I know this is a funny video but it just shows how much weight women have to pull in relationships once they have a baby. Weaponized incompetence. He’s fine he can suck it up and help oh my god
@@c457jajsudbe same! Mine informed me we arent celebrating mothers day. Guess we arent celebrating fathers day either! I’m taking my son on a date that day😂
I think you all just have shitty husbands. Female bodies are built to carry and birth a child and heal. No body is meant for surgery. I think they’re doing just fine.
I think my dad loved my mom more when he saw her give birth… he describes it as, “oh man, it was really cool to see you kids come into this world and know that I helped creat you. Then I followed you kids out of the delivery room to make sure no one took my kids, it was all over the news at that time of baby swapping and baby steeling. I was not going to let that happen.” Us kids as adults… “so you left mom alone? After she spent HOURS in delivery?” Dad, “yup. You’re mom is important. I love your mom. Could you imagine how it would’ve hurt her if she found out that someone stole her baby after spending HOURS to deliver.” Point taken.😂😂😂😂😂 If he could there would be 13 kids… they stopped at 6.
I don't see your point. How come checking the baby to be sure it wasn't swapped or taken away LESS important than staying with the mother right after birth?!?! Any decent mother would want their husband to go and be sure just in case, if that's a worry they have! He'll literally (well, hopefully) stay with her until death do their part anyways.
No, not necessarily child free, it's more so being single, majority of women would prefer having a kid and being a single mother, im not a single mother but sometimes I wish I was 😂
My husband is broken after seeing me giving birth thought he only saw the after effects of birth because he wasn't allowed in the delivery ward 😅think he needs therapy for his trauma he said he didn't want a nother baby because of what needs to happen for babby to be born but at least he new or tryde to take care of me after babby was born the respect i got from him was at next level 😊
The moms feel different about this one. The things need to get done, and although she desperately needs rest, nobody else took care of the things.. 😓 lol?
"Some" men 😊 My dad, brothers and husband aren't like this. BUT also, they work hard, so if they need to just rest to recover from a cold, then I'm going to support that.
This is funny and interesting timing 😂 my husband, we have 5 kids, just had his vasectomy 8 days ago and spent his Father's day yesterday on our property working on our chicken coop. He definitely took a couple of days to ice but was right back at it after that. So proud of him!
My grandma gave birth to my father while baking a pie, she took care of it all, put dinner on the table, and when my uncles and grandpa came home they heared a cry, she said a yea i gave birth, the baby is in the other room. She got married at 13 cause she lost her mom and dad and she had no brothers that could take care of her, so her cousins married her to a local baker. She gave birth at 14 the first time and my father was her 8. Child.
I think it is to pretend they have long hair. I think that because I used a towel when I was a kid to pretend my hair was long (I had it up to the nape)
@@absolutelyridiculous6743 first was demerol, epidural and forceps (those things are effing HUGE), third was failed home birth double footling breech that ended in an emergency c section with an inverted T incision because he was almost stuck. Would have had to break his shoulder blades to be born vaginally because his arms were up by his head and the cord wrapped around his neck. They pulled him out and the pressure release made him project meconium into my open incision, across the operating room on like 4 people, the doctor included, and the ceiling. Number 4 was a planned c section because my labors were fast and furious and I live an hour away now from a hospital. Each experience was different. #2 was the best.
This is so much my friends. They had a failed vasectomy. It reconnected and they had another baby. She did home birth it like she did the other 3 but for 3 weeks she didnt get up to do anything but for bathroom. This was not normal for her because after she had the older 3 she always just went on with all her chores as was expected. So he became really concerned and brought a doctor home. She just smiled at the two men and said "if a vasectomy needs 3 weeks of bedrest, a failed vasectomy should come with at least 6"
Thankful that my husband takes over for the first 2 weeks after I have a baby. I literally just lay in bed and feed baby and get food brought to me ❤ He even changes the diapers around the clock. I only bleed for a week, 3 days of heavy bleeding and the rest is spotting, because I allow my body to rest and heal. Even if my husband didn't do anything, I'd still make myself rest because the house can wait. And when my husband got his vasectomy, I took care of him because they are both painful situations and I'm not going to tell him to suck it up just because I went through a more intense pain.
Right! 😂 After hours of labor, delivering my Baby, being rushed into emergency surgery I instantly got up out of my bed when they wheeled me back from the OR and started getting my room in order, folding baby blankets etc. and had to stop and remind myself that I JUST got out of surgery and not supposed to be up yet 😂 Mom brain doesn't understand "rest" 😅
Women really do need to rest in the hours after their birth. We're extremely strong and resilient but in order to be that we do need a little bit of time to heal and a few hours after birth you should be doing literally everything for her, and this is coming from an extremely traditional wife who generally does 100% of the housework and child care
Leave that bullshit. “Traditional relationships “ or “hell” ain’t fucking right. U are a human. That scum cummed in u to bring wat is also his kids into this world. He needs to take 50% off of u and start doing his part
Everyone experiences pain differently if my man where to get a vasectomy and was experiencing pain then yes I would baby him. The same way he babies me when im sick and yes even now that im pregnant he babies me even more. Be loving to your partner dont underestimate their pain and if they’re asking to be cared for do it especially if they reciprocate. Love eachother
@@LemonSte I don’t think that’s how it is women are designed to give birth it’s kind’ve what we’re meant for also last I checked unless someone is forcing you nobody forced you to spread your legs or not check if he had a condom on of course sometimes they fail but then it’s not your fault or his you did what you could
@@Raphaeltheslayer "nobody forced you to spread your legs" but "giving birth is what we are meant for". So, women are supposed to listen to everyone telling them they should have kids because it's natural and their purpose, but it's their fault if they feel pressured and choose to carry?
I had a csection and suffer from chronically low blood pressure, the same day I'm recovering from the surgery the nurse shammed me saying: "I have to tell most moms to not get up and move around so much, but not you..". She was constantly pushing me to get up and go to the restroom on my own and getting snippy with me when I said I had a fainting disorder, was dizzy, denied my medication, and was coming off my epidural which lowers blood pressure. So pissed.
I get that this is supposed to be funny but honestly it's not really that funny it just shows how bad our government is and how much we need to change things so that way everybody is equal
Well you can always communicate and set boundaries in a relationship. If you don’t then this happens 🤷♀️ men are not lazy, they can pull their weight, they just don’t get pulled up on it, and it often starts when they are raised as kids.
Men are lazy, what you mean is they are capable of doing the same amount of work. It’s astonishing how men shirk work but yet still think they are the ones who should be ruling the world
I get what you're saying. But honestly it becomes exhausting policing your adult partner at some point. Like they're not children, they understand the concept of responsibility
@@audreyjoy578 I didn’t say policing. Communicating your boundaries is a one time firm thing. Women fall into delegating everything and that’s there problem too. Let the house get dirty, don’t cook, leave the baby and go out for a coffee- the man will learn. You don’t need to have control, letting go is sometimes the answer. Actions speak louder than words
Honestly all the men I knew who got vasectomies went to work the same day, or the day after. But it's such an incredibly easy surgery, it's nothing compared to carrying a child, and birthing it
I just had my baby girl on mothers day. No epidural. Came before dr and nurses could make it in the room and my husband had the audacity to ask me, is that how a vasectomy is going to feel 😅 like what
Same shit. I didn't have epidural and even after year and a half I remember that feeling of being torn up like a handkerchief. Definitely no more babies will come out of me.
If a vasectomy hurts that much , then they are doing it wrong. Several male friends I know who have had it done were back in work the next day. One had his done in the morning and was back in work in the afternoon.
I thought I would be like that..until I couldn't stand up unassisted for 3 days, drive for a month, and bled so bad after we got home I almost had to go to the ER. So..more power to the ladies who get it done.
honestly i think it really depends on if they feel like they’re allowed to relax. in a lot (*not all*) of more “traditional” relationships the wife feels like she can’t rest even if she really needs to because the household duties won’t get taken care of otherwise and that just creates an enormous load to catch up when the rest is over. for the husbands it’s easier to relax because the wife is already taking care of the household duties. the dynamic in this video shouldn’t be happening if both partners are making sure the other feels like they’re allowed to take the rest they need by being active in taking care of the home
I dont understand why women get so bent out of shape over this. We are made different than men. Men can be babies over some injuries and illnesses. I dont understand why women are letting it get to you. If you expect your man to help with things then put your foot down, but remember the relationship is a partnership. That being said ... if you had a procedure youd want time to relax too. Are you not taking that time because you are the only one that can do the "job right way" or do not give him the opportunity?
My husband does everything that he can for me during and after labor BUT he won't look down at everything when the baby is coming out 😂 Which I'm totally fine with.
Videos like this should actually make men realise that they go through no pain in life whatsoever. (If they haven't had the snip) We have to give birth go through hours and hours of labour sometimes even days and days and days of bleeding non stop. 😂 they have it so much easier than us yet complain if we dont clean 😮😅
@@Yoshyoshi. yes i get what your saying but im not talking about domestic violence or abuse or anything like that cuz yes then both men and women go through that. i just been in general side of things i.e mother nature Men cant give birth or have periods you dont know how lucky you are 👍
Nahh that's wild!!! I mean I know not every situation is the same but I made sure until my wife was feeling comfortable to start doing things again she was able to rest after c section. My ass work 12 hours cook dinner do dishes laundry all of it till she was able to move again.
This is probably rare but my bro in law had horrendous reactions afterwards like a horrible infection and major swelling so dont always knock men for resting! Also men a taught from a young age to not talk about if they feeling pain. (But absolutely the video makes a point as well!) The men with towels for wigs are so funny to me lol
I agree. Just because the vasectomy is "less' intense, doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to rest without being criticized. And women need to rest too. The house can wait.
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Don’t think you understood the video. They aren’t saying that, they’re saying how come in SOME (not all) relationships the women is expected or pushed to carry on as normal after birth, whereas in the same relationship the man CAN rest. Both deserve rest.
My mom's are 10 and dad's are 6. 🌚 Technology wasn't even available for normal people at that time. 🙂🙂 I can't imagine how they gave birth. It must be so painful and then she had to take care of these kids
Okay, I have absolutely nothing against her. But is there no one finding it at least a little bit wierd that she actually wears something she can't move in and has to be surrounded by 4 or 5 men, who help her? 😅 I find it a bit awkward. (She's really beautiful, please don't get me wrong 😂)
Strategic incompetence and female martyrdom. What is up with us women. Why are we so adamant abt not resting when it is crucial. It makes us resentful in the end. Nothing good comes of it. Is our self worth so low that we need to refuse rest and start working even after giving birth. What trophies did we get for this. What statues have been built for us. What songs have been sung in our names. REST GODDAMMIT.
do have to say, a surgery is very different from a normal birth. pain works differently for each (ex. vasectomy pain can easily last longer than pain from giving birth, depending on circumstances)
… You do know they’re talking about what they do after the birth right? I think everyone collectively understands birth is natural, doesn’t make it any easier to do things afterwards.
@@emily11106 mental scarring. There's a reason why any surgery or procedure freaks people out even though they're all less hard than childbirth. We are quite literally made to give birth in the wild and keep it trucking. Unless something goes horribly wrong your mental state is fine after seeing as your brain is prepped to do it your whole life.. thats why post patrum is a big deal cause its not supposedto happen. A lot of women forget about how painful it is and have kids again and again. But no man would be so eager to keep getting the snip. The process of childbirth may be harder. But damage and pain to the most sensitive area for guys is part mental and physical and shouldn't be underestimated.
@@EbonyHicks-pd5vz the point literally flew over your head. I quite literally said we all know birth is natural.😂 Approximately 1 out of ten births are high risk and endure complications. Not only that, but the post partum time is a very vunerable time and potentially dangerous time for women. E.g; infections, post partum depression and or anxiety, placenta problems, decreased blood pressure, thrombosis, increased heart rate, stroke, fever, HELLP syndrome, postpartum blues, post partum hemorrhage, uterine trauma. There’s so much more. Plus 1 out of 5 births end in a c section (which isn’t a natural thing that’s existed since life began just like men getting the snip) and c sections often have longer recovery periods, higher risk of infection, and higher risk of post partum depression.
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I know this is a funny video but it just shows how much weight women have to pull in relationships once they have a baby. Weaponized incompetence. He’s fine he can suck it up and help oh my god
Yeah my thoughts too. Suddenly my husband can't cook or do dishes after having kids and then wonders why I dont want to spend time with him.
@@c457jajsudbe same! Mine informed me we arent celebrating mothers day. Guess we arent celebrating fathers day either! I’m taking my son on a date that day😂
@@janie567 Good for you!!
I think you all just have shitty husbands. Female bodies are built to carry and birth a child and heal. No body is meant for surgery. I think they’re doing just fine.
@@janie567 that's just terrible!
I think my dad loved my mom more when he saw her give birth… he describes it as, “oh man, it was really cool to see you kids come into this world and know that I helped creat you. Then I followed you kids out of the delivery room to make sure no one took my kids, it was all over the news at that time of baby swapping and baby steeling. I was not going to let that happen.”
Us kids as adults… “so you left mom alone? After she spent HOURS in delivery?”
Dad, “yup. You’re mom is important. I love your mom. Could you imagine how it would’ve hurt her if she found out that someone stole her baby after spending HOURS to deliver.”
Point taken.😂😂😂😂😂
If he could there would be 13 kids… they stopped at 6.
that's still too many for me 😆
Did we have the same dad? This is practically the same conversation I had with him at one point 💀
He stopped at 3 though, 2 his and 1 my mommas
I asked my husband to go wherever the baby went with each one of ours.
I don't see your point.
How come checking the baby to be sure it wasn't swapped or taken away LESS important than staying with the mother right after birth?!?! Any decent mother would want their husband to go and be sure just in case, if that's a worry they have! He'll literally (well, hopefully) stay with her until death do their part anyways.
I mean baby swapping is more common than a wife swap so I’d say there was thought behind going with you guys when you were born 😅
I don't think this is funny. This is the reason why so many woman chosing to be child free.
No, not necessarily child free, it's more so being single, majority of women would prefer having a kid and being a single mother, im not a single mother but sometimes I wish I was 😂
Giving birth scene was so natural and smooth 👏👏😂😂😂
My husband is broken after seeing me giving birth thought he only saw the after effects of birth because he wasn't allowed in the delivery ward 😅think he needs therapy for his trauma he said he didn't want a nother baby because of what needs to happen for babby to be born but at least he new or tryde to take care of me after babby was born the respect i got from him was at next level 😊
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@@bostonb4kedbeans that was the only incorrect spelling you noticed? Lol 😂
@@hollydolly6080 it was the only one that really irked me 🤣
@@hollydolly6080TRYDE is killing me 😂
sounds like he needs to toughen up!
Yes, women...strong af because we have to be.
We don't have to be, but woman are strong because men are taught to be incompetent and useless 😂
Dont they open up our entire pelvis for the 15 minute "easy" surgery
@@Omni-man357 they make three incisions usually 2 or 3 in the abdomen. The pelvis itself is not cut open
@@Omni-man357no…like…not at all…are you joking or?
@@Aj-sn1dpDo you even know the procces of a vasectomy. . ? Honestly it is really easy in compare with giving birth..
The moms feel different about this one. The things need to get done, and although she desperately needs rest, nobody else took care of the things.. 😓 lol?
Nailed at a whole new level Men can't even catch a head cold they wine and cry for a week.. Lolo this is so factual. 🤣
I work in a lab and my dad swore he got covid and was dying, I told him go to the ER and get a pcr panel done….lo and behold he only had a cold 😂😂😂
"Some" men 😊
My dad, brothers and husband aren't like this.
BUT also, they work hard, so if they need to just rest to recover from a cold, then I'm going to support that.
This is funny and interesting timing 😂 my husband, we have 5 kids, just had his vasectomy 8 days ago and spent his Father's day yesterday on our property working on our chicken coop. He definitely took a couple of days to ice but was right back at it after that. So proud of him!
Wait,you mean mothers day?
@Holly Nicole it was Father's day in our country
My grandma gave birth to my father while baking a pie, she took care of it all, put dinner on the table, and when my uncles and grandpa came home they heared a cry, she said a yea i gave birth, the baby is in the other room. She got married at 13 cause she lost her mom and dad and she had no brothers that could take care of her, so her cousins married her to a local baker. She gave birth at 14 the first time and my father was her 8. Child.
😲 omg what a story!!
What in the 1927??
@@masturah711 I think she was born in 1921. so yea u are somewhat near.
@Betty.Pfeffer What a story, when i hear all of this i see how we have it good actually in this times.
I cooked, cleaned, baked a cake with my toddler. And same evening delivered my daughter without any anesthesia. All in a day's work.
powerful momma ❤
Why tik tok dudes think that they can imitate women by putting a towel on their head? 😂😂😂
I think it's a man thing, my 2 younger brothers did it, or used pillow cases 😂
Cause it's a little hard to grow tits
I think it is to pretend they have long hair. I think that because I used a towel when I was a kid to pretend my hair was long (I had it up to the nape)
Well didn’t that start on Vine
It's the hair, duh.
This comment section is getting screenshot so my parents know exactly why im never getting married
I had a home birth and was out shopping in 4 hours. The best birth I ever had. He was 2 of 4.
Jeeze. I had two inductions, both horribly painful, and was in the hospital for 3-4 days with each kid.
@@absolutelyridiculous6743 first was demerol, epidural and forceps (those things are effing HUGE), third was failed home birth double footling breech that ended in an emergency c section with an inverted T incision because he was almost stuck. Would have had to break his shoulder blades to be born vaginally because his arms were up by his head and the cord wrapped around his neck. They pulled him out and the pressure release made him project meconium into my open incision, across the operating room on like 4 people, the doctor included, and the ceiling. Number 4 was a planned c section because my labors were fast and furious and I live an hour away now from a hospital. Each experience was different. #2 was the best.
@@absolutelyridiculous6743 14 bags of antibiotics in 4 days lol
Woman you have all my respect ❤
Hi, can I ask your recovery time after c section as compared to the normal birth?
This is so much my friends. They had a failed vasectomy. It reconnected and they had another baby. She did home birth it like she did the other 3 but for 3 weeks she didnt get up to do anything but for bathroom. This was not normal for her because after she had the older 3 she always just went on with all her chores as was expected. So he became really concerned and brought a doctor home. She just smiled at the two men and said "if a vasectomy needs 3 weeks of bedrest, a failed vasectomy should come with at least 6"
Thankful that my husband takes over for the first 2 weeks after I have a baby.
I literally just lay in bed and feed baby and get food brought to me ❤
He even changes the diapers around the clock.
I only bleed for a week, 3 days of heavy bleeding and the rest is spotting, because I allow my body to rest and heal. Even if my husband didn't do anything, I'd still make myself rest because the house can wait.
And when my husband got his vasectomy, I took care of him because they are both painful situations and I'm not going to tell him to suck it up just because I went through a more intense pain.
Right! 😂 After hours of labor, delivering my Baby, being rushed into emergency surgery I instantly got up out of my bed when they wheeled me back from the OR and started getting my room in order, folding baby blankets etc. and had to stop and remind myself that I JUST got out of surgery and not supposed to be up yet 😂 Mom brain doesn't understand "rest" 😅
Women really do need to rest in the hours after their birth. We're extremely strong and resilient but in order to be that we do need a little bit of time to heal and a few hours after birth you should be doing literally everything for her, and this is coming from an extremely traditional wife who generally does 100% of the housework and child care
Leave that bullshit. “Traditional relationships “ or “hell” ain’t fucking right. U are a human. That scum cummed in u to bring wat is also his kids into this world. He needs to take 50% off of u and start doing his part
This is hilarious 🤣 the baby on your back hanging up the picture. Men are somethin else
Everyone experiences pain differently if my man where to get a vasectomy and was experiencing pain then yes I would baby him. The same way he babies me when im sick and yes even now that im pregnant he babies me even more. Be loving to your partner dont underestimate their pain and if they’re asking to be cared for do it especially if they reciprocate. Love eachother
Hilariously accurate 🤣🤣 that's for truthfully telling how strong women are
More like how weak men are and how women are expected to put up with pain so we learn to.
@@LemonSte I don’t think that’s how it is women are designed to give birth it’s kind’ve what we’re meant for also last I checked unless someone is forcing you nobody forced you to spread your legs or not check if he had a condom on of course sometimes they fail but then it’s not your fault or his you did what you could
@@Raphaeltheslayer "nobody forced you to spread your legs" but "giving birth is what we are meant for". So, women are supposed to listen to everyone telling them they should have kids because it's natural and their purpose, but it's their fault if they feel pressured and choose to carry?
@@Raphaeltheslayer you are brain dead
I had a csection and suffer from chronically low blood pressure, the same day I'm recovering from the surgery the nurse shammed me saying: "I have to tell most moms to not get up and move around so much, but not you..". She was constantly pushing me to get up and go to the restroom on my own and getting snippy with me when I said I had a fainting disorder, was dizzy, denied my medication, and was coming off my epidural which lowers blood pressure. So pissed.
All the 6-7 year old seeing this like
“I thought babies came from tummies…”
I’m 10 don’t they fall from the sky??
That’s what I was told
THEY ARE TOO INNOCENT
Yeah something needs to change
Don't have kids. Simple
@@marissaann1901 Yes of course!!! My apologies for how right you are. How could I’ve been so DUMB. Having kids are definitely the problem.
@@marissaann1901yeah… the baby is definitely the issue here…
This is exactly why I’m afraid of marriage and having kids I refuse if this is the outcome
I get that this is supposed to be funny but honestly it's not really that funny it just shows how bad our government is and how much we need to change things so that way everybody is equal
love how he kept the postpartum belly lol
Men should see how it feels to be pregnant
Don't get pregnant then
@@marissaann1901 how tf does your comment make any sense?
This one time my dad got a UTI and was insufferable for like a week. My mom and I were like are you fucking serious.
😂 sounds about right. After pushing my son out I wanted up immediately lol 😂 I even puked after I pushed him out before even birthing the placenta.
Omg not the bluey music 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣lol
The baby on his back with no holder though😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well you can always communicate and set boundaries in a relationship. If you don’t then this happens 🤷♀️ men are not lazy, they can pull their weight, they just don’t get pulled up on it, and it often starts when they are raised as kids.
Men are lazy, what you mean is they are capable of doing the same amount of work. It’s astonishing how men shirk work but yet still think they are the ones who should be ruling the world
I get what you're saying. But honestly it becomes exhausting policing your adult partner at some point. Like they're not children, they understand the concept of responsibility
@@audreyjoy578 I didn’t say policing. Communicating your boundaries is a one time firm thing. Women fall into delegating everything and that’s there problem too. Let the house get dirty, don’t cook, leave the baby and go out for a coffee- the man will learn. You don’t need to have control, letting go is sometimes the answer. Actions speak louder than words
@@fatimaelmusbahi596 easier said than done
@@aloowalia2849 nothing worth it is easy. Everything takes hard work.
Honestly all the men I knew who got vasectomies went to work the same day, or the day after. But it's such an incredibly easy surgery, it's nothing compared to carrying a child, and birthing it
I just had my baby girl on mothers day. No epidural. Came before dr and nurses could make it in the room and my husband had the audacity to ask me, is that how a vasectomy is going to feel 😅 like what
Same shit. I didn't have epidural and even after year and a half I remember that feeling of being torn up like a handkerchief. Definitely no more babies will come out of me.
They literally get anesthesia 🙄🙄 males are so dumb
Not a flex dude…
If a vasectomy hurts that much , then they are doing it wrong.
Several male friends I know who have had it done were back in work the next day.
One had his done in the morning and was back in work in the afternoon.
"So where you born by a boy or a girl?"
"A boy..."
Haha bad relationship funny
I thought I would be like that..until I couldn't stand up unassisted for 3 days, drive for a month, and bled so bad after we got home I almost had to go to the ER. So..more power to the ladies who get it done.
Really the bluey music r u serious 😂
Maybe she’s working because dad isn’t…
honestly i think it really depends on if they feel like they’re allowed to relax. in a lot (*not all*) of more “traditional” relationships the wife feels like she can’t rest even if she really needs to because the household duties won’t get taken care of otherwise and that just creates an enormous load to catch up when the rest is over. for the husbands it’s easier to relax because the wife is already taking care of the household duties. the dynamic in this video shouldn’t be happening if both partners are making sure the other feels like they’re allowed to take the rest they need by being active in taking care of the home
I dont understand why women get so bent out of shape over this. We are made different than men. Men can be babies over some injuries and illnesses. I dont understand why women are letting it get to you. If you expect your man to help with things then put your foot down, but remember the relationship is a partnership. That being said ... if you had a procedure youd want time to relax too. Are you not taking that time because you are the only one that can do the "job right way" or do not give him the opportunity?
my friend gave birth the previous day and did the school lunches and school run for her older kids with newborn in the car seat the next morning
Now I'm stuck watching bluey
Now your stuck? Don't
They act like it’s such a big ass deal 🙄 being child free is so MUCH better
dads also dont normally help
scaredy cats cant even see the birth and says youre being dramatic like-😂
My husband does everything that he can for me during and after labor BUT he won't look down at everything when the baby is coming out 😂 Which I'm totally fine with.
Meanwhile my husband drove me to a wedding (11 hours away) a few days after his surgery ❤
Videos like this should actually make men realise that they go through no pain in life whatsoever. (If they haven't had the snip) We have to give birth go through hours and hours of labour sometimes even days and days and days of bleeding non stop. 😂 they have it so much easier than us yet complain if we dont clean 😮😅
@@Yoshyoshi. yes i get what your saying but im not talking about domestic violence or abuse or anything like that cuz yes then both men and women go through that. i just been in general side of things i.e mother nature Men cant give birth or have periods you dont know how lucky you are 👍
bro men go through pain more than women u should look up blue balls
Nahh that's wild!!! I mean I know not every situation is the same but I made sure until my wife was feeling comfortable to start doing things again she was able to rest after c section. My ass work 12 hours cook dinner do dishes laundry all of it till she was able to move again.
Not the bluey intro 💀
I delivered my baby at home by myself and i can tell you some men can act like this without having a vasectomy. Shoot let them get a cold.
Bluey in the background theme😂
This is probably rare but my bro in law had horrendous reactions afterwards like a horrible infection and major swelling so dont always knock men for resting! Also men a taught from a young age to not talk about if they feeling pain. (But absolutely the video makes a point as well!) The men with towels for wigs are so funny to me lol
I agree.
Just because the vasectomy is "less' intense, doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to rest without being criticized.
And women need to rest too.
The house can wait.
I did not laugh. (It's because I have to deal with this type of fucking bullshit)
Honestly bluey kinda go hard
One of the reasons I don’t want kids….
NAMES OF BLUEY PEOPLE:
MUFFIN
SNICKERS
WINNEY
BLUEY
BINGO
COCO
POMPOM
HONEY 🍯
THE TERRIERS
CHILE
BANDIT
GRAN GRAN
GRANDAD
RUSTY
RUSTY'S MUM
ALLI
POST DOG
THERE ARE SO MANY MORE BLUEY PEOPLE LIKE THIS IS CALLED LILA .
I LOVE BLUEY ITS NOT JUST FOR BABYS BECAUSE IM 15 AND I LOVE BLUEY . BYE GUYS HAVE A AMAZING DAY 👏 💛 💗
Respect that u realize ur a piece of work...lol
DUDE WHY DID YOU PUT THE BLUEY THEME OVER IT
BLUEY SONGS GIVE ME THE BLUEY SONGS
Hahaha so accurate woman are so amazing 😍 and men are mostly grown babies lols
What?? Girls literally cry over everything , if they can’t go to target cry ,can’t get Starbucks they cry if everything doesn’t revolve around them and they can’t get whenever they want whenever they want they cry scrolling through RUclips shorts is proof of that
Medical theory 101 lol just because it's a small things doesn't mean quick recovery
Don’t think you understood the video. They aren’t saying that, they’re saying how come in SOME (not all) relationships the women is expected or pushed to carry on as normal after birth, whereas in the same relationship the man CAN rest.
Both deserve rest.
Yeah men are big babies istg
Women shouldn’t be doing strenuous activities for at least two weeks after giving birth
Mom! *Wait* Dad! *Wait* Bingo! *more longer Wait* BLUEY💙💙💙💙
That should be reversed, momma should be down for 2 wks and daddy up the same day lol 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
My mom's are 10 and dad's are 6. 🌚 Technology wasn't even available for normal people at that time. 🙂🙂 I can't imagine how they gave birth. It must be so painful and then she had to take care of these kids
Men are something else definitely
But why does it look like the baby is actually gripping the back of your shirt 😂😂
Not dating anyone who owns an xbox after 25 and its surreal to know there are women doing that
Gotta love how all the women in horrible relationships come out of the woodwork on this one
Bluey Music?
This is the music from bluey😂
Okay, I have absolutely nothing against her. But is there no one finding it at least a little bit wierd that she actually wears something she can't move in and has to be surrounded by 4 or 5 men, who help her? 😅 I find it a bit awkward.
(She's really beautiful, please don't get me wrong 😂)
The song is bluey
👇
When I have a baby, I’m gonna do home birth
Totally did nit come out of his shirt❤
Strategic incompetence and female martyrdom.
What is up with us women. Why are we so adamant abt not resting when it is crucial.
It makes us resentful in the end. Nothing good comes of it.
Is our self worth so low that we need to refuse rest and start working even after giving birth. What trophies did we get for this. What statues have been built for us. What songs have been sung in our names.
REST GODDAMMIT.
Funny video man but all I came here to say us I got the same hand towel you used on your head
I'm sorry but ima be like the dad if I ever have a kid that's gonna be my downtime 😅😂😅😂😅
I have that hand towel hair 😂
Nah duck cleaning im going to sleep
What sergery takes 15 minutes?
vasectomy
do have to say, a surgery is very different from a normal birth. pain works differently for each (ex. vasectomy pain can easily last longer than pain from giving birth, depending on circumstances)
not saying giving birth hurts less, just doesn’t always linger for very long afterwards
@@chaaps8915 the shrinking of the woman hurts for days, and the bleeding last 2-4 weeks. Just saying. 🙂
@@chaaps8915 are u joking🤣🤣 yes it does
@@boglarkavertannebuki3078 not nearly the same level of pain, though.
Vasectomy are no joke tho haha
i will pay for the therapy
Only thing we can't do is pee bc it BURNS!
Why are you using Bluey’s music, for a vasectomy theme ?
I know the song it's bluey🤣
Bruh men can't gave birth 😑😑😑
But he just did I saw it
@Melissa viana 😅😅😅pois é,ele não entendeu que era zoeira
Gosh this was so funny
Rosie Vs Meeeeee!!!!!
I love blue in being a song
Tbf one is natural
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You do know they’re talking about what they do after the birth right? I think everyone collectively understands birth is natural, doesn’t make it any easier to do things afterwards.
@@emily11106 mental scarring. There's a reason why any surgery or procedure freaks people out even though they're all less hard than childbirth. We are quite literally made to give birth in the wild and keep it trucking. Unless something goes horribly wrong your mental state is fine after seeing as your brain is prepped to do it your whole life.. thats why post patrum is a big deal cause its not supposedto happen. A lot of women forget about how painful it is and have kids again and again. But no man would be so eager to keep getting the snip. The process of childbirth may be harder. But damage and pain to the most sensitive area for guys is part mental and physical and shouldn't be underestimated.
@@EbonyHicks-pd5vz the point literally flew over your head. I quite literally said we all know birth is natural.😂
Approximately 1 out of ten births are high risk and endure complications.
Not only that, but the post partum time is a very vunerable time and potentially dangerous time for women.
E.g; infections, post partum depression and or anxiety, placenta problems, decreased blood pressure, thrombosis, increased heart rate, stroke, fever, HELLP syndrome, postpartum blues, post partum hemorrhage, uterine trauma.
There’s so much more. Plus 1 out of 5 births end in a c section (which isn’t a natural thing that’s existed since life began just like men getting the snip) and c sections often have longer recovery periods, higher risk of infection, and higher risk of post partum depression.
I HAVE A NEWBORN BABY GIRL
Congratulations! 🎊 🎉
@@eloiselockett9001 DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT HER NAME IS
@@wesleychang9582 YES
@Eloise Lockett Well too bad I guess 😅
That's a baby doll
Did that doll just come out of his hoohaa?!?!? 😮😵💫🫨😵 The editing director did magnificent work!
Why the bluey sound but it’s a sound I like it the bluey sound