A ❤ for everyone who has ever felt they don’t fit in this world. I told my mum I feel like this, she said ‘you do fit, you just haven’t found your place’. She’s right. My whole life I’ve tried to fit where I don’t belong and it’s made me miserable in my own skin. We all belong, and it’s our differences that make us who we are. Stop trying to fit in a societal mould. Be unapologetically yourself. 😘
I'm turning 62 tomorrow, and I have lived in a larger sized body all of my life. I don't know anything different. Be who you were always meant to be, and the right people will show up. I still struggle with acceptance, and the message to myself is that no matter how much you fight yourself, love will always win. It's a matter of how fast you want to see the victory. Stop fighting for something that has already won. In the end, flesh doesn’t matter.❤
Lauren I just love your videos. “Growing old is a privilege”. So very true. I moved away from an abusive marriage after 25 years and 3 beautiful sons. From IN to SC and have never looked back. I lost my dad to colon cancer when he was only 64 and I am now 61. No regrets. Live life now. Enjoy every moment. Everyday I wake up, hydrate!, drink my coffee , and light a candle in my room. When it cools off I will do this on the porch. Just came from the pool 3rd day in a row. I am truly blessed . Love from SC.💕😊🏝️
This video really touched me. I’m the same size as you Lauren, and I feel all them bad things about myself. I don’t even like leaving my house because being scared of people judging me, I won’t get my arms out or anything either. And it’s actually really sad. I wish society wasn’t so judgmental because I’d have a better life for sure. I have panic attacks thinking of going out because I’ve been judged all my life. Then I comfort eat. It’s like a bad cycle. Thanks for making this video ♥️🥹
I've watched this through tears about 10 times Lauren and il keep coming back to it because when I'm in a slump it's a reminder of everything negative in my life and you give me a glimpse of the wood through the trees...thankyou ❤
You are bloody FABULOUS! So much of what you spoke about resonated with me. I live with anxiety and never feel good enough. I’m trying so hard to get back on track with my life but it’s so difficult. I don’t know what’s holding me back……Thank you for being you 🥰
You show so much courage, depth and honesty. Thank you so much for wearing your heart on your sleeve. So many people suffer terribly because they are trying to fit in, once you let it go and just don’t care what others think anymore, you are free. We put ourselves in a mental prison and society wants us there cos we buy more etc if we feel like crap . Thank you Lauren, I love your videos, so many you tubers live in their ‘beige’ decor worlds trying to be perfect, finding your videos is a breath of fresh air . You are so beautiful xx
It doesn't matter what size you are, we all have insecurities. It's what we do to deal with those insecurities is what matters. This was an amazingly open and vulnerable video Lauren. Thank you SO much for sharing your journey. 🖤
Hello lovely. What you don't realise is that your beauty is in your infectious laugh. Your gorgeous eyes, great dimples and stunning personality and the clincher is your sense of humour! Keep being you and learning self acceptance and love. You go girl!❤😊
the truth is Lauren, we dont see your size, color, shape. we see your beautiful soul, inside and out. i think you are putting too much focus/energy on it because we the people (lol) are here for YOU!! love from new orleans, la xoxo 💓
A very powerful video Lauren - thank you for sharing all yr thoughts . Recently I have accepted myself more , I am still recovering from Cancer but you know what I’m strong and and I am me and I accept myself for “me” … life is too short and the past 6 months has definitely taught me that much . I’m not 100 % in acceptance but I’m working towards that xx
Your weight does not define you as a person Lauren you are beautiful inside and out. I have followed you for years and I think you are magic, totally wonderful. Thanks for this video maybe the rest of us will learn to speak kindly to ourselves as we do to others. Lots of love xx
This was brilliant👏👏we can’t hide behind clothes anyway, we are just large people protecting others by wearing clothes we are not comfortable in! People are not blind they can see we are larger anyway so girls let’s own it and show the world that us getting our arms, legs etc out is our choice and if they are affected then(two fingers and look away)👌🏻 yessssss celebrate ourselves we are lucky to be here regardless of being a 12 or a 26 so live everyday like it’s our last⭐️
i was meant to watch this video, it was confirmation that what I feel is valid about my body shape and size, now off to right a letter to myself with a a sound bath video I found on youtube 🥰 thanks lauren for being you.
The most honest raw and inspiring video. We are all different shapes and sizes and no matter what your size we all struggle with our own insecurities. But the one common link is we all have a heart that beats, we all have feelings that can be hurt but if we can all be kind to others and more importantly ourselves hopefully we can all be exactly who we are meant to be. Brilliant video and message Lauren ❤❤
I know this is an old video but I’m tearing up hearing your letter to yourself. I am going to do this for myself. There’s so much I need to free myself from ❤️
Dear Lauren, As a person myself whom has in general Been slim Can honestly tell you I donot judge a person by Body size And I am sure others are like myself What speaks to my soul is Kindness truth , beautiful smiles A loving Heart ❤ This is my Truth So happy I found your channel on Utube Please be kind to your own Loving SELF Mary Vancouver 🇨🇦
I really needed to hear this today, Lauren, thank you so much. I think it's also a vicious cycle. Living in fear of enjoying life at any size, leads to hiding yourself away and then that's just a recipe for moving less and eating more. I've been so blind to this after a recent weight gain sesh. I hate society for pushing this guilt and shame onto bigger people, but you have inspired me to give myself permission to be free. Liberating. Love you xx
Hi Lauren just sat watched this video - I am glad you have got of the merry go round and accepted who you are. The world will try to force people to think a certain way about others instead of promoting love of others, we are all human beings. I love your channel as it lifts my spirit and stops me from feeling down about myself ❤
Very true, I have spent my whole life not feeling as I am where I am meant to be or what I am meant to be. Even wearing what we want attracts comments, but we just have to learn to ignore the negative ones as we don’t all have the same taste or style nor do we have to be a sheep or fit in……wear whatever you feel comfortable In, just be you. I have been telling everyone my whole adult life that I am an individual, but I think I have been lying to myself. I haven’t expressed my individuality quite enough to be a true statement. It wasn’t until recently when a friend told me …….’no you’re not’ for me to realise this. So I endeavour to allow myself to be me from this day forward, thanks for the inspiration Lauren, you are amazing 🩷🌸🩷🌸😘😘 love you girl
This is the first time I've commented on a video I believe. I'm 57 and if I look ahead 6 years I'll obviously be 63. That in itself feels unreal as inside I'm still a younger person. Life goes too quickly and everybody says it but when you get older it hits you harder. I've always been overweight. Lauren, I've followed you for years. Something about you resonated with me - I think we were the same height and you were talking about how much you weighed at the time and we weighed the same and even now after many years I believe we probably still weigh the same. As I've gone through menopause I've done what I wanted more and eaten and drunk what I wanted to more. The result is a fat woman BUT as I've aged I've realised that the only person it should matter to is you. And if it doesn't matter to you then so what. I'm learning to be happy with who I am and it's not easy. In the Summer it's particularly not easy. Size shouldn't matter and as you say, it's only society that makes us feel negative about ourselves. Go you! You're a beautiful person inside and out x
Ma'am, dont care so much about society,care about how you feel about yourself. If losing weight would make you more comfortable in your skin why not do it? It might take 2-3years but at 63 you will feel different. The reason I dare to say this to a stranger is getting older is more taxing for women(bone density lowering,hormonal changes).Why not kick it back ? Nobody is pointing a finger at us because of our weight 24/7, its the tape in our head we keep playing. I am a physiotherapy student, the way our body works obligates us to put in more effort to not loose functionality, society s stupid standards aside. I wish you and whoever sees this all the best!
I’ve recently bought clothes because they are the right size not because they are the size I want to be. I’ve bought clothes that show my shape rather than hide it. I get my arms out and wobble them at gigs. It’s liberating and no one actually cares!! Most of all, I’ve stopped caring and letting it stop me. Keep this mindset. Xxxx
haha she's talking to herself mate. like u told us to in this vid. to compliment ourselves here in the comments instead of always writing in the comments: oh Lauren you are so amazing and beautiful and everything. Remember?😁 But guess what Lauren? although amyjava is a great Mother, and I am a bit nice, YOU are still really amazing and beautiful and everything.🥰@@LiveitlikeLauren
You talk so much sense. Often I feel that we are our own worst enemies, constantly criticising ourselves, putting ourselves down, thinking we aren’t good enough. Your positive attitude is an inspiration. ❤
"Dear me, you deserve all the good things that are happening to you, enjoy it instead of worrying about if/when it ends". Lauren, your personal growth is beautiful, thank you for sharing xxx
I am more content now than ive ever been. Recently i said to a friend that if someone had told me 30 years ago that now at 58 years i would feel like this but in order to be as content as i am now i have to go through everything that ive been through, all the highs and lows losing both parents and some friendships in order to be where iam now ..id do it because i think this is the pay off ..we are all going through lifes storms at some time or another but theres always brighter times in there too we just maybe need to look for it. I think its rare that we register when we are happy we look back and say that we WERE happy but rarely do we say we ARE . Ive only recently found you and i think you are one very insightful lady, love watching your videos you make me howl laughing all the time..thank you
Sitting here sobbing at your note to yourself. For myself and what I want for me, but also to have seen your growth and transformation for years. I'm so proud of you Lauren. You don't need any of us to be proud of you, but we're rooting you on regardless. You are 100% magic the way you are RIGHT NOW!!! 🥰 Thank you for sharing your magic with me. You've helped me in so many ways over the years you don't even know. 💕
Omg! Way to make me cry while I was at the gym! This hit home so hard for me. I have been so mean to myself the past few weeks and I really just need to be kinder. Thank you for this video and just for being you. 💕
Thank you for sharing this. I do hide behind my fear as well with my struggle with my size. I remember when I lost a lot of weight I felt like I came alive - no need to wait, letting go of that self limiting belief I’ve had as well. I relate!
You are so right, Lauren. I am 53 but when I turned 40 I decided I was going to eat off the China that I had every day. I was going to drink out of the crystal glasses that I had every day. I also didn’t wait to start planning trips that my husband and I can comfortably go on when it’s a super long or multiple leg flight from California to Europe until we were retired. I am 53 my husband is 58 and we’re already feeling achy and pains so if we don’t do it now I don’t think we’ll have the energy or the funds to do it when we’re 70 or even older, so I make it a priority.😊❤
You are such a beautiful, kind and thoughtful person ❤️ I'm so proud of the steps you've taken in life. It's been scary and frustrating at times but you've persevered and got through for the most incredible outcome.
I would just like to say, first, I love your content and can fully identify with the journey you have been on. I’m 49 and it was in my late 30’s that I decided not to hide myself or my body, buy clothes that fit, that I enjoyed and that suited me. I dumped the joggers, started wearing makeup again, putting lotion on, going for manicures and pedicures again. Basically letting myself be looked after and loved. Don’t wait to be anything else besides what and who you are and to love yourself and pamper yourself, you’re worth it. ❤❤❤
I think when you love yourself truly and profoundly, you will make better choices, get out more & focus on living your life. Agree not to wait for tomorrow, start now.
I was literally pouring my heart out to hubby last night talking about my insecurities and he was so lovely and complimenting me, but we still listen to what’s in our head and that’s what needs to change, we all battling same thoughts. Be kind to ourselves
I don’t even know what to write here. This video has made me giggle and cry. I’ve written notes on your words of wisdom because the spoke to me so clearly. I’m just off to try writing to myself .. 💜
I lived in a bigger body for 25 years, I'm now 54 and even though I lost weight I still feel the same...I realise that my weight wasn't my problem it was a problem for everyone else who had an issue with it. I wish that I had your confidence.
Thats exactly what I tell people. Plus size clothes are really hard to find at an affordable price. Sure you can lose weight to fit into average clothes but until then, we kinda need something to wear in the meantime. Unless complainers wants to see a buncha big boys and girls run around naked, I suggest they stop judging without understanding lol
You really are an amazing person Lauren 💜 I’ve been with you since the beginning and feel like we have gone on this journey together. Learning to love yourself is so so hard but so worth it. I didn’t wear shorts for YEARS because I was self conscious about my stretch marks from weight gain. To not be constantly thinking about losing weight is so mentally freeing. Lucy & Yak is my go-to and the alexa trousers and Charlie shorts are so comfy! To feel the sun on my legs and feel no shame is priceless. Edit: I will be writing myself a letter privately 💜
You most certainly are powerful and magical Lauren ❤ You are such an inspiring and motivational person. Really hope you are doing well! Love from Australia ❤ xx
Omh i watching this now and u brought me to tears. Im a big woman 47 and have battled with my weight for ever. My partner lives me this way. Love watching u dont change its ur personality not ur size. I juat say people are jealous of us
Ciao Lauren. I just wanna thank you so much for this video, listening to it made me feel just so much better and it filled me with lots of self-love. Grazie ❤
Loved this Lauren & you're so right, I'm the worst for keeping stuff for special occasions. It's absolutely crazy. Going to right that letter too. Thankyou girl, you're fab x
Been struggling with my weight and eating disorders for years and felt bad for how I looked. The only way I started to recover and make peace with food and my body was when I began to address my eating disorders and get therapy for them. I also did and still do a lot of self-coaching, I do a lot of reading and podcast/ youtube listening of people that recovered or are in recovery, for example on youtube Sarah the binge eating disorder therapist, Life after Diets podcast and there are many more who recovered. One thing is for sure, no one will recover and love themselves until they address the core reason why they do what they do to their bodies. So, go get therapy with the right person and seek medical help as well if needed.
Thank you for talking about all of this,I’m going to my goddaughters graduation in July n I’m soooo excited about the fact she managed to get me a ticket is amazing. But I’m so stressed over all of it,getting there,finding something formal to wear that will be comfortable n look correct in London,finding the place,being there at correct time,being able to stand n sit for 4+ hours(I’m disabled) ,being able to get water when needed for tablets n OMG so much more. Why do we do it to ourselves,I’m actually thinking of not going!!!!! But why she’s done 7yrs at London veterinary college n I’m so proud of her ❤
DID U GO DIANE?? I so hope u did. I hope u found a comfy bright outfit that looked good, &felt GREAT! I hope u splurged on an uber there (& home) to remove all that traffic stress. I hope u alerted them to your disability prior to the ceremony & a chair was provided for u. i hope u shouldered a big funky bag that fit your tablets & water bottle & phone or camera, to get someone to photograph you cuddling your goddaughter showing your pride in her 7 years hard work! Honest to God you sound like someone she would desperately want to show up! I reckon you would mean the world to her! 💝ps...Please tell your goddaughter that an old vegan hippie lady living in the Australian bush with a tribe of beloved rescue animals is ALSO extremely proud of her 7 years hard work!💜🐶🐕🐕🦺🐩🦊🐎🐴🦄🐴🐎🦚🦘💟
LOVE this talk...NOW IS WHEN...I am so tired of having 3 different sizes in my wardrobe...not anymore!! ! have been downsizing and getting rid of the ones that don't fit....also things in my home, garage etc out of my life....and happiness does come from more kindness to ourselves...100% Love you and so glad you are doing so much better..and also such a freeing feeling to be ourselves, our true selves..!!
Don’t be ashamed either accept it or do something about it, you just about know both sides because you are a (conventionally) attractive person at normal bmi, so you know how people respond to that (the good and bad) and you are now high bmi again and you know how people respond to that, pick an experience and live and accept that life - I guess you kind of have picked a side from what you are saying. In the end what you will regret most is looking back and regretting being sad when you could have just as easily been happy because nothing really awful was happening at the time.
This was such a heartwarming chat. ❤️ Thank you - It hit me hard today but you have got me thinking about my insecurities. Glad to hear you're feeling better. Hx
Facts: I do love listening anything that you are saying, so relevant! And somewhat interesting, I'm like "oh yeah! Me too" most of the time. Kinda addicted to your videos! So Thank you, merci beaucoup, for everything! If I may say it, God bless you! ❤️
Lauren, this video was amazing. Some of what you said really hit home. I admire you for being so brave and being so honest on here. Keep being you coz we all love you x
Dear Kate, 6 years from now all you’ve wanted and needed to come true has. Remind yourself that you are important., you are so valuable , the world needs you to show up as your genuine, creative and beautiful self. Bring your walls down and be vulnerable but also surround yourself with positive people and experiences…you do you ❤️ Thank you Lauren for this very inspiring video, I cried and cried knowing that I and so many others needed to hear your story… and Intern reflect on our own story …much love❤️❤️
Quote: 'You can't hate your way to self-love'. I can't remember who said it but I remember the power of it. I've got hypothyroidism and I put on weight very easily. I have come to a realisation in my life journey....I always feel much better mentally, emotionally and physically when I make the choices that benefit my moods, body and mind. When I eat healthier food i feel better, when i go for a 20 min walk and drinks lots of water and do my crafts i enjoy i feel better. Just cos im 20 kilos heavier than my ideal weight it doesnt mean that i cant be happy. I know what makes me happy in the long term. Ive learned to remember that the junk food comfort feeling only lasts short term but a healthy chicken soup with fresh vegies and some fresh crunchy sourdough bread is satisfying and makes me feel good for much longer and no guilt. A nice walk then a shower helps clear my mind and then i dont feel guilt that i have just sat at my computer all day. Sunshine is great for our immune system. These are all inexpensive ways to live a simple but happier and healthier life. Also reminding myself to be grateful for something each day...even if it's just that im grateful i get to live another day. Life is a gift. I mentioned 'guilt' a lot. I feel guilty when im not doing the right things to look after myself and my health but i dont want guilt to be the motivator for me, i want love for myself to be my motivator. Hoping to get there soon.
❤❤ caroline keep wearing the dresses even the short ones, no one us looking at them anyway. You are enough, you are doing enough amd when this tough time passes you will see just how resiliant and strong yoy were ❤❤
I dont think theres anything wrong with accepting your body whether big or small, but sometimes i feel like fat acceptance is an excuse to not take accountability for your health, i do miss the spark and motivation you had previously it really used to motivate me, your strength and the goals that you were smashing were inspiring but at the same time weight doesnt determine happiness. good nutrition, excersize, cold exposure are really helping me with mental and physical health i highly recommend watching the andrew huberman podcast it is life changing information
I couldn’t agree more!!! I wasn’t brave enough to write an honest comment because it invites so much hate if you disagree with the majority. I absolutely hold fast that EVERYONE deserves respect and kindness no matter what the size. HOWEVER, I also believe that health is the most important thing we own. Belongings, stuff, things we can live without….. but we can’t live without good health. Self care surely is about loving yourself enough to prioritise your health. There is a very real reason why we don’t see morbidly obese elderly people. If we do it’s fair to say that they are in the minority. Our bodies are amazing and can cope our “bad” habits but eventually…… things will catch up. Fatty liver disease kills, type 2 diabetes kills. It kills slowly and miserably. Starts with little things, skin discolouration and skin tags, but before you know it….. those high levels of sugar sloshing around the veins and arteries will rot your vessels, cause peripheral vascular disease, sight loss, heart disease and increases the incidence of cardio vascular disease. I just wish wish wish that Lauren would love herself enough to care for her health. Love herself like we all love her!! ❤
@@jessme2598 no problems here my lovely. I have a healthy BMI and a healthy respect for people of all sizes. If wanting someone to love themselves enough not to k*ll themselves slowly by eating themselves to death then….. I hold my hands up, guilty as charged!! I actually think the world of Lauren, she is an amazing human being, who deserves love and respect…… both of which she gets from me in spades. So….. Jess, as you can see….. no problem here. YOU need to re read the comment I left before you type disparaging remarks based on nothing but assumption!! Have a lovely day Jess! Lotsa love 💕
Hi Lauren. That was such an honest, inspirational, and brave video to make. Showing your insecurities to the world, expressing what almost every human being feels but pretends otherwise. You are so right, society from such a young age dictates who we should be, the success we should achieve by a certain age and if we don't reach societal standards we are made to feel as though we've failed. When people ask if we're ok and we automatically say "ye, I'm fine" even when truthfully we may be feeling terrible, again society telling us that we must say "yes, I'm fine" So, well done for being so open and honest. The sadest thing is we judge ourselves far more harshly than those who love us ever do. Have a great day, and enjoy the sunshine 😊
First off, I love your hair that length, and that dress is *chef's kiss*! I love this idea of addressing our future/past selves. Nobody else can give us that perspective and support. It's so invaluable. I often, in a joking way, will say out loud "I'm loving my future self" when I do little things like put my shoes away, or do the dishes before bed, or get gas in the car before it gets too low and becomes urgent. I then can thank my "past self" for the love and it becomes a perpetuating cycle of self-love.....it's the little things! Lastly, I heard recently from a relatively "rich" man that he doesn't believe in "success", only fulfillment. Chasing what's deemed "success" is so different than our feeling of fulfillment....which I believe is true happiness. I know I was supposed to write a letter to myself, and I will, but I can't help but comment on your videos...❤
Lauren - I am watching this right now and honestly it’s really upset me - you are beautiful! You have a gorg personality BUT you really best yourself up - you know I don’t think we will ever be happy with our bodies - u can remember many many years ago I went to WW weighing just under 9 st thinking I was overweight and yes they took my money - looking back I think how ridiculous was I ! We have one life and one life only - set yourself free and be YOU - I don’t judge anyone by the way they look and tbh I think we all think people are staring at us no matter what size we are So whether we are a size 10 or 26 we will always find an excuse to criticise ourselves Deep breath gorg and go and kick butt in this world ❤❤❤❤
I am beautiful, brave and kind. I am worthy of happiness now. My value, worth and happiness are not based on my weight or pants size. The time to fully love myself is now right here in this moment. ❤your prayer is my prayer too! 🙏🏻
That was so emotional. I've never fitted in. Still don't. Stuck in this shit body. I love listening to you, I feel almost normal. You are so pretty Lauren and you have the biggest heart. Thank you for being honest and open. ❤❤❤
Thank you! Where we’re you 20 years ago. But luckily it’s better late than never. I’m wearing that leopard skirt that I bought for a special occasion on a solo date tomorrow. 😊❤
This was amazing and so from the heart, im in such a very bad place i really am, i tried writing this letter and i just cant do it 🥹🥹🥹.. i will keep watching this over and over until i can . Have you thought of doing a counselling course?(seriously!!!!!!!!) xxxxx i hope il be where you are before its too late, ive become so frightened of life 🥹xxxxx
Thank you for posting this. Weight is not my Main struggle but I still feel this to the core. I deserve to be happy! Even if I am shameful of parts of my life. (Even though I shouldn’t be 🤯)
I can't even imagine my dreams coming true anymore. I have a chronic illness and have lost so much that is normal to others. Pushing 40 my dreams are being able to work, travel, having a partner and a child. Thinking about all these things coming true makes me scared to get even more disappointed if it won't. I feel so hopeless and negative about these things, but then it's also unrealistic to assume they are all accessible to me :/ I used to be very optimistic but sometimes things just don't go as planned... I tried to do the exercise but I got stuck in that first step. (Maybe I should try to do it, as if I was totally happy with my life in 6 years, despite my now-dreams not coming true)
❤ I put that heart emoji half way thru watching because I was loving what you were saying...Now watching the end of the vlog you've just said about posting a heart emoji.. The original heart was just for you, but I'll end with one for myself too, cos hey we all deserve it.. ❤
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A ❤ for everyone who has ever felt they don’t fit in this world. I told my mum I feel like this, she said ‘you do fit, you just haven’t found your place’. She’s right. My whole life I’ve tried to fit where I don’t belong and it’s made me miserable in my own skin. We all belong, and it’s our differences that make us who we are. Stop trying to fit in a societal mould. Be unapologetically yourself. 😘
That it totally me....'not finding my place yet'.
I'm turning 62 tomorrow, and I have lived in a larger sized body all of my life. I don't know anything different. Be who you were always meant to be, and the right people will show up. I still struggle with acceptance, and the message to myself is that no matter how much you fight yourself, love will always win. It's a matter of how fast you want to see the victory. Stop fighting for something that has already won. In the end, flesh doesn’t matter.❤
Lauren I just love your videos. “Growing old is a privilege”. So very true.
I moved away from an abusive marriage after 25 years and 3 beautiful sons.
From IN to SC and have never looked back.
I lost my dad to colon cancer when he was only 64 and I am now 61.
No regrets. Live life now. Enjoy every moment.
Everyday I wake up, hydrate!, drink my coffee , and light a candle in my room.
When it cools off I will do this on the porch.
Just came from the pool 3rd day in a row.
I am truly blessed .
Love from SC.💕😊🏝️
This is just so so so wonderful. Thank you for sharing ❤️ we are so blessed x
This video really touched me. I’m the same size as you Lauren, and I feel all them bad things about myself. I don’t even like leaving my house because being scared of people judging me, I won’t get my arms out or anything either. And it’s actually really sad. I wish society wasn’t so judgmental because I’d have a better life for sure. I have panic attacks thinking of going out because I’ve been judged all my life. Then I comfort eat. It’s like a bad cycle. Thanks for making this video ♥️🥹
I've watched this through tears about 10 times Lauren and il keep coming back to it because when I'm in a slump it's a reminder of everything negative in my life and you give me a glimpse of the wood through the trees...thankyou ❤
Wow, thank you! You are so welcome xxxx
You are bloody FABULOUS! So much of what you spoke about resonated with me. I live with anxiety and never feel good enough. I’m trying so hard to get back on track with my life but it’s so difficult. I don’t know what’s holding me back……Thank you for being you 🥰
You show so much courage, depth and honesty. Thank you so much for wearing your heart on your sleeve. So many people suffer terribly because they are trying to fit in, once you let it go and just don’t care what others think anymore, you are free. We put ourselves in a mental prison and society wants us there cos we buy more etc if we feel like crap . Thank you Lauren, I love your videos, so many you tubers live in their ‘beige’ decor worlds trying to be perfect, finding your videos is a breath of fresh air . You are so beautiful xx
This took courage to share. Thank you! Very profound message and leaves a lasting impression. You are magic!
Wow, thank you!
Always in your corner, Lauren!!
Thank you so much Mary x
It doesn't matter what size you are, we all have insecurities. It's what we do to deal with those insecurities is what matters. This was an amazingly open and vulnerable video Lauren. Thank you SO much for sharing your journey. 🖤
Hello lovely. What you don't realise is that your beauty is in your infectious laugh. Your gorgeous eyes, great dimples and stunning personality and the clincher is your sense of humour! Keep being you and learning self acceptance and love. You go girl!❤😊
the truth is Lauren, we dont see your size, color, shape. we see your beautiful soul, inside and out. i think you are putting too much focus/energy on it because we the people (lol) are here for YOU!! love from new orleans, la xoxo 💓
I love you. Thank you x
A very powerful video Lauren - thank you for sharing all yr thoughts . Recently I have accepted myself more , I am still recovering from Cancer but you know what I’m strong and and I am me and I accept myself for “me” … life is too short and the past 6 months has definitely taught me that much . I’m not 100 % in acceptance but I’m working towards that xx
Your weight does not define you as a person Lauren you are beautiful inside and out. I have followed you for years and I think you are magic, totally wonderful. Thanks for this video maybe the rest of us will learn to speak kindly to ourselves as we do to others. Lots of love xx
This was brilliant👏👏we can’t hide behind clothes anyway, we are just large people protecting others by wearing clothes we are not comfortable in! People are not blind they can see we are larger anyway so girls let’s own it and show the world that us getting our arms, legs etc out is our choice and if they are affected then(two fingers and look away)👌🏻 yessssss celebrate ourselves we are lucky to be here regardless of being a 12 or a 26 so live everyday like it’s our last⭐️
i was meant to watch this video, it was confirmation that what I feel is valid about my body shape and size, now off to right a letter to myself with a a sound bath video I found on youtube 🥰 thanks lauren for being you.
The most honest raw and inspiring video. We are all different shapes and sizes and no matter what your size we all struggle with our own insecurities. But the one common link is we all have a heart that beats, we all have feelings that can be hurt but if we can all be kind to others and more importantly ourselves hopefully we can all be exactly who we are meant to be. Brilliant video and message Lauren ❤❤
I know this is an old video but I’m tearing up hearing your letter to yourself. I am going to do this for myself. There’s so much I need to free myself from ❤️
Dear Lauren,
As a person myself whom has in general
Been slim
Can honestly tell you
I donot judge a person by Body size
And I am sure others are like myself
What speaks to my soul is Kindness
truth , beautiful smiles
A loving Heart ❤
This is my Truth
So happy I found your channel on Utube
Please be kind to your own Loving SELF
Mary Vancouver 🇨🇦
I really needed to hear this today, Lauren, thank you so much. I think it's also a vicious cycle. Living in fear of enjoying life at any size, leads to hiding yourself away and then that's just a recipe for moving less and eating more. I've been so blind to this after a recent weight gain sesh. I hate society for pushing this guilt and shame onto bigger people, but you have inspired me to give myself permission to be free. Liberating. Love you xx
You would be a great motivational speaker! Love all your videos!
Hi Lauren just sat watched this video - I am glad you have got of the merry go round and accepted who you are. The world will try to force people to think a certain way about others instead of promoting love of others, we are all human beings.
I love your channel as it lifts my spirit and stops me from feeling down about myself ❤
I really needed to hear your words tonight. Thank you for being you❤
You are so welcome 🤗
Very true, I have spent my whole life not feeling as I am where I am meant to be or what I am meant to be. Even wearing what we want attracts comments, but we just have to learn to ignore the negative ones as we don’t all have the same taste or style nor do we have to be a sheep or fit in……wear whatever you feel comfortable In, just be you.
I have been telling everyone my whole adult life that I am an individual, but I think I have been lying to myself. I haven’t expressed my individuality quite enough to be a true statement. It wasn’t until recently when a friend told me …….’no you’re not’ for me to realise this. So I endeavour to allow myself to be me from this day forward, thanks for the inspiration Lauren, you are amazing 🩷🌸🩷🌸😘😘 love you girl
This is the first time I've commented on a video I believe. I'm 57 and if I look ahead 6 years I'll obviously be 63. That in itself feels unreal as inside I'm still a younger person. Life goes too quickly and everybody says it but when you get older it hits you harder. I've always been overweight. Lauren, I've followed you for years. Something about you resonated with me - I think we were the same height and you were talking about how much you weighed at the time and we weighed the same and even now after many years I believe we probably still weigh the same. As I've gone through menopause I've done what I wanted more and eaten and drunk what I wanted to more. The result is a fat woman BUT as I've aged I've realised that the only person it should matter to is you. And if it doesn't matter to you then so what. I'm learning to be happy with who I am and it's not easy. In the Summer it's particularly not easy. Size shouldn't matter and as you say, it's only society that makes us feel negative about ourselves. Go you! You're a beautiful person inside and out x
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so proud of you ❤️
Ma'am, dont care so much about society,care about how you feel about yourself. If losing weight would make you more comfortable in your skin why not do it? It might take 2-3years but at 63 you will feel different. The reason I dare to say this to a stranger is getting older is more taxing for women(bone density lowering,hormonal changes).Why not kick it back ? Nobody is pointing a finger at us because of our weight 24/7, its the tape in our head we keep playing. I am a physiotherapy student, the way our body works obligates us to put in more effort to not loose functionality, society s stupid standards aside. I wish you and whoever sees this all the best!
I needed to hear so much of this,I have been trying over a few years to change my mindset. I wish teenage me could have watched things like this.
I wish I had realised it all so much sooner x
oh god yes. I believe I would have been a different person with an altogether different (and better!) life.
Your weight doesn’t determine your worth you are loved you are worthy you are an amazing capable women who is beautiful
I’ve recently bought clothes because they are the right size not because they are the size I want to be. I’ve bought clothes that show my shape rather than hide it. I get my arms out and wobble them at gigs. It’s liberating and no one actually cares!! Most of all, I’ve stopped caring and letting it stop me. Keep this mindset. Xxxx
Dr. Seuss: Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind ❤
Thing is Lauren..you are hugely loved and admired!
I'm so proud of you for overcoming your struggles and being a great mother ❤
To my plants?
haha she's talking to herself mate. like u told us to in this vid.
to compliment ourselves here in the comments instead of always writing in the comments: oh Lauren you are so amazing and beautiful and everything. Remember?😁
But guess what Lauren? although amyjava is a great Mother, and I am a bit nice, YOU are still really amazing and beautiful and everything.🥰@@LiveitlikeLauren
I’ve just discovered your channel an have binge watched you for the last week!!! Love your videos an think your so real an relatable ❤
Thank you so much Kirsti!! Welcome my friend x
I did the same thing! Too addictive!
I loved this "same day vlog" upload. Felt like I was actually chilling with you on my sunday evening. ❤
I'm so glad! ❤️
You talk so much sense. Often I feel that we are our own worst enemies, constantly criticising ourselves, putting ourselves down, thinking we aren’t good enough. Your positive attitude is an inspiration. ❤
You are worth every struggle and deserve every reward
I needed this. Thank you. So glad you’ve had a such a needed and beautiful and truthful breakthrough.
You are welcome. Thank you for watching!
"Dear me, you deserve all the good things that are happening to you, enjoy it instead of worrying about if/when it ends". Lauren, your personal growth is beautiful, thank you for sharing xxx
I am more content now than ive ever been. Recently i said to a friend that if someone had told me 30 years ago that now at 58 years i would feel like this but in order to be as content as i am now i have to go through everything that ive been through, all the highs and lows losing both parents and some friendships in order to be where iam now ..id do it because i think this is the pay off ..we are all going through lifes storms at some time or another but theres always brighter times in there too we just maybe need to look for it. I think its rare that we register when we are happy we look back and say that we WERE happy but rarely do we say we ARE . Ive only recently found you and i think you are one very insightful lady, love watching your videos you make me howl laughing all the time..thank you
Sitting here sobbing at your note to yourself. For myself and what I want for me, but also to have seen your growth and transformation for years. I'm so proud of you Lauren. You don't need any of us to be proud of you, but we're rooting you on regardless. You are 100% magic the way you are RIGHT NOW!!! 🥰 Thank you for sharing your magic with me. You've helped me in so many ways over the years you don't even know. 💕
Thank you so much Molly xxx
Omg! Way to make me cry while I was at the gym! This hit home so hard for me. I have been so mean to myself the past few weeks and I really just need to be kinder. Thank you for this video and just for being you. 💕
You are so welcome! Thank you Nadia. Sending you a huge cuddle x
Thank you for sharing this. I do hide behind my fear as well with my struggle with my size. I remember when I lost a lot of weight I felt like I came alive - no need to wait, letting go of that self limiting belief I’ve had as well. I relate!
You are so right, Lauren. I am 53 but when I turned 40 I decided I was going to eat off the China that I had every day. I was going to drink out of the crystal glasses that I had every day. I also didn’t wait to start planning trips that my husband and I can comfortably go on when it’s a super long or multiple leg flight from California to Europe until we were retired. I am 53 my husband is 58 and we’re already feeling achy and pains so if we don’t do it now I don’t think we’ll have the energy or the funds to do it when we’re 70 or even older, so I make it a priority.😊❤
You are such a beautiful, kind and thoughtful person ❤️ I'm so proud of the steps you've taken in life. It's been scary and frustrating at times but you've persevered and got through for the most incredible outcome.
Thank you so so so much xx
I would just like to say, first, I love your content and can fully identify with the journey you have been on. I’m 49 and it was in my late 30’s that I decided not to hide myself or my body, buy clothes that fit, that I enjoyed and that suited me. I dumped the joggers, started wearing makeup again, putting lotion on, going for manicures and pedicures again. Basically letting myself be looked after and loved. Don’t wait to be anything else besides what and who you are and to love yourself and pamper yourself, you’re worth it.
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I think when you love yourself truly and profoundly, you will make better choices, get out more & focus on living your life. Agree not to wait for tomorrow, start now.
Thank you so so much xxx
Im so glad ur channel was recommended to me a few days ago. i love ur videos
Welcome! I’m so glad to have you here x
Welcome!! I’m so glad you are here x
Poorly in bed with covid and feeling isolated...your video's are so comforting because their real...thank you for sharing your life with us. X
Oh no!! I am so sorry to hear that you aren't well! Sending you lots of healing vibes x
Newbie here! Hello Lauren, thank YOU for this XXX
I was literally pouring my heart out to hubby last night talking about my insecurities and he was so lovely and complimenting me, but we still listen to what’s in our head and that’s what needs to change, we all battling same thoughts. Be kind to ourselves
I don’t even know what to write here. This video has made me giggle and cry. I’ve written notes on your words of wisdom because the spoke to me so clearly. I’m just off to try writing to myself .. 💜
So glad I found you channel. You are such a breath of freshness 💫
Thank you so much!! Welcome to the channel x
Literally like therapy to me. Thank you
We love you Lauren. Just know that you are more than enough. Love future Lauren's letter. I really need to do one to myself when I get 5 mins ❤.
Pencil it in Angie xx
I lived in a bigger body for 25 years, I'm now 54 and even though I lost weight I still feel the same...I realise that my weight wasn't my problem it was a problem for everyone else who had an issue with it. I wish that I had your confidence.
Don’t feel bad about Shein, it allows larger people to dabble in current fashion in an affordable way. Love to you, you deserve to be happy.❤
Thats exactly what I tell people. Plus size clothes are really hard to find at an affordable price.
Sure you can lose weight to fit into average clothes but until then, we kinda need something to wear in the meantime.
Unless complainers wants to see a buncha big boys and girls run around naked, I suggest they stop judging without understanding lol
All I can say right now, is thank you for this video ❤
You really are an amazing person Lauren 💜 I’ve been with you since the beginning and feel like we have gone on this journey together. Learning to love yourself is so so hard but so worth it. I didn’t wear shorts for YEARS because I was self conscious about my stretch marks from weight gain. To not be constantly thinking about losing weight is so mentally freeing. Lucy & Yak is my go-to and the alexa trousers and Charlie shorts are so comfy! To feel the sun on my legs and feel no shame is priceless.
Edit: I will be writing myself a letter privately 💜
You most certainly are powerful and magical Lauren ❤ You are such an inspiring and motivational person. Really hope you are doing well! Love from Australia ❤ xx
Omh i watching this now and u brought me to tears. Im a big woman 47 and have battled with my weight for ever. My partner lives me this way. Love watching u dont change its ur personality not ur size. I juat say people are jealous of us
Ciao Lauren. I just wanna thank you so much for this video, listening to it made me feel just so much better and it filled me with lots of self-love. Grazie ❤
Loved this Lauren & you're so right, I'm the worst for keeping stuff for special occasions. It's absolutely crazy. Going to right that letter too. Thankyou girl, you're fab x
Lauren
Been struggling with my weight and eating disorders for years and felt bad for how I looked. The only way I started to recover and make peace with food and my body was when I began to address my eating disorders and get therapy for them. I also did and still do a lot of self-coaching, I do a lot of reading and podcast/ youtube listening of people that recovered or are in recovery, for example on youtube Sarah the binge eating disorder therapist, Life after Diets podcast and there are many more who recovered. One thing is for sure, no one will recover and love themselves until they address the core reason why they do what they do to their bodies. So, go get therapy with the right person and seek medical help as well if needed.
Thank you for talking about all of this,I’m going to my goddaughters graduation in July n I’m soooo excited about the fact she managed to get me a ticket is amazing. But I’m so stressed over all of it,getting there,finding something formal to wear that will be comfortable n look correct in London,finding the place,being there at correct time,being able to stand n sit for 4+ hours(I’m disabled) ,being able to get water when needed for tablets n OMG so much more. Why do we do it to ourselves,I’m actually thinking of not going!!!!! But why she’s done 7yrs at London veterinary college n I’m so proud of her ❤
DID U GO DIANE??
I so hope u did. I hope u found a comfy bright outfit that looked good, &felt GREAT! I hope u splurged on an uber there (& home) to remove all that traffic stress. I hope u alerted them to your disability prior to the ceremony & a chair was provided for u. i hope u shouldered a big funky bag that fit your tablets & water bottle & phone or camera, to get someone to photograph you cuddling your goddaughter showing your pride in her 7 years hard work! Honest to God you sound like someone she would desperately want to show up! I reckon you would mean the world to her! 💝ps...Please tell your goddaughter that an old vegan hippie lady living in the Australian bush with a tribe of beloved rescue animals is ALSO extremely proud of her 7 years hard work!💜🐶🐕🐕🦺🐩🦊🐎🐴🦄🐴🐎🦚🦘💟
Your Brilliant Lauren, and beautiful. This was a powerful video. Thank you.❤
Thank you so much! ☺️
LOVE this talk...NOW IS WHEN...I am so tired of having 3 different sizes in my wardrobe...not anymore!! ! have been downsizing and getting rid of the ones that don't fit....also things in my home, garage etc out of my life....and happiness does come from more kindness to ourselves...100% Love you and so glad you are doing so much better..and also such a freeing feeling to be ourselves, our true selves..!!
I love your videos Lauren. YOU are magic ❤
Thank you so much 🪄
Don’t be ashamed either accept it or do something about it, you just about know both sides because you are a (conventionally) attractive person at normal bmi, so you know how people respond to that (the good and bad) and you are now high bmi again and you know how people respond to that, pick an experience and live and accept that life - I guess you kind of have picked a side from what you are saying. In the end what you will regret most is looking back and regretting being sad when you could have just as easily been happy because nothing really awful was happening at the time.
I think you missed the point a little
This was such a heartwarming chat. ❤️ Thank you - It hit me hard today but you have got me thinking about my insecurities. Glad to hear you're feeling better. Hx
Heart emoji ❤ (Late to watch this, but it had such as astronomical impact on me - and clearly on all of us who adore you, too🥰) cx
All the hearts for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@LiveitlikeLauren Lauren! You have made my whole day, beautiful girly🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️
This year I have chosen to come out of my comfort zones with regards to how I dress and its boosted my self confidence.❤
Facts: I do love listening anything that you are saying, so relevant! And somewhat interesting, I'm like "oh yeah! Me too" most of the time. Kinda addicted to your videos! So Thank you, merci beaucoup, for everything! If I may say it, God bless you! ❤️
Lauren, this video was amazing. Some of what you said really hit home. I admire you for being so brave and being so honest on here. Keep being you coz we all love you x
Dear Kate, 6 years from now all you’ve wanted and needed to come true has. Remind yourself that you are important., you are so valuable , the world needs you to show up as your genuine, creative and beautiful self. Bring your walls down and be vulnerable but also surround yourself with positive people and experiences…you do you ❤️ Thank you Lauren for this very inspiring video, I cried and cried knowing that I and so many others needed to hear your story… and Intern reflect on our own story …much love❤️❤️
Wow I have tears in my eyes! Thank you so much x
Quote: 'You can't hate your way to self-love'.
I can't remember who said it but I remember the power of it. I've got hypothyroidism and I put on weight very easily.
I have come to a realisation in my life journey....I always feel much better mentally, emotionally and physically when I make the choices that benefit my moods, body and mind. When I eat healthier food i feel better, when i go for a 20 min walk and drinks lots of water and do my crafts i enjoy i feel better. Just cos im 20 kilos heavier than my ideal weight it doesnt mean that i cant be happy. I know what makes me happy in the long term.
Ive learned to remember that the junk food comfort feeling only lasts short term but a healthy chicken soup with fresh vegies and some fresh crunchy sourdough bread is satisfying and makes me feel good for much longer and no guilt. A nice walk then a shower helps clear my mind and then i dont feel guilt that i have just sat at my computer all day. Sunshine is great for our immune system. These are all inexpensive ways to live a simple but happier and healthier life. Also reminding myself to be grateful for something each day...even if it's just that im grateful i get to live another day. Life is a gift.
I mentioned 'guilt' a lot. I feel guilty when im not doing the right things to look after myself and my health but i dont want guilt to be the motivator for me, i want love for myself to be my motivator. Hoping to get there soon.
❤❤ caroline keep wearing the dresses even the short ones, no one us looking at them anyway. You are enough, you are doing enough amd when this tough time passes you will see just how resiliant and strong yoy were ❤❤
Yessss Caroline ❤️ Keep wearing those gorgeous dresses!
Thank you for the reminder about how important clothes can be ❤
You are beautiful inside and out, so allow yourself to be real, as I feel your videos have always been 🩷🌸
Thank you my friend x
❤ I followed your ask and wrote myself a letter. You are beautiful inside and out. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.
I dont think theres anything wrong with accepting your body whether big or small, but sometimes i feel like fat acceptance is an excuse to not take accountability for your health, i do miss the spark and motivation you had previously it really used to motivate me, your strength and the goals that you were smashing were inspiring but at the same time weight doesnt determine happiness. good nutrition, excersize, cold exposure are really helping me with mental and physical health i highly recommend watching the andrew huberman podcast it is life changing information
I couldn’t agree more!!! I wasn’t brave enough to write an honest comment because it invites so much hate if you disagree with the majority. I absolutely hold fast that EVERYONE deserves respect and kindness no matter what the size. HOWEVER, I also believe that health is the most important thing we own. Belongings, stuff, things we can live without….. but we can’t live without good health. Self care surely is about loving yourself enough to prioritise your health. There is a very real reason why we don’t see morbidly obese elderly people. If we do it’s fair to say that they are in the minority. Our bodies are amazing and can cope our “bad” habits but eventually…… things will catch up. Fatty liver disease kills, type 2 diabetes kills. It kills slowly and miserably. Starts with little things, skin discolouration and skin tags, but before you know it….. those high levels of sugar sloshing around the veins and arteries will rot your vessels, cause peripheral vascular disease, sight loss, heart disease and increases the incidence of cardio vascular disease. I just wish wish wish that Lauren would love herself enough to care for her health. Love herself like we all love her!! ❤
Did you even watch this? Has nothing to do with fat acceptance really 🙄
@@jessme2598 I most certainly did!! From start to finish and my opinion remains unchanged!
@@1971gladyssounds like a you problem.
@@jessme2598 no problems here my lovely. I have a healthy BMI and a healthy respect for people of all sizes. If wanting someone to love themselves enough not to k*ll themselves slowly by eating themselves to death then….. I hold my hands up, guilty as charged!! I actually think the world of Lauren, she is an amazing human being, who deserves love and respect…… both of which she gets from me in spades. So….. Jess, as you can see….. no problem here. YOU need to re read the comment I left before you type disparaging remarks based on nothing but assumption!! Have a lovely day Jess! Lotsa love 💕
Hi Lauren.
That was such an honest, inspirational, and brave video to make. Showing your insecurities to the world, expressing what almost every human being feels but pretends otherwise. You are so right, society from such a young age dictates who we should be, the success we should achieve by a certain age and if we don't reach societal standards we are made to feel as though we've failed. When people ask if we're ok and we automatically say "ye, I'm fine" even when truthfully we may be feeling terrible, again society telling us that we must say "yes, I'm fine" So, well done for being so open and honest. The sadest thing is we judge ourselves far more harshly than those who love us ever do.
Have a great day, and enjoy the sunshine 😊
First off, I love your hair that length, and that dress is *chef's kiss*!
I love this idea of addressing our future/past selves. Nobody else can give us that perspective and support. It's so invaluable.
I often, in a joking way, will say out loud "I'm loving my future self" when I do little things like put my shoes away, or do the dishes before bed, or get gas in the car before it gets too low and becomes urgent. I then can thank my "past self" for the love and it becomes a perpetuating cycle of self-love.....it's the little things!
Lastly, I heard recently from a relatively "rich" man that he doesn't believe in "success", only fulfillment. Chasing what's deemed "success" is so different than our feeling of fulfillment....which I believe is true happiness.
I know I was supposed to write a letter to myself, and I will, but I can't help but comment on your videos...❤
Lauren - I am watching this right now and honestly it’s really upset me - you are beautiful! You have a gorg personality BUT you really best yourself up - you know I don’t think we will ever be happy with our bodies - u can remember many many years ago I went to WW weighing just under 9 st thinking I was overweight and yes they took my money - looking back I think how ridiculous was I !
We have one life and one life only - set yourself free and be YOU - I don’t judge anyone by the way they look and tbh I think we all think people are staring at us no matter what size we are
So whether we are a size 10 or 26 we will always find an excuse to criticise ourselves
Deep breath gorg and go and kick butt in this world ❤❤❤❤
I am beautiful, brave and kind. I am worthy of happiness now. My value, worth and happiness are not based on my weight or pants size. The time to fully love myself is now right here in this moment. ❤your prayer is my prayer too! 🙏🏻
That was so emotional. I've never fitted in. Still don't. Stuck in this shit body. I love listening to you, I feel almost normal. You are so pretty Lauren and you have the biggest heart. Thank you for being honest and open. ❤❤❤
Thank you! Where we’re you 20 years ago. But luckily it’s better late than never. I’m wearing that leopard skirt that I bought for a special occasion on a solo date tomorrow. 😊❤
Yesssss amazing! I hope it is excellent! Send me an update on INSTA XX
Sooooo happy to see your video Lauren. ❤❤❤
Everything you’ve said today is so true and I really need to have a chat with myself. Thank you, you are inspiring and beautiful. X❤
Love your vlogs Lauren ,keep them coming much love xx❤
This was amazing and so from the heart, im in such a very bad place i really am, i tried writing this letter and i just cant do it 🥹🥹🥹.. i will keep watching this over and over until i can . Have you thought of doing a counselling course?(seriously!!!!!!!!) xxxxx i hope il be where you are before its too late, ive become so frightened of life 🥹xxxxx
I was thinking of you when I was talking xxx Start small xx can you contact the doctors for some counselling? You can get some on the NHS x
@@LiveitlikeLauren i finally get my first mental health call this week, then they prioritise for help 😫xxx
My body is my body, and that is enough❤
The quote that comes to mind after seeing this is: “You is kind. You is smart. You is important” by Viola Davis ❤❤
I didn’t know I needed this. But I did. Thank you. You’ve really made me feel lighter in my soul ❤
This means so much! Thank you x
Thank you for posting this. Weight is not my Main struggle but I still feel this to the core. I deserve to be happy! Even if I am shameful of parts of my life. (Even though I shouldn’t be 🤯)
I can't even imagine my dreams coming true anymore. I have a chronic illness and have lost so much that is normal to others. Pushing 40 my dreams are being able to work, travel, having a partner and a child. Thinking about all these things coming true makes me scared to get even more disappointed if it won't. I feel so hopeless and negative about these things, but then it's also unrealistic to assume they are all accessible to me :/ I used to be very optimistic but sometimes things just don't go as planned... I tried to do the exercise but I got stuck in that first step. (Maybe I should try to do it, as if I was totally happy with my life in 6 years, despite my now-dreams not coming true)
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I put that heart emoji half way thru watching because I was loving what you were saying...Now watching the end of the vlog you've just said about posting a heart emoji.. The original heart was just for you, but I'll end with one for myself too, cos hey we all deserve it.. ❤
Thank you very much, Lauren, for this video. You are a very good person. I love your video. Please don't cry 🩷🩷🩷.
Hi Lauren, sending you lots of love💕
I have never felt like I fit in I always feel different and it’s so hard and I desperately want to find my place, love your vlogs Lauren ❤️