Tuca and Bertie perfectly capturing my maladaptive daydreaming

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
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  • @rollerturtle
    @rollerturtle 2 года назад +5935

    Perfect, but it also engages you so much you lose all your friends, life and yourself to DD. The car scene is realistic

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +434

      The part that gets me is the transitions, especially in the mall scene stealing the boots where everything flies by with such a high emotional rush while feeling like fantasy. It feels straight out of my daydreams.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +332

      Another reason this hits is the music, some days my daydreaming is so bad and unhealthy I have to stop listening to any music because it amplifies any daydreams I’m having that day.

    • @rollerturtle
      @rollerturtle 2 года назад +97

      @@Guyro3278 oh yeah, the fast transitions while feeling emotion rush is so frequent, when you are feeling loaded with emotions and excited and you shift it to daydreams and it moves so fast because you want to experience everything at once. It's nice to hear from someone with similar experiences

    • @rollerturtle
      @rollerturtle 2 года назад +41

      @@Guyro3278 I trained myself so my daydreams can be controlled while listening to music but from time to time when one song is in my liking I slip back to the unhealthy amount of DD

    • @predalien1413
      @predalien1413 2 года назад +5

      Essentially delusions.

  • @milofitz400
    @milofitz400 Год назад +1891

    If you haven’t had a super affectionate platonic relationship with a goth girl that somehow turned gay and ended terribly, you haven’t lived

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Год назад +73

      Lol

    • @flowerpatchtoons1101
      @flowerpatchtoons1101 Год назад +77

      I got that without the ending terribly part. I'm living life my guy I'm LIVIN wo!

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Год назад +34

      Wait this was a universal experience?

    • @ladystarfire
      @ladystarfire 9 месяцев назад +61

      @@Mysteri0usPuppetits a very common sapphic experience to have a friendship with a girl that ends up terribly because you kind of were attracted to her.

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@ladystarfire I know, because it’s happened to me more than once 😭

  • @bauhausfan6939
    @bauhausfan6939 Год назад +462

    as a goth i love that they used new wave instead of metal like most shows usually do 😭😭

  • @veggyeater
    @veggyeater 2 года назад +4493

    I like the detail that bertie in her dreaming sequence wears different clothes than when they actually hang out,(like, beartie wears white and friend wears black) it showed that bertie didnt want to assimilate to her friend and wanted her to love her differences from her, but in reality, friend tried to transform bertie to be cofortable and simmiliar to her

    • @folgerkelley2715
      @folgerkelley2715 2 года назад +190

      That….wasn’t what happened. Bertie’s mom and Muriel both comment on BERTIE being the one to adopt/copy all the goth stylings even if it was disingenuous.

    • @veggyeater
      @veggyeater 2 года назад +50

      @@folgerkelley2715 hmm, i see. But my theory can still work out if bertie didnt fully realise what she was doing, which i doubt she did. She still knows they are different in the core level. The song goes that friend percives her as something new, at least bertie wishes to see that perhaps? Her friend also encouraged her to steal clothes exact same style as her and do similar makeup, so berdie just picked that up from her, it was her decision because friend liked it

    • @dork7546
      @dork7546 2 года назад +65

      @@folgerkelley2715 Yeah, but that was after her friend tried to transform her into the kind of person she would like to hang out with. But I guess she failed since Bertie still liked typical teenage girl things like boy bands so she just ditched her.

    • @saturn1177
      @saturn1177 Год назад +3

      Actually it's just their normal clothes?

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Год назад +4

      @@veggyeater Bertie actually did go both later on, this is when they first started hanging out and she only had the choker.

  • @cherrie9824
    @cherrie9824 2 года назад +5273

    i get so fixated on people (irl and fictional) in my day dreams and it confuses me so much cause i really can't remember what i daydreamed and what is true sometimes. asking friends stuff like "oh you remember that time when blah blah blah" and they're like "wtf no?"

    • @SynthFox
      @SynthFox 2 года назад +50

      Glad Im not the only one 😅😅

    • @marcobuncit7539
      @marcobuncit7539 2 года назад +11

      Welp, I guess when friends get confused, could just tell about the daydreaming I guess.

    • @Eveoriginalsinner
      @Eveoriginalsinner 2 года назад +35

      I did this with my ex alot. A lot of false memories that made me want them more

    • @balmisia
      @balmisia 2 года назад +9

      And then you explain what you guys did in great detail because you swear it's real and they just like at you like 😶

    • @dionysuss3045
      @dionysuss3045 2 года назад +5

      OMG YES ME W FANFICTION, sometimes I’ll read and I won’t be able to tell what was actually in the fic and what I daydreamed, usually with irl ppl I don’t make those mistakes though

  • @sakurashy8492
    @sakurashy8492 2 года назад +1807

    I can only imagine how Bertie was after Muriel broke off their friendship. Poor girl must have felt so alone afterwards. I can only imagine how Bertie was like until Tuca entered the scene. This show needs more seasons so we’ll get to see how these Bird Buddies meet. Can you imagine the feels?

    • @RuinsRuasExe
      @RuinsRuasExe 2 года назад +5

      I'm pretty sure the show was canceled when Bojack ended because of Netflix.

    • @marshmallowloaf
      @marshmallowloaf 2 года назад +50

      It didn't?? Adult swim is airing season 3 RIGHT now as of this comment

    • @Barakon
      @Barakon 2 года назад +3

      Not hbo max though, that is a dead beast.

    • @RuinsRuasExe
      @RuinsRuasExe 2 года назад +2

      @@marshmallowloaf Oh, Thank you! Sorry I didn't hear about that!

    • @sourcherry8928
      @sourcherry8928 Год назад +2

      @@RuinsRuasExe from what i read adult swim is doing season 4 as well

  • @rubyriot69
    @rubyriot69 2 года назад +1135

    this episode hit so close to home for me, because i WAS Bertie. i had a friend who wanted to make me just like her, we did all the stuff she liked, and i fell in love with her. but we abruptly drifted apart after she moved away because we both just lost touch. she was my first true crush and i’ll never forget her.

    • @Isa-vh2eh
      @Isa-vh2eh Год назад +4

      where can I watch the episodes :0

    • @yesikanarvaez5027
      @yesikanarvaez5027 Год назад +1

      Mine was never really my friend for a while

    • @bryn1063
      @bryn1063 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@Isa-vh2eh sorry I'm so late but it's on Netflix or adult swim. Netflix only has one season but adult swim has the full 3

  • @Ihazfunkitty
    @Ihazfunkitty 2 года назад +1054

    Muriel was a terrible friend but i love her design, bats are super adorable ❤️
    I think she is based off the honduran white bat, because lf her colors, big ears and shes fluffy, only the nose is off.

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Год назад +18

      It’s SUCH a shame that all the cool character designs were wasted :( Muriel looked so cute and cool and I’m so sad they used her design on this

    • @topaz3452
      @topaz3452 Год назад +10

      Good characters can be assholes doe.

    • @kanyethegoat
      @kanyethegoat Год назад +29

      @@Mysteri0usPuppet Just because a character is cute they need to be a good person?😭

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Год назад +6

      @@kanyethegoat no, but it means they are generally unlikeable, and I would’ve wished a character who was nice and likeable could’ve had the design. Sorry, looking back on it I see how my comment came across haha!

    • @jillianefaithcobre8637
      @jillianefaithcobre8637 Год назад +1

      Well, that’s true. I feel like that most bad characters are beautiful, cute, and good-looking design which is just wasted for them of being a bad characters.

  • @blackorwhhite
    @blackorwhhite 2 года назад +463

    I was absolutely clueless about Tuca&Bertie having 3 SEASONS! I didnt recognize the bat character and oh boy now im thrilled to watch the rest of the show!

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +41

      You can check out seasons 2 and 3 on Adult Swim and HBO Max

    • @Catro1000
      @Catro1000 Год назад +3

      Yeah Netflix kinda dropped tuca and bertie like many other great shows before and after it. But thankfully adult swim picked it up and i hope it picks up some of the other things netflix dropped like inside job

    • @bryn1063
      @bryn1063 9 месяцев назад

      So sad it's over now. I wish I could have had two more seasons it was so good!

  • @lonelyrooster
    @lonelyrooster 2 года назад +487

    Damn I never even made that connection but this is literally it. To the changing locations super fast to random dance stuff. This is different than paracosm stuff. Seriously damn

  • @imjustasconfusedasyou
    @imjustasconfusedasyou 2 года назад +110

    i daydream so much. if i hear a new song or meme? day dreaming it with my favorite charcaters from either 1 media source or multiple. read a new book? dd it with my favorite character from 1 or more media sources. i’ll even have to act it out sometimes. and showers are literally just daydreaming time. and it’s even worse when i’m trying to cry or dealing with something, i often find myself dd my favorite characters dealing with my problem or worse. or just them in general. it makes me not able to cry or deal with things. or i daydream about irl people and situations very very often. either to get tasks done or just in general. and if i’m dealing with something i’ll imagine someone helping me with it, or talking to someone about it, and breaking down in front of somebody about and them caring etc etc. it’s so incredibly frustrating because it’s all fake. i don’t know if i have maladaptive dd. but i know i day dream a lot.

    • @RedAngel63
      @RedAngel63 Год назад +5

      I am exactly like that, it took a lot of therapy and different outlets through art and writing to break for the habit because the more I DD, the more it starts to feel lonely

  • @Aquatic_jellyfish
    @Aquatic_jellyfish 2 года назад +189

    "I only was friends with you cause I felt bad for you" /.- 💔

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 года назад +10

      This is the basis of my friendship with my two best friends. It works for us.

  • @VSpoodle
    @VSpoodle 9 месяцев назад +21

    I really appreciate tuca and bertie for touching on a relationship like this in the way they did. I had a toxic emo middle school frinedship that corroded into high school and disrupted my entire social experience in 10th grade. I wasnt perfect either but i didnt know how to handle the intensity of unmedicated bipolar behavior she was trying to work through, and i came out of the relationship feeling chewed up and spat out

  • @shadowdroid776
    @shadowdroid776 2 года назад +338

    I hope everyone in the comments section are trying to help fix their maladaptive daydreaming, because I suffer from it and it absolutely fucks you up. If not, when you can in life, please get all the mental help necessary and overcome this. I know you can!
    I'm funneling mine into art and comics, so what I daydream of becomes productive and an actual part of my life.

    • @axax773
      @axax773 2 года назад +32

      Funneling daydreaming into art is the best possible thing anyone can do with it. It's very powerful and the results are way better than just drawing random art

    • @shadowdroid776
      @shadowdroid776 2 года назад +8

      @@axax773 I disagree because my brain still isn't in reality 80 percent of the day and it does affect my mood horribly when I draw certain things, best thing is therapy for it regardless lol but I see where you're coming from.

    • @thiskid990
      @thiskid990 2 года назад +12

      @@shadowdroid776 as somebody who can’t afford therapy (I’m sure everyone can relate hehe) I also think drawing and writing is a great suggestion, like u said it’s doing something productive with your time… sorry to hear that it has affected u negatively though :( I know the feeling, a lot of my daydreams tend to be negative and sad. But I do think drawing that out still has its merits because it gives you an outlet to get these things out of your head sometimes. Well wishes 🤟

    • @goodnight63
      @goodnight63 2 года назад +19

      It isn't unhealthy if it's during your freetime. Unless your operating a vehicle, trying to go to bed, or someone is trying to talk to you. Moderation is amazing. For example if you listen to music, allow yourself to see colorful imagery you wisp into existence just by thinking. It's a skill that not many have and can be a beautiful thing in moderation. And if you formulate original ideas, definitely write them down and share that wonder. You can still take care of responsibilities and when the time is right, allow your brain to daydream. If your maladaptive daydreaming is violent or narcissistic- than that's a whole diffrent issue. Let us humans daydream regardless of age.

    • @shadowdroid776
      @shadowdroid776 2 года назад +30

      @@goodnight63 so that's not exactly maladaptive daydreaming, that's just normal daydreaming tbh, which is good! Maladaptive daydreaming is when your brain just kind of leaves reality and you day dream without trying to. You basically become trapped in nonstop daydreams and you lose track of time and what you're doing, you're distracted constantly and soon years pass by and you don't understand how. It's really freaky.
      You know the reality shifting that people talk about? That's maladaptive daydreaming.

  • @GnEEp_GnorpXoXo
    @GnEEp_GnorpXoXo 4 месяца назад +6

    The fact that there are people out there that think this show is a "stupid adult show" is astounding

    • @beeko5329
      @beeko5329 Месяц назад

      It is... And there's many reasons for it. Politics and biased thoughts.

  • @vipersniper178
    @vipersniper178 2 года назад +151

    I had this exact friend for 7 years this episode honestly broke me

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +17

      Did they also turn out to be successful?

    • @vipersniper178
      @vipersniper178 2 года назад +37

      @@Guyro3278 nope that was me instead

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +18

      @@vipersniper178 awesome

    • @botchedprincess
      @botchedprincess Год назад +9

      @@vipersniper178 that made me smile im glad ur doing successful

  • @mjjinxer
    @mjjinxer Год назад +106

    The first part of the episode Bertie said she felt like a leech
    But Muriel was clearly the toxic friend, she pretended to be her close friend, changed her appearance, personality, kissed her, then as soon as her old friend came back she completely ditched Bertie

    • @bluebird1914
      @bluebird1914 9 месяцев назад +7

      For real. I wish that Bertie would've come to that realisation at the end of the episode.

  • @awkwardbean1504
    @awkwardbean1504 9 месяцев назад +10

    Just noticed how the songs lyrics "Youre something new" also reflect how Muriel sees Bertie. Not as a friend but as a pastime while she and Jessica weren't talking to each other. Someone to manipulate and transform into something reminiscent of her only to drop her the moment her *true* friend came back

  • @robynp9872
    @robynp9872 Год назад +78

    Love that the show also shows the timeline of them being together for max maybe a few months.
    It captures that feeling of being in HS, where everything feels like the most important thing in the world, and a week feels like a lifetime, and every detail impacts you so hard.

  • @ingloriousMachina
    @ingloriousMachina 2 года назад +27

    Obsessively daydreaming is how I wrote two books.
    I had to do SOMETHING with all those characters.

  • @veeblebeeble
    @veeblebeeble Год назад +11

    Just figured out that I do maladaptive daydreaming and everything makes so much more sense now. I do it for hours, and I can't stop. I've missed countless events and time with the people around me because I can't stop.

  • @RaysArtCorner
    @RaysArtCorner 9 месяцев назад +9

    fun fact: this video made me realize I am a maladaptive daydreamer.

  • @andersinn280
    @andersinn280 2 года назад +88

    I would actually kill for a full version of this song 😩❤️

    • @degenatron4572
      @degenatron4572 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

    • @dreamsandmemories4807
      @dreamsandmemories4807 2 года назад +16

      It exists, it’s a real song

    • @andersinn280
      @andersinn280 2 года назад +1

      @@dreamsandmemories4807 true but if there was a version more than 30 seconds that'd be great 😅

    • @bleached101
      @bleached101 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

    • @gudarin
      @gudarin 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

  • @dentistdamsel1345
    @dentistdamsel1345 Год назад +14

    I love how her (crush? I haven't seen the new seasons) is a bat, which is basically a cool goth bird

  • @ProNice
    @ProNice 2 года назад +28

    I never knew I had unusual daydreaming patterns ... until now...

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust 2 года назад +4

      If it's not causing you distress or causing problems in things like work, school, or relationships, then it's probably not unusual.

    • @ProNice
      @ProNice 2 года назад +1

      @@SocialLocust Oh it's definitely part of my disability diagnosis - but I thought I was just a severe case of ADHD with lots of escapism fantasies.

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust 2 года назад +3

      @@ProNice Then, it sounds like you did know it was unusual. You were just thinking of it by one name rather than another. It's still a matter of dopamine action in the brain. I mean, it's usually hard to know where one condition ends and another begins. It's not particularly important to distinguish most things as the one experiencing it. Mainly, it just comes down to what treatments are approved by insurance to treat what conditions. That's why, for example, someone with fibromyalgia will experience brain fog as part of their condition, but they may be diagnosed with add so that they will be able to get medications which are only approved for add, even though their symptoms are perfectly explained by the fibro.

    • @ProNice
      @ProNice 2 года назад +2

      @@SocialLocust That sounds about right! Luckily the amphetamine (Vyvanse) brings some relief to the more disruptive symptoms. I'm still fascinated that maladaptive daydreaming is a thing. Now that it has its own name - I see it more clearly as a pattern in my life. 'm interested if there are maybe behavior therapy methods to deal with the length and intensity.

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust 2 года назад +2

      @@ProNice It's not well recognized, so there aren't really treatments for it yet that I know of. Mostly, I have read about people telling their therapists or doctors and getting mistaken for having schizophrenia. I think that things which help ocd will be the most helpful. OCD has been found to be comorbid and they are both a mental addiction pattern. For me, the same types of things influence frequency of symptoms.

  • @snbsixteen6stars201
    @snbsixteen6stars201 2 года назад +23

    Kinda sad cus i love bats and fruitbats and they just had to make her that one really shitty friend that uses you as a temporary rebound

  • @alize0623
    @alize0623 2 года назад +41

    I had a friendship like this a long time ago. It was with a dude, though. We couldn’t have been closer and were the same from jump. Then, one day, I moved for college and he just blocked me the same day I got off the plane. I still remember the last thing I said to him was, “you’ll always be my best friend. I’ll love you forever.” And he replied back with “ily so much

    • @PartyTimePPLZ
      @PartyTimePPLZ Год назад

      I’m going through something similar, what helped you feel better when this happened?

    • @alize0623
      @alize0623 Год назад +9

      @@PartyTimePPLZ nothing. I just had to move on. I miss them everyday and there hasn’t been a day in the decade since we last spoke that I haven’t thought of them

    • @starwoodanime1532
      @starwoodanime1532 Год назад +3

      I used to have an amazing best friend but during highschool she suddenly stopped talking to me. Our friendship ended so fast.

  • @strawberrypockys3354
    @strawberrypockys3354 2 года назад +25

    Maladaptive daydreaming is the best feeling ever istg.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +15

      It can be but it makes reality worse

    • @strawberrypockys3354
      @strawberrypockys3354 2 года назад +3

      @@Guyro3278 true.

    • @strawberrypockys3354
      @strawberrypockys3354 2 года назад +3

      @@Guyro3278 it does suck sometimes ngl. Like sometimes I’ll lose track of time and I just end up talking to myself out loud without realizing. :/

    • @MsCatfish4
      @MsCatfish4 2 года назад +5

      I love the feeling of it when I’m doing it but then hate the feeling of falling back to reality realising it’s not real and feeling like a piece of shit for having them and then obsessing wayy too much about the main person in em

    • @no1legobatmanfan
      @no1legobatmanfan Год назад

      @@MsCatfish4Holy fucking shit Lpsawesome? your videos literally defined my childhood holy crap.

  • @vvampiricnature
    @vvampiricnature 9 месяцев назад +6

    I think the worst part about this is how hard it hits.

  • @aaabbb-ve9po
    @aaabbb-ve9po Год назад +73

    I daydream like this a lot. personally, I take it as a positive. it says to me that I desire things and people full of energy and life, and if it’s lukewarm it’s not something that I want. It’s very uplifting to me and reminds me of my vibrancy. It’s a beautiful thing to want to feel things in a world that’s comfortable with monotony. Sad that people view it as a problem.

    • @doransoran
      @doransoran Год назад +16

      I honestly feel like it is a problem if it interferes with your happiness/the way you view ppl and ur sense of what’s real or not.

    • @doransoran
      @doransoran Год назад +1

      But yes agreed

    • @guffawhyena4831
      @guffawhyena4831 9 месяцев назад +5

      I feel like it ruined my life, I lost all my friends and most of my family relationships because of it. I even have mood swings and yell at people who interrupt me or are trying to help me. I've hurt myself badly so much, and my body always hurts from how much I run hours on end. Most Maladaptive daydreamers hate doing it but can't stop because it's like an addiction. I've met people with it and it's just sad.
      Maybe your mistaking your daydreams with Immersive. Immersive daydreaming means you daydream a lot and enjoy it (and it's safe and normal to do). Maladaptive means it ruins your life and can be dangerous. It's confused a lot and it sucks because even therapist/counselors push it aside because of the misinformation (from TikTok and Google especially)

    • @GreenGorgeousness
      @GreenGorgeousness 8 месяцев назад +3

      Maladaptive daydreaming is like when you daydream instead of sleeping all night and then ruin your body because you didn't get any sleep.
      Or when you need to focus on something you love, but start daydreaming instead of actually doing it. Like someone else said, being interrupted feels like being slapped and you snap at people hurting your real life relationships.
      That's what makes it maladaptive, the destruction it inflicts on your life. Otherwise it's just daydreaming.

    • @AmberyTear
      @AmberyTear 7 месяцев назад +1

      Maladaptive daydreaming is not just intense daydreaming. It happens whether you want it or not, makes it impossible to function, do your work, engage in hobbies and do the most basic things. THAT'S why it's a problem. If it's not crippling you then it's just a healthy daydreaming.

  • @rulerzreachf4nnnn
    @rulerzreachf4nnnn 9 месяцев назад +8

    this is the second most accurate portrayal of maladaptive daydreaming in media I’ve ever seen

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  9 месяцев назад

      What’s the most?

    • @rulerzreachf4nnnn
      @rulerzreachf4nnnn 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@Guyro3278 Lewis’ level from What remains of Edith Finch! So realistic, I highly recommend watching a gameplay or even playing the game itself ^^

  • @missbork2468
    @missbork2468 2 года назад +131

    Wait, this was daydreaming? I thought that this was just an exaggerated montage of their friendship from Bertie's memories lol

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +115

      It was really complicated but Bertie was reliving a period of her life in a short span of time and scenes like this heavily reminded me of it. It wasn’t really daydreaming exactly but it was a great portrayal of how we view our memories and fantasies

    • @missbork2468
      @missbork2468 2 года назад +27

      @@Guyro3278 That makes a lot of sense, since her memories throughout the episode are kind of all over the place, like real memories are. That's part of why I love T&B 💖

    • @12DAMDO
      @12DAMDO 2 года назад +3

      it's a memory

    • @razarine
      @razarine 2 года назад +1

      I thought so too??

    • @haileybalmer9722
      @haileybalmer9722 Год назад +2

      (It is, this person is either misusing the term maladaptive daydreaming or misunderstanding the show)

  • @nileshollowthorn
    @nileshollowthorn Год назад +6

    This is one of the best episodes in the show for me, hands down. Heartbreaking.

  • @AKHV9708
    @AKHV9708 2 года назад +48

    Edit: okay there have been people telling me to not give up, I'm talking about my past and how the video reminded me of it. I'm not talking about my current life at all.
    This REMINDED me of all the PAST friends I had, that I work so hard to fit in with. Only to be back stab and abandon...I put in the work and effort, listen and comfort them...especially when they were at there low point, etc. Once they were done with me...I just didn't even exist....I still have paranoid trust issues. I guess it is my fault for trying to get to know someone, give them a chance and not judge them. I try my best...it wasn't enough....so I'm alone and If I don't try to befriend...I wouldn't get hurt again...cause no one ever see me... I'm just a background character. Which isn't fair because I believe everyone is a lead role character in their own life story.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад

      Well are you just going to give up on connections and sulk about it? Idk how old you are but Bertie was only a teenager, she was still young and had her whole life ahead of her and at her 30s has better friends and coping mechanisms and isn’t even around half her life yet. You could find new positive connections or you could just give up and feel bad about yourself. I related to this story hard and I was extremely depressed after but I still knew that I’ll find new people and that it will happen again as well, until eventually we know the right people. I’m not going to stop trying to get the life I want. That mindset of yours is just unproductive it doesn’t get you anywhere unless you’re content on “being a background character”.

    • @grayowl167
      @grayowl167 2 года назад +11

      @Allison Heinz-Villaneuva when you're ready to trust again, on your own terms, there are always new people to meet :) Trying new approaches leads to new results.

    • @AKHV9708
      @AKHV9708 2 года назад +5

      I like how this comment of mine got both the good positive criticism that got straight to the point with understanding kindness and then there's the negative criticism with it so call justifying act of kicking someone when there down.

    • @AKHV9708
      @AKHV9708 2 года назад +5

      @@grayowl167 Thank you, it's because of people like you. That I can keep some hope alive within me. I appreciate your kindness and understanding, you didn't assume or judge me base on my comment. You didn't jump to any conclusions, told me that it's alright to take my time to trust others again on my own terms. I really appreciate you thank you 😊

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +2

      @@AKHV9708 sorry if it hurt your feelings but I don’t think I was “kicking you while you were down.” I wouldn’t disrespect anything that may have happened to you. I think your feelings are valid. But I can’t justify myself to just enable those feelings rather than try to encourage you, even if it ends up being passive aggressive because it isn’t okay for you to continue feeling that way forever. You can take your time all you want it isn’t a simple thing to deal with by any means.

  • @CoralGardenWasteland
    @CoralGardenWasteland Год назад +10

    I had a friend in school with who i was really close. Now, we dont talk with each other anymore. Honestly, it does feel like a dream whenever i remember our time together.

  • @ischeele7203
    @ischeele7203 2 года назад +20

    Maybe she likes tapes being a bit muffled because she has bat hearing

  • @thatsanriosoftboy
    @thatsanriosoftboy 8 месяцев назад +5

    I still think about my ex girlfriend this way, and our relationship was actually pretty similar to Bertie and Muriel’s. I really loved her and I’d think about her all the time, and I spent every moment that I wasn’t with her imagining what it’d be like if she was there. She was cheating on me the entire time we were together, dumped me for her neighbor who ended up cheating on her, and than made it seem like she might want to get back together with me so she could use me for sex and attention. I found out she had been cheating on me the day after she said she didn’t want to get back together “because I’m afraid of hurting you again.” I still think about her a lot, and some part of me deep down still loves her, and doesn’t want to admit that she was beyond toxic and borderline abusive. I still wear the chapstick she liked, I still paint my nails her favorite color, I still wear the bracelet I made in both of our favorite colors, and I still sleep with the plush I named after her. I don’t want to let go, even though it hurts so much to think of her, but I can’t get myself to move on from her even after all of the awful things she did to me. I wish I had left when everyone in my life was begging me to, because they all saw the warning signs and were trying to get me to see them too. I do now, but it’s too late.

    • @_azumi_oni_3790
      @_azumi_oni_3790 6 месяцев назад

      I think you should see a psychologist about this... because you need to move on without your ex, the world is full of wonderful people like you❤

  • @dudedadric6514
    @dudedadric6514 Год назад +7

    This episode was actually so real

  • @fleabaguette9699
    @fleabaguette9699 2 года назад +18

    This brings back so many memories of falling for my best friend back in high school. Sigh. :/

    • @wetsockz3001
      @wetsockz3001 Год назад

      That’s why it sucks being friends with lesbian girls

  • @Ambipie
    @Ambipie 10 месяцев назад +7

    poor girl. The only reason she never fell for another girl is because Speckle was perfect. and so the secret died on muriels backstabbing hand.

  • @brunobucciaratiswife
    @brunobucciaratiswife Год назад +5

    This sucks. I lost all my friends, even the people who swore they’d be there forever. As soon as I left school due to trauma they turned on me and told me they never even liked me. I was absolutely friendless up until like a year ago. Even now I only have one friend. Sometimes I think back to all the good times I spent with my friends and how happy I was with them, and have dumb little daydreams like this..

  • @no1legobatmanfan
    @no1legobatmanfan Год назад +4

    this episode was genuinely a masterpiece

  • @limeslush1e
    @limeslush1e Год назад +3

    DANG this is how i had to find out they made more of the show after it was cancelled???? TWO MORE SEASONS??

  • @lisah5750
    @lisah5750 2 года назад +41

    Ugh that bat girl was the worst

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +53

      I thought she was at least well written even if I don’t like her. She reminds me of an old friend tbh.

    • @coffintears5821
      @coffintears5821 2 года назад +13

      @@Guyro3278 she reminds me of one friend too eventhough she wasn't goth.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +2

      @@coffintears5821 care to elaborate?

    • @lonelyrooster
      @lonelyrooster 2 года назад +3

      @@coffintears5821 We'd love to hear your story if you're comfortable

    • @coffintears5821
      @coffintears5821 2 года назад +4

      @@lonelyrooster ok so let's call this person Annie since I don't want to use her real name. She basically was my first friend at the beginning of 6th grade at first we were practically inseparable almost like sisters but the more I started hanging out with her the more she got sick of me and for a while we wouldn't see eachother and she would always hang out with my other friend who wasn't exactly my friend since we were never hung out that much. Soon she started drifting away from me and by the time 7th grade rolled around we hardly ever saw eachother and went I entered 8th grade she went to another school I suspected she only tolerated me because she felt sorry for me since I was basically the weird loner girl nobody wanted to be around. So she befriended me out of pity.
      I copied alot of things she did out of admiration kinda like Bertie and became sort of an alter ego of my friend. The thing she liked most was hello kitty so I was into hello kitty too for a while til I moved onto something else. I have vague memories of her now and I barely even remember what she looks like but she still hurt my feelings and that's always something I will remember.

  • @AmberyTear
    @AmberyTear 7 месяцев назад +1

    One part missing is when you snap out of it for a moment, look at the clock only to realize 5 hours have passed, start crying because now you won't get shit done on time and immediately fall back into being your brain's hostage again.

  • @d4dm05
    @d4dm05 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love this scene so much.. couldn’t relate more 😭😭😭

  • @peppermintpattycam5546
    @peppermintpattycam5546 Год назад +2

    I had the same exact thing happen to me people can use you just like that- but you know what you are strong and powerful don’t let anyone tell you you aren’t.

  • @MsCatfish4
    @MsCatfish4 2 года назад +16

    This was her maladaptive daydreaming? When watching the episode I thought this was a montage of things they did together

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +10

      You’re right it is, but the way her brain remembers it feels just like how daydreamers dream about things.

  • @FilmmakeroftheFuture
    @FilmmakeroftheFuture Год назад +4

    I wonder how Muriel really saw Bertie. Maybe she felt sorry for her but really didn’t want to commit.

  • @yesikanarvaez5027
    @yesikanarvaez5027 2 года назад +35

    I like the music

  • @rebutterfly
    @rebutterfly 9 месяцев назад +5

    Bertie is wearing a collar in this memory, a symbol of being captive, like a pet, enslaved to her owner.

  • @hazardofmadness6750
    @hazardofmadness6750 Год назад +5

    Gurl you get into Retrowave once, you wanna return to the times when corona wasnt even thougt of and enjoy the ride in your new Delorean

  • @wormpielars979
    @wormpielars979 6 месяцев назад +1

    neurodivergence and limerence is such a rough combo

  • @maxyhere
    @maxyhere 2 года назад +36

    I hate maladaptive daydreaming....I didn't even knew how to call it until a few months ago

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +13

      I knew I had an issue with daydreaming but thought it was just me being lonely all the time, once I learned about general maladaptive disorders I noticed how I had all those symptoms and that it was a real mental problem.

  • @there2745
    @there2745 2 года назад +11

    Oh god, this reminds me of when I first got a phone and the first number I put on it was a friend at the time. I constantly texted them because it all was so new to me 🤦‍♀️ and I cringe the same way as Bertie, fuck.

  • @silvercheetah92
    @silvercheetah92 2 года назад +4

    Oh god she had to listen to the tape in the car because she didn't have a tape player that takes me back

  • @snbsixteen6stars201
    @snbsixteen6stars201 2 года назад +5

    Still amazing song, godda be my new jam

  • @sablerivera7095
    @sablerivera7095 Год назад +7

    It's rough though because it's like her friend egged on these changes. She wanted Bertie to change then dumped her when she did and that shit stung tbh.

  • @boyinblue.
    @boyinblue. 2 года назад +17

    Didn't really resonate with me, real people (including myself) are never in my day dreams. In fact, I come up with every person within them. But I do vibe with the idea of music stating the daydream, music and ideas from TV shows normally give me grand ideas.

  • @charlie-jd3ls
    @charlie-jd3ls 2 года назад +2

    😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ im obsessed

  • @y.9645
    @y.9645 Год назад +2

    For me it was BPD and shifting into said FP.

  • @pearlgoddess2940
    @pearlgoddess2940 Год назад +1

    Lmao I didn't watch this season so I assumed by the thumbnail that this clip would be about Bertie daydreaming about dancing with her furby 🤣

  • @Hchris101
    @Hchris101 2 года назад +3

    This si a good anime

  • @tergivesup6783
    @tergivesup6783 Год назад +2

    reminds me of life is strange.

  • @EmmaJ_95
    @EmmaJ_95 4 месяца назад

    If you live in the UK you can watch Season 2 & 3 on 4 on Demand 😊

  • @Guyro3278
    @Guyro3278  2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for 20,000 views and 1,000 likes
    Edit: Wow thanks for 100,000 views now! ❤️

  • @creepymiddleagedman
    @creepymiddleagedman Год назад +2

    Okay, here's the song link:
    ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

  • @d3ath-by-bruj4h
    @d3ath-by-bruj4h Год назад +3

    I was she didn't end up mean, she could have really helped bertie out of her shell (no pun intended)

  • @dissonanceparadiddle
    @dissonanceparadiddle 2 года назад +7

    Man i really thought and hopped she'd be a good person for Bertie but dang. She was not as cool as she seemed at first ....i guess that's the point

  • @mellypon
    @mellypon Год назад +3

    okay just gonna ask: *song name?*

    • @sprieite
      @sprieite Год назад +2

      you’re something new by lee richardson and others

  • @scarfguy5337
    @scarfguy5337 Год назад

    I love cassettes

  • @gamingghost6590
    @gamingghost6590 2 года назад +9

    What song is this?

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +3

      You’re something new, I linked it in the description

  • @patheticrazor
    @patheticrazor 2 года назад

    That bat girl is adorable tho

  • @Mysteri0usPuppet
    @Mysteri0usPuppet Год назад +1

    I’m never truly gonna let go of Lydia huh.. I said I didn’t care yet here I am. Only watching Tuva and Bertie because I know I relate to much to the show. Wow. I can’t believe I’ve faked it for so long I even tricked myself.

  • @Charlotte-ft3hv
    @Charlotte-ft3hv 2 года назад +14

    This reminds me of something that happened that I would like to call: The salad incident
    What caused this: Around the time when I was in the 5th grade I met a girl named Akira, we became friends. We hung out at each other's houses, went to the same school, and she introduced me to some of the types of music I listen to today, she was really pretty and kind, I ended up developing feelings for her, and later told her about the way I felt towards her, she didn't feel the same way....fast forward a few months and me and her are still friends. So my mum took us to a event in the city, everything was going fine till we walked down to see some music, later she started calling someone on her phone, I thought it was her mum bc her mum was very protective of her, so I asked who she was on the phone with. I didn't get a answer, instead she ran into a crowd of people, and my and my mom starting running after her, when we reached her, she was with her so called 'aunt' (a close friend of her mum's) and next to her aunt we're 2 police officers, my mom tried to ask my friend what was going on but the officers wouldn't allow my mum to talk to her. Later we were at the officers booth talking about what was going on and here's the story we got:
    My friend had went up to the officers and told them that my mom was drunk off her ass, and that see wasn't letting her go home. (None of that is true, my mom only had one drink that whole night, and we were about to leave anyway.)
    So while my mom is driving home, I'm quietly crying in the backseat
    Once we get home I ran up to my room and got into bed and cried myself to sleep
    Fast forward a few days and me and my friend are.back in school together. I avoided her for a few days before we started kinda started talking like nothing happened. And then summer started. She was leaving my school bc of the bullying she was getting, and I didn't really have a way to communicate with her other than Pinterest, I don't understand why she told those police officers about my mom......
    The salad incident: I was watching a clip of Birdy and the goth bat girl and it made me think back to how my friend and how she kinda changed my whole personality in a way. So I started to feel depressed about never seeing my friend again, but I had to eat dinner with my mom and I didn't feel like crying Infront of her. So I ate trying not to talk in fear that the next thing that would come out would be sobs. My mom asked me why I was sad,.I told her I didn't know why, but as I looked down at my salad it just made me feel worse somehow....My mom guesses that I was sad bc of my period and the cramps I was feeling throughout the week. She said that I would get over it soon, that's when I got up. And threw away my plate of salad. I asked my mom for some hot tea and went up stairs to my bedroom to read (which always makes me feel happy)
    Sometimes I wonder if my friend cut me off because she felt uncomfortable about me likely her in a romantic way or if she just didn't like me anymore....she did have cooler friends.....

  • @scribbleshrimp
    @scribbleshrimp 9 месяцев назад

    So real

  • @ktprogamercoolgirl5746
    @ktprogamercoolgirl5746 Год назад +1

    I really wish I could find the song

    • @gladeseason3462
      @gladeseason3462 11 месяцев назад

      It’s called You’re Something New by Lee Richardson

  • @Magical_Jade
    @Magical_Jade 2 года назад +4

    May I ask why the goth bat broke off the friendship to Birdie?

    • @TADYR
      @TADYR Год назад +3

      She got mad that Bertie won Gothiest in the school yearbook and criticized her for 'copying' her, then told Bertie she was only hanging out with her because she felt bad for her about what happened at the jelly lakes (they met through bertie venting about it)

  • @NagitosWifeSpotty
    @NagitosWifeSpotty Год назад

    slay i daydcream 2 😍

  • @TravellerZasha
    @TravellerZasha Год назад +2

    Wait, you're telling me people don't normally maladaptivly daydream from the moment they are born? XD

  • @SkullpunkArt
    @SkullpunkArt 2 года назад +1

    I love this! What show is it?

    • @kismetmoon9294
      @kismetmoon9294 2 года назад +3

      tuca and bertie !

    • @SkullpunkArt
      @SkullpunkArt 2 года назад +2

      @@kismetmoon9294 yeah I guess that should’ve been obvious lol, thanks!

    • @kismetmoon9294
      @kismetmoon9294 2 года назад +1

      @@SkullpunkArt no worries :)

  • @Gooberwares
    @Gooberwares Год назад +1

    Song plz

  • @rootfish2671
    @rootfish2671 2 года назад +1

    Rouge the bat

  • @blikk6054
    @blikk6054 Год назад

    "ur never be my friend"

  • @slime_skull6152
    @slime_skull6152 Год назад

    Anyone else really like the song I want like a full version of it

  • @mischasmith5136
    @mischasmith5136 Год назад +1

    Name of song?

  • @anneira9706
    @anneira9706 Год назад

    Muriel looks like the drummer in Hex Girls from Scooby-doo

  • @zackpumpkinhead8882
    @zackpumpkinhead8882 Год назад

    This is my relationsip with Harvey Danger: a band.
    Minus the goth bat friend.
    And... the general lived experiences
    My life is pretty dull

  • @askosefamerve
    @askosefamerve 2 года назад +2

    My dreams aren't that serious luckily lol... BTW should i watch this show?

  • @AmariAmai27
    @AmariAmai27 Год назад +1

    what song is this?

  • @dentistdamsel1345
    @dentistdamsel1345 Год назад

    Where can I watch the new seasons btw, I don't have Netflix or HBO Max, is it on Adult Swim's website yet?

  • @drpepper8144
    @drpepper8144 2 года назад +4

    What song is this

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  2 года назад +5

      You’re something new. I linked it in the description. It’s not on RUclips anywhere only Spotify.

    • @drpepper8144
      @drpepper8144 2 года назад +1

      @@Guyro3278 thanks

    • @MrPhantaze
      @MrPhantaze 2 года назад

      @@Guyro3278 wrong, it's just well hidden ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

    • @midwich4564
      @midwich4564 2 года назад +1

      It actually is on youtube, but yeah you can't find it by searching for it? Or something. Here's the link to the song on YT if you still want it. ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html

    • @millikiro6102
      @millikiro6102 2 года назад

      @@Guyro3278 Hey I was able to find the song here on RUclips.
      Here’s the link: ruclips.net/video/WNJnjgIupI4/видео.html
      Hope this helps a lot ^^

  • @shellman1yt816
    @shellman1yt816 Год назад

    Whoa

  • @CreatrixxxINK
    @CreatrixxxINK 2 года назад

    💜💕✨

  • @wfaluna
    @wfaluna Год назад +1

    Song name?

  • @Puuuurrrr
    @Puuuurrrr Год назад

    Wait what episode is this from I don’t remember this scene omfg

  • @bittlesthecookieakacaitcat8798

    Same

  • @melteddarkchocolate000
    @melteddarkchocolate000 2 года назад

    Wait is there not a full somg of the song? Like why is it so hard to find?

    • @TADYR
      @TADYR Год назад

      It's on youtube and spotify! It's called You're Something New

  • @aloveboat99
    @aloveboat99 4 месяца назад +1

    Happy i mever got messy with a goth chick cause she would've been the end of me😭😭

  • @lizanezhyva3570
    @lizanezhyva3570 Год назад

    Which episode is it ?