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Omg this speaks volumes to me. Walking through adultery and in the midst of divorce from my husband. I needed to hear this. He says he is sorry but I don't think he really means it. Thank you pastor Jimmy. Please pray for my healing and for me to move on. I love my husband but I am tired of being hurt.
I understand
“To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.” (1 Corinthians 7:10-11)
So your husband said he was sorry (read: repented and sought reconciliation) and you still divorced him? Let me guess: You’re married to a different man now?
Repentance vs. "Sorry" is so accurate. If someone is cornered and caught, they usually still try to deny and only when confronted with irrefutable proof do they admit anything - the bare minimum. They think the more they tell you, the more trouble they will be in and the more they will have to deal with your anger/upset/tears. This type of person is usually a coward, and their greatest fear is your reaction so they try to control it. A truly repentant person will give you the freedom to react, I think because they've already faced the worst reaction when they went before their heavenly Father and had their heart broken over their sin. I think too it's only from that place that an adulterer can realize the fear of losing their spouse. The "sorry" guys I've known actually wanted to be free from their spouse, but have her be the one to walk away. Anyway Jimmy, thank you for this. So so insightful and validating for healing hearts.
Infidelity is such a bad thing to have in any relationship. My advice will be for anyone having such thought to fully understand that it will always inhibit one giving his or her best in any relationship. So the best thing to do when infidelity issues arises is to find out for sure. I used to have allot of doubt about my partner and had to find out for sure. It was heart breaking what I found out but the best thing to do to keep my already troubled mind at peace. Thanks to the help I got which enable me to find out everything and see things for myself. I was really happy I did take the step and now my heart is peaceful after everything.
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Can you please pray for my marriage to be restored. I am guilty of cheating on my beautiful wife 3x over a 10 year span and have since given over my life to the Lord. She is a Godly woman but decided to separate and wants me to get right with God while she takes her time to heal. She is feeling like the marriage is over but is not in a rush to make any decision. I am in Christian counseling and meeting with new mentors on a weekly basis and am in complete surrender to the Lord now. I am praying for His perfect will, but I am also praying for His will to be to restore my marriage. I do not know if that is the right thing to do but I am doing it until God says no. Please keep us in your prayers and our 3 beautiful daughters. TY! God Bless
Be careful of your mentors, my story was a lot of the same as your I stepped out of my 11 year marriage twice. Now after making the changes and working I just found out 3 months ago she has been having a affair with my spiritual mentor for almost a year. Only God can restore us this is not a fight of flesh but of spirit. I pray for you and hope your doing well my friend.
This is glorious, I been tryin to find out about "counselling after an affair" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate got great results with it.
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Wow man of God. The very fact that you have made your story public here, speaks volumes. When you need God to move and you need a right now miracle, you have no time to be pretty about the situation. I pray God grants your request, if it is sincere, and I pray that you continue to do the work of what it takes to get your family back. Keep seeking the Lord my friend. I pray the very best out come. Luke 11:13, 2Corinthians 10:3-6, Deuteronomy 31:8, Matthew 19:5. Stay encouraged!!
God says in the Bible she is free to go without penalty. She deserves to have a loving Godly man that will love her all of her life. Is that you or are you wasting her time?
Confessing every dirty detail shows true repentance by putting it in the light.... no more hiding no more secrets keeping to yourself. Showing the true horror of your betrayal then you know what your dealing with what demons are at play how to attack the root of the problem. Showing a true commitment to complete trust and openness and healing from the trauma toghether
Repent actually means to turn from your old wicked ways
@@amberkate5771 I dont know what your talking about ?
You do not want the details of the affair. Trust me. It is something you will never forget. Protect yourself and realize that all the details don't make you feel better or make it go away it just makes you go over it more and more
I I think everyone deals with betrayal differently. What helps you may not help others. In my case my husband had 3 lengthy affairs in a span of 13 yrs. We had been married for 38 years at the time. So I was dealing with 3 affairs. Lied to and deceived. In my case he wouldn’t answer a lot of the questions I had. This resulted in me seeing “movies” playing over and over. I envisioned 100 different scenarios. Had I had the entire truth from the very beginning, I could’ve dealt with the one honest truth. Not knowing the details just made me about crazy! And not knowing the actual truth, how do I know just what I am forgiving him for. So I was the complete opposite of what you experienced. Dday was 8 years ago. My husband did exactly what Jimmy said it to do. Which resulted in me not being able get healing. My heart is still shattered.
Getting the details is the worse. You get unexpected triggers that play movies in your head that torment you.
This is very helpful advice especially the sorry versus repentant spouse and the need for community because a person in this situation feels alone and like they have failed
Trust me, you do not want the details. They are something you will never forget. The details don't matter, it's about the betrayal.
I've been repentant and my wife doesn't want to work on the marriage. I committed spiritual adultery. Looking at women. And being flirtatious. She wants divorce. Please pray for restoration
Hello Jimmy, could you discuss the opposite side of this when the fallen spouse is repentant but then the other spouse refuses to forgive them for years? I’ve done everything I can towards reconciliation, and the mistake I made was even 2 years before we got married while we will we’re still dating, around 5-6 years ago, but every time we get in an argument she constantly degrades me and brings that up every time and uses it for means of justifying her financial and emotional abuse towards me
This is so good and the absolute truth!!!!
Thanks for sharing this information. I hope our churches we teach these important truths.
Helpful insights. Thank you
Welldone
I believe am at that last stage need to emotionally heal cause something happen in my soul recently where i just shut down an usually i wouldn't went to sleep but i did an i was peaceful I had honestly just let go in my heart an my mind an soul #like God saying i called you so you come here
There’s nothing you can do with someone who is unrepentant, especially people who know the Bible, know God, lived His way of life for years, then choose to willfully sin. There’s nothing anyone can do. Unrepentant sin is the worst thing in existence. In fact permanent, unrepentant sin is the unpardonable sin. God cannot and will not forgive sin which is not repented of. Even God is put into an impossible situation there, and there will be what the Bible calls the incorrigibly wicked who are thrown into the lake of fire and burned up. Nothing even God can do with them. In the totality of human history, that number will probably, and hopefully be relatively small. Sin is death. The more sin I see and have experienced around me the more I absolutely hate it. We need God’s Kingdom!
Is it biblical to divorce on emotional infidelity? My husband had 3. He's sorry, not repentant. I don't want to disobey God and want to do the right thing.
Camille Renken @ Camille, May God heal your marriage. How did God deal with you when you also had emotional infidelity to Him? Likewise then, do the same...
Amen!! Great advice even for other relational situations outside of adultery
I associated my significant other with undermining me yet I never had any evidence. This continued for quite a long time, I didn't have the idea on what to do. I was so jumpy and chosen to discover an answer, I saw a suggestion about a programmer and a reliable hacker, and chose to reach him. I clarified the circumstance about it to him and he said he was going to help me, but payment before services, thank you for disappointing me after making the payment, I gave him all the informations he required and a short time later I got all my answer by giving me access in an easiest way to access his phone completely, I was harmed when I saw what my husband have been upto with my close friend, I feel so terrible about treachery. however, thank you HACKER_DERRICK010 for assisting me with getting this data, you can get in touch with him by means of instagram via HACKER_DERRICK010
I would not go alone with this
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If you are dealing with unrepentant spouse , long term or serial cheating, get to a safe place in my life, where I can deal with my own issues, don' try to deal with it without the support you need, do not try to deal with alone, You can not stay with someone who is not repentant. To be repentant is to be willing to do what it takes to resolve the conflict in the marriage. I this probably applies to abuse and abandonment as well. If they continue to resist making the marriage work, and do not do what needs to happen.
I need prayer so bad. It’s been a year and a half and I still am so hurt I physically feel my heart hurt. I’m scared because I can feel myself growing in resentment and I don’t want to. With all my heart when I say I forgive her I mean it, but afterwards I have to second guess if I really do. I don’t enjoy being around her or talking with her, we have had sex 4 times in the last 6 months and in my opinion that was 3 times too many, even in marriage counseling I just feel like I want to explode when we dive into the issue. Please help me I’m so so weak. The sadness is so strong I get goosebumps and it’s hard to take care of myself like showering and brushing my teeth. We both go to individual counseling and marriage counseling, and while I feel my person session go very well, I feel our marriage session does not. I feel like she is so embarrassed that she isn’t being completely honest. I feel like she’s hiding more and more details and I just don’t trust her. I don’t want to divorce, especially because I have a son almost here, but I can’t live like this much longer. Father please be with Your son. I need You so bad
This is coming at you two months late, but I'll pray for you. You are NOT weak. The pain is unbearable. I'm also a betrayed spouse, and be sure you take care of yourself. It's been almost a year for me and I'm moving to divorce. Remember, divorce is acceptable and biblical. You are not sinning. I've been researching Adultery non stop for many months, and I have read many, many stories of people who have battled their wayward spouses to get their needs met (like me) finally landed on divorce saying "I wish I would have made the decision to divorce sooner." I have yet to read a story where a betrayed spouse says "I divorced and I wished I wouldn't have." Maybe there are some, but I guarantee it is a much smaller number. Read the divorce minister. Divorce is often the default response to a cheating spouse.
I know this is a year late but brother I am in your same position so I totally understand and empathize. It is NOT easy. And you are NOT weak. You simply love. With love there is hurt. Think about how God’s heart must feel that he has millions of those who He created whom He wants with Him, reject Him and are unfaithful to him by believing and worshipping other gods or not believing in Him. If you are praying that God prunes and mold you to be more like Jesus then part of that is increasing in love as the world decreases. THIS is the storm. THIS is the moment where Peter walked on water towards Jesus but sunk as soon as he took his eyes off Him and focused on the storm. The hardest thing to do is keep your eyes on Jesus and off the storm and He will give you the strength you need. My wife of 7 years had moment of weakness and slept with an old boyfriend while away in another country visiting her grandmother. She confessed but there was no repentance. No remorse. THAT in all honesty is what is leading me to the divorce. To know I was at the lowest point going through depression and that was what was done to me, it’s hard. She doesn’t want a divorce but it’s not so much about me forgiving bc I THINK I have (still confused on the difference between forgiveness in my head and forgiveness in my heart. I think I have in my heart but not my head bc everything is a trigger), it’s about her response to her action. I love my wife very much but trust is now out the window. So that being said I’m moving forward with divorce not because I don’t love it bc I don’t forgive but bc trust and loyalty and your intimacy with your spouse is what makes the marriage. If that intimacy was shared with another person and now you have difficulty trusting, ask yourself what’s healthier for your mental state. You can forgive and move forward. Forgiveness is not forgetting. Forgiveness is for your own sense of peace and not allowing someone’s actions to dictate your emotions. Stay strong, remain in Christ, ask Him to lead your decisions and most importantly, TRUST God that He will do so. Maybe the Lord allows these these to make us realize no matter how close you may think you are to someone, no one will be fully faithful except God. May God be truth, and all man a liar. Allow God to work in her heart and in yours bc even though we don’t want to admit it, we have our own issues as well. Not justifying the action, but a reminder that we are in the flesh and not yet perfect until the rapture and we receive our immortal and INCORRUPTIBLE bodies. Stay strong and focus on Jesus. He’ll get you through. God bless my friend.
I will admit that i had an emotional affair that led to a physical affair. it was about 2.5 months of emotional and the last few weeks it had led to a one time ordeal where i had sex with another woman. After i came clean about what i did i gave my wife the details like she asked. we are currently separated. I repented and took full responsibility for what i did but she already made up her mind that its over. Am i doing something wrong? I want to save my marriage.
What about emotional cheating that lasted about three months? How do you heal from that?
Yes, my husband is addicted to porn and has an obsession with another woman (emotional affair). This all feels like he has broken our marriage covenant. Even if your spouse hasn't actually slept with someone else, if they are unfaithful in their heart, I think it hurts just as much.
Blacknightiger mcknight I understand completely. That’s why I’m asking how you begin to heal (both parties). Because Mr. Evans is talking about disclosing everything that happened but if the affair were through texts and nothing sexual happened I guess I wanna know what steps to take.
Elsie W, First thing I want to say is you’re not alone. I Thank God that I’m on this side of it now. The steps to take, would be to ask for full disclosure and also the reveal of root issue or issues that make him want to do that, so those can be talked through. Lean on God, my go to verse was Psalm 31 (I believe) it says God is my refuge. I lean on God to keep me safe including my heart. I also pray that he reveals what I need to know. Just don’t think you fall short because your spouse does dumb things. Most of the time, the man that does these things, is broken and feels down about himself. The last thing is, call things how you want them to be, not what they look like. Call that man a good man, he will be what you say he is. The power of life and death are in the tongue.
I pray for your healing and your husbands. The deception of porn is straight from the pit of hell.
Constance Alvarez thank you so much for this. God bless you. And I’m the one at fault. I started having feelings for a gym partner after only working out together for a month maybe less. We however spoke almost everyday via text and in turned into something I never saw coming. We never had sex or kissed but we have had some hugs that may have lingered on for too long. I didn’t realize how lonely I felt till he came along. From beginning to end the time period was 3 months or less and my husband had been shattered . We are trying to work on ourselves and our marriage because I now unfortunately understand I had a blind spot that was reveled to me and perhaps I put too much stock in my happiness depending on how my husband made me feel verses looking to God for that.
Elsie W my prayers are with you. I pray for a full restoration and more than you both could ever imagine.
God says he will your husband beauty for his ashes. That was the promise I’ve held on to. Marriage has 100 percent success rate when you serve each other and put God first. I’m sending you both my love and prayers. And when Satan tries to put guilt on your mind, remember God has forgiven you if you’ve asked him to and if he can forgive you then who are you to not forgive yourself. Remember you are not what you’ve done
Is there any resources that you can offer to heal someone who has been wounded by an affair and the unrepentant spouse is now seeking a divorce?
I associated my significant other with undermining me yet I never had any evidence. This continued for quite a long time, I didn't have the idea on what to do. I was so jumpy and chosen to discover an answer, I saw a suggestion about a programmer and a reliable hacker, and chose to reach him. I clarified the circumstance about it to him and he said he was going to help me, but payment before services, thank you for disappointing me after making the payment, I gave him all the informations he required and a short time later I got all my answer by giving me access in an easiest way to access his phone completely, I was harmed when I saw what my husband have been upto with my close friend, I feel so terrible about treachery. however, thank you HACKER_DERRICK010 for assisting me with getting this data, you can get in touch with him by means of instagram via HACKER_DERRICK010
@@amberkate5771 Did you have any problems with this hacker afterwards?
My ex-husband of 37 years cheated on me when I was 23 and not long after having my second baby. because he said I was fat and ugly. I believed him for those years. then I had I am sorry but it didn't happen. well, it was just a kiss. then a fondal. . then and so on.
Thank you for this.. whats the name of book again
Does do anything to repair mean taking abuse constantly from the other spouse, verbal physical all kinds
Does that mean you file for a divorce if they’re unrepentant. My wife blatantly lies and denies she is when I ask her but then I go through her phone they having phone sex and sexting sending naked pictures.
My wife doesn’t want to make the marriage work but she doesn’t want to file for a divorce.
We are so sorry to hear of what you are facing. Please feel free to get plugged in with our team at xomarriage.com. Praying for you!
My husband had an affair and is not repentant. So what am I to do? He says hes been unhappy in our marriage for "3 years"
Rachel this is coming late but I'm also a betrayed spouse. We have three choices basically. Work to reconcile, Divorce, or give it time. I can tell you that after 11 months of a defensive, uncooperative, defiant, aloof wayward spouse, it is time for me to call it quits. It hurts horribly.
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That’s what I noticed: she refused to give me details, and she sounded very not repented
No, I highly doubt my girl would tell me everything she is terrified of doing that
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Did Jesus really say adultery breaks a covenant?
🔵 THE EXCEPTION CLAUSE
The references in Matthew 5:31,32 and Matthew 19:1-9, when read in the NIV Bible and many other new versions, state that marital unfaithfulness/sexual immorality is Biblical grounds for divorce.
This is deduced from the clause in the King James and other older versions, where the wording read “except it be for fornication”. The NIV translators considered this to be equivalent to “marital unfaithfulness/sexual immorality”, which is not an accurate translation of the original Greek text. The Greek word Porneia means fornication (i.e. pre-marital sexual relationships) in context to the Matthean exception clause.
The Biblical Hebrew Custom of Betrothal Engagement :
When Culturally understood this phrase “except it be for fornication”, refers to the Hebrew custom of courtship/engagement before marriage and allows for breaking the “engagement” in the event of fornication (i.e. pre-marital sexual relationships). This is the position that Joseph and Mary found themselves in, as recorded in Matthew 1:18-20.
Joseph was espoused (or engaged) to Mary and before they came together in marriage, she was found to be pregnant. Joseph thus contemplated exercising his legal rights to put his wife away by giving her a bill of divorcement officially ending the engagement. In the Hebrew custom, she was considered to be his wife during the time of the binding espousal period, even though they had not officially come together in the covenant of marriage.
The exception clause is only found in Matthew’s gospel, as this has been proven by many Scholars historically that it was written primarily to Jewish believers, and is regarded as the Kingdom Gospel.
Mark 10:10-12 and Luke 16:18 address the subject of divorce and re-marriage, but do not include the exception clause.
The reason for this is that both Mark and Luke were written with a more Gentile readership in mind than Matthew’s gospel.
In the ancient Greek/Gentile and Modern western cultures we do not adhere to the 9 month or more bind espousal period and thus, the gospels of Mark and Luke naturally omit the exception clause, as it is irrelevant/non essential.
Further Biblical Explanation about Betrothal/Espousal Betrothal/Espousal -Divorce of a betrothed wife.
Betrothal/Engagement among the Jews in Biblical times took place from anywhere up to 9 months to 2 years or more before the marriage proper took place. A man would make a agreement and contract between himself and the father of a virgin woman to pay a bride price/dowry of virgins that he would return to marry her.
In that culture, a woman who was betrothed/espoused was given the title and regarded as the man’s wife, and he as her husband, though they had not yet had the marital ceremony nor sexually consummated the marriage. The bride being in all respects bound as a wife, could then only be freed by death or divorce, under the same divorce laws as the married woman.
Three Rabbinical Schools of thought of the rabbis during the time of Jesus, shed some light on the divorce issue concerning the grounds for divorce.
To correctly understand Jesus’ response to the Pharisees in Matthew 19, we need to understand the broader context and what positions the Jews had on divorce and remarriage in Jesus’ day. The Pharisees were testing Jesus to see which rabbinical school of thought Jesus would side with. The Roman society around them allowed divorce for any reason. In the Oral Torah, which the Jews in Jesus’ day held equal to the Old Testament Scriptures, is found three explanations (schools of thought) of what Moses meant as grounds for divorce. Usually it is stated that there were two schools of thought in Jesus’ day, but when researched in the Mishnah (The Oral Torah), there were three schools of thought. The third school of thought was “no fault” divorce - Rabbi Akiba
The positions of the following three rabbis are found in the Mishnah, Gittin p. 90a, 90b:
1. Rabbi Shammai restricted divorce to causes of adultery - causative, but a liberalization of the Mosaic Law. Following Deuteronomy 24:1-4, this school believed that finding some uncleanness in her though it is unclear to this day what this uncleanness actually is, may have implied in Hebrew to DABAR ERWAT (incest) Deut. 24:1 Torah erwat, or doubtful erwat (if the relationship is not clear, then he may divorce her) Erwat occurs 54 times of which 31 times it refers to incest, or something that greatly displeased him that gave the right to give the wife a writing of divorcement and put her away.
2. Rabbi Hillel allowed divorce for almost any grievance no matter how trivial. For instance, if a wife was found speaking to another man in the street or if she burnt the food, forgot to salt it, or if he happened to find another woman more beautiful than her, he could give her writing of divorcement and put her away.
3. Rabbi Akiba - even if he finds another woman more beautiful than she is. (No fault divorce)
The Pharisees were questioning Jesus to see which explanation Jesus would side with. They asked Jesus if divorce was lawful for “any reason”. The disciple’s response clearly indicates that in Jesus’ response He did not side with any of the rabbis’ explanations in the Oral Torah. Jesus’ exception for divorce was much narrower than “marital unfaithfulness” (NIV). The response of the disciples tells us that Jesus’ response to the Pharisees did not support any of the schools of thought in the Oral Torah. “His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.” Matt. 19:10. Jesus’ response to the Pharisees also tells us that He did not side with any of the Rabbis interpretations of Deuteronomy 24:1-4 in the Oral Torah. He said that the permission allowing divorce and remarriage had never been God’s will. “From the beginning it was not so.”
God Hates Divorce.
Because marriage is a binding covenant, entered into by two individuals (male and female), which can only be terminated by death, God says that He hates divorce. Hear also what he says in Malachi about the marriage covenant and the mystery of becoming one flesh:
“… the Lord is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the Lord made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel….” Malachi 2: 14-16.
There's the supernatural, instantaneous God-joining/yoking of Matt. 19:6, and Mark 10:9
[Greek Word : SYNEZEUXEN] that takes place that the Apostle Paul calls a "great mystery" in Ephesians 5:31 that is UNBREAKABLE and there's the carnal man-joining of everything else described in 1 Cor. 6:16.
God never joins/yokes [SYNEZEUXEN] anyone for any reason to more than one living covenant spouse at a time, and only death unjoins what He has joined/yoked together. Period
[Matthew 19:4-6
Mark 10:6-9
1 Corinthians 7:39
Romans 7:2,3]
The Lord Jesus Himself was accused of being born of Fornication/Porniea;Porne in John 8:41, and why Joseph sought to put Mary away secretly in Matthew 1:18-25.
In Mark 6:3 Jesus is called Jesus the "son of Mary" and not Joseph which was another slight at Him for what they had believed that He had been born out of fornication(Greek word Porniea;Porne/Hebrew word Zanah (pre-marital sex) not Adultery (Greek word Moicheia/Hebrew word Na'aph post-marital sex) When men in Hebrew/Jewish tradition usually always carried their fathers last name. Hence for instance Simon Peter and Andrew sons of Bar-Jonah, James and John sons of Zebedee, Judas (son of) Iscariot, etc.,
Jesus speaking to the Pharisees says :
“You do the deeds of your father.” Then they said to Him, “We were not born of >>FORNICATION>the Son of Mary,>So they were offended at Him.”
Thank you for this. This was wonderfully compiled and just what I needed to read this morning.
Yes, extra martial affair does break the marriage covenant. God said you shall worship no other gods but me. Marriage is a picture of God and the Church (bride.). Do you see a third party here? No? That’s correct! God even says about Himself- I AM a jealous God. Matthew 19 is the exception clause. Jesus knew it’s too hard to rebuild the trust for adultery and that’s the purpose for the exception.
is not being able to get a girlfriend or any woman for that matter considered a sin?
Marriages dont heal after an affair. Sorry. And please dont ever try to play the good samaritan trying to heal a cheater, it wont work, and your heart will be shattered into pieces again.
Have dignity, and move on. Cheaters arent worth putting your heart on the line again. Stay away. You are valuable.
I was the cheater. I repented, got saved and he won’t take me back. What do I do, Mr. Evans?
Move on
Randy T I love him and want him back. He was my husband.
@@celenathetrinigirl you can still pray that god will change his mind, but you should be doing whats best for yourself also. Become a better you in the meantime. God may be preparing you for someone, never know.
Randy T thanks Randy T. Great advice. That’s exactly what I’m doing! Thanks. God bless you! ☺️🇹🇹 Celena from Trinidad.
You cheated so the man I'm sure is hurt and confused and feels that he has been dishonored. I say Pray for him and ask God to change his heart and deliver the hurt and pain that you have caused. You should speak life to your marriage. I'm not bashing you I'm just saying.. understand and Randy that's some awful information to give someone
Chris and cindy beall are not a good example. It really turns me off to your ministry that you guys seem to push thier story as so incredible or an "amazing" testimony and example of forgiveness and marriage.
Could you please explain why their testimony of forgiveness and marital healing is irrelevant? I am trying to personally navigate my wife's 2-year emotional affair and I am always seeking Christian success stories to see if my marriage can ever be good again.
@@c.j.9248 if your wife had had a baby with him would you still be seeking to keep your marriage? Im sorry to hear about what happened to you. But if you look at thier story in its entirety, I just do not believe that thier story is one you would call "incredible or amazing". Its a terrible example of a "healed" marriage.
If I cheated on my wife, im sure she could forgive me. But no way in hell would she stay with me if I fathered another child...But maybe cindy is just "more annoited" than my wife? No! Shes not. The whole story creeps me out, and maybe in wrong, god forgive me if I am, but the whole thing turns me off and away from this ministry the way its presented and used.
Some people go out into nature for healing, some use the bealls story, Im not one to discourage if it works for you. But you know how you just get a feeling about some things...thats how I am with thier story. If you listen to interviews with them, things they have written and said. I dunno, the whole thing creeps me out and its disgusting on multiple levels. To much to type out here. Maybe im wrong, probably am. I hope you get healing in your marriage if its what you want, and I'll pray for you. I just think the bealls are not a good example of what is being pushed by the evans.
C.J. Gish the Beals story is a good example because it shows God’s redemptive love. It was only through repentance, grace and mercy that their marriage recovered. Also they both had to make a choice that although their marriage covenant had been broken several times that only through Gods grace could forgiveness happen. When we try to look at it through our natural eyes, we can never understand how this sort of forgiveness can happen. But when we look at it spiritually, then you will begin to understand God’s love. How many times have we failed the one who gave his only son for us, yet he still forgives. As Pastor said, the other person cannot just be “sorry” but must show true “repentance” to God and the covenant made with the spouse. Then and only then will healing start to take root.
Adultry is not grounds for divorce. Fornication is.