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I'm 50 and I can tell you personally that my life was horrible for 25 yrs . Spend 7 yrs married and after a divorce , spend another 18 yrs in a common law arrangement . Absolutely horrific. Now 3 yrs single , I went from making 85 k a year to 130 k . Plus, peace of mind that toy cannot add a price tag to. Starting at 47 from zero seemed impossible, well boys...nothing is impossible.
Awesome story man. 💪🏾.
how did you do it
thank you sir
I’m 44 and needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing man. I know I need to leave this woman to be better off. I’m happy for you.
I'm encouraged
When i was 20 my crush rejected me. I cryied the whole night and couldn't sleep. Since then I've built the best house in my region. This rejection made me hungrier for success. I've became completely different person.
Good for you brother
Plenty of fish in the sea and you are an Orca.
Thats why Almighty is so great,, he purposely wanted this for you... Not to be in love with that 304, and be homeless... Good4u💯
Good job 👍
Bro can I move in with you
“Pain is Mandatory. Suffering is Optional.” - Rich Cooper
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"A man's success is like climbing a mountain with a candy store on top. It's very difficult and if you reach the top, he should not be allowed to eat only one piece of candy. He should have it all." Andrew Tate
Did he actually say that?
@@interesting2491 Yep
I’m 25 now. Within the last 3 weeks I lost my grandmother, I lost my job and come home everyday to a father whose barely present for geniuene reasons, and a mother who is BPD, a dysfunctional household you could say - arguments and fights happen on a daily basis. On the week my grandmother past away I felt so alone even with my mother, who even in that situation was very self-concered and created arguements with me.
Even with this situation, I still continue to pursue my mission goals, learning how to make money (TRW) and going gym (haven’t been for a few weeks but will start tomorrow).
You have to look at where you are on the chess board, and logically devise a solution or a plan, to move forward. No matter how you feel, it’s how you move forward and continue with your life that counts. Pain makes us stronger men.
Good for you if this works for you to carry on business as usual. That does not mean your way of thinking is the solution for everyone. I don't need to be like you. I don't need to respond the same way you do to hardship. I'm going to do what is right for me. If I look weak to others I don't care.
Very well said. You have a great mindset at 25. My condolences
@@bidencockboy7608 thank you sir, I very much appreciate it.
Amen brother!
Stay strong, and don't allow your toxic mother to rent space in your head. See her for what she is, and represents, and know that you have the choice to find a better way.
Be fully aware that the better you start feeling, with your new mindset, the worse your mother will get, as this new you will be her enemy. Even parents, especially narcissistic ones, thrive on the misery they can create in their own offspring. That's a sick fact of life, and believe me when I say that they absolutely do not get easier to deal with, as they age
I consider this one of the greatest motivation speech I’ve heard , great Video and all truth bombs , when I see guys coming back from wars with their legs blown off it makes me feel ashamed I’ve even complained about anything
he got it from movies
If you fight in wars you're pretty retarded and a pawn to bankers
In the last two years, I've lost my oldest daughter to cancer, lost my marriage, my home, my dog and my remaining daughter chose to stay with her mom. I've lost everything but my health and my job. One of the best things to have happened to me through that was to realize that I'm 100% responsible for where I'm at now - it's incredibly freeing to take ownership for your life and to create in the way that you want to - empowering, too. Starting over at 47 and looking forward to what I'll be able to create. Never going back.
Rich - you're correct sir, whenever I have failed in life it was my own damn fault, whether it was from my own laziness, fear, ignorance... etc..
Bad stuff happen to all of us. It is how we respond that makes all the difference.
shit happens anyway so you might as well responsible for yourself
Exactly. Take 100% responsibility for everything in your life. It’s freeing. You can now make adjustments once you realize you are the orchestrator of your own life.
I've failed so many times but now my life is close to perfect
I agree with 90% of what you are saying. There is a danger however in accepting total ownership of where you find yourself in life. There is such a thing as luck and many successful people admit that even though they worked hard and lined all the ducks up and made the smart choices there were other people along the way who also did the right things but were unlucky. The danger I speak of is self blaming if things go wrong. A person with big dreams ambition and drive that makes all the right choices can crash and burn through unforeseen circumstances that no rational person could see coming. The last thing they should do is blame themselves. Yes sh!t happens, yes life can suck but as you say "that's life", get up and keep moving forward just don't beat yourself up if the cards are against you.
I think we agree when I say set yourself up to receive the luck, being in a position to receive that luck
There's no such thing as luck
There is a person I've been trying for years to convince that there are millions of people who would happily trade their lives for that person's, but the person always says "that does not help me feel better". This happens when you always think only about yourself, and never about other people. You only see what's missing, never count the blessings.
Doctors understand that pain is local, we can't say the pain doesnt exist because we don't see it
My first love cruelly rejected me, cheated on me and broke my heart. It hurt like hell for 2 years until I decided that he wasn’t worth this much pain and regret anymore and finally moved on. At 27 I met the love of my life and we have had a wonderful, 25 year-long marriage. My ex got fat, bald, died of a massive heart attack at only 61 and left his disabled widow destitute. I dodged a major bullet in the long run.
Totally agree. Self-awareness is a great skill, and once you identify where you are falling short, only you can change any of it. And, yes, it probably is your fault, whatever the issue may be…I’ve had to swallow that pill far too many times…losing weight, gaining social skills in college, time management, and realizing when you’ve been a shitty friend to someone, etc. People love a comeback story too lol, so figure your shit out, and take measures you do have control over to fix it. Great perspective!
If you think your life sucks, it's AT LEAST 50% due to you making bad life choices. I say that as someone on his 3rd divorce, 51, no kids, and not sure what the point is to the rest of my life without the kids I was trying to make happen. I married women I shouldn't have. I had baggage of my own I didn't deal with for years. I married the second and third ones from being weak, and letting them manipulate me. I LET them do it, out of fear of being alone. My decisions. My consequences. I saw warning signs, and let their tears make me cave and not leave when I should have.
Be strong guys. Don't waste decades because you bent on boundaries you set.
Damn man. I’m 44 with no kids. Been with the same women like 13 years. She had 2 and they’re actually really good. However, I’m not really happy due to a lot of things on her part. I should’ve left a while ago, but my low self esteem and confidence kicks in. I just have to bite the bullet.
@@johnjames2817 you have a head start on me. You're young enough that you have a good chance of your kids being old enough to drink before you pass away.
I was ready to check out last August, just to escape her. I expected the divorce to be a nightmare. I was right. But my best friend was convinced that I more left in life than just filling time, waiting to die. In the 3 months following that, he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, and died. So I push forward now mostly to honor everything he did for me and others up to that point. I hope one day I'm pushing forward because I've found some kind of purpose again
@@vtmegrad98 After this situation I see myself going the mgtow route. I can’t really imagine doing this again. I’m thankful my brother who’s 47 is happily married with two young sons. I can just be a good uncle to them. We both got with the wrong women for the wrong reasons. I feel your pain. I would say take up some hobbies to help find your purpose or something that you can enjoy.
Great talk Rich..truth bombs on point, one of your best..cheers mate
I married a FWB. We previously dated and I broke it off because she was crazy. She came back into my life offering sex. Fell for that and married her. My fault. I didn't realize it until a while afterwards that 'yup, I did marry her'. Rich is right, a lot of times it is your fault for the relationship failing.
Men cannot blame themselves for a relationship failing. There’s a whole entire other person making bad choices as well, and those women who make bad choices are being told to do so by a majority of social pressures.
I think men use this logic to try and make themselves feel better. Logically we know it can’t always be the man’s fault, but saying it gives us some sense of “control” …. If your statement was true, that would mean that woman are perfect and cannot do any wrong.
I understand the gist… but we know the truth.
@@wyp617 Looking back at a lot of my relationships that failed, I really really do believe Patrice O'Neill's philosophy that women react like fish to a man and his character. Whenever I pedastalized a woman or chased after her, she ran. When I became too overly emotional or matched her emotions, relationships ended. Honestly, whenever she was pissed off, Id always just have sex with her and that would calm her down. Problem was I got cockblocked by a fertility doctor and was told I couldnt have sex with my wife when she was freaking out on fertility drugs. Was messed up.
rich copper is right in this video but he will forever be wrong about blackpill because story like this.
love and romance is impossible
I think we can apply the 80/20 rule here. Clearly there are people who are in crappy/no-win situations for whom Rich's advice doesn't apply: genetically-inherited diseases, being brainwashed by the adults around you while growing up, being a victim of violent crime and on and on. Rich's approach is a good rule of thumb but if it doesn't apply, it doesn't apply.
One of the consistent messages I like most from Rich is the 'No Excuses" theme.
It so often boils down to that.
Add in a focus on self-improvement and figuring out how to earn an excellent living and one can significantly raise the quality and happiness to their lives.
Great video Rich! Success is action and complaining is weakness
"Pain is mandatory. Suffering is optional."
Great video. Reminds of Caleb Jones / Black dragon. He'd say everything in your life is your fault.
Perfect timing Rich. Much respect from Italy. Peace.
one of the best videos recently, Rich
Wow that was your best one yet! Thank you for sharing this! Thats how I like to start my Friday
Bambi - the true story 🤣🤣🤣
When we are raised by unavailable damaged parents and care givers, and you grow up and screw up your life and self sabotage yourself and happiness, it's whose fault ? You end up with damaged partners as this toxicity has an uncanny means of attracting kindred souls. The poor soul, the child was not given any option of whom he must be born to and raised by.
Videos like this make me think this channel is underrated.
Time to write a second book
Definitely spot on about way too many people blaming something else for their misery instead of looking inward. Blaming governments, racial groups, immigrants, boomers, the wealthy, the poor, etc. Stop wasting time being a victim and start taking control of your own life.
The sad fact is that many guys do not have anyone to teach them life lessons like the one Rich gives here. I wish I had a good life coach to tell it to me way back in the past, at the end of the 1980's.
The way of the superior man say that "act like your father is dead". I would ad mother too. Without them you feel free of anything and everything.
I know plenty of ppl WHO complains over absoulutely nothing
People need to spend time in a THIRD WORLD country. My Wife is from Peru. I've gone there TWICE for 5 weeks each time. It SUCKS! Dirty, pollution, abject poverty and YET...Everywhere I went the people there are a lot HAPPIER then people HERE in the US. NO chronic complainers etc. They're very FAMILY oriented. It's ALL about PERSPECTIVE. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE MY IN-LAWS. ALWAYS ENJOY SEEING THEM.
As the mother of four adult sons, of whom I have taught, by example, that women don't need to be fragile, lazy, self-absorbed, and totally dependent on men. They have witnessed my own hunger for knowledge, and independence, and the spirit and desire to be self-sustaining.
I've never tooted my own horn, nor do I do anything out of a want for accolades from others. My thirst for knowledge and DIY, on every "man level" imaginable, lol, speaks for itself. My knowledge of power tools, and skill in their use, has always been a topic of family discussions, partially due to the fact that I've always been told that I was too attractive to be juggling chainsaws.
I've instilled in my sons to never accept less in a mate than they would of themselves, although not expecting any woman to perform at the degree to which I choose! All of my daughter-in-laws have laughingly teased me about setting the standard too high, of which I always comment "It's just how I operate, for the best me".
This might be one of your best videos Rich. Certified Gentlemen Classic (f the hood)
When society made women more valuable than they really are, was the beginning of the end we all face now.
Once you keep playing life on HARD, life sudenly becomes very diverse and interesting, and then, living on HARD becomes EASY!
Great book- I’ve read it a few times now
I am A VICTIM…..of my own bad choices, lol.
Not everything is your fault, I don't agree here, and the part where you say that there are millions of people who would happily trade their lives for that person's it's an ego selfish statement, some say it I get it. Each one of us was born in a certain situation, environment, and from certain parents without having any control over it. There are people who were more lucky in life than others without having to earn it or do the extra work to achieve it, or the other way around, life is unfair. I have personally experienced people who had everything easier than me from the start, even if a lot of them fucked up their lives later or made mistakes that I couldn't afford to make and still be in a better situation than I was, and none of them was better in terms of skill set than me or being able take the pain that I had to face in my life. However I never got jealous or wanted to trade my place for there's, never. So I believe that it's best for each one of us (especially for men) to first realize the current situation there are in, where you want to get and start building on that. Learn from your mistakes but also learn to observe the mistakes others did and learn from there as well. Life is a never ending learning process until the very end, and remember the gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.
A lot of addicts play a victim card with the people around them. I see it as being used in two ways.
1) To find justification by rationalizing in themselves their poor choice.
2) In today's society it's effective for getting a certain number of people to feel sorry for them which gains their support which aids the addict in continuing on course. It allows for shifting the blame to something outside themselves, something that no one has any control over.
Hey Rich you mentioned wanting to go Island hoping in a sailboat. My parents bought a villa in Montserrat for a reasonable price. Montserrat is beside Antigua in the Caribbean. Prices are going up there but with your income you would have no problem buying a dozen houses. It's a beautiful island that is quiet and very safe. Only 5000 thousand locals and 600 x patriots. I would consider investing in property there.
His income? At one time he said he had 95% of his assets in bitcoin. Oops . He's renting the car.
As far as that statement saying there’s be many who’d favor to trade places with another human…… feel like in a lot of those cases they’d SAY that but come to realize if they did, after a while they’d see that that’s almost just as bad in a different way if not worse.
I still handle smoking in a less than desirable way but I've always known its on me, im doing my best to correct the bad behavior always great watching your content
Entitled people get their attitude from the gifts the universe bestows on them. None of our successes come our efforts alone, nor do our failures.
But IHO it's our job, as men, to accept life as it comes and to keep moving forward.
The idea that life should or could be free of pain is a dangerous modern one. We are advanced chimps, every day is a blessing, we are not entitled to a free ride of happiness.
Pain offers opportunity depending on what kind of person you are.
Back in the days of WWI & WWII, when men were sent overseas to defend our country, young men were left to be raised by the women and mothers left behind. Being exposed to the majority female character traits, with some of its peculiarities, lacking masculinity and the father figure that would have otherwise been the proper example for them. This led to a "conditioning effect" on young boys and men, where a woman's demands and teachings were a condition to be met, should they ever expect peace and acceptance.
It saddens me that these young men had the misfortune of growing up without the male figure in their lives, and void of the masculinity that's necessary to shape their emotional maturity.
Thanks Boss 🙏🙏
A lot of life can be fight or flight. We have all messed up that is reality. It is how we deal with adversity in life and our decision making. I would also add chasing happiness brings misery as in relying on someone else to make you happy. You need pain and suffering to understand what happiness is as well.
Don’t throw away your suffering. Touch your suffering. Face it directly, and your joy will become deeper. You know that suffering and joy are both impermanent. Learn the art of cultivating joy. Practice like this, and you come to the third turning of the Third Noble Truth, the “Realization” that suffering and happiness are not two. When you reach this stage, your joy is no longer fragile. It is true joy
"Sometimes you get killed by a lion"
- Sir Richard Cooper
What about the guy that basically waits for his parents to die or set him up? No accomplishments, but has money. Is he considered successful?
Agreed Rich. I got divorced at 40. Now 5 years later I am in the best shape of my life. Have more money than ever. I date women 10 to 15 years younger than me. I have a great time. I considered offing myself when I first broke up. Then I joined a crossfit gym and started hitting it hard 6 times a week. I used my anger to motivate me until it became a habit. Take responsibility and get on with it. No one cares about your problems.
Actually the ones who seem to care about our problems have an exploitive agenda. That is self interest in a different form.
You are right. Nobody really cares unless they have a self serving interest in getting involved with your situation.
Wrong, Richard. Man is the crown of creation.
The wolves 🐺 prey on a sheeps blue pill ignorance of not knowing the system or not knowing the truth.
Life happens for you not to you…🙏
Yep pain we all feel it, when we had swords we only had that, till we evolved Into a society where the idea at least in America is we all have the same laws and are under the same judicial system. But all u can do is keep going, u can't control people and stuff happens, have goodnight everyone
You will lose everything, every conceivable separation will occur, everything will pass.
Welcome to the Pain Factory 😂
Actually if you don't like your job you can just wait until they fire you before finding a new one. Anyone who is encouraging you to quit your job probably wants you out of there anyway. They are looking out for their own interests and not yours.
Yes it is, it's another of the inconvenient truths that no one wants to talk about
Nothing is anyone’s fault because everything is the way it is in a way that no one can take ultimate credit for.
The universe is pulling the strings. Every thought you have is an effect of its prior cause, which if you follow back far enough, you didn’t cause.
Read some of the holy desert fathers, about struggle pain and grow
Unless you got super micromanaging controlling parents then that’s different
Being deceptive helps
They can’t handle the truth
Wow Rich. You share the same fate as my brother when he was a baby. My oldest brother pulled the kettle wire while it was boiling hot as a little kid and now he has the burn marks like you do on your chest all over his thigh and butt cheek.
What does These folks complain about the little things but they make it A big deal?
I get so angry when a girl i like does not feel the same way about me any advice
What you basically need to do is maximize your potential to become great version of yourself whatever it take become successful in every bar and you'll definitely notice that the more better women will find you attractive, mother nature like struggle love, so go through the struggle for greater accomplishment.
#1 rule of becoming a man. Taking ownership of everything good and bad that happens of your life
If you're watching this video, it's not just hundreds of thousands that would trade their life with yours, it's billions. If you make minimum wage in a first world country, you're in the top 10% in the entire world.
HEY! That’s just what Buddha said.☺️
Certainly the number is in the millions of people who would love your life just by the virtue of you living in the US/Canada alone, no matter your income. People do not respect how difficult life was and what it took for MAN to create modern civilization, and all the technology and infrastructure that makes living on earth easier, and actually enjoyable. You have useless protestors complaining about capitalism and how they would do it differently but no system comes close to the success capitalism has incentivized. It takes HARD WORK, it takes energy from man to make and maintain our society, and with that you have to have MOTIVATION to do it.
We stand on the shoulders of giants whos hard work and sacrifice let us live the lives we have today. Its not perfect, its not a utopia, but its damn good considering how harsh and difficult life is to tame. So many take this for granted. Perspective is so important. It doesn't mean you can't wish for more...
Which is why it baffles me how all these fruitcakes living here in th US and Canada claim they're terrible racist, oppressive, miserable countries and they want to leave, lol...
@@spar0035 Everybody wants that victim status. You get away with more, life is a little easier, you have a built in excuse as to why you're life is so shit. Heaven forbid they ever look inward and start fixing themselves and their issues in life! It might be a little easier on them with expectations but long term they're just hurting themselves.
It is your fault and the people you conduct your life with. Everyone makes choices as opportunities come their way. We are all responsible to ourselves and responsible for the worlds current problems.
I see a lot of people just give up throwing in the towel over the slightest little slight misfortune don't overreact if you're stuck on one emotion all day everyday it's a problem here's an example ok the price of food is going up that's also a good thing maybe there will be less overweight people you can't be overly pessimistic or optimistic look for the pros and cons in every situation your girlfriend cheated on you ok dump her it's still better than someone being stalked by a dangerous ex girlfriend lunatic that's obsessed over you
FML or they would say FTW “fuck the world”
We lucky to live in the USA
That was still your fault lol. If I have a ride not show up on me and I decide to walk home a certain way, then happen to get jumped, that’s still MY fault! My decision
As a aging Chad i disagree with this guys message
Chad in what?
And Deen is Easy
Whiner. Life is a gift. Enjoy.
Fawn
Let's put it this way: you're talking about how you had scars on your face because of an accident with a skateboard.
Somewhere in the world there is some dead kid because he was playing on a field and he stepped on a mine of an unmarked minefield and now his friends can't fucking pick up the pieces lest they die too.
Just came back from the store and I had problems because I don't know what to eat and I had a recollection of a guy who I met at a convenience store at 4 or 5 am and he looked so desperate, completely covered in dirt and I realized he was waiting for the cashier to bring him what he ordered: a pack of tortillas and beans. Guy told me it was his first meal in 3 or 4 days at that he had just collected enough plastic bottles to have something to eat.
I've never seen poverty like that before.
I didn't know what to do, I froze.
He didn't had enough money but the guy in the store said "take them anyway" I told him after the other guy left that I would pay for that stuff but it never ocurred to me to offer the plastic bottle guy anything...I was that shocked.
Anyway...problems? I got 99 of them
Full of coping of cooper
“Life advice, if your ever getting chased by a lioness….Just hop in your buggati Brokieeee!!!”
~Andrew Tate
💀bozo following a bozo💀
Ummmm......just picking up and leaving IS NOT a solution to government.
Basically,,,grow up,,,kick ass