This is why I love spider-man, the story is a metaphor of a kid taking on the hardships of adulthood and taking on responsibility either gaining new friends or losing loved ones
If you think about it, it's real. When you get older you take more responsibility, you also met many new people but the more you live the more people that you loved are gonna get old and die so the spiderman story is very relatable one.
This video broke me this morning. I'm in tears, writing this, but I need to convey this. I wasn't ready for its' message, or the significance that it holds to me, but considering the importance, the significance of Spider-Man (to me, personally), along with how much this character has shaped who I am today... I guess it was necessary. I don't come from much. My father was neglectful. My mother was abusive. The rest of my family was no better. And much like ASM Peter, I started to become bitter. The ironic thing is, it was my father who introduced me to Marvel, to Spider-Man, and that at the end of the day... "just do the right thing". When I first heard/saw the concept of "With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility", I didn't understand it (I was a kid at the time), but through my teens, and even now in my 30's, I get it. "When you do the things that I can do, AND THEN THE BAD THINGS HAPPEN, they happen because of you." "Not choice. A RESPSONSIBILITY." People have told me time and again, to either do the right thing. Or keep to myself, focus on me, take care of myself and stop worrying about others. I can't. I have tried. I understood then, what was selfishness. Just as I figured out what was selflessness. And I know trauma, self care, healing, are all things I have to deal with due to my past. Because I can't draw water from an empty well. But I also cannot refuse this calling. Captain America said in Civil War: " If I see a situation pointed south, I can't ignore it. Sometimes I wish I could." I now know what he meant. I know I'm not a superhero. I don't have their superpowers. But I know that when something is happening, I cannot ignore it, because I do not want it to get worse. I guess that's why I've always related to Peter. He's the most human of them. And to me, personally... his struggles, his trauma, his hardships, his choices, and his need to do the right thing, and his guilt over his choices... have been like a mirror image of mine. He's not perfect. And neither are we. I am not perfect. This video broke me when Aunt May told Peter: "Start by doing the hardest thing, you forgive yourself." I struggle with this most of all. Because I am struggling with forgiving myself for what happened between my mother and I. I know it's not my fault for what she did to me. But there is a constant part of me (like some dark echo of her) that blames me. That won't forgive me for being helpless. For being WEAK. For not standing up for myself. For just taking it. For nearly giving into suicide because I couldn't take it anymore. But I think of Peter. I think of every hardship. Every villain. Every loss. Every setback he goes through. And how he KEEPS GETTING BACK UP. And somehow... it gives me strength. It gives me courage. It gives me hope. I'm in a better place now than I was as a kid. I had to leave everything behind a few years ago, in order to move forward. In order to not compromise my morals and my own choices, my own integrity. I don't know what my family thinks now. But I do know of my responsibilities. When someone needs something, be it advice, aid, or just someone to be there, I'm there. Because I can't live with what may happen if I don't. So I continue. Because it's what he would do. And because I know I'm strong enough to take it. No matter how bad it is, or how bad it gets. I am going to make it. Thank you, for making this video. And thank you to whoever read this far. Edit: To add insult to injury, I’m homeless now. Saw all your comments. They mean alot. I don’t know why it seems I’m being given the Spider-Man treatment in life but if I end up getting bit by a spider next… I’m out. But in all seriousness… I’m doing my best to hang in there. Thanks everyone for the comments! Appreciate it. Edit 2: I’m safe now. Doing better! Thanks to everyone for all the kind words! Edit 3: Appreciate each of you who continue to stop by and read this. I keep forgetting about it. Wish I had better news, sadly I’m homeless again. No friends, no family. Nothing but my wits and whatever I can muster up. Still got two jobs, but I’m pondering next moves as winter rolls around. Thanks for the support everyone.
Damn. Thank you for writing this. As a kid it really stood out for me. Thanks for sharing your experiences and i think its good that you told people of what you went through , cause if others hear it and you're still here , it shows them that they can do it too.
@@insigh7238 “It’s what we do.” I imagine he’d say. As for me... I’m just glad I was able to help even just one person. You got this, kid. Just go one day at a time. It’s going to be okay. And I promise you, you will thank yourself in the future for the strength you’re showing right now. Do it for you. No one else. Just make it through. But always do the right thing. Hang in there!
Thank you for writing this. I have been going through a tough time with college and family and this video and this comment is helping me i ways i can't express in words. Thank you so much for sharing.
god bless you stay strong and continue to fight. I read all of this and your right were not perfect that's why spiderman has been one of my favorite heroes of all time
Exactly! We have the power to change peoples lives and to impact people. Peter said that "if you have the power do something and you don't, and then the bad things happen, they happen because of you". Its kinda the same thing in this bible verse. Luke 12:48 “But the one who does not know and does things deserving punishment will be beaten with few blows. From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.”
Marvel never missed or made a error for casting as Peter Parker aka Spider-Man. Even tho Tobey is my number one favorite cast cause his behavior/emotional/wise Spider-Man, then Andrew came, nailed it as quibbing/coolest Peter Parker and Spider-Man, and now, Tom came up, and nailed as well to be goofy/nerdy/childish Spider-Man as it should be. They three are made my life feels so heartwarming and completed as a fan. Three different Spider-Man aka three The Greatest of All Time.
@@jakrinboriboon4051 no materialistic things will ever make you happy brother. Meditate, exercise, take on a hobby and make new connections. Good luck bro
ther has 2 be a new movie. He dos'nt have a familly anymore but what about his other friends? btw they never said what happend 2 his parents Does anyone else want 2 know
En cuanto a Las muertes de seres Amados...al Ella no ser perdonada por alguien que le dio algo especial ya Sean capasidades dones y al no cumplir con lo unico que nunca falla el Amor pues eya TE quita lo que mas amas pero TE deja vivo para que sientas lo que eya siente un sufrimiento y vasio que nunca sera llenado solo superado.
Spider man movie 🎥 film is definitely amazing I really have the movie DVD 📀 is really terrific ever I really love it alot very cool ever I really liked how they go behind the scenes is fantastic ever I really liked it alot very amazing ever I really enjoyed every character on the movie 🎥🍿 flim is extremely excellent
@@1Guason3 I can see you have no clue how far better a billionaire has it over a millionaire too. That is literally need 999 million more to catch up. Most say billionaire because the gap is just that wide.
This is why I love spider-man, the story is a metaphor of a kid taking on the hardships of adulthood and taking on responsibility either gaining new friends or losing loved ones
If you think about it, it's real. When you get older you take more responsibility, you also met many new people but the more you live the more people that you loved are gonna get old and die so the spiderman story is very relatable one.
@@Reduxialpider-Man reminds you of a Spider-Man story? 🤯🤯🤯🤯
(Memento+Mori)
ruclips.net/p/PLxTBZ3sF1QeEsMRzjBo04z50zdO3mFK3u
This video broke me this morning. I'm in tears, writing this, but I need to convey this. I wasn't ready for its' message, or the significance that it holds to me, but considering the importance, the significance of Spider-Man (to me, personally), along with how much this character has shaped who I am today... I guess it was necessary.
I don't come from much. My father was neglectful. My mother was abusive. The rest of my family was no better.
And much like ASM Peter, I started to become bitter.
The ironic thing is, it was my father who introduced me to Marvel, to Spider-Man, and that at the end of the day... "just do the right thing".
When I first heard/saw the concept of "With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility", I didn't understand it (I was a kid at the time), but through my teens, and even now in my 30's, I get it.
"When you do the things that I can do, AND THEN THE BAD THINGS HAPPEN, they happen because of you."
"Not choice. A RESPSONSIBILITY."
People have told me time and again, to either do the right thing. Or keep to myself, focus on me, take care of myself and stop worrying about others.
I can't. I have tried. I understood then, what was selfishness. Just as I figured out what was selflessness.
And I know trauma, self care, healing, are all things I have to deal with due to my past. Because I can't draw water from an empty well.
But I also cannot refuse this calling.
Captain America said in Civil War: " If I see a situation pointed south, I can't ignore it. Sometimes I wish I could."
I now know what he meant.
I know I'm not a superhero. I don't have their superpowers. But I know that when something is happening, I cannot ignore it, because I do not want it to get worse.
I guess that's why I've always related to Peter. He's the most human of them. And to me, personally... his struggles, his trauma, his hardships, his choices, and his need to do the right thing, and his guilt over his choices... have been like a mirror image of mine.
He's not perfect.
And neither are we.
I am not perfect.
This video broke me when Aunt May told Peter:
"Start by doing the hardest thing, you forgive yourself."
I struggle with this most of all.
Because I am struggling with forgiving myself for what happened between my mother and I. I know it's not my fault for what she did to me. But there is a constant part of me (like some dark echo of her) that blames me. That won't forgive me for being helpless. For being WEAK. For not standing up for myself. For just taking it.
For nearly giving into suicide because I couldn't take it anymore.
But I think of Peter. I think of every hardship. Every villain. Every loss. Every setback he goes through. And how he KEEPS GETTING BACK UP. And somehow... it gives me strength. It gives me courage.
It gives me hope.
I'm in a better place now than I was as a kid.
I had to leave everything behind a few years ago, in order to move forward. In order to not compromise my morals and my own choices, my own integrity. I don't know what my family thinks now.
But I do know of my responsibilities. When someone needs something, be it advice, aid, or just someone to be there, I'm there. Because I can't live with what may happen if I don't.
So I continue. Because it's what he would do. And because I know I'm strong enough to take it.
No matter how bad it is, or how bad it gets. I am going to make it.
Thank you, for making this video.
And thank you to whoever read this far.
Edit: To add insult to injury, I’m homeless now. Saw all your comments. They mean alot. I don’t know why it seems I’m being given the Spider-Man treatment in life but if I end up getting bit by a spider next… I’m out. But in all seriousness… I’m doing my best to hang in there.
Thanks everyone for the comments! Appreciate it.
Edit 2: I’m safe now. Doing better! Thanks to everyone for all the kind words!
Edit 3: Appreciate each of you who continue to stop by and read this. I keep forgetting about it.
Wish I had better news, sadly I’m homeless again. No friends, no family. Nothing but my wits and whatever I can muster up. Still got two jobs, but I’m pondering next moves as winter rolls around. Thanks for the support everyone.
Damn. Thank you for writing this. As a kid it really stood out for me. Thanks for sharing your experiences and i think its good that you told people of what you went through , cause if others hear it and you're still here , it shows them that they can do it too.
@@insigh7238 “It’s what we do.”
I imagine he’d say.
As for me... I’m just glad I was able to help even just one person.
You got this, kid.
Just go one day at a time.
It’s going to be okay.
And I promise you, you will thank yourself in the future for the strength you’re showing right now.
Do it for you. No one else. Just make it through.
But always do the right thing.
Hang in there!
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💚💚💚
Thank you for writing this. I have been going through a tough time with college and family and this video and this comment is helping me i ways i can't express in words. Thank you so much for sharing.
god bless you stay strong and continue to fight. I read all of this and your right were not perfect that's why spiderman has been one of my favorite heroes of all time
I love how aunt mays speech from Spider-Man 2 is even more goated now
Because Rosemary Harris was the goat.
Yeah and goblin's form spiderman 1 too
Stan Lee wrote it, “ With great power comes , great responsibility !” It still rings true today. Not just for comic book heroes, but all of us!
Exactly! We have the power to change peoples lives and to impact people. Peter said that "if you have the power do something and you don't, and then the bad things happen, they happen because of you". Its kinda the same thing in this bible verse. Luke 12:48
“But the one who does not know and does things deserving punishment will be beaten with few blows. From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.”
Marvel never missed or made a error for casting as Peter Parker aka Spider-Man. Even tho Tobey is my number one favorite cast cause his behavior/emotional/wise Spider-Man, then Andrew came, nailed it as quibbing/coolest Peter Parker and Spider-Man, and now, Tom came up, and nailed as well to be goofy/nerdy/childish Spider-Man as it should be. They three are made my life feels so heartwarming and completed as a fan. Three different Spider-Man aka three The Greatest of All Time.
RIGHT!!!
The last part is the best… “she told th at with great power…-----“
this was powerful.
This is the greatest tribute I have ever saw ❤❤❤
Thank you! That means a lot! I'm hoping to make more of these. Thank you so much for the encouragement.
This trailer realized that I have to let go of my girl to her ex thank you so much for that I feel
Things will work out bro. Something beautiful waiting for you ❤️
@@saifuddinahmed8403 thanks man i have been down lately even though I have a ps5
@@jakrinboriboon4051 no materialistic things will ever make you happy brother. Meditate, exercise, take on a hobby and make new connections. Good luck bro
@jakrinboriboon4051 totally relate bro. It hurts but we gotta hang in there. It gets better
I had to let go of my wife and the only one I ever wanted. I promise it will get better my brother. Hold on to hope and fulfill your purpose.
Even if I dosent saw the movie,I'm in tears
A beautiful tribute with great power comes great responsibility
Thank you! I'm hoping to make more tribute videos and spider-man videos. Love creating these. Thank you so much for the encouragement.
Andrew Garfield
Pain💔💔
That Was Spectacular!
Thank you haha. Sorry for just now getting to your comment. Love building community here. Thanks for reaching out
great work
great
Nice🔥
Great job editing that video bru
Thanks man. You should check out my review for No Way Home!
@@jacobpratt4711 what's the name of the soundtrack u used in the video?
Ludovico Einaudi - Experience I'll share the link
ruclips.net/video/_VONMkKkdf4/видео.html
Very nice 😎
Thanks man. You should check out my movie review for No Way Home!
When he says to Dr. strange he meant “Me” make me forget. Shalom Hashem
Song name used for this video: Experience
Good job brother
ther has 2 be a new movie. He dos'nt have a familly anymore but what about his other friends?
btw they never said what happend 2 his parents Does anyone else want 2 know
I feel like it’s the same reason with the other spider men (as in these two other that majority of us know)
En cuanto a Las muertes de seres Amados...al Ella no ser perdonada por alguien que le dio algo especial ya Sean capasidades dones y al no cumplir con lo unico que nunca falla el Amor pues eya TE quita lo que mas amas pero TE deja vivo para que sientas lo que eya siente un sufrimiento y vasio que nunca sera llenado solo superado.
What?
Es para Los que asen PACTOS de fama y dinero.
@@maelzafir6435 do you speak English?
Lady of light do you speak Spanish?
@@maelzafir6435 No, sorry.
Yo this edit is fire man keep up the great work
Thank you man! That honestly means a lot! Sorry for just now reaching to you but I really appreciate your encouragement
Spider man movie 🎥 film is definitely amazing I really have the movie DVD 📀 is really terrific ever I really love it alot very cool ever I really liked how they go behind the scenes is fantastic ever I really liked it alot very amazing ever I really enjoyed every character on the movie 🎥🍿 flim is extremely excellent
H b .h
That fart at 2:56 tho
"If you could do good things for other people you had a moral obligation to do so" tell that to any billionaire... any Christian... any politician...
Wtf ?
Iron man and Batman and green arrow and black panther did it
Millionaires always get overlooked for some reason
@@user-ld8lv5py7k Cap, Spidey all did it
@@1Guason3 I can see you have no clue how far better a billionaire has it over a millionaire too. That is literally need 999 million more to catch up. Most say billionaire because the gap is just that wide.
Can you this post in hindi?
Today everyone copying this dialouge
Ok ?