i would love to see u have a podcast, like u could have jared on there (his mind is so interesting), danneel and misha, ur girlfriends, like we would love to see u speak ur mind ❤️❤️❤️ ily guys
I completely agree. I think Gen would have such a thought provoking, but relatable podcast. Candid, open, but widely approachable. She has a way of making people feel comfortable, while being informative and sincere. I would listen the hell out of her podcast.
This is actually really awesome. I mean, I'm 15 and no one in my life has had open conversations with me about intimacy in the way you guys did and I honestly feel like that is immensely important. You're doing an amazing job with those kiddos, Gen. They're all gonna grow up as great humans💞
We just had the sex talk with my daughter. She was 8 at the time. She was talking about something that she saw on line related to sex, and we thought that would be a good time to discuss it with her. We are like you and Jared, in that we are a very open and honest family. It really wasn’t uncomfortable. And we covered a lot such as the best way to be safe is abstinence, but that we also aren’t stupid so if you should decide to have sex to take precautions and come to us so that we can revisit topics and just talk about it. The one thing I never thought to talk to her about was porn. So we will have to have a convo about that. Thank you for this Gen.
It's not normal to talk about sex with you kid when he's 8 years old, he needs to be atleast 12 imo, cuz if you put that stuff into her head when she's really really young you just motivate her more to be a pornstar, I mean idk I'm 15 but if I will have a kid I'll certainly not talk about it when she's so young
@@vlaicurabca6987 That is one of the most ignorant comments I've EVER seen. Where the hell did you read that having the sex talk with an 8 year old will motivate them to be a pornstar? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? You have a lot of growing up and learning to do if you actually believe that bullshit. She is HER child, and if she wants to talk to her about it at such a young age, then that is up to HER and nobody else. You get to decide when and IF you ever have children. But don't you dare tell other people how to parent their kids, when you clearly don't know shit about parenting...
@@CattIsANerd Just skimmed through this conversation but maybe what's wrong with the person is they are 15?.... Everyone is open to there own opinion even if you don't agree with it. No it wouldn't turn a child into a porn star but no need to go off on them for saying what they think. And no they don't know anything about parenting because once again, they are 15. My opinion though.
Talking about sex with children from a young age is so important. It can help them not only in adulthood but you can also help them be protected from child abuse. A lot of abused children do not come forward because they literally don't know how to talk about it, don't even know what happened to them until they're much older., or because they're embarrassed by what happened or think they've done something wrong. Teach your children proper body parts names and about sex and intimacy and privacy.
Oh Gen! This *GODDESS* you interviewed was amazing and had a wealth of information and knowledge on a subject that I personally always found taboo. I grew up in an Irish Catholic household where sex was not to be discussed no matter what and truth be told, I don't think I was ever given "the talk". I managed to save my virginity til marriage because I knew how fertile I was and didn't want to take the risk of getting pregnant before I was ready (both maturity-wise and financially). My husband has been so supportive in my own sexual journey and I couldn't have picked a better man to father my children with. Thank you to you both for this awesome video! I learned quite a bit
Great conversation on a important topic, Gen. Also, I second the idea of a podcast, if you find time for it. I’d love to hear more of your opinions on different topics! Don’t get me wrong, I love spn and everyone on it and that’s the way I got to know you, but I mean a podcast/project with you and other (non-spn) guests. I’m so grateful that you share your life with us on social media and can’t wait for more. xx Fi
I would love a Podcast! I have fallen in love with you and your lifestyle sharing and transparency! It makes me feel so much more strength as a mom, wife and WOMAN that you have taken the time to be so open and honest about your life and share the things that help you and can help us as women as well. March on sister!
Great job Gen.. I'm 52 and was brought up the old ways as my mother was a single older mum of 45 when she had me.. in other words. No sex until marriage! I was 23 when I disobeyed her. I missed out on so much! When I had children I chose to be different. I never hide anything from them if they asked I was open as I could be and they now still as adults will talk very candid about anything including sexto me. This is part of life and one of the bonuses in living. Let's not shame it and bury it like it's dirty secret. Love your videos. Well done your a great mom. X
Thank you so much for discussing this subject with us. I have learned a lot and have become more aware of my own body and desires. I really enjoyed viewing this discussion. I love you so much, Gen. ❤️
I just came across this video, Gen, 4 years later. It's amazing and I could have watched the whole hour. I'm 67, and growing up I was always ashamed of my body and have always been extremely shy with sexual partners. Thanks to you and this video, I'm going to go find/watch/listen more about Cindy Gallop. Thank you.
Binging your vids again sweet lady. I feel like you’re the type of woman I could sit and easily talk to for a long time. I’m the type to be excited about just opening up and talking about so many thing. Asking questions. The works. And you’re such an inspiration. None of us are perfect but you try so hard to improve yourself and hope others see you and improve themselves. It’s amazing. Manifest the best you can be and radiate positivity.
I've seen a few comments across social media about how you should start a podcast type thing... I think it's an amazing idea! I'd love to hear uncut interviews and talks :)
This discussion was nothing like what I envisioned it would be when I clicked play. I love the idea of sexual values and thinking about it I’m actually quite lucky that I instinctively set myself high values from a young age but I had lots of friends with seemingly little to no values concerning sex and at that time I just didn’t haven’t the vocabulary to help but perhaps if their parents had been able to provide guidance about sex and values surrounding it, they may have made better choices growing up.
I'm a kindergarten teacher, so I take quite a lot of advice from this video. I already started a while ago to teach those kids to treat their genitals like other body parts and stopped using "nicknames" for them. I think it's important to give the children an open mind about this when they are young, bc they will feel pudic about it anyway in a certain age. Everyone should be able to talk about it in an open way, especially if something feels odd or wrong. Thanks a lot for this video. ♥
My friends and I discussed sex, masturbation, porn, mental health etc for about three hours this evening. It’s so important to me that I’m able to have those conversations with people and I thank my friends who opened me up about it all a few years ago. It was important to me when I started university last year that I made new friends and passed on this ability to have an open, honest conversation. It can be awkward at first but it’s so important to normalise these ideas. Just a few months later and we are able to discuss anything and everything. My parents never had these discussions with me and so everything I have learnt has been through my friends and the internet. Thank you, Gen, for opening up this conversation to more people. It’s the only way to break down these harmful taboos and the stigma around these topics. Lots of love and respect for you. 😘 xx
I love this video. You're so right. You can find sexual attraction in daily moments. You love it when your man washing the dishes I love it when my husband is sitting on the couch and reading a book. Intelligence attracts me since my youth. I wish you a wonderful vacation with your family.
An incredible conversation and topic, I loved hearing every single part of it because I work with children in this age group. It has been very difficult to stay calm when such topics arise because of the impact the social media and society has on it. I also find that I sort of live of the edge of this because I have to constantly think about the making these conversation seem natural but to draw the line because I am a caregiver not a parent. Not to mention to stand in adherence of the people and school that I work for. I wish I get to see and hear more about topics such as this. I would mean so much if there was one also about mental health? Thanks a ton for this!
This was amazing. I'm lost for words because I have never had issues with speaking about sex as an open topic and to see people who are the same is amazing.
With media, the age of exposure to sex is gradually lowering. I was exposed when I was 10 when a boy put on porn on his phone in the back of class. I knew what it was but since that was the first “encounter” to sex, I thought that was how it was supposed to be. When I first had sex in high school, it was a disappointing experience because I only knew what sex was, not making love. No one ever gave me the talk, and I think this movement is very important because it should be okay to talk about and teach young people that what we see on porn is not real. Sex is a spectrum that involves generosity and love in the bedroom (or any other room). Hopefully we live in a world one day where people are comfortable enough to talk about it
Thank you Gen for doing this video. I know you cut it down, but goodness I would love to see the entire hour. The topics you choose are almost always something I find extremely helpful and very interesting. This one specifically is helping me in my own 10 yr. Marriage. Thank you!
I am only sixteen and personally, I really love Gen that you're being a fantastic role model for me and sharing these videos allowing me to become more confident and more open minded. You're teaching me new ways of life even though I personally am not interested in sex, I truly enjoy seeing a woman so powerful making a difference.
I loved listening to this conversation! I specifically connected with two things that had me yelling "Yes!" at my computer. Firstly - I'm Cindy's age and I'm usually coy about saying my age, although I never lie about it. I like her (and Gen's) decision of saying her age as often as possible and I'm going to start simply saying the number instead of doing everything I can to not say it. Second - There is nothing sexier for me than watching my partner become completely sated and satisfied from our time together!! I always feel like that's my job and only then can I worry about achieving my own satisfaction. I know that maybe I need to work on my control issues, but this talk gave me a more positive view of my need to satisfy my man! I've never heard of Cindy Gallop before but I'm going to look into her efforts now. Thank you, Genevieve, for bringing this fascinating lady to my attention!
thank you for this type of informational videos! i'm also grateful for this conversation not only being beneficial for parents who want to welcome the topic of sex to their children but also for young adults like me who never experienced normalisation of sex and are now learning about it through content like yours!
Wow. Thank you to both of you for bringing up this topic and talking about it. That was a very insightful and wonderful conversation and I hope this helps start new conversations in people's everyday lives about sex and intimacy.
Thank you Gen, for bringing such an amazing and beautiful woman to our attention. Whether young or old, single or married, this topic is difficult for us to talk about. As someone who was more sheltered in life, I've never experienced such openness in a sexual relationship, and watching this has given me the knowledge and power to communicate my wants and needs with any future partners I find myself with. All my love to you, your lovely family, and Cindy as well
Hey gen....that was a really good video Abt this topic..cause this was a really a bold n a different step that you chose to talk Abt as most ppl wld not be comfortable or have an open mind to HV an interview about... really appreciate it..n request you to keep posting more videos about it ..love you n Jared loadz!!!
THANK YOU for bringing this up! She brilliantly summs up the main issues or points of value! And I found so much of myself in your approach. I absolutely see the necesseciry of talking about,sex more openly! As said: it's a fundamental part of us as a human being to feel loved and fulfillled and therefor it has an impact of how we are in respect to others and to society!
Thank you Gen for talking about this this needs to be more discussed my parents never gave me the talk about it it was my school they taught everyone in middle school and high school of the sex talk when I was younger I still get nervous taking about it
Such a powerful message, I really hope that this interview will circulate widely because Cindy speaks so fluently and well and makes excellent sense. I'm not sure about the MLNP tv website, but I agreed so much with everything you discussed about the role of sex (and I mean love and enjoyment by both parties to the sex acts) in society, and the disturbing influence exerted by media and internet porn, that skews people's ideas of reality. Oh and I'm 58 on Friday! :D
I live in a conservative country myself so speaking about sex is a big no no but as i grow i understand that the way you speak about it reflects inner thoughts and feelings on the subject itself , itsnt a stigma its natural its a good thing and it's definitely not porn .honestly this made me realise that i have to work on myself I'm not sure how but I'll find a way 🤗 another great video
I love the part about values. I agree, most of us weren't raised with those values on sex specifically. My dad raised me on principle, so for me all the lessons I learned I applied to all aspects of my life. Communication is so important in general, but specifically in sex. Honest, like watch 'two night stand' it's a movie about this couple who has a planned one night stand and they end up stuck at the girls house. They have this real and honest conversation about sex, and things they like and dont like. To me that's important. I think people should have honest conversation with good intentions. Like to build a more intimate and pleasurable experience for them both.
Hi Gen! My name is Andreia and I'm Brazilian, I really like you, your channel and your blog, I like the way you approach the issues! May you continue this wonderful person! See you !!
Such an amazing and informative video. I hope that by having more conversations like this that we can normalize the idea of sex and sexuality. Keep up the awesome work!
I could spend hours listening to this! I think it is so important to talk about sex, about consent, sexuality, and everything that is related to sex. I wouldn't say I am extremely experienced since my young age, but I don't think there is an age to talk about sex, I mean yes, you are not going to talk about kinks and fantasies with a 5 years old but you should teach them that no is no, that if they don't like something they should say it. I am in a religious school and sex is a huge taboo there, if kids start to talk to the other gender, people would watch them really closely ( creepy, I know right?) and I think it is not healthy. We should talk about protection instead of saying that if you wait until marriage you would not get diseases ( some of my classmates still think this is true...), talk about consent and sexual orientation. I am bisexual and normally don't really hide it, but i feel somewhat scared and don't want some people to know it... and that's fucked up! There is also another subject that is a big taboo in today society: masturbation. I don't really understand why, but people get really weird when this subject is brought up. If it is done properly and safely, masturbation is good for you ( relieve stress, boost confidence etc..)! It is especially taboo for women , why ? We are human and we have needs too ! Anyway, i think that i could spent hours talking about sex but i think you got my opinion. By the way Gen, I would loved if you made potcasts !!!! You and I share a lots of point of view and I would love to hear some of your thoughts about random subject !
I second what Fatima said :- ) I would actually like to be apart of it just because I'm Gen's age and I'm just now figuring out who I am. Also the fact is I would learn alot and it would be challenging for me diving into topics that I don't talk about.It's not everyday we see a wife of a famous actor that is very honest and open about topics that most women shy from. Danneel would be brilliant on it too just because she can give her view on things speaking as a woman.
This was a really interesting video and I'm looking forward to seeing more videos and/or blogposts about sex. Because it is something that's very present in our lifes but we get zero to no explanation from schools, teachers or even parents because it is still seen as this big thing that is to awkward to talk about which shouldn't be the case.
I have more questions than answers..like how do you teach your kids how to have sex manners? Because their are children like you don't want them to have sex to early or think about sex to early. I feel like that statement is very hard to do. I wish their was a book telling us how to make sex into your everyday values when it comes to kids. Raising kids are very hard bc you have to try to teach teach good values about life,death,religion,heath,hygiene,mental heath and etc it's so hard to add sex into that equation but obviously it's needs to be done.
I loved this video. And I second a podcast. I totally agree that we should normalise sex like food/water etc. Thank you for sharing such an informative video! :D
Very Needed discussion, I Agree with A lot with Her ! I Admire you too and you have good sexual values. 👍🏽 You said It all Most before her. ❤️ 🗣 👨👩👧👦 Sounds like ur on Target GREAT SUBJECT 👏🏽👏🏽 ❗️ Thanks &. Have A Safe /Fun MEMORIAL DAY !!!!!!
I’ve been with my husband for 12 years and I e never had an orgasm not once and I don’t know why I’m so petrified to tell him what I need because I’m fine by myself so I know there is nothing medically wrong
Well, I'd have to say that whatever you're doing when you're by yourself? You'll have to bring that into your relationship. Have you been 'faking it' with your husband?
While i think that talking and being open about sex is ok. I also feel like you’re putting too much pressure on yourself about talking to your son about it now. He’s only 6. Let it be natural and let him enjoy just being curious and a boy. With due time you will know when and how to talk to him about it.
"I get turned one when my husband washes the dishes" 😭😍 this was my favorite part of the video.
Yeah Jared wash them spoons ... 😭
Ömii B'Nique i guess you could say she’s trynna fork
me too
i would love to see u have a podcast, like u could have jared on there (his mind is so interesting), danneel and misha, ur girlfriends, like we would love to see u speak ur mind ❤️❤️❤️ ily guys
I completely agree. I think Gen would have such a thought provoking, but relatable podcast. Candid, open, but widely approachable. She has a way of making people feel comfortable, while being informative and sincere. I would listen the hell out of her podcast.
Jamie Pohs she has such a calming presence honestly it’s so comfortable
YES
fatima OMG yes
And Jensen
This is actually really awesome. I mean, I'm 15 and no one in my life has had open conversations with me about intimacy in the way you guys did and I honestly feel like that is immensely important. You're doing an amazing job with those kiddos, Gen. They're all gonna grow up as great humans💞
We just had the sex talk with my daughter. She was 8 at the time. She was talking about something that she saw on line related to sex, and we thought that would be a good time to discuss it with her. We are like you and Jared, in that we are a very open and honest family. It really wasn’t uncomfortable. And we covered a lot such as the best way to be safe is abstinence, but that we also aren’t stupid so if you should decide to have sex to take precautions and come to us so that we can revisit topics and just talk about it. The one thing I never thought to talk to her about was porn. So we will have to have a convo about that. Thank you for this Gen.
It's not normal to talk about sex with you kid when he's 8 years old, he needs to be atleast 12 imo, cuz if you put that stuff into her head when she's really really young you just motivate her more to be a pornstar, I mean idk I'm 15 but if I will have a kid I'll certainly not talk about it when she's so young
@@vlaicurabca6987 That is one of the most ignorant comments I've EVER seen. Where the hell did you read that having the sex talk with an 8 year old will motivate them to be a pornstar? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? You have a lot of growing up and learning to do if you actually believe that bullshit. She is HER child, and if she wants to talk to her about it at such a young age, then that is up to HER and nobody else. You get to decide when and IF you ever have children. But don't you dare tell other people how to parent their kids, when you clearly don't know shit about parenting...
@@CattIsANerd Just skimmed through this conversation but maybe what's wrong with the person is they are 15?.... Everyone is open to there own opinion even if you don't agree with it. No it wouldn't turn a child into a porn star but no need to go off on them for saying what they think. And no they don't know anything about parenting because once again, they are 15. My opinion though.
Talking about sex with children from a young age is so important. It can help them not only in adulthood but you can also help them be protected from child abuse. A lot of abused children do not come forward because they literally don't know how to talk about it, don't even know what happened to them until they're much older., or because they're embarrassed by what happened or think they've done something wrong. Teach your children proper body parts names and about sex and intimacy and privacy.
Oh Gen! This *GODDESS* you interviewed was amazing and had a wealth of information and knowledge on a subject that I personally always found taboo. I grew up in an Irish Catholic household where sex was not to be discussed no matter what and truth be told, I don't think I was ever given "the talk". I managed to save my virginity til marriage because I knew how fertile I was and didn't want to take the risk of getting pregnant before I was ready (both maturity-wise and financially). My husband has been so supportive in my own sexual journey and I couldn't have picked a better man to father my children with. Thank you to you both for this awesome video! I learned quite a bit
Great conversation on a important topic, Gen. Also, I second the idea of a podcast, if you find time for it. I’d love to hear more of your opinions on different topics! Don’t get me wrong, I love spn and everyone on it and that’s the way I got to know you, but I mean a podcast/project with you and other (non-spn) guests. I’m so grateful that you share your life with us on social media and can’t wait for more. xx Fi
I would love a Podcast! I have fallen in love with you and your lifestyle sharing and transparency! It makes me feel so much more strength as a mom, wife and WOMAN that you have taken the time to be so open and honest about your life and share the things that help you and can help us as women as well. March on sister!
I've really appreciated this discussion. At 62 years old and married for 43 years, it's good to freshen things up!
Great job Gen.. I'm 52 and was brought up the old ways as my mother was a single older mum of 45 when she had me.. in other words. No sex until marriage! I was 23 when I disobeyed her. I missed out on so much! When I had children I chose to be different. I never hide anything from them if they asked I was open as I could be and they now still as adults will talk very candid about anything including sexto me. This is part of life and one of the bonuses in living. Let's not shame it and bury it like it's dirty secret. Love your videos. Well done your a great mom. X
Thank you so much for discussing this subject with us. I have learned a lot and have become more aware of my own body and desires. I really enjoyed viewing this discussion. I love you so much, Gen. ❤️
I just came across this video, Gen, 4 years later. It's amazing and I could have watched the whole hour. I'm 67, and growing up I was always ashamed of my body and have always been extremely shy with sexual partners. Thanks to you and this video, I'm going to go find/watch/listen more about Cindy Gallop. Thank you.
3:58-4:02 “I get really turned on when my husband washes the dishes” when I tell you the air left my lungs
Same
Binging your vids again sweet lady. I feel like you’re the type of woman I could sit and easily talk to for a long time. I’m the type to be excited about just opening up and talking about so many thing. Asking questions. The works. And you’re such an inspiration. None of us are perfect but you try so hard to improve yourself and hope others see you and improve themselves. It’s amazing. Manifest the best you can be and radiate positivity.
Its like the feeling everyone has AND SHE PUT IT INTO WORDS but this is so enlightening.
I've seen a few comments across social media about how you should start a podcast type thing... I think it's an amazing idea! I'd love to hear uncut interviews and talks :)
This discussion was nothing like what I envisioned it would be when I clicked play. I love the idea of sexual values and thinking about it I’m actually quite lucky that I instinctively set myself high values from a young age but I had lots of friends with seemingly little to no values concerning sex and at that time I just didn’t haven’t the vocabulary to help but perhaps if their parents had been able to provide guidance about sex and values surrounding it, they may have made better choices growing up.
I'm a kindergarten teacher, so I take quite a lot of advice from this video. I already started a while ago to teach those kids to treat their genitals like other body parts and stopped using "nicknames" for them. I think it's important to give the children an open mind about this when they are young, bc they will feel pudic about it anyway in a certain age. Everyone should be able to talk about it in an open way, especially if something feels odd or wrong. Thanks a lot for this video. ♥
Such an amazing content! Very informative and intertening at the same time. Thank you Gen, keep up with the good work!
My friends and I discussed sex, masturbation, porn, mental health etc for about three hours this evening. It’s so important to me that I’m able to have those conversations with people and I thank my friends who opened me up about it all a few years ago. It was important to me when I started university last year that I made new friends and passed on this ability to have an open, honest conversation. It can be awkward at first but it’s so important to normalise these ideas. Just a few months later and we are able to discuss anything and everything. My parents never had these discussions with me and so everything I have learnt has been through my friends and the internet. Thank you, Gen, for opening up this conversation to more people. It’s the only way to break down these harmful taboos and the stigma around these topics. Lots of love and respect for you. 😘 xx
Your best blog so far Gen,. Congratulations. Informative and inspiring
This is truly revolutionary. Pretty ingenius, too.
I love this video. You're so right. You can find sexual attraction in daily moments. You love it when your man washing the dishes I love it when my husband is sitting on the couch and reading a book. Intelligence attracts me since my youth.
I wish you a wonderful vacation with your family.
An incredible conversation and topic, I loved hearing every single part of it because I work with children in this age group. It has been very difficult to stay calm when such topics arise because of the impact the social media and society has on it. I also find that I sort of live of the edge of this because I have to constantly think about the making these conversation seem natural but to draw the line because I am a caregiver not a parent. Not to mention to stand in adherence of the people and school that I work for. I wish I get to see and hear more about topics such as this. I would mean so much if there was one also about mental health? Thanks a ton for this!
This was amazing. I'm lost for words because I have never had issues with speaking about sex as an open topic and to see people who are the same is amazing.
With media, the age of exposure to sex is gradually lowering. I was exposed when I was 10 when a boy put on porn on his phone in the back of class. I knew what it was but since that was the first “encounter” to sex, I thought that was how it was supposed to be. When I first had sex in high school, it was a disappointing experience because I only knew what sex was, not making love. No one ever gave me the talk, and I think this movement is very important because it should be okay to talk about and teach young people that what we see on porn is not real. Sex is a spectrum that involves generosity and love in the bedroom (or any other room). Hopefully we live in a world one day where people are comfortable enough to talk about it
Thank you Gen for doing this video. I know you cut it down, but goodness I would love to see the entire hour. The topics you choose are almost always something I find extremely helpful and very interesting. This one specifically is helping me in my own 10 yr. Marriage. Thank you!
I am only sixteen and personally, I really love Gen that you're being a fantastic role model for me and sharing these videos allowing me to become more confident and more open minded. You're teaching me new ways of life even though I personally am not interested in sex, I truly enjoy seeing a woman so powerful making a difference.
I was so excited for this ❤
I loved listening to this conversation! I specifically connected with two things that had me yelling "Yes!" at my computer.
Firstly - I'm Cindy's age and I'm usually coy about saying my age, although I never lie about it. I like her (and Gen's) decision of saying her age as often as possible and I'm going to start simply saying the number instead of doing everything I can to not say it.
Second - There is nothing sexier for me than watching my partner become completely sated and satisfied from our time together!! I always feel like that's my job and only then can I worry about achieving my own satisfaction. I know that maybe I need to work on my control issues, but this talk gave me a more positive view of my need to satisfy my man!
I've never heard of Cindy Gallop before but I'm going to look into her efforts now. Thank you,
Genevieve, for bringing this fascinating lady to my attention!
Yes yes, please start a podcast by the way! I'm living for that idea right now
Fantastic woman. Loved everything she said and how much it made sense.
Gen please post more often. I just feel you have lots to say and these are such important conversations.
thank you for this type of informational videos! i'm also grateful for this conversation not only being beneficial for parents who want to welcome the topic of sex to their children but also for young adults like me who never experienced normalisation of sex and are now learning about it through content like yours!
Wow. Thank you to both of you for bringing up this topic and talking about it. That was a very insightful and wonderful conversation and I hope this helps start new conversations in people's everyday lives about sex and intimacy.
Thank you Gen, for bringing such an amazing and beautiful woman to our attention. Whether young or old, single or married, this topic is difficult for us to talk about. As someone who was more sheltered in life, I've never experienced such openness in a sexual relationship, and watching this has given me the knowledge and power to communicate my wants and needs with any future partners I find myself with. All my love to you, your lovely family, and Cindy as well
Hey gen....that was a really good video Abt this topic..cause this was a really a bold n a different step that you chose to talk Abt as most ppl wld not be comfortable or have an open mind to HV an interview about... really appreciate it..n request you to keep posting more videos about it ..love you n Jared loadz!!!
It's an interesting pov and I couldn't agree more that communication is just so important. Why must we make sex such a taboo subject?!
THANK YOU for bringing this up! She brilliantly summs up the main issues or points of value! And I found so much of myself in your approach.
I absolutely see the necesseciry of talking about,sex more openly! As said: it's a fundamental part of us as a human being to feel loved and fulfillled and therefor it has an impact of how we are in respect to others and to society!
Thank you for making this video. You are very transparent.
I love this, gen. It really opens up my eyes.
I respect Cindy, I wish I had half of her courage
Thank you Gen for talking about this this needs to be more discussed my parents never gave me the talk about it it was my school they taught everyone in middle school and high school of the sex talk when I was younger I still get nervous taking about it
Amazing topic I love the video
Such a powerful message, I really hope that this interview will circulate widely because Cindy speaks so fluently and well and makes excellent sense. I'm not sure about the MLNP tv website, but I agreed so much with everything you discussed about the role of sex (and I mean love and enjoyment by both parties to the sex acts) in society, and the disturbing influence exerted by media and internet porn, that skews people's ideas of reality.
Oh and I'm 58 on Friday! :D
I live in a conservative country myself so speaking about sex is a big no no but as i grow i understand that the way you speak about it reflects inner thoughts and feelings on the subject itself , itsnt a stigma its natural its a good thing and it's definitely not porn .honestly this made me realise that i have to work on myself I'm not sure how but I'll find a way 🤗 another great video
I love the part about values. I agree, most of us weren't raised with those values on sex specifically. My dad raised me on principle, so for me all the lessons I learned I applied to all aspects of my life. Communication is so important in general, but specifically in sex. Honest, like watch 'two night stand' it's a movie about this couple who has a planned one night stand and they end up stuck at the girls house. They have this real and honest conversation about sex, and things they like and dont like. To me that's important. I think people should have honest conversation with good intentions. Like to build a more intimate and pleasurable experience for them both.
Hi Gen! My name is Andreia and I'm Brazilian, I really like you, your channel and your blog, I like the way you approach the issues! May you continue this wonderful person! See you !!
gen, you should do more of these.
Such an amazing and informative video. I hope that by having more conversations like this that we can normalize the idea of sex and sexuality. Keep up the awesome work!
thank you for talking about this! this was really interesting to watch.
Gen, this was really great. Thanks for making this vid!
Thank you lovely ladies for this. You're both right we don't talk enough about this❤🌱
Fabulous video. I really enjoyed watching this. Very informative and interesting .
9:00-9:30.....mind blown.
It's really interesting...That reminds me how much I still have to learn about life
Very interesting !! Really enjoyed hearing Cindy out!
Very interesting! Thank you for sharing this video Gen
I could spend hours listening to this! I think it is so important to talk about sex, about consent, sexuality, and everything that is related to sex.
I wouldn't say I am extremely experienced since my young age, but I don't think there is an age to talk about sex, I mean yes, you are not going to talk about kinks and fantasies with a 5 years old but you should teach them that no is no, that if they don't like something they should say it. I am in a religious school and sex is a huge taboo there, if kids start to talk to the other gender, people would watch them really closely ( creepy, I know right?) and I think it is not healthy. We should talk about protection instead of saying that if you wait until marriage you would not get diseases ( some of my classmates still think this is true...), talk about consent and sexual orientation. I am bisexual and normally don't really hide it, but i feel somewhat scared and don't want some people to know it... and that's fucked up!
There is also another subject that is a big taboo in today society: masturbation.
I don't really understand why, but people get really weird when this subject is brought up. If it is done properly and safely, masturbation is good for you ( relieve stress, boost confidence etc..)! It is especially taboo for women , why ? We are human and we have needs too !
Anyway, i think that i could spent hours talking about sex but i think you got my opinion.
By the way Gen, I would loved if you made potcasts !!!! You and I share a lots of point of view and I would love to hear some of your thoughts about random subject !
Interesting video ❤
You inspire me very much gen ILYSM
Very informative
This is so true
I second what Fatima said :- ) I would actually like to be apart of it just because I'm Gen's age and I'm just now figuring out who I am. Also the fact is I would learn alot and it would be challenging for me diving into topics that I don't talk about.It's not everyday we see a wife of a famous actor that is very honest and open about topics that most women shy from. Danneel would be brilliant on it too just because she can give her view on things speaking as a woman.
Awesome video. I learned a lot
Great video! Thank you!!
This was a really interesting video and I'm looking forward to seeing more videos and/or blogposts about sex. Because it is something that's very present in our lifes but we get zero to no explanation from schools, teachers or even parents because it is still seen as this big thing that is to awkward to talk about which shouldn't be the case.
i loved this so much
I love this. You are amazing.
You're amazing Gen .
Thanks you ai much for this video I really appreciate it God Bless...
This is stimulating . Thank you @nowandgen
great video Thanks
aww love it
My parents don't give the talk. They let every one of us figure it out on our own
thank you for the interesting video❤️❤️
I have more questions than answers..like how do you teach your kids how to have sex manners? Because their are children like you don't want them to have sex to early or think about sex to early. I feel like that statement is very hard to do. I wish their was a book telling us how to make sex into your everyday values when it comes to kids. Raising kids are very hard bc you have to try to teach teach good values about life,death,religion,heath,hygiene,mental heath and etc it's so hard to add sex into that equation but obviously it's needs to be done.
Ilysm❤️
Hello gen. I would like you to do a video on different cultures.
I loved this video. And I second a podcast. I totally agree that we should normalise sex like food/water etc. Thank you for sharing such an informative video! :D
WoW! Thank you! :D
You should 1million subs
I love you saludos desde Perú !
Very Needed discussion, I Agree with A lot with Her ! I Admire you too and you have good sexual values. 👍🏽 You said It all Most before her. ❤️ 🗣 👨👩👧👦 Sounds like ur on Target GREAT SUBJECT 👏🏽👏🏽 ❗️ Thanks &. Have A Safe /Fun MEMORIAL DAY !!!!!!
me being her:
can't even speak is so awkward
Love u Gen ❤
I’ve been with my husband for 12 years and I e never had an orgasm not once and I don’t know why I’m so petrified to tell him what I need because I’m fine by myself so I know there is nothing medically wrong
I respect that youre open about that. What is it that you need.? Maybe try using a vibrator?
Well, I'd have to say that whatever you're doing when you're by yourself? You'll have to bring that into your relationship. Have you been 'faking it' with your husband?
Haha I think about sex too
So Good L Love You So Much!!!😘💖
I Loved 😍😍
nice genn!
Cool
How many woman see now Jared making the dishes??? 🤣
Gen's so beautiful ! I
Linda te amo maravilhosa vem pro brasil e vem pra sao bento
Mmmm Jared washing them spoons
Gen this is Chelsea key I'm 25 and I never have sex before cause I'm an adult
I really wish there was some sort of asexual consideration, not everyone will grow up to want sex.
Not even with yourself?
While i think that talking and being open about sex is ok. I also feel like you’re putting too much pressure on yourself about talking to your son about it now. He’s only 6. Let it be natural and let him enjoy just being curious and a boy. With due time you will know when and how to talk to him about it.
I mean, he's HER child. It's up to her when and if she talks about it with him. Nobody else.
have this conversation with a 6 year old what the hell?
gen, can you stop saying "girlfriend." Women using that word to mean "friend" just makes life harder for us lesbos. Thanks, babe 💕