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  • Опубликовано: 21 июн 2022
  • What is The Break-Up (2006) about?
    After two years together, Gary (Vince Vaughn) and Brooke's (Jennifer Aniston) relationship seems to have taken a comical wrong turn on the way to happily ever after. Now the break-up is on, the lines have been drawn, and their honest feelings for each other are coming out. Get ready for an all-out war of the exes in this fun date movie that's hilarious and heartfelt.
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  • @x1985
    @x1985 Год назад +2500

    When I was younger, I wished Brooke gave him another chance. Now I'm 36 and I've been in her shoes. Sometimes you pour your whole heart into someone and they still don't "get it" until it's too late. Gary is saying all the right things, but I doubt he would follow through with his promises in the long term.

    • @izzypfutzenreuter
      @izzypfutzenreuter Год назад +139

      He wouldn’t.

    • @adaj472
      @adaj472 Год назад +199

      Maybe he would, maybe he wouldn’t. But the point is, Brook couldn’t know and, justifiably, wasn’t willing to take the leap again. Still felt bad for Gary, but sometimes you need that realization. So you can learn for future relationships.

    • @Limitless1424
      @Limitless1424 Год назад +9

      Amen

    • @fawadahmedshaikh9893
      @fawadahmedshaikh9893 Год назад

      I ws 11 wn D's came out. Now im older

    • @TheIceWatkins
      @TheIceWatkins Год назад +58

      I actually think the point is that he would, but the damage has been done and it's too late.

  • @houchi69
    @houchi69 Год назад +1847

    "I don't think I have anything left to give."
    Probably one of the most painful thing to hear from someone you love.

    • @mikeyg5669
      @mikeyg5669 Год назад +18

      Just heard it yesterday bro. Cheers to trying to move on and start over. I’ll always love you…

    • @matthewgongon4514
      @matthewgongon4514 Год назад +4

      Just their voice is painful. Eventually it ends.

    • @ritasnow8319
      @ritasnow8319 Год назад +4

      But you can start over with a person that you know is good, and is sorry. You don't need to run out and date somebody new. Just start over.

    • @oeheaven
      @oeheaven 4 месяца назад +3

      yes but your always left with their ghosts.

    • @kazzityangel
      @kazzityangel 2 месяца назад

      @@ritasnow8319 Nope! People like him need to lose as in really lose to realised what this can cost them. He'll be better in his next relationship for sure but after that kinda of hurt there is no going back and starting over.

  • @Odiekins
    @Odiekins Год назад +1166

    He finally got her flowers 😢
    But he still says, “This has been really tough on ME. The first Sunday after ME and you broke up.” He’s still putting himself first.

    • @sabrinashelton1997
      @sabrinashelton1997 Год назад +67

      Oh good grief, give me a break. Anything looks bad under a microscope. If you are dealing with someone as impossible to please as you seem to be, nothing will ever be enough.

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins Год назад

      @@sabrinashelton1997 haha you know nothing about me. It would appear as though you are much like Gary: a narcissistic LAZY taker of the relationship. Get a grip, Sweetheart 🤍

    • @bigrivtodagled8210
      @bigrivtodagled8210 11 месяцев назад +105

      ⁠@@sabrinashelton1997​​⁠no, I think the writers wanted to give the impression that he was willing to change but he still needed to work on himself hence the “ME,”, he said it several times and Brooke was written in a way that she understood he wasn’t ready yet and he wasn’t, he needed more time on his own, to reflect and make real changes.

    • @bear6699
      @bear6699 11 месяцев назад +33

      @@sabrinashelton1997sabrina 3:56 you are free to date losers and be okay with it. nobody is stopping you! live your saddest life girly !

    • @sabrinashelton1997
      @sabrinashelton1997 11 месяцев назад +14

      @@bear6699 Ma'am/Sir, I have been married almost 20 years and have 9 children. And my life is just dandy. I don't see this person as a loser, but you go on and live your most judgmental life and see how sad it turns out to be.

  • @laurenhayes564
    @laurenhayes564 Год назад +522

    “You left me, and it hit me you were really leaving, and then I felt bad when you cried, so now I made you a single meal.”

    • @AlliandoX
      @AlliandoX 11 месяцев назад +24

      Hardly a meal is that one tiny plate

    • @kimdavis5403
      @kimdavis5403 7 месяцев назад +2

      😂

    • @koolaidman6251
      @koolaidman6251 7 месяцев назад

      Typical loser guy. "I waited for years of you asking and begging me to do better. I criticized and whined and did nothing during those years. And then when you finally left, I realized "Oh no! Who is going to do my laundry?!" and I grudgingly got you flowers. Now, I expect you to throw me a parade for doing one teeny tiny, lousy thing."

  • @inchwormentertainment780
    @inchwormentertainment780 Год назад +467

    It took for his friend to set him straight. Even though she was so clear about her feelings. It’s way too late. It’s a shame. I’m glad she didn’t go back.

    • @mrsperfectlyfine450
      @mrsperfectlyfine450 Год назад +61

      SUCH a good point. his friend had to spell it out for him to understand it. their friends’ opinions/thoughts/words hold more weight their partner’s.

    • @user-zc4sr1to6m
      @user-zc4sr1to6m 9 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly! It was his friend’s speech after my husband started doing something that I suggested him to do in the first place!

    • @inchwormentertainment780
      @inchwormentertainment780 9 месяцев назад +17

      @@user-zc4sr1to6m I know it’s just a movie, but thank God he was actually brave enough to tell him the truth and hold him accountable. That is extremely rare with male friends.

    • @kennyp1477
      @kennyp1477 6 месяцев назад +7

      Yes! The comment I was lookin for. Even her crying in the bedroom didn't gut punch him til his friend told him we don't see a baseball game unless it's ur team playing mine. THEN he got it.

    • @davidcook680
      @davidcook680 5 месяцев назад +5

      Her not going back. Finalized his growth. If she had come back. He would have eventually went back to his old way. Now that he truly lost he can change.

  • @Nitephall
    @Nitephall Год назад +332

    I gotta give the guy credit for trying but there's something about his delivery that doesn't come across as 100% genuine. He seems completely clueless. He spews all these words but he just doesn't get this relationship thing. Excellent acting from both of them.

    • @Ihatedayslikethis1
      @Ihatedayslikethis1 Год назад +82

      Yep. His words are the last ditch effort to not lose her but he doesn't feel them. Once she's back, everything will be the same again.

    • @tysanpagz4311
      @tysanpagz4311 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @deerheart87
      @deerheart87 Год назад +6

      @@Ihatedayslikethis1 absolutely and very quickly

    • @shirin9452
      @shirin9452 Год назад +16

      @@Ihatedayslikethis1 the thing is he does feel them, I believe. But he needed to listen to her years ago, not just feel things. He needed to just hear her where she is, not do things hoping to make her happy. And that’s the tragedy because he would really believe that he was going to do whatever she needed, but it’s clear he would never be able to listen to her

  • @alextran6441
    @alextran6441 Год назад +962

    Though this scene is very painful, I think she made a right decision.
    He didn’t know she still care about him so much after the breakup. He didn’t want to go to the ballet with her, because ballet is not his fav. But he wanted her to go everywhere he likes, never cares about whether she likes it or not.
    When she was waiting for him at the concert, and about to cry cause he did not show up. I think she has made the decision to end with him. He destroyed his last chance with shallow thoughts

    • @hansoloburger2322
      @hansoloburger2322 Год назад +10

      So she knows he hates the ballet right? “You know I hate the ballet” Did she communicate that she hates going to sport games with him? Where did he meet her? I get it give an take one of the differences between men an woman a man doesn’t care or want you to come to something you hate well do it on our own or go with friends woman will want/try to make a man do something they hate

    • @hansoloburger2322
      @hansoloburger2322 Год назад +1

      @Steve Gonzales maybe it was the dating other guys part ?

    • @raymeester7883
      @raymeester7883 Год назад +6

      She did.

    • @numi6810
      @numi6810 Год назад +12

      Although you ignore things at beginning but on the long term it eats your soul up and the other person still doesn't get it . If the other person also doesn't put the work it 's a red flag and run from it

    • @scrappymom7881
      @scrappymom7881 Год назад +31

      ​@Han Solo burger but that's the whole point of being together. It's not all about you, it's about the other person just as much. It's impossible to be a happy, supportive couple and only do things one of you wants to do. Sometimes you have to do something you don't like simply to make your partner happy. And it's not because they told you to, not because you're being forced to. It's because you love them enough to choose their happiness over your own for one evening a month. That's not asking a lot. Women tend to make this kind of sacrifice without even thinking about it, which is what she had been doing. But he wasn't, and not only that, but when she did ask him for support, he would come up with every excuse just so he didn't have to do anything that made him the slightest bit unhappy. That's where he failed her and lost her.

  • @michtig
    @michtig Год назад +879

    It's unfortunate how many great women fall in love with a dude's potential and suffer through the real dude hoping that one day they'll match the quality of love they pour onto them. Women, stop falling in love with the imaginary potential of a man.

    • @hansoloburger2322
      @hansoloburger2322 Год назад +10

      Did you purposely say great woman then refer to men as dudes? So the moral of your story is find somebody you love for them not what you can make them?

    • @l7weenie273
      @l7weenie273 Год назад +9

      You could not have worded this better! Awesome and so true

    • @therealjcon
      @therealjcon Год назад +6

      Goes both ways

    • @michaelscott9995
      @michaelscott9995 Год назад +26

      It’s also unfortunate how many great men fall in love with a chic’s potential and suffer through the real girl.. This activity goes equally both ways.. It’s not a man or women thing.. It’s a relationship thing.. there are millions of broken hearts shared equally by men and woman.

    • @aidanneilson2866
      @aidanneilson2866 Год назад +4

      @@michaelscott9995 yes! thank u

  • @yolandaponkers1581
    @yolandaponkers1581 10 месяцев назад +406

    The way she said, “I don’t feel the same way” was sheer perfection. I just love this scene and I love that she stood up for herself here.

    • @Squatch24
      @Squatch24 Месяц назад

      "Stood up for herself" how? She was the gaslighter and manipulator in the entire relationship. This is the abuser lashing out for one final time at her victim. She is a disgusting person.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 Год назад +320

    Here's a classic example of being a day late and a dollar short. And I think the moral of this movie is if you're genuinely interested in trying to fix things with someone, and this applies to both men and women, don't play childish mind-games, but rather be sincere with what you say, and back it up through appropriate action.

    • @Squatch24
      @Squatch24 Месяц назад

      If only she did that at the start. Instead she played childish games and instigated a million arguments to self destruct the relationship. Children will be children, i guess.

  • @trevorsantora7741
    @trevorsantora7741 Год назад +1002

    This movie, and especially this scene, is so accurate. They def had male and female writers. Men always realize way too late, and women give, give, and give, until they run out and have nothing left. Its so sad.

    • @roddaman7545
      @roddaman7545 Год назад +17

      Riiight. You should see what happens when the guy gives and gives, gives away, gives in, then gives up. I think women WANT the selfish boors, so they can resent them.

    • @matjazsparas7286
      @matjazsparas7286 Год назад +12

      That’s a very narrow view lol. Get real.

    • @isaacvega8310
      @isaacvega8310 Год назад +23

      Dont generalize, that street goes both ways

    • @xelaolive4181
      @xelaolive4181 Год назад +5

      So refreshing to hear this

    • @kunalroy6848
      @kunalroy6848 Год назад +24

      You’re one of the rare men who will own up rather than defensively manipulate and throw revenge hate.

  • @brendamiller6334
    @brendamiller6334 Год назад +575

    She has so much strength in this scene. I would have fell right back
    into "the trap"!😟

    • @brendamiller6334
      @brendamiller6334 Год назад +49

      @Steve Gonzales i understand. This movie hits home very hard for me, although Gary is sincere, my ex was not. I had to learn the hard way,, and that took me 21 years to finally walk away. It was the hardest thing i have ever done in my enrire life. It scars you. When Brooke is crying in her room, its so painful to watch and reminds me of my entire marriage. I am glad u said what u did. I need to realize that all men aren't like my ex. Your words were helpful. Thank you!

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins Год назад +74

      @Steve Gonzales men often “fix things” for about two wks and then revert back to their same old things.

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins Год назад +8

      @Steve Gonzales that happens a lot I think, where one person checks out. And I think when that happens, there’s not much that can be done 😕
      People shouldn’t have to change so drastically for one another though. And I like to think there is someone out there for everyone 🙏🏼

    • @adaharrisonn
      @adaharrisonn Год назад +11

      @Steve Gonzales it is a trap though. If you've already been fully wronged beyond repair by someone, even the most sincere apology and intent to change is an unfair thing to sign back up for again and there's really not much of a choice but for you to try to prove yourself to someone else. It sucks when they really do want to learn from their mistakes. But no one learns instantly, and usually by that point the other partner is beyond tired of hand holding the learning process.

    • @kordei-7839
      @kordei-7839 Год назад +3

      @@Odiekins It’s not just men who do that. Any gender can do that because they can’t stop their habits. This is who he is and he can’t change it even if he says it so it was wise for her to leave.

  • @myBquest
    @myBquest Год назад +81

    It's crazy how men here believe the woman was wrong. He practically behaves like a teenager that needs orders from his mother.
    This is not his mother. Is his partner.
    She stated every single time what she wanted from him, what she needed. They both worked, and still she was the one coming home and doing all the work for him like she actually was his mother.
    And men still get the "say how you feel" card out.
    SERIOUSLY?
    HAVE YOU EVEN SEEN THE MOVIE?
    I mean it. Did you pay attention?
    And to the mothers and fathers here, raise your kids, all of them, to be independent from anyone in any form. They will appreciate it when they get older.

  • @sukma5277
    @sukma5277 Год назад +415

    Its to late for him ,the damage have been done, the best scene from the movie ,

    • @hanatirk4375
      @hanatirk4375 Год назад +28

      I was so happy when she moved out.

    • @janetduncan87
      @janetduncan87 Год назад +10

      @@hanatirk4375 Yup, so was I. Moral of the story, don't take for granted the person who loves you. You just may end up being alone.

    • @jack9313
      @jack9313 Год назад +2

      worked out great for him too that makes me the most happy

    • @bkit5
      @bkit5 Год назад +2

      @@jack9313 In the end they hinted they will get back together case she was impressed he matured up and they said they will catch up soon.

    • @jack9313
      @jack9313 Год назад +4

      @@bkit5 actually watched Vince Vaughn's interview and he said that he made the ending in such a way that it was left to the viewers to decide whether they get back together or not. So it works both ways to those that don't want them to move on and those that want them to be a couple again.

  • @zoeevans6410
    @zoeevans6410 6 месяцев назад +58

    Wow - begrudgingly offering to go to the ballet - what a hero.

  • @kittiefloyd
    @kittiefloyd 10 месяцев назад +30

    im glad she didnt get back with him, people never change!! he was going to be the same old himself after 3-4 months again

  • @TheEyeSeesAll
    @TheEyeSeesAll Год назад +120

    This speech reminds me of my ex. After they disrespect you to the core of your being and you get the self respect to leave, they apologize with a bunch of “I” centered examples. “I miss you. I want you to be in MY life. I can’t live without you. I will sacrifice doing things I like because I want you back in MY life.” Alignment and principle is what makes a good relationship. If someone isn’t naturally being who you want to be with, let them go. This is too real and too obnoxious.

  • @salsasoul4112
    @salsasoul4112 Год назад +241

    I love how strong and decisive she is in this scene ❤

  • @louisademetrio4408
    @louisademetrio4408 Год назад +87

    "I don't have anything to Give"... That's when you've reached your limit and there's no going back! Those who just "Take" without Giving only realise when it's too late!!!

  • @jacattac4
    @jacattac4 Год назад +443

    I used to watch this movie in the background as a kid. I never understood why these two adults couldn't just make up and live a happy life. After living through a serious relationship similar to this one, I get it now. I'm 24 going on 25 this month and I finally get it. You find yourself years into a relationship struggling to keep the butterflies and compromises once promised. Whenever people say marriage and relationships take work, they mean this! It's ensuring that your foundation from the beginning is sturdy and then keeping the house you built together standing strong.

    • @rudiaguswidono5450
      @rudiaguswidono5450 Год назад +1

      I still don't see why you couldn't understand each other. You just have to put yourself in other shoes. If you cannot do that, then you are selfish, narssistic human being. It is pretty simple.

    • @JigsawKilla2
      @JigsawKilla2 Год назад +1

      You should consider yourself lucky. I am 30 and living with Aspergers Syndrome (a mild case) and have never had a girlfriend in my life. It is a very hard thing psychologically to deal with when I see everyone around me my age getting married and or dating someone knowing that I am at such a disadvantage.

    • @JigsawKilla2
      @JigsawKilla2 Год назад +1

      @@johnxina1323 Thank you Mr. Xina.

    • @jacattac4
      @jacattac4 Год назад +2

      @@rudiaguswidono5450 I was referring to when I was a child lol calm down

    • @jeffl1484
      @jeffl1484 Год назад +1

      You're still young, but there's experience there that will still carry on well into your older years. Good luck.

  • @harrisshob5819
    @harrisshob5819 Год назад +106

    I have cried to times in front of my husband in 15 years. The first time he got mad at me and walked away, the second he had no reaction and walked away. I knew at that moment he didn’t love me. I rarely asked for emotional support and when I needed it he bailed.

    • @laurencampbell3320
      @laurencampbell3320 11 месяцев назад +7

      You deserve better than that

    • @poulomi__hari
      @poulomi__hari 11 месяцев назад +1

      Why are you with him then?

    • @harrisshob5819
      @harrisshob5819 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@poulomi__hari i gets i just dont want to jump from the frying pan into the fire. if i have to date again at 40 with kids… it would be 100%harder.. i would have start over in home, then worry about pedophiles using me, then worry about the narcisist that acts nice but really is masking it, or have to spend 3 years with a man that ultimately will do the same thing in the end. i know why some women stay single.

    • @yt-sh
      @yt-sh 8 месяцев назад

      @@harrisshob5819 its something called avoidant attachment type I think, google about it, might help or better yet talk to a professional for advice

    • @Saki_Ramen
      @Saki_Ramen 7 месяцев назад +1

      He doesn’t deserve you. It’s not fair to you that you don’t get the treatment and the emotional comfort you need and WANTING him to be there for you. If he can’t do that for you, then let him go. Harsh but if someone can’t put the energy to do something for you or at least work as a team, then he’s not the person worth spending energy to. Find your happiness elsewhere rather than the place where you first found it

  • @bergercookie
    @bergercookie Год назад +789

    Typical dude that doesn’t appreciate what he has till it’s gone. By the time most men catch up emotionally, we’ve had to let go of everything we’ve felt to survive the heartbreak. We had no choice bc all trying has completely damaged our capabilities.

    • @aboutmillions
      @aboutmillions Год назад +46

      Or maybe just maybe learn to communicate better? Women love playing victim in relationships but y'all are awful communicators. Sometimes a direct conversation would go a long way but y'all would rather say something in passing or in a round about way. Then get mad when nothing changes, maybe you should view your own actions and not blame the guy all the time?

    • @yafayafa9601
      @yafayafa9601 Год назад +49

      @@aboutmillions Have u watched this movie, actually?

    • @mtbiker4life918
      @mtbiker4life918 Год назад

      Typical woman who loves her man...oh..wait a minute...never mind this is Hollywood. Women are to busy twerking in Instagram.

    • @lesliegonzalez2858
      @lesliegonzalez2858 Год назад +2

      @@aboutmillions Yessssss very accurate

    • @irinakarlstein
      @irinakarlstein Год назад +55

      @@aboutmillions except when we do communicate and the guy still doesnt do the things we ask of...then are we still at fault?

  • @anastasiaguerra3672
    @anastasiaguerra3672 7 месяцев назад +16

    I went through the exact same thing. Same dynamic. Years and years begging for him to see me and to show the bare minimum consistency and affection. Guess what? After I finally left, he blamed me for leaving and was too proud to try to get me back. You can never win with these people. They'll never learn. Leave and don't look back.

  • @sheteg1
    @sheteg1 Год назад +253

    After being married 25 years I can honestly say I wish I took myself more seriously when I was younger and did what I wanted to do.

  • @flylikeabutterfly951
    @flylikeabutterfly951 Год назад +135

    She genuinely didn’t love him anymore.

    • @kazzityangel
      @kazzityangel 5 месяцев назад +10

      This is what happens when the fantasy of a persons 'potential' wears off and you start to see that person for what they really are. It's impossible to go back because you realise that person you loved never existed. It was just an idea, a hope that you've now realise will never happen because they are who they are and don't plan on changing for you.

    • @gk9546
      @gk9546 3 месяца назад +3

      She loved him, she just didn't like him anymore.

  • @khadidjahannache5919
    @khadidjahannache5919 11 месяцев назад +45

    The speech he gives you before doing the exact same things you left him for. Im happy Brooke understood the assignment. Garry did love her, he might wanna try to change for her, but for how long will this change last? Sometimes you just can’t afford to be hurt again.. sometimes you just have NOTHING LEFT TO GIVE

  • @poulomi__hari
    @poulomi__hari 11 месяцев назад +19

    Women leave when they finally accept the fact that the person they have tried so hard to fix, is never going to come around. Women go to extreme lengths to stay in a relationship. But once a woman is done, she is done. Women do not lack options. They may lack self-confidence and self validation, which is why they stick with even the worst kind until all their motherly instinct dries up. So when a woman gives up one you, you're never getting another chance. Why? Because she's already given you enough chances.

  • @lindanorton2088
    @lindanorton2088 Год назад +298

    He is destructive and doesn’t allow others to talk to him the way he talks to others. He just dominates and in a cringy cheap way tries to imitate genuine emotions. This scene captures what it is like being with a narc.

    • @boomds5602
      @boomds5602 Год назад +12

      He’s not a narc, he’s a sociopath. They are different

    • @ohmynl
      @ohmynl Год назад +18

      @@jon8004 tbh I’ve been in this situation and the only thing he is apologising for is to get her again and still act the same. It’s not an apology, it’s a tactic, and theatrical. My ex cried and said sorry multiple times to end up doing the same stuff over and over again.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Год назад +7

      @@boomds5602 Stop throwing buzz words around. Some people just grew up giving the bare minimum

    • @2EKgn16
      @2EKgn16 5 месяцев назад

      The original commenter used one if the most overused and misused buzzwords around. ​@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307

    • @hanatirk4375
      @hanatirk4375 2 дня назад

      Being with m$n

  • @jayzee7538
    @jayzee7538 Год назад +380

    It's still a happy ending. Even though Gary struck out here, his character development from start of movie to finish was one of improvement. This scene here and then the responsibility he took after this to get his life together and cleaning his office and getting the tour logs done. His relationship and breakup with Brooke made him grow into his potential. The ultimate victory.

    • @bergercookie
      @bergercookie Год назад +25

      Yeah for him.

    • @stephaniepetrosky6159
      @stephaniepetrosky6159 11 месяцев назад +43

      Yay for brooke how lucky for her to help Gary be the man he was 'meant to be' for the NEXT woman.

    • @suzanner1630
      @suzanner1630 9 месяцев назад +2

      ​@stephaniepetrosky6159 see I always felt the ending left the viewers to decide if they got back together cause they grew and learned from their mistakes

    • @Gieszkanne
      @Gieszkanne 6 месяцев назад

      @@suzanner1630 Yes the ending leave the door open.

    • @grogudjarin944
      @grogudjarin944 4 месяца назад

      @@stephaniepetrosky6159exactly 😂 it sucks

  • @cabahab2996
    @cabahab2996 7 месяцев назад +14

    She doesnt even get upset like previously...... the night she cried in the room she knew it was over and no going back 😢😢 she put herself first

    • @ingada
      @ingada 7 месяцев назад +1

      She cried because she felt sorry for herself, it was not about end of relationships. She planned this concert long time ago, and it was mix of emotions - betrayal for her and examination of his feelings. She was confused that she allowed herself to manipulate with his promises. And that was the end of her feelings and this relationships. When you want to control your feelings and his. Works both genders. She didn't put herself first, she just exhausted of everything.
      Sorry for my bad explanation.

  • @wiggilytaco7570
    @wiggilytaco7570 Год назад +48

    This movie taught me to be more honest about how I feel AND stay respectful. I learned to say “I’m not a fan of this thing you love but I’m more than happy to get excited because I want to enjoy things WITH you.” And of course voicing the expectation that I want the same in return. I’m not entitled, but I do deserve them. He shouldn’t be forced to give them to me, but will always be appreciated when he does.

  • @whereismyxanax
    @whereismyxanax Год назад +74

    Too little too late

  • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
    @SpiritualLifeCoach43 Год назад +32

    A heart is like a love meter. Never let your person get "tired" of you. Cause it means they are running on E and when the last drop is gone. It's gone.

  • @thatgirl9759
    @thatgirl9759 Год назад +106

    These were words she probably wished that Brad would have said to her at the time.
    And I got tears in my eyes.

  • @suellenlobo4353
    @suellenlobo4353 Год назад +10

    I'm glad she didn't give him a chance...he had his chance but just took her for granted that she would stick around no matter what...

  • @jennyleung92
    @jennyleung92 8 часов назад

    This movie made a good point. When one side pour so much into a relationship and the other side dont appreciate whats infront of then until it's too late. It also shows that one side not putting up with the other person anymore knowing the same pattern behavior have a possibility to happen again. Possibility of a viscious cycle that never improves. It teaches the point you don't know what you have till its gone.

  • @jacobsherman8666
    @jacobsherman8666 10 месяцев назад +9

    People need to love themselves before loving others

  • @janetduncan87
    @janetduncan87 Год назад +55

    Glad I have a man who wants to communicate. He's usually the first to do so, bc I'm afraid of everything, do to my last long , toxic relationship. He understands, and I cherish that.

    • @hansoloburger2322
      @hansoloburger2322 Год назад +3

      That’s hilarious because this movie is pretty much about her inability to communicate “I don’t like flowers= all woman loves flowers. She knows he hate ballet he doesn’t know she doesn’t like going to sporting events she starts dating other guys to make him jealous instead of telling him she doesn’t want to break up

    • @southernsoul152
      @southernsoul152 Год назад

      Bless you, sister! Happy for you both 🙏🏽

    • @southernsoul152
      @southernsoul152 Год назад +3

      @@hansoloburger2322 I understand where you’re coming from but being feminine isn’t about begging. it’s about trusting in him to guard her and her heart. It wasn’t about the ballet-it’s about his priorities or lack there of. She wants him to want her; and sacrificing the ballet was easy until it was all that was left. He came home and ignored her…often. That’s when a woman thinks of the “things” she’d rather do then wait for the love from the one she loves that he refuses to extend it. *English is my second language, forgive me for errors

    • @hansoloburger2322
      @hansoloburger2322 Год назад

      @@southernsoul152your English is fine infact it’s better than a lot of peoples in RUclips comments whose only language they speak is English

    • @K.C-2049
      @K.C-2049 9 дней назад

      @@hansoloburger2322 old comment but yeh I mean the problem a lot of women run into is that if we drop hints nothing gets done and we feel neglected, if we're direct men say they're being nagged or they just laugh it off and ignore us and then we feel neglected and not listened to anyway. women can choose a lot of ways to communicate and we're encouraged to be subtle so as to avoid this so called "nagging", doesn't mean men will listen or act on it even if we're 100% right. unfortunately we live in a society where women's opinions are quite devalued. and I'm not saying this is all women everywhere always as a rule, but it does seem to happen quite often.

  • @MsSonnencreme
    @MsSonnencreme Год назад +84

    Gary … this movie just made me wonder why I should feel sad about their break-up. She is just so much better than him.

    • @CrimsonWolf69
      @CrimsonWolf69 Год назад +6

      LOL
      You're kidding right? Did you forget the bowling alley scene where she admitted to intentionally destroying his life so that she is his only last option to crawl back to? Talk about a biased memory.

  • @cheyennerichmond8650
    @cheyennerichmond8650 Год назад +62

    My ex started doing this after I left. And expected me to just go back… and be with him and just ‘get over’ the abuse…

    • @layshamartinez3755
      @layshamartinez3755 Год назад +3

      Yea but there was no abuse in this relationship tho

    • @mr.t658
      @mr.t658 8 месяцев назад

      And why don’t you go back to him

    • @ruthsarb3899
      @ruthsarb3899 8 месяцев назад +1

      Same! Endless unmet promises.. after 4 years.. Never again! They know they're a mess. What makes it much harder to leave.

  • @Angela-ns8ux
    @Angela-ns8ux Год назад +26

    It's a sad deal .. they never seem to be ready to change until we're done ..

    • @moodforever
      @moodforever Год назад

      True

    • @MMJ501
      @MMJ501 Год назад

      So true

    • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
      @SpiritualLifeCoach43 11 месяцев назад +1

      Get the full package. No more dating for potential cause most men dont change.

    • @ruthsarb3899
      @ruthsarb3899 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, because that's when they realize, even the most patient woman gets sick of if after a time.

  • @hadilayyad6147
    @hadilayyad6147 Год назад +82

    This is exactly how the past 7 years went down with me and my husband, except he never actually prepared a dinner haha same bullshit speech every time with no actual changes. Men like this just tell you what you want to hear without them being genuine, they just realize that once they are affected, they’ll do this for about a week or two to bring you back in and then it’s back to the same old shitshow. If someone wanted to change and make the relationship better, they would without needing more than 2-3 chances tops. And don’t say women don’t communicate. We do all the time, and most of us explicitly say what we want many times but men just choose to ignore it.

    • @stephenh8092
      @stephenh8092 Год назад +2

      It goes both ways between men and women. Most of the time communication is lacking from both and sometimes it's just the woman who is the selfish one.
      As was said by another in this thread: Not every man is your ex., so please don't generalize.

    • @hadilayyad6147
      @hadilayyad6147 Год назад +9

      @@stephenh8092 Before you generalize that I’m just a selfish and whiny nagger, I implore you to reread my comment. Especially the part where I say ‘men like this’ and also the part where I mention ‘husband’ bc unfortunately he’s not an ex. You’re a hypocrite, telling me don’t generalize when you are saying that women are usually the problem.

    • @stephenh8092
      @stephenh8092 Год назад +2

      @@hadilayyad6147 I would say that because of your ongoing issues with your husband you have become embittered towards the world in general and men in particular. Such bitterness will leave a person without the ability to see reality clearly.

    • @hadilayyad6147
      @hadilayyad6147 Год назад

      @@stephenh8092 Follow your own advice first, hypocrite. It’s really pathetic to place all the blame on the woman who is desperately trying to change their relationship for the better while the man doesn’t care to and actively continues to abuse his wife. Only people like you don’t have the ability to see reality. People like you are very naive and ignorant and biased. See what I did there? I think you can learn a thing or two.

    • @karna8658
      @karna8658 Год назад

      If u look into some of the scenes, she says that she doesn't like flowers, but then again says every women loves flowers , like wtf . I think she also comments on his weight too , if I remember correctly.
      This is a cycle , Gary had problems he realised it . He may will change for good.
      But she will remain the same. N will do the same thing to the other guy.
      So the other guy here is at loss.
      The problem is woman are more attracted to these types of Chads .
      That's a fact. Because she in the movie did the same.
      The good ones (men) are always the backup plan.

  • @izzypfutzenreuter
    @izzypfutzenreuter Год назад +12

    This is so cathartic and satisfying.

  • @zachflag6506
    @zachflag6506 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m amazed this movie stuck to its guns and didn’t cop out with a “they get back together” ending. That’s what makes it special to me

  • @faith-kj4pg
    @faith-kj4pg 9 месяцев назад +6

    It shouldn't take the person leaving you, to do the bare minimum. He for sure would have fell into his bad habits had she stayed.

  • @RedRegina
    @RedRegina Год назад +99

    They both did many things wrong. This movie really shows you how important communication is. They will both have learned to be better partners in their next relationship.

  • @sakshiverma908
    @sakshiverma908 7 месяцев назад +3

    Been there. First they push you to cliff, and when you have nothing left to give, they ask you to come back.
    But you don't anything to give by then

  • @yomiseno
    @yomiseno 6 месяцев назад +2

    He's like my awful ex who has a personality disorder. He never got me anything, he tried to return and promised things, but I didn't care about that anymore. I just wanted to be away from him and move on with my life. Brook said she has nothing to give anymore because Brook loves through giving. He loves for himself. So relatable.

  • @amandalidey329
    @amandalidey329 Год назад +16

    Loveee this movie. Haven't seen it in awhile.

  • @hannasolano5253
    @hannasolano5253 Год назад +8

    She did the right thing!

  • @monac1504
    @monac1504 Год назад +6

    It’s sad…they will only try, to “try harder” when they know you’ve declared it as over. It goes to show what it really means when, “it’s too late” for a sincere apology. That’s why one cannot wait this late to make the changes. However, at the end of the day, the truth of the matter is, no one should change to keep someone if this is who they really are. Brooke did the right thing for both of them. It’s upsetting to see in the movie because the most painful thing for her to do was to let him go.

  • @fazriatanjom9301
    @fazriatanjom9301 Год назад +10

    We always want them to be together but the reality is something just can't be fixed. You just have to move on and be happy for each other

  • @ewa5803
    @ewa5803 24 дня назад

    Great acting

  • @jaimebarba2814
    @jaimebarba2814 5 месяцев назад +2

    Heartbreaking

  • @dougstyles
    @dougstyles Год назад +13

    Stay single. Life is so much easier .

    • @josephinakeam6197
      @josephinakeam6197 Год назад +8

      I spent some years being single and yes, life was absolutely easier, but not necessarily better. There are good and bad sides to both.

  • @erinmcintyre4573
    @erinmcintyre4573 Год назад +15

    Its been tough on him? WOW

  • @yomiseno
    @yomiseno 6 месяцев назад +1

    It really does exist, when someone says "It's too late", sometmee, it really is too late.

  • @stephaniestanley8041
    @stephaniestanley8041 11 месяцев назад +4

    You know this was a very good honest movie.

  • @SyntheticHalo
    @SyntheticHalo 16 дней назад

    Sometimes you can still love someone, but when they hurt you too much, you'll reach a point where the love you're feeling isn't enough anymore to be with that person. At that point you're just exhausted & your heart is ready to heal.

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Год назад +4

    Yes...go girl

  • @uberbabe585
    @uberbabe585 Год назад +20

    Ooohhh when the coin finally falls but nobody's there to listen to the song

  • @shanem415
    @shanem415 9 месяцев назад +4

    Seeing this as a kid I wished she took him back. It was also a major wake up call love sometimes ends

  • @RafReyes_
    @RafReyes_ Месяц назад

    "I don't feel the same way" "I don't think I have anything left to give"

  • @thabangadikgale461
    @thabangadikgale461 Год назад +11

    THIS PART OF THE MOVIE IS CALLED HONESTY... SHE GAVE AND GAVE AND WHAT I CAN RESPECT IS THAT DUDE TRIED AT THE END THOU AT THE MOMENT IT WAS LATE. A THANK YOU AND GRATITUDE CAN GO A LONG WAY LESSONS LEARNED

  • @FC-hj9ub
    @FC-hj9ub Месяц назад

    They should do more movies together, they have very good on screen chemistry

  • @goofing_
    @goofing_ Год назад +6

    The speech 💬😣😣😣

  • @ryanstauffer119
    @ryanstauffer119 Год назад +17

    When my mom and I watched this movie, we noticed that Gary didn't have 12 lemons at the center of the table. We thought he would actually do that since he didn't buy them at the beginning of the film for Brooke.

  • @aalarsen16
    @aalarsen16 8 месяцев назад +4

    He only did this because he realized what he lost

  • @jefferfoxmustang5945
    @jefferfoxmustang5945 7 месяцев назад +2

    After what he said about her family and how he treated her and her friends at game night, there is no way she should get back with him.

  • @skrivebordsskuffen2442
    @skrivebordsskuffen2442 Год назад +3

    OMG Deep troubles once again 😥

  • @arlenejanebuyser3412
    @arlenejanebuyser3412 10 месяцев назад +1

    This movie was so much like Brad & Jen's lovestory whom jen was being taken for granted and the best revenge ever is to well in life

  • @meejoohwang8494
    @meejoohwang8494 Год назад +3

    Sorry Gary you were a few steps late 😢

  • @dougbenton8767
    @dougbenton8767 Месяц назад

    I’m not cared about and they will never apologize

  • @marc7097
    @marc7097 8 месяцев назад +3

    As a divorced man I can tell you hes in love with the idea of her, not her. Also, who thought they made a believable couple ffs.

  • @christinegonzales6788
    @christinegonzales6788 Год назад +3

    I was sad 😢 when they broke up really

  • @esley02
    @esley02 Год назад +62

    go back to playing your videos games Vince.

    • @honestjohn6499
      @honestjohn6499 Год назад +1

      Vince: “ok…I’ll go play my games. There’s plenty of b*****s in the sea”

    • @KRodBabay
      @KRodBabay Год назад

      Brav Madden and San Andres is not ao bad 🤣

  • @spacey1335
    @spacey1335 6 месяцев назад +1

    Off topic but does anyone know the song playing in the beginning in the background?

  • @davidnicholson8812
    @davidnicholson8812 Год назад +1

    Bruh she can only give so much...
    Live and learn

  • @Baseball-of4uz
    @Baseball-of4uz Год назад

    It’s Kevin from sales !

  • @kathleenmorris9309
    @kathleenmorris9309 Месяц назад

    It's what you do for that person.. That's love.. not what you say.
    Talk is cheap.

  • @ipdharwad
    @ipdharwad 7 дней назад +1

    Breaking up with a guy like him is nothing but training a manbaby to how to be a loving and caring man and leaving him for another girl.

  • @Neferenmeret
    @Neferenmeret 7 месяцев назад +2

    Too little, too late

  • @loristromski1334
    @loristromski1334 8 месяцев назад

    I don't think I have anything left to give

  • @joshuagarbett
    @joshuagarbett Год назад +5

    I would have never hit my mother
    No matter how much she pushed me

  • @PeterJustGames
    @PeterJustGames Год назад +17

    Her date kind of reminds me of Tom Brady lol

  • @actaemazantor9558
    @actaemazantor9558 11 месяцев назад +4

    As they say: too little, too late.

  • @AllenHanPR
    @AllenHanPR Год назад +6

    Ironically, these two dated in real life and the Break-up happened in 2006.

    • @ingada
      @ingada 7 месяцев назад

      They don't, I think, it was for mass media

  • @ciararodriguez1900
    @ciararodriguez1900 Год назад +4

    Too little too late man

  • @SnapchatStore
    @SnapchatStore Год назад

    The end.

  • @phoebewestall8372
    @phoebewestall8372 Год назад +10

    I dont like it how many people still don't like him in this movie even after this seen. He openly heartedly apologises about his behaviour and admits his wrongs, it's just that it was too late and she had fallen out of love. But even though he had lost her, I feel like he's redeemed himseld right here.

    • @UnAnonKnown
      @UnAnonKnown 11 месяцев назад +11

      People still don’t like him because too many people have been through this. They’ve hit this point … received the apology… tried again… and watched their partner revert back to being the exact same person.
      The reality is Gary’s personality has an innate selfishness to it. Agreeing to go to a concert and then not showing up or calling/texting is something a mature adult doesn’t do - to anyone.
      The odds of him genuinely changing overnight and becoming a good partner are slim. People like him can rally for a few months but eventually they’ll tire and go back to their old selves.

  • @sebastianwapniarski2077
    @sebastianwapniarski2077 5 дней назад

    Now after losing mine I know she never really loved him.

  • @TG-zu2ih
    @TG-zu2ih 8 месяцев назад +4

    She missed the red flags of immaturity at the beginning, she got what he could give.

    • @ruthsarb3899
      @ruthsarb3899 8 месяцев назад +2

      So true! We like to ignore it at the beginning! Because we think we could change him, and be his hero. Just to find out, it's a bad ending for both!

  • @riturao6565
    @riturao6565 4 месяца назад +2

    Why men smarten Up when its too late?!

  • @foljs5858
    @foljs5858 5 месяцев назад

    Modern relationships. It's all about how you "feel" at any random time, no big picture, no effort is given to fix things, just jump elsewhere at the first bump

  • @Marinaddee
    @Marinaddee 8 месяцев назад +3

    He is giving narcissistic personality disorder

  • @justatroll4282
    @justatroll4282 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm not sure if the writers wrote the character that way, but despite saying all that, he still comes across as somewhat off. Like a psychopath pretending to change as opposed a genuine effort to change.

  • @ericnunya9074
    @ericnunya9074 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ive lived this scene. it’s the curse of men and women. Both wanting to maintain their pride and show strength. No one wants to be the vulnerable one.

    • @ruthsarb3899
      @ruthsarb3899 8 месяцев назад +1

      That's not about pride! She's just done with trying to change him into better, but he's not the guy that wants that. She also way to mature for him, been there.. nothing is more frustrating!

  • @davelips
    @davelips 4 месяца назад +3

    As a 40year old, I see this so differently now. When I was 20 something, I thought why can't they just figure it out? Dial back in and be better/stronger together..
    Yes, he took her for granted.. yes, he figured it out too late. But the general premise of this movie is largely told from a woman's point of view. There's frankly more to the story.
    She could have been more up front, and discussed what she wanted from him prior to it becoming unfixable. Then all the games and trickery that ensues after the break up where the woman is hoping the man steps up and figures it out, eventually becoming what she always wanted in her partner all along..
    Men can't read women's minds.. and women struggle to be direct with what they want, and will often mentally check out before physically ending it.
    It would be great to redo this movie, and add in the effects of social media, dating apps and the now unlimited optionality presented to modern women. Tell the story from the man's perspective as he watches his woman succumb to the endless amounts of attention garnered through the internet and several generations of weak and Godless men.

  • @Hunty49
    @Hunty49 5 месяцев назад

    As soon as she was bringing home other guys, that would have hit somewhere in me and I would have left. She's not yours, it was just your turn. If it didn't work out, you can work on it. Once she's bringing home other guys, she doesn't want to work on it. Leave, remove all attachment to her and move on. Put that pain to good use at work or the gym etc.

  • @youtuber3328
    @youtuber3328 3 месяца назад

    to be COMPLETELY honest romantically i did do and/or will SOMEWHAT like jennifer aniston because in my COMPLETELY honest and/or accurate OPINION she's LITERALLY always had and still has an EQUALLY REALLY attractive face