I think this is the first I’ve seen the parent and child actually talk calmly, not yell or accuse the other of being a liar etc. Love it. I hope they are able to work thru this.
When that baby asked Karamo if it was her fault......tore me all the way up, ugly cry and all. Baby girl, it is NOT your fault. I pray that guilt is lifted and you find internal internal peace, self-love, and internal validation so that you're never in a place where ANYONE can make you feel this way.
I don’t like how the mom deflected & made it all about herself. The past ain’t JUST the past. Your past caused your daughter DEEP pain & anguish. It can’t just be swept under the rug. Hopefully she takes Karamo’s help & works on being accountable.
I honestly love the Fact They both hear each other talk no yelling Her Still Calmly Respecting her Mom This is how you communicate I’m Rooting on they’re Bond and Healing ❤️🩹 ❤️🙏🏾
Ok but don't the doctors tell pregnant females not 2 reach??? did she admit 2 reaching??? But as usual we don't hold females accountable like we do men
The Mom has so much unhealed trauma. Daughter I hope that you continue to grow and heal and that it is revealed to you that you do not need your mom’s validation because she does not have it to give. Learn to give yourself the love and support that you need to thrive ❤
The fact that the mother said " I almost killed myself, y'all ain't even know " doesn't compromise the way SHE mistreated her daughter through the years. She looking for excuses. Plus the fact that she's here alive telling her story, yea she might of attempted suicide but it didn't work out that way
This hits home for me. Having to step into adulthood/motherhood at 13 years of age and my parent telling me it was my job to step up and take care of my 3 brothers at 13. I’m over it now, and I have forgiven my mother. It made me want to be the best mom eve!!!
8:13 ❤❤❤❤❤ that was awesome was stuck out to me about Mom💕 was her accountability when she said she was trying to feel something other than sadness and she was finding that in addiction. I felt that when I’m surrounded by the population, I work with has struggles of addiction, family members, etc. etc. I just felt that I’m glad for her recovery.
Please talk to someone, friends, family, someone you're comfortable with. Talking it out can make you feel better. Also, please do seek professional help!! No shame in needing a therapist :)
I don't know you. Bit I can tell you that I was a broken child. I grew up fighting at school and people picking on me which transpired into a life of drugs and alcohol and a history of attracting toxic relationships. I Smoked some weed when i was on holiday and watched a video and ended up being afflicted by Satan. I begged the lord for his help because I was suicidal too those demons were too powerful and I never knew my power in the Lord. I went everywhere for deliverance and no once could help me. I found a pastor who's testimony was the same as mine. I was delivered of alcohol, porn, masterbation, weed. Smoking and suicidal thoughts. It was dark and I felt like I was not going to make it. I will be writing a book about my journey to faith. Today I am clean from everything I was involved in. I graduate in a BSC radiographer degree soon. I got a job and most importantly God got me. If you just belive in the Lord Jesus he is true to his word he is a deliverer and he will never leave you. This is for someone who is being lied to by the enemy. We say it loud and proud get the behind me satan small s because that's what you are. God bless you, fast, pray and seek God he will deliver because he's true to his word. 🙏
@@Catiababy-tb5nq i know some people get to a point where talking to others about their problems doesn’t work. The only person who can give you faith to keep going is you. And if you give up now, all the possibilities of how your life could’ve turned out will be gone. Our emotions are temporary but so is time. Don’t cut your time short.
Ma'am you're fortunate your daughter wants to keep you in her life. Cause if it was me, momma would find my bedroom with an empty wardrobe and empty bed [FOR GOOD]. I've forgiven my mom many times but my life will be brighter once I move out for good. 22 F
I AGREE WITH THE MOTHER 100%. SHE HAS ALREADY APOLOGIZED, OWNED IT, ADMITTED SHE WAS WRONG AND IS NOW CLEAN. THESE ADULT CHILDREN HAVE GOT TO STOP BRINGING UP THE PAST WHEN YOU HAVE A PARENT THAT'S WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU. THESE PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY FEMALES WILL FORGIVE A LOW DOWN DIRTY ROTTEN HUSBAND AND LET HIM OFF THE HOOK REPEATEDLY...BUT THEIR MOTHERS, IT'S ALWAYS AN ISSUE. I'M SO PROUD OF THE MOTHER AND I WISH THEM BOTH WELL.
Evan if the mother said she never told her daughter, she never said to her she never received love. The mother actions speak much louder than the tongue. Love is a VERB not a NOUN. Love is an ACTION. The mother doesn't want to hear it.😢
Although older, this child needs to be a child and grow up in a better manner. To date, she is lost and confused .She needs guidance into adulthood but freedom to enjoy her youth at this time. She is traumatized
The mom sees herself as the victim. She wants to pretend nothing happened because she really don't think she did nothing wrong. That was an apology on the show given to try to erase the past. They're gonna have to talk about the past to make things right in their future. She looks like she could care less.
NOOO , I am an addict , I’ve been sober 5yrs and I can tell you right tf now I would never had said no shit like that . Have we made excuses ofc but being mad ain’t no excuse . Be real , you wanted to hurt your child so badly that it WOULD stick with her for the rest of her life like it is right now . I truly don’t believe her apology was genuine what so ever . I hope they can heal from this because she needs her mom but mom gonna have to do better and needs to take accountability .
Depending on how far you are in the pregnancy over reaching can cause the umbilical cord to rap around the baby's neck.however.i didn't think she intentionally killed her baby
Black mommas tend to use their age and "experience" in life as a reason to lie to they children and make them believe that its the truth "cause im ya momma im always right i wouldnt lie to you" ..... Life as a black woman has been unnecessarily hard in reality and in our minds . Life already hard for us , why make it hard for ya own kids too
3:22 I could not even hold these words, but I’m like Stacy please just come out and have some accountability sometimes that’s all is needed toward healing, genuine accountability, genuine desire for change
In indiction ppl do not make sound advise or show up the way they should. When a person is there, stop having this unrealistic expectation when they are not processing their own trauma and / or addiction.
Abortted bbabies ask what did I do to be gone .this young lady did nothing wrong she wanted to be a mommy big difference sorry for your loss it's not your fault you didn't want that.
I rarely comment on anything but I think it’s annoying when people put their past “trauma” as an excuse. I’ve been through a lot of trauma and I make sure to show love because I wouldn’t want anyone else to experience what I have. Nobody’s perfect but still it’s okay to try and be the best version of yourself. And I know that everyone can’t overcome trauma but I just want some people to try to be better for themselves and the ones around them!
My mom had 3 girls she let her men beat me everyday 😢she made me clean the house while my other siblings was playing outside 😢she didn't even stop these men every time my mom get sick she starts to apologize 😢I was mentally destroyed that the man I had in my life 23 years he beat me everyday 😢because I thought that was love that I had to jump out a second floor window to get away from the beaten from my kids dad 😢
I might need to quit looking at these shows. They caused me to tear up so bad at times. I wish folks were bringing children in the world only to abuse them and take advantage of them including for them to be a parent to the other children that you had instead of being the sibling
It was bad enough that the daughter was trying to process her mom not sticking up for her, then add to it “I was thinking about killing my self.” Not helpful at all. 🙄😢😢Why am I such a crybaby!!??
I think this is the first I’ve seen the parent and child actually talk calmly, not yell or accuse the other of being a liar etc. Love it. I hope they are able to work thru this.
@@kelsobossy the best comment
@@kelsobossy Samething I said!!!! This was shocking but yet beautiful
@@kelsobossy yes they really did a good job . I love it 🥰
When that baby asked Karamo if it was her fault......tore me all the way up, ugly cry and all. Baby girl, it is NOT your fault. I pray that guilt is lifted and you find internal internal peace, self-love, and internal validation so that you're never in a place where ANYONE can make you feel this way.
Yes that part hit me deep
@@MyzUnderstood Back in the day the elders believed this. I was told with my first child in 1976 not to do any reaching for this would happen.
The daughter is so beautiful
Very beautiful
She is her mother's twin
@@McKenzie-j7r i agree shes so pretty
And intelligent
Naw ,the mama wish she did look like her daughter, Jealousy is s cruel as the grave!
I don’t like how the mom deflected & made it all about herself. The past ain’t JUST the past. Your past caused your daughter DEEP pain & anguish. It can’t just be swept under the rug. Hopefully she takes Karamo’s help & works on being accountable.
She did try to get those sympathy points all the while seeming like she wasn’t present for what the daughter was saying.
Mama seemed bland and very “over it” that’s why daughter wasn’t buying it.
because her mother shows covert narc tendencies. they love making it about themselves #selforphan
I honestly love the Fact They both hear each other talk no yelling Her Still Calmly Respecting her Mom This is how you communicate I’m Rooting on they’re Bond and Healing ❤️🩹 ❤️🙏🏾
its crazy how she really thought she killed her child. what type of mum puts that blame on her child AND another parent?!
@@thelolmomentz she was heated , what matters the most is that she apologized .. i hope they’re doing well and can move past this 💕.
@@Yhsaax exactly
That sounds dumb. Even when I'm heated I would never say that along with many other people @@Yhsaax
Ok but don't the doctors tell pregnant females not 2 reach??? did she admit 2 reaching??? But as usual we don't hold females accountable like we do men
@@kingnajiyd7282 obviously no doctor told her. she said she didn’t know…., this is not about holding her accountable when she lost her baby.
‘My relative told me how to keep myself up’ really spoke volumes 😢😢
Her mother really failed her.
🎯🎯🎯🎯💪🏾💯
Yes!!!!!
Nobody in my family taught me hygiene
@@Zcodee-ox1ju it's a natural way of Life
@@sharifsalaam3385 okay ?
The crowd was very reluctant to clap for "mom" when she was introduced to come to the stage.
I noticed that too
They needs not to be judgemental
Btw the daughter is very beautiful. Wish them the best
Is karomo the 🆕 maury
@@jeromebass7878 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Maury wasnt like a therapist like karamo is @jeromebass7878
She is ❤
Counseling is definitely needed! Great advice! ❤
Those braids are so beautiful 🥰
I hate that drugs destroyed so many of our families, mine included. The long-lasting effects are just sad to see. 🤦🏾
Addiction is no joke!! Take care of yourself and the people surround y’all, it’s important!!
And people y’all are not alone!!
The way she still wasn’t going to say sorry until Karamo came
Literally 😭
The Mom has so much unhealed trauma. Daughter I hope that you continue to grow and heal and that it is revealed to you that you do not need your mom’s validation because she does not have it to give. Learn to give yourself the love and support that you need to thrive ❤
Two beautiful women wishing them all the best
The fact that the mother said " I almost killed myself, y'all ain't even know " doesn't compromise the way SHE mistreated her daughter through the years. She looking for excuses. Plus the fact that she's here alive telling her story, yea she might of attempted suicide but it didn't work out that way
thats why im a self orphan
I’M HERE ON TIME!!! ⏰ I was about to braid my mans hair but I told him he gotta wait! 🤣🤣
😂
U can do both 💈
@@jeromebass7878 negative, he had to wait! This my show. 🤣🤣
😂😂
😅😅
Karamo pulling a tissue and keeping it for himself to set an example it’s ok to need a tissue is a whole mood!
This is the first time I’ve seen karamo grab a tissue from him getting emotional before the second guest showed up. Crazy. This mom is so sad
This hits home for me. Having to step into adulthood/motherhood at 13 years of age and my parent telling me it was my job to step up and take care of my 3 brothers at 13. I’m over it now, and I have forgiven my mother. It made me want to be the best mom eve!!!
Aww man, sorry about your experience. You didn't deserve it but I'm so proud of you for managing to get over it.
I was 11 and I had 2 siblings younger. I didn't receive love either. I grew up never wanting kids bc of that.
Been there...done that
The daughter is such a beautiful soul... Lord, I pray her complete healing in her heart and mind.
8:13 ❤❤❤❤❤ that was awesome was stuck out to me about Mom💕 was her accountability when she said she was trying to feel something other than sadness and she was finding that in addiction. I felt that when I’m surrounded by the population, I work with has struggles of addiction, family members, etc. etc. I just felt that I’m glad for her recovery.
I be bout to break my neck tryna get to these videos!
I know right 😂😂
It’s so imperative to break that generational curse
My mom was the same way minus drugs and alcohol. No affection. My mom chose money over us. My father was physical and emotionally abusive.
Same dynamic in my parents too
I've been suicidal not sure but i still might be but i try really hard to maintain my strong faith in better days
There's always light at the end of the tunnel ❤🥺🫂
@@Catiababy-tb5nq wishing you peace and love. You are strong for typing this ! Better days will come
Please talk to someone, friends, family, someone you're comfortable with. Talking it out can make you feel better. Also, please do seek professional help!! No shame in needing a therapist :)
I don't know you. Bit I can tell you that I was a broken child. I grew up fighting at school and people picking on me which transpired into a life of drugs and alcohol and a history of attracting
toxic relationships.
I Smoked some weed when i was on holiday and watched a video and ended up being afflicted by Satan.
I begged the lord for his help because I was suicidal too those demons were too powerful and I never knew my power in the Lord. I went everywhere for deliverance and no once could help me. I found a pastor who's testimony was the same as mine. I was delivered of alcohol, porn, masterbation, weed. Smoking and suicidal thoughts.
It was dark and I felt like I was not going to make it. I will be writing a book about my journey to faith. Today I am clean from everything I was involved in. I graduate in a BSC radiographer degree soon. I got a job and most importantly God got me.
If you just belive in the Lord Jesus he is true to his word he is a deliverer and he will never leave you. This is for someone who is being lied to by the enemy. We say it loud and proud get the behind me satan small s because that's what you are.
God bless you, fast, pray and seek God he will deliver because he's true to his word. 🙏
@@Catiababy-tb5nq i know some people get to a point where talking to others about their problems doesn’t work. The only person who can give you faith to keep going is you. And if you give up now, all the possibilities of how your life could’ve turned out will be gone. Our emotions are temporary but so is time. Don’t cut your time short.
Ma'am you're fortunate your daughter wants to keep you in her life.
Cause if it was me, momma would find my bedroom with an empty wardrobe and empty bed [FOR GOOD]. I've forgiven my mom many times but my life will be brighter once I move out for good.
22 F
The way these parents have to be told to go hug and comfort their kids. Nobody had to tell you to neglect them or abuse them!
Both Ladies are gorgeous. I wish them well.
Omg the daughter is extremely beautiful!!!!❤
The daughter is gorgeous! Beautiful inside out!❤❤❤
Karamo this is why we love you, you are the gift that just keeps giving, thank you for your services sir.
Her daughter is beautiful. I know it doesn't fix anything, I just had to acknowledge how pretty she is.
I look forward to 5 o’clock ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Me and u both
It’s not your fault😭😭😭. You didn’t kill your baby.💖 I know they will figure it out and hopefully counseling will help.
Her asking Karamo if she killed her baby 😢
I like how the mother interacted with her daughter and karamo.
That hug though🥴
Beautiful daughter just seeking her mother’s love😞
They are both extremely beautiful ❤. I pray for healing and mending relationship ❤️🙏🏽.
Karamo for lunch break ❤
That young lady is so adorable, i wish I had a daughter like her, I also adore Kararmo blazer, I love the colour pink xxxxx😊
I wish the best for them that they can overcome the past and have a better future and for the family too after their relationship is fixed❤
Daughter is very soft spoken ❤️
Yesss ! I'm in the middle of getting my hair done and an new video dropped thank Uu karamo ❤
It will take time, but this Mom wants to heal her relationship with her Daughter. The love is there.
I love the Karamo show!❤❤❤
The daughter is beautiful. Hope that the mom and daughter found common ground
I AGREE WITH THE MOTHER 100%. SHE HAS ALREADY APOLOGIZED, OWNED IT, ADMITTED SHE WAS WRONG AND IS NOW CLEAN. THESE ADULT CHILDREN HAVE GOT TO STOP BRINGING UP THE PAST WHEN YOU HAVE A PARENT THAT'S WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU. THESE PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY FEMALES WILL FORGIVE A LOW DOWN DIRTY ROTTEN HUSBAND AND LET HIM OFF THE HOOK REPEATEDLY...BUT THEIR MOTHERS, IT'S ALWAYS AN ISSUE. I'M SO PROUD OF THE MOTHER AND I WISH THEM BOTH WELL.
Evan if the mother said she never told her daughter, she never said to her she never received love. The mother actions speak much louder than the tongue. Love is a VERB not a NOUN. Love is an ACTION. The mother doesn't want to hear it.😢
Karamo outfits are always perfect 🎉🎉🎉🎉love it
Drugs and alcohol is DANGEROUS most families battle so much and I pray that anyone who had to deal with it HEALS 💕
You two are amazing women's God got you both. I know them I went to school with her mothers mother.
Although older, this child needs to be a child and grow up in a better manner. To date, she is lost and confused .She needs guidance into adulthood but freedom to enjoy her youth at this time. She is traumatized
The mom sees herself as the victim. She wants to pretend nothing happened because she really don't think she did nothing wrong. That was an apology on the show given to try to erase the past. They're gonna have to talk about the past to make things right in their future. She looks like she could care less.
that smile is amazing make me feel like she smiling at me
I like that they’re not screaming at each other!
They need counseling ❤
so she adds guilt to the rejection and abuse! you didn’t kill your self so bringing it up was pointless
Yeah like why would she tell her that. Trying to guilt trip her own child.
Karamo, it’s serving Golden Girls-but make it modern and fierce! I’m absolutely living for this! Love the look 💅🏽
Duvallllll Pop heyyyyyyy 💕
Love k outfit this episode 🤩
That’s a extra heavy burden to have your MOM put in your head and on your heart that you killed your baby 😢😢 omg my heart broke for her!!!!
i just love karamo people alwayse go out and come back
Aww you're never too old for affection from your parents. Mom must've been told that when she was younger too.
That just made tear up for her to ask for reinsurance asking did she kill he baby 💔💔
NOOO , I am an addict , I’ve been sober 5yrs and I can tell you right tf now I would never had said no shit like that . Have we made excuses ofc but being mad ain’t no excuse . Be real , you wanted to hurt your child so badly that it WOULD stick with her for the rest of her life like it is right now . I truly don’t believe her apology was genuine what so ever . I hope they can heal from this because she needs her mom but mom gonna have to do better and needs to take accountability .
Boy I ran to the comments about the audience side eyeing the momma before the she hit the corner…ok I was too doing the same thing 😂
definitely believe that they are able to overcome this. I wish them the best
It’s not your fault hun ❤❤❤❤
It's crazy how this dude got away with gaslighting a lady twice and making her opposition feel like they did nothing wrong.
Depending on how far you are in the pregnancy over reaching can cause the umbilical cord to rap around the baby's neck.however.i didn't think she intentionally killed her baby
when she explained her miscarriage, my heart BROKE 💔!!
Praying for you all I love you all.💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Daughter look like she can be sisters with Ashanti the singer just beautiful ❤
COME ON PINK!!! it looks gooodtt on you!!
She’s so pretty ❤
Black mommas tend to use their age and "experience" in life as a reason to lie to they children and make them believe that its the truth "cause im ya momma im always right i wouldnt lie to you" ..... Life as a black woman has been unnecessarily hard in reality and in our minds . Life already hard for us , why make it hard for ya own kids too
3:22 I could not even hold these words, but I’m like Stacy please just come out and have some accountability sometimes that’s all is needed toward healing, genuine accountability, genuine desire for change
In indiction ppl do not make sound advise or show up the way they should. When a person is there, stop having this unrealistic expectation when they are not processing their own trauma and / or addiction.
Honestly what was the point of this video no shade BUT this video did not clear up anything
quite literally, it seems so dry like nothing had been resolved at all
Abortted bbabies ask what did I do to be gone .this young lady did nothing wrong she wanted to be a mommy big difference sorry for your loss it's not your fault you didn't want that.
the mom definitely has some past trauma she never dealt with
I still hug my 39 year old daughter and tell her I love her..
Thank you for this❤
I rarely comment on anything but I think it’s annoying when people put their past “trauma” as an excuse. I’ve been through a lot of trauma and I make sure to show love because I wouldn’t want anyone else to experience what I have. Nobody’s perfect but still it’s okay to try and be the best version of yourself. And I know that everyone can’t overcome trauma but I just want some people to try to be better for themselves and the ones around them!
My mom had 3 girls she let her men beat me everyday 😢she made me clean the house while my other siblings was playing outside 😢she didn't even stop these men every time my mom get sick she starts to apologize 😢I was mentally destroyed that the man I had in my life 23 years he beat me everyday 😢because I thought that was love that I had to jump out a second floor window to get away from the beaten from my kids dad 😢
I pray your safe and happy now girl 🙏
Thank u I am I'm 40 now nobody will ever hurt me with my kids I was so over protected with them ❤
Hope they make it to a better place
Ok outfit Karamo 🔥
How old is the daughter?
Need more grace 🙏🏿 and a little more time ⏲️
Honey....Stacey got NO applause!😮
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finally a video where no women are screaming😌😂😂
Another great show 👏🏽👏🏽 I want a hug from him y'all know he probably smells like shea butter, sunshine, and success 😂😂😂😜
I might need to quit looking at these shows. They caused me to tear up so bad at times. I wish folks were bringing children in the world only to abuse them and take advantage of them including for them to be a parent to the other children that you had instead of being the sibling
That's how I almost died as a baby
I can’t even focus with Karamos chest out like that 😍
It was bad enough that the daughter was trying to process her mom not sticking up for her, then add to it “I was thinking about killing my self.” Not helpful at all.
🙄😢😢Why am I such a crybaby!!??
i feel for the mom omg i’m so sad🥺
I'm sorry, this mom doesn't look honest at all in her apology. I feel for her baby 😞