Nice Guys FAIL at POLYGYNY!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • In times of mistreatment, some husbands are too accommodating to their wives. PolygamyCommuni... is where you can join an authentic Polygamous Community, in this vid , I delve into setting boundaries, abusive behavior, and more.
    Did you order your copy of our book at LetsTalkPolygam... yet?
    ABOUT US:
    We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges it presents.
    Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the sunnah of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).
    Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.
    Since then, 4 more children have been born, another son by Coach Fatimah and 3 sons with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.
    We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors!
    However, being proactive in our growth and commitment to the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.
    We reverse-engineered the methods that we found worked best. We chose to remove any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.
    ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
    This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, practicing or looking to practice polygyny.
    We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area and polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime. We want to be a healthy resource because people are still practicing it without practical education.
    As a man, we help provide guidance in areas of leadership, financial IQ, emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.
    As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, learn how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges.
    We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you first.
    We tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.
    ABOUT YOU:
    If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.
    If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.
    You will likely find it beneficial to join our Private non-social media community at PolygamyEducati... which is Anti-Troll.
    Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
    1. Better your character
    2. Raise your leadership ability
    3. Increase your financial intelligence
    4. Expand your emotional capacity
    5. Develop mental strength and agility
    Here are a few ways we want women to benefit from our channel
    1. Better your character
    2. Increase your femininity and maturity
    3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
    4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
    5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences
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Комментарии • 25

  • @Lets_go_already
    @Lets_go_already 11 месяцев назад +5

    Butterfly. This was me early in my 2nd marriage because she is a childhood sweetheart. 4 years in and it was driving me up the wall trying to make sure I did everything right to male sure she was good. I even acquiesced and let her make decisions for the family. HUGE MISTAKE. This past year, we had an honest conversation, and I told her we are not doing it her way anymore. We'll see how it goes lol.

  • @mufid.asshiddiq
    @mufid.asshiddiq 6 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly. Thank you, may Allaah bless you. This was needed.

  • @princemaepa6459
    @princemaepa6459 2 месяца назад +1

    Butterfly

  • @ideas325
    @ideas325 6 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly

  • @abdullahkamali662
    @abdullahkamali662 10 месяцев назад +2

    Butterfly. May Allah preserve you and your family. Awesome advice as always.

  • @Musa-vh8ps
    @Musa-vh8ps 11 месяцев назад +2

    Butterfly 🦋

  • @yahavbensarahmadiel8694
    @yahavbensarahmadiel8694 11 месяцев назад +2

    Always great stuff to fortify the ranks! Thank you Coach! Appreciate you and your family for stepping up and setting the pace and sharing this wisdom. Let's keep building! 🙏🏾

  • @raheelsiddiquei1230
    @raheelsiddiquei1230 11 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing. Butterfly

  • @HamdushMohamed1
    @HamdushMohamed1 11 месяцев назад +2

    Butterfly 🦋

  • @Jamal-Israel
    @Jamal-Israel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Im New to the channel ill be asking questions here and there coach. For example are both wives required to live with the husband or does separate homes come into play soon after? Thanks

    • @outstandingpersonalrelationshi
      @outstandingpersonalrelationshi  10 месяцев назад +2

      Welcome and feel free to ask. Each setup has its own preferences, we don't all live in the same house, never have. I had 6 children before choosing polygyny and think it's best, in most cases, for women to have their own spaces.

    • @Jamal-Israel
      @Jamal-Israel 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@outstandingpersonalrelationshi thank you so much you've help shed some light on this topic for me. I'll continue to learn and ask more questions . Now the second possible wife is on board but said she would like to learn more before doing so, and that she would be going off of the energy of the first wife's decision to go with it. According to our culture I know that i can have them both. Any tips?

    • @outstandingpersonalrelationshi
      @outstandingpersonalrelationshi  10 месяцев назад +2

      Keep watching the channel and have the women watch as well. Our book is out also at letstalkpolygamy.com

    • @Jamal-Israel
      @Jamal-Israel 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@outstandingpersonalrelationshi alright well said thank you and I will check out that book too.

  • @KLUKA.INC.
    @KLUKA.INC. 8 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly🔥 sound advice💪💪💪

  • @mohamedjama1341
    @mohamedjama1341 11 месяцев назад +2

    Important topic.

  • @Eman_reminders
    @Eman_reminders 11 месяцев назад +2

    🦋

  • @veganekasi
    @veganekasi 11 месяцев назад +1

    #Butterfly! Thank you Coach! Always on P.O.I.N.T!

  • @gharibdiyar89
    @gharibdiyar89 11 месяцев назад +2

    I am currently living in Europe and looking for a second wife, but I am not ready to tell my wife yet

    • @sensiblemindset423
      @sensiblemindset423 11 месяцев назад +5

      I hope you can sit her down to discuss this because it really is a strain to learn something has been going on but has been un communicated or covert. We seek peace, honesty, being valued, patience, protection, transparency and understanding in our life partnerships🫶🏾 ☮️ 💫. A lot of respect of character is interwoven with these attributes. IMO, best friends for life are open and revealing with each other.

    • @patrickrachels3586
      @patrickrachels3586 11 месяцев назад +3

      Before you do figure out why you want it because she will ask, then bring it up as a question, such as, "what would you think..." be prepared to defend your beliefs because she'll do one of two things, agree and be interested or loose her poop.
      Hopefully she'll be interested but if she's not be prepared to ride a emotional roller coaster and she will drag you along

  • @ellee9604
    @ellee9604 9 месяцев назад +1

    🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @ciciburton3200
    @ciciburton3200 10 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly 🦋

  • @ArgusticDunbar
    @ArgusticDunbar 11 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly

  • @DrewARoc
    @DrewARoc 11 месяцев назад +1

    Butterfly