What Causes Premature Ejaculation? - (10 Things to Avoid)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2019
  • What causes premature Ejaculation? Check out these 10 practical causes, and take action to change your life. Here's my FREE Ejaculation Control Training: learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free...
    In case you don't want to watch the whole video, here's a quick summary of 10 causes of premature ejaculation.
    1 - Poor masturbation habits. (If you regularly masturbate for 2 minutes before you ejaculate, you're training your sexual response system to go from zero-arousal to ejaculation in 2 minutes. If you really want to cure your premature ejaculation, you should masturbate for a minimum of 20 minutes each time.
    2 - Excess tension in your entire body. Tension leads to ejaculation, and excess tension leads to premature ejaculation... Reduce your stress, breathe deeply, and try to enjoy sex in a relaxed way.
    3 - Too many kegels!!! Kegel exercises for men are all over the internet right now as "THE" cure for premature ejaculation. The truth is that if you do kegels all the time, you could actually hurt yourself, and push you more in the direction of premature ejaculation. Why? Because if you constantly exercise that area of your body without letting it rest, you could put your pelvic floor into a state of hypertension, and pelvic floor hypertension is a cause of premature ejaculation.
    4. Unhealthy porn habits. If you regularly watch porn that has cumsh0ts in it, you're creating an association between cumsh0ts and pleasure in your brain. ESPECIALLY if you're watching cumsh0t compilations. Another problem with porn is that it focuses mostly on the parts of humans, and not the entire interaction... which leads to the 5th cause of premature ejaculation:
    5. Hyperfocus on sensations in your c0ck. If you're paying too much attention to your genitals, you are going to notice more pleasure and sensation, and that is going to push you more towards premature ejaculation. On the other hand, if you focus on pleasure in your entire body, and focus on the interaction between you and your partner, you are much less likely to experience premature ejaculation.
    6. You see ejaculation AS pleasure... versus a climax. The truth is that sexual pleasure is available to you throughout the entire arousal cycle. You can learn to experience more sexual pleasure when you are not near the point of no return.
    7. You haven't yet developed the mental resolve to commit to not ejaculating. Don't underestimate the power of your mind in your effort to heal premature ejaculation. Make a commitment to yourself to last longer in bed. DECIDE that this is what you are going to do.
    8. Mental Tension. If you're worried about premature ejaculation while you make love, you're going to push yourself towards it. Try to relax your mind, and take some pressure off. It is OKAY if you do ejaculate... this is a practice, and it takes time to improve.
    9. You have a fear of deep intimacy. Sex can get intimate, and intimacy is something that lots of us as men have a hard time with. Ejaculating is a quick & easy way out of deeper sexual intimacy.
    10. Premature ejaculation is a "false problem." Meaning that there's actually something else going on in your life, and you've "picked up" premature ejaculation as a way to "cover" for this other thing. Maybe you're not happy in your relationship. Maybe you'd rather be single..? Maybe you'd rather be with someone else..?
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Комментарии • 219

  • @superjackson214
    @superjackson214 4 года назад +123

    There’s like a thousand guys talking about this....however, you get this and make very understandable.
    Pls keep it up, you are helping me in so many ways!

    • @taylorclarkjohnson
      @taylorclarkjohnson  4 года назад +8

      Thanks brother. I'm glad it's helpful for you - I appreciate the gratitude & encouragement!

    • @asmrvdx822
      @asmrvdx822 4 года назад +2

      @@taylorclarkjohnson i Agree

    • @kennykenaz8340
      @kennykenaz8340 4 года назад

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      @jamesdannysmith7086 3 года назад

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    • @mdmonowar7339
      @mdmonowar7339 3 года назад

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  • @exoskelaton123_5
    @exoskelaton123_5 3 года назад +57

    This is genuinely the best video I've found on this topic. Thank you so much!

  • @seanpatrick7497
    @seanpatrick7497 3 года назад +7

    Cool video. Been struggling with this from the start.

  • @pc2726
    @pc2726 3 года назад +7

    You are a living legend, thanks brother.

  • @hazel1846
    @hazel1846 3 года назад +4

    Ai found you very reasonable and helpful please keep going 🙏

  • @sergetikum6078
    @sergetikum6078 3 года назад +5

    Exceptional guidance Taylor way to teach from a space of sympathy. Your balance and security about you masculine and feminine aspects is very inspiring. I feel like we are entering an Age that souls need to be encouraged to expand beyond the tight cast of the layers of the physical persona 💛 Your really doing a great job of ecouraging people to expand beyond the preprogrammed standards of what we’ve been conditioned to believe sexuality is suppose to be about. I’ve discovered the importance of a healthy fully activated root chakra yet as I’ve awakened I’ve become conscious of all the higher chakras and our greater capacity to feel and experience the total spectrum of our multidimensional body. I admire your confidence in addressing any topic. I look forward to continuing to support your efforts in helping souls to rediscover the true capacity of their kundalini essence...💜

  • @josefranciscopazguerrero2583
    @josefranciscopazguerrero2583 2 года назад

    Thank you man for sharing all this knowledge in your videos I appreciate it a lot.

  • @juelzsan1128
    @juelzsan1128 2 года назад

    This video is a real gem! Thanks!

  • @jakesmith6992
    @jakesmith6992 2 года назад

    Nice video! Thanks for sharing, great advice.

  • @god8bp152
    @god8bp152 4 года назад +5

    Very very helpfull and well-explained....nice....

  • @georgemypuppy
    @georgemypuppy 3 года назад +2

    Thank you this is a real eye opener for me....

  • @saitamasensei3953
    @saitamasensei3953 3 года назад +3

    Bro you explain this subject the best way ever 😍😍😍❤❤❤👍👍👍

  • @Sajag_Yoga
    @Sajag_Yoga 3 года назад

    Really... thoroughly described.
    You did it.
    Thanks

  • @utentegmail9186
    @utentegmail9186 3 года назад

    Best video I've found thank you!

  • @armstrongscherlies7954
    @armstrongscherlies7954 2 года назад +1

    Thanks, this was a great listen

  • @crook6218
    @crook6218 3 года назад

    Great information!

  • @stevenmaslauskas3139
    @stevenmaslauskas3139 3 года назад +2

    Thanks man this video is awsome and seems so rite and just my problem huh

  • @_Fresh_Dude
    @_Fresh_Dude 6 месяцев назад

    Very good Video!

  • @arisjaafar7539
    @arisjaafar7539 3 года назад +3

    Lovely, Thank yOu sO mUch bro!

  • @shabdayamounam9625
    @shabdayamounam9625 3 года назад +11

    Most of us doesn't actually have this situation.. the fast mode trained mind on this practice since childhood and watching unrealistic porns are the main villains

  • @nixonmoffett8217
    @nixonmoffett8217 3 года назад +44

    I always blamed it on porn, now I see its more my state of mind and attitude

  • @akshaiambro702
    @akshaiambro702 3 года назад +1

    bro you are a king ......huge respect man k...keep uploading

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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  • @samrawittedros6381
    @samrawittedros6381 3 года назад +1

    This make me sense. When I hear it. Thanks a lot.

  • @weaksause433
    @weaksause433 3 года назад +12

    I like how this dude straight up not sugar coating anything lol

    • @Gonzalez33veracruz
      @Gonzalez33veracruz 2 года назад

      "I used to come in less than 1 minute" haha straight up

  • @muyy1
    @muyy1 3 года назад

    wow,didnt expect ur channel is that good

  • @francismonteiro9893
    @francismonteiro9893 3 года назад

    Really interesting, thanks.

  • @said416
    @said416 3 года назад

    Best video on topic

  • @verysiriuss
    @verysiriuss 3 года назад

    Good topic to talk about

  • @nicksyoutubeaccount
    @nicksyoutubeaccount 15 дней назад

    Dang. Good tips, man. Sexual healing or sexual mastery seems a long way off for me, but this really helps me on my journey.

  • @MrEllipsis423
    @MrEllipsis423 4 года назад +15

    This is very deep... Spiritual level. Thx man I struggled with this for a while I almost didn't think I was going to conquer it... Still struggling a bit but getting better

    • @shoaibbyhassan343
      @shoaibbyhassan343 2 года назад +1

      what did you do to over come it

    • @MrEllipsis423
      @MrEllipsis423 2 года назад

      @@shoaibbyhassan343 tbh the less you care about pleasing a woman the better it gets. It's mental but more spiritual than anything

  • @nitinjain9401
    @nitinjain9401 13 дней назад

    very good video

  • @Philip-dy3ww
    @Philip-dy3ww 3 года назад

    These are useful and down to earth moderate advice... not just tell you to live like a monk .

  • @leonardgibney2997
    @leonardgibney2997 3 года назад +11

    "Mind has a major impact... "? It's all in the mind.

  • @SA-vf6ji
    @SA-vf6ji 3 года назад

    Really good video

  • @ebentube7073
    @ebentube7073 3 года назад +2

    Hi Taylor u gave the causes how and how to deal with em but how about treatments

  • @stevenmaslauskas3139
    @stevenmaslauskas3139 3 года назад +1

    Unbelievable video

  • @Tianwang123
    @Tianwang123 3 года назад +1

    This guy knows

  • @e92angel31
    @e92angel31 4 года назад +4

    This is some good information dude I’m currently struggling with PE from excessive masturbating of like 3/4 years and have read so damn much about why I have it and how to fix it , now I’m saying daily affirmations practicing 3 times a week and trying to rewire my thoughts to help me out . Very difficult it I will fix this I know I can

  • @leonardgibney2997
    @leonardgibney2997 3 года назад +13

    A guy once said while having sex to stop himself shooting too soon he would think of mathematics during it

    • @benyusop6471
      @benyusop6471 3 года назад

      Ay Johnny Sins

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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      Good news

  • @espucs
    @espucs 3 месяца назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @coreyschattgen9153
    @coreyschattgen9153 10 месяцев назад +1

    Suggestion on #11 unable to de-role after stress,

  • @musapedro845
    @musapedro845 3 года назад

    Perfect explanation.

  • @joemarsinapalsinapal
    @joemarsinapalsinapal 3 года назад

    well bro. thank you for sharing this video. 99% accurate

  • @jaynestewart5958
    @jaynestewart5958 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @jerard10
    @jerard10 4 года назад +3

    Good vid

  • @michaelrobert9468
    @michaelrobert9468 3 года назад +5

    This is really bothering me till now..

  • @Patrickt-fb5wj
    @Patrickt-fb5wj 3 года назад +5

    Good stuff.. but one important element missing .. breathing, train to control your breathing

  • @Eric-steele
    @Eric-steele 3 года назад +1

    Something he didn't mention was effects of some medications or drugs e.g. opiates

  • @spareyourbrain
    @spareyourbrain 3 года назад +2

    Many people were talking about PE but you are the best.

  • @anonimbilinmez3051
    @anonimbilinmez3051 3 года назад +1

    #9 is so true

  • @masijulrahaman4375
    @masijulrahaman4375 3 года назад

    Sir good videos

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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  • @daumantsbrunins
    @daumantsbrunins Год назад +1

    Thank you.

    • @taylorclarkjohnson
      @taylorclarkjohnson  Год назад +1

      Yeah man! Glad it was helpful for you.

    • @daumantsbrunins
      @daumantsbrunins Год назад

      @@taylorclarkjohnson
      I actually wanted to comment
      Thank you for your opinion, wisdom and invested time! It is quite informative as well as encouraging and to some extent eye opening.
      I ticked quite a lot of boxes and it is up to me (almost entirely up to me) to figure myself out.
      Doing energy flow meditations i have noticed that my root energy centre or sacral bone area is really sensitive and at the same time energy flow from talebone to the crown of the head is interrupted.
      For myself i have noticed that energy instead of flowing up the spine it builds up in sacral bone and then suddenly my pelvic area is far too sensitive and bumm 💦🎆🎇.
      My gut feeling is that it might be suppressed sexual energy since puberty. Back in time and country i grew up sex was taboo topic as well as dating. I have a tendency to tense my body when sex starts as well as being overexcited about what's coming.
      Pluss i haven't lost most sensitive part of my body which is foreskin which can partly explain why uncircumcised guys can last longer, but it must be different pleasure.

  • @pratik8619
    @pratik8619 2 года назад +1

    What is keygirls???

  • @kmies8260
    @kmies8260 4 года назад +3

    Good video! My comment is little late, but wanted to still write about kegels. Yes, your point about too much is great. I would still like to add one element. Everywhere People only talk about half of the exercise. I my self see kegel-reverse kegel as the whole "movement" so to speak. If you only do kegels, its like doing squats only In one direction...so to speak. :)

  • @JeffreyRivera-ny2oi
    @JeffreyRivera-ny2oi 3 года назад

    best video i ever seen about p.e

  • @joesaba9134
    @joesaba9134 3 года назад +6

    But how do i make it 10 minutes or 20?

    • @robertbailey790
      @robertbailey790 3 года назад

      To get rock hard,bigger and Thick,Use Kx2 Herbal Tea Medicine. That's what I used and it work. No side effect. The result is permanent. You can get it from Dr.Vikraft Pharmacy via WhatsApp:+2348160264268

  • @petroschemwale6770
    @petroschemwale6770 3 года назад +2

    This is the first great information on Prem ejac I have ever heard very practicle

  • @thanhhungnguyen1190
    @thanhhungnguyen1190 4 года назад

    i'm at the day 140 of semen retention after 5 years watching porn and doing poor masturbation habits. Before 140-day semen retention i didnt experience premature ejaculation but now i do. Can you tell me some reasons about it :

  • @madhavsharma5950
    @madhavsharma5950 3 года назад +2

    How much time did it take you to overcome PE???

    • @robertbailey790
      @robertbailey790 3 года назад

      To get rock hard,bigger and Thick,Use Kx2 Herbal Tea Medicine. That's what I used and it work. No side effect. The result is permanent. You can get it from Dr.Vikraft Pharmacy via WhatsApp:+2348160264268

  • @markkibaaramuthee3880
    @markkibaaramuthee3880 3 года назад +2

    This is all true its just the game of the mind...

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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  • @ezekiel5687
    @ezekiel5687 2 года назад

    I am. And it drives me crazy.

  • @loverboyzz8633
    @loverboyzz8633 2 года назад

    Bro i wish that this will really help me if it will I'll let u know 💯

  • @mrbardel4363
    @mrbardel4363 3 года назад

    i have no sex . so ... is not very important how fast i come . or how bit it is .
    stress ruin sex ...

  • @abdellahiehreimo3402
    @abdellahiehreimo3402 4 года назад +4

    What do you think about those men who ejaculate within 3 or 7 seconds or even as soon as they touch themselves or others touch them or even just when they think sensual fantasies or even if for example their girls/partners just start foreplay with them? I keep watching sexual coaches and medical experts and medical experts say that there are 3 types of premature ejaculation from which this very fast ejaculation I am talking about here, doctors say that this is what some people just inherit from their fathers as this type of this rapid premature ejaculation is healthy and it's just that their genes gave them this trait? I find your videos very beneficial. Thanks.

    • @juanlopez3000
      @juanlopez3000 3 года назад +1

      That’s a question many of us have

    • @TonyStark-nw1ll
      @TonyStark-nw1ll 3 года назад

      I ejaculate in 20 minutes, sometimes 30 minutes, is that good?

  • @iv-4tyrekmottley901
    @iv-4tyrekmottley901 3 года назад

    Thanks bro

  • @eco_guardian
    @eco_guardian 4 года назад +9

    Almost all guys I"ve known that struggle with it were circumcised. I think its when the frenum is cut out and damages the nerves.

    • @jeremyjenkins1639
      @jeremyjenkins1639 3 года назад

      There`s this PE treatment solution that I started to try a few weeks right after I started normal fun with my partner. Then a week or so later she asked me how I was lasting so much longer haha! It was awesome hearing that thought. Try to search and discover it yourself! It is great if you can handle your problem with this guide t.co/WcsYmEhiAO

    • @sauvageblagues6405
      @sauvageblagues6405 3 года назад

      Broooooo my frenelum is sooo sensitivee

    • @eco_guardian
      @eco_guardian 3 года назад

      @@sauvageblagues6405 Yup, its where all the sensitivity is. Some guys have theirs cut out when they got circumcised. Sucks.

    • @TonyStark-nw1ll
      @TonyStark-nw1ll 3 года назад

      @@eco_guardian i last 20 minutes, sometimes 30 min, is that good?

  • @Ivan_Lopez2024
    @Ivan_Lopez2024 4 года назад +7

    You hit the Nail of the head with me. I struggled with this for years until recently i been able to last an Hour but my main Fear of why i didn't want a Girlfriend eas that i was bot able to satisfy her. I wish i would of learned this when i was 18

    • @flickers9181
      @flickers9181 4 года назад

      How do you last for an hour bro?

    • @Firm2of2
      @Firm2of2 3 года назад

      Fr how?

    • @Ivan_Lopez2024
      @Ivan_Lopez2024 3 года назад +15

      @@flickers9181 for me its all about the First 5 Minutes to concentrate on not Ejaculation. Of course you have to be healthy first but it is mental in the bedroom. The first 5 Minutes i always feel like busting but after that i control my breathing and look at it like a Job. I get very serious when it comes to sex. I recommend to pregame your sexual sessions Right. Dont watch porn before or dont masturbate before. Drink plenty water to hydrate your pipe then wait to till you have to pee. Pee first and then go in and give her all you got. You will do fine. Once you reach 20 min it will be Hard to Cum. You will have to Fuck her Harder and faster to even cum and the meantime she will be having orgasms non stop.

    • @TonyStark-nw1ll
      @TonyStark-nw1ll 3 года назад

      @@Ivan_Lopez2024 i last 20 min :(

    • @kmferdoush1381
      @kmferdoush1381 2 года назад +2

      @@TonyStark-nw1ll Why you are so upset??? If I had your duration, then I would be the happiest man on earth.

  • @yettobseen
    @yettobseen 5 лет назад +4

    I’m in my 50

  • @serdaryas9450
    @serdaryas9450 3 года назад +3

    I had 3 hours my GF told me we don't need condoms😄

  • @Wizyrd_T
    @Wizyrd_T 4 года назад +5

    Solid

    • @taylorclarkjohnson
      @taylorclarkjohnson  4 года назад +1

      Thanks brother. This stuff is important to talk about.

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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  • @bigsammytv
    @bigsammytv 3 года назад

    Thank u bro this video explains everything I go through I would work on my porn habit n masturbating habit to thank u

  • @sagartomar7629
    @sagartomar7629 Год назад

  • @ahgh24
    @ahgh24 3 года назад

    These are all theories which make sense too but the point is putting this into practice which is way hard work esp. when you don't have a girl. You need to be in real field. You can't drive a car by Driving Simulator. Realistically, what girl is gonna let you practice with her?

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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    • @ahgh24
      @ahgh24 3 года назад +1

      @@dannyking4732 Looks like a joke.. but I'll thank you with 1000$ if it works :-D

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

      @@ahgh24 I will be waiting for it because it will

  • @InspirAIoo
    @InspirAIoo 4 года назад +1

    What is a keegle?

    • @taylorclarkjohnson
      @taylorclarkjohnson  4 года назад +1

      A kegel is a voluntary squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles. Do a quick google search for kegel exercises and you'll find all sorts of stuff.

  • @kevinwilliams-ub7uy
    @kevinwilliams-ub7uy Год назад

    Taylor I think two people have to really connect with one another in another words really be both so turned on. It even happens with gay guys.

  • @levirota-leggan2029
    @levirota-leggan2029 3 года назад

    2.23

  • @erxyt
    @erxyt 3 года назад

    Slow

  • @aayushbhandari4956
    @aayushbhandari4956 Год назад

    8:30

  • @chulam3178
    @chulam3178 3 года назад

    xxxx

  • @MalibuCouture77X
    @MalibuCouture77X 3 года назад

    Should a guy who last 45 minutes in bed worry about premature ejaculation? Even if he ejaculates fast watching porn?

    • @mohammadalbannai1102
      @mohammadalbannai1102 2 года назад

      Why watch porn , while you can do sex with your husband , pornography is bad and not recommend to watch people thinks it gives them pleasure but it’s all about something else just for money

  • @jerryjerryson3447
    @jerryjerryson3447 3 года назад

    Tip No. 1 - Don't Ejaculate

  • @arisjaafar7539
    @arisjaafar7539 3 года назад +1

    Lovely, Thank yOu sO mUch bro!

  • @ruttanahjayesh8114
    @ruttanahjayesh8114 3 года назад

    • @dannyking4732
      @dannyking4732 3 года назад

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