The Truth About Dating Your Costar...

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
  • we've all been there right?
    Today, Ryan's sitting down to talk about his hypothetical thoughts and hypothetical feelings about costars striking up romantic relationships.
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Комментарии • 319

  • @inkandcaffeine
    @inkandcaffeine 11 месяцев назад +3153

    CLEARLY Ryan has fallen deeply in love with his Sam&Ryan costar Samantha
    edit: the producers of the show have informed us this is not the case

    • @maggieann5569
      @maggieann5569 11 месяцев назад +132

      Or so the tabloids say... those darn producers 😂

    • @Hannahbud14
      @Hannahbud14 11 месяцев назад +35

      Nah that’s only for more clicks 😜

    • @isabelreed3301
      @isabelreed3301 11 месяцев назад +14

      One of my favorite comments of all time

    • @kay6083
      @kay6083 11 месяцев назад +9

      Theoretically.

    • @thesweetlifeofemmajoy3599
      @thesweetlifeofemmajoy3599 10 месяцев назад +4

      IM SHOOK

  • @jmd0209
    @jmd0209 11 месяцев назад +704

    If you are a theater kid, then 99% of the time "show-mances" NEVER WORK OUT

    • @mmmhhyes5281
      @mmmhhyes5281 11 месяцев назад +13

      Like an irl relationship grew from a theatre/acting scene?

    • @lexgrey8103
      @lexgrey8103 11 месяцев назад +11

      @@mmmhhyes5281 correct a showmance is when you get with another actor in the show

    • @sarebear7777
      @sarebear7777 10 месяцев назад +4

      I know from personal experience

    • @RynDummer
      @RynDummer 10 месяцев назад

      So far, two couples that got together because of a show at my school are still together. One couple is on year three, the other couple in on month 10
      There were many other couples that happened, and they broke up during tech week, so these two are very rare cases

    • @miyannapittman5580
      @miyannapittman5580 4 месяца назад +1

      I have a huge crush on this guy but the show hasn't actually started yet...

  • @defnot_alyssa
    @defnot_alyssa 11 месяцев назад +1637

    Hypothetically, no one should have a say about what happens in a hypothetical relationship except for the hypothetical people in it. Thank you for this video!

  • @izzz777
    @izzz777 11 месяцев назад +802

    theoretically the 13 y/o girl who was obsessed with this hypothetical show and relationship would have theoretically loved this video to know the hypothetical costars didn’t hate each other and were actually being manipulated by the same publicist that manipulated this young girl into being so sad about this hypothetical celebrity couple

  • @valc_lover22
    @valc_lover22 11 месяцев назад +825

    Damn Ryan this "theoretical" situation is extremely messy and I'm SO GLAD it wasn't actually real haha.....ha 😳

    • @xoxo.alexa529
      @xoxo.alexa529 11 месяцев назад +13

      👀

    • @bibibirdie
      @bibibirdie 3 месяца назад +5

      And i hope the theoretical rlly pretty and famous biconic girl and theoretical guy r both okay and have moved on

  • @olivia_brookes
    @olivia_brookes 11 месяцев назад +972

    i never realized how stunty their relationship was. he spilled ALL the tea, and i’m disgusted with how they were both treated

  • @Nauta222
    @Nauta222 11 месяцев назад +824

    I know who Ryan's referring to, but the more he talked, the more celebrity couples or 'friends' floated through my head. This is proof of how manipulative the media is, and how it's not a clearcut and simple solution for the people affected to just say no or tell the truth.

    • @wonderingheights
      @wonderingheights 11 месяцев назад +9

      Who is he talking about?

    • @JosefaTejeda
      @JosefaTejeda 11 месяцев назад +46

      @@wonderingheightsdove cameron

  • @mtaukiri
    @mtaukiri 11 месяцев назад +965

    Well said Ryan! This "theoretical" insight should be seen by everyone who reads information about others relationships then vilifies the parties involved based on the "facts" reported by tabloid-esque "news" sources. Any young people who get through the entertainment industry without severe drug/alcohol/mental health problems (or those who survive these) deserve bloody medals!

    • @ellie6475
      @ellie6475 11 месяцев назад +2

      69th like😎

    • @thomasharris3040
      @thomasharris3040 11 месяцев назад +9

      Not to mention these said young people who, at least, theoretically (boy, THAT'S the word of the day) tend to come from families who are anywhere from merely "dysfunctional" to completely screwed up. I'll concede that my last statement may be unfair, but that's my own observation.

  • @lillysorkin
    @lillysorkin 11 месяцев назад +631

    What a fun exercise in hypothetical/theoretical thinking. I love talking about and discussing totally theoretical situations. This is all purely hypothetical of course…

  • @melanieryle
    @melanieryle 11 месяцев назад +171

    So glad that the hypothetical situation wasn’t real! That’d be crazy. Ha ha ha

    •  11 месяцев назад +3

      👀

  • @aleshatran
    @aleshatran 11 месяцев назад +90

    "Sam has a real job" lol like your job isn't 😂

    • @MacoAndrews
      @MacoAndrews 11 месяцев назад +9

      As an former actor who gave up for weekend with friends and nights of "normality"... Sometimes it really doesn't feel real cause you're free when everyone else is working and you're working when everyone else is having fun AND most weirdly sometimes the fun is the reason why you can't go out with them in the first place (shout out for my friends who went to see me on stage). It's not a real job, i'd say it's a surreal job or an unreal job. Became a therapist.

  • @chetb_4560
    @chetb_4560 11 месяцев назад +145

    This kinda reminds me of this show about these twin sisters actually played by the same actress I grew up watching. Anyways, I know that examples completely out of the blue since Ryan was clearly talking about a hypothetical, but what a coincidence!

  • @XxDeadParrotxX
    @XxDeadParrotxX 11 месяцев назад +251

    Theoretically, I'm very grateful that the person in this hypothetical situation shared their perspective on this. I knew that a lot of the stuff we see in the tabloids is being puppeteered by someone behind the scenes, but to this extent? Woah. Sending love, Ryan ❤

  • @lauraelizabeth1117
    @lauraelizabeth1117 11 месяцев назад +356

    Ryan: "Let's just say..." proceeds to list something that definitely happened...
    Love you, Ryan. And I definitely get into those situations sometimes with partners in dance

  • @hannahcoretz
    @hannahcoretz 11 месяцев назад +53

    I’m going with Joey Bragg

  • @hannahparry5836
    @hannahparry5836 11 месяцев назад +308

    This was… wow. So amazingly well put and an absolute treat to watch. I’ll never get tired of hearing Ryan’s theoretical thoughts on these hypothetical situations!

  • @pogo_lemon
    @pogo_lemon 11 месяцев назад +48

    liv and maddie💀

  • @raniyahamid8274
    @raniyahamid8274 11 месяцев назад +232

    I'm not gonna lie when I first started watching Sam and Ryan I had a weird feeling about Ryan and didn't really like him, and then also found out about the whole controversy (which theoretically could be mentioned in this video). But the more I watch him, especially in these videos, the more I really, really like him. He seems so genuine and naturally funny and this channel is so REAL. I'm so grateful for that.

    • @pachuvelazquez9106
      @pachuvelazquez9106 11 месяцев назад +3

      totally same

    • @k.w.4420
      @k.w.4420 11 месяцев назад +5

      I was even specking something else from this vid but, he has proven to be a decent human b. which is crazy cause we weren't the hypothetical relationship so literally all we know or knew was something that nobody confirmed.

  • @mushrm.studios
    @mushrm.studios 11 месяцев назад +82

    Ryan dropping the theoretical tea

  • @marissaconklin5098
    @marissaconklin5098 11 месяцев назад +95

    I think it’s sad and unfair that people who are in the public eye are not afforded any privacy, especially in their romantic lives. It’s mind boggling to me that people think they are entitled to know everything about another person, like they aren’t just a human themselves. It really irritates me when I’m watching people’s interviews and almost always there are questions about the celebrity’s significant other, sometimes more so focused on them then the actual person being interviewed. So sad :( glad you’re talking about it. It’s not something I personally relate to, but the idea of it all is important and worth speaking on. Thanks for sharing with us!

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 11 месяцев назад +98

    I don’t know why this came up on my feed but I’m glad as I was very invested in this hypothetical relationship I mean all the RUclips videos and music released- I can see how PR thought that was a gold mine- definitely thought this theoretical relationship was the cutest thing ever. Thank you for sharing your side in a really entertaining way since I’m sure you don’t want to directly address it

  • @wtfitzal
    @wtfitzal 11 месяцев назад +36

    bro the tea spilled in this vid was insaneeeee

  • @bexyPTX
    @bexyPTX 11 месяцев назад +70

    This is such an important thing for anyone at all engrossed in celebrity culture to hear. Just because it seems real doesn't mean all (or any) of it is.

  • @ischristinaok
    @ischristinaok 11 месяцев назад +27

    i know the hypothetical relationship that he is talking about and referring to but honestly looking back at all highly publicized relationships it’s crazy to me how often this probably happens. like if i was a celebrity i couldn’t even imagine dating anyone especially not publicly.

  • @lpchambers3681
    @lpchambers3681 11 месяцев назад +13

    Does anyone else remember the theoretical relationship then being labeled as abusive? Just in time for the new relationship to come out in time for a movie… isn’t that such an off coincidence… how odd

  • @grayj2125
    @grayj2125 11 месяцев назад +17

    CHRISTIAN BORLE AND LAURA BELL BUNDY OMGGGG

  • @KSan357
    @KSan357 11 месяцев назад +128

    that certainly was a heartbreaking thought experiment. Good thing that didn't actually happen and was all theoretical

  • @turnipcrazy4602
    @turnipcrazy4602 11 месяцев назад +66

    Love this theoretical talk. It's nice to talk about these hypothetical situations, since more people should be aware of these hypothetical scenarios before jumping to too many conclusions.

  • @lilyslilcreations
    @lilyslilcreations 11 месяцев назад +141

    This was so good, thank you Ryan (and Sam) for giving us the truth that the whole world needs to hear!

  • @ikimawsome
    @ikimawsome 11 месяцев назад +26

    Ooh that hypothetical situation makes me very sad. Damn let me start thinking more critically about these things! Thanks Ryan!

  • @mariablazz
    @mariablazz 11 месяцев назад +18

    When I was younger I was obsessed with his relationship with his ex haha and knowing the truth kind of hurts my teenage self heart😂 I remember having an Instagram account dedicated to their music duo, and being so devastated by their break up. I constantly edited pictures of them together, I was so naive. When they broke up all the fans started fighting with each other. Most of them took his ex’s side and said he was an ab*ser, I took Ryan’s side and my account was transformed into a Ryan McCartan Instagram fan page until I grew up and stopped posting. Anyway, I’m so happy I found Sam and Ryan’s RUclips channel two years ago. I love to see you happy now and I love your content here!

    • @Ponce17
      @Ponce17 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah it sucked to me as well, mostly because I loved the music they were making together. TBH I always had a feeling it was more so because of the girl than him.

    • @Alexarose06
      @Alexarose06 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@Ponce17actually it wasn’t even the girl’s fault, it was the company’s fault and that producer who outed them, so don’t blame her either, both of them were victims to that hypothetical publicist company

  • @hayley74936
    @hayley74936 11 месяцев назад +36

    damn ryan, that theoretical situation stressed me the f out. so glad it never happened !!!

  • @sofiamartinalvarez3949
    @sofiamartinalvarez3949 11 месяцев назад +40

    I love how well spoken you are, it feels like you have such an ease to talk about literally anything and you explain yourself so well and always make it so easy to understand what you are saying

  • @skzip888
    @skzip888 11 месяцев назад +17

    I assume it's Dan Domenech, but only because everyone in love with Dan Domenech

  • @emilyannsheldon5845
    @emilyannsheldon5845 11 месяцев назад +17

    Definitly enjoyed hearing more info about that "hypothetical" relationship. I like the videos were you just sit and talk about things.❤

  • @hedihostik8719
    @hedihostik8719 11 месяцев назад +23

    This is so random but I used to LOVE Liv & Maddie as a kid and I used to LOVE Team Edge a few years back and it feels like such a small world now that I found out that Ryan from L&M and Samantha from the Team Edge team are dating like I’m mindblown

  • @laurabenevides7061
    @laurabenevides7061 11 месяцев назад +24

    I loved your insights about this. I don't really care about other people's relationships, but I won't deny sometimes I like to read about them like it's some drama book plot. It's easy to forget that there are actual human being with feelings behind them and that they deserve as much privacy as I give everyone else in my life.

  • @Dracubecca1600
    @Dracubecca1600 11 месяцев назад +6

    I’m loving these independent videos! Ofc can’t wait for Sam to come back but I’m loving it ryan!!

  • @lepouletmort
    @lepouletmort 11 месяцев назад +12

    thanks for this video ryan:) i just love how down to earth you are and your way of engaging with us it's so genuine and true, that for some reason it brings me peace and just admiration for what you and sam do. Love you guys

  • @moviemelody2210
    @moviemelody2210 11 месяцев назад +22

    To those who have been in those types of “theoretical scenarios” i am so sorry

  • @camziii774
    @camziii774 11 месяцев назад +10

    I theoretically love this video. Hypothetically appreciate it A LOT.

  • @hczem3657
    @hczem3657 11 месяцев назад +7

    this opened my eyes to so many things... thank you ryan!

  • @Dot978
    @Dot978 11 месяцев назад +31

    That hypothetical scenario is messing with my head a bit now! 😂 But of course that's just because it's not real, right?

  • @elize2952
    @elize2952 11 месяцев назад +15

    Awesome take. I did fall for the tabloids’ narrative so I appreciate you speaking about this ❤️

  • @marcelap94
    @marcelap94 11 месяцев назад +1

    love this video. so insightful!!!!!! I can totally see how you end up involved with costars in these settings, it's so intense - and how those higher forces at play kind of ruin everything.

  • @starriberri
    @starriberri 11 месяцев назад +11

    “Hypothetically” mhm suuuure Ryan 😂

  • @zarahshabir3492
    @zarahshabir3492 11 месяцев назад +3

    Ryan this was so eye opening and also I laughed multiple times at the little jokes or comments you threw in. Thank you for spilling your theories 😌

  • @emmybm15
    @emmybm15 11 месяцев назад +27

    Well done Ryan for this brilliant video that has a lot of hypothetical things 😅

  • @Justlov4
    @Justlov4 11 месяцев назад +20

    That was some wonderful theoretical insight. As someone who is also an actor, I can neither confirm or deny the theory but it feels like something 😉But FR, thank you for sharing your insight. People automatically read the tabloids and think they know the truth and can therefore, give their 2 cents on the situation when in fact unless you are in that relationship, you really shouldn't speak on it.

  • @jesstheultimatemess4632
    @jesstheultimatemess4632 11 месяцев назад +13

    Exactly just like stop feeding the monsters and eat the rich

  • @Book_Dragon2562
    @Book_Dragon2562 11 месяцев назад +7

    I took a shot every time you said hypothetical or theoretical. Fun game!
    Seriously though, I really appreciated your take on this subject.

  • @2212Saphira
    @2212Saphira 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is my new favorite video on this channel

  • @martuxxx
    @martuxxx 11 месяцев назад +2

    👀👀 this has automatically become one of your best videos lol, not only because of the tea but honestly it made me re-think some stuff. amazing!

  • @mimi3570
    @mimi3570 11 месяцев назад +24

    As an ace person, its really weird that this is supposed to make sense

    • @pixieinx
      @pixieinx 11 месяцев назад +5

      Someone told me they like me and I told em “ you’re a stranger, you don’t know me” and apparently that’s mean 🫠

    • @cerys113
      @cerys113 11 месяцев назад +1

      ikr. like i know its true i just cant relate.

    • @cerys113
      @cerys113 11 месяцев назад

      @@pixieinxPLSS

  • @rubithhaa
    @rubithhaa 11 месяцев назад

    hypothetically, this was a very good video that was not at all about a true thing that happened in someone's life. thank you for hypothetically sharing this side of show biz

  • @andrearabaza7259
    @andrearabaza7259 11 месяцев назад

    Another interesting video with well thought out points and ideas discussed. It is always super insightful when you do these types of videos, and I hope you get to do more of them.

  • @neresq
    @neresq 11 месяцев назад +6

    I love your sense of humor!

  • @ellie6475
    @ellie6475 11 месяцев назад +9

    These smart insights and words just flow right out of your mouth. I’d probably be stutter through the whole thing then eventually say “don’t do it”😂

  • @KensieI
    @KensieI 11 месяцев назад +2

    This was sooo nice to hear!

  • @amandas2168
    @amandas2168 11 месяцев назад +4

    Love Ryan and how he is telling a story that might not have happened lol love it

  • @royce8
    @royce8 11 месяцев назад +2

    Appreciate this 🩷

  • @u140550
    @u140550 11 месяцев назад +11

    😂I love the hinting without hinting things in these hypotheticals. Very on the nose

  • @heatherheatherandpeggy9134
    @heatherheatherandpeggy9134 11 месяцев назад +14

    that sure was a fun theoretical exercise

  • @solsito24
    @solsito24 11 месяцев назад +2

    with all the (hypothetical) tea spilling i hope this doesn’t get taken down

  • @sorrynotsorry6
    @sorrynotsorry6 11 месяцев назад +7

    The tea is teain' today!

  • @LittleMissLanna
    @LittleMissLanna 11 месяцев назад +1

    Adore you Ryan!! Very good hypothetical story! Great food for thought ❤❤❤

  • @raquelrodrigues5190
    @raquelrodrigues5190 5 месяцев назад +1

    Best youtube video ive watched in a long time omg

  • @MetroDerg
    @MetroDerg 11 месяцев назад +1

    OK listen, I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I just miss the music yall made for Girl and the Dreamcatcher 😭😭😭💜 but you're a king so glad you're better now

  • @hc50820
    @hc50820 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for making content like this!

  • @SarsilSlushy
    @SarsilSlushy 11 месяцев назад +16

    Thanks for sharing that 1000000% hypothetical situation, so glad it didn’t actually happen, that would suck…..
    Also… hope sam is having fun at her REAL JOB 💙

  • @idd4ni
    @idd4ni 11 месяцев назад +3

    omg i loved the theorical tea

  • @Grace-mk2rf
    @Grace-mk2rf 11 месяцев назад +6

    And this is why I love Ryan ❤

  • @samanthavalente297
    @samanthavalente297 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m living for the hypothetical tea that was spilled in the video

  • @Ksawy-lf4tz
    @Ksawy-lf4tz 11 месяцев назад +18

    3:45 Barrett (Veronica)

  • @mctheplaywright
    @mctheplaywright 11 месяцев назад

    This is theoretically a very insightful take

  • @ellieanderson5745
    @ellieanderson5745 11 месяцев назад +5

    ryan your hair looks especially nice today!

  • @katiestroodle
    @katiestroodle 11 месяцев назад +7

    i saw lili and cole in the thumbnail and i RAAANNNN

  • @manja1714
    @manja1714 11 месяцев назад +4

    this tea was spillin

  • @iandoesthings420
    @iandoesthings420 11 месяцев назад +10

    I already know what this is about 😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼love you Ryan 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @grandlordSpencer
    @grandlordSpencer 11 месяцев назад +8

    i always knew there was something "off" about these relationships. This was rlly insightful!

  • @paigemorabito4770
    @paigemorabito4770 11 месяцев назад +7

    Theoretically I liked all the Theoretical talk its a very good EXAMPLE of Theoretical situations

  • @micahallen313
    @micahallen313 11 месяцев назад +1

    Another great video daddy!

  • @simoneimanibrown8181
    @simoneimanibrown8181 11 месяцев назад +23

    theoretically, i really sorry that happened. I remember being theoretically invested in that relationship and i def fell into the trap the tabloids set up.

  • @alexandranicole7135
    @alexandranicole7135 11 месяцев назад +24

    If you didn’t fall in love with Jessica Vosk I’d be very disappointed and surprised 😂

    • @sanaehagino4060
      @sanaehagino4060 11 месяцев назад

      i immediately fell in love with her after seeing her and ryan in wicked

  • @abbyfalah708
    @abbyfalah708 11 месяцев назад +3

    HE SPILLED THE TEA WOW

  • @JenniferRose23
    @JenniferRose23 11 месяцев назад

    I saw this and immediately clicked lmao I can’t waitttt

  • @caitcassar9695
    @caitcassar9695 11 месяцев назад +5

    I heard a rumor that Ryan dated the actress who played Maddie, but not her sister who played Liv..

  • @silhouette_chr
    @silhouette_chr 11 месяцев назад +2

    Nahhh it took me a moment to figure out what and who the "hypothetical scenerio" is about💀💀 this explains SO MUCH

  • @atsiamthaicuisine2890
    @atsiamthaicuisine2890 11 месяцев назад +6

    Love you guys vids keep it up

  • @crabboil5729
    @crabboil5729 11 месяцев назад

    Im currently working my first professional theatre contract (it’s a really small theatre I’m by no means a mega star or anything) and this is so unbelievably accurate and true

  • @thewonderloster1111
    @thewonderloster1111 11 месяцев назад

    I love this. Thank you Ryan.

  • @allyssadanieli5951
    @allyssadanieli5951 11 месяцев назад +9

    Ryan if you weren’t in love with Barrett I’m disappointed in you

  • @laurie1.3
    @laurie1.3 11 месяцев назад

    How am I just now learning about Ryan and all this tea when I’ve been listening to him in Heather’s for years??

  • @adamG2001
    @adamG2001 11 месяцев назад

    This was amazing! Love you ryan

  • @nikkihansen2101
    @nikkihansen2101 11 месяцев назад

    Love your channel so much. You guys are truly amazing!!!🤩🥰❤️💖💕👏

  • @Mckenziechannell
    @Mckenziechannell 11 месяцев назад

    i love you guys sm! you guys are sooo cute together! ❤

  • @whitneyferris4918
    @whitneyferris4918 11 месяцев назад +1

    Well said Ryan 👏🏼

  • @xtaylorxg
    @xtaylorxg 11 месяцев назад +7

    That hypothetical 😬😬😬 I’m so sorry.

  • @lila7500
    @lila7500 11 месяцев назад +4

    ohhh that "hypothetical" situation. so nice to "dig" into that, isnt it?

  • @ginime_
    @ginime_ 11 месяцев назад +17

    Are there sometimes hypothetical NDAs in these theoretical situations? Or is that a myth people make up when they're upset that they don't get to know every detail of the couple's personal lives?