I'll Never Get Her Back

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
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    In this video I’m going to talk about when you believe you’ll never get the woman that you love back.
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Комментарии • 191

  • @casanovask5341
    @casanovask5341 5 лет назад +96

    The people that do Skype calls multiple times a week... please get me a job where you work

  • @ethandaigle258
    @ethandaigle258 4 года назад +33

    My ex texted me half way through this video with an indirect direct approach. I thought my situation was hopeless to ever even hear from her again. Hold steady and have faith, lady's and gents.

    • @pascal6158
      @pascal6158 4 года назад +2

      Update?

    • @ethandaigle258
      @ethandaigle258 4 года назад +21

      @@pascal6158 We got back together about a two weeks after my original comment. We're a lot more serious about our relationship and stronger. Sometimes breakups can make a relationship stronger. All that Craig says is true, dont doubt it. Stay strong 💪

    • @pascal6158
      @pascal6158 4 года назад +8

      Ethan Daigle I am really happy for you fam, don't fuck it up. My Ex has a new guy after 2 months...(3 years rs) I'm feeling like a piece of shit :D

    • @celestenova338
      @celestenova338 2 года назад

      My ex recently did an indirect direct contact, haven’t heard from him since 💔

    • @ponokunishima1
      @ponokunishima1 2 года назад

      Good for you!

  • @NewKwanTung07
    @NewKwanTung07 5 лет назад +28

    "She will want me back... in time." If it's inevitable, I guess I'll learn to be patient.

    • @PricelessBinkey1337
      @PricelessBinkey1337 4 года назад +7

      In time, but i aint gunna wait till shes all old and used up and desperate more for what i have to offer rather than wanting to genuinely be with me

    • @PricelessBinkey1337
      @PricelessBinkey1337 4 года назад

      That?

  • @barryellis5029
    @barryellis5029 6 лет назад +11

    Thank You so much for putting the material online for free. It has helped me so much over the last 3 months.

  • @eastlake93
    @eastlake93 7 лет назад +59

    I love this guy. Craig is giving me the hope she's going to call back.

    • @galenbjorn443
      @galenbjorn443 6 лет назад +26

      Let the past die. Kill it if you have to. That’s the only way to become what you were meant to be.
      - Kylo Ren

    • @joeys3x
      @joeys3x 6 лет назад +4

      Did she call back?

    • @MrCandyKingGames
      @MrCandyKingGames 6 лет назад

      Ye did she?

    • @OriginalMarjon
      @OriginalMarjon 6 лет назад +1

      so...1 year later...did she call back?

    • @taylorisonlinereal
      @taylorisonlinereal 5 лет назад +3

      @@OriginalMarjon OP NEVER DELIVERS

  • @dfarrington9221
    @dfarrington9221 7 лет назад +24

    I am so thankful I found you coach Craig.

    • @ponokunishima1
      @ponokunishima1 2 года назад

      Too bad only now, going through my breakup that happened 6 weeks ago, I’ve found him, (this channel). I wish I could have found this channel sooner, like a few months ago when things were getting a little bad.

  • @shorfan
    @shorfan 8 лет назад +23

    I could see it was still hard for you thinking about that breakup and that kid

    • @None_of_your_business666
      @None_of_your_business666 4 года назад +1

      @@joeblow7740 my ex abandoned me with my new born daughter just three months after she was born. But prior to that we had spent two years trying to get my son from a previous marriage used to her. When she left she broke my heart, confused my son and deprived my daughter of her father all on very selfish reasons that i have had to forgive out of love for my daughter.
      But some people are just better off and far away.

  • @sepehr_moghani
    @sepehr_moghani 4 года назад +13

    Literally everyone of my friends told me to keep contact with my ex. If I don’t she’ll think I don’t like her anymore and she’ll move on. But because the majority of people including my ex think this way, I believe no contact is effective. My ex hasn’t reached out in 2 months but I believe no contact is better than keep contacting her because I know that won’t work based on past experiences.

  • @joshcourtois9556
    @joshcourtois9556 5 лет назад +5

    Some people you really never get her back. Sometimes you never see it hear from them again.

  • @jesseboggis2449
    @jesseboggis2449 7 лет назад +14

    I've seen my ex quoting lonely quotes on social media and it was such a horrible thing to see, no matter what happened between us id never want anyone to be lonely. There's too many people in the world for someone to feel lonely

    • @tr9809
      @tr9809 4 года назад +12

      Shouldn't have dumped you then

  • @Summer_chestnut
    @Summer_chestnut Год назад

    Coach Craig I have no idea how I would have survived this without you, your videos are literally my lifeline throughout this insanely painful process ❤

  • @PhantomUAV
    @PhantomUAV 4 года назад +1

    Clearly a genuinely nice guy. Thanks Craig for your advice.

  • @dafearfactor639
    @dafearfactor639 7 лет назад +2

    Samething happened to me. I got attached to her little girl who saw me as a father figure, next thing I saw I was dealing with two breakups instead of one.

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 4 года назад +1

    It really is easy to fall into the trap of believing friends and family. But no one knows your ex like you do. Trust that gut instinct and trust coach Craig, and Margaret.

  • @agb7676
    @agb7676 4 года назад +1

    With Valentines coming up...sadness is creeping in. Your videos are whats keeoing me from caving in....just have to get through this day and i should be ok😭😭

  • @maurobriceno7522
    @maurobriceno7522 6 лет назад +2

    Craig, I had the same situation in my last relationship. My ex had a kid, same situation as you, when she left I lost not one but TWO girls. This was the relationship that made me seek your videos. I got her back a couple of times after watching your videos but I think I’m not getting her back again. I also thought I was going to marry her and loosing her and her daughter hurt a lot. This little girl saw me as her father figure. It is still hard for me to talk about her. I miss them both!

    • @Wargwarn
      @Wargwarn 3 года назад +1

      Going though exactly the same thing now. How did it turn out.

    • @maurobriceno7522
      @maurobriceno7522 3 года назад +3

      @@Wargwarn 2 years later, we are now married and living together. We are also looking for a baby. We started our relationship from “zero”. We both made a commitment, and things are much better than they were before. However, it was a lot of hard work, I followed a lot of Coach Craig’s advise, read books, and I had to put down the work. Avoiding things that used to make both side upset and find common grounds, I think that was the key. But there is light at the end of the tunnel.

    • @Wargwarn
      @Wargwarn 3 года назад +1

      @@maurobriceno7522 congratulations. She's blocked me on everything and went straight into a new relationship with someone else so I think that's it for us to be honest. It's killing me though, only happened a month ago. Not seeing her boy is awful. I've been in his life since he was 1, hes now 7. She doesn't seem to grasp the fact I think of him as my own..

  • @royalchiou
    @royalchiou 7 лет назад +2

    I've been watching a lot of videos from the other youtubers, but so far you are the best, and your examples relate to my situation so spot on. My gf and I are having a problem, but your videos keep me positive when I begin losing hope. Thank u!!!!

  • @lelac4819
    @lelac4819 7 лет назад +4

    omg this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you Craig!

  • @uehdiot8766
    @uehdiot8766 5 лет назад +1

    Wow, great info for all of us. This helps quite a bit. Thanks for all the tips you provide in your videos. I know I appreciate it as well as all the other folks on here going through the same thing.

  • @johncazzola6933
    @johncazzola6933 7 лет назад +3

    my live in girlfriend of 2 1/2 years is in georgia with her family at the moment. we argued last friday through text. my insecurities made me lash out. she blocked me on facbook and blocked my phone number. there was no break up mentioned at all but it has been 7 days and she hasnt unblocked my phone number and hasnt called. im literally a critical mess. i want to keep the faith that she does love me and does miss me and she will come home like she was going to. its just hard. very hard. every minute seems like forever. i have never felt like this in my life.

  • @victoriamarchenko1473
    @victoriamarchenko1473 6 лет назад +5

    Dear Craig! I love a guy. Is this particular video applicable for women, too, who were dumped by men? Do a man’s feelings change like the clouds that move across the sky, too? And do their interest level rise and fall like the sea as well? Will a man want a woman back in time the same way?

  • @KerlyQ79
    @KerlyQ79 5 лет назад +12

    "You do it at Burger King, like a man!" I cracked up laughing! You are a good dude Craig. Cheers!

  • @kirkv2262
    @kirkv2262 7 лет назад +1

    Would I want her back? She told me at the end of the day she wanted somebody who could financially support her. She told me she never want to get married again but I'm sure that'll change if the guy is Rich. Pretty harsh

  • @imSoHLucky
    @imSoHLucky 6 лет назад +3

    She’s haunting my dreams..

  • @DC-if9sv
    @DC-if9sv 6 лет назад +2

    Hi Craig, I love your videos! I was wondering do these techniques apply to someone you’ve dated only a few times but are still heartbroken over? And you said that women’s feeling rise and fall but do men’s feeling do the same or do they have a completely different way of dealing? Thank you for all you’re doing!

  • @LordAnestis
    @LordAnestis 6 лет назад +3

    Make a video about how to forgive your ex gf who broke your heart in the worst way.

  • @smashinization
    @smashinization 4 года назад +7

    Bro your advice is amazing but do you at least have a college student discount cuz it's kinda hard when some advice is more than half my rent 😅

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes 7 дней назад +1

    God I hope you’re right…

  • @reecewatson2
    @reecewatson2 2 года назад

    My ex texted me after 3 years with an indirect direct approach, it was not until I disappeared, so to speak, for a while that this happened. I was not interested anymore, as she had become good ‘friends’ with someone I knew, a few months after the breakup, and that’s a boundary I cannot let someone cross, so I politely ended the short discussion.

  • @alc6284
    @alc6284 4 года назад

    I relate so much to you Craig it’s unreal. My ex had a daughter as well whom I was very attached to. I thought one day I would be her step mom and I wanted nothing more then that. ❤️I think of her everyday and it’s been almost 7 mos since the breakup. She still sends me cards in the mail but I am in strict no contact with ex. It’s so heart wrenching.

  • @crking36
    @crking36 3 года назад +2

    I didnt just loose my ex, I lost his two kids as well,and I had a really close bond with the youngest. Really, really painful....

    • @Eggo5150
      @Eggo5150 3 года назад

      Same. Known my ex for almost 20 years but we never dated until last year. We waited until we were sure about things to get the kids involved. She has three and I have one. My daughter fell for her hard. It crushed her when she left. Her daughter took it the hardest too on that side. She has no relationship with her father and fell for me. She gave me a bracelet she had made, the last time I saw her. I haven't taken it off since. It's been 4 months. Losing the kids and knowing they lost someone they love too makes it gut wrenching.

  • @tr9809
    @tr9809 4 года назад +2

    I got one ex back after a year and a half. Mainly by learning to leave them alone and I sent them a short postcard once. About six months later she phone me up and we were together again. We broke up for reasons neither of us could remember.
    But I think this is giving me a bit of false hope. The second ex cheated on me and it is much more painful and it feels less hopeful.

    • @tysonmoffat9230
      @tysonmoffat9230 3 года назад +1

      Never take someone who cheated back man.

  • @christianvelazquez5452
    @christianvelazquez5452 8 лет назад +1

    Coach Craig is on point again

  • @bradleyewers6849
    @bradleyewers6849 5 лет назад +8

    Do avoidants give their ex a second chance? I Have been watching your videos for the last week along with others and it seems hopeless with Dismissive Avoidants?

  • @rogue_lemon5894
    @rogue_lemon5894 Год назад

    Im in that boat rn. I miss that little boy so much.🥺😔

  • @jannielsantiago1940
    @jannielsantiago1940 8 лет назад +4

    Great video as always

  • @fun2drive107
    @fun2drive107 7 лет назад

    Craig I appreciate your vids. I am a very mature man and I am working on getting my ex back. Our issue is that I am married but have been living away from my wife for 17 years)I mean states apart as in 800 miles). I have had the divorce ongoing since March of 15. Current wife is dragging things out and my ex who I love and adore had enough and said not enough progress I am ending the relationship. I am all of about 5-6 weeks being done with the divorce since my wife can't delay any longer. I am a good man, I am probably the best man my ex will ever get at our age. I am financially secure, don't drink or smoke, have no bad habits, exercise often, women find me attractive, and I am true to my ex. I tried the no contact when she sent me the relationship over email and one week later a txt asking if I was OK. I only answered the txt saying yes (which of course was a lie). I broke down last night and sent her an email that laid it all out and was not begging but did relate to all the good things in our life together (1 year 6 months). That email was 3 weeks plus since she sent me the its over email. Today I sent her a short txt which simply said "I miss you and love you" nothing else. I fear I may have screwed up and waited too long. I think the more I reflect on the relation ending email that the txt a week later asking if I was OK was her reaching out to me and I may have missed my chance to say heck no I am not alright but instead said I am doing just fine. I love your vids as they give me encouragement that I might not have screwed this up after all but my guess is that it will take her some time to come back. I know she is on a dating site so that doesn't cheer me up. Pretty sure I will be contacting your advice in the near future. Thank you.

  • @joemarcastillo5712
    @joemarcastillo5712 7 лет назад +9

    amazing video , amazing person.

  • @MidnightMystify
    @MidnightMystify 7 лет назад +8

    Also, for this video, how do a man's feelings change?

    • @None_of_your_business666
      @None_of_your_business666 4 года назад

      A man is ghe flag post, buried in the ground so nothing can move it. The woman is the flag dancing in the wind. This is from the way of the superior man i believe. Grrat read.

  • @SchwaggSam
    @SchwaggSam 7 лет назад +1

    Hey Craig your videos are really helpful and insightful I can't count how many times I have watched your videos when I'm down. I don't know I just have a question that needs an honest unbiased answer to , me and my ex wife are great friends we have a son together but she says she lost the chemistry and it's hard for her to get it back, is it over is it fair for me to want to save this relationship for the sake of our son and our beautiful family.

  • @MrToth8
    @MrToth8 5 лет назад +1

    Craig
    would love to see an article on what goes through someones brain after a breakup given that they are an Anxious Attachment type. My Ex of 4.5 years decided to get into a new relationship 1 month after we broke up. I initiated it, and after a couple weeks realized that she is truly what I want in the world and the love of my life. She pretty much said she wasn't interested in getting back together at this time, but that she cant predict the future. However, she was "getting attention from someone else'' as well as giving hers to him. They dated before, for about a year, 5 years ago before she had ended it. We ended it March 16, they started dating 1 month later, only 10 days after I told her how much I loved her and wanted to marry her, even told her my marriage plans. She was very receptive and friendly and we were laughing on the phone, only to turn around and be cold in texts and exaggerated our relationship and "how bad i treated her" throughout it and how she wouldn't have been able to go on much longer like that and how our relationship was all of a sudden "toxic beyond belief". The issues stemmed mainly from the parental guidance that was not there as a kid, and it crept into our relationship. My Question is, how likely is it going to be for her to realize this on her own and that our relationship was not as bad as she thinks and that I was just trying to be there for her, albeit not as much as she needed it apparently. Remember, I initiated the breakup. Thanks

    • @lennyfriedl2702
      @lennyfriedl2702 5 лет назад +1

      I mean you initiated the breakup.
      So you also have to take a step back and give her time.
      A breakup is something everyone has to heal from, even though you might back together. It seems like she is in a kind of confused and angry state, so just let her be.
      Also, although they have been dating, this more or less looks like a rebound, so give it time.
      If her and her ex broke up for some reason and maybe both changed now for the better, of course they will reattract each other. But you want to focus on yourself for now and give her the time to heal and then to see your relationship from a rational view.
      Maybe tell her that you are sorry, that you have made a mistake and want to turn it around. And if she changes her mind, she can call you. But respect her healing process

  • @johnbeddard7673
    @johnbeddard7673 7 лет назад +3

    my defacto gf moved into rental just over week ago with our 2 kids aged 19 and 13 i am shattered dont no what to do to get her back we were together for 29 years. Missing them terribly and its only been 8 days. What to do i am desperate.

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 лет назад +1

      John Beddard what ended up happening??

  • @anthonyamore6290
    @anthonyamore6290 4 года назад +1

    The fact that she was turned off at the fact that you cried when she mentioned her daughter tells me this chick was heartless.

  • @krisolson1185
    @krisolson1185 7 лет назад

    Great stuff man! Very wise information 👌

  • @anna5599
    @anna5599 3 года назад +2

    Hi Craig, I love your videos and have been watching them religiously for two years and am trying to follow your advice during my last breakup. My only concern is when you often mention your “crucial mistake” at Applebee’s in your videos and you put the blame on yourself for not maintaining emotional self control. I feel it was natural and normal for you to show emotion in that moment, especially regarding missing her child, and it only backfired because your ex was avoidant or uninterested to continue the relationship in the first place. Most likely if you would have been able to stay calm and get her back her avoidant behavior combined with your anxiety would have caused the same problems and led to another breakup. There should be a distinction between showing enormous anxiety and lack of self control and neediness when talking to an ex and simply being human and showing normal emotions and feelings. Just because avoidants can’t always handle those basic human emotions it doesn’t mean you should suppress them or act different than who you really are (within the rational limits). It wouldn’t help you or the other person to “fake” it and act all cool and insensitive when that’s not how you really feel. There’s nothing wrong with being sensitive and caring.

  • @vanashleighalavaren2991
    @vanashleighalavaren2991 6 лет назад

    My ex and I broke up last Christmas. Saying she fell out of love. We've been together for 3 years and 4 months. I've done everything bad. Pleading, saying things, stalking. You name it. But I made it subtle. I started to work on myself. Then last night my friends betrayed me. They told my ex that I became depressing and stuck in self pity. They told her that I stalk her on her social media accounts, which is not true because she already blocked me in all of them. And now, She hates me. Saying that I should move on. And stop checking up on her. And keeps saying that I'm doing borderline harassment. I followed the no contact rule and all. I did not contact her since January 13. Do I still have a chance in getting her back?

  • @nathanlacy6466
    @nathanlacy6466 5 лет назад +1

    Ah coach... stop right there. Unfortunately I was unable to bond with my step-kid. Even after 10 years.. that is why we split in the end. 10 years down the drain because I could not come to terms. Oh well. Wish Someone could touch upon this subject. I know Its my fault for not handling things the way they should have been.

  • @michaelstein3282
    @michaelstein3282 7 лет назад

    i spent a month trying so hard to get her back and even visited her for a few days when she didnt want me to. When she ended it for good i begged and cried so much that she blocked me on snapchat and imessage. I finally accepted it and just asked to know what went wrong. Ive done a month NC, but am wondering was my month of mistakes and the big mistakes directly after the final break up too much for her feelings to change eventually. Im fixing my problems and working hard on myself during NC. We are 200 miles away also so i know i have a tough road ahead. We both graduated college last may but i know this girl is the one and really special so im willing to do what it takes.

    • @sparta1571
      @sparta1571 5 лет назад

      Update?

    • @naadde
      @naadde 2 года назад

      Did she ever contact you bro?

  • @howarddempsey3398
    @howarddempsey3398 3 года назад

    Appreciate the pain of Craig’s breakup, but I have my stepson living with me.

  • @dacracking5768
    @dacracking5768 4 года назад +1

    Got so bad, started looking at tarot card reading videos.... still do...

  • @summerscents8284
    @summerscents8284 4 года назад +2

    It's been 3 months and I am still hurting.

  • @aaronroibeard
    @aaronroibeard 6 лет назад +2

    I really needed this...... Thank you

  • @ThePatricialing
    @ThePatricialing 6 лет назад +1

    I broke up with my ex and after 6 months we send messages to each other, the talk by phone and finally, we had a lunch. I perceived that he still feels attraction on me by the content of those messages but then he pulls away. I am lost on this. I don't understand. any thoughts?

  • @samhines5084
    @samhines5084 6 лет назад +7

    I only watch you and Corey Wayne

  • @markis2012
    @markis2012 5 лет назад

    Broke up January 1st 2018. She is dating another guy for last 6-7 months. She refuses to stop talking to me hasn’t stopped since we broke up. Longest time of no contact was 1.5 weeks. She texted and called me to tell me she loved me and missed me. That was a month ago. Still in contact she told me her and the new guy are thinking about taking a break. She is afraid I will hurt her again because I broke up with her in the original breakup. The new guy Doesn’t seem to have a plan in life when it comes to career or life in general and that is the reason she is afraid to fully commit to him. Her words not mine. Don’t think we will get back together but only time will tell. I enjoy your videos and hope things can work out. Letting her contact me first.

    • @sparta1571
      @sparta1571 5 лет назад

      Update

    • @naadde
      @naadde 2 года назад

      Did she contact you? Update please

  • @robertbarton4956
    @robertbarton4956 6 лет назад +2

    What about a 5yr relationship and the last 2yrs it was getting toxic due to one having anxiety and it being the others first relationship ? But you eventually ended up dumped because in your anxiety and fear you kissed someone else and that's when they said we are over and to you and other people iam never getting back together with you

  • @scarystuffscarystuffscarys3780
    @scarystuffscarystuffscarys3780 8 лет назад +1

    Is a month talking with her and arguing with her about the break up enough to push her away for good?

  • @Mannyslayer0104
    @Mannyslayer0104 8 лет назад +6

    maybe BK cause at least i can have it my way

  • @starrynight9999
    @starrynight9999 3 года назад

    Hahaha 😂 “you do it at Burger King, like a man.” So funny, laughed so loud. Hilarious.

  • @steveurquhart9276
    @steveurquhart9276 7 лет назад

    I love your work coach and I have been watching your videos for a few months now. I have a general question though. Does your work apply mainly in western cultures? What if you are a westerner in a relationship with a woman from an Asian culture? A lot of her culture seems to run counter to what you are teaching. But it might be that you are targeting primarily a western audience. Thanks for your great work.

  • @jaydentristan7708
    @jaydentristan7708 8 лет назад +1

    Love this channel

  • @sparta1571
    @sparta1571 5 лет назад

    Coach Craig. Is their anyway possible to get restablished with your ex under a year!? 6+ months? I felt a genuine attachment between us both and we both loved each other very much. Alot of memories were connected and it was genuinely mutual between us. You keep saying a year that most cases they come back to wanting to try again. But what about under a year? Half a year +

  • @shylahutchins9934
    @shylahutchins9934 7 лет назад +4

    This speaks alot about women's 'fickle' & 'fleeting' emotions. How about if it's a MAN (the woman is the one who was DUMPED). My anxiety is based on the knowledge that men are more 'concrete' (black & white). Yes, they have an emotional side. But much literature speaks to a man's ability to more easily & readily 'detach' & that when a man decides to DUMP someone because he doesn't see a future in it, even if he cares about her deeply...there's not alot of 'wiggle' room. It's fairly certain it's a DONE deal. I am facing this. He knows I still harbour feelings, & the attachment is waning but I'm still 'lingering' over the idea of him. He has deep endearment toward me (it's mutual) but doesn't want me to hold on. There is some indication he may be back-consistently says he'll not make plans & is still emphasizing his MISTAKE that it got too close, too personal..too intimate. He is going to try his hand at our FIRST platonic 'visit' since he KILLED the 'benefits' part; there will be no gratification of my 'needs' in favour of just 'hanging out' & visiting.

  • @theblackmentalhealthshow8506
    @theblackmentalhealthshow8506 4 года назад

    I love this video. I’ve been going through it and my ex kept reaching out saying hope all is well. One month after the break up she asked again and I asked her out... my ol dum self lol also asked if we could do counseling together and that’s when she said it’s not about that and she doesn’t think she is ready for a relationship ... Coach is it too late ?

  • @mgaleoutdoors
    @mgaleoutdoors 4 года назад

    Omg , man you made me cry when you spoke about the child ... you can see pure love ... so I’m off to Burger King 👑

  • @sanlaw584
    @sanlaw584 6 лет назад

    Married for 20yrs, my other has been gone seven months, he's around occasionally because we have kids but no sign of changing his mind. Can it still change after months?

  • @tonitoni3134
    @tonitoni3134 8 лет назад +1

    ya she says I didn't change but she didn't change other so I block her in everything and done I'm moving on and getting easy every day for me I was dumped so

  • @andrewh2582
    @andrewh2582 8 лет назад

    My ex wife last year told me to leave and take my things out, I tried for a long time begging her and asking her to give me a chance, A lot of my issue i did was talking to her friends,and sending her text message constanly hoping to win her back, i did the best step and walking away, i did it for a couple months and she always reached out and told me that i was a loser and thought that i should get help,
    I went and seen a marriage counseller for a while and helped, she has contacted me from time and time again, but never wanted to talk, and recently had divorce paper send to me, did all the work and going thru it, to finding out it got cancelled,
    I do want to work the marriage out but i dont want to look weak, how to get her to chase me and want me back for good

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  8 лет назад

      It sounds like she may still be on the fence. I'm not sure what you have going on personally but I would highly consider counseling (especially since she suggested it). Wait until she contacts you and then ask her to hang out.
      If you want more personal and in depth help just sign up for coaching on Askcraig.net

    • @andrewh2582
      @andrewh2582 8 лет назад

      I have been to counselling last year

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  8 лет назад

      Awesome! Well if you're serious about working it out, you really want to show her you have changed (not just say it). My videos will really help you gain some insight too buddy

    • @andrewh2582
      @andrewh2582 8 лет назад

      Yeah I can see walking away and not begging her can show you moved on but a couple of my friends are friend with hers and they listen to only her

  • @michaellindmeier2903
    @michaellindmeier2903 6 лет назад

    I need your help and Guidance please and thank you... In a relationship for 4 years living with the girl in Florida... She had 2 boys and a little girl I got attached to all of them but me in the little girl became best friends I call her my BFF... It's been 39 days I've been watching your videos it gives me hope, I'm in doing the no contact no communication to her I'm not heard anything yet... I became a lab dog I cooked I cleaned I wash clothes I did the bathroom I did whatever small things I could do to a comedy her and make her feel relax when she got home... I had abandonment issues since I was 14 my mom left me I never had a dad... I guess I became too needy and wanting too much attention from her... But I thought that's what she wanted to I'm 46 she is 40... I'm lost... I miss her lover tremendously and missing my family I'm missing my little daughter and my 2 boys... Please help me please guide me... I can't get her out of my head I've been going to the gym I've been working out of him playing basketball I've been working a lot... And she still is on my mind... Please God please Holy Spirit please her my thoughts and prayers...

  • @barbarakelly3189
    @barbarakelly3189 6 лет назад +1

    Okay Craig.Does a MANS feelings change like the clouds in the sky? Women watch your videos as well as men.we also want our man back..Can you make it more girlfriend boyfriend back? Instead of "getting your girl back?" Thanks Craig..Hey ,thank you for sharing such personal moments about yourself.It's very touching and helpful to our lives and I realize that's why your share..thanks again.

  • @thtboirich_
    @thtboirich_ 7 лет назад +1

    Nice great video I really love your advice

  • @jns0399
    @jns0399 7 лет назад +10

    Does this apply to getting a man back as well? It's been 8 months since my break up (I broke up with him and regret it). I feel in my gut he will be back but don't know if men's moods change like women's or not?

    • @youngmike5571
      @youngmike5571 7 лет назад +2

      Jacquelyne Wauro don't worry man always come back 100% sure

    • @jns0399
      @jns0399 7 лет назад +1

      I hope so. He cries when he sees me, calls me my pet name and says he loves me but needs to soul search without outside influences as he's still angry with me and resents me. When he's not infront of me he's cold and doesn't reach out. When he's infront of me he's warm. What does it mean when a man acts like this? He didn't even text me a happy birthday in March yet texted my dad a happy birthday the day before mine. I'm confused. We were as close as two people could be.

    • @op2001
      @op2001 7 лет назад +29

      You broke up with him though. Shouldn't you be the one to initiate?

    • @staceyswope3438
      @staceyswope3438 6 лет назад +3

      op2001 Jacquelyne Wauro - Sounds like she tries to reach out but he pulls back. I’d say, yes, she should be the one to reach out after giving time and space. Any update, Jacquelyne?

    • @deweycouto6922
      @deweycouto6922 6 лет назад

      Stacey swoope,,what's your current situation, just curious...back with the ex?

  • @dfarrington9221
    @dfarrington9221 7 лет назад +2

    I am confused, because this information is for both sexes, but what about a mans' feelings, do they change?

    • @MrJimbee
      @MrJimbee 6 лет назад +2

      My behavior changes when my feelings change and my feelings change when her behavior has changed

  • @Deanaz09
    @Deanaz09 7 лет назад

    I was going with my ex about 4 weeks she said I'm not mature enough I've got my own place and job and she felt like she would be mothering me and she said she saw no future me I've been doing the no contact thing I've not herd anything from her I think she been meeting somebody else I ended all contact with her like deleting her of Facebook and Snapchat and Instagram! What should do ?

  • @eddiesantiago7971
    @eddiesantiago7971 8 лет назад +1

    another excellent video

  • @robhutton8450
    @robhutton8450 8 лет назад

    What do you do when she has a rebound relationship? Will that affect her thoughts towards me? Will she still think about me even though she's with this other person? I told her I would not contact her for a month and if she decided to talk to me then great but if not then i told her id be happy for her and i understand. We have been together for just under 2 years and I was the one who initially broke it up and she was absolutely torn. Then i had a realization that i wanted to work things out again but she had already gotten over me and had to "think" about it. I tried to give her the space she wanted but again I invaded that. Now I am for real this time and i am giving her the space and I am working on myself in the mean time. Although, I'm just worried that this rebound relationship will affect her wanting to get back with me

    • @shylahutchins9934
      @shylahutchins9934 7 лет назад +4

      you have caused her to mistrust. Look at your words. You dumped her, then you wanted her back. Then you decided to respect her wishes giving a 'false' indication you supported her moving on. Then you said you AGAIN invaded her personal space. WOAH. That's alot of damages. Consistency is a key...you've been very inconsistent. This is NOT your vehicle to drive now. You have to LEAVE HER ALONE & let her process it or move on; she needs to feel "SAFE" with her decision to COME BACK to you, if she chooses to do that! You have to give her a 'safety zone'. Rebound relationships are just THAT. The person is trying OUT the experience of a new distraction...their attachment style to someone else. But often it's the TRUSTY familiar we yearn for. Craig used an analogy from Toy Story (Buzz Lightyear & Woody. It was the favourite play thing the boy ultimately returned to. Chose to keep with him). But IMHO you have consistently been inconsistent & damaged her ability to RELY on you or trust your word or the sincerity of your emotions. That's HEAVY damage to your standing with her...when you've 'waffled' back & forth so many times. She needs 3x's the time & space to PROCESS IT NOW...it's been like a ping pong match back & forth. Leave her alone...QUIET time & space. Find other preoccupations, don't obsess on her. When she see's you're comfortable & respecting her choices...then it feels more 'safe' (security) to begin speaking to you again, maybe as just a friend at first....you can't FORCE a decision. She has to come to that position of her own will.

  • @jpc08109
    @jpc08109 7 лет назад

    I like his videos I was following coach Corey Wayne until I stumbled upon coach Craig I see him as more sympathetic with guys where Corey pretty much said that women are what they are and deal with it where Craig is saying without saying women can be c***ts and it's not ok

  • @alc6284
    @alc6284 4 года назад +1

    Does mens feelings change that easily as well?

    • @jimmygee3219
      @jimmygee3219 4 года назад +1

      We can be relatively stubborn but if we really care about someone we turn around. I know I turn around fairly quickly personally. Either way keep no contact and keep improving yourself

  • @sharona1ification
    @sharona1ification 4 года назад

    Who’s crying while watching this 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @alexandrulupu725
    @alexandrulupu725 4 года назад

    Can you give us examples of how extreme she was? Would help us make a comparison

  • @nicolebrowne3632
    @nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад +1

    What about men Coach? How do they think ?

  • @marinaaing5467
    @marinaaing5467 3 года назад

    I guess this is same as in women. 4 yrs is not too late to find your channel

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc Год назад

    If you go into burger King to do that. You'll be crying for a different reason apart from your relationship.

  • @Ssengel69
    @Ssengel69 6 лет назад

    Need to hear this

  • @DetroitLionsDynasty
    @DetroitLionsDynasty 2 года назад +1

    False hope :(

  • @juoso4836
    @juoso4836 2 года назад

    I want to get one of his sessions

  • @oldbuckie
    @oldbuckie 7 лет назад

    I love your videos Craig but I Got to disagree that "they always come back". I wasted a year hoping she would change her mind and reach out if I did no contact, only to be disappointed. they don't always come back. I can't get my hopes up anymore. time to move on.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  7 лет назад +11

      At no point do I say that. You are putting words in my mouth.
      I said there are no guarantees and that there is a good chance at some point they will revisit the idea...

    • @oldbuckie
      @oldbuckie 7 лет назад +2

      yeah you're right I misquoted you. and I know there's no guarantees. but you did say at 16 min, you have to change your belief that you will never get her back and replace it by saying she will want me back in time . I got my hopes up telling myself this for a year only to be disappointed.

    • @MovieMakersRUs4U
      @MovieMakersRUs4U 7 лет назад

      oldbuckie how long were you with her?

    • @battlefront987
      @battlefront987 7 лет назад

      oldbuckie I had an ex contact me like two years later lol. I'm sure she will sooner or later

    • @victoriamarchenko1473
      @victoriamarchenko1473 6 лет назад

      oldbuckie, hi! There were two cases in my life when the guys, who had dumped me, returned to me in about 3 and 4 years. I never knew about Craig back then, but, intuitively I was making total no contact during all those times.The other problem was that by the time each of them decided to repair relationship with me I already came through all terrible pain, my feelings were gone, and I refused.

  • @davidgawne6873
    @davidgawne6873 3 года назад

    You are awesome

  • @PsychoD69
    @PsychoD69 5 лет назад

    What if my ex gets back together with her ex? What are my chances then?

    • @enlilbinny
      @enlilbinny 5 лет назад +1

      If you stole her from her ex while they were happy. You deserve it. Hope you have no chance if that's the case.

    • @rl3656
      @rl3656 4 года назад +1

      You cant steal someone if they are happy in a relationship.. if they were that happy they wouldnt have left. Come on now

  • @jeanferguson9063
    @jeanferguson9063 5 лет назад +2

    Burger king like a man!!! 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @joshcourtois9556
    @joshcourtois9556 5 лет назад

    Yeah I do like videos like this.

  • @lawschoolpro
    @lawschoolpro 7 лет назад

    craig....please help me. i need it badly.

  • @implive17
    @implive17 6 лет назад

    I proposed marriage and she said nothing. Which I take as a no. So my question should I ask for the ring back. I do still love her but I've made too many mistakes and reality is I need to move on because I'm tired of being sad.

  • @ulkalina
    @ulkalina 6 лет назад

    Smartest, most educated, most relatable coach there is

  • @jacksonrodrigues7533
    @jacksonrodrigues7533 5 лет назад

    My story is same as the guy from the email

  • @jedixsole
    @jedixsole 6 лет назад

    I love you dude

  • @saloha808
    @saloha808 2 года назад

    Does a man’s feelings change like the clouds in the sky as well? 🥴 he seems pretty adamant about us not being together..

  • @brokensoul498
    @brokensoul498 6 лет назад

    Good I wish this true cause it kills me to watch know she moved on with someone else and it’s been 6 months it was a rebound relationship and it seems like it’s working out and it kills me I been doing no contact yet nothing she’s posting pics of them on fb it kills me hard yes I can date yes lots of women are interested in me I just can’t move on I date etc for sure but nothing clicks for me yet this guy she’s dating isn’t half the guy I am etc and I know she sees all the women on my fb very interested in me but she doesn’t reach out nothing god it kills me I want her back

    • @HengTony
      @HengTony 6 лет назад +1

      keep dating you will eventually find someone better

  • @David-qb6rm
    @David-qb6rm 7 лет назад +6

    good video, however, may I suggest, a lot of your videos are too long. you read the email, and then spend a few minutes talking about yourself. a lot of new channels do that, and then stop doing it as much, leading to more videos that are much easier to watch.

  • @backupacc554
    @backupacc554 8 лет назад

    Your really good