Agree. My mom used to get tired of us fighting, she would have offered each of us knife for kept fighting. Once she got to college on different island, we missed each other. Now we’re like best friends
No one really talks about how good brothers and sisters Ross and Monica are, you can't always find siblinghood that great, speaking from personal experience
I think it’s weird that they are best friends. The whole friend group is pretty strange, why is Ross and Rachel still friends after all the drama, and I think everybody seemed to of slept with each other.
Ross and Monica's parents are horrible, favoring one child and treating the other like she is just OK. The room, her stuff and the loss of the wedding funds. Ross became kinda wimpy by the pampering and Monica became suuuuuper stressed and competitive
I totally agree. And there was never a definite closure with her mother, besides a couple of them in the fourth season. She needed to apologize to Monica. At least her father compensated by giving her his Porsche.
@@lordalessan ross a good brother. He helped out wirh everything and gave monica money. If he were to get caught i am sure he would stick to his sister's side
@TheMrsilverscott there were a brother sister characters on here that were really close and it grossed them all out, Rachel was dating the brother name was danny.
i love how at start when monica leaves the bathroom, our man chandler is concerned and stands up to ask her about hows she feeling ...and blushing later !!!!!
America is particularly weird about it. Out to college and see you later (or hardly ever after). American parents are often heard speaking of their home, theirs alone. It’s strange. My parents would get upset if I was referring to their home as their home only and not my home anymore as an adult. Your home is where your mom is forever :)
Watching Ross and Monica is like watching me and my brother being treated unfairly. I'm the one who always had to be tougher and my brother can easily get help from them since he's their favorite. And since he's the favorite child, he could never do wrong. Lol. Even if he did wrong, they would do their best to cover him. And the worst part would be me having to face consequences of his bad behaviors. Like when my parents become paranoid of me going out with friends just because my brother lied to them about going out to tuition classes but instead he went out meeting his gf back then. Is that fair?
If love was fair, would it taste as bitter? Todd and Monica are like siblings. Your brother went to tuition classes and stood up for fair trade coffee roasters. And chocolatiers. It isn’t fair.
First off, I just wish to say that I think Monica was always treated unfairly by her parents and she deserved better. But it is super clear that she never saved up the way her parents taught her, which makes me root for Ross at times. It was so unfair that her parents never paid for her wedding, but this explains why she literally had no money and tried to pressure Chandler into giving up his savings.
So unfair that her parents never paid for her wedding? Why should parents have to pay for ANY wedding? I've always found that tradition to be incredibly stupid, even immoral. "Mom, Dad, I know you paid to raise me for nearly 20 years (and possibly college), but now I've met someone and I'd like you to spend thousands more of your money to pay for that".
@@Vyselink I'm pretty sure they are saying it's unfair of them not to pay since they paid for Ross's wedding. So if they are paying for one child why wouldn't they pay for the other. That was the point they were making.
@vyselink Parents do not have to pay for their kids’ weddings. However, in this show it is clear that Monica’s parents told her they would pay for her wedding whenever she got married. Monica freely mentions the Monica Wedding Fund around them and later in the series they tell her they did save money for her wedding but then spent it on other things. I think it is unfair of them to lead her to believe they will pay and never tell her they changed their minds until she’s engaged. She didn’t think she needed to save for a wedding. She even had different wedding scenarios planned out because she didn’t know exactly what her parents’ budget would be.
the "monica fat" jokes get very very old very quickly. At least with flashbacks of other characters there's a little more going on with their characters, but with monica every single joke is that she's fat. It was just lazy
i guess ross is the only person who doesn't had money problems for whole 10 seasons. Even chandler faced problem when quitted his job and borrowed from joey.
I would also add Phoebe, at least not to the extent that she could not afford basic necessity like food, clothing or rent. She only object to the other half of the gang who had steady job vs all low wages members of the group. I think while she acually lost her job, i did not remember much that she had money issue although again, it could happen behind the scene. But the show just don't bring that up.
@@dodixaber8968 subtly, show portrayed her weaker financial conditions, when she tried to sell knives by cutting the soda cans or something to that effect
of course he did. he has to take a leave of absence from his job and lost his apartment. he had to live with chandler and joey for a while and if he didn't have friends or family he would be on the street.
IDK how monica turned out ok. In another parallel universe, Judy would be proud of her daughter for becoming an ambitious reporter and helping bring down killers, of course she changes her name from monica to gale weathers riley
that's me and my brother .. and sister, like.. if one of us falls on hard times, hell to the nah, we all pulling each other up, because... our mom is scary and we'll never hear the end of it.
Phoebe: Hey, Monica, what's this? Monica: Oh, that's my old bathing suit from high school. I was bigger then. Chandler: Really? I thought that's what they used to cover Connecticut when it rained.
This particular building they lived in was quite old and the rent was a steal...that's why Monica moved in here once her grandma passed away.. They didn't even inform the owner that her grandma had died and she was living in place of her.. apparently that was possible then?
@@astrology2290 Monica lived in a rent controlled apartment left to her by her grand mother, Rachel lived with monica in the same cheap apartment and phoebes grandmother also left her an apartment. yeah this show is ridiculous. also because they never EVER actually had any shots in NYC
This was the episode that jump-started "Fat Monica" and made her a semi-regular. Chandler not being familiar here with FM was swept under the rug in future episodes because it was clear that he had met her when she was chubby, years before
one reason monica might have had money problems is that her type of job is spotty in terms of pay as was her roommate situation yet bills are steady also it doesn't take long to burn through savings say you have 5 thousand in the bank that is 2 months of rent bills and grocery at best
Monica was always spending the most on food. Cooking often for all of them isn't cheap. Those Thanksgiving dinners alone had to have been a lot of money.
Yeah, I often wondered if any of them thought to pitch in some $$$ to help out considering how often she was the hostess. Granted , she loved being the hostesss and may have felt uncomfortable asking . $$$ is a weird thing
Well as was noted in the show Monica had a problem with certain types of conversation and money was definitely a area she was reluctant to talk about in that way
It's because he's their favourite and gets special treatment therefore loves to see his parents again and he's more childish returning to his son role.
If this was an asian sitcom, the brother wouldn't ask for the money back and the mom would insist the daughter lives home for free until she gets married
Dude logically speaking , Monica ain’t broke. Look at the apartment she is living in , an apartment like that in New York would cost crazy amount of money.
Mine became a master bathroom. I still tease them about it sometimes. But besides them giving away nearly my entire book collection, while I was at college, I don't much care.
Out of all the things people him for, a bad brother is not one of them. Literally love his sister and his sister loves him more and always very protective of him. How do you get the idea that he is a terrible brother??
Neither of those things were present in this show. I understand people seeing fat shaming, but it's ultimately just friends joking with each other and (if they were real) they'd probably stop if they were actually offending her (overthinking it, I know, but that's the vibe I get from these scenes.) Friends is one of the last places you'll find homophobia though - it treats being gay like exactly what it is; normal, and "worst" it does is make jokes about straight people not wanting to look gay (which is worthy of playful mockery - who cares if you look gay?) other than that, it's just simple stereotype jokes (which aren't at all hateful), metaphorical scenes (characters of the same sex have a conversation that makes them sound married/dating/divorced/broken up) and at least one subversion/parody. I'd even say that with shows like Friends around in many of our childhoods or at least from when we were younger (I started watching around 2005/2006) that I am surprised homophobia still exists, due to how "normalized" being gay was (even though it *is* normal) within the show, and how the overall vibe was it doesn't and shouldn't matter.
The sibling bond improves once your not living together.
I totally agree
Truer words were never spoken
Oh yes.
Agree. My mom used to get tired of us fighting, she would have offered each of us knife for kept fighting. Once she got to college on different island, we missed each other. Now we’re like best friends
No, no it does not. Not in my case, at least.
No one really talks about how good brothers and sisters Ross and Monica are, you can't always find siblinghood that great, speaking from personal experience
An actual stable family. Rate
I think it’s weird that they are best friends. The whole friend group is pretty strange, why is Ross and Rachel still friends after all the drama, and I think everybody seemed to of slept with each other.
Ron and Ginny Weasley
Not to mention they are each others first kids ssooo yeah. Not weird at all.
Kiss 🤦🏽♀️
Ross and Monica's parents are horrible, favoring one child and treating the other like she is just OK.
The room, her stuff and the loss of the wedding funds. Ross became kinda wimpy by the pampering and Monica became suuuuuper stressed and competitive
I totally agree. And there was never a definite closure with her mother, besides a couple of them in the fourth season. She needed to apologize to Monica. At least her father compensated by giving her his Porsche.
@@lordalessan ross a good brother. He helped out wirh everything and gave monica money. If he were to get caught i am sure he would stick to his sister's side
yeah, makes for some funny TV!
Jack was, most of the time, clueless but Judy was a bitch to Monica. That's probably the reason why Monica is more of a daddy's girl.
So, basically they made her a winner and him a weiner!
Monica gets her “I know!” From her dads “I’m just saying!”
I know!
@@oz_jonesalright relax he was just saying 😂
Ross and Monica's siblinghood is just great♡
Ross was a very good brother to Monica. Actually they were very good siblings to each other.
Better than the ones that wrestled.
@@senister14 What are you talking about??? I don't understand
@TheMrsilverscott there were a brother sister characters on here that were really close and it grossed them all out, Rachel was dating the brother name was danny.
@@senister14 Oh ok, yeah they were gross. Grown and still bathing together 🥴
@@TheMrsilverscott yep, and not to save water.
2:30 “Anything larger back there?” 😂😂😂😂
i love how at start when monica leaves the bathroom, our man chandler is concerned and stands up to ask her about hows she feeling ...and blushing later !!!!!
Blushing? Where?
so your comment is the reason this part of the video is the most replayed huh
And Ross offers to give her money. Still don't get why people don't like him?
AND at the end he makes a fat joke.
2:03 Underrated line. 😂
I will never EVER understand why people have kids if they don't want to help them out. It truly truly blows my mind.
they want kids not adults
Me too
America is particularly weird about it. Out to college and see you later (or hardly ever after). American parents are often heard speaking of their home, theirs alone. It’s strange. My parents would get upset if I was referring to their home as their home only and not my home anymore as an adult. Your home is where your mom is forever :)
"Anything larger back there?" lol
It's awful if your parents make you feel stressed so much so that u can't speak out serious problems without stressing
I agree. I dont understand people who have kids.
My parents
Love early Friends season, very 90’s feeling and look I love it.
jack geller is so unhinged in the 90s lmao
“Where have you been?”
“Emotional hell.”
It might be funny but it was sad
Of course they had to leave in the joke from Chandler at the end lol
Bro was mean 😂
It was brutal though
@@gingooreal and yet he still bagged her
"Cheap-a-saurus!!"😆😆😆
Chandler end touch is always funny.
Watching Ross and Monica is like watching me and my brother being treated unfairly. I'm the one who always had to be tougher and my brother can easily get help from them since he's their favorite. And since he's the favorite child, he could never do wrong. Lol. Even if he did wrong, they would do their best to cover him. And the worst part would be me having to face consequences of his bad behaviors. Like when my parents become paranoid of me going out with friends just because my brother lied to them about going out to tuition classes but instead he went out meeting his gf back then. Is that fair?
If love was fair, would it taste as bitter? Todd and Monica are like siblings. Your brother went to tuition classes and stood up for fair trade coffee roasters. And chocolatiers. It isn’t fair.
Jack geller is my fave parents in friends 🤣
@stryfetc1 oh yes he was
I love Joey's dad as well, even though he was a cheater.
@@potatofries9939 why is that?
@@evyjuniastina697 I mean he cheated on joeys mom!
@@potatofries9939 But she was OK with it, cause it made him a better husband!
First off, I just wish to say that I think Monica was always treated unfairly by her parents and she deserved better. But it is super clear that she never saved up the way her parents taught her, which makes me root for Ross at times. It was so unfair that her parents never paid for her wedding, but this explains why she literally had no money and tried to pressure Chandler into giving up his savings.
The character of Monica is a lot smarter than that so I don't know why they made her do that
So unfair that her parents never paid for her wedding? Why should parents have to pay for ANY wedding? I've always found that tradition to be incredibly stupid, even immoral. "Mom, Dad, I know you paid to raise me for nearly 20 years (and possibly college), but now I've met someone and I'd like you to spend thousands more of your money to pay for that".
Hey ma and pa, where’s that part of your retirement fund I get to blow on fancy invitation cards and exorbitant decorations?
@@Vyselink I'm pretty sure they are saying it's unfair of them not to pay since they paid for Ross's wedding. So if they are paying for one child why wouldn't they pay for the other. That was the point they were making.
@vyselink Parents do not have to pay for their kids’ weddings. However, in this show it is clear that Monica’s parents told her they would pay for her wedding whenever she got married. Monica freely mentions the Monica Wedding Fund around them and later in the series they tell her they did save money for her wedding but then spent it on other things. I think it is unfair of them to lead her to believe they will pay and never tell her they changed their minds until she’s engaged. She didn’t think she needed to save for a wedding. She even had different wedding scenarios planned out because she didn’t know exactly what her parents’ budget would be.
The last punch line from Chandler, at the end of the video, is much better than the entire video... lol
the "monica fat" jokes get very very old very quickly. At least with flashbacks of other characters there's a little more going on with their characters, but with monica every single joke is that she's fat. It was just lazy
i guess ross is the only person who doesn't had money problems for whole 10 seasons. Even chandler faced problem when quitted his job and borrowed from joey.
I would also add Phoebe, at least not to the extent that she could not afford basic necessity like food, clothing or rent. She only object to the other half of the gang who had steady job vs all low wages members of the group.
I think while she acually lost her job, i did not remember much that she had money issue although again, it could happen behind the scene. But the show just don't bring that up.
@@dodixaber8968 subtly, show portrayed her weaker financial conditions, when she tried to sell knives by cutting the soda cans or something to that effect
@@dodixaber8968 She used 2 be homeless!
of course he did. he has to take a leave of absence from his job and lost his apartment. he had to live with chandler and joey for a while and if he didn't have friends or family he would be on the street.
why do you think most Americans cant relate to Ross? lmao
im at this phase of my life right now. feels bad man
I hope everything is alright now 💓 god bless 🙏
stay strong
Ross is good to help his sister when she is broke and at her lowest.
The relationship Monica and Ross has is what me and my brother have 🥰
So has your brother kissed you too???
@@Psalm-xyz I’m not talking sexually you weirdo
That last joke with the bathing suit was totally unrelated but HAD to be included lol
IDK how monica turned out ok. In another parallel universe, Judy would be proud of her daughter for becoming an ambitious reporter and helping bring down killers, of course she changes her name from monica to gale weathers riley
They were never so fond of her briefly hooking up with some Pet detective from Florida
Monica was going through a lot of things with her family and friends when she was younger but now she has a lot more things going on with her life
Miss this show 😢
that's me and my brother .. and sister, like.. if one of us falls on hard times, hell to the nah, we all pulling each other up, because... our mom is scary and we'll never hear the end of it.
So true!! My brother and I are the same!
Remember when it was their parents wedding anniversary and Monica gave the speech but they wanted Ross to make one. He was the favourite !
Reminds me of the time I was a night shift manager at Burger King and the Monicas and Rachels who walked through the door asking for a job.
I like how they stuck with the whole Monica sucks at saving money thing.
God bless everyone.
Tht THAT GODFORBID part 😂😂😂
I love their bond! #SiblingGoals
Anyone else learn the 10% rule from their parents? I did. It's the only reason this scene is memorable to me.
This plus buying the expensive boots and not having any money for her wedding makes me think Monica wasn't very good at handling her money.
Phoebe: Hey, Monica, what's this?
Monica: Oh, that's my old bathing suit from high school. I was bigger then.
Chandler: Really? I thought that's what they used to cover Connecticut when it rained.
Considering the cost of rent in NYC, Ross must be loaded. But this episode remains one of my favorites.
my rent for a 2 bed in upper east side in 1991 was $650/month, just saying.
Probably the only person capable of living in Manhattan... 5 years ago. Rachel and the rest would have never been living in the city at all.
This particular building they lived in was quite old and the rent was a steal...that's why Monica moved in here once her grandma passed away..
They didn't even inform the owner that her grandma had died and she was living in place of her.. apparently that was possible then?
LOL this was over 20 years ago.. it wasnt expensive then.
@@astrology2290 Monica lived in a rent controlled apartment left to her by her grand mother, Rachel lived with monica in the same cheap apartment and phoebes grandmother also left her an apartment. yeah this show is ridiculous. also because they never EVER actually had any shots in NYC
A cheapasaurus! LOL
Courtney is so beautiful.
And yes, they use it to cover Connecticut when it rains
"I'm just saying! "
This was the episode that jump-started "Fat Monica" and made her a semi-regular. Chandler not being familiar here with FM was swept under the rug in future episodes because it was clear that he had met her when she was chubby, years before
Imagine spending 90% of your paycheck, and you don't even pay rent.
THE BANK "the bank"😅
Dr Green and Jack Geller should have shared a scene... I'm just saying!...
Not Connecticut 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Monica and Ross were good siblings. It's funny how Monica won in love but Ross lost a few times.
Three divorces, three divorces, three divorces!
Is that Jack's Porsche in the cut scene, driving to Monica's?
one reason monica might have had money problems is that her type of job is spotty in terms of pay as was her roommate situation yet bills are steady also it doesn't take long to burn through savings say you have 5 thousand in the bank that is 2 months of rent bills and grocery at best
Monica was always spending the most on food. Cooking often for all of them isn't cheap. Those Thanksgiving dinners alone had to have been a lot of money.
Yeah, I often wondered if any of them thought to pitch in some $$$ to help out considering how often she was the hostess. Granted , she loved being the hostesss and may have felt uncomfortable asking . $$$ is a weird thing
Well as was noted in the show Monica had a problem with certain types of conversation and money was definitely a area she was reluctant to talk about in that way
Last Reunion
cheapasaurus LOL
Am i the the only one who never understood why Monica named her son after her dad. He definitely wasn't worth it. Both of them were horrible parents.
He gave her the Porche!
monicant save money
I like this common space
I've never understood him running from the door to his mom in the living room.
to prevent them walking over him cause they are older maybe 🤷♂
Son meets mom and expresses affection by running 🏃♂️ upto her. Duh
It's because he's their favourite and gets special treatment therefore loves to see his parents again and he's more childish returning to his son role.
Also Rachel rejected him in the scene before (hence "emotional hell")
Kinda off topic but that Porsche 911 looks similar to Jack's. 0:32
I didn't know her name was Harmonica... 😅
Jack mentions his office. What exactly does he do for a living?
What does Judy do for a living?
Judy is a housewife i believe and Jack is a doctor. But has been years since i watched so grain of salt
@@oz_jones Jack is not a Doctor. Rachel's father is a Doctor. Jack is a business man.
lol I guaranteed Judy doesnt work.
If this was an asian sitcom, the brother wouldn't ask for the money back and the mom would insist the daughter lives home for free until she gets married
If my parents turned my room into a gym i would never forgive them
I thought her grandmother owned the apartment and gave Monica the apartment.
In NYC you can inherit leases. That means someone else owns it but you have the right to live there without getting the rent increased.
She still has to pay rent. It's just not as high.
It was in her grandmother's name and it was rent controlled, so the monthly rent never increased
@@razojacqueline 👍 thx you.
@@Doodmeister0 👍 thx you too.
Dude logically speaking , Monica ain’t broke. Look at the apartment she is living in , an apartment like that in New York would cost crazy amount of money.
It’s a rent controlled apartment that belonged to her aunt
@@boomds5602 it belonged to her grandmother
That was in 1999
it was rent controlled and it belonged to her grandmother
@@demonlord4661 1994
Ross and Monica’s parents are the absolute worst.
So the parents didn't lend their own daughter some money?
Their society isn't as free with respect to these things... parents might not even know how much $$$ their kids make and wise versa
Monica and ross are like gigi hadid and bella hadid .
Oh monica
i feel bad that monica s mom and dad turn her old bedroom into a gym
Mine became a master bathroom. I still tease them about it sometimes. But besides them giving away nearly my entire book collection, while I was at college, I don't much care.
A woman in my office is a lesbian
MEG
Monica Elizabeth Geller
Monica Eullula Geller
Monica Ella Geller
Monica Emerson Geller
Monica Eustace Geller
Monica Esther Geller
Wrong on all. Its Monica Faloola Geller.
@@Jack1994hoo if u spell her initials it's actually named after a giant Shark
@@leonardolim8976 also the hated daughter on Family Guy
Yeah ! Me tooo
we need an episode about Ross's baby raised by 2 lesbians ended up to be a transgender.
*_Now write that WITHOUT crying_* 👍😄✝
Pay the rent ? It's her apartment that she got after her granny expired.. paying rent to whom ?
Her grandma was renting it not owning
Monica was illegally subletting the apartment, she admits it when she meets Joey!
Friends hence
Did he just say merit badges as in boy scout merit badges wow Ross Geller a boy scout I'm a boy scout that's cool to think about.
What is Family giving you money... that is a bit odd to me.... never had that done before... LOL
Which episode is this ?
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hi
IM JUST SAYING
Damn! She looks so fine!
Im 22,this show hqve taught me never to have a fav son or daughter......ill never be like those gellers
Ross and Rachel
I dunno why I read it as "Monica is BOKE".....
Ross was a pretty terrible brother let's be honest.
Out of all the things people him for, a bad brother is not one of them.
Literally love his sister and his sister loves him more and always very protective of him. How do you get the idea that he is a terrible brother??
3:06 wtf
I didn't get this . Why she has to pay rent. Its her grandma's apartment.???
ross - great brother .
Aww, they shouldn't make fun of her size
Yeah, because elephants dont forget
I thought all of her stuff got destroyed trying to protect the Porsche. Do these shoes ever keep it together. Shows
that was much later. and this was the stuff in her room, not in storage
Do you ever keep it together and check what seasons you are talking about? 🤦
In one episode she says she got that appartment from her grand'ma otherwise she could never afford to live there .......... So there's no rent WTF
Her grandmother was renting. She probably had rent control.
@@GabrielleduVent Yep they mention this a few times, at how cheap it was to rent
Monica was illegally subletting the apartment, she admits it when she meets Joey!
Blessings
0:32 trade center
ha ha ha ha ha
I really like Monica but I still fucking Phobe.
I wonder how is it that in western culture, children needs to lend money from person.
I mean “Lend”
This show was great and sometimes naughty.
I'm just saying!
1:52
The fat shaming and homophobia on this show... I miss the 90s
good times! Comedy is so vanilla now.
Neither of those things were present in this show.
I understand people seeing fat shaming, but it's ultimately just friends joking with each other and (if they were real) they'd probably stop if they were actually offending her (overthinking it, I know, but that's the vibe I get from these scenes.)
Friends is one of the last places you'll find homophobia though - it treats being gay like exactly what it is; normal, and "worst" it does is make jokes about straight people not wanting to look gay (which is worthy of playful mockery - who cares if you look gay?) other than that, it's just simple stereotype jokes (which aren't at all hateful), metaphorical scenes (characters of the same sex have a conversation that makes them sound married/dating/divorced/broken up) and at least one subversion/parody.
I'd even say that with shows like Friends around in many of our childhoods or at least from when we were younger (I started watching around 2005/2006) that I am surprised homophobia still exists, due to how "normalized" being gay was (even though it *is* normal) within the show, and how the overall vibe was it doesn't and shouldn't matter.