She's soooo right with the first point. Actually, if you do that first point, you don't need anything else. They will gaslight, gaslight, gaslight you if you give them the platform. Ghost em'. They can't handle that. Change your number, block them from your social media profiles. Honestly, the best mental note that helped me with narcissists was to think of them as psychologically ill so I wouldn't take their words seriously.
I had to listen to this twice Marisa, because I sobbed the whole way through the 1st time. I think I shall put it on repeat play in my mind. And listen to it until this truly becomes my belief.. Thank you, you are the sister I always longed for... Much love and respect..🤗💜☘
@@sofiamarin416 same here 💖🙏 and I have found love and understanding is the path to forgiveness, as well as greater peace and freedom.. still getting there ☺️❗
@@sofiamarin416 Dear SOFIA, DONT , she will destroy you. LOVE is HAPPY, LOVE is not HATE or ABUSE MY NARC MUM destroyed me, my life, my sister's life and my brother's life. Be warned.
I am 57. The past 6 months has been the first time in my life that I am completely free of narcissists. I never knew, I always thought there was something wrong with me. But, I have come out of it with a great many skills as I always tried so hard for approval. Moving overseas and I am confident that I can now spot them a mile away :) I have worked with dementia patients and a narcissist is so similar- you can NOT reason with these people. I almost want to cry for all the wasted potential in the world. I know there are many narcissistic abuse resources out there, but there needs to be more- I didn't know until 2 years ago. A lovely woman at an assertiveness class I went to told me that I have zero self esteem, and it started from there. And I have no desire whatsoever to date, I am more than enough for me. Don't confuse self confidence with self esteem either.
Marisa, you are spot on. 100% right on the money, explaining my last relationship. I wouldn’t have accepted this video at that time, because I was sure I could help her with her past/current mental issues. Only after 1.5 years and the last 6 months being extremely hard on me, was I able to finally realise I couldn’t save her. And all the signs were there all along. Depression followed and ptsd. But working on my self I’m now, stronger than ever and will never let anyone make me feel like that again unless I knowingly choose to feel like that ❤️
I want to hear ''I'm a strong person in your corner'' so I'll be a strong person in my own corner. My entire family is mobbing me but I know I did nothing wrong (by asking them not to hurt me).
Hi Marisa, this is very good information. I left my narcissistic partner 5 years ago and I will never look back. This is so true. Thanks Marisa for healing the world. Much love Marisa. .🤗🥰
My mother , hard work she kept dragging me to docs insisting i had various illnesses. I got away from her but struggle with mental cruelty always years later.
My mother did the same thing! She told me I WAS a narcassist! Or had a multiple personality disorder, and took me to anger management classes, and therapists, and the main topic was always about her and the emotional abuse. It is mental cruelty. Certainly healthy boundaries are needed, and it is a difficult situation. Very sorry you had to go through this xo
Actually I am living with my cousin for two years now and I’m ready to leave he is always right he is always blaming me for everything even because I breath, so I decide to take that decision to pay full apartment just by myself it’s going to be expensive 1K California but I know but the freedom that I’m gonna get has no price
Thank you again so much wonderful Marisa! You help us soooo much with your wisdom.... Falling in love with myself, it is a yes and a no... I feel stuck in believing I am strong enough to really find my braveness to live my mission.... I will finally!!! And you are helping me as many many others to believe in themselves a whole lot more!!!
Narcissists have taken everything from me, from my abusive father to an ex who made me feel worthless to bosses bullying me. I had to leave a career I loved because management was toxic. I also now deal with a mother in law who criticises me. We can't escape them.
I’m assuming that the dislikes are from the Narcs 🤔 I had a ‘friend’ who was a narcissist, when I realised this and tried to get out of the friendship, I handled it incorrectly and she made my life a misery for 2 years. I wish I’d had this knowledge at that time, it would have saved so much hassle and not shredded any self esteem I’d got left.
@@ladygodiva4141 I know! She cost me friends I’d known all my life, she tried to ruin my husbands business, tried to get my son expelled from school and she physically attacked me and my sister in public and then reported it to the police for Christ sake saying it was us who’d attacked her first! I’d never come across anything like it before, I’m in my 40’s and I’d never been in a fight in my life! Absolutely insane. It’s made me very wary of people since then and I never let anyone get close anymore. Live and learn.
its easier to say than done when u cant leave em cuz you are fully and financially dependent on them and they actually "bought" u from ur parents who have made u marry him,im from religious family so yeah , so if you were able to break off from them, you are really brave and lucky and you did the right thing, your life was nmde miserable for two years after, its still better tham you being her friend whole life,and you definitely dont deserve it
@@irisviel_Einzbern I agree, it must be awful if you are dependent on that person. I feel for you, I really do. I was lucky that I didn’t have to live with this particular psycho but it still made my life miserable, I can’t imagine how you live with it on a daily basis, so I would say you are the brave one, not I. Be strong and I sincerely hope you can get away from the situation x
And most people are saavy enough not to SAY alot of their denigrating/critical thoughts, just being around their atmosphere can make you feel off/less than, so always check in on how you FEEL because 90% of communication is non verbal. 90% of what we’re taught is non verbal
A big factor she stated was that someone who loves you wouldn’t drain your finances, I was always prepared for the emotional and physical sink hole, but didn’t see the financial one
Can't wait to watch this Marisa! I found out2years ago that my mother is a covert narcissist. The devastation and elation came in equal amounts. The elation was that 'it wasn't ME' or my fault. I haven't seen her for those2 years and I feel amazing.
i would leave but i cant because its a parent. im 23, have autism, lack indepenance skills i need to work on before im allowed to move out through my social worker, covid is slowing down this process. So im stuck here and its so exhausting. the only place i have is my room to go to. Its not all the time things happen but its always here and there it flairs up. like little things and sometimes big things. ive had enough of this life. im exhausted. its honestly cost me my health and healing with my doctor and therapists is harder when im still living in the place that caused it all in the first place.
Space Princess I’m in the same boat. My heart goes out to you. I’m chronically and severely ill and have been since I was a young teen. I have CPTSD and am re-traumatised constantly. I’m waiting for someone to offer advice on a situation when you’re an adult dependent and dependent on a narcissistic parent. When you can’t walk away. When that person has leverage over your life. I haven’t found it yet. Hang in there. I know how exhausting it is but there is a better life around the corner when you can progress with your independence skills and be in control of your own life. Sending you love.
We know it is easy to say, "leave" but only one knows their circumstances, but look at you!! You are here in this line, chatting! It means you have tools!! I'm proud of you! Hang in there and do not give up, continue bugging your social worker, she or he will help advocate..
Meditate get out of the victim mentality and poor me attitude Our strength is within . Strengthen your positive energy . Improve your self talk . You can stay in your room but can also feel thankful for having internet and a device to learn from. Re own your power. Search meditation videos it helps a lot .
Everybody who speaks, every time anybody speaks, they believe they're right. Why would you say something if you don't believe it's right when you're saying it? "You think you're always right." Yeah, so do you. If you say things and you don't believe the things you're saying are right, there's something wrong with you.
But if I am wrong i will accept that. Sometimes in conversation I realise the other person is correct and I am not (after all we are always learning new things ) so I can apologies and adjust what I thought was correct. The difference is a narcissist wont do that..
So true. But its very painful to leave that kind of relationshi - especially if the sexual bond is strong. You just have to realize that the pain the narcissist brings will never go away, he will NEVER change. Its not even you that is in the relationship, its only a small shadow of yourself. So if you're lucky you will get out and understand that life has more to offer.
I am coparenting my 8 year old daughter with a narcissist ( malignant type). Is there any specific therapy I can get for my daughter ? I am a pediatrician myself and thinking would it help if I took Marissa’s RTT coach training ? Thanks for all your videos. They are simply the best. I stumbled on here looking for ways to help my patients but now finding answers for my own problems too.
My teenager shows narcissistic behaviors. She mimics my ex-husbands behavior. She is verbally and physically abusive. I have had her in a therapeutic boarding school, all different kinds of counseling, on different kinds of medication ext. I can’t walk away from her if anything I have to walk into her and help her overcome this. Behind the mask of control and anger she has a heart of gold. Anyone have any suggestions outside of what is typically recommended.
Also I wish a narcissist would comment here.. Narcissist are obnoxious and quick to show their toxic ways, so who ever stays is because also struggles with issues of confidence..get help !!
Practice makes perfection,, tell yourself "I am not giving in" everytime he or she persuades/manipulates you. Find things that will empower you. Once confidence and certainty are part of your life, you will be able to set stronger/firm boundaries. If you can, hire a personal coach :)
Just stay no contact...you might be trauma bonded. Please watch Just say no to narcs on youtube to keep you steady. Also: Dr Les Cartes, Dr Carmen Bryant, Dr Ramani Success to you! Virtual hug from a survivor
@@allysonogston522 I live w/ one. My mother is too. Yet, nothing makes 'em more uncomfortable than laughter. That means I'm not accepting their "gift" so they have to deal with it. Laughter do good to one.
It's not true that abusive people look for weak people as she says. People in abusive relationships are from all walks of life. Abusive people use tactics so that you don't realize you are being abused, sometimes until they know you won't or can't leave. They often flatter and make you feel you are very close. They confuse you and they slowly chip away at you. Join a support group to understand, don't put yourself down by saying you are weak. You are not, you may be trauma bonded but not weak. In fact abused women often stand up for themselves and try and stop the abuse only to get punished further by abusers. The rest of her message was good. Also not all abusers are narcissists nor do all abusers feel bad about themselves, you cannot save them. They do feel entitled and superior though.
Hi, I'm a light worker and I want to say something important to you, all human and animals have a conscience available to help you with anything that you ask for and it is important to ask the conscience to make for you the awakening of your consciousness in order that your conscience can start to get out your interior archons , all the human have this energetic parasites inside of the body , because of them your chakras cant work properly and energetic parasites can also produce illness in the body , once that you ask your conscience to make for you the awakening of your consciousness you will be more aware of your twin flame and you will remember who you are ! And if you want , anyone can make love with their twin flame in the astral , this it is very true but people are not aware of this because your conscience has not get them out yet these energetic parasites (archons) it is also important that you to be in your physical body and she in the astral and make love so that you and your twin can raise the planet in high frequency with the all the divine love between you and your twin flame , and leave this archons energetic parasites in low densities where they belong .
Hi Marisa! Everything you've said is very helpfull! But how and why people are becoming narcisist, I'm sure noone is born narcist? Can you explane us that, please?
I always wonder though (and I speak as someone who got away from marriage to a narcissist) - does that mean that there is no hope for you if you are a narcissist. Surely everyone can be helped or do we just give up on them. Yes they are awful people but can they change if they want to? I actually feel a little sorry for people like this
What do I do that they go after anyone or anything that I do from hairstylist, to my doctor, to the car rental company to prospect them for business and gaslight them and shame me with them and convince them I’m bad? How do I have them stop following me around, and stop going up to everyone on my social media and do the same thing there? How do I stop them from blocking everyone who could ever care about me?
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below: rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/ 💖 Marisa Peer Team
In beginning is hard, but time will cure it and self love first , you will never feel alone again , good luck you made the biggest step already by leaving. 👍
I divorced my narcissistic husband 3 years ago after 7..I got a new phone number and cut out narcissistic friends..But,I moved in with my narcissistic son, to help with my granddaughter...in other words, it's like when I was raising her,except he is paying rent..as a mom its sad that he is like this,but I have accepted this a long time ago..but I saw a hold new side when I had my 5th shoulder surgery..he was my x..Thank God for his girlfriend and my granddaughter or I would never got though this..can you do video on narcissistic adult children??
I have been in this type of relationship twice. It broke me so hard and I lost my whole world twice over. After 18 months now I’ve slowly started to rebuild my life, make friends but the daily issues I’ve always faced with self esteem and confidence, validations and self love, this is something I fight myself on daily and trying working on to feel ans be the best person I can. The damages one person can do to another is horrific and something I will not understand. Any suggestion to help me would be gratefully appreciated xx
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below: rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/ In the interim, you might find Marisa's free Self-Esteem workbook useful. You can check it out here - bit.ly/Build-self-esteem-workbook-fb We hope this helps. Sending you love and support. Marisa Peer Team
I got out and divorced him over 24 years ago. After my youngest child was 17 years old. I will not get married again because the horrible trama I suffered. He was 25 years old and I was 15 years young. I was a child bride. He would not leave me alone. Long story. He was my stalker. Now, 2021, I love being single. I love myself. New life.
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Brilliant!
"I'm not used to being treated well, but I will make it feel familiar"
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... being treated well
ha ha ha
She's soooo right with the first point. Actually, if you do that first point, you don't need anything else. They will gaslight, gaslight, gaslight you if you give them the platform. Ghost em'. They can't handle that. Change your number, block them from your social media profiles. Honestly, the best mental note that helped me with narcissists was to think of them as psychologically ill so I wouldn't take their words seriously.
Out of all of the videos on 'Narcs' This is the best and realistic ones.... Leave if you can.... run away and be happy.
I had to listen to this twice Marisa, because I sobbed the whole way through the 1st time.
I think I shall put it on repeat play in my mind. And listen to it until this truly becomes my belief..
Thank you, you are the sister I always longed for...
Much love and respect..🤗💜☘
Sending you best wishes ❤️
Agreed!
I think my stepfather is a narcissist I cut my losses from my entire family 3 years ago I don’t miss them at all.
I have had to deal with 2 very over controlling parents my whole life I wish you could have made this video 20 years ago!
You described my life . Wish I knew you 30 years ago . Great advice. ❤️
LOVE IS HAPPY, LOVE IS NOT MANIPULATION or ABUSE
totally
Even if you have children, you can leave a narcissistic also. Just have a plan, save your children from that hell
When the narcissists you suffer are your parents- it sucks up your early adult life trying to heal the damage.
I know what you mean1 My mum is like that but I love her and try to understand her!
@@sofiamarin416 same here 💖🙏 and I have found love and understanding is the path to forgiveness, as well as greater peace and freedom.. still getting there ☺️❗
@@sofiamarin416 Dear SOFIA, DONT , she will destroy you. LOVE is HAPPY, LOVE is not HATE or ABUSE
MY NARC MUM destroyed me, my life, my sister's life and my brother's life. Be warned.
@@APF2024 I am sorry to hear this about you and your siblings! Are you better now?
@@sofiamarin416 Yes. No Contact is the only way. Its the ultimate boundary.
I am 57. The past 6 months has been the first time in my life that I am completely free of narcissists. I never knew, I always thought there was something wrong with me. But, I have come out of it with a great many skills as I always tried so hard for approval. Moving overseas and I am confident that I can now spot them a mile away :)
I have worked with dementia patients and a narcissist is so similar- you can NOT reason with these people. I almost want to cry for all the wasted potential in the world.
I know there are many narcissistic abuse resources out there, but there needs to be more- I didn't know until 2 years ago. A lovely woman at an assertiveness class I went to told me that I have zero self esteem, and it started from there. And I have no desire whatsoever to date, I am more than enough for me. Don't confuse self confidence with self esteem either.
Thank you so much for your comment ❤️ We have a great workbook that can help too. bit.ly/Build-self-esteem-workbook-fb - Marisa Peer Team
Try dealing with an 86 yr old narcy mom with dementia. I am drained.
I'm blessed to have found your greatness!!! 🌹♥️♥️🌹Thank you for all that you do for all of us!!💃
Marisa, you are spot on. 100% right on the money, explaining my last relationship. I wouldn’t have accepted this video at that time, because I was sure I could help her with her past/current mental issues. Only after 1.5 years and the last 6 months being extremely hard on me, was I able to finally realise I couldn’t save her. And all the signs were there all along.
Depression followed and ptsd. But working on my self I’m now, stronger than ever and will never let anyone make me feel like that again unless I knowingly choose to feel like that ❤️
I want to hear ''I'm a strong person in your corner'' so I'll be a strong person in my own corner. My entire family is mobbing me but I know I did nothing wrong (by asking them not to hurt me).
Don’t give into the bullies
Here’s a cuddle from me 🤗 💕
And a big hug from Me Too!..💜
Hi Marisa, this is very good information. I left my narcissistic partner 5 years ago and I will never look back. This is so true. Thanks Marisa for healing the world. Much love Marisa. .🤗🥰
Sending best wishes xx
You left him but you are here.. Listen about narcissism... You are not really pass over..
I left mine over twenty years but my kids sided with her !!! Working on my life now ,God Bless you
My mother , hard work she kept dragging me to docs insisting i had various illnesses. I got away from her but struggle with mental cruelty always years later.
My father caused a lot of pain but I except and I’m glad now because it’s made me a strong who breeds strong men. Use your pain for good
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It's hard to change the habits they've created for us. But we must be diligent. We deserve it ☺️
My mother did the same thing! She told me I WAS a narcassist! Or had a multiple personality disorder, and took me to anger management classes, and therapists, and the main topic was always about her and the emotional abuse. It is mental cruelty. Certainly healthy boundaries are needed, and it is a difficult situation. Very sorry you had to go through this xo
So sorry you had to suffer that. Google Munchausans by Proxy x
Actually I am living with my cousin for two years now and I’m ready to leave he is always right he is always blaming me for everything even because I breath, so I decide to take that decision to pay full apartment just by myself it’s going to be expensive 1K California but I know but the freedom that I’m gonna get has no price
I can vouch what you say is So True. Thank you Marisa.
Sending you best wishes xx
Thank you again so much wonderful Marisa! You help us soooo much with your wisdom.... Falling in love with myself, it is a yes and a no... I feel stuck in believing I am strong enough to really find my braveness to live my mission.... I will finally!!! And you are helping me as many many others to believe in themselves a whole lot more!!!
I need to listen to this on repeat.
I love her work!!
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
Narcissists have taken everything from me, from my abusive father to an ex who made me feel worthless to bosses bullying me. I had to leave a career I loved because management was toxic. I also now deal with a mother in law who criticises me. We can't escape them.
Thank you so much Marisa🙏🏼💘
I’m assuming that the dislikes are from the Narcs 🤔 I had a ‘friend’ who was a narcissist, when I realised this and tried to get out of the friendship, I handled it incorrectly and she made my life a misery for 2 years. I wish I’d had this knowledge at that time, it would have saved so much hassle and not shredded any self esteem I’d got left.
@@ladygodiva4141 I know! She cost me friends I’d known all my life, she tried to ruin my husbands business, tried to get my son expelled from school and she physically attacked me and my sister in public and then reported it to the police for Christ sake saying it was us who’d attacked her first! I’d never come across anything like it before, I’m in my 40’s and I’d never been in a fight in my life! Absolutely insane. It’s made me very wary of people since then and I never let anyone get close anymore. Live and learn.
its easier to say than done when u cant leave em cuz you are fully and financially dependent on them and they actually "bought" u from ur parents who have made u marry him,im from religious family so yeah ,
so if you were able to break off from them, you are really brave and lucky and you did the right thing, your life was nmde miserable for two years after, its still better tham you being her friend whole life,and you definitely dont deserve it
@@irisviel_Einzbern I agree, it must be awful if you are dependent on that person. I feel for you, I really do. I was lucky that I didn’t have to live with this particular psycho but it still made my life miserable, I can’t imagine how you live with it on a daily basis, so I would say you are the brave one, not I. Be strong and I sincerely hope you can get away from the situation x
And most people are saavy enough not to SAY alot of their denigrating/critical thoughts, just being around their atmosphere can make you feel off/less than, so always check in on how you FEEL because 90% of communication is non verbal. 90% of what we’re taught is non verbal
Marisa thanks so much 🙏
I almost cried because what you have said was all about my relationship,will God help me in my journey,
Step 1 and only. Get out and don't look back as soon as you can.
As a land lord Narcissist are a nightmare and are your teachers now we rent month to month, GET OUT, Marisa thank you for your light, it is brilliant.
You’re welcome ❤️
Wow. I get it.
That is great to hear. 💖 Marisa Peer Team
A big factor she stated was that someone who loves you wouldn’t drain your finances, I was always prepared for the emotional and physical sink hole, but didn’t see the financial one
Can't wait to watch this Marisa! I found out2years ago that my mother is a covert narcissist. The devastation and elation came in equal amounts. The elation was that 'it wasn't ME' or my fault.
I haven't seen her for those2 years and I feel amazing.
Great video, Marisa. Thank you! More like this, please!!
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I've been tormented for over twenty years!!! Where do I start
you are so healing to me
Glad to hear it! 💖 Marisa Peer Team
Thanks Marissa..🙏
Thank you so much for this!
You're very welcome 💖 Marisa Peer Team
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO!!!
i would leave but i cant because its a parent. im 23, have autism, lack indepenance skills i need to work on before im allowed to move out through my social worker, covid is slowing down this process. So im stuck here and its so exhausting. the only place i have is my room to go to. Its not all the time things happen but its always here and there it flairs up. like little things and sometimes big things. ive had enough of this life. im exhausted. its honestly cost me my health and healing with my doctor and therapists is harder when im still living in the place that caused it all in the first place.
Space Princess I’m in the same boat. My heart goes out to you. I’m chronically and severely ill and have been since I was a young teen. I have CPTSD and am re-traumatised constantly. I’m waiting for someone to offer advice on a situation when you’re an adult dependent and dependent on a narcissistic parent. When you can’t walk away. When that person has leverage over your life. I haven’t found it yet.
Hang in there. I know how exhausting it is but there is a better life around the corner when you can progress with your independence skills and be in control of your own life. Sending you love.
💋💜
We know it is easy to say, "leave" but only one knows their circumstances, but look at you!! You are here in this line, chatting! It means you have tools!! I'm proud of you!
Hang in there and do not give up, continue bugging your social worker, she or he will help advocate..
Meditate get out of the victim mentality and poor me attitude
Our strength is within . Strengthen your positive energy . Improve your self talk .
You can stay in your room but can also feel thankful for having internet and a device to learn from. Re own your power. Search meditation videos it helps a lot .
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
You are so right on with everything you said thank you for reminding me I am loveable I forget that too much...
You’re welcome ❤️
Thank you for this
You’re welcome ❤️
Sound words. Thanks Marissa
You're very welcome - Marisa Peer Team
Its finances in most cases what keep people stuck. Your Narc parent made sure to destroy self esteem and to use money as a weapon.
Oh yes.
Everybody who speaks, every time anybody speaks, they believe they're right. Why would you say something if you don't believe it's right when you're saying it?
"You think you're always right."
Yeah, so do you. If you say things and you don't believe the things you're saying are right, there's something wrong with you.
But if I am wrong i will accept that. Sometimes in conversation I realise the other person is correct and I am not (after all we are always learning new things ) so I can apologies and adjust what I thought was correct. The difference is a narcissist wont do that..
I've been dealing with a narcissist cult of secret society for over twenty years working on a new beginning
So true. But its very painful to leave that kind of relationshi - especially if the sexual bond is strong. You just have to realize that the pain the narcissist brings will never go away, he will NEVER change. Its not even you that is in the relationship, its only a small shadow of yourself. So if you're lucky you will get out and understand that life has more to offer.
I absolutely love your outfit
Thank you. 💜
Thank you for your amazing videos. 💕💕💕💕
You’re welcome ❤️
I am coparenting my 8 year old daughter with a narcissist ( malignant type). Is there any specific therapy I can get for my daughter ? I am a pediatrician myself and thinking would it help if I took Marissa’s RTT coach training ?
Thanks for all your videos. They are simply the best. I stumbled on here looking for ways to help my patients but now finding answers for my own problems too.
Can you please make a video on how to get out of the scapegoat role? Thanks!
Hi, thank you so much for your suggestion. I will make sure that I pass these on to Marisa and the team 🌸 (Abi - Marisa Peer Team)
That's True👌
My teenager shows narcissistic behaviors. She mimics my ex-husbands behavior. She is verbally and physically abusive. I have had her in a therapeutic boarding school, all different kinds of counseling, on different kinds of medication ext. I can’t walk away from her if anything I have to walk into her and help her overcome this. Behind the mask of control and anger she has a heart of gold. Anyone have any suggestions outside of what is typically recommended.
Also I wish a narcissist would comment here..
Narcissist are obnoxious and quick to show their toxic ways, so who ever stays is because also struggles with issues of confidence..get help !!
I can't get out ...45 years of it. 😢❤
How do you leave when they have you attached? They can leave at any point but when you leave they make contact and keep on until you give in .
You MUST move to another country/continent. Serious.
Practice makes perfection,, tell yourself "I am not giving in" everytime he or she persuades/manipulates you. Find things that will empower you. Once confidence and certainty are part of your life, you will be able to set stronger/firm boundaries. If you can, hire a personal coach :)
Absolute NO CONTACT. Non-negotiable.
Just stay no contact...you might be trauma bonded.
Please watch Just say no to narcs on youtube to keep you steady.
Also: Dr Les Cartes, Dr Carmen Bryant, Dr Ramani
Success to you!
Virtual hug from a survivor
Can we say that a narcisist = energy vampire? Thank you very much, Marissa
They suck out everything else from you, so ja.....that would be one facet of them...
@@allysonogston522 I live w/ one. My mother is too. Yet, nothing makes 'em more uncomfortable than laughter. That means I'm not accepting their "gift" so they have to deal with it. Laughter do good to one.
My sister is one. She hates anything positive in my life
It's not true that abusive people look for weak people as she says. People in abusive relationships are from all walks of life. Abusive people use tactics so that you don't realize you are being abused, sometimes until they know you won't or can't leave. They often flatter and make you feel you are very close. They confuse you and they slowly chip away at you. Join a support group to understand, don't put yourself down by saying you are weak. You are not, you may be trauma bonded but not weak. In fact abused women often stand up for themselves and try and stop the abuse only to get punished further by abusers. The rest of her message was good. Also not all abusers are narcissists nor do all abusers feel bad about themselves, you cannot save them. They do feel entitled and superior though.
We just need a stevie wonder running in our head!! So true. we just need to remmember that
Hi, I'm a light worker and I want to say something important to you, all human and animals have a conscience available to help you with anything that you ask for and it is important to ask the conscience to make for you the awakening of your consciousness in order that your conscience can start to get out your interior archons , all the human have this energetic parasites inside of the body , because of them your chakras cant work properly and energetic parasites can also produce illness in the body , once that you ask your conscience to make for you the awakening of your consciousness you will be more aware of your twin flame and you will remember who you are ! And if you want , anyone can make love with their twin flame in the astral , this it is very true but people are not aware of this because your conscience has not get them out yet these energetic parasites (archons) it is also important that you to be in your physical body and she in the astral and make love so that you and your twin can raise the planet in high frequency with the all the divine love between you and your twin flame , and leave this archons energetic parasites in low densities where they belong .
Hi Marisa! Everything you've said is very helpfull! But how and why people are becoming narcisist, I'm sure noone is born narcist? Can you explane us that, please?
Hi, thank you so much for your question. I will make sure that I pass these on to Marisa and the team 🌸 (Kim - Marisa Peer Team)
@@MarisaPeer Thank you very much! 😊😊😊
are algorithms also a part of this issue of abuse?
I always wonder though (and I speak as someone who got away from marriage to a narcissist) - does that mean that there is no hope for you if you are a narcissist. Surely everyone can be helped or do we just give up on them. Yes they are awful people but can they change if they want to? I actually feel a little sorry for people like this
I have nowhere to go
What do I do that they go after anyone or anything that I do from hairstylist, to my doctor, to the car rental company to prospect them for business and gaslight them and shame me with them and convince them I’m bad? How do I have them stop following me around, and stop going up to everyone on my social media and do the same thing there? How do I stop them from blocking everyone who could ever care about me?
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below:
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I feel like such a failure though...
I left and now alone..
You just haven't met your new friends yet, but they are out there. And alone is good- that's when you know that you are on the road to recovery.
You are not a failure, you are a strong and incredible person. Sending you best wishes ❤️ Marisa Peer Team.
Thank you 🤗💋💜
In beginning is hard, but time will cure it and self love first , you will never feel alone again , good luck you made the biggest step already by leaving. 👍
I divorced my narcissistic husband 3 years ago after 7..I got a new phone number and cut out narcissistic friends..But,I moved in with my narcissistic son, to help with my granddaughter...in other words, it's like when I was raising her,except he is paying rent..as a mom its sad that he is like this,but I have accepted this a long time ago..but I saw a hold new side when I had my 5th shoulder surgery..he was my x..Thank God for his girlfriend and my granddaughter or I would never got though this..can you do video on narcissistic adult children??
I have been in this type of relationship twice. It broke me so hard and I lost my whole world twice over. After 18 months now I’ve slowly started to rebuild my life, make friends but the daily issues I’ve always faced with self esteem and confidence, validations and self love, this is something I fight myself on daily and trying working on to feel ans be the best person I can. The damages one person can do to another is horrific and something I will not understand. Any suggestion to help me would be gratefully appreciated xx
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below:
rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/
In the interim, you might find Marisa's free Self-Esteem workbook useful. You can check it out here - bit.ly/Build-self-esteem-workbook-fb
We hope this helps. Sending you love and support.
Marisa Peer Team
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Narcissists like to gaslight people 😒
I got out and divorced him over 24 years ago. After my youngest child was 17 years old. I will not get married again because the horrible trama I suffered. He was 25 years old and I was 15 years young. I was a child bride. He would not leave me alone. Long story. He was my stalker. Now, 2021, I love being single. I love myself. New life.
Well done for having the strength and resilience to make the right choices for yourself. We are glad to hear you are happy. 💖 Marisa Peer Team
I think prince 🤴 Harry should watch this 🤔 👀
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She is such a classic covert, Meghan that is. Poor Harry being isolated from not just his family but also his country 😞
Agree
No way out financially 😭
I recently read somewhere that the devil was the original narcissist 👺👺
But they chase you everywhere
Yah, well when apartments say you have to make $3,600 a month to rent a $1,500 apt you are trapped
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Psycho narcissist have v2k and r n m so there's no stopping them and there's nothing you can do about them anymore the bottom line is it's Doomsday.
She’s wrong
Thank you for this!