How To Actually Succeed In Life (The Pygmalion Effect)
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2019
- A little positive reinforcement can go a long way when it comes to success and achieving your goals, but is there scientistic proof that positivity can make you smarter? In today's video we're looking at the Pygmalion Effect and if there is any truth to good vibes giving you higher intellect.
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"Whether you think you can or think you can't either way you're right." ~Henry Ford
Time to leave the school system, my family, and the entire country I guess
Gavactions “When you think you can’t, well guess what we’re here for the money so you can’t.”
leaving at 69 👍🏼
Moral of the story: Stay away from people who have low standards & belittle your ambitions
TheForresterOD leaves my school
Time to leave the flawed American Public Education System!
Time to leave my school, my family, and my life in general then
So 90% of humanity?
It’s hard if it’s someone close who you can’t shake off.
Education system: I'm just gonna pretend I didn't see that
Unfortunately often true... 😔
Infographics Show: "How to succeed in life"
Me: Is that like a personal attack or something?
J. J. Karren I understood that reference
Chill out captain marvel
This is exactly the reason Mr. Rogers always said. Your special just for being you!
Yet...
They downed him because of it. Media says, nobody is special unless they do something that makes them special.
lol
Lol yea
I guess this is Why every time someone tells me "great job" or "you look great," I think they're lying.
They’re*
@@H4SS1 thanks
Evetchen Brown You’re Welcome 😊
Great job
*walks away*😥😏
That was hard to say
@Evetchen Brown EXACTLY!!!!
The way to prevent the opinions of others from shaping you, is to believe in yourself. You, literally, can do the Pygmalion effect on yourself.
Pedantia Psychology channel.
💯💯😤
You are absolutely right. Great channel btw brother!
13 mins ago, 13 likes, IMMGONNAWRECKIT!
@@trendsports3136 well now I know this trick to soooooooooooooooo yea
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Back in high-school I was one of the top-performing students but after getting into medicine when my peers said "EZ" for questions that I found rather difficult, I felt more inferior, hence performed poorly at that question. Whenever my peers would say yea its a pretty hard question or "yea it's a bit challenge" I found that this drove me to perform better in that question as I not longer felt inferior.
Teacher: "The blue eyed students are superior."
Me: *Wait a minute..*
Every variation of that experiment is child abuse.
@@NajwaLaylah 🤡🤡🤡🤡👍👍👍👍
The brown hairs are also superior.....
@@Tearr But my mom died her hair blond, what does that mean?
@@NajwaLaylah you are right
So basically:
"Believe in the me that believes in you."
Pretty much tbh. Also I understood that reference. Gurren Lagann
pretty much. we're all the masters of our own destiny
Giga drill....
Anikiiii
You need great parents who raise you right and self confidence
Your circles matter most
Surround yourself with people who see it for you
It’s not your fault if you were born poor, it is your fault if you die poor. (So no, doesn’t matter who your parents are and how they raised you... ) also confidence is a trainable thing :)
Or build up your confidence
@@ronkozach8507 I wish you were right but sometimes poverty is like cancer. Very little chance to get rid of and it may come back to you
@@ronkozach8507 I am sure parents do have an effect on the child's development and personality to some degree.
I've never had positive influences in my life and it really shows. I hope this can help me in some way.
this video is timely for me...im doing self talk and self encouragement and now im surrounded with positive and encouraging people.. this video is a very big personal realization
This actually motivated me and made me believe in myself more
This video reinforced my belief in my own confidence, which in turn improved my confidence. It really is an upwards cycle.
I like this kinda stuff you get to know yourself more and how to improve yourself
Anyone reading this is the greatest human to ever live!
4reedomJon
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@@MrShanester117 you're so sensitive. I know you can overcome it! I know you can be less triggered!
4reedomJon
Do you breath out of your mouth instead of your nose. I bet you do
@@MrShanester117 oh... baby boy that's precious. Casting insecurity so we dont see you're sensitivity... don't worry, we'll get through this
4reedomJon
You’re a complete tool. You make your little fake virtue post like you’re this wonderful person and then you completely melted down and showed your true colors when you were met with a tiny bit of discord. What an embarrassment.
You got caught out.
wow i love this video. it made me question and realize how many of my beliefs about myself just came from other people's opinion about me. This is crazy. I love how you explained that we can use this effect by ourselves for our improvement. Because truly no such mentor will show up in life. Thank you for this video.
Thank you for getting to the point right away in this video.
Always gaming out at 4:00 for ur vids
One of the very few important videos I've seen in a while.. well put together..
When you work as an animator for Infographics but spelling isn’t one of your *strendths*
Lol, I noticed that and was sure the editor was gonna get comment bombed over that.
I am subscribed to you for a while now but this is the most eye-opener video so far
thank you so so much for this video!
When ever people expect too much of me the task seems impossible and I give up before I really try
Very useful! Thank you for this video!
I wish i could succeed in life.
How to succeed in life: always remember that no matter how much one can achieve, we all going to die. It's not a race cause there's no reward at the finishing line. So live your life how YOU want. Forget success. Success is a made up concept to keep us all on track, to keep us working like robots. Live your life.
elianna Inspiring and sad 😢
Actually humanity needs to stay this way because us humans will reach a point in technology that anything could happen. Dont know if it will happen in my lifetime even though im only 13 years old.
elianna you make a great point. It's nice to be financially stable, but many people put themselves in stressful situations to gain success. If you're pursuing certain goals, just remember to take some time to sit outside in the sunlight and appreciate the little things in life.
@@DWR23 Money doesn't mean happiness
That’s deep man 😓
Great episode I'd love to see more topics like this!
I needed this video. Thanks.
Do a video on Andras Toma, the WWII POW who didn't return home until the year 2000!
Thank you!!
So to summarize, ahem:
*You have to have high high hopes!*
My teacher told me when i was young that i would never achieve anything and that became true
... wow the end point is awesome.
I've always had high expectations and believed in myself. I think it came from books I read and select experiences from educators and moments with a semi-supportive parent.
*who else looked around when the rats made a sounds?*
Lotto Edits Freaked my dog out lol
Brooo I thought there's a bird in my room. literally looked for 10 mins. I feel so dumb rn
I had to rewind the video to make sure the noise is coming from the video.
I was in the library while watching this video and i thought someone was making that sound lol
Yeah I was wearing headphones and kept pausing the video lol
I quit worrying about silly things like success or failure. Just gonna die sooner or later anyway and after that it won't matter so might as well be a failure since that's far easier.
@ConnorMentos How is it attention-seeking? That's just my opinion. And if I was attention-seeking it apparently worked, you replied.
@@fvckyoutubescensorshipandt2718 By commenting you are attention seeking since you want others to see what you have to say and respond to it. Else you wouldn't comment at all and just keep it to yourself.
This is literally what teachers need. LITERALLY.
Send it to your teacher
@@Isai314 lol i don't have the courage to do so😂
Wow this really opened my eyes, now that I think about it my match teacher always told me that I was bad at math and I wold not pass any test if I kept going like this. But on the other hand my music teacher told me I was talented, special (etc....). At the end of the school year I went from a B to a C in math. But in music I went from a C to an A, and after that I’ve continued a music career! (Sorry for bad spelling)
I really appreciate that a video about pygmalion effect was done by this channel
Edit: typo
Kicked around since day one, I guess I’m my own mentor now
Sometimes a positive Pygmalion Effect can be a distraction or harmful. The studies only look at the short term outcome and not other life areas. Someone or a business could be encouraging you to do something which you feel isn't right for you. Yes your performance will increase but you would have ended up doing things you didn't really want to do. Plus there possible long term mental exhaustion from higher expectations those students that did better may suffer in other areas such as higher levels of stress. This is like in South Korea the students are expected to do well and yes that do well but their are big social implications of this.
Me: wow that would be cool
Also Me: *gets yelled by my parents for scooping rice the wrong way at a certain angle*
Me: Walks
People: THATS NOT HOW YOU WALK
You’re supposed to move your left leg 1 degree forward and swing your right arm a different way
Same I can relate with the whole rice thing it's pretty annoying
Same with me for scooping rice the wrong way, I get scolded, as if the I've committed a crime by such petty thing.
That’s awesome.
this is what we need
Sees the title
Me : clicks immediately also amazing video bro
Interesting, please make a video on self-efficacy beliefs according to Bandura's theory.
you know that every minute, 60 seconds go by in Africa?
Wow.
Well I am african and can confirm it takes 69 though in Malawi
due to time dilation that is not so.
Really ???
@@ethanthom4977 wow we have proof
6:35
Focus on *strendths*
sic: It's spelled *strengths*
[I know, even native speakers make mistakes sometimes, because their minds are "overflowed" when forgotten many words to remember.]
Interesting concept. :o
Thanks for uploading at 3 am
Summary: focus on your strengths... You can and you will be a champion!
Opened my eyes. :-)
If you want to succeed in life you have to wear blue jeans, sneakers, a black turtleneck and round glasses every day
don't be Steve Jobs:
*be* Steve Jobs
In grade 4 I was labelled a problem child designated for special education (was sent for several tests but every time passed so they couldn't motivate the move), I was sent to the principals office more times that I remember and humiliated on a daily basis in front of my peers by a teacher, and became a shy and recluse child, I spent a lot of school recesses by myself. In grade 5 I excelled at all my subject especially science and computers and started making friends again. The difference: a teacher.
i feel this had alot of impact in my life
I'm like the opposite. The higher the expectation on me the more I fail. The lower I expect on myself the better I do.
2 weeks ago I was supposed to perform something. I already performed the thing that they wanted me to do before although it was kinda different this time. I got stage fright so I wasn't able to perform 😂. I couldn't speak even though I know in my mind what I was gonna say. The hype-ness of my professor pressured me so much.
you got pressured I think pygmalion effect takes in if you consider that expectation positively
ah yes, just what i needed.
*JUST DO ITTT*
That’s a tall order for someone who laughs at the fact of encouraging myself..
What he I talking about 6:54 I sort of went through earlier this year before I graduated, my teacher told me to focus on my weaknesses, so I did and then my strongest subjects began to fail and once I realised what happened, I was 10 weeks away from graduating and all my grades suffered, it really hurt😔
4:42 green eyed people:gets yeeted into a limbo of pure darkness and void*
No, they will get suspended from school. The management would be like:
"This is a racist school. Since you don't have any race according to eye color, you are gonna get YEETED out the school" and just yeets them out.
i believe i'll become the perfect french fries :D
I will tell your step to your success:
Step 1:Go to France
Step 2:Get chopped by anything sharp.
Step 3:Hold on...I forgot how to make the perfect French fries....MOOOM?How do you make the perfect french fries?
6:35 Focus on *_strendths_*
Me: *haha, I can’t do anything right*
Video: Try the Pygmalion effect on yourself
Me: Okay then, *I can do one thing right*
Actually I'm here referred by the " Seven Habits" thanks alot
Info this is important talk about the 2020 RUclips laws. Do it please. If not for me for your viewers!
Is this the method drills use during basic training?
Who else is depressed and came here?
Had two friends , both had the same disability, both had the same aspiring goals in film making
Tyson = No care attitude
Vinny = Low self esteem
i remeber tyson tried to help vinny as much as possible, but tyson had to overcome and rise to the challenge , his self doubt got the better of him. Tyson is now a successful indie film maker / videographer.
vinny works at my local woolworth through an agency.
POSITIVITY AND PERSERVERANC EIS THE KEY
Mehn this is awesome
I make a lot of mistakes so this might help me
They should really show this video to some parents and especially the education system.
Yeah i had people expect great things from me my whole life; however i just got crushed under those heavy expectations and the anxiety that brings. I can pretty much say that this is not a universal thing that works on everyone. Some people like me just gets crushed by the heavy weight of the expectations and achieve less than they could otherwise.
That's an interesting difference to note. I wonder though, if you are like some people who respond that way and then realize that it is not the expectations that are doing that, but something about them that seems to be indirect or overlooked? I imagine positive expectations can't be bad for you, so have you looked at what you are associating them with? Some things I have noticed in myself were fear of disappointments, failure or anything that could affect a feeling of fragility or vulnerability, so it was about imagined outcomes. When I discovered that, it put a whole new light on what people expected of me. I could actually see how positive it was and that they saw me as capable. Now, expectations may be a bit daunting if their are overblown, but they don't affect me in the same way. I feel motivated and more capable.
@@ernestweber5207 Fear of disappointment and failure are definately things i struggle with but from my pov expextations did give me confidence and belief of ableness, but then if something doesnt work out its because i messed up somehow i put responsibility solely on myself and when minor setbacks are inevitable in life belief in capability becomes damageing for me. Not saying the thing in the video is wrong but maybe it has exceptions.
@@TheDoctor364 I commend you for having that depth of insight into yourself. I think that there are always exceptions in most cases. If you can accept your understanding of your proclivities, then that's beneficial and you can adapt from there.
I can empathize with putting the responsibility on yourself. I think that and the reaction is more common than not and may be conditioned early on, which can be transcend. I have found that reframing the word "responsibility" to its original meaning helps, i.e., the ability to respond rather than a heavy, moralized burden or duty like a parental finger pointing at us all the time with a stern expression.
Also, I question the idea of control and what it actually is. How much control do I have and what are the variables in the subject/object relationship. Since it is a two-sided coin and the variables are countless, I am able to go easy on myself and just play my part with more ease and confidence. A balance of the outer factors in harmony with my subjective experience goes a long way.
Be well, and thanks for your reply.
That's funny, I do this to my friends or basically everyone I know. But I can't peptalk myself or anything -I'm way too far gone at this point.
0:48 We gonna forget the "L" *ike* that?
What about people who are mean to others because they are using reverse psychology to motivate them or what some people call tough love ? How does that fit with the Pygmalion effect ?
The Pygmalion effect 3:31
Proves law of attraction to be true.
Because our beliefs attract our actions towards others.
Attracting others to believe and act like our beliefs are true.3:31
I was having so much low scores in my office performance when my TL told me how you can get more scores then i start implementing the way he told then i strat gaining like 90% scores out of 100 just like pilgram effect
Hey can you please do a video on Meiwes? The bizzare crime where a man volunteered to be eaten by another person? It was a super crazy story
so whats the difference between the Pygmalion effect and also Self-fulfilling Prophecy, are they the same thing?
You hold all you need to have a successful life!
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The Pygmalion effect works... Unless the person you’re using it on, has imposter syndrome. I would imagine too much praise, or inconsistent positive/negative reinforcement is what causes imposter syndrome in the first place.
Personally I’m the opposite people doubting me motivates me because I want to prove them wrong don’t know if I’m just odd but just saying 🤷♂️
Well, congrats.Cause you have the 1st trait of Naruto.
@@retrobit5973 lol
Early again
Me:I got $3,000
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Sooo, are these "effects" thinking errors? What is meant by "effect", as used here, in the psychological sense? Thanks.
I know how to succeed life
Don’t die
No, I have a Golem affect that still continues on.
You got this. You're the greatest version of yourself!
PLEASE talk about the RUclips 2020 law this is very important tell the viewers. Do it PLEASE.
A better question is can it work on yourself???
Also hearing experiments were done on students in public school im starting to wonder some of the questionable things back when i was a teenager that happened during school was an experiment
Soooooo positive reinforcement
All my teachers said i couldnt make school and i've low self-esteem. Now i am at college, am i breaking this effect?
Teachers are so responsible. Interesting.
I am one of the 1.4k viewer
Dab on them haters so they won’t make you fail.
Believe in the me that believes in you!!!!
I literally just had a lecture about this the other day? I'm kinda creeped out...
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