No, this narcissist will not return. In fact, I just found out that he’s been indicted for fraud and negligence in paying his employees. If you leave them alone, get away from them, they usually end up hanging themselves.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I started praying to God one day out of the blue , and these narcissistic healing channels popped up on my phone. I didn't even know what a narcissist was or had I even heard of one. God helped me get the healing through education while watching these channels. 6 yrs now without her and the fog is lifting. Thanks Dave for everything.
In 2017 I Googled "controlling supervisor" and narcissistic information came up. I did not Google or search anymore. In 2020 narcissistic info. from Quora started appearing in my email.... I started clicking on the emails and then from their information at the information led me to the RUclips videos on narcissism. I tell you, these videos from him and others were a lifesaver. Sometimes I used to go to sleep listening to them...
The only way to get 100% freedom from a narcissist is to cut the cord. I know all too well as I speak from personal experience. You have to cut off all forms of contact.
Yes, they come to benefit themselves, for money or validation. Yes, he said he was not happy, apparently idolizing someone new, yes, it happened suddenly,yes,yes,we can not do the things we like, for ourselves, they make us feel that they deserve it.
I answered the call of God when I was discarded after over decade with someone who I once loved. Coming home to a quiet lonely apartment after work seeing what she took and left behind. After all the failed attempts to reach out for closer after being ghosted. I just fell to my knees crying and said. God! I need answers! What happened? And I'm not telling a lie. I felt Jesus arms pick me up and hugged me he knew I meant good for her but he knew her heart and he did not bless this relationship. He pointed me to Dave first then the others and gave me the answes on what I was dealing with. Not only that he gave me a new spirit filled with discernment. He did it for me and he can do it for you. Jesus love's you don't listen to the devil no longer telling you that you lost something that's all a lie! That was meant to torture you he wants your soul and your narcissist soul. Because he still tortures your ex about you and other past ex's they had.
I started watching your videos four years ago when my relationship started failing. You have helped me so much, I would listen to a video every morning while I was getting ready for work, and it has kept me strong and able to see the truth about the man I was engaged to.
He knows I’m on to him in ways he didn’t even consider. I showed him who he was. He won’t come back he’s staying with the low hanging fruit she’s blind to it just like I was. He will never be a part of my life ever. He turns my stomach now I guess I’m healed after 4 years and tons of videos. Thank you Dave for everything you do for so many. Keep going guys! You won’t be sorry
this video is for me today. my narc husband abandoned me for 16 weeks. after i invested $5000 in a kayaking business for HIM to start his own company. then he Showed up 3 weeks ago at my door & i closed the door. but yesterday i went to a fast food and he was working there 😮 & i immediately left. without ordering. i didnt talk or look at him because i know he wants to use me (not love) again. last night i kept thinking to myself should i take him back ?? thanks for this video and more clarity... if i have one ounce of love for myself.. the answer is NO .. dont go back to him NEVER ! (its all a illusion from the devil himself. and now i finally empathize with WHY eve ate the fruit.. because she too was seduced by his lies, fake smile, & deceit. dont be EVE !!!
You were right. You were ALWAYS right. These vampires return everytime... mine returned after 2 years in jail, after he brutally discarded me saying how much he loves someone else etc. I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE, and guess whose message "I was thinking about you" I got? Pathetic clown. Not worth my time 💀🤡
My narc ex cheated on me with my barber in January lied to him fully just to get around an had a one night with him. I was lost an went back after 2 months. Improved every single aspect of how I treated my relationship cooked and cleaned daily went out more. Nothing was ever enough. She knew it was hard for me to trust her but wouldn’t put in any easy effort to reassure me. Fell into a rough spot lately and she wanted space again come to find out she was texting the doctor at her work who he even knew she had a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend himself. I was a victim because of her lies but I told her you tried to fool me again an walked away full an never looking back
My therapist fell in love with the narc . I was always getting a lecture from her . He was that cunning .. poor him . Always a victim. He has hurt so many .. im 2 years free .
This is how I know I’m finally healing: I’m laughing out loud again! Finally! It’s taken 2 years. God thru Jesus Christ is healing my heart. I now find it hard to believe that I tolerated being treated like that. I had lost my mind.
We traveled a lot but god, I hated it.. the narcissist was always moody, snarky, demeaning and made the trip a living nightmare where nothing you did ever please them and they’ll intentionally start a massive fight over nothing. Then they walk out, and go and find someone to talk to.. it always amazes me that the narcissist had supply no matter the country that we were travelling to.. The worst bit of it was how they post on social media, giving this false impression that we were a happy married couple and the narcissist loved me! BULLSHIT
I was Woman B, one relationship after another. It was hellish torment for 2 years during the worst relationship, and I kept repeating this same pattern of getting involved with narcissistic guys (undeserving to be called men). This was over 10 years ago for me that I was in an abusive relationship, but I just came across this channel and it really hits the nail on the head. Oh, I could write a book - but only to glorify God, for what the enemy intended for evil He made good. One thing someone said to me that really resonated, though I didn’t realize was scripture until 10 years later upon reading the Holy Bible for first time, is the following: "As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly." PROVERBS 26:11 I pray this helps someone remove the scales from their eyes, recognize the abusive behavior of a narcissist, recognize God's love for us is what we're really searching for, and have the strength and courage to choose truth over comfort.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT> THEY DON"T CARE IF YOU"RE TIRED THEY DON"T CARE IF YOU"RE HUNGRY> I had a day with mine where I was utterly exhausted by the put downs the evening before and stayed awake all night. At the end of the next day he said...that was one of the best days I've had with you. It was because I was too exhausted to do anything but what he said, and had just drifted along with his wishes. It was at the end of that day I decided to leave because he was not interested in making me happy at all, had no respect and I knew then the extent to which he was sucking my energy. Today I am rebuilding my life and it is filled with more energy better conversationalists more interesting people and a greater respect from and for others.
Happy Thursday Dave! I have no idea where the narcissist is. I’m sure it’s a full blown, award winning, Emmy worthy, Hollywood drama whatever is happening. Hugs Dave 💕
On the same day that she told me she adored me she also said that she was going on a trip with a single man who didn't know she had a boyfriend. I was mystified. Now it makes perfect sense. The new supply and I were both appliances/props.
Funny how it happens just the same with a lot of people. My ex narc posted a whole lot of pictures with the new suply, then in a hoover told me that was a lie, then got back to the guy. The whole thing was a mess, I closed the door and I am going through healing, 3 years now. God Bless.
14:40 "You threw me out like I was a piece of garbage" were the EXACT words she said to me the day I asked her to leave my home. Nevermind the eight years of gaslighting, blame-shifting, triangulation (almost certainly serial-cheating, but I don't know), silent treatment/stonewalling which proceeded the invitation to leave. I'm glad she has that perspective... that I threw her out. I hope that hurt!
We only dated a few months and he wanted to get married. I asked him to slow down and he dumped me.😢 I really wanted to be with him but now I know better. It is still hard!!!!
Yeah, the rush comes from them, not wanting you to think about what you're doing. Just do it...Cuz you may change your mind in their twisted minds. My ex rushed me in to marrying him, and I fell for it..11 yrs of misery and abuse
I'm not even half way through, but already feel like I have to comment bc this is all SOOO unbelievably TRUE! It still blows my mind on occasion how, if they use social media, they all do the exact same thing. You nailed it saying how they want to/need to TRY, falsely, to make ppl jealous of them to feel, again falsely, good about themselves. Like you said they want ppl to think their world/life is better than 'yours.' it's all so fake, SO disgusting and childish......not to mention a waste of time.
Yes yes, he is just as you describe. They want to "look good". Moved in and for free and after 3 years asked what kind of life i want, and discard wad 2 months aftef that. Lived for absolutely free. I wondered that it is forever, no, the discard occurred. Anger is the things what was never changing, for 3 years. I feel peace listening this channel, i found the channel years ago, and now again,after an awful 3 years, probably ptsd, feeling withdrawal symptoms. Peace and joy seems yet again in arms lengh, my parents were also "dramatic".
Never felt offended after your messages Its truly what we need to listening Following your channel for 5 yrs now. Every video makes us smart on the dot.
Sir, I am sorry for what you had to go through with your ex narc. God is using you to help so many people. What Satan meant bad; God turned around and used your situation to help so many people. God bless you.
Yep the comments. I had them for years and was constantly on eggshells hoping I didn't get a nasty comment. It would be a put-down, or hearty praise of another woman, or ex-talk, like "WE went here, or WE did that" speaking about some long-gone ex 😢
Omg Dave you continually blow my mind! 10 months ago I got out, but the PTSD and constant thoughts never seem to go away. 🙏 And you were spot on with all the compliments he would give me only for him to drop several bombs such as “Your kids moved away because they hate you,” when this was the farthest from the truth! (My kids were away at college and mind you highly accomplished today - He was just jealous). Anyhow Dave, thank you for these wonderful videos. They help so many of us and keep us on track. And your soft voice and sense of humor make you my fav. God bless you!
Amazing Dave, you just get better and better, and funnier and funnier and laughing is better than crying. So good to see we were not alone with this ugly trauma, altho I would not wish this pain on anybody . The devil follows the same script he is not original.
You are 100% correct, my ex was posting love of my life just a couple months 2-3 tops before the discard. There was no attempt to correct whatever "problem" came up... Literally, every step from B status to the future faking, triangulation etc. And you are also 100% correct it is spiritual war. Years later, calls out of nowhere right before major move-on decisions... You must recognize and take a stand, conquer this test! You will heal, you will be stronger, better, happier.
We never lived together. I think he is already married. He lives a double life. I was the fancy bit on the side and had no idea. I unfortunately trusted him. I really thought he loved me. Man, was I stupid.
The main point though is I'm resolute in not taking back the narcissist, I know too much now,that's all there is to it,I'm not gonna forgive someone who's already cheated once man.shes even following me around watching these videos too,blocked on every platform 😆. Honestly thanks though man you did help me to get out just in time this time,the final time.
I accepted him the first time after the discard without knowing about narcissists etc and I asked him, why did you go away, why and how could you?? I do everything you want for you, I try, and he replied that I wish I could live without you 😮😮, I’m like what do you mean by that he did not answer no matter what I asked again, today I understand he was talking about my supply; food, home, outlook, validation, stressing me to make himself happy 😅, demons they are, he knew if he explained further he will be telling on himself, if I knew about narcs then I would have understood clearly but .. life goes on
You where The main channel, listen to, learning bout this demonic sickness. Glad you are so honest( You still Own me a Bible 😅). Nope ‘it’ dont dare to come back. Besides dont allow ‘it’ too. Jesus is protect me. ❤ Thanks for your great videos over the years. God bless you, this channel, and us Survivors. ( least try). And yeah, were a very bad misses b, for long time. Thanks to you, God. And all learning as can get. Tho its taking a hard toll on all level. Never again! . Misses A now! 23:05 Glory be to Jesus. ❤ And God Bless Israel. 🙏🕊️❤️
Yep, they marry to make themselves look good and normal. It's easy to convince others that they are a good person and normal when someone is willing to marry them.
"I can't do this. I"m worth more than this." - this is my mantra any time I think about the latest narcissist (who I discarded) ... or a few of the ones from the past. As I think about meeting someone new, I'm standing firm with this new mantra -- knowing that I have ZERO tolerance for any such (narcissistic) nonsense, should some of these future suitors have some of these traits. Actually, just writing this solidifies for me that I've cleared my PTSD and therefore will not be attractive to narcissistic men. Amen!!
Dave these videos have helped me so much thank you. My ex narc started the devaluing training early in the marriage and got offended when I would spend time with the Lord. I would try and tell her she could too if she got up earlier and she he would somehow turn it around to be my fault. Little digs included not letting me spend time with my guy friends and when I did making me feel guilty about it. She always accused me of cheating when I never did. It was her that had the wandering heart. She would frequently triangulate and tell me about all her past boyfriends and how she could have married a doctor who made lots of $$$$$. Ironically she cheated on me with a brain surgeon. She’s now on to a different guy a year later but she’s stuck blaming me for the fact that she divorced me. Nothing is ever her fault. I’m ok accepting the blame. For choosing her that is 😂. God is healing me and I’m in some group support which has helped me tremendously. Blessings.
In our one on one video chat you asked me if I had moved in with the narcissist. I told you no. We never lived together, because I continually turned him down when he asked me to move into his place. He would ask me a couple times a week. I would make the excuse of it’s not big enough. My stuff would not fit here. But the truth was we didn’t get along and he was treating me really badly. That was also part of it. But, he did consider me the cure. Me not moving in made the final discard even worse because I continually turned him down and that must’ve really hurt his huge ego.
In the "Casino" Movie at a bar, Joe Pesci was asked to ask "Ace Rothstein" how to bet on the points spread. After Ace replied, "8" ...Pesci told the gambler "If he don't know nobody knows." So if "handicapper" Dave recommends a sure thing bet I'll slide my whole stack of chips over on it every time.
He moved left after a 6 year relationship to be with another woman. I was left broke because of me helping him. Now he is breaking car windows and fighting with my friends and family
My narc came up with an amazing Hoover.... She didn't get the lien holder the POA I signed to let her have the car. Then she had an accident and won't pay because I'm still on the title.... I'm the only one who can fix the problem with a second POA.... Talk about plausible deniability.... Obviously, she didn't plan on an accident, but she also didn't notice my name was still on the registration back last DEC.... Given the circumstances, I will do a second POA for her then go back to total block..... She used the circumstances to tell me she's working full-time in a new position....... And oh, BTW....... "I'm probably going to need heart sugery." Never sure what's true because lies flow like water and narrcisists are notorious for soliciting sympathy.
I came across you Dave about 4 or so years ago. I had been discarded by narcissist. I was in so much pain.i was getting so strong-so I thought. I'm ashamed to say I went back to him again and this time we got married. We are now 2 plus years married and he left me almost a week ago. I'm mad at myself, I'm feeling more lost than ever and I'm afraid I won't be able to be strong enough if he ever decides to come back...that's a big if...I need your help!!!
The last two videos spoke directly to me on many levels. Keep posting these videos because they are so important and comforting for those in pain in these situations. Keep speaking the truth!! PTSD - absolutely. I still have these horrible feelings that I was feeling during the last part of our relationship. I felt hollow, devastated. I definitely asked him "who are you?" as he was love bombing the cure. These visions and memories still haunt me a year and a half later. Maybe I should have sought counseling but I didn't. I definitely advocate for getting help because PTSD from any cause can devastate your life. I wound up hospitalized for emotional and the physical devastation I went through in that relationship. I'm just hoping that one day these memories won't haunt me - particularly at night for some reason. Love your videos. I've watched so many of them over the last year and a half. Thank you. And my family totally saw that he was being abusive but I always defended him saying that things were usually good.
I know, we made excuses for them, hoping that they would change - chance after chance but they just didn't care about us. I'm out of a marriage ( of over three decades) a year and a half ago. Keep watching these videos and reading the comments. Dave explains this abuse so well and from a biblical point of view. I didn't know what happened to me either, after being discarded and left for dead but I cried out to God and HE picked me up and everyday I give my life to Him. We will be ok. Take care of yourself.....you are worthy and a good person....we didn't deserve what has happened to us but we had to go through it. Keep strong and God bless you. 🙏🌻🌻🌻
The Narcissist didn't feel excepting my friend request was necessary really....I'm his spouse. Under his profile marital status was left blank. No respect for himself. Awful! If my family members we living they would be against this 💯
holy wow that sentence about them following you around the house even to the restroom 😮 dude I thought this was only my narc weirdo. Wtf how are they all the same I don't get it.
I know for sure that one of my ex narcs will not return, unless it's a demonic ghost, because she passed away a little over two years ago. But there is that slim possibility of the second narc coming around, if she ever finds herself out of jail for more than five minutes. But the likelihood of it ever happening is slim to none (not that I'm waiting for her, because that's history). The reason I say that, is that I have five years of narc education under my belt to understand how these demons function, and the fact I've never done drugs, and she has done so her whole life, and I don't run in those circles. Never have.
Just a comment on going to counseling with a narcissist, especially one who claims to have gotten saved right before they marry you. In my case, my ex made fast and great friends with the pastor of the church I was attending at the time. I had been with this church for 10 years. The ex had anger issues and also porn issues. I didn't know about the anger issues but had an inkling about the porn. Stupid me, I went ahead with the wedding, anyway. So, my pastor said he would take the narc to a counselor he knew for anger management. They attended 2 times. Then it was my turn. My ex and I went once. The narc was asked why it was that every time he attended a session with our pastor, all they did was complain about me, how jealous and controlling I was. He also said it concerned him greatly that said pastor considered someone like him to be one of his best friends. "Where is the Holy Spirit at work in your life?!" The counselor also said the narc had to cut ties with his ex-girlfriend and not ever talk about their sex life, ever. You know, deeds done in the darkness! With that, the narc stood up, threw his chair across the room, and walked out. A month later, he threatened to kill me, and that's when I threw him out, changed all the locks and garage code, and filed for divorce. We were married for only 1 year, and during that time, he left me 10 times to go on a drinking binge and who knows what else. I raged, all by myself for months after this, out of anger and disgust that I was so abused by someone I genuinely cared about. But those feelings were mainly before we married. As a side note, he refused to consummate our marriage on our wedding nite nor on our honeymoon. Instead, he raged and destroyed the hotel room. What a horrible, wicked mess of a so-called man. NOT! He's been gone 12 years now. No apologies from that weak pastor. He should step down from the pulpit, in my opinion. Thanks so much for your transparency, honesty, and love for the Lord! I hope to see you in the clouds one fine day! Soon and very soon! Maranatha! Come quickly, Lord Jesus! Pray for our unsaved loved ones.
He came back in August, and he thought I wouldn’t see (cause I don’t have social media) they posted on November 12 their relationship- the next day I told him if he didn’t want anything with me to tell me “yo te quiero mucho te quiero mucho mami” (I love you a lot I love you a lot mami) that was the last I saw him- they post each other- he has aged horribly- they look fake happy.
Do they always return? Was cheated on for two years on and off. Kept taking him back. Begged pleaded cried threatened suicide checked himself into a psychiatric hospital for 6 days. Said I was the love of his life all the time his best friend. Soulmate. I took him back so many times but I knew the back burner was still hanging around. He would tell her he was in love with me still and dropped her all the time; but then went back to her when I left him for the final time in September. I was seeing someone else for a few months earlier this year. Broke it off went back to my ex. He made more promises never kept them. He wanted to marry me we got back in august but I left him and didn’t go back in September. I just couldn’t do it. I didn’t trust him at all and knew he would run back to her. He did. They are away right now for a family wedding of hers. I’m sure she paid for the trip, etc. I want to know when I will get over this. I still cry every day thinking how someone treated me the best in my life to the worst in my life. HELP! Will he do the same to her? Will I hear from him again? He told me since I was going to go back with the guy (he was so upset about how could I dare date someone while he was sleeping with someone for two years..that was ok though)…he said he is dead to me now. I really need to get over this heartache and move on. It’s so hard. Any advice is welcome. Thank you 🙏
It sure was for me and I know also I am not alone. The world of the Narc and my general thinking are at opposite ends of the universe. I felt I could see the devil at work as the male Narc was manipulative. The creepy looks in the eyes, the odd facials, the haughty laugh. It's PTSD stuff
Love your extended videos dave. As always brilliant content and your insight and education is and has been invaluable. 3 years I've been tuning in (fertilising my own growth) to your channel. And i just want to say a massive thank you, and enormous respect from Scotland. Keep up the good work Dave - when i see you, you just represent the avatar of an old wise friend who is unfailing, and always generous in his guidance 👍
17:30. Marriage counseling with the narc.. My former therapist is a malignant narcissist. She and my (now ex) wife ganged up on me like tag team wrestling. I almost remember them five-fiving each other while the two of them took turns beating me into the dirt. That "psychologist" ought to have her license revoked. Maybe I remind her of her ex-husband... but I came to her and brought my (now ex) wife in after I had started individual therapy.
i don’t believe my narc ex will ever come back after my discard especially because i’m in no contact and don’t watch them or pay attention. they ended too badly to come back
They minimize , exaggerate , generalize , they play in the realm of suggestive and assumptive it's their helmet shield , and sword their feet are shod in decietfullness, their loins girded with grandiosity , and a lack of concious , they wear bitter malovelence as their breastplate , and vain conciet as a badge of honor ! My ex Dave I was their to adorn her with a desired image of reformed , and reputation restored , while she changed nothing , and once that no longer was a concern , I went from hero to zero , my replacement, you might say she meet her match with , turned out her new supply was out to one up her , and quickly became vindictive, they both wanted to be master , they intentionally blew her cover !
My long time friend did this several years ago, and then about seven years ago did a major discard, for the second time. Now I'm no fool, and a lot wiser now. Well what do you know.....about a month ago I got a text from her (again, after seven years of ghosting me as punishment for being called out for her actions). And, she didn't even start with anything insightful or remorseful LOL. Just the same old pattern of text how she's been missing me LOL, thinking of me LOL, and wants to call LOL. I smiled knowing she will never ever hear from me again. After seven years she must be in a very desperate situation to reach out to the friend she could always count on, thick or thin. That friend (me) is long gone, and in her place is a thriving, vibrant, wise and self-loving person who won't tolerate that *&#@ any longer. Buh bye, so long.
Great video, so timely, felt like you were speaking right to me when you reminded me the knowledge will not allow me to fail. I believe this and it was a total confirmation. Thank you!
If empathy are few and very very rare, then we should know and understand that the rest are sociopaths, narcissists and psychopaths, all of who are no empathetic and crazy, more evil than you can think
During the love bombing he took me to see the movie Titanic...little did I know this would be the future of our relationshit....a sinking ship 🚢. This movie was 😥 sad, and it made me cry...but.the Narc just sat there like emotionless 🤖 robot. They can't relate to anyones pain.....he would say it's just a movie.
The NARC looked like he was happy with the NEW SUPPLY doing all the SAME things he did with ME 😮 and started doing those things I told him I wanted to do with him he did with ... HER! 😳 MIND BLOWING!!!
My ex did the same shit with her new supply lol. She recently posted a new profile pic of her at a spot I took her to when we were dating lol. Probably on purpose I'm sure to get my attention or fuck with my head.
My narcissist will return right before she goes to jail, just like last year. She will do another 90 day stint in jail. Probably every year for the next 10-12 years.
I was involved in an affair with a narcissist for just over a year. The love bombing and future faking had me on an out of control merry go round of emotions. It started with lies and charm, it ended with bread crumbing me after I would not relent on calling him out for his lies and behavior. His wife was stalking me, it was getting so out of control and he knew he was risking exposure, so he began to slow fade. It was a blessing. I blocked him and his wife on every form of social media and his number. Changing my phone number today. I don’t even care if people want to judge me for being the other woman. There was always going to be another woman, he is a cheater and predator at his core. I have a wonderful group of women from my church who have been loving and supportive, who believe me and see my pain. Praying for all those affected by these soulless meat sacks.
Why do I feel that I am being punished for loving this man? I felt we were gifts for each other. The same scenario b4 and after meeting him in our teens and after our split, it seemed like everyone I encountered were somehow blocked from me. Being celibate for way too long is not how I thought my life would turn out after enjoying this man immensely. I guess that's what I get for thanking God for this "Kingdom husband." So thanks so much for these insights.
No, this narcissist will not return. In fact, I just found out that he’s been indicted for fraud and negligence in paying his employees. If you leave them alone, get away from them, they usually end up hanging themselves.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
😂I’m sorry for laughing wow he reaped what he sowed God sees it all.
Amen! For that 🙏
Hahahahahahaha I can't help but to laugh and dance!!! 💃🕺💃👯♂️👯♀️👯
THIS WILL HAPPEN TO SAMANTHA LEE!!!! SHE KILLED, STOLE, DESTROYED MY BABY BOY BROTHER!!!! GOD WORD IS TRUE!!!! THESE DEMONS ARE SOMETHING ELSE!!!!
Love it!!! 😂
I started praying to God one day out of the blue , and these narcissistic healing channels popped up on my phone.
I didn't even know what a narcissist was or had I even heard of one.
God helped me get the healing through education while watching these channels.
6 yrs now without her and the fog is lifting.
Thanks Dave for everything.
don't allow 'them' any more head space.........
In 2017 I Googled "controlling supervisor" and narcissistic information came up. I did not Google or search anymore. In 2020 narcissistic info. from Quora started appearing in my email.... I started clicking on the emails and then from their information at the information led me to the RUclips videos on narcissism. I tell you, these videos from him and others were a lifesaver. Sometimes I used to go to sleep listening to them...
Blessings 🙏🏽
The only way to get 100% freedom from a narcissist is to cut the cord. I know all too well as I speak from personal experience. You have to cut off all forms of contact.
Exactly, they will not end it, you will have to
They come back to destroy...period
Yes, they come to benefit themselves, for money or validation. Yes, he said he was not happy, apparently idolizing someone new, yes, it happened suddenly,yes,yes,we can not do the things we like, for ourselves, they make us feel that they deserve it.
They come back to kill steal and destroy. Nothing else. Or anything else. They don't care. Guess what! We don't care and we're first
They want someone to look good on their arm so they can show the world that THEY are something.
I answered the call of God when I was discarded after over decade with someone who I once loved. Coming home to a quiet lonely apartment after work seeing what she took and left behind. After all the failed attempts to reach out for closer after being ghosted. I just fell to my knees crying and said. God! I need answers! What happened? And I'm not telling a lie. I felt Jesus arms pick me up and hugged me he knew I meant good for her but he knew her heart and he did not bless this relationship. He pointed me to Dave first then the others and gave me the answes on what I was dealing with. Not only that he gave me a new spirit filled with discernment. He did it for me and he can do it for you. Jesus love's you don't listen to the devil no longer telling you that you lost something that's all a lie! That was meant to torture you he wants your soul and your narcissist soul. Because he still tortures your ex about you and other past ex's they had.
I felt this .. God has blessed me with discernment like no other .. I’m grateful for change after heartbreak
I started watching your videos four years ago when my relationship started failing. You have helped me so much, I would listen to a video every morning while I was getting ready for work, and it has kept me strong and able to see the truth about the man I was engaged to.
wow that's awesome
Same
Girlllll you and me both! I’m nolonger engaged. I dodged a cannon 🙌🏾🙏🏽
Celibate 3 years post Narc...God blocked any replacement, Thank you Lord.
Praise God
He Definitely Did A Test Hoover Via Text Messages I Have No Plans On EVER Going Back To That Situationship
He knows I’m on to him in ways he didn’t even consider. I showed him who he was. He won’t come back he’s staying with the low hanging fruit she’s blind to it just like I was. He will never be a part of my life ever. He turns my stomach now I guess I’m healed after 4 years and tons of videos. Thank you Dave for everything you do for so many. Keep going guys! You won’t be sorry
this video is for me today. my narc husband abandoned me for 16 weeks. after i invested $5000 in a kayaking business for HIM to start his own company. then he Showed up 3 weeks ago at my door & i closed the door. but yesterday i went to a fast food and he was working there 😮 & i immediately left. without ordering. i didnt talk or look at him because i know he wants to use me (not love) again. last night i kept thinking to myself should i take him back ?? thanks for this video and more clarity... if i have one ounce of love for myself.. the answer is NO .. dont go back to him NEVER ! (its all a illusion from the devil himself. and now i finally empathize with WHY eve ate the fruit.. because she too was seduced by his lies, fake smile, & deceit. dont be EVE !!!
what kind of narcissist be working fast food that’s hilarious
Kayak business must have collapse ..lol ..🤣🤣
Remember, Adam fell, too. It sounds like a narc...take the money and run.... a user. Using us for what they can get out of us.
You were right. You were ALWAYS right. These vampires return everytime... mine returned after 2 years in jail, after he brutally discarded me saying how much he loves someone else etc. I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE, and guess whose message "I was thinking about you" I got? Pathetic clown. Not worth my time 💀🤡
That was so true having to learn to read and write again. I was so broken, the lord Jesus Christ saved me
My narc ex cheated on me with my barber in January lied to him fully just to get around an had a one night with him. I was lost an went back after 2 months. Improved every single aspect of how I treated my relationship cooked and cleaned daily went out more. Nothing was ever enough. She knew it was hard for me to trust her but wouldn’t put in any easy effort to reassure me. Fell into a rough spot lately and she wanted space again come to find out she was texting the doctor at her work who he even knew she had a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend himself. I was a victim because of her lies but I told her you tried to fool me again an walked away full an never looking back
Any narcissistic hoover will be DOA.
My therapist fell in love with the narc . I was always getting a lecture from her . He was that cunning .. poor him . Always a victim. He has hurt so many .. im 2 years free .
This is how I know I’m finally healing: I’m laughing out loud again! Finally! It’s taken 2 years. God thru Jesus Christ is healing my heart. I now find it hard to believe that I tolerated being treated like that. I had lost my mind.
Thanks be to God. It has also been two years after a six year relationship with the narcissist.
We traveled a lot but god, I hated it.. the narcissist was always moody, snarky, demeaning and made the trip a living nightmare where nothing you did ever please them and they’ll intentionally start a massive fight over nothing.
Then they walk out, and go and find someone to talk to.. it always amazes me that the narcissist had supply no matter the country that we were travelling to..
The worst bit of it was how they post on social media, giving this false impression that we were a happy married couple and the narcissist loved me!
BULLSHIT
Yes, ptsd…so hard to comprehend their actions! Where do these people come from?
“Who are you?” Yep 👍
Like you said, put on the full armor of God that yea may be equipped for the day of battle. The battle is every day!
I was Woman B, one relationship after another. It was hellish torment for 2 years during the worst relationship, and I kept repeating this same pattern of getting involved with narcissistic guys (undeserving to be called men).
This was over 10 years ago for me that I was in an abusive relationship, but I just came across this channel and it really hits the nail on the head. Oh, I could write a book - but only to glorify God, for what the enemy intended for evil He made good.
One thing someone said to me that really resonated, though I didn’t realize was scripture until 10 years later upon reading the Holy Bible for first time, is the following:
"As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly." PROVERBS 26:11
I pray this helps someone remove the scales from their eyes, recognize the abusive behavior of a narcissist, recognize God's love for us is what we're really searching for, and have the strength and courage to choose truth over comfort.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT> THEY DON"T CARE IF YOU"RE TIRED THEY DON"T CARE IF YOU"RE HUNGRY> I had a day with mine where I was utterly exhausted by the put downs the evening before and stayed awake all night. At the end of the next day he said...that was one of the best days I've had with you. It was because I was too exhausted to do anything but what he said, and had just drifted along with his wishes. It was at the end of that day I decided to leave because he was not interested in making me happy at all, had no respect and I knew then the extent to which he was sucking my energy. Today I am rebuilding my life and it is filled with more energy better conversationalists more interesting people and a greater respect from and for others.
Happy Thursday Dave! I have no idea where the narcissist is. I’m sure it’s a full blown, award winning, Emmy worthy, Hollywood drama whatever is happening. Hugs Dave 💕
On the same day that she told me she adored me she also said that she was going on a trip with a single man who didn't know she had a boyfriend. I was mystified. Now it makes perfect sense. The new supply and I were both appliances/props.
Funny how it happens just the same with a lot of people. My ex narc posted a whole lot of pictures with the new suply, then in a hoover told me that was a lie, then got back to the guy. The whole thing was a mess, I closed the door and I am going through healing, 3 years now. God Bless.
14:40 "You threw me out like I was a piece of garbage" were the EXACT words she said to me the day I asked her to leave my home. Nevermind the eight years of gaslighting, blame-shifting, triangulation (almost certainly serial-cheating, but I don't know), silent treatment/stonewalling which proceeded the invitation to leave. I'm glad she has that perspective... that I threw her out. I hope that hurt!
We only dated a few months and he wanted to get married. I asked him to slow down and he dumped me.😢 I really wanted to be with him but now I know better. It is still hard!!!!
Yeah, the rush comes from them, not wanting you to think about what you're doing. Just do it...Cuz you may change your mind in their twisted minds. My ex rushed me in to marrying him, and I fell for it..11 yrs of misery and abuse
I bet he would have changed for the worst after you married him....his true colors would have come out...
😢😢😢😢 for sure marriage counseling was definitely hell but he didn’t fool our counselor she saw right through him.
I'm not even half way through, but already feel like I have to comment bc this is all SOOO unbelievably TRUE! It still blows my mind on occasion how, if they use social media, they all do the exact same thing. You nailed it saying how they want to/need to TRY, falsely, to make ppl jealous of them to feel, again falsely, good about themselves. Like you said they want ppl to think their world/life is better than 'yours.' it's all so fake, SO disgusting and childish......not to mention a waste of time.
Yes yes, he is just as you describe. They want to "look good". Moved in and for free and after 3 years asked what kind of life i want, and discard wad 2 months aftef that. Lived for absolutely free. I wondered that it is forever, no, the discard occurred. Anger is the things what was never changing, for 3 years. I feel peace listening this channel, i found the channel years ago, and now again,after an awful 3 years, probably ptsd, feeling withdrawal symptoms. Peace and joy seems yet again in arms lengh, my parents were also "dramatic".
My ex narc has a 10 year restraining order against him .
Wish I had one against mine...
So basically you got to take a pledge of allegiance to a narcissist when you date one😮😢
Never felt offended after your messages Its truly what we need to listening Following your channel for 5 yrs now. Every video makes us smart on the dot.
Sir, I am sorry for what you had to go through with your ex narc. God is using you to help so many people. What Satan meant bad; God turned around and used your situation to help so many people. God bless you.
Yep the comments. I had them for years and was constantly on eggshells hoping I didn't get a nasty comment. It would be a put-down, or hearty praise of another woman, or ex-talk, like "WE went here, or WE did that" speaking about some long-gone ex 😢
Omg Dave you continually blow my mind! 10 months ago I got out, but the PTSD and constant thoughts never seem to go away. 🙏 And you were spot on with all the compliments he would give me only for him to drop several bombs such as “Your kids moved away because they hate you,” when this was the farthest from the truth! (My kids were away at college and mind you highly accomplished today - He was just jealous). Anyhow Dave, thank you for these wonderful videos. They help so many of us and keep us on track. And your soft voice and sense of humor make you my fav. God bless you!
Amazing Dave, you just get better and better, and funnier and funnier and laughing is better than crying.
So good to see we were not alone with this ugly trauma, altho I would not wish this pain on anybody .
The devil follows the same script he is not original.
You are 100% correct, my ex was posting love of my life just a couple months 2-3 tops before the discard. There was no attempt to correct whatever "problem" came up... Literally, every step from B status to the future faking, triangulation etc. And you are also 100% correct it is spiritual war. Years later, calls out of nowhere right before major move-on decisions... You must recognize and take a stand, conquer this test! You will heal, you will be stronger, better, happier.
We never lived together. I think he is already married. He lives a double life. I was the fancy bit on the side and had no idea. I unfortunately trusted him. I really thought he loved me. Man, was I stupid.
🧐 the enemy is here!🤣🤣🤣 Thanks Dave!
Mine unblocked me on Facebook about a month ago and was snooping my social media. To the block list she went.
The main point though is I'm resolute in not taking back the narcissist, I know too much now,that's all there is to it,I'm not gonna forgive someone who's already cheated once man.shes even following me around watching these videos too,blocked on every platform 😆. Honestly thanks though man you did help me to get out just in time this time,the final time.
I accepted him the first time after the discard without knowing about narcissists etc and I asked him, why did you go away, why and how could you?? I do everything you want for you, I try, and he replied that I wish I could live without you 😮😮, I’m like what do you mean by that he did not answer no matter what I asked again, today I understand he was talking about my supply; food, home, outlook, validation, stressing me to make himself happy 😅, demons they are, he knew if he explained further he will be telling on himself, if I knew about narcs then I would have understood clearly but .. life goes on
You where The main channel, listen to, learning bout this demonic sickness. Glad you are so honest( You still Own me a Bible 😅). Nope ‘it’ dont dare to come back. Besides dont allow ‘it’ too. Jesus is protect me. ❤ Thanks for your great videos over the years. God bless you, this channel, and us Survivors. ( least try). And yeah, were a very bad misses b, for long time. Thanks to you, God. And all learning as can get. Tho its taking a hard toll on all level. Never again! . Misses A now! 23:05 Glory be to Jesus. ❤ And God Bless Israel. 🙏🕊️❤️
Yep, they marry to make themselves look good and normal. It's easy to convince others that they are a good person and normal when someone is willing to marry them.
I don't miss him because it all was a lie! My blessing is that I know this to be true. Thank you Jesus.
"I can't do this. I"m worth more than this." - this is my mantra any time I think about the latest narcissist (who I discarded) ... or a few of the ones from the past. As I think about meeting someone new, I'm standing firm with this new mantra -- knowing that I have ZERO tolerance for any such (narcissistic) nonsense, should some of these future suitors have some of these traits. Actually, just writing this solidifies for me that I've cleared my PTSD and therefore will not be attractive to narcissistic men. Amen!!
Wow sorry you had to deal with multiple narcs. One was way too many for me!
Dave these videos have helped me so much thank you. My ex narc started the devaluing training early in the marriage and got offended when I would spend time with the Lord. I would try and tell her she could too if she got up earlier and she he would somehow turn it around to be my fault. Little digs included not letting me spend time with my guy friends and when I did making me feel guilty about it. She always accused me of cheating when I never did. It was her that had the wandering heart. She would frequently triangulate and tell me about all her past boyfriends and how she could have married a doctor who made lots of $$$$$. Ironically she cheated on me with a brain surgeon. She’s now on to a different guy a year later but she’s stuck blaming me for the fact that she divorced me. Nothing is ever her fault. I’m ok accepting the blame. For choosing her that is 😂. God is healing me and I’m in some group support which has helped me tremendously. Blessings.
In our one on one video chat you asked me if I had moved in with the narcissist. I told you no. We never lived together, because I continually turned him down when he asked me to move into his place. He would ask me a couple times a week. I would make the excuse of it’s not big enough. My stuff would not fit here. But the truth was we didn’t get along and he was treating me really badly. That was also part of it. But, he did consider me the cure. Me not moving in made the final discard even worse because I continually turned him down and that must’ve really hurt his huge ego.
Love you Dave. You’re doing a lot of good sharing your experience. 🙏
In the "Casino" Movie at a bar, Joe Pesci was asked to ask "Ace Rothstein" how to bet on the points spread. After Ace replied, "8" ...Pesci told the gambler "If he don't know nobody knows." So if "handicapper" Dave recommends a sure thing bet I'll slide my whole stack of chips over on it every time.
He moved left after a 6 year relationship to be with another woman. I was left broke because of me helping him. Now he is breaking car windows and fighting with my friends and family
That Part Who Are You Got Me Weak 😂😂😂😭😭😭
My narc came up with an amazing Hoover....
She didn't get the lien holder the POA I signed to let her have the car. Then she had an accident and won't pay because I'm still on the title....
I'm the only one who can fix the problem with a second POA....
Talk about plausible deniability....
Obviously, she didn't plan on an accident, but she also didn't notice my name was still on the registration back last DEC....
Given the circumstances, I will do a second POA for her then go back to total block.....
She used the circumstances to tell me she's working full-time in a new position.......
And oh, BTW.......
"I'm probably going to need heart sugery."
Never sure what's true because lies flow like water and narrcisists are notorious for soliciting sympathy.
Amen amen .. ❤❤❤❤it's been a while . I needed to watch you . Your videos and insight never fail thank you
I came across you Dave about 4 or so years ago. I had been discarded by narcissist. I was in so much pain.i was getting so strong-so I thought. I'm ashamed to say I went back to him again and this time we got married. We are now 2 plus years married and he left me almost a week ago. I'm mad at myself, I'm feeling more lost than ever and I'm afraid I won't be able to be strong enough if he ever decides to come back...that's a big if...I need your help!!!
Hang in there Stephanie if you need coaching you can join the Seal Team:)
@@Narcologyunscripted I know that a few years ago I was a member of the Seal team
Happy Thursday Dave. Sorry I haven't dropped by in awhile-so busy with just life. Still here, narc free living🎉
Glad you did
The last two videos spoke directly to me on many levels. Keep posting these videos because they are so important and comforting for those in pain in these situations. Keep speaking the truth!! PTSD - absolutely. I still have these horrible feelings that I was feeling during the last part of our relationship. I felt hollow, devastated. I definitely asked him "who are you?" as he was love bombing the cure. These visions and memories still haunt me a year and a half later. Maybe I should have sought counseling but I didn't. I definitely advocate for getting help because PTSD from any cause can devastate your life. I wound up hospitalized for emotional and the physical devastation I went through in that relationship. I'm just hoping that one day these memories won't haunt me - particularly at night for some reason. Love your videos. I've watched so many of them over the last year and a half. Thank you. And my family totally saw that he was being abusive but I always defended him saying that things were usually good.
I know, we made excuses for them, hoping that they would change - chance after chance but they just didn't care about us. I'm out of a marriage ( of over three decades) a year and a half ago. Keep watching these videos and reading the comments. Dave explains this abuse so well and from a biblical point of view. I didn't know what happened to me either, after being discarded and left for dead but I cried out to God and HE picked me up and everyday I give my life to Him. We will be ok. Take care of yourself.....you are worthy and a good person....we didn't deserve what has happened to us but we had to go through it. Keep strong and God bless you. 🙏🌻🌻🌻
@@angelacahill9083 Thank you and I will keep going as I hope you will as well.
The Narcissist didn't feel excepting my friend request was necessary really....I'm his spouse. Under his profile marital status was left blank. No respect for himself. Awful! If my family members we living they would be against this 💯
very true... it's like wow, this is going to make me look great ! the reason for marrying
My ex narc she can't call me. I changed my number😂
Yep that was the first thing I did 😂
holy wow that sentence about them following you around the house even to the restroom 😮 dude I thought this was only my narc weirdo. Wtf how are they all the same I don't get it.
I know for sure that one of my ex narcs will not return, unless it's a demonic ghost, because she passed away a little over two years ago. But there is that slim possibility of the second narc coming around, if she ever finds herself out of jail for more than five minutes.
But the likelihood of it ever happening is slim to none (not that I'm waiting for her, because that's history). The reason I say that, is that I have five years of narc education under my belt to understand how these demons function, and the fact I've never done drugs, and she has done so her whole life, and I don't run in those circles. Never have.
❤you Dave and all of you stay strong !
Just a comment on going to counseling with a narcissist, especially one who claims to have gotten saved right before they marry you. In my case, my ex made fast and great friends with the pastor of the church I was attending at the time. I had been with this church for 10 years. The ex had anger issues and also porn issues. I didn't know about the anger issues but had an inkling about the porn. Stupid me, I went ahead with the wedding, anyway. So, my pastor said he would take the narc to a counselor he knew for anger management. They attended 2 times.
Then it was my turn. My ex and I went once. The narc was asked why it was that every time he attended a session with our pastor, all they did was complain about me, how jealous and controlling I was. He also said it concerned him greatly that said pastor considered someone like him to be one of his best friends. "Where is the Holy Spirit at work in your life?!" The counselor also said the narc had to cut ties with his ex-girlfriend and not ever talk about their sex life, ever. You know, deeds done in the darkness! With that, the narc stood up, threw his chair across the room, and walked out. A month later, he threatened to kill me, and that's when I threw him out, changed all the locks and garage code, and filed for divorce. We were married for only 1 year, and during that time, he left me 10 times to go on a drinking binge and who knows what else. I raged, all by myself for months after this, out of anger and disgust that I was so abused by someone I genuinely cared about. But those feelings were mainly before we married. As a side note, he refused to consummate our marriage on our wedding nite nor on our honeymoon. Instead, he raged and destroyed the hotel room. What a horrible, wicked mess of a so-called man. NOT! He's been gone 12 years now. No apologies from that weak pastor. He should step down from the pulpit, in my opinion. Thanks so much for your transparency, honesty, and love for the Lord! I hope to see you in the clouds one fine day! Soon and very soon! Maranatha! Come quickly, Lord Jesus! Pray for our unsaved loved ones.
He came back in August, and he thought I wouldn’t see (cause I don’t have social media) they posted on November 12 their relationship- the next day I told him if he didn’t want anything with me to tell me “yo te quiero mucho te quiero mucho mami” (I love you a lot I love you a lot mami) that was the last I saw him- they post each other- he has aged horribly- they look fake happy.
Went through it twice thought I was wise to it but wham it’s happened again 😢
On point poor Jonny !
I wish my narc would future fake me. All he’s texts is “are u ready to be good to me”😳
Do they always return? Was cheated on for two years on and off. Kept taking him back. Begged pleaded cried threatened suicide checked himself into a psychiatric hospital for 6 days. Said I was the love of his life all the time his best friend. Soulmate. I took him back so many times but I knew the back burner was still hanging around. He would tell her he was in love with me still and dropped her all the time; but then went back to her when I left him for the final time in September. I was seeing someone else for a few months earlier this year. Broke it off went back to my ex. He made more promises never kept them. He wanted to marry me we got back in august but I left him and didn’t go back in September. I just couldn’t do it. I didn’t trust him at all and knew he would run back to her. He did. They are away right now for a family wedding of hers. I’m sure she paid for the trip, etc. I want to know when I will get over this. I still cry every day thinking how someone treated me the best in my life to the worst in my life. HELP!
Will he do the same to her? Will I hear from him again? He told me since I was going to go back with the guy (he was so upset about how could I dare date someone while he was sleeping with someone for two years..that was ok though)…he said he is dead to me now.
I really need to get over this heartache and move on. It’s so hard. Any advice is welcome. Thank you 🙏
You're soo amazing sir. You explain this concept sooo well. It is so validating❤. God bless you.
I really appreciate your videos. God bless you!
I'm in self isolation
BLESSINGS AND THANK YOU FOR THIS READING!
Amen ✨Love That sound pouring in the wisdom Thank u Big brother Dave chosen 1✨🕊️✨❤️ Amen ✨
It sure was for me and I know also I am not alone. The world of the Narc and my general thinking are at opposite ends of the universe. I felt I could see the devil at work as the male Narc was manipulative. The creepy looks in the eyes, the odd facials, the haughty laugh. It's PTSD stuff
Dave what do you mean married three years my situation just like yours I was with her three years too married after two split a year later
I love your Channel Dave! Spot on!
I am channeling Jesus Love ❤️
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Love your extended videos dave. As always brilliant content and your insight and education is and has been invaluable. 3 years I've been tuning in (fertilising my own growth) to your channel. And i just want to say a massive thank you, and enormous respect from Scotland. Keep up the good work Dave - when i see you, you just represent the avatar of an old wise friend who is unfailing, and always generous in his guidance 👍
17:30. Marriage counseling with the narc.. My former therapist is a malignant narcissist. She and my (now ex) wife ganged up on me like tag team wrestling. I almost remember them five-fiving each other while the two of them took turns beating me into the dirt. That "psychologist" ought to have her license revoked. Maybe I remind her of her ex-husband... but I came to her and brought my (now ex) wife in after I had started individual therapy.
Great video!
i don’t believe my narc ex will ever come back after my discard especially because i’m in no contact and don’t watch them or pay attention. they ended too badly to come back
They minimize , exaggerate , generalize , they play in the realm of suggestive and assumptive it's their helmet shield , and sword their feet are shod in decietfullness, their loins girded with grandiosity , and a lack of concious , they wear bitter malovelence as their breastplate , and vain conciet as a badge of honor ! My ex Dave I was their to adorn her with a desired image of reformed , and reputation restored , while she changed nothing , and once that no longer was a concern , I went from hero to zero , my replacement, you might say she meet her match with , turned out her new supply was out to one up her , and quickly became vindictive, they both wanted to be master , they intentionally blew her cover !
My long time friend did this several years ago, and then about seven years ago did a major discard, for the second time. Now I'm no fool, and a lot wiser now. Well what do you know.....about a month ago I got a text from her (again, after seven years of ghosting me as punishment for being called out for her actions). And, she didn't even start with anything insightful or remorseful LOL. Just the same old pattern of text how she's been missing me LOL, thinking of me LOL, and wants to call LOL. I smiled knowing she will never ever hear from me again. After seven years she must be in a very desperate situation to reach out to the friend she could always count on, thick or thin. That friend (me) is long gone, and in her place is a thriving, vibrant, wise and self-loving person who won't tolerate that *&#@ any longer. Buh bye, so long.
Ps. Likes you very much. 😊❤
Great video, so timely, felt like you were speaking right to me when you reminded me the knowledge will not allow me to fail. I believe this and it was a total confirmation. Thank you!
I was a pretty bad MRS. B also.
Same here. Really bad one also.
Hey 👋 Dave was wondering if you have checked ✔️ out the American pickers store in Nashville yet 😉 I hope you are doing well kind sir 👍
If empathy are few and very very rare, then we should know and understand that the rest are sociopaths, narcissists and psychopaths, all of who are no empathetic and crazy, more evil than you can think
During the love bombing he took me to see the movie Titanic...little did I know this would be the future of our relationshit....a sinking ship 🚢. This movie was 😥 sad, and it made me cry...but.the Narc just sat there like emotionless 🤖 robot. They can't relate to anyones pain.....he would say it's just a movie.
Hi Dave. I know now, Jesus and the Bible, is the only way to be free. I choose God. 🙏❤️🙏
The NARC looked like he was happy with the NEW SUPPLY doing all the SAME things he did with ME 😮 and started doing those things I told him I wanted to do with him he did with ... HER! 😳 MIND BLOWING!!!
My ex did the same shit with her new supply lol. She recently posted a new profile pic of her at a spot I took her to when we were dating lol. Probably on purpose I'm sure to get my attention or fuck with my head.
My narcissist will return right before she goes to jail, just like last year. She will do another 90 day stint in jail. Probably every year for the next 10-12 years.
Amen brother
I was involved in an affair with a narcissist for just over a year. The love bombing and future faking had me on an out of control merry go round of emotions. It started with lies and charm, it ended with bread crumbing me after I would not relent on calling him out for his lies and behavior. His wife was stalking me, it was getting so out of control and he knew he was risking exposure, so he began to slow fade. It was a blessing. I blocked him and his wife on every form of social media and his number. Changing my phone number today. I don’t even care if people want to judge me for being the other woman. There was always going to be another woman, he is a cheater and predator at his core. I have a wonderful group of women from my church who have been loving and supportive, who believe me and see my pain. Praying for all those affected by these soulless meat sacks.
Why do I feel that I am being punished for loving this man? I felt we were gifts for each other. The same scenario b4 and after meeting him in our teens and after our split, it seemed like everyone I encountered were somehow blocked from me. Being celibate for way too long is not how I thought my life would turn out after enjoying this man immensely. I guess that's what I get for thanking God for this "Kingdom husband." So thanks so much for these insights.
I really needed this thank you 🙏🏻 and Gods luv and light be with you always 🌻👌🪽🙏🏻
The diecodemy of all enormous for them illudes the illusions grand show.
Dont play get away get God ❤🙏🙏🙏
It's hard when your husband is like that and then the kids follow suit it really really it really hurts