I’m an ENFP! And I agree with ALL of these weaknesses- it’s 100%…. These are my weaknesses 😢- can you make a video on how to overcome these weaknesses? I feel like so many videos tell us our weaknesses but don’t actually help us create a plan to overcome them.
I'm so thankful that I stopped caring about what other people think in so far that it affects me negatively. I only care about what people think so that I can get them to be more on board with whatever I think is important. If they criticize me then I will either learn from it or not care about it being inconsequential to me. I don't much mind if someone disagrees with me but I will argue if someone is categorically wrong but it doesn't hurt my feelings no matter what anyone might think, even my closest loved ones. I am a little disorganized but martial arts has given me discipline to focus on routines and practice rituals that keep me sharp and practical. I definitely help others more than many might think is necessary and I also trust those more blindly even if I've never met them and they request something like money from me. I frankly don't care because I only give what I don't need and since I have enough money to survive I'm very happy to give it to whoever simply asked for it. I definitely don't need anyone to show me affection or to get approval from others. That sounds Dreadful and I'm glad that I don't. I definitely like being noticed in the center of attention though but that's only because it's fun not because I need it to survive. Regarding rules, I did have an issue with always trying to be non-conforming when I was younger. Now I live by the rule that it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.
Yes that's 100% accurate to what I'm doing, idc of someone likes me or not and i also don't need approval seeking, I'm surprised that's what people have to deal with
People who claim that ENFPs aren’t people pleasers are actually incorrect. I’m an INTP with a close knit group of friends, this group is made of ENFPs, ENTJs, INFPs, and ENFJs. And let me tell you all something, at conventions my ENFP friend loves making connections for his business ideas or to get to know somebody. When we became friends I noticed he would let anyone come up to his hotel room to smoke weed or get alcohol, imo his strategy worked, but at the cost of pleasing everyone just to make connections? That’s not really efficient. My other ENFP friend will invite me over to his house to hangout and most times he will buy the both of us food or offer me coffee to the point I’m not passing out past 2am. Honestly, if you are an ENFP and you aren’t a people pleaser then it’s cause I assume you fixed that weakness about you, which is a good thing. Naturally I use to assume ENFPs were airheads cause they aren’t big brain like INTPs or INTJs, but they are quick witted and tend to notice things quickly. Just my two cents I don’t think your videos are inaccurate, if anything they give out lots of factual info that could be considered dangerous in the wrong hands; just saying.
Thank you so much for sharing! In fact ENFPs have a lot of great strengths despite the people-pleasing debate ---> ruclips.net/video/arQQcu2u9Iw/видео.html
naw I just learned that it's ok to not be liked. Now do I lose sleep over someone not liking me more than I admit but I stopped the people-pleasing bullshit a while ago. I never really had friends my whole life and I only really learned to make quick and superficial relationships around 8th grade so it is what it is.
@@PsychologyRefresh first of all we are not people pleasers.. we care first and more about our harmony first and then we spread those good vibes to everyone around us.. and if our moral or we are challenged we will not hesitate to let them know what we feel. And we dont get stressed easily either. Yes, we can see alot of different opportunities in any situation and that is something we like, it will only stress us when we are not grounded or immature. And we dont always come late, actually I've been late to my work 5 times in 14 years... we can use Our SI. We mature over time and find out that some routine will help us make alot less choices through out the day... this video makes enfp look like a child and that is so off. I've been up 04.40 for 8 years 30min before work at 6am i meditate and i do my Fi dive into my inner world and create harmony. So noo... we don't get stressed or mad or hurt if someone doesnt agree with us if what they are saying has been really thought through and we have no problem on switching opinions if we see something making more sense. That's what our NE is for. Finding new ideas and better ways of doing something. You are correct in restrictions ! We hate getting restricted or following rules! Especially when we dont see any value or logic sense behind the rule. We make our own rules and we trust our Fi to guide us. We are constantly looking for bias in our views so i appreciate very very much when someone can correct or change my view. If they can see something i haven't been able to see. And at last. We are humans being or organism. We change an adapt.. I know having NE can be alot and demands understanding and masculinity do know thy self and to see and understand how the mind work . U can use it as a gift! NE creates alot of energy and funny ways of looking at the world and i enjoying my company so fucking much just watching my brain connecting dots and making a spiderweb in my head with all the knowledge are possibilities. I often enjoy that more that actually people. That's why my wife and me are perfect match. She is an INFP and we speak the same language. Hope i didn't go off to hard, but be a little more careful how u portray these peoples. They are like Aladdin, and they like to shake the old and the concrete system and open it up to new possibilities and harmony. We see potensial in people and the world. That's why we sometimes can seem disconnected from what actually is.. but, I'd rather be like this.. i feel like the world is an expression of the creator and taking all difference forms and seeing and experiencing itself from different angles. It's a play and we need to remember that. Hope i didn't go to hard or long. Would have been fun having a conversation face to face than over here. Anyway. Hope you are all good. Much love ❤️
@@megiMove Wow, thank you for that insight Merigim! ENFPs are incredibly complex individuals, thanks for clarifying these issues. ENFPs have a lot of great strengths as well, we will be releasing video about them soon. Stay tuned ;)
@@PsychologyRefresh yes, i can easily see how enfp can fall out the wagon if they don't come back again... they can really go dark, sucking all the good energy from people and go super psychopath mode. They will use their NE to manipulate and coming back from that can be really hard as they often find out early in life that people will betray them and that few people will ever manage to live up to their morals. And as unhealthy enfp they can build up their ego around their morals as being superior to others because of their morals.. and in that way they can retract from the world and go super emo and dark.. hehe, alittle bit like INFP 😂 lucky for me i was forced pretty early in life to grow and to heal... because if i didnt i would most likely still be like this dark "joker" in life. 😅 Anyways.. you know. I tried to just keep it short, but my NE wont let me stop writing so ill stop here. Have a great weekend and looking forward to new videos ❤️😍
@@megiMove Thanks again for this insight! Look like we will reach out to you if we will be making another ENFP video ;) Have a great weekend as well and thank you for watching our channel.
@@PsychologyRefresh because the opinions of other we do not care so much but we love to spread good vibes to others. We are empath and we don’t like bad mood so we préfère spread good vibes and also we love sharing good things. But we don’t like depend on the others acceptation so we don’t please them, we just share with us because we love people and sharing good mood for them but especially for us , too keep our good mood. Sorry for my poor English Greetings from France
@@PsychologyRefresh for me i think, one of my big problem it’s following the rules when they are not very appropriate or boring and accept authority. I’m very indépendant and love so much my freedom so…🤨😱😝
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I’m an ENFP! And I agree with ALL of these weaknesses- it’s 100%…. These are my weaknesses 😢- can you make a video on how to overcome these weaknesses? I feel like so many videos tell us our weaknesses but don’t actually help us create a plan to overcome them.
We definitely can, stay tuned!
Same here
So cute
I'm so thankful that I stopped caring about what other people think in so far that it affects me negatively. I only care about what people think so that I can get them to be more on board with whatever I think is important. If they criticize me then I will either learn from it or not care about it being inconsequential to me. I don't much mind if someone disagrees with me but I will argue if someone is categorically wrong but it doesn't hurt my feelings no matter what anyone might think, even my closest loved ones.
I am a little disorganized but martial arts has given me discipline to focus on routines and practice rituals that keep me sharp and practical.
I definitely help others more than many might think is necessary and I also trust those more blindly even if I've never met them and they request something like money from me. I frankly don't care because I only give what I don't need and since I have enough money to survive I'm very happy to give it to whoever simply asked for it.
I definitely don't need anyone to show me affection or to get approval from others. That sounds Dreadful and I'm glad that I don't. I definitely like being noticed in the center of attention though but that's only because it's fun not because I need it to survive.
Regarding rules, I did have an issue with always trying to be non-conforming when I was younger. Now I live by the rule that it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.
Thank you for sharing this!
Yes that's 100% accurate to what I'm doing, idc of someone likes me or not and i also don't need approval seeking, I'm surprised that's what people have to deal with
Wow, i agree with everything
People who claim that ENFPs aren’t people pleasers are actually incorrect.
I’m an INTP with a close knit group of friends, this group is made of ENFPs, ENTJs, INFPs, and ENFJs. And let me tell you all something, at conventions my ENFP friend loves making connections for his business ideas or to get to know somebody.
When we became friends I noticed he would let anyone come up to his hotel room to smoke weed or get alcohol, imo his strategy worked, but at the cost of pleasing everyone just to make connections? That’s not really efficient.
My other ENFP friend will invite me over to his house to hangout and most times he will buy the both of us food or offer me coffee to the point I’m not passing out past 2am.
Honestly, if you are an ENFP and you aren’t a people pleaser then it’s cause I assume you fixed that weakness about you, which is a good thing.
Naturally I use to assume ENFPs were airheads cause they aren’t big brain like INTPs or INTJs, but they are quick witted and tend to notice things quickly.
Just my two cents I don’t think your videos are inaccurate, if anything they give out lots of factual info that could be considered dangerous in the wrong hands; just saying.
Thank you so much for sharing! In fact ENFPs have a lot of great strengths despite the people-pleasing debate ---> ruclips.net/video/arQQcu2u9Iw/видео.html
Yeah as an ENFP, the main shackles holding me back in life is my people pleasing
@@summero-my5in Thanks for sharing! Check this playlist ---> bit.ly/3SJzH0t
@@PsychologyRefresh thanks I will :)
naw I just learned that it's ok to not be liked. Now do I lose sleep over someone not liking me more than I admit but I stopped the people-pleasing bullshit a while ago. I never really had friends my whole life and I only really learned to make quick and superficial relationships around 8th grade so it is what it is.
I got distracted while watching this video😂
I am not late, but when I am, it's because I am stressed. Or I really don't wanna go !
I agree with everything
I was so stress out sometimes that I stopped being...
I feel attacked lololol😂
Nailed it ❤️
Thank you!
The fact that you’re using Will Smith is triggering to me..
couldnt relate more!!
I am one wooooooo 🎉
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I name one Chess ♟️
This video describes me and I don't like it
U are so incorrect with this video. Are u referring to a immature 12 year old enfp? We are not people pleasers!!
Thank you for your opinion! Would you mind elaborating?
@@PsychologyRefresh first of all we are not people pleasers.. we care first and more about our harmony first and then we spread those good vibes to everyone around us.. and if our moral or we are challenged we will not hesitate to let them know what we feel. And we dont get stressed easily either. Yes, we can see alot of different opportunities in any situation and that is something we like, it will only stress us when we are not grounded or immature.
And we dont always come late, actually I've been late to my work 5 times in 14 years... we can use Our SI. We mature over time and find out that some routine will help us make alot less choices through out the day... this video makes enfp look like a child and that is so off. I've been up 04.40 for 8 years 30min before work at 6am i meditate and i do my Fi dive into my inner world and create harmony. So noo... we don't get stressed or mad or hurt if someone doesnt agree with us if what they are saying has been really thought through and we have no problem on switching opinions if we see something making more sense. That's what our NE is for. Finding new ideas and better ways of doing something.
You are correct in restrictions ! We hate getting restricted or following rules! Especially when we dont see any value or logic sense behind the rule. We make our own rules and we trust our Fi to guide us. We are constantly looking for bias in our views so i appreciate very very much when someone can correct or change my view. If they can see something i haven't been able to see.
And at last. We are humans being or organism. We change an adapt.. I know having NE can be alot and demands understanding and masculinity do know thy self and to see and understand how the mind work . U can use it as a gift! NE creates alot of energy and funny ways of looking at the world and i enjoying my company so fucking much just watching my brain connecting dots and making a spiderweb in my head with all the knowledge are possibilities. I often enjoy that more that actually people. That's why my wife and me are perfect match. She is an INFP and we speak the same language.
Hope i didn't go off to hard, but be a little more careful how u portray these peoples. They are like Aladdin, and they like to shake the old and the concrete system and open it up to new possibilities and harmony. We see potensial in people and the world. That's why we sometimes can seem disconnected from what actually is.. but, I'd rather be like this.. i feel like the world is an expression of the creator and taking all difference forms and seeing and experiencing itself from different angles. It's a play and we need to remember that.
Hope i didn't go to hard or long. Would have been fun having a conversation face to face than over here. Anyway.
Hope you are all good. Much love ❤️
@@megiMove Wow, thank you for that insight Merigim! ENFPs are incredibly complex individuals, thanks for clarifying these issues. ENFPs have a lot of great strengths as well, we will be releasing video about them soon. Stay tuned ;)
@@PsychologyRefresh yes, i can easily see how enfp can fall out the wagon if they don't come back again... they can really go dark, sucking all the good energy from people and go super psychopath mode. They will use their NE to manipulate and coming back from that can be really hard as they often find out early in life that people will betray them and that few people will ever manage to live up to their morals. And as unhealthy enfp they can build up their ego around their morals as being superior to others because of their morals.. and in that way they can retract from the world and go super emo and dark.. hehe, alittle bit like INFP 😂 lucky for me i was forced pretty early in life to grow and to heal... because if i didnt i would most likely still be like this dark "joker" in life. 😅
Anyways.. you know. I tried to just keep it short, but my NE wont let me stop writing so ill stop here.
Have a great weekend and looking forward to new videos ❤️😍
@@megiMove Thanks again for this insight! Look like we will reach out to you if we will be making another ENFP video ;) Have a great weekend as well and thank you for watching our channel.
We are not people pleasers 🚫
Thanks for your opinion Benithe! Could you elaborate a little?
@@PsychologyRefresh because the opinions of other we do not care so much but we love to spread good vibes to others. We are empath and we don’t like bad mood so we préfère spread good vibes and also we love sharing good things. But we don’t like depend on the others acceptation so we don’t please them, we just share with us because we love people and sharing good mood for them but especially for us , too keep our good mood.
Sorry for my poor English
Greetings from France
@@legende827 Thank you for your insight! What would you consider as your biggest weakness?
@@PsychologyRefresh for me i think, one of my big problem it’s following the rules when they are not very appropriate or boring and accept authority. I’m very indépendant and love so much my freedom so…🤨😱😝
Depends on the person I have a problem with negative people