Thank you! I am finally understanding what a girl that I’ve been talking to sees in me and receives from me! I’ve been giving it to her naturally without realizing it. Seeing her, listening to her, entering her world and guiding her.
Jealousy as the first questions, whew. I see that one as a threatening emotion. In that, it feels threatened and therefore believes some action is needed. In my experience, emotions (or fear based thoughts) around jealousy have a place in our past. Anya does well to include there may be other emotions paired like envy where the jealousy is comparative in nature, yet it may be tied to something greater instead, like abandonment. She also noted anger and the occurrence of (or perceived) injustice. She obviously has experience working through these things and isn’t just book smart or copying hot takes. Think of jealousy like a cologne, it has many scents/ingredients: envy, anger, fear, excitement, shame…your mix is unique. So start by going back to your earliest age/time of feeling jealous and explore that situation. Separate each “scent” and do the same with them. And then explore what exists currently as our emotions are there to draw attention, not conclusions. Sorry this is so long, these episodes are inspiring! Oh last part, jealousy will want to accelerate and escalate, so slow down. People tend to get hurt by jealousy. Don’t run with scissors and slow down with this emotion.
How does one submit a question for future Q and A’s? I’ll try here just in case… What is your take on stoicism? Is there a place (or levels/spectrum) for it in men and women? How does it interfere with authenticity and intimacy? I truly would love to hear your perspective on this and hope you consider. Sincerely…
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Thank you! I am finally understanding what a girl that I’ve been talking to sees in me and receives from me! I’ve been giving it to her naturally without realizing it. Seeing her, listening to her, entering her world and guiding her.
Well done!
thank you!
Jealousy as the first questions, whew. I see that one as a threatening emotion. In that, it feels threatened and therefore believes some action is needed.
In my experience, emotions (or fear based thoughts) around jealousy have a place in our past. Anya does well to include there may be other emotions paired like envy where the jealousy is comparative in nature, yet it may be tied to something greater instead, like abandonment.
She also noted anger and the occurrence of (or perceived) injustice. She obviously has experience working through these things and isn’t just book smart or copying hot takes.
Think of jealousy like a cologne, it has many scents/ingredients: envy, anger, fear, excitement, shame…your mix is unique. So start by going back to your earliest age/time of feeling jealous and explore that situation. Separate each “scent” and do the same with them.
And then explore what exists currently as our emotions are there to draw attention, not conclusions.
Sorry this is so long, these episodes are inspiring!
Oh last part, jealousy will want to accelerate and escalate, so slow down. People tend to get hurt by jealousy. Don’t run with scissors and slow down with this emotion.
great add thank you!
How does one submit a question for future Q and A’s?
I’ll try here just in case…
What is your take on stoicism? Is there a place (or levels/spectrum) for it in men and women? How does it interfere with authenticity and intimacy?
I truly would love to hear your perspective on this and hope you consider.
Sincerely…
great question - will add to the mix!
Men are extremely simple
Please stop this nonsense. No we aren’t.