I Divorced After 13 Days of Marriage - Lucas
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
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Lucas Modiba details how he feels betrayed by his former spouse whom he met on LinkedIn, married 4 weeks later, and divorced 2 weeks later. In this 6 weeks a rollercoaster of events happened in their relationship.
ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 119 - Lucas Modiba
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A lesson on loving hard, listening to the voice inside that guides your life, patience and remaining rooted in your principles.
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please continue like this hleee 😭😭don’t interrupt or try to speak or ask questions… you’re so good .just gained a subiie 😊🎉
Much love from Zim .you are the best❤
I have learnt a lot from this , thank you
They sleep with him,R17,50🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How does one begin to listen to that inner voice while the main work on the real self is still not complete?
Who’s here from TikTok🤣 jho never been so invested in a story
@@user-we9ru3bw1g me 😭😭💀💀
Very invested 🤣
@@user-we9ru3bw1g me too bro 😅😅😅😅😅
@@user-we9ru3bw1g me too 😭😭😂
Me😂
Referencing 90 day Fiancè when you are not on 90 day Fiancé is crazy work 😭
@@zoeindongo2888 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Like! That time he has 4 weeks
and I think HE MEANT MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT 🤣
Bathong can we agree to leave mjolo alone😭 this man spoke 11 official languages in one sentence ke mgowo😭😭😭
@@menniekumalo3276 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
@@menniekumalo3276 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
😂😂
The first mistake he made was telling him what kind of man you wanted, he pretended to be what you wanted until he got you hooked then showed his true colors ..
🎯
His story is giving the “Who TF Did I Marrry”. 😅
@@amikatshabalala7984 😂Yess
😂 Literally
Absolutely
😂
Yesss
To the Engineer Your Life team:
1. Allow the guest to fully express themselves in their native language.
2. Please include subtitles for when a guest switches languages.
Thank you
@@teem7303 I felt somehow when he said that
seconded...we not complaining native bring spices,....lols
What do you mean he came alone to the wedding. This was not a marriage, it was a hiest😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol andihleki nyan, Red flag ezingaka
He was caught off guard by the catfish😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
So you married him without knowing where he stays? Le phela se Bold and Beautiful 🤭
@@nthabee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣awa tlhe!!!
@@Asjay35 eish... It sad
Tata amachance
😂😂😂
Wena! Quick fast in a hurry I tell you!!
From 'baby' to 'that child' 😂😂😂😂😂 I respect uMjolo
😂😂mjolo o dangerous
😂😂😂😂Umjolo
Bathong 😂😂😂
That's mjolo 😂😂😂for you
@@sngqazu7803 😂😂😂😂andahleka ☠️😂😂😂
May the level of desperation in love like this never locate me🙏🏿😭
After Lebo there’s Lucas! Sana what’s happening with our community 😭✋🏽
😂😂😂 They're siblings 🤣
You can ask that again devil is attacking us in this community 😢
I’m not sure who’s worse 😅
Yeyyy mtase the fireball keeps rolling yezwan 🤣🤣🤣
I was gonna ask who is writing these scripts
Lungelo stop cutting these people, we don't mind 2 or 3 hours🤣 we are here for it🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right! 😂😂
😂😂
Exactly 🤣
😀😀😀😀😀
I know that this is serious, but hey, this is so funny. The guy didn't ignore red flags, he ignored big banners on the street corners.
😂 literally LOL tjo you killing me bra 😂😂😂
It's like that banner they use with a helicopter 😢😂😂
@@overstandself9954 I don't know what it is, umjolo is supposed to be relatively easy, because you just check on their socials and see what you are dealing with.
But no, people are still missing red banners.
😂😂😂😂😂bona,
😂😂😂😂
You can never give an advice to anyone who’s in love. You become an enemy number 1.
Lucas is not a victim.He was drunk in love.
I agree
That person was capable of killing you in that hotel room.
@@nthabelenglepota5924 I was thinking the same thing. 😹
Lucas was served red flags on a silver platter and devoured the meal!!😭😭
@@memeetunashileka 😂😂😂
This is proof that when you are in "love" you become in denial.
Yoh listen😢
& left no crumbs 🫢🥲
Not the guy saying he wants somoene to sing for him when his having a rough day 😂😂
That sentence killed me, and he is serious about it 🤣🤣
Listen, even Lungelo couldn't hold it in🤣🤣🤣He finished me when he said that🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅
@@khethiwendlovu4940 my wishes😫🤣🤣🤣
😅😂😂😂 I was here for that
I once worked with Lucas at another bank..oh what an energetic somebody..a Go Getter..so much fun to hang around...Lucas..the Devil is a liar..wena you are destined for bigger things..take this phase as test..at the end God wins.❤
You can just tell he is destined for amazing things. He is even already there. The devil is a liar.
amazing human being i love his energy
I love him ndingamazi nomzi😂😂😊❤
@@SinethembaCareCenter was he always this dramatic n imagining things n likes spotlights soo
I don't know Lucas but I love his energy. He is definitely destined for great things indeed.
Mara naye he was so desperate for marriage he ignored so many red flags 😔💔😭
@@NosiphoL__ true, that desperation. He wanted to be married by 30 that's why he overlooked everything.
It's not desperation but its the vision/ dream / goals we have for our lives. Something you probably thought of as a child. It's hard to let go of these thing many many women get married even when they see ukuthi the relationship is abusive or whatever just to get the title of "Married Woman or Makoti"
@@overstandself9954 I say desperate cos when you're desperate you eat anything. And you're right it's because of that vision and as we grow we need to alter out vision based on the things that we're confronted with, living in the past affects the future.
@@NosiphoL__ it’s always the case , there’s always signs
He was feeling the void by nyalaring the dude .. childhood truama
Lungelo is the certified King of "hmmmmmm hmmmmm"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
With his socks😂
@@ladybee1909 😂😂😂He is traumatized.
😂😂Shame he sounds so frustrated
😂He’s the greatest host. He speaks less. I love the fact that he speaks for less than 10 minutes and the guests start spilling beans.
Male version of Latoya's wife😂
😂😂😂 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂ku shota f**** up
😂.. 😂Lol
Nna i just love the fact that he is multilingual, 👌👌
Nam he is South african sana
Worse, as a pedi, it is interesting to watch. Love him for him😅
Lucas:I forgot about my self care, Lebo: I have been using the same under for 4 years.
😢😮
LGBTI community 🌈 is gowishing 😂😂😂
Lalela oe😂
😂😂😂😂
@@ntombikayisendlovu4807 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Please bring him back in a year's time to know his progress
When I thought I have seen it all with Lebo and Letoya now BOOOOOOM. Two weeks drama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 imihlolo le🤦🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hay me too... Keng ka same gende marige guys its not working hleng, just be in a relationship not deeeeeeper😢
Mihlolo hlolo😂😂😂😂😂 his character is giving Lebo mani😅
Hahaha I was about to ask , all of this in 1 month 13 days???? Yoh if this is true k'yanyewa!
Imagine all this drama for a person you’ve known for two weeks😂😂😂😂
What a narrator! I can listen to this guy all day! Can he be my friend pls!
@@berybery5821 Same here,I like the sequence of events. This is gonna help him to see where he went wrong.
😂😂😂
@ladyb5843 😂😂😂
I also wouldn't mind to be Lucas's friend 😂
😂😂😂
LUCAS THE SIGNS WERE THERE😭
Literally
It was 100 red big flags😂😂😂😂
Plenty
The L in 🏳️🌈 stands for Lebo and Lucas 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 wa ntshegisa
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣nje!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No u ddnt 😂😂😂
😂😂🤭
That 90 day fiancé reference was insane 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Qedfnvy❤
Rdt🎉hbbhfi
😂😂😂😂
like why vele 😂😂😂😂
He's an Opportunist, Narcissist and Manipulative boy 💔 I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. Love and Light to you Lucas ❤
Lucas is broken
😂😂😂
“And to me it makes sense”😂😭chommie it does not make sense!!
@@Thandolwethu_216 at all 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
I’m at that point where he gives him access to his businesses and everything after 1 minute , and I am wondering if I am looking for partners in the wrong places🤦🏽♀️😩🤣🤣🤣
nami I want to have authority over someone's account 🤣
The whole story is insane 😏
@@lynettemudzengi7366 nami Nkosiyami
ai, the guy must counselling , its too much
I felt the same way too .😂.I was like Kanti where do we find guys who just makes things easy for us..... without any struggle..Mzuzu they even haven't been intimate mara already you have access to the business account yerrrr
This is literally a venting podcast 😭
They need to change the name ASAP 😂
Who remembers the story of legion the liar from tiktok, this story reminds me of that😂😂😂
Mina ngiyayazi u legion ka irene
Some people are living like they are in the movies yazi 🙆
its a movie mntase, ndiyakuxela. THIXO!!!
@@keneiloemyoli 🤣🤣 Nnete
😂🤞
it's a 90 day show
Or myb they think dyr in moja love always making things up..
Let's leave Mjolo alone please. Let's just be friends hle
@@2_DPoint I agree 💯 cos WOW
Thank you for insisting on the English...not all your viewers are South Africans. Much Appreciated.
What are subtitles for?.... I personally hate English it is a language of a oppressor... We must not use it to become a mini version of white people...
True
I myself am South African and struggle with understanding our other languages. I definitely understand ♥️
@@siyasanga_makie angibafuni abantu abafana nawe... Ngamanye amazwi uphilela ukuba "umlungu omncane"....
@@vusidlamini6275 you’re unnecessarily rude. I’m Xhosa and exclusively grew up in Eastern Cape. I was never exposed to and don’t understand languages primarily spoken in Gauteng + Limpopo and that’s ok. Subakrwada 🙄 This has nothing to do with trying to be “white” 🙄 grow up and stop making assumptions on the internet about people you don’t know. Voetsek Vusi.
That guy did pure witchcraft on him, it makes no sense for such a well structured person to get scammed like this ,life is spiritual
Getting married after 4 weeks, fake resume, fake appointment contract, 90 days fiance reference, paying for the wedding by yourself, 'babe' couldn't sing Kuningi tlhe Lucas💔😭
Lungelo how do you keep a straight face while listening to this guy mara?🤣🤣🤣
I'm here for the Xhosa parts in his narration🙆🤣🤣🤣
Yi horror movie nje...
4 a guy wuz in so much debts n paying 4 a wedding kanjani were daz he get so much money n this mental place he stays at is it free.. Ooo ore yetsa bana gaa
@dorcramps6779d Angola ya ko Tembisa 😂😂. The guy being chowed for Savanna ya R 17.50 every time he is depressed 😂😂. Buying isgubu😂😂.To being gaslighted 😂😂. Getting married within 4 weeks without knowing where the guy lives😂😂
Umjolo wa 5 weeks felt like a 20 years of suffering in marriage… I have ran out of yoh…
His voice is beyond wooden mic😂😂😂😂😂
@@iggyk6674 mgowoooooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I subscribed after Lebo's podcast and introduced my husband now he is the one updating about other stories
😊beautiful
Kumnandi kwakho 😊
This country mara, we can't even keep up with this drama anymore. Every day, there is something to shock us. We even forgot what was trending 2 weeks ago 😮
Kuningi😂
Yho, yho, yho. ULucas uyatshata kwakhona ke sana emva kwenyanga ezintathu.
Let’s get married first is wild 😂
Redbull needs to sponsor Lungelo 😂
The energy will be too strong 😂😂😂
Yho I'm already dizzy
heyi bathong Lungelo needs Counselling 😂 ngeke phela
I'm going to listen to this one everyday for the whole month shem🤞🤣
Yep. Im giving Latoya's ex wife a break😂.
How he switches from English to IsiXhosa, then Sepedi is pretty Fascinating.
Also, his IsiXhosa is clean for motho o a goletšeng ko Limpopo
I picked that up as well. I even felt he was more fluent in isiXhosa than he is in Sepedi.
You are married but you don't even know where your husband lives and works. What kind of forensic investigator are you?
I know right ,red flags were many from the start
Lungelo will "mmm mmm" the entire episode. 😅
I met a guy a few months ago we talked a lot over the phone. I liked him when he started asking for airtime and R100 petrol for his GTI. I ran for the hills and never looked back 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never talk a lot over the phone. That's how you develop unnecessary feelings😂. I'm glad you ran for the hills🤣
Baleka baleka
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I would so do the same!!!!
Smart!
He kills me when he speaks isixhosa 😂😂😂
Me too yhuuu😂😂😂😂😂
Why is he speaking isiXhosa vele? lol
Brooooo 🤣🤣
lol 😂😂😂😂
@@user-li4pe5uo1zit’s the 🌈community language
“…Noo babe, I think I was hungry” Nka loma Sandton.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This should be a Venting Podcast 😀
“Umntu adle imali yakho adle wena” here from TikTok 😭😂
🤣🤣🤣Udliwe double Lucas🤣🤣
I love his honesty he must come back for that sgubu story 😂
lol...i agree bizo
I agree I want to know what he went through. And how he made it out on the other side 😅
Please 😂
Allow people to be themselves. Its difficult for some people to English the whole time.
Lucas ex and Dr Lani could be a perfect match 😅😅
Story tellers of note 🤞🏾
Lucas and Dr Lani sane Whatsapp group... don't believe moguy 😅😂
What a beautiful explanation of his childhood 🫂
I love Lucas … 😂😂😂😂he is full of life … God bless him
This guy is a fantastic story teller yho
Choimi took red flags & made a red carpet neh 😂😂😂😂😂.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 by
The redest carpet known to man 😂😂😂
😭😭😭Nooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hey... iyhooo😂
Louder!!!!😂😂😂😂
Lucas and Lebo are "Mgowo ambassadors " , let's put them together in one podcast, i wanna see something ..
😂😂😂😂😂
Mina, when he asked money from me, I immediately blocked him everywhere on my social media😢😢
The partner healing from STIs on the wedding day is sending me🤣🤣🤣😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂 yey!
Whichever lady that'll be dating this man just know you're not beautiful nor ugly you're in between 😭😭yoh amadoda💀
He is gay … what lady ?
I'm dying 😂😂😂😂
I am not going to comment on that😂
"Because I talk a lot, I am the perpetrator, because he is more reserved, he is the victim. So my personality was used against me!" - THIS was felt, i can relate to this Lucas. Wishing you well for the future dali. Good Karma will find you xox
Who knew a pamphlet would get you married 😂😂😂😂
😂😂not even roses and a box of chocolate
😂😂😂😂😂
Downloading Canva ngoku sana 😂😂😂😂😂
It's easy to win people out there 😂😂😂😂😂
His xhosa kills me😂 😊😊
It's so cute😂
The interview was great but if only you gave him tissue because it didn't look appropriate to take out that in public or just edit it out
@mandasisana6531 soon that might be a meme 😮💨
Was it a gum?
What was it? Disgusting indeed
Haaaaibo sizele izindaba la not the chewing gum
Yoooo guys are killing me😂😂😂....we are here for iindaba
If it smells like bs it’s probably bs. You owe no one anything on this earth. Always trust your instincts it will save you from unnecessary experiences. Lastly to the people going around hurting others go heal stop bleeding on those who did not cut you.
Yoh the intro. I couldn't hold in my laughter and I was in the office
@@tibuCooks dawg, 😂🤣😂🤣. I kept rewinding it.
Im in the office too... A CV on the date.
Why o kare mjolo wa LGBTQ o nyisa ka level 99 😂...I'm shooketh
Zikhala nge loud speaker pha it's not for the faint harted
Actually!!
@@infommeptours8522 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣true hey its so sad...most of them r 2 minits noodles
@@infommeptours8522 full blast bruh...nge bass 🔊 🤭
Heyiii😂😂😂
Lucas's story is really frightful. Yena nje ngokwakhe is spiritually and emotionally confused. So many questions about him to start with. As for his ex-husband, the less said, the better.
Lucas is the one with mental illness, he produces foam in his mouth when he speaks, a sign of a mental illness.
Lucas you are the problem, everytime the Holy Spirit reveals some dangers, you (Lucas) dismisses all which is an indication that you are not mentally stable.
The minute he said he was a twin it all made sense. Lucas and ReesaTeesa need to partner up because wow
Literally Lebo 2.0😭
Usiphethe uLungelo ngeke 😅😅😅😅😅! I can’t even move 😅😅
Welcome baby…usiphethe nyani
@@fanelesibongemthethwa153 I'm glad I'm not the only one. This guys is such a great story teller too 🤣🤣🤣
Although this is a tragic experience, it is very funny.
Subtitles will work the best please 🙏🏾 and let your guests express themselves in their own language 💞 sometimes English will steal that thing maarn😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yadina English yhuu
I totally agree, guests need to be authentic
I agree with you ebile sometimes doesnt have words we use in our on languages. Subtitles would be preferable
Even me English speaking agrees with u. We will catch up
Totally agree
This one wants Lungelo now😅
I wouldn't blame him😏
😢😢😢
.....The guy is handsome!!!
Lets start a drnking game everytime the host says hmmmm we take a shot
I hope he heals and find a person who's right for him
He seems like a good partner, he just rushed into things.
At least he's enjoying telling the story, otherwise, it's not make sure...
ikhona into eoff
Kodwa Lungelo do you have a therapist?
saw him on this other show where he was supporting his family or something
@poppie yoh! What institution was he in ko brynston? I’m worried
Lucas is authentic and he has a pure heart.
Amazing storyteller ❤
Lucas is a great narrator shem😂
I wanted to cut this short, but I could not because of his storytelling.. so intriguing 😊
From TikTok… now we are here😭😂
Lucas is multilingual. I like it.
😂😂😂Yoooh not Lucas saying... I've got a new boyfriends 😢😂
May the good lord protect you my guy🎉❤
Lebo opened the portal 😂😂
@@ntsetselelozk891 😂😂😂😂
😂
From TikTok I am here.😂
Mzansi magic give this man a contract his talented and I love his sense of humour 😅
😂😂😂
Hey...😊
Yoooo good story teller, I even forgot I'm working glued on this. Ur tone tjeerrrr 👏 👏
Moja Love
This is actually a safe space
One question and everything is history
Watching from Malawi
Lucas said he is getting married again in 90 days without stuttering lmfao
😂😂😂
Ijooh! He can speak Xhosa 's accent correctly
He was a weapon formed against you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love him when he explain in Xhosa iphixipixi likanondindwa😂😂
😂😂
Ndifuna ukubalapha mna 😂
Locus is the best storyteller 😂😂❤
I like how he switched between xhosa and sepedi all in one sentence sana?😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys please let's give Lungelo his flowers 💐 ❤.
Why is he making decisions based on a reality TV show mara, 90 day fiance pho?? 😂😂 Ay is not make sure