*"sometimes when you know yourself there will be different times in your life where you might not know yourself but you do know yourself you just have to look deeper"* - rose ellen dix 2020
"I'm not contributing anything." Pff. Rosie, it's the donor that isn't contributing anything. You aren't just becoming a parent, you're starting a family. Family means everyone does their part, and while Rose is pregnant, your part will be taking care of her. You will never feel more useful than when you are caring for your wife and child. Being a parent doesn't start at conception or birth. It's a state of mind. If you feel like you aren't contributing by the time Rose is pregnant, I'll buy a hat just so I can eat it.
This needs to be on the top of the comment section, thank you, and Rosie, you never need to be biologically related to your child to tell the others that you are the mother, just think of Angelina Jolie
it’s okay. on rachel’s 30th birthday she cried, on joey’s 30th birthday he cried, on chandler’s 30th birthday joey cried, on ross’s 30th birthday he brought a sports car, on monica’s 30th birthday she got really drunk and on pheobe’s 30ty birthday she found out it was actually her 31st birthday.
@@JulianneHannes same I literally cried and then I had a dream about being really sad they took friends away then I woke up and was still really sad lol 😔
I'm adopted and biology truly doesn't define motherhood. Being a parent is about caring and wanting the best for your child something you both clearly will do.
So, I’m adopted, I might have some insight :) Even though I’ve gone through a lot of identity issues, the one thing that has been a solid fact for me has been that both of my parents are my “real” parents, even though we have no biological relations. I don’t look like anyone in my family, yet I have very clear traits from both my mom and my dad, which other people see and point out. They have been establishing a certainty of unconditional love and support through all of my 25 years, and not once have I felt a disconnect from either. They love both me and my younger brother (who is their biological son) the same. I think you both will be amazing parents, and the children you have together will feel 100% both of yours, despite the birth mother. As long as you don’t have doubts about their place, they won’t, and you’ll be their safe space. I understand the difficulties of having “roles” but whatever you do will feel absolutely normal to your kids because it’ll be what they’re used to. Biology will not ultimately be an issue, at least it never was for me :)
Sounds relative. I feel for her. I don't have kids and I don't want any. But if I were pregnant today, I would freakin FLIP OUT. I'd be scared shitless. Rosie's role will have to help Rose while she's pregnant.
Rosie, it saddens me everytime you call yourself stupid. In my opinion unique thoughts and perspective are often thought of as stupid, because they are different. Unique perspectives should be embraced. You're going to be a fantastic mother, screw the jerks that question your role cause it's not what their lane brains expected.
cazzie• women tend to glow up in their thirties I’ve noticed. Like Tegan and Sara in their thirties vs in their twenties is the first thing I think of of course 😍😂
Using gender roles because that is the language we currently have for this sort of situation. Rosie, it really does seem like you are having the daddy blues but once you see that baby you will know your place. I am a lesbian who would love to have kids but has never had the urge to give birth myself. So the way I see my role being is the super supportive "father", the person who gets to run to the grocery store for ice cream and pickles because my wife is craving weird shit at 3 am! I get to be the person my wife looks at when you see the ultrasound for the first time. I get to be the one who holds her hair back when she's got morning sickness and hold her hand as she gives birth to our child! That will be so rewarding! And it sounds like you have plans to give birth to a baby yourself so then the roles can be switched and you both will get to experience both sides of parenthood! That's something heteronormative (I'm not sure that's the correct word) couples don't get to experience. Thank you for airing your concerns, it really does matter!
So I can speak candidly about this. My wife and I wanted to start the “BABY” journey about a year back. My wife had a hysterectomy and I would be the only one caring, unfortunately I have PCOS & Endometriosis. My wife, even through her excitement, had that same “envy” while we were researching about getting pregnant & the attention that she wanted at one point as well was now in me. All I can say is, my wife felt the same heartbreak when we found out our difficult it would be for us to become parents. Not because she was sad just for her, but because her wife was hurting. It also is also so important to remember, Rosie you are STILL that baby’s parent. You are going to have such a special relationship with them that if someone comes up to you with your child in your arms you would simply say, “my wife and I just had a baby. Rose is feeling better after delivery!” The same way my wife says “we’re battling infertility”. It’s our struggle, not just mine. That’s y’all baby, not just Roses. Being raised by hetero-standards and having those stereotypes in our mind, it makes us question the judgements and thoughts of others. People are dicks. That’s it. We’re the trailblazers for those so they know they can break away from that ideology. Y’all will be amazing parents. You, Rosie will be so happy to see your wife have y’all’s child & I PROMISE, the thought of “not biologically mine” will not be something you think or say. My wife looks more fem then me, I’m more masculine and I started thinking during our first IVF, do I need to grow my hair and wear skirts again. Fuck that. Our child will know their Mom and Mama for who they are. You and Rose will find this part of your life. Unfortunately my wife and I have a infertility struggle before a baby comes, but I get the thoughts and battles you are faced with. I wish you both the best in 2020. Y’all got this.
"Fuck that. Our child will know their Mom and Mama for who they are." YES!! Word! This just gave me goosebumps. Thanks so much for sharing! ♥♥♥ I wish you the best! ♥
As someone who will be going through this with my wife this year, this is so relevant to us so thank you for putting yourself out there & being relatable to us and I'm sure others. ☺️
🤣🤣 You ladies are thinking way to much into it. You will love your children and the circumstances that bring them into the world will not matter. Period. And people are nosy, they will ask questions but it doesn’t matter. Your kids will matter most. ❤️
@aven 7604 Alas, that's to be expected because we were, most of us, raised in a hetero normative environment. It's up to each individual to work out how they fit into a child's life, outside of the steretypical hetero normative standards. I guess that's what I meant by "EVERY" parent goes through this, because even if they were a mother and a father (unless they decided to fully buy into hetero normative roles) they would at some point still be having discussions similar to the one they are having now. It's not exactly the same each time, but becoming a parent almost always drives a person into an identity crisis, regardless of gender, sex, or sexual orientation.
@aven 7604 Ah I see what you mean. I was approaching it from the expectant parents perspective. Honestly, it's pretty much the same for those asking. If you'll notice, they're asking the same questions that Rosie is asking herself, because of the environment we live in and the things we've been used to seeing. The only thing some of those people are actively doing wrong is purporting to know the answers to these questions, instead of backing off and realising that we all have much to learn about pretty much every fucking thing ever.
@aven 7604 I completely agree with that. My goodness, this has been a lovely conversation. Happy new year! Hope your 2020 goes as smoothly as possible.
34:17 when Rosie realised that her stepdad cared for her even though he was not her dad. I love that moment when you realize something you never really thought of before. It's like your seeing it in a different perspective. Anyway, I love the video and you guys will be great parents ❤❤😊
33:35 That smile on Rose’s face when Rosie says how in love with her she is... Moments like those are why I absolutely adore these uncut videos sooo much❤️ I love seeing Rose so soft x
Rosie I'm going through a similar thing. My girlfriend of 7 years is 2 months pregnant. The way I see it is that even though I wont be carrying the baby I will still be involved the whole way. Go to every appointment and support your partner with that ever she needs. People will always asked ignorant questions and be judgmental but at the end of the day you have to live your own life and do what makes you happy.
I know this was a while ago but my parents are both women and one carried me and one carried my sister so its very similar to your situation and it feels no different at all, they are both amazing parents so don't worry too much xx
I really thought that when Rose said "when you know yourself" that she was going to follow that with 'it's only yourself you have to answer to for to' haha
Rosie: “Should we call our baby bianca?” Rose: “What’s wrong with you??!” “It’s okay to have an identity crisis, and dress like shane.” 😂😂 #Problematicin2020
The openness and honesty here is very inspiring. There is so much love and understanding between you two. Sending you love and well wishes on this new chapter in your lives.
Rose and Rosie if only I had a wife to match, life would be perfect 👌🏼 I hear Shannon and Cammie are single, and waiting ever so long for one of them to hit me up 😏😂
I only discovered these 2 this week with a random youtube recommendation, and I feel a little annoyed it is so late in the piece. Their humour is great, but I've found their relationship to be so charming it is like an anti-depressant.
“I can’t be bossed around by anybody, because I am Bette Porter, and a natural leader/ man/ top (pause looks at Rosie) sorry.” - Major Bette and Tina vibes in this video lol
As a 19 year old bi gal this means sooo much to me. Its honestly hard to describe. Getting representation when you're used to the absence of it is like healing a wound you didnt know u had. Cheesy I knowww but thanks 💓
This is eerily similar to my mums, one was bi like Rosie, the other is a older lesbian like Rose (their age gap was way bigger) she's my bio mum but it is absolutely crazy. its like watching my mums go through the process of having me bc its all the same like doner kid, no egg swapping. Cant beleive I only just found you guys!
It is really comforting to hear that other people, especially you guys who seem so together and self confident have times of self doubt . I came out at 40 and am still struggling with working out who I am. I had 3 children with my (now ex) husband and these kinds of issues were present then too. Changing from a wife to a mother and having someone in your life who is more important than either of you is tough and you are right to talk about it. It is natural to worry. You guys are open with each other and you clearly talk it all out. You’re going to be fine. Thank you for showing us that having the occasional life crisis is normal x
Each cells in Rosie’s body is made of LOVE ♥️ i believe Rosie’s gonna love their babies ‘till death! Their babies gonna build between their passions + love & they already changed so many lives! Sometimes in life we just push through to it & everthying gonna be alright. Some changes might drive you insane but its all gonna work out someday ♥️ and stop saying you’re old, i’m 36 and still single! Well... what a life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm speaking as the future 'Other mother' and also hit that dreaded age of 30 in 2019 too. 😂 We have sadly just miscarried in the last month BUT it's normal to freak out. I had so many feelings around it. The panic of being the only 'Non-biological' parent. Knowing I would love the child but would I be seen as that child's parent. I mean I could go on, the point is it sends you into a frenzy of feelings, which are hard and scary! What I can say is though, when your wife / partner comes to you with that positive pregnancy test, it's scary BUT there is also an overwhelming sense of love..for your partner and the life she's growing. I have SO much respect for my wife since we started this journey! I don't know either of you, I watch your videos but what you portray shows love, strength and support. You're gonna smash it! Both of you! 😊 Ps. Sorry for the absolutely novel.
"2020 identity crisis??" Me: relate PS: Been watching you since 2012. And now watching and hearing you guys planning to have your own family makes me so proud and happy. And will always be here to see and support you grow with your beautiful journey. 😊IM SO.PROUD OF YOU GUYS
My sister passed away 7 months ago she was 20. I’m 23 years old with no kids of my own prior and stepped up to raise her son who’s 2 1/2 years old. She passed from her drug addiction so I’ve been coparenting him with my parents since he was 6 months old. Since she’s passed something changed in my heart. She’s not going to recover because she’s not here anymore and he needs me. He’s my first born child. I worship him. I just sit around a cry if I think about how much I love him for too long. He’s got big blue eyes and a head full of blonde curls and he’s so sociable with strangers that I’m always asked about MY son by strangers. That puts me in an awkward position because he’s not really my son he’s my sister’s who’s no longer here but he is my son and I end up stumbling through trying to explain myself which is honestly painful for me to rehash my sister’s death everyday. A part of me still feels the need to explain but the people who know don’t ask and the people who ask don’t need to know. You’re not obligated to explain yourself or personal situation to strangers. You don’t owe them an explanation. Canaan calls me Mommy and I tell him about his mother and that’s all that matters.
When rosie asked “should we name our baby, bianca?” ... I was like “hell naaahhh. I’ve been watching y’all since 2014 and you’re gonna end up naming your future baby after my first relationship with a girl who broke my heart into million pieces???!?!” OML THANK YOU ROSE FOR NOT AGREEING 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 GUCCI IS BETTER 😊😂😆 It’s at 14:36
I love that in the last video I watched Rosie was talking about how she wanted that VS pink hoodie and Rose didn’t think she needed it but now she’s got it- now THAT is love 😂
Haven't even gotten to one minute yet, but just wanted to say that I love how different is the pace of uncut videos! I sort of get even more the feeling of how it would be to actually know/have a conversation with them in person.
"I dont care if my genes are in them, its gonna get my heart" -Shane Dawson. I love this quote so much, I hope it you'll like it too :) Its when Shane and Ryland are talking about how to get a baby, who would be the donor.
If this is any consolation I am the child of lesbian parents via sperm donor (no egg swapping or other fancy shit; one of my moms had me and the other mom had my brother) and I never thought of my moms as being any different from each other in terms of my relationships to/with them. Being biologically related to a parent has never mattered with me and my moms; what has mattered is how each of my moms has raised me and cared for me. Basically, you are your kid's parent through your actions, not your genetics.
I recommend you checking out Sam's and Alyssa's chanell. They had gone through similar experiences. And have a bunch of videos about having a baby as a lesbian couple, about feeling connected to the baby as not biological parent etc. I think it would be really helpful.
Why did my heart flutter when Rosie said she was in love with Rose?🥰🥰🥰 I know this already but it was so sweet and honest and intensified by the uncut series!
They do such an amazing job of never getting annoyed when they interrupt each other 😂 They both do it a decent amount and the other just immediately stops and listens. I can see why their relationship is so successful. Respect and the ability to listen is so important! 💕
*"sometimes when you know yourself there will be different times in your life where you might not know yourself but you do know yourself you just have to look deeper"* - rose ellen dix 2020
Rose Ellen Daughton* (i think that’s the spelling)
Classic Rose! ❤️
Zara Asghar you’re correct
i had to read that out loud to understand it 😂
Lol. She perfected the original quote
The thrilling sequel to _Overshare: Overthink_
Grace Braun LMAO I DIED
😂😂😂
I love this lol.
"I'm not contributing anything."
Pff. Rosie, it's the donor that isn't contributing anything. You aren't just becoming a parent, you're starting a family. Family means everyone does their part, and while Rose is pregnant, your part will be taking care of her. You will never feel more useful than when you are caring for your wife and child. Being a parent doesn't start at conception or birth. It's a state of mind.
If you feel like you aren't contributing by the time Rose is pregnant, I'll buy a hat just so I can eat it.
DrLipkin very grateful for this comment, was trying to word it but didn’t know how. i hope she sees this!! xx
Couldn't agree more, well said!
💯! And thank you Rosie for bringing this into the open, it's something I've really been worried about myself for the future x
DrLipkin thank you for being so kind to Rosie, especially when she’s let her guard down & vulnerable to connect with all of us☀️
This needs to be on the top of the comment section, thank you, and Rosie, you never need to be biologically related to your child to tell the others that you are the mother, just think of Angelina Jolie
Rose: “Would it make you happy if I fell apart?”
Rosie: “Nooooo .. I need you to be strong for me while I go through nothing.”
😂😂😂😂 Classic
it’s okay. on rachel’s 30th birthday she cried, on joey’s 30th birthday he cried, on chandler’s 30th birthday joey cried, on ross’s 30th birthday he brought a sports car, on monica’s 30th birthday she got really drunk and on pheobe’s 30ty birthday she found out it was actually her 31st birthday.
😂😂😂
I literally fucking love this
I love this 😂❤
Damn HBO for taking Friends away
@@JulianneHannes same I literally cried and then I had a dream about being really sad they took friends away then I woke up and was still really sad lol 😔
I'm adopted and biology truly doesn't define motherhood. Being a parent is about caring and wanting the best for your child something you both clearly will do.
Same here!
imagine having rose and rosie be your moms. like seriously. that’s gonna be a reality for some lucky kid. i’m so jealous.
yeah, I would be in love with both my moms
Oh my god that would be literally amazing
Rose: “I’m going to be Abraham, you’re going to be...”
Rosie: “Lincoln”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
and she said it without hesitation and so serious XD
"I need you to be strong for me while I go through nothing" genuinely made me laugh so hard.
"I need you to be strong for me, while I go through nothing." The quote of the new decade. 😂😂😂😂
How does Wilma feel about her role in the pregnancy? 🤔
😌
Also what about Flynn
Wilma will be alright, imagine Flynn!!!
After the dog trainer teaches Wilma how to fix the printer, he can teach her how to be a mommy.
@@pratikshah474 flynn will either sleep in the crib or sassily sashay away at every possible opportunity.
So, I’m adopted, I might have some insight :)
Even though I’ve gone through a lot of identity issues, the one thing that has been a solid fact for me has been that both of my parents are my “real” parents, even though we have no biological relations. I don’t look like anyone in my family, yet I have very clear traits from both my mom and my dad, which other people see and point out. They have been establishing a certainty of unconditional love and support through all of my 25 years, and not once have I felt a disconnect from either. They love both me and my younger brother (who is their biological son) the same. I think you both will be amazing parents, and the children you have together will feel 100% both of yours, despite the birth mother. As long as you don’t have doubts about their place, they won’t, and you’ll be their safe space. I understand the difficulties of having “roles” but whatever you do will feel absolutely normal to your kids because it’ll be what they’re used to. Biology will not ultimately be an issue, at least it never was for me :)
they can make a 30 minutes long video and it feels like 5 minutes to me lmao
OH MYNDBFBWBBF THE HEART i’m literally crying, whoever reads this you're now invited to my funeral thanks for the attention k bye
@@cazzieisgay when's the funeral?
Emma Dahlgren 8pm tomorrow! sorry for the late invitation, i was kinda busy with the "dying" thing, u know :/
It’s bc we love them and wanna hear em talk Any time no matter how long, don’t die, celebrate 🏳️🌈
It’s like when you’re chatting with friends and suddenly realize it’s 3 am
“Are you 30 trying to look 16, where is your husband?” 😂 oh my godd
"when we get to our third baby and we stop caring we'll call it ALDI" i'm DEAD LOL
it’s funny because I have a friend called Aldi
Flora Butterfly NOOOO OMG 💀😂
it's funny bc i have a lil bro named aldi O.o
Isn't Rose the third child?
I wonder what Aldi means
OMG I COULD CRY AT ROSE’S SMILE WHEN ROSIE SAID IM SO IN LOVE WITH YOU
When? :)
@@jules4349 33:36
@@finnkyrie4569 thank you so much
@@jules4349 No prob
@@finnkyrie4569 My hero
I hate that Rosie feels like that. It makes my heart sad, she’s so precious❤️
Me too 😐
Sounds relative. I feel for her. I don't have kids and I don't want any. But if I were pregnant today, I would freakin FLIP OUT. I'd be scared shitless. Rosie's role will have to help Rose while she's pregnant.
Rosie, it saddens me everytime you call yourself stupid. In my opinion unique thoughts and perspective are often thought of as stupid, because they are different. Unique perspectives should be embraced. You're going to be a fantastic mother, screw the jerks that question your role cause it's not what their lane brains expected.
Rose: who's starting 2020 with an identity crisis? Raise your hand!
Omg I've never raised my hand faster in my life loll
I want to see what happens when Rose says this is my baby during an argument
Literally same aha aha...
🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️
I'm gonna raise my hands again lol 😼🖐️
33:37 rose’s sudden smile while Rosie explain how inlove she is with her. Is what I live for daily watching your videos
HOW IN HELL is it possible that rose and rosie look even more beautiful through the years i-
cazzie• women tend to glow up in their thirties I’ve noticed. Like Tegan and Sara in their thirties vs in their twenties is the first thing I think of of course 😍😂
UtopianPhantom yess you're right, i really hope it happens to me when i'm older lmao
cazzie• I’m only early twenties. Let’s hope together 🤞
I look way better at 24 then i did when i was 18 so it can happen
eva m yayy i still have a chance
The next title of Rose and Rosie’s book:
Overthink
Mari Diaz Montoya underrated
rose: we're rich
rosie: im selling stuff on ebay
Macey Winter hahahahhaha
😭😭
Using gender roles because that is the language we currently have for this sort of situation.
Rosie, it really does seem like you are having the daddy blues but once you see that baby you will know your place.
I am a lesbian who would love to have kids but has never had the urge to give birth myself. So the way I see my role being is the super supportive "father", the person who gets to run to the grocery store for ice cream and pickles because my wife is craving weird shit at 3 am! I get to be the person my wife looks at when you see the ultrasound for the first time. I get to be the one who holds her hair back when she's got morning sickness and hold her hand as she gives birth to our child!
That will be so rewarding! And it sounds like you have plans to give birth to a baby yourself so then the roles can be switched and you both will get to experience both sides of parenthood! That's something heteronormative (I'm not sure that's the correct word) couples don't get to experience.
Thank you for airing your concerns, it really does matter!
This was the most touching thing I've read on gay RUclips today 😢
So I can speak candidly about this. My wife and I wanted to start the “BABY” journey about a year back.
My wife had a hysterectomy and I would be the only one caring, unfortunately I have PCOS & Endometriosis.
My wife, even through her excitement, had that same “envy” while we were researching about getting pregnant & the attention that she wanted at one point as well was now in me. All I can say is, my wife felt the same heartbreak when we found out our difficult it would be for us to become parents. Not because she was sad just for her, but because her wife was hurting.
It also is also so important to remember, Rosie you are STILL that baby’s parent. You are going to have such a special relationship with them that if someone comes up to you with your child in your arms you would simply say, “my wife and I just had a baby. Rose is feeling better after delivery!” The same way my wife says “we’re battling infertility”. It’s our struggle, not just mine. That’s y’all baby, not just Roses.
Being raised by hetero-standards and having those stereotypes in our mind, it makes us question the judgements and thoughts of others. People are dicks. That’s it. We’re the trailblazers for those so they know they can break away from that ideology.
Y’all will be amazing parents. You, Rosie will be so happy to see your wife have y’all’s child & I PROMISE, the thought of “not biologically mine” will not be something you think or say.
My wife looks more fem then me, I’m more masculine and I started thinking during our first IVF, do I need to grow my hair and wear skirts again. Fuck that. Our child will know their Mom and Mama for who they are.
You and Rose will find this part of your life. Unfortunately my wife and I have a infertility struggle before a baby comes, but I get the thoughts and battles you are faced with. I wish you both the best in 2020. Y’all got this.
"Fuck that. Our child will know their Mom and Mama for who they are." YES!! Word!
This just gave me goosebumps. Thanks so much for sharing! ♥♥♥ I wish you the best! ♥
sheuphorica thank you!
“And when we stop caring we can just call the third Aldi” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 i CRYINGGG
“When you know yourself...”
It’s only yourself you have to answer to..for..to 😂
16:23 Missed that quote so much! Glad Rose brought it back (Rosie seems not to get it actually!). And in what appropriate moment...
Such a freakin' throwback
"i need you to be strong for me while i go through nothing" --ROSIE
As someone who will be going through this with my wife this year, this is so relevant to us so thank you for putting yourself out there & being relatable to us and I'm sure others. ☺️
Omg let's just dress like Shane, drink in the day then race our babies!
The low cut pants and short tight top 😂😂😂
🤣🤣 You ladies are thinking way to much into it. You will love your children and the circumstances that bring them into the world will not matter. Period.
And people are nosy, they will ask questions but it doesn’t matter. Your kids will matter most. ❤️
Living Rosa I’ve been watching for years and love you guys
My tired eyes read "circumcision" instead of "circumstances"
I think true parenting is when you raise your child with all the love and compassion that you can give not necessarily being the biological parent
I couldn't agree more, especially since Rosie is such a caring person. Breaks my heart that she feels this way.
@@daf. Same ☹️
Yup, it's the basis of all healthy adoptive families.
"my role is not only the mommy but also the daddy."
"tHAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN YOUR ROLE!"
*didn’t even realize there was a problem to begin with lol*
neither lmao
This is something that literally EVERY parent goes through in one shape or another. Theirs is just in front of a camera.
@aven 7604 Alas, that's to be expected because we were, most of us, raised in a hetero normative environment. It's up to each individual to work out how they fit into a child's life, outside of the steretypical hetero normative standards. I guess that's what I meant by "EVERY" parent goes through this, because even if they were a mother and a father (unless they decided to fully buy into hetero normative roles) they would at some point still be having discussions similar to the one they are having now.
It's not exactly the same each time, but becoming a parent almost always drives a person into an identity crisis, regardless of gender, sex, or sexual orientation.
@aven 7604 Ah I see what you mean. I was approaching it from the expectant parents perspective.
Honestly, it's pretty much the same for those asking. If you'll notice, they're asking the same questions that Rosie is asking herself, because of the environment we live in and the things we've been used to seeing.
The only thing some of those people are actively doing wrong is purporting to know the answers to these questions, instead of backing off and realising that we all have much to learn about pretty much every fucking thing ever.
@aven 7604 I completely agree with that. My goodness, this has been a lovely conversation. Happy new year! Hope your 2020 goes as smoothly as possible.
rose’s little smile when rosie said “and i’m so in love with you”🥺🥺 was the CUTEST thing (33:37)
Rosie you will excel as a mother, you’re not just the “other” mother! Yeah hope you can just revel in it and enjoy each other
"everyone cries at 30" should be a book
I never knew a simple word like ‘uncut’ could make me so happy
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When Rose was talking about fearing loss cause she’s never experienced it, I related so much honestly it’s the exact same for me.
Saaaame 😭
Watching this in may and when she said that i internally screamed
Is it weird that i have worried..not worried..scared about losing my parents to old age since i was what..12-13 years old? Yeah..i am weird..
"Everyone cries at 30"
Me: Especially Joey Tribbiani
And Rachel too
Ehh. Rose, Joey, what's the difference?
Wait till 40. The 30s were fun.
honestly though I've cried every birthday since I was eleven so...i'm ready for it
34:17 when Rosie realised that her stepdad cared for her even though he was not her dad. I love that moment when you realize something you never really thought of before. It's like your seeing it in a different perspective. Anyway, I love the video and you guys will be great parents ❤❤😊
Kenz Kenz it was a reference to how she’s now estranged from her stepdad
Her step dad is a dick in the words of rose "shade kevin"
She actually just remembered that her stepdad ended up leaving, but not before cheating...
No, that's a face of deep realisation
He left her, that is whaat she realises🥺🤷🏻♀️
Can't she do what most men do and go around saying we're pregnant and gain dad weight
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That smile on Rose’s face when Rosie says how in love with her she is... Moments like those are why I absolutely adore these uncut videos sooo much❤️ I love seeing Rose so soft x
“When we get to our third baby when we stop caring we’ll just call it Aldi” Pissing myself and Rosie didn’t even flinch 😂😂😂😂
Shared thoughts from my therapist: bad parents never worry about being good parents. You're going to be great!
I thought Wilma’s growling noises was my stomach and was shocked that rose looked as if she heard it 😂😂😂😂
I thought there was an animal in my living room and I paused it took out my earphones and looked for it 🤣🤣
I thought the exact same thing! 😂
Marah Abd sameeee even though I literally just ate lmao
At first I thought it was Aisha
so sad to watch this after their recent events
always remember
blue skies, good times ahead
I do feel it
can’t wait to meet Gucci, Balenciaga and Aldi.
Did anyone else think at 16:24 Rose was going to say “When you know yourself, it’s only yourself you have to answer to...for...to”. ?
Once the baby is here. It wont matter who gave birth. It will be YOUR baby.
Rosie I'm going through a similar thing. My girlfriend of 7 years is 2 months pregnant. The way I see it is that even though I wont be carrying the baby I will still be involved the whole way. Go to every appointment and support your partner with that ever she needs. People will always asked ignorant questions and be judgmental but at the end of the day you have to live your own life and do what makes you happy.
“I’m in love with you, I want to see a baby that’s yours”.
omfg i’m crying why am i like this
I know this was a while ago but my parents are both women and one carried me and one carried my sister so its very similar to your situation and it feels no different at all, they are both amazing parents so don't worry too much xx
Rose: there are a lot of stupid people out there
Rosie: me
Rosie, don't ever say that. It breaks my heart 😭
I really thought that when Rose said "when you know yourself" that she was going to follow that with 'it's only yourself you have to answer to for to' haha
ME TOO!!! 😂😂😂
Rosie: “Should we call our baby bianca?”
Rose: “What’s wrong with you??!”
“It’s okay to have an identity crisis, and dress like shane.”
😂😂 #Problematicin2020
I wonder why rose react on the name bianca. May you explain it. Just a newbie hehe
"I need you to be strong for me while I go through nothing" 😂😂
"...nothing wrong with taking the next step to becoming a lesbian from being bisexual" ahaha
And that's the tea sis
I got pretty triggered as a bisexual tho 😂 not even gonna lie
@@francescacappai2652 when it's a joke and you know it but you can hear past discourse you had with assholes XD
The openness and honesty here is very inspiring. There is so much love and understanding between you two. Sending you love and well wishes on this new chapter in your lives.
As a 31 year old - I COMPLETELY RELATE TO ROSE lol
Hot AND precious? Lucky you 😏
Rose and Rosie if only I had a wife to match, life would be perfect 👌🏼 I hear Shannon and Cammie are single, and waiting ever so long for one of them to hit me up 😏😂
Same
you know what rosie doesn't get enough credit for how naturally funny she is
What funny she do?
I only discovered these 2 this week with a random youtube recommendation, and I feel a little annoyed it is so late in the piece. Their humour is great, but I've found their relationship to be so charming it is like an anti-depressant.
i'd take a rose & rosie honesty hour over a prank compilation any day???
Rose: "When you know yourself...."
Me:" then you only have to answer to yourself"
Nathan Zylbermann to from to..
Iconic!
Can we just talk about how it isn’t different at all. It still feels like I’m sitting down with them on the couch and having a conversation (hehe)
When Rosie talks about wanting a baby with Rose amd saying how in love she is, Rose's face just lit up with a smile. So cute!
“I can’t be bossed around by anybody, because I am Bette Porter, and a natural leader/ man/ top (pause looks at Rosie) sorry.” - Major Bette and Tina vibes in this video lol
"The jokes were only funny when we had money Rose " is this the most poetic thing I've ever heard ??!
As a 19 year old bi gal this means sooo much to me. Its honestly hard to describe. Getting representation when you're used to the absence of it is like healing a wound you didnt know u had. Cheesy I knowww but thanks 💓
I got extreme chills when I "realized" this is like serious, they're actually getting a baby this year
Starting and trying does not mean getting a 2020 baby
Even that might take a while. Better not put too much pressure on the whole thing...
Aino A RAT BABY
Love how ok Rosie is when rose checks if it’s still recording every 5 minutes. I really admire that
"It's the end of the teen years"
me being born in 2000, currently 19, my last teen year.... will end this decade being 30....
yep I'm totally fine
Aha Same here born in 2000 can't believe I'm gonna be 20 soon feels unreal
Also born in 2000 and I turn 20 tomorrow. Definitely not prepared to actually be an adult
Holy shit me too im turning 20 in february and still havent kissed a girl so thats my goal before i turn 20 ill let u know how it goes
I envy you, Century Babies are lucky. You know you are a 100years younger than Dr. Indiana Jones.
Life only gets better as you get older. Promise. Just enjoy every year :)
“ i need you to be strong for me when I go through nothing” -story of my life
This is eerily similar to my mums, one was bi like Rosie, the other is a older lesbian like Rose (their age gap was way bigger) she's my bio mum but it is absolutely crazy. its like watching my mums go through the process of having me bc its all the same like doner kid, no egg swapping. Cant beleive I only just found you guys!
“Daddy with a DIY”
I legitimately thought you said Daddy with a DUI for a full minute until I realized...
I thought so too for a second, she's just like my dad!
“You don’t have to be biologically related to someone to love and nurture... I’m not related to the dog!” Had me giggling in bed at 12am
society has put it in our minds how our lives should be by a certain age.
ohhh yeah
And what they say is, of course, completely wrong and just makes people feel like they're perpetually 5-10 years behind """schedule."""
"don't talk about hets" -Rose, 2020
Rosie, you're gonna be the Mum when Rose has the baby, and the Mummy when you have the baby. It's still your baby, of course, no "but"s.
It is really comforting to hear that other people, especially you guys who seem so together and self confident have times of self doubt . I came out at 40 and am still struggling with working out who I am. I had 3 children with my (now ex) husband and these kinds of issues were present then too. Changing from a wife to a mother and having someone in your life who is more important than either of you is tough and you are right to talk about it. It is natural to worry. You guys are open with each other and you clearly talk it all out. You’re going to be fine. Thank you for showing us that having the occasional life crisis is normal x
Next book title: Everybody cries at 30
Each cells in Rosie’s body is made of LOVE ♥️ i believe Rosie’s gonna love their babies ‘till death! Their babies gonna build between their passions + love & they already changed so many lives! Sometimes in life we just push through to it & everthying gonna be alright. Some changes might drive you insane but its all gonna work out someday ♥️ and stop saying you’re old, i’m 36 and still single! Well... what a life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just want to give Rosie a big hug for feeling that way. it hurts my heart so much.
Same.. i just want to cry🥺🥺😭😭
I'm speaking as the future 'Other mother' and also hit that dreaded age of 30 in 2019 too. 😂
We have sadly just miscarried in the last month BUT it's normal to freak out. I had so many feelings around it.
The panic of being the only 'Non-biological' parent.
Knowing I would love the child but would I be seen as that child's parent.
I mean I could go on, the point is it sends you into a frenzy of feelings, which are hard and scary!
What I can say is though, when your wife / partner comes to you with that positive pregnancy test, it's scary BUT there is also an overwhelming sense of love..for your partner and the life she's growing.
I have SO much respect for my wife since we started this journey!
I don't know either of you, I watch your videos but what you portray shows love, strength and support. You're gonna smash it! Both of you! 😊
Ps. Sorry for the absolutely novel.
I loved rose's little in love smiles Inbetween the ruthless teasing and laughing at Rosie while she's rambling. it's so cute
When Wilma started barking I thought it was my stomach rumbling LOOOL
"2020 identity crisis??"
Me: relate
PS: Been watching you since 2012. And now watching and hearing you guys planning to have your own family makes me so proud and happy. And will always be here to see and support you grow with your beautiful journey. 😊IM SO.PROUD OF YOU GUYS
This whole convo goes perfectly with the blue and pink tops.
Les confess is my favourite series, the uncut series is my 2nd favourite... who’s up for an uncut les confess?
My sister passed away 7 months ago she was 20. I’m 23 years old with no kids of my own prior and stepped up to raise her son who’s 2 1/2 years old. She passed from her drug addiction so I’ve been coparenting him with my parents since he was 6 months old. Since she’s passed something changed in my heart. She’s not going to recover because she’s not here anymore and he needs me. He’s my first born child. I worship him. I just sit around a cry if I think about how much I love him for too long. He’s got big blue eyes and a head full of blonde curls and he’s so sociable with strangers that I’m always asked about MY son by strangers. That puts me in an awkward position because he’s not really my son he’s my sister’s who’s no longer here but he is my son and I end up stumbling through trying to explain myself which is honestly painful for me to rehash my sister’s death everyday. A part of me still feels the need to explain but the people who know don’t ask and the people who ask don’t need to know. You’re not obligated to explain yourself or personal situation to strangers. You don’t owe them an explanation. Canaan calls me Mommy and I tell him about his mother and that’s all that matters.
When rosie asked “should we name our baby, bianca?” ...
I was like “hell naaahhh. I’ve been watching y’all since 2014 and you’re gonna end up naming your future baby after my first relationship with a girl who broke my heart into million pieces???!?!”
OML THANK YOU ROSE FOR NOT AGREEING 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 GUCCI IS BETTER 😊😂😆
It’s at 14:36
I love that in the last video I watched Rosie was talking about how she wanted that VS pink hoodie and Rose didn’t think she needed it but now she’s got it- now THAT is love 😂
Haven't even gotten to one minute yet, but just wanted to say that I love how different is the pace of uncut videos! I sort of get even more the feeling of how it would be to actually know/have a conversation with them in person.
"I dont care if my genes are in them, its gonna get my heart" -Shane Dawson. I love this quote so much, I hope it you'll like it too :) Its when Shane and Ryland are talking about how to get a baby, who would be the donor.
If this is any consolation I am the child of lesbian parents via sperm donor (no egg swapping or other fancy shit; one of my moms had me and the other mom had my brother) and I never thought of my moms as being any different from each other in terms of my relationships to/with them. Being biologically related to a parent has never mattered with me and my moms; what has mattered is how each of my moms has raised me and cared for me. Basically, you are your kid's parent through your actions, not your genetics.
Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤🌈🌈🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Rose, I need to know with urgency where I can get that fluffy jumper you have on 🙏🏻
Victoria Secret SALES 🙌🏻
I recommend you checking out Sam's and Alyssa's chanell. They had gone through similar experiences. And have a bunch of videos about having a baby as a lesbian couple, about feeling connected to the baby as not biological parent etc.
I think it would be really helpful.
Avery is a cutie btw
Yes! They need to watch Sam&Alyssa's videos
I was going to say this!!
rose smiling when rosie says how much she loves her 🥺
Why did my heart flutter when Rosie said she was in love with Rose?🥰🥰🥰 I know this already but it was so sweet and honest and intensified by the uncut series!
They do such an amazing job of never getting annoyed when they interrupt each other 😂 They both do it a decent amount and the other just immediately stops and listens. I can see why their relationship is so successful. Respect and the ability to listen is so important! 💕
When you know yourself, it’s only yourself you have to answer to…for…to.