fertility either I just take prenatal vitamins every day. I really want another baby so I’m hoping it happens soon. I’m 36 so I’m getting up there in age and know it’s more tricky the older we get. I’m praying and crossing my fingers for you guys! 🤞🏻💜 I love you and your fam 🤍🤍
I had my children at 33,34,37,two days off 39 and the youngest was born November 30 and I was 41 in the next February
So there’s plenty of time for you…..just have a good time
I always knew I was fertile if I was ovulating. Aka discharge looks like egg whites. Praying for y’all!
Hoping for the best for you both ❤
Wishing you both the best and good luck🍀 Hope Remi has a little brother or sister soon. My kids are 3 yrs apart my son is older that's good spacing so God willing it will happen for you guys too ❤
I’m here for you guys.
Well Done Congratulations Baby
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Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾 allie.
Well I’m gunna be honest but I’ve watched you guys since I was 16 and I’m now 22. I’ve watched the struggles. The ups and the downs. I’m still young and don’t know if I want children but I realize it’s such a fulfilling role if your at the age where you feel like you’ve done all you want to do as a person without children and if having kids is something that will fulfill you for the rest of your life. I’m hoping this isn’t too TMI but I heard that if a women orgasms it’s more likely that you will become pregnant. So I hope as much as Charles is having fun in this process, you are too, lol. Might high-ten your chances cuz you’ll be more actively wanting to go through the steps. None the less, I wish you both the best with your baby making 😂❤️😝 You’ll be fine! I’m sure you guys will have it happen at some point because I just know you guys want this. I can tell Charles really does so I feel like it will happen at some point. Good things happen to those who wait. So I can’t wait to follow you guys on this amazing journey 💯🙌❤️
My niece and nephew are five years apart. And my cousin’s daughter’s kids are about two years apart, her oldest daughter is Remi’s age. Good luck you guys.
Stress will interfere big time plus age! Not counting what poor Charles has been through!
Be Gentle with each other. Both of you.
My husband and I have been trying for over 3 years.. I hope I get a miracle
Allie and Charles i prayers for you and your family
Congrats !!
Sick day mean self care by catching up with my favorite online family 💜👼💕👼💙👼 sending love peace and light to you three...FOUR👼👼👼👼 also goofy fact my mother & father are nine years apart as well as me and my siblings are ALL nine years apart. Sometimes !!!!divine!!! timing is a lil secret key 💕💕
Or four I ment* 💞
I hope you get pregnant soon. We’ve been ttc for over a year for our second baby also
Did Allie blush when she said they’re having fun?? 😄😄
you guys are definitely for the next baby boy or girl.
When we were trying for our bug, we really were trying not stress over it either. I did quit birth control in Dec 2019 (after almost 11 years on it) so obviously it was a conscious decision but I actively tried not to do any of those things you mentioned so as not to stress myself too much. I didn't use any ovulation tests or trackers or measured my temperature or any of that. I am lucky in the sense I always feel when I ovulate but we didn't have sex "on schedule" either. We just randomly had sex whenever we felt like it. 😂 I always ovulated on day 11 or 12 and the month Nina Mae was conceived it happened on day 8. The same day I ovulated she was conceived and I was convinced that it wouldn't work out anyway since I had already felt the ovulation. Turns out it wasn't too late haha. This was in August 2020. So roughly 8 months after quitting birth control. Considering I only ovulated the first time in March and we didn't have sex on "those days" every single month it really only took us 3 months. She was born on May 4th, 2021. We aren't sure we want a second. Nina is something else haha and I am already 34. Plus, because of breastfeeding I am not really ovulating yet anyway. I will breastfeed for as long as Nina wants me to so who knows how long it takes for my cycle to return back to normal. I dont want to go back on birth control and so we've decided if it's meant to happen then it'll happen without actively trying or trying to prevent it from happening, you know. We sort of did it the same way the first time around after all. I feel like in certain aspects you and I are similar so I get completely where you are at! I am keeping my fingers crossed for you and I would be so happy for you if you got your wish come true sometime this year. ☺️🥰
I have enjoyed watching you guys for the last 12ish yeasrs. I'm kind of star struck. You guys liked my comment on Tik tok. Go follow them guys!
My husband always says to always do a handstand after you do the deed 🤣🤣🤣 and I will say I did not do that lol
The waiting seasons are so hard and I totally understand not wanting to put the pressure and expectations of doing the ovulating strips it definitely takes away from some of the “naturalness” when you make it more of a science experiment
Would you ever be willing to discuss how Charles chemo and brain tumor effected you? My husband is going through his second time with cancer and it’s been really hard to stay positive and support him through. I’m the only one working we have 4 kids and a tree fell on our house so we’re in a temporary house while ours gets fixed. How did you stay positive and how did you handle the stress? Any advice?
Good luck guys
Just have fun
I wish you two the very best in trying for baby No. 2. Remi is just so darn cute & smart too, she will be a lot of help to mama if it’s meant to be. 🧔🏻👱♀️👧👶🏻? 💙♥️💖👍💜? xoxoxoxo
Allie hi! Not that it matters at all but have you had Botox? And would you ever consider sharing your experience? As a young mom who is always stressed I consider doing this more and more. Sending love and light!
Remi is going to be a great big sis.
When you are blessed with another little one keep that to yourselves for a while. I don’t say that to be rude but rather because y’all need that time for yourselves to many online couples tell the world and there are so many thing that could go wrong and having the weight of everyone knowing could be a lot for you mentally. I hope that made sense.
Hey wait a second ........ whose that guy with the tattoos 🤣🤣😝😝🤣🤣could he be one of the King's
Aw thought you were preg for a moment
A pregnancy is ten lunar months which is nine calendar months because a lunar month is five weeks long and a calendar month is four weeks long
You’ve been trying for 8 months and are clearly disappointed when it doesn’t happen. That in of itself can be stressful. If you’d track your ovulation you could just be missing your fertile window. It can make a HUGE difference and you could have been pregnant by now.
My doctor gave me a fertility pill. Worked like a charm.
It took me 9 years to get pregnant with Alyssa. But with Brieanna she was a surprise !! 6 years later
You guys are trying too hard.. Relax.. you are BLESSED to have a beautiful, smart little angel in Remi. If it's meant to be, it will happen naturally. & if not, then it wasn't meant to be. You 2 are so cute tho. I love watching both of your channels.
By telling you this, I'm not in any way trying to gett you guys down, but my wife and I are so ecstatic. My 22 year old daughter started trying to get pregnant about 1 year ago. And unfortunately, she had back to back miscarriages. So at that point we figured, maybe it's not meant to be. But FINALLY, she is 4 months pregnant with a healthy baby boy. And just over the past few days we started to very slightly feel the baby hopping around in her belly. It totally brings me back to when my wife was pregnant with our daughter. And every night when I came home from work I couldn't wait for my wife to lay down so I could play with & talk to my daughter in the womb.. I know, your probably saying this guy is a wacko, but that was always the highlight of My day. And now I get to play with & sing & talk to my grandson in my daughter's belly.. But anyway...
Keep your heads up. Don't stress about it.. When God feels the time is right, it will happen.. Sending big hugs & prayers your way.. 🤗🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I know this is a super personal question. So, answer if your ok with it, but im just curious with you being on the pill form of chemo were you able to be sexual active? Is that why you guys had to wait? My boyfriend has testicular cancer and went through chemo, but durning chemo he could not be sexually active because he could possibly put the chemo into my system. Was that an issue for you guys? Cancer makes it so complicated... I hope when I get this point we will have these options. I'm happy for you guys though. Cancer sucks for sure! But I'm glad your doing well!!! 😊
Charles you should keep track
Is adoption something you would consider as a backup? I do know that sometimes, when people stop trying mentally, they end up getting pregnant lol
We are also trying for our baby #2 (on earth). We are using a very similar approach as you. I am tracking on the app, mainly so I can remember when my last period was 🤣, but otherwise we are trying to keep it as chill and stress free as possible.
I honestly don’t have any tips but it took my girlfriend two years to have her first baby who is due in August
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Some friends of mine were surprised by pregnancy and they said Tequila was involved. Have you tried that?
I'm very discouraged about getting pregnant again. Got pregnant with my daughter in 2011 the natural way. I wasn't trying it just happened at the right moment in my life. I was 23. It's 12 years later and I haven't been able to get pregnant since. No scares no nothing. I've been to the doctor and had tests upon tests done just to show no reason as to why I can't get pregnant again. I've taken meds and have trying just about everything to get pregnant and nothing. I'm going to be 36 and I just feel like giving up at this point.
Has your partner been tested too. Dont give up sounds like you have a decent chance. I had to have a hysterectomy at 33 so that was a deffo no to me
@@kazbaz8645 Yes, I was with someone for 6 years and after him there has been my recent one. Been to the Dr. For them as well.
Don’t give up!! I got a surprise at 38 . 2 months later I turned 39 she took me for a run of my
Money lol high school was horrid . But she’s better now
@@carol2girls thank you!
Please don’t loss hope. A very close friend of mine struggled to get pregnant for years. Went through countless fertility treatments (IUI, IVF, etc), was tested for everything and same with her husband. They found no reason as to why they weren’t getting pregnant. Then after their third IVF treatment they said they wanted to take a break from all of it and just have a little time to themselves…. THEY GOT PREGNANT THEY ALL NATURAL WAY. Life has a weird way of working out. Obviously everyone’s situation and circumstance and body is different, but I just wanted to give you that information to let you know that sometimes, just sometimes life has a weird way of showing up and truly surprising you
Why you take easy take nature baby 2 my lovely two daughters grow up now my future saw fast my life 42 years old woman relationship out down my life my daughter two adults now adoption family 2 daughters she very harder life now not see me real birth mum x
Doctors have said that after covid vaccinations is very difficult to get pregnant. If one have had it, then it’s little bit better when the both have had it. Just for youre knowledge 🙂
Did you say cousin?
Don’t forget the best gift you can give your child is a sibling
Weight loss and pregnancy tracking are pain in the butts.
If you want a boy you're supposed to be stressed to get the opposite sex. That stressed part works for both men & women. So allie needs to be stressed during the deed, but Charles needs to be relaxed, if you're shooting for a boy 😉 😜 😘
Allie where did you get your glasses from? I love them girlieee
Since you want to talk in the comment section, what's your favorite position?? IM KIDDDDDDING!!! TMI