DON'T WASTE 2023! - After This, You'll Change How You Do EVERYTHING | Tom Bilyeu
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On Today's Episode:
The next time you’re scrolling through social media or checking out people that are more successful than you and find yourself mad, resentful, minimizing their success, or coming with excuses for your lack of success, remember this…
You can achieve whatever you want in life. You can achieve your biggest, most audacious goals. But you have to start by changing the way you think.
Your job is to seek out, find, and develop the right mindset for success in order to be successful. Success does not happen by accident. Rewiring your brain and the way you think through your failures, your struggles and the obstacles you’re facing on a daily basis is more than possible.
Watch this episode when you’re ready to receive the key to success. Tom is breaking down everything from what a growth mindset is to why soothing your ego with your psychological immune system is your biggest hindrance to success.
QUOTES:
“If you want to be successful, mindset is everything.”
“At the end of the day, only execution matters.”
“Failure is the most information rich data stream on planet earth.”
“To overcome the endless parade of problems you have to have a way to take responsibility for what you can do differently to overcome those problems, [...] you want to adapt your behavior.”
“You have to constantly pour energy into your own life to make sure that you’re making progress to your own goals if you’re going to eventually achieve success.”
“A growth mindset is that you believe that your talent and intelligence are not fixed traits, that you can get better at something as you put time and energy into getting better at that thing. It’s what I call, the only belief that matters.”
“The people I have found that are the most resilient in life, they have the most intensely developed growth mindset, and that’s part of the key.”
“Don’t let yourself take on the identity of the victim even when you are victimized because it puts you in a defensive posture.”
“If you really are as good as you think then you should be able to go and build something new using that same skill set.”
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Love your Tom content. I'm looking forward to meeting you one day.
“If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.”
If it takes u 106min to say it, then you dont understand it well enough to teach it.
Golden Nuggets. Ty 🙏
Hi Tom truly grateful for your content today. This is absolutely incredible talk. I would like to ask team why the link to the Iron Clad discipline is expired? Is there another way to access that class? Please and thank you. 😊
You should write a book I'm willing to buy it.
I find it incredibly amazing that you're consistently able to tell these stories and teach these concepts with the same energy and demeanor as if it was the first time 🙌🏼💜
Meth is motivating.
Even to be able to explain something well for the first time, you have to rehearse it over and over and over and over and over to the point of utter boredom beyond contempt in your mind. After that each time in reality is the reward for the effort
@tombilyeu..7. how to lieves without Drugs
Awesome! Thanks for this incredible pep talk. The Growth Mindset never has to end. I'm 75 years old and still honing the craft of living well and bringing my productivity to maturity. A few days ago I tried to deliver a presentation that was a massive failure in every way - technically, frame of reference, culturally missing the mark. I have never experienced such embarrassment. That feeling of defeat lasted about 2 hours, and I then began to identify the faults and how to give a talk that nurtures the audience while presenting new food for thought. I want to get back into the ring because what nourishes them nourishes me, too. Tom, I'm loving you as a role model who shows honest vulnerability while delivering important content. Thanks, Hombre.
I've been following Tom for years and it's amazing how well he can articulate his message now from when he started. Just goes to show how true everything he's saying is.
What have you accomplished since you started following him?
@@yahelluna3842 I'm a music producer and I went from making $80 a month to now doing it professionally. I've also bought a house and I've hired two employees.
@@Dillygotitbumpin That's terrific! Congrats! 😊
I don't know but doesn't seem very heatly all the focus and energy and time trying to have success about something. I don't know...
@@esquilovermelho It's not for everyone, but I think it's cool if you enjoy the process overall. It's extremely rewarding to put time and effort into something and then develop skills that allow you to do things you couldn't do before.
I HATE that I can't express with words the amount of gratitude I have for your own "dedication" on yourself, for your "own" personal passion for this lifetime as Tom, because of that focus, passion, fearless to see yourself as you are and overcome your own shadows, "I" (I will talk personally, but it's a "we") I have received TODAY this compound of knowledge that clearly it's been practice on yourself to that you just push me so hard to shift my own "mindset". And believe me, I have been 30 years studying myself, I spend years on Mclean Hospital, I have overcome tons of things in my life learning about myself, yet, my life is good to the eyes of others, but I couldn't conclude the why of some specific area I wasn't resolving... anyhow, you must have tons of people saying this to you, this might get too long, yet, even if you don't read this, I know you will receive all the light and love send to you for you and your loved ones, so that you continue having this amount of stamina, focus, passion to continue giving us all these presence and worked... THANK YOU...! AND LOTS OF LOVE...
Sitting at home in state of complete burnout from my job, wishing I would just get fired so I’d get the courage to move on. After the first 9:54 of this video I got out of bed and opened the curtains to let in the light. Thank you so much ❤
Yep! Don't ever stop!
I found this talk totally inspiring, as well
Best to you! Larakr90👍
I'm in the first 5 minutes of your lecture and I'm enlightened already, I've been n watching you a few years off and on and I've literally watched your communication skill increase more and more , and this one inperticuler is undeniable proof your effectiveness is obviously up and up. Thanks Tom for sharing the stuff you do.
I will watch the first 10 minutes of this every day to keep myself in the growth mindset. Thanks Tom for doing what you do!
⤴️⤴️⤴️📲...
This is like my own free coach in Success
Wow! I want every word to infiltrate my mind, being, life. So glad for this message today!.. Thank you so much.
I own and operate my own business. If Tom is selling, I'm buying. A true wealth of information. Thank you Tom, all the best to you and yours.
Tom, your content always hits the mark. Thank you for being such a good teacher. ✅
Oh my God!
I just sent this to my 25 year old son. He's struggling and I just didn't know what else to say to help him.
...I hope he listens to this.
Tom, you have been one of the most influential people I’ve ever come across. You have been helping me improve my life for years. You are one of the great minds of our time. Thank you for contributing to the world with your gift and constant hunger for growth. Happy new year!
Tom keep on creating this content as the world 🌍 has very few people like you we look up to you you just don't know how much you are helping. Please don't stop
Favorite quotes to keep your mindset on fire
-Practice will never fail you
-It's not a matter of possible or impossible. I'm doing it because I want to. Luffy
-Set your heart ablaze, and go beyond your limits. No matter how devastated you may be by your own weakness or uselessness set your heart ablaze, grit your teeth, and look straight ahead. Even if you stop and crouch down, time won't wait for you or snuggle you and grieve along with you - Rengoku Kyojuro
These may be quotes I came across while watching anime, but the impact of these words has truly resonated with me enough to stop whining and limiting myself. Use whatever helps you change your mindset to create a more positive, healthy, and expansive way of living and confronting life.
The thing about negative, unfulfilling, limiting mindsets is that they're so engrained that you've literally become accustomed to them. You know how it feels to be negative and feel awful about yourself there's even a level of comfort deep down because it's what's familiar. Your brain wants familiar and easy. So anytime you confront it with something better that helps you you'll be met with hesitation or even fear because it's something you haven't reinforced. It's literally as easy as just doing it, as badly as you might because of your current abilities, but just do it. Just take action, and see how you feel. Even if you fail, and you look as bad as possible and it's embarrassing...I think something that helps, at least me, is to laugh. I laugh when I fail miserably. You laugh at your incompetence, and then you look at it closely and see what is it that you have to learn, adjust or improve. When you laugh you take away the deadly seriousness that comes with "it." I laugh and momentarily let myself not be hit by the initial negative shock wave. Then I look at it objectively. "Will I let this win?" I ask myself. This setback, this person's opinion, etc. Will I actually let it win and stop me?
And go as outrageously as you can to see how ridiculous it can be, e.g. "I allow myself to let the opinions of X stop me, I allow it to pester my mind all day, all week even, and stop me from taking action, I allow this person to have such a massive effect on me that I literally give this person all my power and freewill that it stops me from doing "Y," a thing I want to achieve because: "powerful reasons for the goal." See how you feel after. It's so ridiculous that you literally can't let it happen.
If you struggle with getting angry and frustrated, just move that anger towards not losing. "Will I let this win/stop me?."
Finally, master flow. If you know how to get into flow nothing will stop you.
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I am now so grateful that my Dad always had my back. If I came home, upset about under performing in something. the first thing he would say is you are a Neal. Let's go practise til you are number one. I miss my Dad.
I watch your videos while I exercise. Thanks for helping me improve my mind set while I improve my health.
Tom, Great Informational Guide! You are right! I agree that when you hit a road block, just take the time to figure out how to go around it, or over it, or through it! It works, you will be amazed how fast the challenges become fun and soon you see the road blocks are just little bumps in the road! Great Podcast!
That's the key. Don't see them as road blocks, but rather as challenges. Challenges are fun. Road blocks aren't.
10 years of therapy in one hour and a half
Man.... for real...!!! 💯
I agree!
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Wow, your therapist is awful. This is channel 13 advice.
Problem is one cannot skip any of the steps.. Its a wishfull thinking that we can
Easy to understand, harder to remember and very very hard to do.
I summarize it as "I can do anything. But I can't do everything "
So spend some time deciding what to get better at too.
Good talk
There must be a clear distinction between fault and responsibility. Something’s are my fault, all things are my responsibility.
Your thoughts and actions shape your life, and you are responsible.
I absolutely agree with this. All things are not my fault but are my responsibility. The rephrase is important.
True😊
Let's go! 2023...
This is a very enlightening video. It just nails it. It gives you what you need in plain English. A big thank-you ....
Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you!
Tom, you likely won’t see this, but if you do please consider a channel specifically targeted to young minds. I know you’re not a father, but as a father myself I’m always looking for podcasts or other content for my children to learn about growth mindset, abundance mindset, extreme ownership, and all the other mind mastery you cover. I work on it with them, but we all know kids don’t want to hear what their parents are saying. Anyway, it would be great. Thank you!
I love it when people are more successful, it means that it is possible. You can literally tell your mind that it's been done before so it can be done again and even better with a growth mindset.
This was an amazing video to help self improvement. Thank you
27:11 I tremendously respect your transparency about the not glamorous parts of your past (and even present). Thank you so much for that. (And everything else you do!)
You are absolutely right! Responsibility (Response-Ability). The amount of responsibility you take for everything that happens to you is directly proportional to the ability to respond to that or any situation. We should all believe that everything that happens to us, is our own fault. That way we can respond properly, fix it and learn then move on.
Tom , you are awesome as always, thanks for everything that you being doing the must humble sage...
This is gold. Thank you Tom. You helped me see what I need to do to turn a big traumatic injury into helping others, recognize my God given gifts as a coach, healer, musician and you showed me the gap that I need to work on to fulfill on my mission. Empathy is what we need not sympathy as that never advance us. You are rad. Awesome soul
I am so glad I listened to this thank you
Every video I watch becomes my favorite. A million "thanks" can never be enough for how much you have helped so many people. 🙏
Love this. GREAT content. Right on time. So appreciated! Thanks
Thank you Tom for this video! I am going to replay this video as I implement the strategies you laid out
Very powerful information in this video 🌎 Thanks.
Just want to say: Thank You, Tom! Although I don’t agree with you on the believing part as I am Christian, I’ve been watching your channel for a few years and your motivational winner approach has helped me so much to get out of the funky attitude and realize that the only stopper between me and success is the will power to act!
I am so grateful I discover you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Tom! Love listening to you, keeps me motivated and focused on the positive
The mere fact Tom's subscriber count keeps rising and will never plateau, even as competition in self-help movement gets vicious, is because he's methods are super easy and work for everybody! Quite literary, folks are dancing their way to the bank, day after day, thanks to the advice of this man for their new found riches! The only bit we split ways, is Tom is unapologetically tough on himself! Like I'm sure one can still achieve all those things but without the extra misery like fasting 365 days a year whereas a third that is just as fine, or waking up in 11 minutes everyday whereas its OK on days you have no agenda! And so, millions of folks are embracing the Tom-advice-lite and yet still going on to accrue massive amounts of wealth at historical records!
Thank you for this video. Your channel is life changing! I found your channel about 2 years ago and have gained SO much from it! 😊
Love you Tom! Keep helping our spirit !!
NTM
physics of progress 00:47
kobe's approached 15:05
achievers self talk 22:58
remove cognitive distortion 27:22
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action plan, to do next 57:43
get so good, they can't ignore you 1:04:04
That was definitely phenomenal when we die we look like our choices 📚⚡️🆙✍🏼🫀🧠💪🏼🧑🏼🍳💯🔥✌🏼
My god. Tom this is so profound! 🤩 I learned about the Growth Mindset years ago when you interviewed Carol Dweck. However I realize that I’m still struggling with it on day to day basis. It’s so good to have this video as a guideline, to question the underlying assumptions, to unlock all that unfulfilled potential. Your interview with John Assaraf really resonated with me. But this one is even more powerful. Thank You ❤
I hold high respect for your work mate because you’re pointing people in the right direction. If there’s one thing I’ve learnt recently is to remain calm especially when it comes to investment in Cryptocurrency . If Bitcoin can sustain these recent highs, it means we're getting a period of some relief rallies across, markets would be good. The crypto market is unstable and you can’t easily tell if it’s going bullish or bearish. While myself and colleagues are trading without fear of making losses but profits, others are being patient for the price to skyrocket, well It all depends on the pattern you follow. I was able to amass a lot of profits 13.5 BTC! when i started at 4.7 BTC by implementing daily trade signals and strategy from Mrs Debra Haycraft..
Thanks for keeping it light and real at the same time. Much needed for us hodlers in times like these!
Due to the recent fall in the crypro market, I don't think it's advisable selling, it would be more beneficial and yield more profit.
So impressed knowing how much people talk good about Debra Haycraft daily signals ... she also helped me and my friends here in Canada 🇨🇦 to trade profitably with her daily signals
The accuracy with which Debra Haycraft predicts the market is just astounding and i hope one day i can become like her but before then, i am sticking to trading with her signals..
Recent highs? I guess it is a high but just much lower than recently.
My God today…this was filled with so many gems in this video.
Thank you for this 🙏
This is by far the best explanation I’ve heard for success, and why some people are successful, and why others aren’t. My wish is to everyone with a fixed mindset. Here’s this, and they learn to believe in themselves! If you’re reading this, I believe in you, keep kicking ass, my friend!
Not even 3 minutes in and you’ve given me the missing piece to my puzzle.. thank you sir
I found this at the perfect time. Thanks so much for your hard work and sharing your knowledge! ❤
thank you for making this video and not sounding like everyone else out there. this was so good and had so many aha moments for me that I needed to reflect on. loved it.
Tom, you are a GIFT. Thank you. I have some key vids of yours living on my bookmarks BAR, to listen to repeatedly, especially AS I'm pushing through something, be it a workout or taking the next scary step on something. Everything else I ever bookmark is filed away in folders. You're part of my UI.
Wow! Thanks very much for this post 📫 Mr. Bilyeu...great content!
Spot on Tom, you are smart and wise beyond your years. Thanks for sharing. Excellent.
Genuine and relative content! Thank you for the significant value! A reminder to me, there are no ordinary moments in our life journey.
This is one of the most valuable videos on RUclips. 🔥
this is an epic video! with legendary wisdom! every person should watch! thank you Tom
This video is it! No reason to seek answers elsewhere. Let's get on it people!!
Amazing insight, very motivational. Thank you
Thank you for running this through, much appreciated.
Thank you, Tom! Happy New Year!
Events that happen to us aren’t always our fault, becoming stagnant and not continuing to grow afterwards os absolutely our fault
“Failure is the most information-rich data stream on planet Earth.”
That’s really great. I really like that. Can I borrow that?
Incredible valuable advice. I will listen to this video multiple times until I can live the growth mindset
Often the unconscious choice is whether you use your past as an anchor or your dreams as a sail. I've always tried to tell people "Defeatism only leads to defeat."
Finally I published my Book in Colombia 🌎 Soon it will be in Amazon Kindle KDP. Your videos have been very helpful and important to achieve it. THANKS 🌅🌅
I’m two minutes in and understand why I’m in analysis paralysis. The hypothesis is genius! That really clicked for me! Thanks Tom.
I was on a shroom trip a while back and this was exactly the lesson the shrooms taught me that day. This is such a great lesson to learn.
Tom I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you! You're a blessing to mankind. Keep up keep on your amazing work.
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this video is just what I needed, right now. PERRRRRFECT TIMING!!!!!! thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank.
Really appreciated all of your efforts to share this amazing points!
what a gorgeous picture
Great video as always thanks. The last part remined me of a Southern American saying "Don't get above your raisin's" it's the same mindset in the UK
The Mamba Mentality mindset. Kobe Bryant’s influence lives on forever!
Chosing what to get better at for me has been an endless struggle.
I've been in a place where I have lived a "growth mindset" for at least a decade or more. The issue has been jumping from one thing to another as I convince myself that the new thing is the best thing to become excellent at.
The end result is being "good" at tons of things but "excellent" at very few.
1:10:00 this advice is sort of dependent on where you are employed. I did this at a factory I used to work at, splicing fiber optics. I got so good at it that some machines my managers only recommended me to operate on because I was one of the few who could get the machine ramped up and running for 16+ hours. This put a huge target on my back because everyone around me realized I was better than them, despite me being friendly and open, they did everything in their power to take me down and eventually succeeded.
When we are born looking like our parents but we will die looking like our decisions. decisions are the bricks that build the edifice of our lives
- Ademola Abidoye
Thanks for sharing your insights
That words MUST BE world widely spread ... It must be translated on more than 50+ languages. The world must know it.
Outstanding video, Tom. Thank you!
Greetings from a fan from Brazil
LOVE it!!!!!!!!!!
Tom, as usual by you, amazing value 👏! I love the way you emphasize the importance of a growth mindset. Thank you 😊
You've been a prospect on my list of mentors but this talk solidifies your position.
Thanks for your Videos i am so grateful for them keep it up 🙂 love from Germany
This is spot on Tom. Can’t thank you enough.
Couldn’t be more grateful for all that you share Tom. The net positive & impact you’ve had on humanity with your acquired wisdom and that of your guests cannot be overstated. All the best man
this is genious! How you just phrased the message is brilliant thank you so much for setting me up for success
Wow. Best lesson for success I've heard. Thanks. So glad I heard this.
You know I appreciate Tom’s competitive approach. It has clearly work well for him and many others but I had to find a different way.
I called it curious and fun mindset rather than growth or achievement mindset. I know that there are always people better than me at any given thing but the sheer fun of doing it anyway keeps me going. I’m just not competitive by nature and I have tried to enjoy it but it felt all wrong for my personality. What keeps me trying and pushing through is the pure enjoyment of working and seeing finished work I can share with love.
I just wanted to share this in case the competition mindset hasn’t worked for you either!
I don’t think I can understand how much value Tom in this video brings. But I’m already so greateful for what I can understand
Wow! Amazing thank you ! 🔥🙏🏼💯
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I love you man and thank you for your help. Mindset is everything!!! 😎
You are so wonderful Tom. You’re changing lives. Mine, specifically. Thank you so so so so so much.
Thank you
Inspirational, yet actionable content!
This is by far the BEST AND MOST IMPORTANT SHOW YOU HAVE EVEN DONE!!🙏 Clean Clear and Concise. This is one of only very few that I have shared with my daughters on future guidance. Many times kids do not want to really listen to their parents until maybe many years later after they’ve learned the hard way of what you were trying to explain to them and this is exactly what they need to hear from a person that has proven the truth about what it takes to Actually Achieve what they have set out to do! Absolutely FANTASTIC JOB Thank You Very Much!!!🙏🙏✨🏋️♂️
Very clear. Thank you, Tom.
My mouth waters at how eloquent Tom is ❤
Thank you! Really great information!
Thank you G
It's so refreshing to hear the truth!
Superior shows, Tom!!! Thank you and so appreciated by me and all!