It’s crazy how South Korea would give a black women life in prison but won’t give their own citizens who have committed worse crimes a slap on the wrist
That's not true. South Korea has some of the strictest drug laws in the world that impact sentencing guidelines for citizens and foreigners within the country.
@@all4travel3000drug laws yeah but how they deal with sex crimes against women and children is what suprises me. You would think that would attract stronger punishment but nope
Do you think it’s spiritual? These men are wilding out while women (not all but a lot of us) are finding spiritual fulfillment, going to therapy, doing shadow work…while men are finding…drugs, red pill, violence, podcast and dust. lol
The fact she was letting him move with her to a whole other country tells me she was willing to put up with all his bad behaviors, THAT SHE ALREADY KNEW he had. These were not red flags, SHE SETTLED. Accountability means everything!
Sometimes I feel like my life is a lil boring but then I hear stories like this and realise you know I actually like this little boring life of mine because whattttttt
Same..I get so bored sometimes..but I think about all the B.S. my ex sent me through, plus hearing stories like this on social media and from family and friends.. I snap out of it.
It's easier to spot a jealous, envious, narcissistic person when they have little or nothing to offer you. A straight woman can offer another straight woman friendship and emotional support but that's about it. We can typically see that type of "frienemy" from a mile away. However a straight male can offer friendship & emotional support, sex, financial assistance, marriage, children, fairy tales and ish.😂 It's confusing to see the jealousy/envious behavior in a man who is actively trying to date you. It doesn't make sense and no one tells you about these types of men as we are growing up. She is getting her wake up call.
@@Rachael.Moreland. Men offer 3 out of 7 of those things. Sex (which probably is mediocre), children and fairy tales. The rest is just an illusion and/or false promises. 😂
She also didn't listen to the WW who saw him for what he was and tried to warn her. Meanwhile, her friends set her up for the okie doke in "protecting the kangs" 🥴
The beginning of her story proved that men (“good” or bad) will vouch for and cover for each other even while being aware of or even seeing firsthand predatory or reckless behavior by the man they’re supporting. Shoutout to the woman from the party in the beginning who was brave enough to speak up and try to warn her.
Oh, I just watched Annie Elise 10 to Life earlier today about Carmen Thomas’s murder by her baby daddy, and MULTIPLE male friends of the killer knew about it and didn’t come forward right away and continued to hang out with the guy. Even after he begged two of them to help him hide her body.
Fr. That 67 y.o. man... making it seem like without her, her boyfriend will be lost. Sir, why are you putting this expectation on her?! Why are you telling this woman not to leave him?
@@MsFadir EXACTLY! That man was fully aware of how bad he was (or could be) & still encouraged her to stick beside him so he could benefit from her life. Even her male friend blatantly lied for him after witnessing firsthand dude’s predatory behavior at the party just so that she would stay with him. Sick.
I agree. Your intuition is there for a reason, usually it us trying to protect. Trying to override it by being a "good person" will get you in trouble. It's going against your better judgment.
@@jozzz222people will use your morals and standards against you. They know you’re a good person and will forgive them or overlook things. They count on it. Be aware…YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE NICE. Protect yourself first.
I think it's important for women to remember to always be good to "themselves" and not just moral wise. Sometimes being good to yourself is making hard decisions and saying No when you need to.
Let’s talk about the friend’s dad telling her not to drop this loser. That was not her husband. She had no obligation to help or support him. She should have RAN as soon as he lost his job. That man should have been telling her to walk away, not stay. These men will protect themselves, and other men, at all cost.
And even if he was her husband...that means nothing. You should drop someone that's wrong for you...ring or not. Yall put so much on this ring and it's embarrassing
I cannot believe, a man who is himself a father, did that to her??? Like,Sir, one day you’ll have a grand daughter or maybe you have a daughter!!! Is this disrespectful, drug addicted,lump of clay, what you want for them? Smh 😡
Wow, he’s worse than Legion, it be so many people out here sent to destroy your life out of jealousy upon meeting you. Be careful who you let into your life
They can’t destroy your life unless you allow them to. We are so conditioned to be nice to people we are afraid to hurt ppls feelings to protect ourselves. the moment u notice the first inconsistency you need “x” them out ur life.
@@ten25.it’s the unfortunate truth. We got iPad kids in this generation. They’re illiterate because their young parents aren’t teaching them. We got kids raising kids. It’s crazy.
A common denominator I'm finding in all these viral stories is that the guy always has it but somehow, a few weeks or months into the relationship, he ends up having some housing issues and goes to the woman's house 🤨
I am 30 mins into this and I gotta say LADIES LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION. Even if everyone around you is telling you otherwise, go with your gut. It may not make sense in the middle of things, but you have intuition for a reason.
And what's even more telling is that the WW had her best interest at heart to try to warn her versus her friends who persuaded her to continue to deal with him. That's wild
@@truthhurts...6574 I don’t think people realize that just because you think you know someone it doesn’t mean you actually do. Often times our “friends” try to talk us out of going with our gut. I actually cut a good friend off because of that, if I’m saying no then it’s no I don’t care how amazing you think this person is, my body says no.
@skinchampagne you're right. It's having a strong sense of self. It also can make people not like you because it makes it harder for them to manipulate you. People with a strong sense of self who stand on their principles are not well liked by others who lack the wherewithal and courage to stand on business. This woman has a bright inner spirit about her that attracts the worst people. It's strange how the WW had her best interest at heart in trying to warn her versus her own friends. I got a feeling that those friends wanted to see her downfall.
Ask God if it’s his will for you to even have a significant other. Nowhere in the Bible does God promise marriage to anyone. No one is entitled to a spouse. In the Bible God TOLD Jeremiah that he was not to look for a wife nor would he have children. This applies to A LOT of people but because people don’t read the Bible they are just out here lost thinking that being single is some kind of curse when Jesus Christ himself never got married or had children.
My ex tried to R me while he was already on top of me from beating me up. I had nooooo strength at all. I’d just taken a beating and I was in shock, the ONLY thing that made him stop was me praying OUT LOUD. I literally said “Jesus! Please get him off me” and straight away he let go of me and said “why are you doing that?” Bloody demon. Who even gets turned on after a heated argument over my charger that caused him to beat me up?
Wow, that man was possessed his father is the devil. I'm so glad the Holy Spirit quickly turned you to prayer and God saved your life. I was watching a documentary on a killer and his ex-wife stated that his eyes went black before he r-ed her, she called him a demon too. This is no coincidence, some people are really run by their demons, only Jesus can protect us from these types of people. Stay safe, prayed up and may God bless you 🙏
The universe was screaming at her to get away from this man, but she’s thinking about her “moral compass” 🤦🏿♀️ She new he was no good and wanted to leave him before he even lost his job, but felt sorry for him and messed herself up. Yanie, I think you need to do a live about this “moral compass” these women have empathy for men, but not themselves (I have been guilty of this myself).
I am ruthless with men and when it comes to what I want, if a man is moving crazy I bounce with no hesitation. I don't feel sorry for them at all. I am honestly not sure why women feel the need to be guilted by men when it comes to morals when the man wouldn't spare a second thought to throw you under the bus
@@MsFadir Exactly . I would’ve been like “ what do you mean you aren’t going to the funeral? …” well what is his full name ?”. Because I’m going to look up his death certificate and go lurking on social media .
Notice how she said she cut a friend off for something she let this man slide with .. a complete stranger to her ! I have no sympathy, when selective discernment for the opposite sex comes into play .
@@beewest5704 that’s incorrect.. an intimate relationship between you and a friend is different from an intimate relationship with a partner. Yes , but that’s not my point . My point is she held her friend to a standard , once her friend voided those terms she disposed over her .. but with this man that she had just met she somehow lets those standards go …🫠! I call Desperation or Delusion .. which she said in other words she was exactly that !
She said she realised this in hindsight! Also she was friends longer. So not so easy to cut off, more like expired. Exactly what ended up happening with this guy
Sadly this is what "ride or die" gets you as a bw when you do not have boundaries and when you don't know when to let things go and when to say goodbye when it comes to men. These men will set you up as the fall chick.
@tessy28 And he kept showing her time and time again that he was clearly going to do it down the road, but on a much grander ⚖️......YIKES. It's so unfortunate she didn't love herself enough to leave 😔
When she was describing what attracted her to him, none of it involved his character/ethics/morals. Who you travel with is so important. I dont care if it's a road trip or to another continent. 🤔
I watch a lot of Stephenie Soo and i have learned the laws in that country are not favourable to women, they would literally let an abuser go with all the evidence but would convict an innocent person with zero evidence and through hearsay and trust words of liars and abusers, for drugs.....i got super scared when i heard of a K-drama actor who got committed suicide due to being framed for taking drugs...
@@Rachael.Moreland.i just hope this lady's case doesn't get to that severity cos i do understand that they have heavy laws agaisnt drugs and this woman is not a famous superstar they trying to get, but the police force doesn't even do proper investigations because they want promotions on arresting a dealer...
This is so hard to watch, listening to her in like how? I don’t hear any redeeming qualities that he had to make her stay with him other than he was black.
Right??? she's HELLLLLA calm for someone facing LIFE in a foreign country. Unless my lawyer has almost guaranteed me that I'm gonna win this case, I'm gonna abe looking a hot ass mess all day every day
She said she had to re-record a few times due to crying. I highly doubt that what we’re seeing on the outside is representative of how she’s truly feeling on the inside. She had to get herself together (at least for a few minutes at a time) bc how else would she have been able to tell the story? We don’t know if she broke down once the camera turned off.
Why should she expend energy, when you read philosophy. You know its a waste of energy which wont change a damn thing. Maybe she should cry infront of the judge for mercy, but thats about it. Other than that, she should discuss with the embassy and other such things.
Gurrrrrl....i wanted to give her grace but WHAT THE H IS GOING ON???? You notice you feel different EVERY time you drank with this menace yet you KEPT drinking with him. He had you looking CRAZY at his sister's house and you KNEW then he was currently on drugs and you still stayed. You moved him in without him having any income so you became his sugamama???? I'm just at a loss for words
Why would you be looking to give her 'grace'? She is the victim. I don't understand the victim bashing. I mean, I know she made mistakes, but she isn't the bad guy here.
@@louniece1650But he is and I’m trying to figure out why that wasn’t apparent to her??? It’s WEIRD. She can clock her friends but not him? That’s not victim blaming…I’m just trying to understand her thought process.
@@MsElegance23 Being blissfully ignorant doesn't benefit anyone. If you have a good heart and don't think ppl are capable of evil, let them PROVE it to you first.
Men are not children that you need to give 2nd and 3rd and 16th chances. Stop getting sucked into ppls explanations. Don’t ask for them and don’t listen to them. Women’s curiosity is killing them. Who cares why-when it doesn’t make sense or feel right just leave. Don’t reward confusion with curiosity and then blind trust.
Crazy how she thought his proximity to the mayor meant he had good character when most politicians are dirty Also How can you scream intuition this & red flag that when you ignored them so heavily? But she’s telling the story with a smile so she must have the wiggle room to make so many mistakes w/o moving differently.
She mentioned that he was using her status to make himself seem more legitimate to his sister so that he could possibly get more access to his inheritance. I wonder what status that is. He hunted for her a found a nice piece of prey.
She met another legion and I think she still with him women like this are dense. She thinks he’s in love keep talking about the gifts. All that stuff is bait and she fell for the bait like a rat to cheese. 🪤 🐀
@@PrayerOfMannesah the fact that by the end of the story she was still considering marrying him as a “business” definitely sold it for me. Can’t save everyone
You ain't lying. My friend used to date someone in the mayor's office. The stories I heard just cemented that 99 percent of people in politics are in a dirty club.
Him: I lost my job Me: good luck and good bye...blocked. I would never live under the same roof with someone I am dating. I would never take meds from another person. I have never been happier to have hit the wall and be average at best.😂
So, I'm just starting the video and around 7:47. she mentioned he said" he made 125k" that's the first red flag cause rich people don't say much about their finances. they move with a distinct aura. Edit: F*ck it. I clocked so many red flags, I got exhausted. That man is exhausting. Also, she has a lack of trust within herself, a lot. It showed consistently throughout this whole story. Im tired but hey making mistakes, makes for wisdom, I guess.
Yes it's true men with money don't talk to much about what they have and they certainly don't need to set you up as the fall girl for their illegal activities. I don't think she had dated a wealthy man before because she was easily swayed by his words but she didn't clock that his actions never matched up
My moral compass has kept me from bad situations. I think it’s more about her morals are aligned to the “struggle love” direction 🥴 She needs to go get that recalibrated…expeditiously 😂🤣
Her friends from the party are not her friends!!!! They didn't come to you AND they denied the girl's allegations and gassed him up. They dont like you!!!
Wishing you the best of luck, I hope you get through the trial safely and that your freedom is not compromised. Good luck, I wish you the best in your healing journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm sorry, but I know women like this. At the beginning, they do not listen. I tell women all the time, even when I was 18 years old, if people do something bad, do not forget it, especially if they do it a second time. I know all this stuff about narcissism, but people also have a choice. If it doesn't feel good, why are you still there? She is not taking any accountability for what happened, and she is still fighting people in the comments on her TikTok. I know people are not going to like what I have to say, but seriously, I've had friends and relatives like this. I tell them that person is trash, and maybe the situation in the bedroom is too crazy for them to back off, or they are so infatuated with the person's outer appearance. Something is keeping them hooked to the foolishness. It is not just narcissism. Something is not right. I'm not going to wait until I have a criminal situation happening before I make a change. She was forced to make this change because of what he did. She would have still been with him to this day if the situation had not taken place. It's unfortunate.
So, I hold grudges… and I used to think that that was a major character flaw that I needed to fix but now I’m thinking it might be a protective mechanism 🤔
I useed to womder why Tyler Perry told so many sad stories but now I see why. Its really sad how these men are. Im sorry this woman had to experience this
Girl this is me and I'm protecting my daughter at all cost, I do not need a relationship that bad. I got 6 years before she's 18 and I'll try then, and just maybe then I'll still be fine with being single. It feels good to not have to worry about a nicca cheating or lying or violating my home or my kid. Naaaa I'm good.
Beautiful girls just don’t want to believe that they are a perfect good individual human being WITHOUT tugging someone else’s mediocre brother along in their life. 😩 💔
@@go_off_Sis THAT'S THE SOCIAL ENGINEERING AND CONDITIONING I used to think like this to back in the day and then I got away from people I learned I listen and I stopped going to these danky cult minded black churches
Y'all S. Korea has very strict drugs laws. Very strict. I forget the actor's name who played in a few dramas like My Mister, Coffee Prince, and the award winning movie Parasite, but he unalived himself because he was under investigation for those kinds of charges. The fact that this girl is a foreigner AND melinated at that, probably isn't helping her case, i would imagine, but let's be real, they unfortunately prioritize those kinds of charges over the more serious ones, especially crimes against women.
I remember years ago, they arrested a K-pop artist for smoking weed while traveling ABROAD. The whole country was up in arms because he wasn't in the country and he didn't bring any drugs to Korea but the police stood 10 toes down on Koreans not dong drugs
So interesting that she cut off her friend for asking about jobs and wanting to be around her based on what she said but then chose a man who love bombed her & who ended up putting her in this situation, another case of my man my man my man, as a single woman, these ladies continue to show their friends that were disposable but wanna come crying to us when these men turn out to be demons. I hope it works out for her but really do better.
Looking for this comment ! She was quick to cut off her friend but literally ran through the deepest layer of hell w this man. I’m clearly not a girls girl, this is sick
@@kyky6825literally & then ppl are using the race card to excuse her, she got into this situation solely because she chose to chase after a man, it’s not hard to google the laws of a country before moving there, everyone knows Korea is strict about drugs regardless of who you are & being a black person she should’ve taken even more precaution instead of going in blind for a man
You’re so right ! Race card ? Even if that were the case , at this point this had to be whatever God she believes in finally slapping her wrist. This was hard to watch couldn’t imagine living in it by choice
Right and honestly I didn't hear anything wrong about the friend. She sounded like she needed help with getting ahead in life. The only way I can see the friend as being toxic is if she was trying to compete or copy her life. These type of women will move mountains to get their bums jobs but not a friend.
@@kyky6825exactly, it’s giving delusional & victim mindset, bad choices catch up with us eventually at this age we all know the world isn’t fair to anyone, very hard to watch but best of luck to her fr
Quite literally, my sister did the same. It will never make sense to me but apparently emotional abuse makes some people's logic and rationale go on extended vacations. 🤷🏾♀️
Or we are our own biggest villian. She knew , she closed her eyes & bombarded forward. She found out still barged forward. So sad....probably the drugs I though but I see no sign she has learnt much so that she is not in the same situation ever again. Sad that she is probably now going to pay with her life in jail.
When she started listing the reasons she didn't want to marry him, i was expecting a list of the red flags........she said " 1. I dont want to Elope" Thats your number 1 reason. That made the top spot? Ok girl! 🥴😶🙃
Child bye..... she thought she was doing something by dating the mayor's employee..... why would she think he was an honest person just because he worked for the mayor???? Mayors and their employees commit crimes daily😂😂😂 ESPECIALLY those that work for large cities😂😂 she is a goof
She is a victim, a victim of her own self-destructive personality. 🎯💯 He is a classic narcissist, my aunt was mine-they SINGULARLY, only care about themselves, always. 😑
Chile I thought this man was ATLEAST about to be fine as hell for all the ish she put up with and looked passed.. I’m like THATS him??? Come on now smdh. He LOOKS off and dusty. Chiiiilllle
Such a pretty young lady and it sucks that she’s going through this. I’ve been single since 2016, I was engaged and broke off the engagement because I saw too many red flags to go through it. Story like these is the reason why I’m single. It’s crazy out here 😩😩😩
Exact same story for me.. year and everything. A relationship and marriage is just not an accomplishment for me!! ESPECIALLY when there are red flags flying everywhere.
One of her biggest issues in this story starts with alcohol. I know some will fight me on this but you have to be sober when dealing with challenging people.
@@jacks4009 yes but if you notice the worst things happened when she was drinking. If she wasn’t drinking a lot of these event’s wouldn’t have taken place. Just saying and I agree alcohol isn’t bad in moderation/occasionally.
I always ghost a person as soon as my intuition kicks in. I’m so sad it’s come to this but the future is getting worse dealing with these men. it’s a means of protection to not give men chances anymore; it’s a manner of life or death. As soon as you feel an inclined of red flags flying and gut feeling telling you to run start sprinting. I realize it’s also standard trying to tell us to stand tall and we keep on ignoring the gut feeling we need to reprogram our brain to listen.
Me too.. I exit really quick and block numbers.. my family and friends think I over react and state I'm going to be single the rest of my life because I don't give men a chance, even after I explain certain situations to them. I don't care. My last relationship was the worst I ever been in and I'm not getting into a bad situation anymore because I didn't listen to my intuition from the jump. I waste no time in ghosting as soon as I get a baby red flag.
I haven’t finished the video yet but her body language, the way she shifts her eyes a lot and how she constantly says she doesn’t remember certain things makes be believe she’s omitting a lot of details. Idk that’s just my opinion.
RIIGHT like are all these males actually operating like this? I mean I wouldn’t be surprised at this point but it’s like horror story after horror story. I knew it was bad but it seems DANGEROUSLY bad with everything bw are coming with on the clock app.
When are we going to finally learn? 🤦🏾♀️ I'm so over these stories, but simultaneously, I'm glad more are coming out, so at least little by little, more women can learn to leave these ninjas alone.
When the devil can't get to you, he sends you a partner. Right now doesn't seem to be a good time for dating AT ALL. Who men should be partnering with, they instead see as competition or their opportunity to level up. It's an evil world we live in.
Everything she stated how this guy is. Is EXACTLY how my baby father is. I regret meeting that man. He did the smear campaign thing on me too with his family that liked me as well. Glad I escaped him and he’s out of my life! I wish I knew her I would’ve told her to RUN from the first red flag 🏃🏽🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽🏃🏽♀️ 💨
Consider this ladies; A Dentist colleague of mine, she basically mentioned to me that overuse or long term use of those hard drugs can affect some teeth, probably why he in the story needed an extraction.🤔 Highly recommend that to be something to pay attention to when getting closer to someone new.
This is painful to watch. As much as I feel sorry for her, I can't help wondering why women deal with things like this for so long? At what point do we draw the line and chose to love and respect ourselves? smh
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"I got into protect black men mode..." 😒😒😒 Black women.... when are we done with that bs
They typically learn once they've met the narcissist and are victimized. It's a lot of women out here going through "wake up calls".
That was a record scratch moment for me. This whole time I thought she was with a Korean man
No more of that!
Amen amen released and healed from those shackles 😂
He not even the true black man, that’s a drake
It’s crazy how South Korea would give a black women life in prison but won’t give their own citizens who have committed worse crimes a slap on the wrist
that's blk tax...even if you are minimal in the crime or incriminated in it, they will give your blk behind the most years
This one case of a girl who was 8… he served some time and got police protection after he got out…..
That's not true. South Korea has some of the strictest drug laws in the world that impact sentencing guidelines for citizens and foreigners within the country.
Agreed
@@all4travel3000drug laws yeah but how they deal with sex crimes against women and children is what suprises me. You would think that would attract stronger punishment but nope
I drug crime in Korea is the worst. Unfortunately as a foreigner you’re going to get a harsher punishment. I pray that she can beat this case!
She needs to figure out a way to get out that country and go someplace without extradition. Boat?
@@cathylake9072ABSOLUTELY!!!
It’s the wrong time in life to be dealing with men. Too risky
!!!!!
Do you think it’s spiritual? These men are wilding out while women (not all but a lot of us) are finding spiritual fulfillment, going to therapy, doing shadow work…while men are finding…drugs, red pill, violence, podcast and dust. lol
Remind me when there was a good time?
For real
No we just need to pick better and if its one red flag dip
The fact she was letting him move with her to a whole other country tells me she was willing to put up with all his bad behaviors, THAT SHE ALREADY KNEW he had. These were not red flags, SHE SETTLED. Accountability means everything!
The worst part is she will probably get convicted. Asians don't play about drugs
yes! smh
Hmm but technically it would have been red flags that she ignored no?
@@leilact9368Oh, she's in an Asian country, (and she's a bw)? I hadn't gotten to that part yet. But, yeah...she'll definitely convicted.
Girl because he worked for the mayor!!! 😂😂😂😂 sad 2 say when you date ppl for titles, status, or money your bound 2 end up in a messed up situation.
Soon as she said “ he called me crying hysterically, about his brother dying in Virginia and being shot” I knew he was black.
I knew he was a dusty illegal activity kang. They have a distinct manner of dustyism that is just so repulsive but easy to spot.
Ma'am 🤭
Omg 😂
yup
LMAOOOOOOO
Sometimes I feel like my life is a lil boring but then I hear stories like this and realise you know I actually like this little boring life of mine because whattttttt
Same..I get so bored sometimes..but I think about all the B.S. my ex sent me through, plus hearing stories like this on social media and from family and friends.. I snap out of it.
Facts
This is why it’s good to be nosey 😂 we realize our boring life is actually luxurious and the real soft life 😂
I’ve always loved my boring, predictable life. There’s no greater peace.
🎶I think I like this little life🎶
I hate that we do that. Easily cut this friend off but kept trying with the random man that was just like her why???
Thissss!!! I don’t feel bad for her at all.
Seriously, that is fucked up and I’ve experienced that with my sister. Shit is sad :/
It's easier to spot a jealous, envious, narcissistic person when they have little or nothing to offer you.
A straight woman can offer another straight woman friendship and emotional support but that's about it. We can typically see that type of "frienemy" from a mile away.
However a straight male can offer friendship & emotional support, sex, financial assistance, marriage, children, fairy tales and ish.😂
It's confusing to see the jealousy/envious behavior in a man who is actively trying to date you. It doesn't make sense and no one tells you about these types of men as we are growing up.
She is getting her wake up call.
@@Rachael.Moreland. Men offer 3 out of 7 of those things. Sex (which probably is mediocre), children and fairy tales. The rest is just an illusion and/or false promises. 😂
She also didn't listen to the WW who saw him for what he was and tried to warn her. Meanwhile, her friends set her up for the okie doke in "protecting the kangs" 🥴
The beginning of her story proved that men (“good” or bad) will vouch for and cover for each other even while being aware of or even seeing firsthand predatory or reckless behavior by the man they’re supporting. Shoutout to the woman from the party in the beginning who was brave enough to speak up and try to warn her.
Oh, I just watched Annie Elise 10 to Life earlier today about Carmen Thomas’s murder by her baby daddy, and MULTIPLE male friends of the killer knew about it and didn’t come forward right away and continued to hang out with the guy. Even after he begged two of them to help him hide her body.
Yeah! How ‘bout them apples? 🤯
This is sooo true. I’m blown right now as this is such a telling reminder. Always keep your hand on your sword.
Fr. That 67 y.o. man... making it seem like without her, her boyfriend will be lost. Sir, why are you putting this expectation on her?! Why are you telling this woman not to leave him?
@@MsFadir EXACTLY! That man was fully aware of how bad he was (or could be) & still encouraged her to stick beside him so he could benefit from her life. Even her male friend blatantly lied for him after witnessing firsthand dude’s predatory behavior at the party just so that she would stay with him. Sick.
You CANNOT Be a “good person” when your intuition is telling you to run.
😩 this seems to be a consistent thing with women in these situations
Please explain. I’m really interested to hear this perspective
I agree. Your intuition is there for a reason, usually it us trying to protect. Trying to override it by being a "good person" will get you in trouble. It's going against your better judgment.
@@jozzz222people will use your morals and standards against you. They know you’re a good person and will forgive them or overlook things. They count on it. Be aware…YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE NICE. Protect yourself first.
I think it's important for women to remember to always be good to "themselves" and not just moral wise. Sometimes being good to yourself is making hard decisions and saying No when you need to.
Let’s talk about the friend’s dad telling her not to drop this loser. That was not her husband. She had no obligation to help or support him. She should have RAN as soon as he lost his job. That man should have been telling her to walk away, not stay. These men will protect themselves, and other men, at all cost.
Ikr....... alot of men protect each other.......even the bad guys.
And even if he was her husband...that means nothing. You should drop someone that's wrong for you...ring or not. Yall put so much on this ring and it's embarrassing
🙌🏽🙌🏽
I cannot believe, a man who is himself a father, did that to her??? Like,Sir, one day you’ll have a grand daughter or maybe you have a daughter!!!
Is this disrespectful, drug addicted,lump of clay, what you want for them? Smh 😡
If things were reversed he woukd never tell his grandson to not give up on her. Toxicity is generational.
Ahhh if it aint for Yanie, burbnbougie, and troyce sometimes i would NOT know of this ‘VIRAL’ shit
I love Troyce as well. Never heard of the other channel but I’ll trust your word and go sub there too 😅❤
Facts…
same lol just finished a troyce vid
Yanie and Troyce are my go to!!
I love burb! She is my favorite!
Wow, he’s worse than Legion, it be so many people out here sent to destroy your life out of jealousy upon meeting you. Be careful who you let into your life
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have jealous family members who tried to ruin me and my kids life.
They can’t destroy your life unless you allow them to. We are so conditioned to be nice to people we are afraid to hurt ppls feelings to protect ourselves. the moment u notice the first inconsistency you need “x” them out ur life.
How do you meet a man and let him into your house to live with you in a 3 week span ? Him promising her a car and a house? Let’s be for real
Amen
"For My Man" TikTok edition.
Pretty much
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😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Child!!
When u r just getting to know a male and he loses his job, HE ALSO LOSES U!!!!!
New rule…got it…check ✅
Exactly! You are no longer in position to date. You're focus should be back on getting a job and keeping your life in order. Completely agree!
Right! He should be focused on getting a job. There's no time for a relationship
This!
Black men can protect themselves
It’s every man, woman, and child for themself at this point!
@@LemmeHave_A_Laugh& child?
@@ten25.🤒Some children must protect themselves behind closed doors in this age unfortunately
I don't even Gove a shit about them
@@ten25.it’s the unfortunate truth. We got iPad kids in this generation. They’re illiterate because their young parents aren’t teaching them. We got kids raising kids. It’s crazy.
She looks like she could be related to you Yanie. I am glad you are using your platform to bring awareness to these type of issues.
I was just thinking this !!
Yeeees!! I keep thinking the picture on the side is Yanie.
I couldn't smash play fast enough. For a split second I was like Noooo, not Yanni! Oh. Whew! It's someone else.
It was freaking me out her voice even sounds SIMILAR
You said it before I could..she looks like a carbon copy of this girl
A common denominator I'm finding in all these viral stories is that the guy always has it but somehow, a few weeks or months into the relationship, he ends up having some housing issues and goes to the woman's house 🤨
Sounds like Abuja men !!
Yes!!! Always!!!
Literally all of my moms boyfriends she had while growing up! They were all toxic and BUMS !!!
@@ThatESGChick😭😭😭 Abuja men in the mud.
That was my situation. Don’t judge us lol
I am 30 mins into this and I gotta say LADIES LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION. Even if everyone around you is telling you otherwise, go with your gut. It may not make sense in the middle of things, but you have intuition for a reason.
And what's even more telling is that the WW had her best interest at heart to try to warn her versus her friends who persuaded her to continue to deal with him. That's wild
@@truthhurts...6574 I don’t think people realize that just because you think you know someone it doesn’t mean you actually do. Often times our “friends” try to talk us out of going with our gut. I actually cut a good friend off because of that, if I’m saying no then it’s no I don’t care how amazing you think this person is, my body says no.
@skinchampagne you're right. It's having a strong sense of self. It also can make people not like you because it makes it harder for them to manipulate you. People with a strong sense of self who stand on their principles are not well liked by others who lack the wherewithal and courage to stand on business. This woman has a bright inner spirit about her that attracts the worst people. It's strange how the WW had her best interest at heart in trying to warn her versus her own friends. I got a feeling that those friends wanted to see her downfall.
Me too. And I am GAGGED! It is crazy that she was in the same house with a guy on PCP. Scary! Yikes!
It’s safer to be single, and also ask god to bring you your significant other cause it’s crazy out in the dating world 😢
It really is. I dropped out of the dating world last night. Too much acid in the dating pool.
Facts
God isn’t brining people the right men either 😂
@@Lexiannasamdamn!!!
Ask God if it’s his will for you to even have a significant other. Nowhere in the Bible does God promise marriage to anyone. No one is entitled to a spouse. In the Bible God TOLD Jeremiah that he was not to look for a wife nor would he have children. This applies to A LOT of people but because people don’t read the Bible they are just out here lost thinking that being single is some kind of curse when Jesus Christ himself never got married or had children.
That "protect black men mode" always gets you in troubles 💀
Facts ❤
My ex tried to R me while he was already on top of me from beating me up. I had nooooo strength at all. I’d just taken a beating and I was in shock, the ONLY thing that made him stop was me praying OUT LOUD. I literally said “Jesus! Please get him off me” and straight away he let go of me and said “why are you doing that?” Bloody demon. Who even gets turned on after a heated argument over my charger that caused him to beat me up?
Wow, that man was possessed his father is the devil. I'm so glad the Holy Spirit quickly turned you to prayer and God saved your life. I was watching a documentary on a killer and his ex-wife stated that his eyes went black before he r-ed her, she called him a demon too. This is no coincidence, some people are really run by their demons, only Jesus can protect us from these types of people. Stay safe, prayed up and may God bless you 🙏
what a testimony!! Praise God for His protection!
South Korea, and most of Asia, is extremely strict when it comes to drugs. Always research the countries you’re moving to…
No amount of research was gonna help her as long as she was sleeping with the druggie
That’s not the issue here lmao Idt she would’ve snuck ANYTHING the issue is there’s a man trying to ruin her life.
@@jjmusiclover3 True. It is evil he did that
Especially when it comes to foreigners
I've never heard of any of their people caught with drugs serving life tho
The universe was screaming at her to get away from this man, but she’s thinking about her “moral compass” 🤦🏿♀️ She new he was no good and wanted to leave him before he even lost his job, but felt sorry for him and messed herself up.
Yanie, I think you need to do a live about this “moral compass” these women have empathy for men, but not themselves (I have been guilty of this myself).
Right. Morals can be changed and modified, especially when it comes to self preservation ❤
Same but I’ve learned REAL quick. Don’t feel sorry for these men.
I am ruthless with men and when it comes to what I want, if a man is moving crazy I bounce with no hesitation. I don't feel sorry for them at all. I am honestly not sure why women feel the need to be guilted by men when it comes to morals when the man wouldn't spare a second thought to throw you under the bus
I did this in the past too. Never again. I will always put myself first now.
@@KaysWorld4 TRUTH
I’m white and know someone who is my colour who did dealings there and was put in for life aswell. Foreigners get it harsh in that country
yea, I live in South Korea and they dgaf about ALL foreigners. Including Asian foreigners.
@@lindam156you're right. Right down to the fact that no, the Don't like other Asians. Oriental are a harsh group
Any possibility of early release?
@@lindam156 ESPECIALLY other Asian foreigners. They don't have the same vitriol against non-Asian foreigners.
No chance @@arain764niara
Lying about the brother dying and never mentioning it again 😮
Narc alert 🚨
The way I'm nosy, I would have want to know the WHOLE story about it!
The way I would've DEMANDED that we go to the funeral...😂, gosh maybe my ex is right, I AM ANNOYING...I don't play that
This lost me on how she continued dating him after this stunt
@@MsFadir Exactly . I would’ve been like “ what do you mean you aren’t going to the funeral? …” well what is his full name ?”. Because I’m going to look up his death certificate and go lurking on social media .
Just listening to this saga. Is making me more and more everyday want to stay single for peace. 🫛
Notice how she said she cut a friend off for something she let this man slide with .. a complete stranger to her ! I have no sympathy, when selective discernment for the opposite sex comes into play .
Ppl have way higher standards with their friends than their partner but you are supposed to built life with your partner & not your friend.
@@beewest5704 that’s incorrect..
an intimate relationship between you and a friend is different from an intimate relationship with a partner. Yes , but that’s not my point .
My point is she held her friend to a standard , once her friend voided those terms she disposed over her .. but with this man that she had just met she somehow lets those standards go …🫠!
I call Desperation or Delusion .. which she said in other words she was exactly that !
She said she realised this in hindsight! Also she was friends longer. So not so easy to cut off, more like expired. Exactly what ended up happening with this guy
Wait, dude had already f'ed up and lied 977 times before they were even set to go to Korea! Like. Whatttttt
At this point she wanted this
Right !!!!
S** must have been fire
I’m trying not to judge her so bad but I can’t fathom 🤦🏾♀️ where is her accountability
Sadly this is what "ride or die" gets you as a bw when you do not have boundaries and when you don't know when to let things go and when to say goodbye when it comes to men. These men will set you up as the fall chick.
Blk men do it the most. Just treasonous.
@tessy28 And he kept showing her time and time again that he was clearly going to do it down the road, but on a much grander ⚖️......YIKES. It's so unfortunate she didn't love herself enough to leave 😔
A man who leads with how much he makes is a red flag. Bragging is an absolute no no. It screams insecurity.
When she was describing what attracted her to him, none of it involved his character/ethics/morals. Who you travel with is so important. I dont care if it's a road trip or to another continent. 🤔
Especially now it's a different world we live in.
Very important
I’m still confused how he even gets to come to Korea, after everything else!? That was her moment to flee the country and go to a better life!
I watch a lot of Stephenie Soo and i have learned the laws in that country are not favourable to women, they would literally let an abuser go with all the evidence but would convict an innocent person with zero evidence and through hearsay and trust words of liars and abusers, for drugs.....i got super scared when i heard of a K-drama actor who got committed suicide due to being framed for taking drugs...
Lee Sun-Kyun. It was so sad.
@@peacejoylove8542completely sad
I just finished that story on her channel! It was so upsetting. That poor man 🕊️
@@Rachael.Moreland.i just hope this lady's case doesn't get to that severity cos i do understand that they have heavy laws agaisnt drugs and this woman is not a famous superstar they trying to get, but the police force doesn't even do proper investigations because they want promotions on arresting a dealer...
Good thing she never got addicted or permanently messed up from the drugs he was giving her
This is so hard to watch, listening to her in like how? I don’t hear any redeeming qualities that he had to make her stay with him other than he was black.
She is too relaxed to be facing charges. Idk is she back in the U.S.
Yes I agree. This guy was horrible and she just kept going
She moved that man into her home really quick......how did he have access to her building if she wasn't even at home?
He was working for the mayor lol
That last part. I’m convinced a lot of black women are with men only because these men are black.
This is scary...have to be careful of who we trust.
He’s worse than legion 😬
Why she smiling so much 😂if I'm facing life ima be distraught
Right??? she's HELLLLLA calm for someone facing LIFE in a foreign country. Unless my lawyer has almost guaranteed me that I'm gonna win this case, I'm gonna abe looking a hot ass mess all day every day
I wouldn’t have the will to live. QUITE LITERALLY 😭
Would’ve even be able to do a video. But…maybe this will help her out.
@@lindam156she has the air of someone being charged under a constitutional republic. Its hard for her to comprehend
She said she had to re-record a few times due to crying. I highly doubt that what we’re seeing on the outside is representative of how she’s truly feeling on the inside. She had to get herself together (at least for a few minutes at a time) bc how else would she have been able to tell the story? We don’t know if she broke down once the camera turned off.
⚠️ She not mad 😡 enough for me!
@@shaypink40 that's the part I had to stop doing. Being more mad for other people I got to focus on me
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Why should she expend energy, when you read philosophy. You know its a waste of energy which wont change a damn thing. Maybe she should cry infront of the judge for mercy, but thats about it. Other than that, she should discuss with the embassy and other such things.
@@MO-ss5mj bc she's facing life in prison
Yeah, she totally PISSED me off. I couldn’t even keep watching!
She so green. I’m happy she’s self aware. That man tried to turn her out.
Exactly. He was going to ruin her life and leave her in complete shambles.
Yup poor baby.
Why are these ashy men drawn to hood women like her!?
Sis just living her life with her goals in mind and here he comes with his drama......dafuq
They love green women. Easy prey.
These TikTok stories have been wild! I am glad for the medium so women can share!
Yeah until they ban it ! Legislation passed both republicans and democrats will prob be banned after next election smh
Yessss I love being able to get the whole story at once and not on TikTok
Gurrrrrl....i wanted to give her grace but WHAT THE H IS GOING ON????
You notice you feel different EVERY time you drank with this menace yet you KEPT drinking with him. He had you looking CRAZY at his sister's house and you KNEW then he was currently on drugs and you still stayed.
You moved him in without him having any income so you became his sugamama????
I'm just at a loss for words
Why would you be looking to give her 'grace'? She is the victim. I don't understand the victim bashing. I mean, I know she made mistakes, but she isn't the bad guy here.
@@louniece1650But he is and I’m trying to figure out why that wasn’t apparent to her??? It’s WEIRD. She can clock her friends but not him? That’s not victim blaming…I’m just trying to understand her thought process.
@@naonomtm9123Because men lie like water. When you’re a good person you don’t to believe or even think people are capable of evil like this.
When you have been true this then you will understand...
@@MsElegance23 Being blissfully ignorant doesn't benefit anyone. If you have a good heart and don't think ppl are capable of evil, let them PROVE it to you first.
She said she’s waiting until the trial is over to complete the story for legal purposes
Damn. I feel for her.☹
Whew child. What a cliffhanger!!
I am happy to stay single.
Men are not children that you need to give 2nd and 3rd and 16th chances. Stop getting sucked into ppls explanations. Don’t ask for them and don’t listen to them.
Women’s curiosity is killing them.
Who cares why-when it doesn’t make sense or feel right just leave.
Don’t reward confusion with curiosity and then blind trust.
This!!!
Crazy how she thought his proximity to the mayor meant he had good character when most politicians are dirty
Also How can you scream intuition this & red flag that when you ignored them so heavily? But she’s telling the story with a smile so she must have the wiggle room to make so many mistakes w/o moving differently.
She mentioned that he was using her status to make himself seem more legitimate to his sister so that he could possibly get more access to his inheritance.
I wonder what status that is. He hunted for her a found a nice piece of prey.
She met another legion and I think she still with him women like this are dense. She thinks he’s in love keep talking about the gifts. All that stuff is bait and she fell for the bait like a rat to cheese. 🪤 🐀
@@PrayerOfMannesah the fact that by the end of the story she was still considering marrying him as a “business” definitely sold it for me. Can’t save everyone
You ain't lying. My friend used to date someone in the mayor's office. The stories I heard just cemented that 99 percent of people in politics are in a dirty club.
I can never love a man more than myself or my lifelong friends!!
Here is the thing, you often times don’t realize you’re giving your everything or loving someone more than yourself until after sh@$ has hit the fan.
Him: I lost my job
Me: good luck and good bye...blocked.
I would never live under the same roof with someone I am dating. I would never take meds from another person.
I have never been happier to have hit the wall and be average at best.😂
This!
So, I'm just starting the video and around 7:47. she mentioned he said" he made 125k" that's the first red flag cause rich people don't say much about their finances. they move with a distinct aura.
Edit:
F*ck it. I clocked so many red flags, I got exhausted. That man is exhausting. Also, she has a lack of trust within herself, a lot. It showed consistently throughout this whole story. Im tired but hey making mistakes, makes for wisdom, I guess.
Yes it's true men with money don't talk to much about what they have and they certainly don't need to set you up as the fall girl for their illegal activities. I don't think she had dated a wealthy man before because she was easily swayed by his words but she didn't clock that his actions never matched up
125k is not rich. It’s not wealthy, it’s good money but it’s not rich.
125k annually is not rich.....But I agree that smart people don't run around telling everyone how much money they make.
$125k/year isn’t rich or wealthy, it’s middle class and isn’t that much in this economy.
Same thing I said!
Fentanyl?!!???!!!! That man wanted to bury her 6 feet.
She admitted she did perks multiple times before...... she ain't innocent with this nonsense
@@Tee-kc3pn oooooo good catch! Bit that’s some tea
@@Tee-kc3pnshe said prescribed percs not recreationally
@@asemibase3697right they skipped right over the truth to be messy and spread lies
@@Jaiunsolicited Exactly the girl never said she was abusing Percocet, that’s not fair
Your moral compass will keep you in terrible situations. Unfortunately i learned by experience as well. I pray she beats this!
Fuq a moral compass!
Having one made me a dumping ground for everyone else and their trauma. Learned that the hard freaking way
My moral compass has kept me from bad situations. I think it’s more about her morals are aligned to the “struggle love” direction 🥴 She needs to go get that recalibrated…expeditiously 😂🤣
all I gotta say is HELL NAW
Right!!!!! 😨
🎤To the NAW-NAAAW-NAW👀🤦🏾♀️
Her friends from the party are not her friends!!!! They didn't come to you AND they denied the girl's allegations and gassed him up. They dont like you!!!
This!!!!!!!!! Not at ALLLLLLLL
At all!! They definitely hate her
Moral compass? You don’t hold a man down that lost his job unless you have history
A ring*
@@Jaiunsolicitedi have to be married to him with a child or else...I'm out! 😂 Because I am very tight with my money.
@@marolatv618 Right 🤣 men will milk a cow until it’s dry. History now is not enough for me to hold you down without a job at my big age.
@@marolatv618 Right men will milk you until you are dry. History now is not enough for me to hold you down without a job.
@@marolatv618 Right 😂 they will milk it until you’re dry.
Leave these men alone
and do what ????
@@jallowgayle984 focus on yourself these men have always been dirty and black women are always there for black men
@@jallowgayle984be at peace
@@nadiah4757 u have alot to learn
@@jallowgayle984really?? And do what?? Is your life sad or something??
Hey love, it’s me ❤ I paused the story because of trial. I legally couldn’t say anything else
Wishing the best for your trial! 🙏🏽🩵
I pray everything turns out good for you!
Wishing you the best of luck, I hope you get through the trial safely and that your freedom is not compromised. Good luck, I wish you the best in your healing journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Prayers for you sis! Hope all goes in your favor! 🙏🏾
Prayers for you 🙏🏾❤️
I'm sorry, but I know women like this. At the beginning, they do not listen. I tell women all the time, even when I was 18 years old, if people do something bad, do not forget it, especially if they do it a second time. I know all this stuff about narcissism, but people also have a choice. If it doesn't feel good, why are you still there? She is not taking any accountability for what happened, and she is still fighting people in the comments on her TikTok. I know people are not going to like what I have to say, but seriously, I've had friends and relatives like this. I tell them that person is trash, and maybe the situation in the bedroom is too crazy for them to back off, or they are so infatuated with the person's outer appearance. Something is keeping them hooked to the foolishness. It is not just narcissism. Something is not right. I'm not going to wait until I have a criminal situation happening before I make a change. She was forced to make this change because of what he did. She would have still been with him to this day if the situation had not taken place. It's unfortunate.
Spiritual attachments are real.
Demon
So, I hold grudges… and I used to think that that was a major character flaw that I needed to fix but now I’m thinking it might be a protective mechanism 🤔
My gg always say we wanna feel we don't wanna hear. 😂😂😂
Very true
I useed to womder why Tyler Perry told so many sad stories but now I see why. Its really sad how these men are. Im sorry this woman had to experience this
His recent movie with Megan Good was pretty good as well!
I’m glad I’m single being in a relationship is high risk plus I have a 12 year old daughter ❤ praise God
Girl this is me and I'm protecting my daughter at all cost, I do not need a relationship that bad. I got 6 years before she's 18 and I'll try then, and just maybe then I'll still be fine with being single. It feels good to not have to worry about a nicca cheating or lying or violating my home or my kid. Naaaa I'm good.
@@BiancareneetvYou are making the right decision. I hope your daughter realizes everyday how amazing of a mother she has!
Same!! Happily single and safe. My children are my priority and dating is not work the risk.
Well instead of dating niccas as you say
Why don't you date other types of men instead
Beautiful girls just don’t want to believe that they are a perfect good individual human being WITHOUT tugging someone else’s mediocre brother along in their life. 😩 💔
@@go_off_Sis THAT'S THE SOCIAL ENGINEERING AND CONDITIONING
I used to think like this to back in the day and then I got away from people I learned I listen and I stopped going to these danky cult minded black churches
I have suffered from this. Never again!
Why are you shouting at us tho 😂😭😮💨
💯💯💯💯 This needs to be studied.
@@meoshieone word in caps is not shouting. Anyway, yall need to hear this.
he literally shapeshifted in front of her im so sorry to hear this happened to you 😢 i am SO SORRY 😢😢😢😢
She went through all that for a man that looks like that! 😂😂😂😂
😂
I was so confused. The video of him gave me the ick. He looks like any guy you see standing at the gas station at 3am.
@@Jaiunsolicited He was eating that squid in “DRAMA QUEEN” 😂😂
Where the video of him … where you seen him??
@@rahclanton1313 literally at the very end of the video
Y'all S. Korea has very strict drugs laws. Very strict. I forget the actor's name who played in a few dramas like My Mister, Coffee Prince, and the award winning movie Parasite, but he unalived himself because he was under investigation for those kinds of charges. The fact that this girl is a foreigner AND melinated at that, probably isn't helping her case, i would imagine, but let's be real, they unfortunately prioritize those kinds of charges over the more serious ones, especially crimes against women.
I remember years ago, they arrested a K-pop artist for smoking weed while traveling ABROAD. The whole country was up in arms because he wasn't in the country and he didn't bring any drugs to Korea but the police stood 10 toes down on Koreans not dong drugs
@@lindam156I wish at the very least they had the same energy for laws that protect women smh
So interesting that she cut off her friend for asking about jobs and wanting to be around her based on what she said but then chose a man who love bombed her & who ended up putting her in this situation, another case of my man my man my man, as a single woman, these ladies continue to show their friends that were disposable but wanna come crying to us when these men turn out to be demons. I hope it works out for her but really do better.
Looking for this comment ! She was quick to cut off her friend but literally ran through the deepest layer of hell w this man. I’m clearly not a girls girl, this is sick
@@kyky6825literally & then ppl are using the race card to excuse her, she got into this situation solely because she chose to chase after a man, it’s not hard to google the laws of a country before moving there, everyone knows Korea is strict about drugs regardless of who you are & being a black person she should’ve taken even more precaution instead of going in blind for a man
You’re so right ! Race card ? Even if that were the case , at this point this had to be whatever God she believes in finally slapping her wrist. This was hard to watch couldn’t imagine living in it by choice
Right and honestly I didn't hear anything wrong about the friend. She sounded like she needed help with getting ahead in life. The only way I can see the friend as being toxic is if she was trying to compete or copy her life. These type of women will move mountains to get their bums jobs but not a friend.
@@kyky6825exactly, it’s giving delusional & victim mindset, bad choices catch up with us eventually at this age we all know the world isn’t fair to anyone, very hard to watch but best of luck to her fr
Pray for her vindication in the mighty name of Yashua🙌🏾✨
Amen 🙌🏾
She is a dummy for suspecting her family and not her drama king. 😂
Quite literally, my sister did the same. It will never make sense to me but apparently emotional abuse makes some people's logic and rationale go on extended vacations. 🤷🏾♀️
I was thinking the EXACT same thing
Sometimes we assist the villains in our own story.
Or we are our own biggest villian. She knew , she closed her eyes & bombarded forward. She found out still barged forward. So sad....probably the drugs I though but I see no sign she has learnt much so that she is not in the same situation ever again. Sad that she is probably now going to pay with her life in jail.
Not Legion 2.0😫🤧
this is beyond legion he tried to get her strung out on drugs
@@CrittneyCee Yes I wrote this comment near the beginning of the video, but that's why I put 2.0 because it's worse😭😭
Frfr!!
@@CrittneyCeewhen someone tried to get you in some substances, it’s a HELL NO. Im squaring up on God
@@EristheGoddessofChoas so 6.0
When she started listing the reasons she didn't want to marry him, i was expecting a list of the red flags........she said " 1. I dont want to Elope"
Thats your number 1 reason. That made the top spot? Ok girl!
🥴😶🙃
Pickme Problems= Prison punishments
I’m surprised she glossed over the dead “brother” thing and kept going.
Major red flag
I just commented the same thing , really bad discernment but I've been there with a toxic ex, only wasted about 3 Mos though
That would’ve been living in my head rent from every gosh darn day.
Child bye..... she thought she was doing something by dating the mayor's employee..... why would she think he was an honest person just because he worked for the mayor???? Mayors and their employees commit crimes daily😂😂😂 ESPECIALLY those that work for large cities😂😂 she is a goof
Especially in DC! Ex. Marion Barry
That wasn’t his damn sister either
She is a victim, a victim of her own self-destructive personality. 🎯💯 He is a classic narcissist, my aunt was mine-they SINGULARLY, only care about themselves, always. 😑
Chile I thought this man was ATLEAST about to be fine as hell for all the ish she put up with and looked passed.. I’m like THATS him??? Come on now smdh. He LOOKS off and dusty. Chiiiilllle
I was expecting a really hot male model type guy.😂
@@ebonynaomi1085 right!
Honestly for everything she been through that’s the bare minimum. 😂
😂😂@@ponyofish6268
Not off and dusty 😂😂 ugh
I feel like I’m watching a younger version of you yanie. She sounds and look like you .
I scrolled down to see who would notice that ! They look so much alike!
What I always find funny with women is how quick they are to cut off a friend yet holding on to that man.
Such a pretty young lady and it sucks that she’s going through this. I’ve been single since 2016, I was engaged and broke off the engagement because I saw too many red flags to go through it. Story like these is the reason why I’m single. It’s crazy out here 😩😩😩
Smart move!! Just think of all the women who'd be alive had they paid attention to the red flags, and GOT OUT in time!
Exact same story for me.. year and everything. A relationship and marriage is just not an accomplishment for me!! ESPECIALLY when there are red flags flying everywhere.
One of her biggest issues in this story starts with alcohol.
I know some will fight me on this but you have to be sober when dealing with challenging people.
He was spiking her drinks
@@jacks4009 she stated they drink every time they hung out. That’s despite the spiking.
@@DeLaTr0ll well I know a lot of people that do. Isn't a bad thing tbh, just needs to be in moderation.
@@jacks4009 yes but if you notice the worst things happened when she was drinking. If she wasn’t drinking a lot of these event’s wouldn’t have taken place. Just saying and I agree alcohol isn’t bad in moderation/occasionally.
I always ghost a person as soon as my intuition kicks in. I’m so sad it’s come to this but the future is getting worse dealing with these men. it’s a means of protection to not give men chances anymore; it’s a manner of life or death. As soon as you feel an inclined of red flags flying and gut feeling telling you to run start sprinting. I realize it’s also standard trying to tell us to stand tall and we keep on ignoring the gut feeling we need to reprogram our brain to listen.
Me too.. I exit really quick and block numbers.. my family and friends think I over react and state I'm going to be single the rest of my life because I don't give men a chance, even after I explain certain situations to them. I don't care. My last relationship was the worst I ever been in and I'm not getting into a bad situation anymore because I didn't listen to my intuition from the jump. I waste no time in ghosting as soon as I get a baby red flag.
I haven’t finished the video yet but her body language, the way she shifts her eyes a lot and how she constantly says she doesn’t remember certain things makes be believe she’s omitting a lot of details. Idk that’s just my opinion.
It may be due to legal reasons but your opinion is discernment lol
I’m sure there are severalllllll telling details she is leaving out. Sis was down bad unfortunately.
Exactly. ....I don't believe she's telling the 100% truth
Right. Im thinking thats strategic because of the trial.
Ppl shift their eyes when they are trying to remember/ recall something that happened awhile ago.
Sounds like legion 2.0 with a twist. Like I dont even know if these stories are true anymore.
Exactly...... this story haven't been backed up by anyone yet.....I don't think this one is true
RIIGHT like are all these males actually operating like this? I mean I wouldn’t be surprised at this point but it’s like horror story after horror story. I knew it was bad but it seems DANGEROUSLY bad with everything bw are coming with on the clock app.
She needs a lawyer
Idk an international lawyer probably hard to come by
She has literally no choice but to get a lawyer.
Im literally shedding tears for her, The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy 😢
The way she “Quite Literally” wore me out with this story
Being single looks better each day 🥳
🎉🎉🎉 yes
She has no kids with this man........what hold did he have over her?
Sec and whatever comfort he gave her, maybe he ebbed her feeling of loneliness
That quite literally is driving me crazy
When are we going to finally learn? 🤦🏾♀️ I'm so over these stories, but simultaneously, I'm glad more are coming out, so at least little by little, more women can learn to leave these ninjas alone.
Her self esteem was in the gutter smh. So many red flags!
"Brokedown Palace" put me on game back in '99! Pay attention ladies!!!
You ain’t never lied!!! I’m still shook from that! That lady took the L and died in prison smh
Yep I was in my teens when I saw that movie, and I KNEW what's NEVER to do.
When the devil can't get to you, he sends you a partner. Right now doesn't seem to be a good time for dating AT ALL. Who men should be partnering with, they instead see as competition or their opportunity to level up. It's an evil world we live in.
He looks dusty smh
Exactly. Why wasn’t she able to see that right off the bat?
Right straight homeless looking. I expected him to be finer at least. The video of him gave me the ick.
He was draining as hel---llll….. I was drained from just listening about his janky ssa bs…
Couldn’t be me
😮😢my patience level is low for bull 😢. Sending her prayers
Mine too sis!! Lmao
Damn, I watched all that in one go. He look like his actions… dusty.
After a day of anger you just made me laugh thank u😂😂😂
@@deborahanike1000lol I’m glad you got to laugh after a tough day. Laughter is medicine!
Everything she stated how this guy is. Is EXACTLY how my baby father is. I regret meeting that man. He did the smear campaign thing on me too with his family that liked me as well. Glad I escaped him and he’s out of my life! I wish I knew her I would’ve told her to RUN from the first red flag 🏃🏽🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽🏃🏽♀️ 💨
Consider this ladies; A Dentist colleague of mine, she basically mentioned to me that overuse or long term use of those hard drugs can affect some teeth, probably why he in the story needed an extraction.🤔 Highly recommend that to be something to pay attention to when getting closer to someone new.
Keeping us informed first... much appreciated!!xxoo
This is painful to watch. As much as I feel sorry for her, I can't help wondering why women deal with things like this for so long? At what point do we draw the line and chose to love and respect ourselves? smh
the comments are TOO lighthearted for me this man really tried to - 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Take a shot every time she says "Quite literally" 🥴
And “intuition”.
I’ll be in the er 😂
I have alcohol poisoning
Sing at my eulogy because I am dead