Grieving with God| The Journey of Grief and Healing - FT Kambua Mathu
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2023
- Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to season two of The Best Kept Secret Podcast. On this episode Kambua Mathu shares her journey with Grief, how she found healing with Jesus and how to grieve with God. Our host Sharon K Mwangi also shared her experience with grief and losing a loved one at an early age.
Please share YOUR best kept secret on grief in the comment section. Thank you for watching.
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Micah 7:8
..... though I sit in darkness Yahweh is a light for me.❤
So much to relate to:
- The numbness
- The disappointment after much faith and prayer
- The heaviness of heart
- The deep pain as the numbness wears away
- The isolation from friends
- The struggle to find the energy to reconnect with life
- The emotional roller coaster - good for five months then just like that its down in the dump for a month
- The continuous fight to accept, adjust, advance - wake up and continue living joyously
- The unexplainable grace of God
- The comforting presence of God
- The deeper understanding of the gift of eternal life and rest in the presence of God
Thank you for this Kambua and Sharon
Very good summary 😢
Exemplary summarization❤
Sharon you're such a good moderator... This was a very beautiful conversation. So many learning points on such a difficult topic. Thank you so much Kambua and Sharon❤
You know how she described disappointment when she lost her dad that’s how I felt when I lost my mom. She was a woman of faith, prayerful and when she passed on I was so confused and mostly disappointed. But God is good and He is the best comforter and this healing journey He has been with me throughout 🙌🏾🙏🏽💕. Thank you ladies for this, God bless you.
I loved this episode so much. I lost my mum in 2011. Loss of a mum is just unexplainable. I was in school. She had been sick but I thought she would overcome it. I did not know the full extent of her sickness. She was suffering and taking care of my young one. I regret that I did not have a final moment with her to share how grateful I was for everything she was to me. I am glad that she was with my other siblings, family and relatives. I am glad that she is resting in God. I have not overcome this grief but my God has been faithful. In my times of need and grace, God has been my fortress. I pray fervently just the way my mama taught me. Thank you for sharing with us.
Kambua is beautiful inside out ❤❤
Sharon is almost clocking 10k subscribers 🥺🥺😭
Very educative........
The phrase...... 'It is well'......
Avoid it completely to someone who is grieving !
I have just learnt this. thank God for this conversation a lot to learn.
@@lydiazindori9244 Amen Lydia
Thanks for this conversation. I'm going through grief having lost my spouse recently. There ain't one standard way of grieving and I agree with you wholly that time doesn't heal the wounds of grief but God does. The avalanche of emotions can be devastating. And people around a grieving person should be sensitive in their words. In my grief all I need is a friend's presence and silence.
Pole sana going through the same thing.
Am so sorry for your loss Joe. May the Lord minister peace to your heart really. Will uphold you in prayer. Having lost both my parents in close succession, I understand this journey all too well.
@deemb5284 so sorry deemb..Will uphold you in pra
@deemb5284 so sorry deemb..Will uphold you in pra
@deemb5284 so sorry deemb..Will uphold you in pra
I admire you Sharon and your salvation life also , a really educative episode
I love Sharon so much❤
This is so amazing, I have learned alot
Wow!!!!!! Healing🙏🏽❤️❤️
Awesome.... thanks for sharing ❤
Aawww such an awesome episode
That was amazing God bless you ❤
Much love to kambua
Beautiful conversation. My take home point - Kambua's powerful statement "we have to be active participants in our healing journey". May the peace of God continue to minister to you.
Sharon am so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️
I love this episode thanks Sharon will sure share this with my friends
I love your podcast,,en how you talk about God .
This was so awesome
Great interview Kambua and Sharon. Sharon you are a great interviewer. Kambua always golden nuggets. Shared and subscribed.❤
Sharon is beyond gorgeous. So beautiful 😍
Kambua always awesome sharing her journey of grief
Thank u for this educative conversation,,having gone through an infant loss 4 months ago I was in a blaming myself period,, asking God why me but after seeing this I have to accept it's the will of God and he knows why it had to happen
This has been such an educative episode
Reading your journal got me crying... Love the conversation ❤
Calm and collected,.. beautiful ladies .,❤
wow! I love it
Awesome 👍 well collected ladies
I completely agree with kambua, currently going through grief and true just be around me then you might realise what i could need
This conversation is wholesome. Keep on keeping on. Going through this and these are my sentiments
Thank you for this episode I needed this
New subscriber. How i've been watching this without subscribing I don't know. This was such a beautiful conversation. such a heavy topic well moderated with much to learn. Indeed healing is not linear and the ministry of presence is more powerful than the words we may utter
Thank you so much for bringing us this lady and talking about this deep topic.covered wounds dont heal well❤
From joyride, I got here through seing a video you did with Kagwe and am definitely here to stay.
Thank you for having this conversation. I’m going through a different kind of grief, but what you talked about has helped me. God bless you both, and please have Kambua back again and again
i love you guys❤❤God bless you
Yesss🎉
Thank you Sharon and Kambua for such an informative and educative episode, loved it 🙂.
Beautifully shared. Thank you x
The Convo was so impactful and I love everything you discussed about grief because the journey of healing ain't easy and I agree with both of you that time does not heal but God does🙏
Your journal made me cry.....and realized that I've not healed from my loved ones I lost
This is really an eye opening and educative conversation. So much to unlearn and learn . Great ladies
Kambua , with her beautiful smile😍
The silencing culture sucks we are judged harshly for wanting to go through our grief indeed only God can heal us and not time two years since my Dad died and the pain is still raw ....
Highly request Wabosha!
This was so lovely❤️
Great conversations around grief.... 2 statements I hate "It is well, If you need anything please let me know"... I have been through hell myself the last 4 years, losing both my parents, my two grandmotrhers and in between being diagnosed with breast cancer..., I hope to tell my story one day with clarity, I have a RUclips channel yes but I dont think am there yet!
you're strong❤
May you get Solace in the lord
@@winniewinaley4732 Amen!
Healing is a process ❤❤
Thanks for the amazing conversation....I now know better ❤God bless you ladies 💕
People can be very insensitive. Some will say hurtful words. Grief is very personal, it never ends.
Great conversations ladies.
This was so beautiful...it was helpful to know Kambua related to the "Gosh God" feeling that I felt
Hitting the like button before even watching ..
Me too
I knooowww❤
Hey, what’s up! Just wondering if you're in need of a short-form editor? let me know, thanks!
following this after burying my mum 2 weeks ago , my whole world crashed, the heartache, the pain, the confusion, I wasn't prepared for this , am not even sure if am mourning my mum properly i have to put this brave and smiley face outside but inside am broken, one of the hardest question that I've had to answer recently is how are you? Am not okay, i cry every night, i have nights that i can't sleep till morning, i don't have strength to pray am angry and still question God why despite the many prayers , how do you even get out of all this and be normal again.
I'm in this shoe currently..... it's not easy
Pole sana.
May the Lord of peace comfort you.
The number of times I have been told I will get more babies , I will get twins etc as if any of that will fill our first born son’s gap in our lives 😢
I'm going through this right now.. Lost my son 3days ago, my first born.. Carried him to term then pushing out a corpse 😭😭I pray I overcome this trauma, grief and pain
Ohhhh my.....you are like me.....lost my grandparents both maternal and paternal......afew years later I lost my Daddy........now I just lost my darling 13 year old Priceless Precious Princess on 18th December 2022......this loss of my last born child.....has hit me like I cannot even function....I used to hear of how losing a child consumes you totally....different from any other loss......now I am living it......and you can never ever even understand the depth of this child loss grief until you go through it.....mhhhhhh this is suffering 💔 😢
So sorry Milika. I lost my 6 y.o. grand-daughter 19th Dec. 2017. Am still hurting.
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Kambuas story is mine 😢. Healing is a journey … God is the present help in times of need . His my comforter ❤
There 2 things that I asked God to do , 1. I asked him whatever he decided to do with my dad . Heal him or take him from us , that I would still TRUST God 💯.
2. I asked him to show up and be a FATHER to me . He did , God stepped up so good in my life!
Ooh who sells the green earrings
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Sharon what's with the running nose😂,get a sweater and hot chocolate 😊
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This "God will give you another" is really annoying. Going through a miscarriage after a long time trying and people would say, at least you conceived, don't take too long before trying for another, that it will be quicker this time bla bla bla...i have not had the Grace to go back there. Its about people invalidating your loss and pain
I contemplated so much about watching this episode 😅😅but i eventually did and am grateful for all the lessons and gems dropped here.. my healing journey has been crazy yet its been 10yrs..but watching this has really changed my perspective and I'm thankful we have a community like @the bestkept secret that See's our needs as consumers of their content
Tears were minimal this time...
Sharon what's with the running nose😂,get a sweater and hot chocolate 😊