BAECATION GONE WRONG! WOMAN FINDS OUT HER MAN IS CHEATING WHILE ON VACATION! VIDEOS & PHOTOS

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Комментарии • 770

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY Месяц назад +849

    She needs to block the family…ONE BAND, ONE SOUND😆

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  Месяц назад +107

      Facts 🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @kepop98
      @kepop98 Месяц назад +23

      Yup

    • @healingonesmindset
      @healingonesmindset Месяц назад +21

      Immediately 🙋🏾🙌🏾💅🏽

    • @dblr4931
      @dblr4931 Месяц назад +61

      And because they "like her," they will keep trying to talk her back into it. Even if it's just in the way of saying "you're so much better than so and so" when he dates other women.

    • @PrincessLoX0
      @PrincessLoX0 Месяц назад +11

      LOL I just hollered 😭😭😂😂😭

  • @Lucyinthskyy
    @Lucyinthskyy Месяц назад +1051

    He cheated so easily when she wasn’t around . It’s definitely not the first time he’s done it .

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +91

      If he does that with her on vacation can just imagine what he actually does without her there

    • @softersideofc.c.5655
      @softersideofc.c.5655 Месяц назад +11

      That part

    • @candace9560
      @candace9560 Месяц назад +27

      Right and if she stayed he’d be like ok I got a forever dummy would of just kept cheating

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +4

      @@candace9560 exactly

    • @mizz2ts86
      @mizz2ts86 Месяц назад +21

      He cheated while she was there too! He’s a serial cheater🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m so happy she left!

  • @phoenixpower8532
    @phoenixpower8532 Месяц назад +1575

    She’s choose herself and I love that!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +36

      Same proud of her honestly

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Месяц назад +26

      One thing for sure is - yourself will always want you to succeed. 🙂

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli Месяц назад +11

      Fr she is glowing. Im glad she was able to let that deadweight go.

    • @KDiamond666
      @KDiamond666 Месяц назад +2

      Yessss plus she is so gorgeous!!!!

    • @maryuhh89
      @maryuhh89 24 дня назад +1

      Finally someone practicing self love

  • @agirlnickel
    @agirlnickel Месяц назад +1366

    He meets some random ass girl and now she’s everything he needs for the week… Meanwhile his girlfriend is on her way to what she believes is going to be a great vacation with her boyfriend. These men are really sick in the head. And the way he’s so easily open to his cousins about cheating has to mean he does that shit all the time.

    • @FijiMatic
      @FijiMatic Месяц назад +80

      Exactly

    • @Shyknit
      @Shyknit Месяц назад +184

      And the fact they've known each other since they were kids is crazy, like it would be bad enough to cheat someone that used to be a stranger and yall were dating for a short period but to do it to someone you grew up with and know as a person, smh

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u Месяц назад +21

      Bingo!!

    • @elysiyah3364
      @elysiyah3364 Месяц назад +135

      And it means more than likely his cousins ain't 💩 either, just a whole dusty family tree.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +18

      ​@@elysiyah3364😂😂I was going to say that until I saw u said it already

  • @sunflowersandsand
    @sunflowersandsand Месяц назад +556

    Her missing that flight was God protecting her so that she could see her "boyfriend's" true intent. He's brazen and his flippant comments in the group chat show that he's been cheating on her for all those years. If his cousins are in relationships their significant other's need to check their phones too because birds of a feather!...

    • @flychic7
      @flychic7 Месяц назад +11

      Facts 😅

    • @reesemonique
      @reesemonique Месяц назад +3

      was just about to write this!

  • @nameunknown1519
    @nameunknown1519 Месяц назад +336

    Leaving your girlfriend drunk by herself in a foreign country to go meet up with another woman is some of the nastiest work 🤢😭🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @HoopsIDidItAgain1998
    @HoopsIDidItAgain1998 Месяц назад +723

    This is the POWER of decentering men. Boo is already glowing and won’t have any problems finding someone else. A huge blessing is coming her way. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Iwantallmymoney2024
      @Iwantallmymoney2024 Месяц назад +2

      This!! When you truly decenter, you barelybget rattled by them! I had one clown try it this summer, I left immediately! No triangulation, no fighting! You were just a good time and that's it!!!!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +15

      So true

    • @lolabunny1157
      @lolabunny1157 Месяц назад +8

      Amen!!

    • @likhonancate3366
      @likhonancate3366 Месяц назад +20

      Just how she is telling the,her tone omg I'm in love with this lady!!! I am so impressed with how she handled herself ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @phenitagomes1292
      @phenitagomes1292 Месяц назад +1

      Amen

  • @rosalynnartis2404
    @rosalynnartis2404 Месяц назад +345

    His passport, his wallet, his phone, and keys would be in the same predicament as his mind. LOST!

    • @softersideofc.c.5655
      @softersideofc.c.5655 Месяц назад +31

      😂😂😂

    • @Dtheodore
      @Dtheodore Месяц назад +23

      Hilarious 😂

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli Месяц назад +22

      Yup i would have hid that shit in the toilet lmao 🤣

    • @oshunthagreat
      @oshunthagreat Месяц назад +12

      Yeah cuz I'm crazy like this too lol classy to an extent

    • @anelbre0904
      @anelbre0904 Месяц назад +11

      @@GoldenPisces903 Definitely. The passport AND luggage WOULD BE GONE.

  • @ChocoBeauty8
    @ChocoBeauty8 Месяц назад +830

    She was definitely out of his league. She was very classy.

  • @stacyj2015
    @stacyj2015 Месяц назад +1030

    That group chat told me he had been cheating for awhile as well! Sis should be SO proud of herself for leaving quietly. Silence speaks volumes! He’s a terrible person and how dare his female cousins try to convince her otherwise.

    • @cutlyfe
      @cutlyfe Месяц назад +47

      I thought it was just me.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u Месяц назад +19

      This!

    • @Empress1014_
      @Empress1014_ Месяц назад +95

      Exactly what I thought, if he’s doing that on vacay, what has he done on US soil. She dodged a major bullet! She has mastered the level of detachment, and I love that for her! ✨💫🙏🏽

    • @prtdiva
      @prtdiva Месяц назад +69

      That quiet disappearance left that man SICK! I can PROMISE you that. Whenever I break up with someone I don’t cause a fuss and they always try to come crawling back because they couldn’t manipulate me. Leave quietly. That’s a much bigger impact than crashing out 💅🏾

    • @dancingmango143
      @dancingmango143 Месяц назад +33

      I think his female cousins were just reaching out to apologise.

  • @jazmina1343
    @jazmina1343 Месяц назад +656

    He wanted to get caught and didn’t respect her. Glad she left him.

    • @zoozagt5
      @zoozagt5 Месяц назад +63

      I was thinking so as well. He didn't want to be with her anymore. He wanted to get caught so she would break up with him.

    • @Chloenextdoor
      @Chloenextdoor Месяц назад +51

      How cowardice are these men really?! Sparing themselves of having an inkling of feeling or “accountability.”

    • @amorelockster1023
      @amorelockster1023 Месяц назад +12

      @@Chloenextdoor most definitely and apparently not his own mother. Choosing a random girl over his girlfriend and mother is nasty work.

    • @Chloenextdoor
      @Chloenextdoor Месяц назад +8

      @@amorelockster1023 because he knows he can play on some women until kingdom come, well apparently not the ex-girlfriend maybe just the mom….I am beyond proud of this girl because here he is putting her health at risk for a Spanish fling and her physical safety too. The amount of men being drugged or off’d in these Spanish countries… He could’ve dragged her into his mess and got her robbed or worst because he’s a lust bucket with no integrity. So many things went through my mind during this video but me being proud was the most important.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil Месяц назад

      They get off 🍆 💦 on the thrill of getting caught...

  • @Mia00889
    @Mia00889 Месяц назад +1415

    When my ex cheated on me and his moms and sister reached out, I just sent them the pictures I found on their son/brother phone. If I gotta see it, then all of the close women in your life is gonna see it 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 Месяц назад +325

      Lol savage😂

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 Месяц назад +17

      You only saw it because you went through his phone you shouldn't send photos to his family members

    • @Mia00889
      @Mia00889 Месяц назад +622

      @@demetriuspowell29 Dametra no one was talking to you sis 🤭

    • @catharsismemory
      @catharsismemory Месяц назад +291

      You reap what you sow, you guys get caught cheating and think you shouldn't be exposed or have sympathy.

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 Месяц назад +308

      ​@@demetriuspowell29 You sound like a cheater salty that you got caught cheating.😂

  • @mango7966
    @mango7966 Месяц назад +381

    I need to go to her yoga classes. Sis has a different type of peace

    • @lynnd4997
      @lynnd4997 Месяц назад +23

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +30

      Lol especially now since getting rid of that drama out her life

    • @DaPhlyymamee
      @DaPhlyymamee Месяц назад +6

      Seriously!

  • @StylishlySaved1
    @StylishlySaved1 Месяц назад +718

    That level of maturity is sooo refreshing. The faster she knew that the attachment was not worth it, she also knew she could move on much faster! Blessings to her on her healing journey!

  • @dessi8685
    @dessi8685 Месяц назад +367

    The fact that they grew up together probably broke his parents heart just as bad as hers! Omg good for her ❤ may god bless her with an amazing husband!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +70

      Yup which is why I say u can be with someone for years and still don't know who they are

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад

      Exactly and people have the AUDACITY to blame women for choosing wrong .... Like sis they know each other for ages and he still fake he was a good person.
      Or these people havent seen documental of psychopaths with family and kids and comunities that love them and they kill women for sports ... Is not our fault men fake personas

    • @neftana8
      @neftana8 Месяц назад +8

      Shoot that's if they like her, cause I've seen parents root for their kids to move on despite knowing their spouse for years

  • @Morenita570
    @Morenita570 Месяц назад +777

    She refused to go thru the humiliation and triangulation ritual that BM demand BW go thru to ‘prove that they’re the false prize.’
    In the end, he would’ve still discarded her, because he has no honor or moral character.
    She’s spiritually protected. Is this our Queen of ‘Moving in Silence!!’

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL Месяц назад +87

      Women are doing better, no longer signing up for that and I love that for us.

    • @zeeb116
      @zeeb116 Месяц назад +62

      “Humiliation triangulation ritual!!” Sis that’s iiit! We the collective are sick of it! Loved how she moved in silence ❤

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +38

      Yup love to see bw choose themselves

  • @HealthyBrownGirls
    @HealthyBrownGirls Месяц назад +279

    VERY Demure..Very Classy....Very Mindful...and the gag is...THAT reaction will continue to haunt him for many relationships to come. She sealed her position as the one who got away.

    • @lekeciagarland6148
      @lekeciagarland6148 Месяц назад +21

      Facts 🎯💯

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Месяц назад +28

      That part. I'm glad she didn't do the nonsense people are mentioning and catching a charge in a FOREIGN country!

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 Месяц назад +5

      Fr fr. Sis saw and left. The joys of knowing your worth, and self-love.

  • @RyzeQueen
    @RyzeQueen Месяц назад +527

    Her former partner and his male cousins lack integrity. The text messages revealed their true nature, giving her even more glimpses of their character. I'm relieved she chose to depart gracefully❤ true Queen!

    • @sunflowersandsand
      @sunflowersandsand Месяц назад +32

      Trust me! God will send him his karma, and she will be blessed abundantly for not reacting emotionally. I love a level-headed Queen!

    • @aliyahharmon9045
      @aliyahharmon9045 Месяц назад +10

      That's why when a man's friends and family vouch for him, it means nothing to me

  • @DeLaTr0ll
    @DeLaTr0ll Месяц назад +193

    I know ppl are saying they would’ve failed that test but he’s about to have the hardest season in his life.
    She’ll be blessed.

    • @Harlem_Renaissance
      @Harlem_Renaissance Месяц назад +25

      Yep, and once he truly realizes she's done.. he gonna be emotionally scarred. Especially when she mets someone else. She handled the situation perfectly.

    • @Lavender_8497
      @Lavender_8497 Месяц назад +30

      He would’ve been laughing and kee kee’ing in his group chat about how she was crashing out over him cheating. I’m glad she didn’t give him the satisfaction. I’m learning to think before I act now. I didn’t used to do that.

    • @JB4C89
      @JB4C89 Месяц назад +10

      His lesson bout to be HARDDDDDTTTT 😂😂😂😂

    • @Virgo904
      @Virgo904 Месяц назад +4

      Exactly !!!

  • @chelseagriffin3148
    @chelseagriffin3148 Месяц назад +197

    I didn't see the follow-up videos...I was just thinking it must've been awkard to have to talk to his family but that just adds to the stab of his ego. Because now his family is gonna keep bringing her up as she evolves & moves on with someone else 😂😂

  • @lisaalso895
    @lisaalso895 Месяц назад +316

    She handled it perfectly. His ego is beyond bruised. He is now questioning his bedroom performance, and the other woman probably got a man.

    • @nettaleanne
      @nettaleanne Месяц назад +58

      Right, that woman got dressed and went to make breakfast for her man and kids 😂

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +14

      As it should be

  • @kylia2009
    @kylia2009 Месяц назад +327

    The disrespect from him was so loud... he clearly don't give AF. He's not worth another moment of her energy.

  • @biancam2327
    @biancam2327 Месяц назад +454

    The fact her purposely got her drunk so she could pass out and he could go meet up with the girl..nah..its best she left this man alone, he will never be good for any woman. He has no morals at all.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u Месяц назад +60

      He’s scary 😟

    • @heavenlee4544
      @heavenlee4544 Месяц назад +41

      Wait did I miss something!? He met up with her when she got there as well!? 🤯
      Edit: Just got to that part. This man ain’t SHIT! It’s a scary world

    • @biancam2327
      @biancam2327 Месяц назад +22

      @@heavenlee4544 right! Made me think he let his girl get drunk on purpose. Smh.

    • @nameunknown1519
      @nameunknown1519 Месяц назад +41

      And taking those videos of that girl without her knowing smh. Top tier disgusting.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +14

      Just sick honestly

  • @meganscott1219
    @meganscott1219 Месяц назад +232

    This womans reaction to a shi**y situation is gold!! Her self worth and detachment is on 100!!

  • @p994able
    @p994able Месяц назад +372

    She definitely knows her worth and I love to see it.

    • @ashajeremiahqw8775
      @ashajeremiahqw8775 Месяц назад +19

      Yes she does

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +13

      Right so proud she choose peace instead of drama and trauma

  • @BrittbyBit
    @BrittbyBit Месяц назад +66

    Cheating with a random woman in a foreign country is so ...🤢🤢🤢

  • @MyTVtube2009
    @MyTVtube2009 Месяц назад +202

    Ladies, please choose yourself and your health. He didn't care about passing any diseases to her.

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Месяц назад +29

      That part!! I be so shocked when this isn't mentioned in any of these cheater exposed videos.
      That's also why I can't understand why women take their cheaters back.. this dude clearly doesn't care about his life let alone YOURS! it's sooo sad 😔

  • @Wearenotfriendsxo
    @Wearenotfriendsxo Месяц назад +102

    Stories like this scare tf out of me because when you’re a faithful person you never wanna be betrayed 😢

    • @beverly3304
      @beverly3304 Месяц назад +18

      worst feeling in the world fr smh

  • @GoodieGabor
    @GoodieGabor Месяц назад +237

    He took his name off the bills so she would reach out to him

    • @thestar5375
      @thestar5375 Месяц назад +52

      I'm glad you said this, wow. Feels like he is the type too.

    • @laneesha1000
      @laneesha1000 22 дня назад +1

      YUP💯I know he pissed she ain’t take the bait😫

    • @GoodieGabor
      @GoodieGabor 21 день назад

      @@laneesha1000 facts lmao

  • @MsSiaNicole
    @MsSiaNicole Месяц назад +344

    All these women talking about crashing out if they was in her shoes .. baby I’m not getting locked up or ending up in no hospital from fighting a ninja in a foreign country.. makes zero sense. Arguing and fighting would have not changed the outcome so she was smart to just get up out of there and not look back. Yes how he did her was CRAZY but you still need to move accordingly outside these states.

    • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle
      @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle Месяц назад +25

      I agree

    • @yvonnekilla3971
      @yvonnekilla3971 Месяц назад +22

      Taking his passport is fucked up ,but flooding the air bnb is criminal

    • @sagba9473
      @sagba9473 Месяц назад +53

      Exactly say it again I’m not catching charges for no man

    • @MsSiaNicole
      @MsSiaNicole Месяц назад +42

      @@sagba9473 especially not in another country 🥴

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +15

      ​@@MsSiaNicole😂 right I watched too much locked up abroad

  • @zeshanelle1468
    @zeshanelle1468 Месяц назад +122

    He's a fool. She is beautiful inside and out. Not to mention, she's the type many claim they want (mature, educated, NATURAL, wifey... etc.) and he showed his behind and why he doesn't deserve her. It is even more disgusting that he did this to her and then bragged about it when they grew up together. He must have severely low self esteem. He has no self respect, no class, no integrity, no loyalty, no nothing. Just wow. He messed up with a good and very rare one. I am very proud of her.

    • @B_Millie
      @B_Millie Месяц назад +16

      This is the one. Looking at his pics,he was the family friend that "couldn't get right" and noooo one was entertaining him in their hometown. The parents encouraged it because "it was safe".
      It's giving Moesha and Hakeem before he kissed Niecey🥴

    • @prettybrittany_
      @prettybrittany_ Месяц назад +13

      yeah she’s definitely wifey . she’ll come across better

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 Месяц назад

      @@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reach out to you to apologize and bring forth outward closure on the behalf of you ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 Месяц назад +9

      @@prettybrittany_ It was definitely meant for her to miss her flight.

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 Месяц назад

      ​@@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reaches out to you to apologizes and brings forth outward closure on the behalf of your ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

  • @D415h4n34
    @D415h4n34 Месяц назад +111

    He fumbled a mentally healthy, balanced, BEAUTIFUL yoga instructor?!?! SHEESH

    • @kOmack880
      @kOmack880 Месяц назад

      Exactly🤦🏾‍♀️ Proves to me that: Males wake up every day Knowing they are UNWORTHY....

  • @imanmarie8764
    @imanmarie8764 Месяц назад +277

    Wow she handled that with such grace and class. She's absolutely gorgeous and knows her worth !

  • @Black_and_Green
    @Black_and_Green Месяц назад +339

    I'm sooo glad the word "closure" was not used in this video.

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL Месяц назад +28

      Great point

    • @soblessed3157
      @soblessed3157 Месяц назад +68

      THANK YOUUUU. Closure is overrated. The need to know why someone did something WILL NOT MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER! She honestly is my role model now because I aspire to have this level of detachment.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +36

      Cause it's never needed when they blantly disrespect u closure is just a way to be manipulative with more lies

    • @lolabunny1157
      @lolabunny1157 Месяц назад

      Amen! Cheating was the closure.

    • @lightdove7
      @lightdove7 Месяц назад

      ​@@soblessed3157 💯💯💯💯

  • @Natalie_11188
    @Natalie_11188 Месяц назад +97

    She should be proud of herself. She did the right thing.

  • @Bianca.Nceeee
    @Bianca.Nceeee Месяц назад +186

    I hope she was careful with him. Beasts like him just spread diseases all over the place. Shes gorgeous she won't have any issues moving on wish her the best

    • @winehousted90
      @winehousted90 Месяц назад +10

      That’s what I’m afraid of too liek how he’s sooo in the streets like this I wondered “ dam did he ever get any std’s” like wtf man dating is sooo scary this is insane

    • @ms.virgo82187
      @ms.virgo82187 Месяц назад +3

      That's why I get tested every 6 months because unfortunately ninjas 🥷 out here be lying to your face! Had to finally ghost 👻 a ninja I've been knowing for 11 years, but we just made it official about 2 years ago. Don't understand how a 40 year old still can't just be real! Putting people's health at risk is sick!

  • @PurePosey44
    @PurePosey44 Месяц назад +78

    She and I are spiritual twin. I left quietly when I found out my husband was cheating. He’s still trying to talk to me since the divorce was finalized. I refused to talk to him in mediation and through the divorce settlement. 3 years later he’s still trying to talk to me! NOPE, naw, uh huh!

  • @TheSacralHealer
    @TheSacralHealer Месяц назад +90

    When the other girl said she would’ve taken his passport and packed his clothes 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m healing yes but still come onnnnn 😂🤣 hell yeah I would’ve too

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  Месяц назад +21

      😂😂😂 facts f a note

    • @prettyangel0921
      @prettyangel0921 Месяц назад +9

      My gosh this would’ve passed through my thoughts….. yassssss! But sadly I wouldn’t do it 😂

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu Месяц назад +1

      Why? You know how these men are. There is a reason we decenter them. Im not going to show my behind or play "get back" for someone that functions at such a low level. She moved exactly the way she should have as intelligent young lady who knows her value.

    • @Sarahu-p1i
      @Sarahu-p1i Месяц назад

      Period

  • @MY-im5qp
    @MY-im5qp Месяц назад +84

    He did not value her at all. To be in a relationship , have s3x with a random on vacation, record, and text your cousins. The audacity!

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад +2

      How they find girls that easy to sleep with randoms ??? Did he pay that. Woman ?

  • @latebloomer177
    @latebloomer177 Месяц назад +118

    Something tells me that she has been through similar with him and doesn’t want to get into it. Not everyone is going to crash out for these kind of situations but it seems like this was “ last straw” type deal.

    • @onlyalisaawilliams
      @onlyalisaawilliams Месяц назад +10

      Agreed.

    • @blackingingerpurrin
      @blackingingerpurrin Месяц назад +16

      True because ain’t no way he’s that comfortable. I hate when women continue to deal in struggle love ..

    • @sincerely5906
      @sincerely5906 Месяц назад +11

      Yea if this was the first time he was caught, I highly doubt she would’ve remained so level-headed b/c that’s DEEP betrayal that brings out SPECIFIC emotions.

    • @nd7289
      @nd7289 21 день назад +1

      ​@@sincerely5906 Not necessarily, a lot of us know it's more painful to leave someone witbout closure.

  • @BoHeaux
    @BoHeaux Месяц назад +40

    He took her for granted. They grew up together and he thought she’d always be there. Good for her! You teach them how to treat you and she said she is above the phuckery-she don’t care who you are.

  • @chelseagriffin3148
    @chelseagriffin3148 Месяц назад +70

    I saw this in my fyp too like a week ago! This girl left that man in the most classiest ways possible!

  • @moneyisviscous
    @moneyisviscous Месяц назад +44

    Being spiteful is not the answer. She stayed true to who she is and didn’t stoop to his low level. Leaving and denying him access is punishment enough. I am glad she’s MATURE. ALSO…He was clearly trying to start a fight with her so he could go out. Then so disrespectful to be talking to the other girl right in front of her because she was drunk.

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 Месяц назад +38

    The fact that this guy cheated, recorded it, posted it and bragged to his friends about it tells me everything about his true character. It tells me also the quality of his friends who probably also cheat

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 Месяц назад +4

      *Cousins. His Cousins. Not friends. Which is even worse😢

    • @jessicaellis8751
      @jessicaellis8751 26 дней назад

      The real mind blowing thing is how lately on the internet? How all these men be saying they don't trust their girlfriend friends but they out here knowing damn well that they tell their friends. Meanwhile they show their friends everything from pictures and recordings and have them to still lie and cover for them but they can't trust their girlfriend friends this is living proof this how men act all the time?

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn Месяц назад +144

    I’m glad she left him and I hope she stays gone

  • @tab2n0
    @tab2n0 Месяц назад +83

    Leaving gracefully, i love that for her!

    • @kass2086
      @kass2086 Месяц назад +4

      Yesss, she did that!!!

  • @Dr_AKA_HLF
    @Dr_AKA_HLF Месяц назад +36

    The same th8ng happened to me...I found out my ex was cheating while I was using his computer. He was in a group chat, had pics of him receiving felatio, admitting that he was sleeping with "randoms" (his word, not mine). I was devastated but I left. I left his computer open to the messages, blocked him, and left. These men are absolutely immature and disrespectful. Always choose yourself!

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад

      I dont understand women that allow men to take pics of them ... I don't trust men that much to allow them to have something to blackmail me, Revenge porn is a thing and is always women who suffer

  • @abbygailyoung-beaulieu460
    @abbygailyoung-beaulieu460 Месяц назад +79

    I loved how she chose herself and left gracefully. By simply leaving quietly and remove access to your presence/space, you showing that person who they really fumbled. Great video 😊

  • @ClassyDdiamond
    @ClassyDdiamond Месяц назад +33

    Sis was deep in the family for most of the women of HIS family reached out. Good job sis

    • @Mbuyiselo5
      @Mbuyiselo5 Месяц назад +20

      Yes she was, the photo of them as little kids 😢 This man doesn’t deserve her. I’m glad she protected her peace.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад +1

      Do You think they knew ? He was telling his cousins like no biggie

  • @tamarareed2901
    @tamarareed2901 Месяц назад +34

    I love her she knows her worth and is not desperate!

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u Месяц назад +6

      Mire women need to take a page out of her book

  • @vinkeyla23
    @vinkeyla23 Месяц назад +44

    I’m so proud of her! This level of maturity should be the norm💁🏽‍♀️🎯

  • @SmileySaidIt
    @SmileySaidIt Месяц назад +74

    I broke up with someone while we were on vacation before lol! I was not playing! We were very newly dating and went to Puerto Rico and he showed how possessive and insecure he was. This was 13 years ago and I wasn’t playing then, now that I’m 32 years old, I DEFINITELY don’t play around! Tuh, end it immediately no matter where you are or what time it is. Good for her!

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV Месяц назад +15

      Yes! The insecure, possessive types are annoying on top of scary.

  • @Nbayoungguh
    @Nbayoungguh Месяц назад +84

    He kinda told on him self by mentioning other females💯

    • @blackingingerpurrin
      @blackingingerpurrin Месяц назад +25

      He did cause if my man told me he hanged out with other girls I would’ve cancelled the trip

    • @ghostgirl531
      @ghostgirl531 Месяц назад +1

      @@blackingingerpurrinFRRRR

  • @alicia_nicole
    @alicia_nicole Месяц назад +29

    Is this what we would call high functioning?
    I learned a new word! 😊

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ Месяц назад +46

    Its him telling his cousins that a girl he knew for 37 hours is all he need. What a bum! Also she let dude (a stranger) film her naked multiple times. I'm afraid of yall.

    • @Mbuyiselo5
      @Mbuyiselo5 Месяц назад +2

      Thank you, he said he doesn’t know why his girlfriend or Mother were coming. A girl he just met less than 24 hours ago was more important than the two of them combined. He’s a loser.

    • @giab.3411
      @giab.3411 Месяц назад +20

      Her back was always turned so I doubt she even knows.

  • @NaomyP
    @NaomyP Месяц назад +97

    I saw her story, I even commented! She’s so gracious, because I don’t handle cheating very well, let alone if I catch it happening in real time. I don’t know how I’ll handle it and that’s how I know I’m still healing!

  • @MsNieshaBean
    @MsNieshaBean Месяц назад +28

    Applause to her, and im working daily to become this healed! She is the epitome of "choose yourself"!! I got teary-eyed from the story, and her reaction!

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 Месяц назад +37

    So classy!!!! HE FUMBLED BADDD

  • @kreestyle8986
    @kreestyle8986 Месяц назад +47

    He’s in arrested development. Smdh. A real man is going to scoop her up immediately. (Sidebar; her reaction gives last straw vibes. Like her intuition was letting her know of his alleged cheating before baecation but she stuck it out.

  • @brwnsuga.mangos
    @brwnsuga.mangos Месяц назад +27

    I caught my ex cheating while he was sleep in my bed. I was curious so I went through his phone and found everything I was looking for-I took screenshots and sent voice messages/videos he sent to her to myself. So for a week-I played my role until I had my ducks in order. Went over to his place-took all the gifts I got him and returned the ones he gave me, left a note with the proof and my finally thoughts and left the key on his kitchen cabinet(and changed my locks at my place). He saw the note when he got him.

  • @tonjamanigo
    @tonjamanigo Месяц назад +71

    He is trash. The fact HE cheated on HER and has the audacity to try and be spiteful is wild. Glad she found out before she became more than a girlfriend. Wow. Shout out to her for keepin it cute.

  • @kimberlyanicegregg8212
    @kimberlyanicegregg8212 Месяц назад +38

    She was so classy! Are we locked in. Are you my friend. Yes, boo-boo we are locked in.😂

  • @Wearenotfriendsxo
    @Wearenotfriendsxo Месяц назад +18

    Her just keeping it pushin reminds me of one of my close friends she be blocking and never looking back 😂

  • @drjekelmrhyde
    @drjekelmrhyde Месяц назад +38

    Buddy is lucky that she didn't toss his passport in the garbage .

    • @ElleJae-b9q
      @ElleJae-b9q Месяц назад

      This is the comment I was looking for.

  • @NIFly-kd9vz
    @NIFly-kd9vz Месяц назад +8

    The amount of self control you have to have in order to walk away like that. Wow so much respect!

  • @FijiMatic
    @FijiMatic Месяц назад +46

    They have cheaters group chat yuck 🤢 love and hip hop creep squad type guys

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад +6

      Is extremelly disturbing that some men bond by disrespecting women, thats some antisocial personality traits RIGHT there

  • @kristysmith2552
    @kristysmith2552 Месяц назад +26

    Yes! I love this kind of girlie that’s handling it with grace and class. I didn’t know these women still existed. So proud of her!

  • @EarthQueen-1111
    @EarthQueen-1111 Месяц назад +17

    I love how unbothered she is🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @mininininini
    @mininininini Месяц назад +24

    The ultimate disrespect. They have a decade long relationship and friendship and look at how he betrayed her. He should’ve expected nothing less. I love how the family reached out to her and they have to be holding him accountable and I know he feels like a FOOL

  • @maureen_momo
    @maureen_momo Месяц назад +12

    There is nothing a man will do that will make me pop off!
    Delete. Block. Move on.
    Never talk to them ever again. Sis is me and I hope she doesn’t give him an inkling of her time. He deserves absolutely NOTHING!

  • @tulanibutler
    @tulanibutler Месяц назад +13

    She chose herself and her peace. I love that for her ❤❤❤❤

  • @Besafe782
    @Besafe782 Месяц назад +42

    He could have given her something 😢 he just slept with a random girl

  • @IndigobluBeauty
    @IndigobluBeauty Месяц назад +31

    Glad for how she handled this now but the skeptic in me recalls the numerous stories of the women going BACK…let’s see where this is at in 3 months chile 🤷🏾‍♀️👀

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Месяц назад +3

      Thats SO freaking sad, cheating is the last straw... No forgiveness there, no matter the years wasted ... actually women should thing that if he was able to risk all those years he dont deserve her.
      I wish women love themselves more than they love a d ... Girl NEVER get back to a Cheater then won't appreciatte You for coming back, they Will think is if she forgive me once i can do it again

    • @IndigobluBeauty
      @IndigobluBeauty Месяц назад +1

      @@AyAReI00 it is sad and I am so jaded now from all the stories where you rally behind the woman who post then next thing you know she’s back with him after raisin everybody else’s blood pressure. I’ve been her but thankfully there was no social media for me to run to and further embarrass myself lol! I hope she does lover herself more though💜

  • @WIGAHOLIC14
    @WIGAHOLIC14 Месяц назад +22

    He was very reckless damn just some random on vacation knowing that his girlfriend was coming that's diabolical. It's wrong either way but damn he couldn't control himself 24 hours. Very mature of her good luck to her

  • @roshikay413
    @roshikay413 Месяц назад +37

    Happy Labor Day weekend everyone? Enjoy the fruits of your labor

  • @samanthac8060
    @samanthac8060 Месяц назад +8

    She did the right thing. Move in silence and keep it pushing.

  • @SouthernP751
    @SouthernP751 Месяц назад +53

    So disgusting and disheartening, I hope that was just a way to clear the path for better things in her life

  • @stormnuage
    @stormnuage Месяц назад +27

    I love her personnality so much!!! A good example of Believe me im learning from that situation😊 like i might cry once but believe me next day i almost forgot your name and planning what im going to do with all that FREE TIME.. GIRL YOURE FREE❤❤❤❤YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL

  • @janajahbragg1747
    @janajahbragg1747 Месяц назад +15

    Good for her!! She will be blessed and will find everything she deserves 💗

  • @YourLifestylist
    @YourLifestylist Месяц назад +11

    Her moving in silence is masterful … yall have no idea how crazy this man is going to become bc she silent

  • @MsMookalate
    @MsMookalate Месяц назад +31

    Oh I definitely know how to block emails since when I block your own spirit guide and ancestors can’t reach me😂😂😂

  • @Floratic
    @Floratic Месяц назад +25

    She handled this very graciously. I hope she doesn't go back.
    I definitely would have failed this test. 😂

  • @OhNaNa2012
    @OhNaNa2012 Месяц назад +14

    No reaction is the correct reaction. Sometimes when you think you’re getting revenge, youre just giving them the validation they want. She was very self aware of her value and knows her absence is the biggest L she can hand him. He probably going to start stalking her soon 🤦🏾‍♀️ And he will be crying about her when he turn 50+

  • @dbailey5033
    @dbailey5033 Месяц назад +10

    Silence is powerful! No matter how much a person disrespects and you decide to walk away and ignore…eventually it WILL HAUNT them for the rest of their existence. TRUST!!!! 🤞she took her POWER with her! ❤

  • @thesassynapturalista5915
    @thesassynapturalista5915 Месяц назад +13

    Glad she got out of her situation and hope she doesn't look back. Always best to move silently to avoid confrontations that sometimes can turn violent. Also not suprised this dude have family members that support his degenerate behavior. It is more common than people know.

    • @Michaeleism
      @Michaeleism Месяц назад +5

      The violent part... Especially when on vacation, these XYs will delete and disappear a person with no hesitation or reservations.

  • @glamfortheculture5583
    @glamfortheculture5583 Месяц назад +31

    And she’s a yoga instructor? I would’ve dated her! She’s probably peaceful as hell. 😂😂😂😂 I wish her nothing but the best

    • @B_Millie
      @B_Millie Месяц назад

      👂Are you choosy? 🤭Heck...I'd learn yoga to teach you while maintaining peace🤞If that's you in the default pic😏

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 Месяц назад +10

      She's too wholesome. Men be screaming "be my peace" and when she is....he goes and sabotage it.

  • @bridneymumford8133
    @bridneymumford8133 Месяц назад +8

    Ladies never crash out remember crashing out can lead to serious consequences don’t jeopardize it for a no good men …plus crashing out only stroke their egos don’t give them the satisfaction your absence is gonna speak for itself 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @TiffyAlwaysBlissy
    @TiffyAlwaysBlissy Месяц назад +10

    She is HEALEDDDDDDD. And she knows her worth. I’m so happy she walked away.
    The families always know. And yep *something* would have left with me by mistake on purpose.

  • @t.j.m7131
    @t.j.m7131 Месяц назад +12

    When you know your peace it's easier to disassociate and leave. I did this years ago to an ex and he flipped out when i calmly was leaving. Blocked the door, tried to hold my items hostage 😂 you're right he called and stalked me for more than a year straight. I had people around me listen to his calls. He was desperate. I agree ghosting is the best because you can man handle his family and friends 😅😅

  • @masterofnothing2360
    @masterofnothing2360 Месяц назад +19

    The only consideration she needs for this ex is to get a std/sti screening just in case because her probably been cheating. Him and his cousins in that group chat are disgusting and I’m so glad she immediately cut him out. People like this deserve no closure or chances

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 Месяц назад +30

    The guy is TRASH. I love the way she handled it. Cute, quiet, and QUICK! 🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️

  • @naomynn1
    @naomynn1 Месяц назад +4

    She chose to leave quietly which requires a level of self-control. He expected an emotional reaction. He was playing checkers, she was playing chess.

  • @kimberly5455
    @kimberly5455 Месяц назад +17

    YES!!!
    In my Mariah Carey song Voice…
    And a SHERO comes along with the STRENGTH to carry on!!
    I’m proud of her!!

  • @MizzFaithy1
    @MizzFaithy1 Месяц назад +5

    "Better is always making its way to me". "I have everything I need and what I don't have is on its way to me". 8:03

  • @user-wi1nx9iz6f
    @user-wi1nx9iz6f Месяц назад +1

    Completely fumbled a good one!! This was God looking out for her though 🙌🏾

  • @jray5907
    @jray5907 21 день назад +1

    You can tell shes a great person, i truly hope she finds someone who values her.

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY Месяц назад +11

    It was meant for her to miss her flight.

  • @cinnamonthomas3075
    @cinnamonthomas3075 Месяц назад +3

    She handled the situation the best way she could. No one is trying to get locked up in a foreign country.

  • @selemamonique7809
    @selemamonique7809 Месяц назад +7

    I love her attitude and energy!! Let it go!! That’s the way you’re supposed to do it!

  • @DontTakeItLiteral
    @DontTakeItLiteral Месяц назад +11

    Now Yanieeee how you preach about us De-centering men, not becoming baby mama’s, && not accepting the bare minimum but you telling us you would have crashed out 🤣🤣🤣😂 No ma’am sis. She could have caught some charges, && you don’t go tik for tat with these lil boys, they are dangerous…. He could have got mad if she did all that && come back to kill her or something. We actually need to encourage her type of behavior more often following with NOT GOING BACK…. She handled that absolutely well 🤞🏽