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  • @silvia135
    @silvia135 2 года назад +1665

    "conflict is normal, resolve conflict is healthy" SO TRUE

    • @kelzirbel
      @kelzirbel 2 года назад +5

      Love this omg

    • @sandrazakaria7690
      @sandrazakaria7690 2 года назад +5

      yeah that is so well said

    • @badtiming6664
      @badtiming6664 2 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @silvia135
      @silvia135 2 года назад +1

      I love our community! Have a nice day guys

    • @alid0228
      @alid0228 2 года назад

      Part two please 💕

  • @thouriamoussaoui
    @thouriamoussaoui 2 года назад +616

    We want a part 2,3 and 4. As a matter of fact... just do a 2 hour long video like this lol

  • @abbvocado7579
    @abbvocado7579 2 года назад +58

    I’m SOOOOO with Gabe when he said “I’m a sucker for being able to work things out without fighting” you can argue or debate but there’s no reason to be screaming or yelling or get all excited. Talking it out with proper communication is KEY.

  • @sharonhughesjohnson119
    @sharonhughesjohnson119 2 года назад +303

    My husband has several female friends, a few of them stood on his side at our wedding. I always feel invited to hang out with them but don’t always want to lol and don’t mind at all if they’re hanging out together on their own. It’s more about how the friendship makes you feel, not strict unchanging rules.

    • @serah6465
      @serah6465 2 года назад +39

      i agree , every relationship has differences but its all about intention. if the intention is to hang out with a friend then thats all it is .

    • @slayer-dj3dc
      @slayer-dj3dc 2 года назад +9

      their lowk immature

    • @nayelli1764
      @nayelli1764 2 года назад

      @@slayer-dj3dc nah not everyone has good strong opposite gender friends so they’re not worth hanging out with cause since you’re not even good genuine friends then it’s risky cause you don’t know the other person’s intentions.

    • @raschellakimberly8155
      @raschellakimberly8155 2 года назад +15

      I agree! I adore his female friends and they always include me in everything but I don't really like to get in the way too much they were friends before me so I like to give them their time to catch up sometimes. Friends really can make or break relationships. If I wouldn't trust him with my or his female friends alone together than we shouldn't be together period. Vice versa too.

    • @KrislonR
      @KrislonR 2 года назад +10

      I agree. Plus, this opposite sex mentality only works for straight couples. Lots of LGBTQ couples have friends of the same and opposite sex. Friends are important and shouldn't be dictated by a relationship.

  • @NatalynSchlabach0215
    @NatalynSchlabach0215 2 года назад +587

    Please do a part two! Y’all are so wise and I feel like I’m hanging out with older siblings!

  • @Alison6783
    @Alison6783 2 года назад +73

    I DEMAND a “asking Jess out” video now. Full 9 yards - high school awkward - ask her out. It would be adorable lol!

  • @iamspeed6906
    @iamspeed6906 2 года назад +170

    Idk if its just me but watching you guys now, with Jess pregnant and Gabe looking a little older, somehow makes me feel so nostalgic. Wow, we really came all this way huh 🥲

  • @jesszevs8478
    @jesszevs8478 2 года назад +28

    With the opposite sex one, I feel like the friend has to be a friend of the relationship instead of just the one half of the couple. The friend has to know both people in the couple so that both people in the couple are comfortable with them and trust them

  • @andreaaloisi1138
    @andreaaloisi1138 2 года назад +257

    Part 2 for sure. You guys flow so well together in conversation its almost melodic

  • @formertheatrekid640
    @formertheatrekid640 2 года назад +154

    My fiancé and I were in the exact situation you were talking about, we were too awkward and quiet in high school and we were more like friends, then after we graduated we started dating again and it felt right. Right person, wrong time is a thing

  • @khushah8255
    @khushah8255 2 года назад +452

    This was so good! I love hearing both of your opinions, you guys are so mature and so genuine! I would definitely love a part 2 and a part 3 of this, it was so good to watch and hear!!

  • @styledbysands
    @styledbysands 2 года назад +128

    “It’s biblical, you’re not awake in love until it’s proper time” changes my perspective thank you!
    I would love a video of you guys goin go to the concept of him never “asking you to be his gf” !! Especially in this day and age that’s my main issues I get scared that the person I’m with is not invested bc they are sooooo sis against titles and I don’t understand it.

    • @isabellaashlee9244
      @isabellaashlee9244 2 года назад +4

      that quote really resonated with me too!

    • @camiellebrucal2068
      @camiellebrucal2068 2 года назад +11

      Song of Solomon 8:4 "Do not arouse or awaken love until the time is right."

    • @nia5128
      @nia5128 2 года назад

      The Lord showed me this scripture too. He speaks to the daughters.

  • @ingrid5973
    @ingrid5973 2 года назад +105

    i love when you guys do "talk" videos, im surprised jess talked a lot in this video (usually gabe talks more) and i loved it! you're both so wise and have great relationship advice! definitely do a part 2 please

  • @rinat2214
    @rinat2214 2 года назад +61

    I made my husband ask me to be his girlfriend 😂 He did the whole "so where is this headed/what are we" thing and I said "I don't know, you haven't asked me to be your girlfriend yet" hahaha

    • @LauraCortes96
      @LauraCortes96 2 года назад

      Haha same here, I told my man's about when he was going to officially ask me ti be his gf. The day came and I was like soo did you remember or did you forget. Hahaha

  • @-chantelle-
    @-chantelle- 2 года назад +117

    I'd love a part 2!! I loved hearing your thoughts/opinions on everything :)
    Hope you enjoyed the cookies!

  • @valentinaracciatti1788
    @valentinaracciatti1788 2 года назад +19

    I LOVE how mature you two are. It's so refreshing listening to your points of view. The way you show respect to each other, how you complete each other's thoughts... Amazing. Love you so much ❤️

  • @MummaBauer
    @MummaBauer 2 года назад +50

    You guys!! Love the maturity in your answers xx 😘 love Mumma #proud!

  • @mariacamila3545
    @mariacamila3545 2 года назад +2

    yes yes do a part two!! it was so calming & refreshing to hear you both be so honest (like always). love when you do vids like this

  • @amyroach1915
    @amyroach1915 2 года назад +3

    I would love a part 2 of this! Thank you Jess and Gabe for always being positive and open and honest with us. Its always great to hear different perspectives. Love you guys! 💕

  • @kimmiheart
    @kimmiheart 2 года назад +15

    I would love a part two! It's so interesting hearing different opinions! 🙌🏻

  • @eunbincho1124
    @eunbincho1124 2 года назад +5

    It’s not just a matter of WANTING a part 2 but NEEDING it 🥲 Your relationship is amazing and precious 😭💕

  • @vals8173
    @vals8173 2 года назад +3

    You should totally do a part 2! I love hearing you’re opinions and share you’re own experiences ❤️

  • @jakobqin305
    @jakobqin305 2 года назад +5

    This was AMAZING! I would love a part 2, I loved all of your opinions and really got me thinking, thanks guys!!!! I love to find clarity through you guys.

  • @vishruthikarthi6340
    @vishruthikarthi6340 2 года назад +3

    Omg do a part two! Being someone who has not been in a relationship at all this really helps haha! This is why i love you guys! Baby Conte is blessed to have you guys as parents! She’s gonna be getting the best advice!❤️🥺

  • @jemimathompson6307
    @jemimathompson6307 2 года назад +9

    as a girl with a boyfriend of 5 years and 4 of them being long distance, very early on we were clear that we really wanted to talk on video call the most, then voice call then text (besides my boyfriend is dyslexic and doesn't like texting in general lol) i think its super important because it helps reduce misunderstandings and miscommunications, its so much nicer to hear and see someone and make eye contact when you're talking to them, especially when they're miles away!

  • @justagirl4117
    @justagirl4117 2 года назад +31

    I definitely need a part two. That was so good. I feel like I can learn a lot from you since I'm only 17 and have never had a real relationship before and you guys have great and reflected opinions.

    • @LauraCortes96
      @LauraCortes96 2 года назад

      Don't rush yourself on that. My real first relationship is the one I'm in. I was 19 at the time when I met my bf. Seven years together.

  • @cjse2091
    @cjse2091 2 года назад +38

    Jess and Gabe's videos never fails to keep me entertained. Love from Dubai!

  • @jackiebergen5418
    @jackiebergen5418 2 года назад +1

    Definitely please do a part two! These were such good thoughts and you guys have such a wise way of looking at both sides!

  • @__alex__k
    @__alex__k 2 года назад +3

    I couldn’t agree more with you in every aspect that you discussed. Your relationship is an example of truly happy, loving and honest one. ❤️

  • @taylalouisearmstrong2528
    @taylalouisearmstrong2528 2 года назад +142

    This is funny because I was all about the question “you have to ASK me to be your girlfriend before I am” with the boyfriend I have now. And he didn’t understand why he had to ask me. It was a big thing 😂 but in his defence, he thought of our relationship in a more organic way I suppose, that we were just growing into boy friend and girlfriend naturally and so nothing needed to be said because it was the natural progression of things. Idk if it’s just a guy/girl thing, but we know many couples where the girl wanted to be asked and the guy had the same idea/opinion. Long story short tho, he did end up asking me 😂

  • @ellaodell22
    @ellaodell22 2 года назад +2

    part two! you guys are so good at explaining and love hearing your perspectives

  • @latrishaburton9034
    @latrishaburton9034 2 года назад +2

    PART 2 PLEASE! I really admire you guys and look up to you so I really appreciate hearing your thoughts/opinions

  • @notsosocialbutterfly512
    @notsosocialbutterfly512 2 года назад +7

    I loved this video and would love a part 2! It's so great so see how you each view things. I was asking my fiancé all of these questions too and it was fun to hear our own answers.

  • @kauravneet5817
    @kauravneet5817 2 года назад +1

    Def a pt.2 , love a deep convo!!! Enjoy watching your videos every single time!!

  • @georgiaw
    @georgiaw 2 года назад +19

    Sending love from NZ! God bless yall. Super excited to follow your journey through pregnancy and parenthood

  • @sofiaiwaszewicz4251
    @sofiaiwaszewicz4251 2 года назад +2

    thank you for being such a peaceful, loving, discerning and especially good example for us. i love you both deeply 💛

  • @jdany222
    @jdany222 2 года назад

    I love y'alls videos! Such good stuff. I've been watching since 2016/2017 and your relationship helped me realize I was not in a good relationship at the time. The way Gabe treats Jess helped me to see that it's okay to want to be treated right. I love you guys!!

  • @richellemendiaz7639
    @richellemendiaz7639 2 года назад

    Part 2!! Part 2!! Part 2!! Also, hearing about your relationship is very inspiring and gives me a lot of hope. Thank you both for being so open and genuine always

  • @rachelsjames21
    @rachelsjames21 2 года назад +49

    Hey Jess and Gab!
    I'm so happy to be so early for once! You guys are the best role models and I just wanted to say that your love for the Lord is so beautiful and thanks for all your conte content! You will be amazing parents. 🥰

  • @konstancja2973
    @konstancja2973 2 года назад +11

    I recently heard a great thing about conflicts and fights - it's good when solving it is constructive for the relationship! Not destructive 🙏

  • @lounevanrooy17
    @lounevanrooy17 2 года назад +13

    I just love it when the notification pops up "Jess and Gabriel uploaded a new video". You guys are the cutest and I wish you all the best on your pregnancy journey!❤❤

  • @mairitakundzina701
    @mairitakundzina701 2 года назад +2

    Definitely would love to see Part 2! Love to see these kind of videos ❤️

  • @lexisandquist7558
    @lexisandquist7558 2 года назад

    Oh my gosh pleeeease do a part two! I thoroughly enjoyed listening to you guys discuss these topics:)

  • @petalswood9536
    @petalswood9536 2 года назад +1

    Can I just say I love that u guys do a lot of things together, like idk wat goes on when the camera is off but rlly I like that even grocery shopping is done by both of u most of the time

  • @vilmarantamaula5397
    @vilmarantamaula5397 2 года назад +1

    Part 2!!! I love videos where you guys just talk, love vlogs too but yeah totally looking forward to part 2

  • @rachelteo1236
    @rachelteo1236 2 года назад +7

    Would love a part 2! 😍 Love you guys!!

  • @dahannachang
    @dahannachang 2 года назад +3

    Loved to hear ur thoughts on various opinions & YESSS defo a part 2 !! 💕

  • @madisonlee7032
    @madisonlee7032 2 года назад

    this was a great video! i really enjoy these when you're just chatting because i usually watch you while i do my make up so i don't have to look up much to keep along with what's going on and mainly its just so nice to hear your opinions and get to know your personalities and hearts more. love you guys!

  • @anisamoniquehernandez1810
    @anisamoniquehernandez1810 2 года назад +2

    Yes part 2! Felt like I got so much insight and advice that I didn’t even know I needed!

  • @stephanie_idk6442
    @stephanie_idk6442 2 года назад +1

    Please do a part 2!!! This is entertaining and educational at the same time

  • @lilym353
    @lilym353 2 года назад +2

    Love this! You two are young but so wise and grounded. Love your videos!

  • @blandine8916
    @blandine8916 2 года назад +9

    Love hearing about your views on leaving for the honeymoon and not helping cleaning ! In France, the married couple stay at the wedding party all night long and they clean the venue with some family members and friends, and they eat the leftovers together. The honeymoon comes weeks or even months later !
    Always thought it was kinda rude for the married couple to leave before everyone else whenever they show that in a movie or a show, but I get it now !
    Love you guys 💕

    • @Xx.bygracethrufaith
      @Xx.bygracethrufaith 2 года назад +1

      my grandma & grandpa didn't have the time / money to do a honeymoon when they first married but a few months later it worked out for them to join some friends on a trip and they just used that for their honeymoon.

  • @laurabeedell8166
    @laurabeedell8166 2 года назад +1

    This was soo good, please do another one. I love listening/watching you both, I always find myself relaxed and more knowledgeable after your videos. Keep doing what your doing, your doing amazing. God bless you both xxx

  • @sliceofshane
    @sliceofshane 2 года назад +1

    Had so many takeaways from this! Please do a part 2 🙌🏻❤️

  • @evacole3335
    @evacole3335 2 года назад +2

    would love a part two! very insightful and i agree on so many of them!

  • @vanessamcarthur6268
    @vanessamcarthur6268 2 года назад +1

    Can I just say, YOU ARE BOTH GLOWING! Like, the glow of pregnancy is one thing, but it's like Gabe is glowing with Jess, getting ready for parenthood, and it's so sweet and I'm so excited for them!!!

  • @xkarenxv
    @xkarenxv 2 года назад +68

    They need to release a book on relationship and marriage advice because they really do give such great advice! Would love to hear more opinions like this from a strong healthy couple like Jess & Gabe.

  • @AieshSingh
    @AieshSingh 2 года назад +2

    I love hearing your opinions because they're genuinely from such open and caring hearts ❤️ love you both 🥰❣️

  • @kaydencenunley6371
    @kaydencenunley6371 2 года назад +2

    I love your all's answers and advice. Your all's relationship is such an encouragement to me and I just love you all!

  • @namphuongl1390
    @namphuongl1390 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely love this video! Definitely should do a part 2! I honestly really agree with both of yalls on every point especially the ex thing. My bf and I dated at a very young age and broke up. A year or so later, we tried again and been going for 6 years now! It really just depends on the people/situation :)

  • @allit9098
    @allit9098 2 года назад +2

    I could watch a millions parts of this!! Yall are amazing!

  • @michelleleuch
    @michelleleuch 2 года назад +2

    I really enjoyed the deep talks you guys had. It’s fun to watch the fun stuff but I really enjoyed the heart to heart couples advice and talk.

  • @miamirante8352
    @miamirante8352 2 года назад +5

    this was great! definitely do a part two. i really love when you back your answers up with scripture, it just shows how devoted you are and how much time you spend in study🤍

  • @karsongleason5955
    @karsongleason5955 2 года назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video, definitely do a part 2! ♥️

  • @EimyJaspeVideos
    @EimyJaspeVideos 2 года назад +8

    PART TWO PLEASE!!
    I love you guys!

  • @celenag7157
    @celenag7157 2 года назад +3

    Your advice is amazing! You guys help me so much with my own marriage ❤️ please do a part 2!

  • @kaylanfomby7506
    @kaylanfomby7506 2 года назад +1

    Part 2 Whooo! This was fun to watch, you guys made me laugh😁

  • @areejm1969
    @areejm1969 2 года назад

    We need part 2 for sure!!!. I was hoping for a longer video. Felt like i was hanging out with you guys

  • @Simplyaraphat
    @Simplyaraphat 2 года назад +3

    I want a part 2, I enjoyed this really much 😊

  • @arwynedwards1451
    @arwynedwards1451 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely loved this, please do a part two ❤️

  • @carmenpaige5842
    @carmenpaige5842 2 года назад +1

    YESS a part 2 is definitely needed!!

  • @madi6690
    @madi6690 2 года назад +4

    I work at a wedding venue and we clean up after they leave and we have no problem with it because that’s part of our job. You shouldn’t feel bad.

  • @ImJustMyselfHello
    @ImJustMyselfHello 2 года назад +3

    I think it was Mikey Murphy who said once in a video "No one is perfect, but there is a perfect person for you". I think that's well said, because no one will ever be perfect, but there is someone who matches you, like a soulmate. ❤

  • @pituniloveu
    @pituniloveu 2 года назад +1

    Yes, we love to watch part 2!!!! I love this content!

  • @sophiekington6175
    @sophiekington6175 2 года назад +4

    PLEASE DO PART 2 I LOVED THIS!

  • @thinley711
    @thinley711 2 года назад +1

    wow, Gabe! Your mentality and the way you think about helping clean the wedding spot shows we're on the same page! ahaha you are a different breed.

  • @nnennaonyia1198
    @nnennaonyia1198 2 года назад

    Love you guys so much ❤. The video deserves a part two and my favourite part was the montage at the beginning😂❤

  • @samanthahughes5590
    @samanthahughes5590 2 года назад

    I'll say yes to part 2 of this! I thought I was alone in a lot of my opinions on things and you guys seem to have worded my opinions in a better way... if that makes any sense. Thank you Jess and Gabe!

  • @pandista2847
    @pandista2847 2 года назад +2

    I loved this relationship advice! We need a part 2!

  • @bethsandy710
    @bethsandy710 2 года назад +4

    I loved this. I liked the last one about timing. My husband and I met 15 years ago but dating just didn't work out. We then started dating for real 12 years ago, been married for almost 9. We just weren't ready when we first met.

  • @daniellelees2646
    @daniellelees2646 2 года назад +5

    I love that video. Mainly because I got to hear your opinions and I love how you both answered them, you give your honest opinion but you also don't judge other people's opinion. Love you guys and your love for God is truly inspiring 🤍 love watching your journey and can't wait to see the years to come. Hi from Aussie Land 😅

  • @Hanna-ky9qe
    @Hanna-ky9qe 2 года назад +1

    Omg yes definitely do another one of these☺️ super interesting

  • @isabellamariaramos950
    @isabellamariaramos950 2 года назад

    THIS WAS SO GOOD! PLEASE FILM A PART 2! LOVE U GUYS

  • @acobareviews8525
    @acobareviews8525 2 года назад

    Can’t wait for part 2! Loved this!

  • @alicen1297
    @alicen1297 2 года назад

    Part 2!!! This was so fun and thought provoking

  • @maciazdunczyk4586
    @maciazdunczyk4586 2 года назад +1

    I just love how intentional is Gabe with helping Jess to do anything

  • @saaaa__
    @saaaa__ 2 года назад

    this was one of the vids where you guys were really REALLY vibing and every joke was spot on HAHA so many moment i went back to watch again😍😍

  • @shoshanayoung
    @shoshanayoung 2 года назад +17

    I admire how mature and wise Gabriel's thoughts and opinions were. Perfectly worded. I agree wholeheartedly with all of them.

  • @raw8565
    @raw8565 2 года назад +1

    Aw I loved what gabe said that the high school couples who broke up and now are happily married it just wasn’t the right time for them when they started dating and I agree with that cus so much growth and change happens after high school

  • @AlexPresa
    @AlexPresa 2 года назад +3

    Gabe spitting absolute WISDOM on this EP. God bless. 🔥🙏

  • @allegravet
    @allegravet 2 года назад +3

    Love you guys! Jess you are glowing 💫🤍

  • @lik3mik365
    @lik3mik365 2 года назад

    Really enjoyed this and would love to see a pt. 2!

  • @dina6001
    @dina6001 2 года назад +3

    I would love to see a part two that was so interesting 💙

  • @agc9171
    @agc9171 2 года назад +3

    Yes please! Longer part two for sure! 🥰

  • @joyentong_
    @joyentong_ 2 года назад +2

    That is such a very wise advise when Gabe said: "do not awaken love until it's ready"
    I certainly felt that as a youth,
    it's definitely much better to not entertain 'love' until you've had some views and life experiences etc.

  • @joyrachelfinn
    @joyrachelfinn 2 года назад +1

    You guys are so cute! I love how you share your thoughts in such a gentle and Biblical way
    Please do a part 2!!!

  • @rachelelizabeth4619
    @rachelelizabeth4619 2 года назад +26

    Jess, I would have felt the same way if my hubby put his head in the bowl. And BTW, I'm so excited for you!! Your due date is around a month after mine. I'm so excited that I get to be a first time mom around the same time you are!! 🥰

  • @valeriechung1128
    @valeriechung1128 2 года назад +1

    I really enjoyed this type of vid! Pls do more💛

  • @bigblueoceanocean3071
    @bigblueoceanocean3071 2 года назад

    Yesssss, some hot tea and a jess and Gabriel yt video is exactly what I need

  • @kathausmann
    @kathausmann 2 года назад +5

    I woke up today thinking “I hope Jess and Gabe upload a vlog today”. Thank you guys❤️