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  • @andreakahl4004
    @andreakahl4004 Год назад +6

    I found out 1 month ago that I am a Reflektor 6/2 and I am 56 years now. It took me long and now I know what was going on all my life long. Wouh. all the conditioning I went through. I am still figuring out what is ME and was is SUPPOSED to be me by than. Very an adventure. But after all shock I am now proud of my skills. ❤❤❤

  • @quintiar
    @quintiar 9 месяцев назад +5

    I resonate with your experience so much! I’ve always been a target of people’s projections. Im usually the ONLY reflector for most people who come into contact with my reality, so my existence is usually triggering to everyone I meet. In fact, I haven’t met another reflector outside of social media yet. Though I know that I’m a reflector and I comprehend how my energy is reflecting subconscious things back to them…they usually don’t. And if they do get a sense that something is “different” about me, they believe I’m the root of their problems and even their unhappiness! Because so many people can agree I’m different, I become to common denominator by default in social circles…For me that’s been unsettling and disheartening and reinforces why I need time away from other people’s energy. But then I get labeled as a loner or a melancholy person. That my antisocial habits are intentional and that I think I’m better than everyone so I refuse to be around them. But it is exactly those false assumptions about me that exhaust me further! Lol! I know I can’t explain it to where they will understand. I’m a lunar being and they are solar. It just is what it is.
    Mostly, I’m tired of being seen as “fake” simply because I sample everyone’s energy and I’m able to adjust to it temporarily as well. I’m not hiding who I am or being two-faced. I was born fluid! A lot of people like what they see in me, but they don’t like me. So I need to be alone so I can enjoy myself since people only see themselves in me, but never me.

  • @laimaplavina9872
    @laimaplavina9872 3 года назад +18

    Thank you so so much, this feels like finding an island after being alone in the sea for a long time 😄 everything you said is exactly what I experience, this is truely amazing, sending love and strenght to all of you ❤️

  • @astrologynowpodcast
    @astrologynowpodcast 3 года назад +14

    I loved this. I recently learned that I'm also a reflector - and so much makes sense in terms of how others relate to me. I hear, often, "you are so different" or "there is just something different about you that feels really good..." I had rationalized this by recognizing that I MAKE everything about others - so they enjoy the appreciation and attention. I truly see deeply into others and can sniff out that "shininess" you mention (lack of dullness), and I think it feels good for other people. However, it's difficult for me to feel reciprocity and though others like being around me (because I'm always seeing them), I get exhausted by not being seen and then need to be alone. Now I know I'm just a reflector.

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +10

      Heyyy yeah i think that’s part of the “disappointment” for reflectors. We never really feel filled, or truly seen, or xyz

    • @astrologynowpodcast
      @astrologynowpodcast 3 года назад +1

      @@theactivatedwoman wow. That makes so much sense. I’m still new to this and learning about it.... but this resonates with me 100%.

    • @berserkerbambi6094
      @berserkerbambi6094 3 года назад +1

      Exactly!

    • @chesnecain
      @chesnecain 2 года назад +2

      As a 3/5 reflector I totally understand this

    • @selfkarrie2048
      @selfkarrie2048 Год назад

      You said everything I experience everyday...and you're and Astrologer, too! I'm so grateful for your share. I feel so seen!

  • @theaquariancoach
    @theaquariancoach 2 года назад +2

    I don't think or feel like anyone has ever expressed what being a reflector so accurately, you NAILED it!!

  • @elynselu7202
    @elynselu7202 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I've been in the deconditioning phase for 3 years and what a difference it's made. I spent years pathologizing my intuition as poor boundaries. Learning how to keep strong boundaries helped so much and I go to educate my therapist about Human Design. As a 3/5, I've been scapegoated by so many groups that I've participated in - from work to social. I've learned to sort of stay above it all and stay in observer mode. I long for more connection than I have, but try to deeply appreciate when moments of connection do happen. I've also stopped taking on the responsibility of caring about others' emotional responses to me. They don't see me, only a reflection of themselves. It's exhausting, depressing, and also freeing. I'm learning that some people and situations are just doors closing and redirecting me to other people and situations.

  • @Venuslibra83
    @Venuslibra83 2 года назад +2

    You’re so right. I feel the same way as a reflector. I can watch someone on RUclips or be around someone and sound JUST like them, my voice changes, and mannerism, and it’s SO embarrassing for me. Sometimes I do not like who I am around certain people so I will avoid them. The person I am around will influence me and I usually hang around people who I like to be around because of their energy. I understand what you mean by the heaviness.

  • @natema9352
    @natema9352 3 года назад +12

    .. wow, i can relate to you,, people dont like me,, i reflect them back.. i stay alone alot, i am 6/2 so i am a hermit.. great share.. shine on

    • @stella5455
      @stella5455 3 года назад +1

      Reflector 6/2 as well

    • @christenec9112
      @christenec9112 2 года назад

      I'm a 6/2 as well just learned this

  • @sthsidegarduno
    @sthsidegarduno 2 года назад +3

    I just found out I’m a reflector, you have no idea how figuring this out has made me realize a lot. All those times being around groups of ppl & feeling so much, & just trying to fit in… & always feeling unwanted or looked at differently makes sense now. I would literally say nothing at all & so many ppl who didn’t even know me wld hate me. & I never understood why. Or like when I felt off & would warn my friends hey the vibes feel bad let’s leave I would be called crazy & then I’d leave an then something bad would happen. & I’m very intuitive I can just look at you and read you from the inside out and I would never no why I could do that. But I was always spot on. Also I would always want to hurry and go back home just to be in my room alone because I always felt so drained after and I just never knew why.. I’m glad I know now. My body graph is really helpful & useful for me. I wish I would of learned about this along time ago.

    • @christenec9112
      @christenec9112 2 года назад +1

      I just learned I'm a 6/2 ,many years ago fortunately years ago a medium taught me how to shield my aura . Visualize a white shield lifting from the ground & forming a bubble around you. Carry this with you when in are in crowds ,then you don't take on what's not yours . As an empath souls will throw their "junk" at you to carry .
      When you get to your home ,drop the shield before you enter , I smudge a lot as well !!
      You can still send aura& energy work out to others through your shield too. Finding out I'm a reflector was a big ah ha moment at 60 !!
      Much love sent ❤️

  • @climbybimby
    @climbybimby 2 года назад +3

    Wow! When you said burn the witch I wanted to cry! Im 53 and just found out im reflector.

  • @barefootexpedition9070
    @barefootexpedition9070 10 месяцев назад +1

    Reflectors are so much fun and wise to be around😍

  • @breathtakingladybug2448
    @breathtakingladybug2448 3 года назад +6

    I am also a reflector. Everyone loves me and loves to be around me, but I don't go around negative people. Makes total sense that the negative energy people don't want to see their own negativity. I also get drained easily. I fit in all the blanks for "empath" so I thought that's what it was this whole time, until a couple of weeks ago. Are children drawn to you?

  • @toriseubert4266
    @toriseubert4266 3 года назад +9

    Hi 5/1 reflector over here!! This video brought me to tears.. I’m a single mom, running a business alone. I’m exhausted and lost. How do you know your gut is right, like I’m constantly feeling as if I’m wrong. Growing up I was conditioned to be the exact opposite of who I am. I was conditioned to think being tired was my laziness and my confusion with others and confusion with having to keep up was unintelligence. My parents were a huge part. I love them both so dearly but my mom is still trying to make me be someone I never will be able to be. And I’m here alone and having to parent. How do you juggle life? Lol

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +2

      I can’t possibly know what single parenting feels like, but I do know you’re a fricken warrior for doing it!! I think there’s soooo much we can do as reflectors to take really amazing care of ourselves! I had no idea how many were suffering like me until I made this video in actuality and now I’m trying to brainstorm ways to help all the reflectors!
      It’s definitely difficult being a reflector.
      Im working really hard to bring back it’s sacredness and be a completely full person, reflecting beauty as well as chaos!!
      Let us stand in the power that is Us and not fall victim to the “disappointment”
      This is me.
      I am me.
      I am enough.

    • @andreakahl4004
      @andreakahl4004 Год назад

      OMG me too- ❤

  • @Princess_Of_Progress
    @Princess_Of_Progress 10 месяцев назад +1

    Im a projector but only have throat and g center defined, and I feel more like a reflector. And what you are sharing is very spot on. I have a over pleasing behavior too make up for being able to see through people. So I did kiss a lot of ass just to be smooth.❤
    My guides have given me the tip to follow the moon cycles, that made me think that they are pointing me towards the reflectors. This is actually a HUGE thing that should be recognized - people with no built in energetic boundaries. Mostly for how draining that is. ❤ What you said about the intuition part is no joke. The set back when I don’t listen to my intuition yet still technically Im a projector, causes me a lot of anxiety. I have also cptsd and adhd from a dysfunctional upbringing with a lot of trauma so to listen to the intuition feel sometimes like a mine field…. The struggle is real when peolpe hurt you over and over because they project their own hurt and guilt upon you and very easy to get stuck in a trauma loop when wounds doesnt heal and you attract the same things over and over.

    The best thing though is to be able to see through people, be a head of the game and able to help others. Also to feel vivid feelings and be very intimate with life. To be creating and fluffy and happy when no one else can bc we who carry the world inside have to accept ALOT like all of it to accept our selfs and happiness. I feel very piscean with all my openess and since I started to recover fuck the world off in hermit mode, the magic about being very energitically open starts to pay off, and even though I never meet people in this time of my life and only spending time in day dreaming, I start to like my own energy. That is the most important thing I belive. To be able to find that authentic frequency that is only yours. ❤ That saves the day.

  • @christyb3942
    @christyb3942 2 года назад +1

    Wow, you describe so much of how my life has been. I am in my 50’s and just recently found out I am a reflector. Relationships have been difficult for me and I often have people tell me they feel judged by me when I am not even saying anything or thinking anything. Conversations about what’s going on in the world is almost impossible for me at times. Yes, it’s very lonely. I have also felt like I must be lazy or something must be wrong with me because I run out of energy. I am highly intuitive, I work with people as you do to help them heal and overcome life challenges which is rewarding. I can’t thank you enough for sharing your experience. I don’t feel so confused and alone. 🙏🏻💕💕💕

  • @Zkbbkzzz
    @Zkbbkzzz 2 года назад +2

    I am a 4/6 R, many years into my HD experience. Everything you say in the video, I have also experienced. I also have the gate of provocation, which provokes others. I’m 58 and was actually punched in the face recently. It’s very important for me to stay in a constant state of love while being in aura with others lest I get physically hurt.
    I also have the gate of exhaustion in a prominent place in my body gram. On top of that my throat center has zero activations so vocal expression of my feelings is challenging. Mine is a difficult life of facing past generations of karmic energy head on. I hope that it heals others because I feel absolutely destroyed in the process.
    Anyway I think it is important to note that because reflectors sample auras, we know the difference in the other aura types. Many more people claim to be reflectors when in fact they are generator, manifestor, or projector types. Because reflectors are moon not sun, we operate differently. Therefore those reflectors want to be people should be called out by the only people that can, reflectors. Otherwise those folks will misinterpret what it feels like to be a reflector, when they should be investing in their own inherent gifts.

  • @evedotcom
    @evedotcom 3 года назад +6

    Damn, this sounds like an intense experience. Thank you for sharing. When you were speaking about the people who were triggered by you and didn't want to confront their own shortcomings, for a second I thought, oh you're just in the wrong circles. Before remembering, you're a reflector and this is probably an important reflection of the large portion of the collective who still have their heads in the sand. Much love and appreciation from an Emotional Manifestor. I relate a lot, maybe because of having many open centres too. The Manifestor aura also seems to trigger people and magnify existing issues a lot, even when I don't say or do much at all haha. Wishing you well on your journey x

    • @nadejdakopanova415
      @nadejdakopanova415 3 года назад

      It is indeed very difficult navigate trough and connect with people as a reflector and befriend then, even the one I consider good and empathetic souls still have issues within themselves and once we get to the moment this is triggered by life events it becomes really difficult to maintain friendships in the long run. Also have a soft spot for Manifestos, love them.

    • @j.l.w9563
      @j.l.w9563 Год назад

      Yeah, it is interesting. I am a manifestor as well. I think with manifestors though it is not the openness that offends others but the fact that we are bringing in something that they don't want to confront. They don't want change. Also, as part of change it's likely the manifestor will take a pretty strong line against things that are not functional. Even if it's only their aura that does that.
      I think the reflector is very interesting as well. They're psychic tendencies are so strong they can't really be denied so in hoping to shift a paradigm it would seem like they would aid in that regard. Even though the idea of 'empaths' is clearly real (I don't have a single hexagram on my solar plexus), it is very difficult to make the collective accept such realities.
      I have never knowingly met an reflector though.

  • @dalemcaslan4442
    @dalemcaslan4442 7 месяцев назад +2

    So Good, Taylor! 6/2 Reflector. 70 years old, so most of my life I had no awareness of it. Also Pluto in 12th House. So I have been unconsciously reflecting people's SUBCONSCIOUS without understanding why accuse me of all manner of darkness! I would like to reflect the Divine Light in others. Can we Reflectors deliberately consciously focus our attention on the Christ consciousness in others? In the same way that Mother Teresa saw Christ in "the poorest of the poor" people she served? and let's reflect the evolved Human we see everywhere? Please speak about this, Taylor??? as potentially a conscious role we can play????

  • @seabubble
    @seabubble Год назад +6

    I knew a Reflector who joined into toxic environment and became extremely toxic herself. And it was one of the worst person I met, worse than all of that psychopaths, vulgar people and edgelords she reflected. But before that I thought she was sweet and deep-feeling creature I wanted make friends with. That person was too many-faced. I don't like that tendency to make Reflectors guiltiless when they take actual actions and say actual words (offensive, cruel). And on personal level it doesn't matter if they reflect something - surroundings they live in, someone's deeply hidden insecurities, past experiences - or if they are bad human beings themselves. When you feel something is off in your guts, listen to it and walk away.

    • @oliverazivanovic492
      @oliverazivanovic492 7 месяцев назад

      What reflects is mirror and a mirror can be clean or covered with dust. Yes, you are right. We, reflectors, have responsibility to clean our mirror from dust, either our own or of the people around us.

    • @anaeugeniaponti
      @anaeugeniaponti 5 месяцев назад

      Oh my god! Same experience here. Im from Argentina so excuse my not so good english. I started working years ago with human design and i was really wanting to know a reflector, and i did. I shared a house with a reflector, and little by little, she started taking ALL of my energy, like being a victim all the time, being sick all the time and breaking everything non stop, talking shit about everyone she knew, it was really nasty. Proyector here, i was in a very happy and chill time of my life and thought i could help her... Well i starting draining so much. It was awfull, so my dream of knowing a reflector was shattered 😂 But i still have hope of meeting amazing non so conditioned reflectors 💙💙💙

  • @sandra6020
    @sandra6020 2 года назад +1

    resonate a lot with this, also a reflector and have been reflecting people without my own knowing my whole life. Its such a good feeling to just retreat and know all the chaos some ppl bring is their own inner chaos and nothing to do with me.

  • @ButterflyGoddessMoe
    @ButterflyGoddessMoe 3 года назад +2

    Yes, Yes, & Yes!!! From the people who love me to the people who don’t like me lol. Just started learning about Human Design. I’m already in spirituality, now adding in Human Design. Thank you for making videos for us Reflectors, you have another subscriber here!
    P.s. it’s the 28 days to make a decision for me! That must be why I’ve made so many bad rash decisions mixed with my Aries sun lol.

  • @Renateneetje
    @Renateneetje Год назад

    Thank you! I'm a reflector too (6/2) and studying HD just for a few months now. Such videos are very helpfull

  • @gabriellopesmonteiro
    @gabriellopesmonteiro 2 года назад +2

    Not a Reflector here, but I loved the video as it gave me a good perspective of what it feels to be one. Thanks

  • @oneness4735
    @oneness4735 3 года назад +3

    I’m a 3/5 reflector. Thank you for sharing your experience!

    • @EstherVillars
      @EstherVillars 2 года назад +1

      3/5 reflector, wow so true thanks for this video 🌟🙏🏻🥰

    • @chesnecain
      @chesnecain 2 года назад +1

      Omg I’m a 3/5 reflector too!

  • @ilzeartchanneling
    @ilzeartchanneling 8 месяцев назад

    Oh, I feel You, Dear! ❤️ Have had quite a similar experiences. I am Reflector 3/5 . Nice to see / hear You! 💃

  • @kimlouisemedicalintuitive9478
    @kimlouisemedicalintuitive9478 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing all of that personal experience! You went beyond the text book reflector descriptions (which I don't always find to be that accurate) and shared your real world experiences! I can totally relate, as I am also a reflector! Though the world has millions of reflectors, we're still a minority and can feel like we don't fit in very well (I liked your comment about witches - very fitting). It can be really difficult as we're growing up. I'm in my 50's now and have embraced it a heck of a lot better than I did when I was younger. It's truly a gift though, and as you mentioned, we have some great intuitive abilities and strengths! We're born healers, empaths, truth-tellers, lie-detectors, mystics, and magicians. Thank you again!

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  Год назад

      Thank you for being here!! I have an Instagram account for reflectors with great content you’ll love. Very different from the text book reflector as you say, and more about the truth of who we are. instagram.com/reflectorfiles

  • @Stacy10962
    @Stacy10962 Год назад

    I'm a 3/5 Reflector in Sidereal. I feel that everything you described fits me as well.

  • @DonnaGastreich
    @DonnaGastreich 4 года назад +2

    I recognize the 2020 energies and it's calling me to ground - to reflect inward and to tap into the moons energies and planetary energies of my desire - for instance the moon allows me to within myself What I need and how I need it. I may need focus and commitment - there are gates or keys in my design that allow me to shift out of the not self - and more into my design. Gene Keys has been super informative and transformational for me. I totally resonated with how others don't like me - Now I know it's really that they don't like themselves, and I can be more loving and compassionate towards them. (for they know not what they see or feel). As a child - I did not feel loved or wanted and tried to run away 5 times before the age of 10. Trying to understand myself and know that there is nothing wrong with me has been my greatest journey. So much love for you here. Have you journeyed thru the moon cycles yet?

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  4 года назад +1

      Donalee Gastreich i also tried to run away multiple times! I didn’t get very far though. The gene keys are incredible!! And yes! I feel lucky as I was very interested in the moon far before I started working with my reflector status in the phases of the female cycle. So studying and getting close to Luna and moonlighting and doing rituals.

  • @dennisanderson3286
    @dennisanderson3286 Год назад

    Let's start with. Wow! Thanks for sharing this. Found out I'm a three-five reflector about a year ago. Picked up actual study about 4 months ago. Slowly not much found on RUclips reflector wise, you're only the third reflector I've heard speak about themselves and not just listening to people speculate about reflectors from their sun-powered perspective.
    I will watch other reflector stuff from your channel and Probably feminine energy things as well. I've had a month long left side hip issue and many notices from the universe as slow down and balance feminine and masculine.
    Has cosmic timing has it. With luck on the solar eclipse on the 14th I will post my first reflectors reflections RUclips channel, Yes I find it Yummy timing for releasing myself upon the world..
    I am just starting to crack the moon transits and probably already know this, but I found I have better work sessions and stamina on generator days of course.. and then come the emotional days. Oh good grief!..
    thank you again and please consider yourself hugged by an elf, continue having an excellent day!☯️🪐

    • @VitalVoiceScans
      @VitalVoiceScans 9 месяцев назад

      What are Generator days and emotional days? Would the full moon in cancer mean emotional days?

  • @TioOskar
    @TioOskar 2 месяца назад

    Minute 1:18 I already feel comforted by listening to you

  • @SgonzalezHerreno
    @SgonzalezHerreno 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I’m a reflector and I found this so helpful. I would like to share more information with people like me. We should make some WhatsApp groups or a community chat ❤❤❤❤

  • @lesliecruz3197
    @lesliecruz3197 4 года назад

    i came across human design a few years ago but never really delved in it. it suddenly reappeared in my recommendations today, so maybe it’s time to finally understand what being a reflector is all about! thank you for sharing :)

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  4 года назад

      I totally did the same thing! Didn’t pay much mind to it until the last month or so. The universe wants us to work with it ✨

  • @thestorynerd622
    @thestorynerd622 Год назад +2

    I love this video! I’m a Manifestor, but omg this is great info for reflectors. You guys are amazing, magical, and so incredibly important to the world right now. The rest of us need you, even if it’s uncomfortable to see ourselves sometimes. Having reflectors in the world is a tremendous blessing and I appreciate all of you so so much. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💕

  • @silviam8596
    @silviam8596 2 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing, exactly my experience too. Spot on not being around those not willing to improve¡¡¡!!! Funny thing is that since I learnt I'm a reflector boundaries come naturally to me, like "it's not muy business what you say/think" and walk away. I used to struggle a lot with this and always thought I was kinda "broken", felt bad for not keeping the world pace.. not anymore. Going to experience with all the moon cycles for the next months and find my perfect routine and perfect environment to thrive. Very puzzled about this thing of us of not initiating but just following our strategy and be open to surprise. I'm willing to try it, no other methods have worked for me so alas, why not!

  • @paulapanis1589
    @paulapanis1589 10 месяцев назад

    Oh my god!! This is exactly my experience as a reflector

  • @360andBeyond
    @360andBeyond 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for the video! I’m a reflector as well

  • @MayasDream
    @MayasDream 7 месяцев назад

    You are a 🦄!! I’ve been praying to hear the experience of a real life reflector and here you are!!!

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  7 месяцев назад +2

      I love that! I would say a few years later, and into my mid 30s now I have a different experience. More self actualization. Maybe I should make an updated video.

    • @MayasDream
      @MayasDream 7 месяцев назад

      @@theactivatedwoman Well consider this an open invitation to share whenever and whatever inspires you about your reflector journey!

  • @brittakilburn9583
    @brittakilburn9583 Год назад

    Spot on. ❤ Exactly my experience.

  • @francisco19830
    @francisco19830 3 года назад +3

    I’m a 2/4 reflector I have come across a few ppl like this but I’ve been lucky as the majority of the time I get on with everyone - but I have been in situations like that

  • @melissavause9549
    @melissavause9549 2 года назад

    Thank you, so needed to hear your message today, your experiences have helped me to understand mine. Thank you 🙏

  • @dena_cooper
    @dena_cooper 3 года назад +1

    Wow, thank you so much for sharing your experience, Taylor. I resonated so much with your explanation of "reflecting" - I'm a manifestor with mostly open centers (only defined are ajna, throat, and solar plexus) and I wonder if all that openness creates a similar reflection for people. People tend to blame me often for telling hard truths or living with boundaries etc...pretty much any healthy behavior on my part is very triggering for others, I've noticed. I also have very limited energy and need lots of self-care, rest etc. So interesting and also vindicating ;)

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +1

      My partner and i were actually chatting last night about reflector hybrids!! There’s no studies around it from what I’ve seen but i think it’s totally possible

    • @dena_cooper
      @dena_cooper 3 года назад

      @@theactivatedwoman Yes!! I think that's so fascinating and I definitely identify with experiential points from both. Such a nice synchronicity that you were just discussing this :) Thanks for all you do for others, Taylor!

    • @darcv242
      @darcv242 3 года назад +1

      Dena, I am also a Manifestor with lots of openness. Aside from our aura that can be off-putting to some people, we both have undefined G Centers that reflect back to others who they really are, so there is a similarity. If someone doesn’t like you, it’s really their own reflection they don’t like. Hope that helps!😃

    • @darcv242
      @darcv242 3 года назад +1

      PS: This Manifestor also has limited energy and needs to rest a great deal-though I find it difficult to settle down. Tired but wired

  • @MichaelCrecker
    @MichaelCrecker 4 месяца назад

    Although I resonate with what you shared I would like to say this: please, show compassion! it’s the only way to get out from disappointment. Understand that we can be heavy, sometimes it’s better for everybody if we GTFO. Because we are amplifiers we should learn to discern who, when, where, why and what to amplify, don’t be too hard on the others, just observe them doing their thing: you might feel SURPRISED ❤

  • @terrasolhealingarts202
    @terrasolhealingarts202 3 года назад

    You are so lovely...or do I mean me? 🤣🤣🤣 I just recently discovered that I was a reflector and so appreciate you talking about the reality of it and being real about the shadows that come along with it. As someone who does similar work to you 2020 was definitely very challenging trying to continue being a leader and eventually I just had to back off from the internet space because the projection of hate from others was too much. I am proud of you for processing the sensation, continuing to build your boundaries and hold your ground! Bless you my love!

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад

      I feel that soooo much!!! It was incredibly challenging to show up “properly” because everyone had an issue with anyway i showed up. Even if they said “hey be more this” so I’d adjust and then they’d be like “maybe you shouldn’t be so like that.”
      Messed with my head but all is groovy now 💚
      Thank you for coming here and spending time with me!

  • @devindunnigan
    @devindunnigan 2 года назад +1

    Before I found out I was a reflector I would call myself the hall monitor of the universe because I felt like I constantly had to show where faults and imperfections were and people were always so triggered by that and me just as a person:

  • @1150LaLeggenda
    @1150LaLeggenda 9 месяцев назад

    Hi, nice explaination. Im a - no definition -5/1 heretical investigator - reflector, i understand you well. Spiral out, keep going

  • @saraharrison2564
    @saraharrison2564 3 года назад

    Wow. Everything you just said. I don’t even know where to begin to heal myself again. I’ve taken on so much that even now that I’m able to recharge, reset, & begin again... I can’t. I’m so stuck & now apart of the overall problem/heaviness in my own household. My own mind is on pause & I can’t find any sort of motivation to fix my own mindset/problems like I usually do for myself.
    It’s insane that we have to grow, pinpoint our own issues, fix them, & do the same for others. When do we get any recognition or praise for that? It’s so exhausting!
    Others get praise for the amount of success they accumulate, the amount of tasks done in a day, etc. I sometimes feel as if I don’t fit in to the lifestyle I’ve built around me. I’m surrounded by generators & manifesting generators. They live with the gas pedal all the way down & I can’t keep up. I’m exhausted. I can’t fill from my empty cup anymore. How in the world do I recharge & keep the balance?!

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +1

      That is a GREAT question... actually, I’m going to make a video about it!

    • @saraharrison2564
      @saraharrison2564 3 года назад +1

      @@theactivatedwoman Fabulous! I’ll be anticipating it. 😊
      As a 5-1 reflector, I need to heal in order to be readily accessible so that I can positively meet other’s expectations when presenting the solutions to their problems. 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +1

      @@saraharrison2564 ruclips.net/video/zMr68q5o4Z8/видео.html and here it is! 2 weeks later I finally did it lol! Reflector probs.

  • @richellevandekimmenade4741
    @richellevandekimmenade4741 10 месяцев назад

    So true, thank you for sharing ❤

  • @massielfrancisco1
    @massielfrancisco1 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for making this video

  • @ShanqKoo
    @ShanqKoo 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. Love your take on reflector. Just subscribed to you. RUclipsrs like us who advocate for personal improvement should support each other!

  • @annaniezgoda2437
    @annaniezgoda2437 4 года назад +2

    Hiii I am a reflector 4/6. I know what you feel 💫 thank You for this movie. It makes me know more 🌙🚀💜

  • @VitalVoiceScans
    @VitalVoiceScans 9 месяцев назад

    I am a completely open emotional Solar Plexus with no defined gates even to it. I have gotten signs to be like a wildflower that doesn’t need ‘nutrient rich soil’, but simply ‘soil’ that can drain a ton. Instead of reflecting emotions back, I can drain them through the Earth. Have you ever thought of that?
    I remember looking at a photo of a new friend and feeling so much jealousy. Later I heard of her childhood trauma learning that she struggled with jealousy. I realized it wasn’t my jealousy.
    I recently had an infection in my right leg. That being my masculine side, I wonder if my masculine side is being stubborn at letting emotions of others’ drain.

  • @sospita_
    @sospita_ Год назад

    I'm a reflector. I totally relate.

  • @thephuntastics2920
    @thephuntastics2920 5 месяцев назад

    Hahaha yes ... I attract a lot of people who dont like me xD but they just dont like themselves.
    Now i met the love of my life, a projector woman who i grateful for all my reflections she can learn from and improve herself, helping me to improve myself.

  • @marizelleeggers1308
    @marizelleeggers1308 3 года назад +2

    I am a reflector too so relatable thank you for taking the time to do this video as we are very often misunderstood, and it's great to hear I am not alone! I am a 3/5 reflector, what are you?

  • @rebna36
    @rebna36 8 месяцев назад

    How we all feel like Ally Sheedy's character in The Breakfast Club. I'm a 6/2 reflector and at 52 Ive just learned to embrace my hermit faze.

  • @andreakahl4004
    @andreakahl4004 Год назад

    Thank you helping me by telling

  • @cocosonneautorinundmentorin
    @cocosonneautorinundmentorin Год назад

    I totally agree. I'm a reflector, living in Berlin. There's a lot of depressive and poor people in this city and agony (instead of the Berlin coolness often published in social media), cold behaviour and a lack of perpectives, overweight unhappy women living in traditional patterns of partnership, especially in suburban areas, this is hard zu see and FEEL.
    In RUclips videos you often hear, that we should defend toxic energies by a energetic teflon shift around us, but I don't agree. My experience is, that I often feel very hurt, and it can take hours/3 days to overcome it.

    • @dorotheaziegler7719
      @dorotheaziegler7719 12 дней назад

      Thank you for stating the truth about my hometown. I have left it 24 yeras ago and feel no pull back, although I love cerstain places and people. I am a reflector, too and desperately needed a spiritual anchor to be in any balance. And also listen to the heart-level and speak/listen slowly, instead of cool, quick funny comments, as the Berliners like to show themselves. Nature and the perspective behind the things is one beatiful power you might also find there... blessings!

    • @cocosonneautorinundmentorin
      @cocosonneautorinundmentorin 12 дней назад

      @@dorotheaziegler7719 Thanks for your comment on my comment. Where do you live now?

    • @dorotheaziegler7719
      @dorotheaziegler7719 12 дней назад +1

      @@cocosonneautorinundmentorin in Vienna - but on the green edge and within a Gemeinschaftsprojekt. That definitely is a major plus, my sacred Island - and I am sure that kind of Thing exists in Berlin, too 🙂

  • @markusskand9773
    @markusskand9773 2 года назад

    Thank you!

  • @coachingderneuenzeit1274
    @coachingderneuenzeit1274 3 года назад +5

    Hey i am are reflector from Germany. Hahah lately i trigger a lot of people. I call them the sleeping sheep. I think the reflector is like Neo in the Matrix. He is the only one standing outside the system. I found out i am a reflector 2017. I had 3 readings. I accept myself more and more. Nature and swimming in lakes ocean sauna and taking a shower is really important for me.

  • @lily-qt2ze
    @lily-qt2ze 4 года назад +4

    I've always felt that im like this, but i always put that as people misunderstanding me due to my guarded energy. Maybe you could shine some light on this, but ive noticed that males with quite dark and negative energy seem to really hate me. They usually portray themselves as sociabele and likeable on the outside but are very messed up internally. Oh, they usually label me as snobby, weird and stupid as well.

    • @VitalVoiceScans
      @VitalVoiceScans 9 месяцев назад

      Do you know your design? I get this too. I’m a completely open solar plexus with no defined gates

    • @VitalVoiceScans
      @VitalVoiceScans 9 месяцев назад

      Do you know your design? I get this too. I’m a completely open solar plexus with no defined gates

  • @cosmicnomad_io
    @cosmicnomad_io 10 месяцев назад

    Imagine a Reflector, living up to 30 Years of age not knowing.....just realized I am one. The moment I started to learn about it thousands of experiences suddenly made sense....Crazy times.

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  10 месяцев назад

      I was 30 when I learned too. :)

    • @cosmicnomad_io
      @cosmicnomad_io 10 месяцев назад

      @@theactivatedwoman Ok that brings hope 😂

  • @hannahuhler4918
    @hannahuhler4918 3 года назад +2

    I feel so seen.

  • @VitalVoiceScans
    @VitalVoiceScans 9 месяцев назад

    That last comment was 111th comment. Have you noticed a difference with what center is completely open compared to the centers that you have defined gates?

  • @coraloverdostahan1232
    @coraloverdostahan1232 3 года назад

    Do you feel the difference between types?? Like you know when someone is a manifestor, or generator, etc?
    It's fascinating.. I'm a 5/2 manifestor

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад

      I can kinda tell who’s a generator and who’s a projector. Manifesting generator no. I’m not clear enough on that energy but can probably pick up the generator part!

    • @coraloverdostahan1232
      @coraloverdostahan1232 3 года назад

      @@theactivatedwoman what about manifestors?

  • @takeinventory7837
    @takeinventory7837 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the great information! How do you recommend finding the right career path for oneself? I know we are never consistent, but I tend to live by the years and month and understand parallel energies and themes. You mentioned spirituality and psychology, I think my greatest issue is I’m stuffing my mind with too much information. I feel I know too much, but at the same time nothing! Thanks for the video.

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for the comment!!! Really interesting! Yes we can definitely stuff our brain filled with too much, in that case all you have to do is unplug and listen to your own self and intuition without outside influence! As far as career goes, i think something in the healing world is best for us because we can support people really well while also protecting our energy

    • @takeinventory7837
      @takeinventory7837 3 года назад

      @@theactivatedwoman I recently switched my university major to psychology, although i'm always trying to write something on the side. Ive been really into astrology these past months (leo cap scorp) which eventually lead me to human design! Crazy stuff. How do you learn who your inner self is vs the outer projections of the world? I always move too quickly with these things I just found out I was a reflector yesterday lmao

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  3 года назад

      @@takeinventory7837 haha! A lot of alone time, exploration and self discovery. I follow what feels good.

  • @vanessametodieva8819
    @vanessametodieva8819 7 месяцев назад

    Reflector gang here😊

  • @Human_Upgraded_Evolved
    @Human_Upgraded_Evolved 4 года назад

    Hey, wonderful content. Subscribed. I'm a projector, but curious to learn about reflectors. Why do you think reflectors attract more addicts, not very secure people? So say for instance, a reflector works at the pub, goes home after and is reflecting arrogance to a family member. Is it the family member or energy from work reflecting?

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  4 года назад

      kaysav91 hi... the family member is likely the energy. We sample the energy and can be grumpy from it without rest for sure! But we are just reflecting the health and well being of the environment back to itself so that it can correct itself.

    • @Human_Upgraded_Evolved
      @Human_Upgraded_Evolved 4 года назад

      @@theactivatedwoman thanks for replying! wonderful, right okay this makes more sense to me. And how do you go finding yourself as a reflector and identifying who you are?

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  4 года назад

      kaysav91 i found i was reflector probably same as you found projector 🤍 through having my chart done.

    • @theactivatedwoman
      @theactivatedwoman  4 года назад

      kaysav91 leaning into these qualities and witnessing them brought so much clarity to my entire life

    • @Human_Upgraded_Evolved
      @Human_Upgraded_Evolved 4 года назад

      @@theactivatedwoman yes absolutely!

  • @jamesrolsen6458
    @jamesrolsen6458 2 года назад

    Hello I am a reflector, and your video did help me, I am very new to this and I am having a very hard time with my life, and human design has bin the only thing that had made sense, thank you for your words, and I wish you could help me more because I sure need it, have a great day ok, James r Olsen 4/22/1078

  • @karennewell6570
    @karennewell6570 9 месяцев назад

    😊🎉❤

  • @mainaksamanta6450
    @mainaksamanta6450 3 года назад

    So fucking true 😂😂😂

  • @SilverSurfeq1989
    @SilverSurfeq1989 3 года назад

    Im reflektor too.

    • @TheLunarReflector
      @TheLunarReflector Год назад

      I don't usually comment on videos, but this was so validating. I knew I felt this way because I am a Reflector, but have not met any others, so this was great. Thank you.

  • @SilverSurfeq1989
    @SilverSurfeq1989 3 года назад

    Its not good in this bad times.