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- Rachel cooties?! Joey's having none of it. Joey comes clean with all the friends' honest feelings about what Ross is sacrificing - his apartment, his marriage, anything Rachel has touched?! - for his girlfriend, Emily. #Friends
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I applaud Joey for being honest with Ross about the Emily situation.
Shoot I would be too, however I’d probably be a lot meaner about it🤣
Atleast has to say the right name in the wedding. If it happens in real life you would do the same things Emily did.
@@wendymarie7151 after what Ross did? The friends group from an outsider perspective are total assholes
@@tomjoseph181 Well, I wouldn’t have married him at all lol. She chose to still marry him even after he said Rachel when she had the full opportunity to back out so it was kind of weird for her to still marry him and then ice him out
@@wendymarie7151 Rachel went to london but she didn't said what she want it, she said 'congratulations'. Let's not forget how Ross invited her to the wedding, she said no but what if she actually said yes and went to the wedding, he would have made the same mistake because Ross ask Emily to marry him when he still had feelings for rachel. He said her name because he was still in love with her.
Ross ask Emily to marry him, say the wrong name at the altar AND ask rachel to go with him to Greece.
Then he didn't try to give her some space, just stalking her family. Then he ask her to live with him in new york. And then stops everything because he didn't want to stop seeing Rachel and because she couldn't trust him.
Emily wasn't the problem, it was Ross. Poor Julie, poor Mona, poor Emily.
Everyone needs a friend like Joey.
Yup! Honest whether his friends want him to be or not, cares about his friends and is ready to sacrifice his opinion and pretend to be okay with the friend's decision even though it does not sit well with him for the sake of the friend's happiness, while also being to say or do anything to protect said happiness. Love this guy!
Amen!! Joey was the bestest friend!!!
@@wendymarie7151 Right? The one ultimate truth in the show, really.
Also sociopaths and cannibals?
Agreed.
“You have no idea what it takes to make a marriage work.” Ya, Ross. And neither do you. 😂😂😂
Pot meet kettle 😂
He did make it work for 4 yrs. And he didn't have any control over his wife's sexuality.
If Carol wasn't gay, they'd still be together.
@@sj-237 Ross admitted to Carol giving tells and he refused to acknowledge them. Part of that is on him. We all know Ross wants to control every situation he’s in and be blind to reality as a result. He really is his mother’s son.
Lmaooo!! Bruh!! 💀😂
Joey was the best one out of all of them. As soon as he saw Ross wasn't fully happy, he let him know what everyone thinks without hesitation. Those are the best kind of people to have in your life.
Joey carried the whole friendship
Joey is like a kid in a good way the dude doesn't let the adult stuff get in the way of telling his friends what he feels
Also Joey: slept with Rachel
@@Rambleon31 They never did, only kissed
The once’s who were the least educated where the smartest emotionally. Ross was very well educated the most out of all of them but he sucked in terms of his emotion skills.
"You have no idea what it takes to make a marriage work"
-Ross Geller, 3 time divorcee
Out of which 2 are because of racheM and one bcz Carol was lesbian ( not his fault)
To be fair, he did do his best to make his marriages work. The first divorce, he has no choice. The second one, he did try to make sacrifices. The third one, even if it was a drunken Vegas wedding, he did try to stay married albeit in the dumbest way possible.
Ross geller, good at marriage!! Ross geller, burried alive
Step one would be saying the right name at the wedding
it wasn't his fault in most of them
Only Chandler could notice that Joey used the word "hence."
What does hence mean
@@tomriddle8780Lord Voldemort hence proved, LHS=RHS
Remember or dont know muggle maths
Lol XD lmao
@@tomriddle8780 forth
@@tomriddle8780 it's an old English ("proper") word that is another way of saying ...therefore... or some other word like that
@@Etobeeshawn since when speak properly is old fashioned? 😂
I'm not a native speaker and I've used hence lol
It seems Joey is the wisest person in this whole scene.
joey always turn to be the most wise person if it's about friendship😆
You mean... the wisest
@@santerikoho1579 ty corrected it
He is very wisdomous
@@karna8658 i think you should remove the word "most" since you already said "wisest".
they cut the scene where Gunther comes in and says "I'll buy everything"
Ye
I knew I’d find this comment..
@@Human_traain ,₩
I never seen that scene
He said “I’ll take it all”
3:19 I like how Chandler glances at Monica when Ross shouts "how about we have this conversation when one of you gets married"
I didn't even notice, nice catch!
3:14
OMG AWWW
foreshadowing💕
Yes, I saw that.
When Ross said Rachel's name, Emily should have ended things right there. That one act said all she needs to know, she might have his life and his home and his last name, but he will always love Rachel. There will always be 3 people in that marriage. Emily will never have his heart.
Honestly using another person to get over someone else you love and still not being able to forget your past lover is the worst thing anyone can do.. Poor Emily I feel really horrible for people who are in her situation
Di Camilla and Charles..right?
Agreed. They should have just gotten an annulment because that is simply unrecoverable
@kevinboudreaux7860 it wouldn't have had to be annulled. He said the name during the ceremony. If she would have walked away without the ceremony completed they wouldn't have been married
@@allisonharranmua8193 true, but yet the ceremony was completed. therefore, an annulment would be appropriate.
I don’t blame emily for going crazy i just blame her for staying after all that. Making herself and everyone else miserable
She should have bailed the moment he said another woman's name at their wedding. And HE should have bailed when she was making all these nonsensical demands, showing there is zero trust there and how can a relationship survive without trust?
It's not easy to leave ur husband just like that .
@@abhinavsharma2179 he should have never been her husband!!who the fuck goes through with the wedding when your spouse says someone else name during the vows ESPECIALLY an ex just ridiculousness she deserved the misery after that
Tell that to Joey
Brits, they just can't leave a place
This all could've been avoided if:
1. They didn't rush the marriage.
2. Rachel and Ross could just make up their minds.
riiiight! I was searching it up in the comments, thx
Best take so far. They clearly loves each other
Ross is wearing the same red shirt he had when Rachel got pregnant.
Yes. Every time I rewatch their relationship, number 1 is what always comes to mind. Everything moved too fast. He never moved on and she was leaving behind a whole life even with warning signs.
@@CoCosWired It would of been interesting what the storyline between ross and emily would have been if she didn't get pregnant irl.
I like how after Ross says "When one of you guys gets married" Chandler does quick look to Monica he was already planning their future together.
Aww 😍
Even though The writers hadn't even thought about it by then! Maybe their chemistry subconsciously got that in the Writer's Mind
IKR!!
MEANT TO BE 💜
I came to see if anyone else noticed that!!!
Okay, but Chandler's little glance at Monica at the mention of getting married tells me that he didn't forget the suggestion he gave her in the episode where Carol gave birth to Ben 🥺🥰
"Ben took his first steps over here"
Oh Ben the child that we never see for years at a time lol
Probably because Carol and Susan aren't letting Ross be in Ben's life all that much.
@@loudboy317 Wow that's a leap
@@loudboy317 convenient they decided to cut ross out of Ben's life right when the writers ran out of ideas for what to do with ben
@@loudboy317 I know it is a year late, but I think I think writers said Ben spend time with Ross off-camera
Honestly.. When ross said rachel's name, I wished Emily could've just slapped ross then walked away from the alter instead of going on with the wedding. That way, things would've been easier for all of them but it's a story so we need that difficult moment.
Altar
Yeah same. They should have ended things in there instead of trying to make a doomed relationship work.
@kavya kishor exactly
Why do you consider intimate partner violence to be acceptable when women do it to men?
@@jonathanxavier2026 well.. Of course this shouldn't be the right thing to do but if I had to defend myself:
1. Men are stronger than women, so one slap from a woman wouldn't do much injury...
2. After the embarrassment and money lost for your supposed to be husband to say his ex-lover's name, it wouldn't be surprising for her to release the anger that way
Now I really don't support violence. But if Emily slapped ross at that moment, i wouldn't have thought "wow, she took it too far". I would've thought that ross had deserved it
"I think he's right... You guys hang out at the coffee shop WAY too much"
Oh Pheebs 😂😂😂
Best part!! 😂💗
She’s hilarious!
Pheobe ❤️❤️
Anyday....
She’s literally the musician there
HOW DID I JUST REALISE THAT CHANDLER LOOKS AT MONICA WHEN ROSS MENTIONS MARRIAGE AT 3:16
The foreshadowing is so good!
❤️
Yeah... Me too... Just noticed it.. 😀❤️
I WAS JUST GONNA TYPE THIS
Came to the comments just to see if anyone else noticed!!
EVERYBODY DESERVES A TRUE FRIEND LIKE JOEY IN THEIR LIFE.
I will always hate what they did to Emily's character after the wedding. Everyone absolutely loved and adored her before that event, then the writers made them all hate her in season 5. The scene where she lets Joey have the toblerone is still adorable af.
True but the thing is we also hate what Ross did to her and indirectly what Rachel did to Ross
@@hsd287 rachael was extremely toxic as well
She feel pregnant irl i think and she wanted to move
I think the actress was pregnant so she only been there for a little time
The last bit hurts. Accusing all of them of being immature when it isn't healthy to change your entire life just because someone demanded it.
They were always immature and sometimes everything must change for a relationship to start over. If he didn't want to make those changes, then he should leave the relationship.
But if
Qoqow
@@kremove Agreed
@@kremove You missed the point that Emily was doing it as a form of control, something that's unhealthy. Nothing was ever healthy w Ross' and Emily's relationship from the get go anyway.
@@kremove He doesn't have to give into unreasonable demands.
To be fair, saying someone else's name at the alter is even crazier than just leaving someone at the alter. I really don't blame Emily
I don't blame Emily for FEELING that way, but you can't make your husband/boyfriend/partner stop hanging out with a friend, even if she's an ex girlfriend.
@@eatntell but the reality is Rachel went after Ross when he was involved
Emily should have stopped the wedding. It's a red flag already if your partner says a different name. She just prolonged her agony. Just saying.
And when she saw him with Rachelle on the flight to his honeymoon… major red flag
Same... Ross fucked up
The only thing Emily did wrong was trying to break the group. Everything else was completely justified. It was Ross's fault for marrying a woman when he was clearly in lovee with someone else.
Yeah, but how can you accept the whole group when your man is in love with someone in that group? If he can't give her up, then you should move on.
I mean, I wouldn't be too keen on my lover being clearly in love with one of his close friends but still, making him move and get rid of everything he owns seems a bit exaggerated. She should have just left him at the wedding, or not try to fix things after that.
To be fair on Emily, it was Rachel's fault. Girl leaves her very pregnant friend alone to tell your soon-to-be Husband that she loves him on his wedding day. Heck even Dr. House (The guy on the plane) tells her that she's a awful person.
@@Cklert yeah i agree,.....
@@Cklert absolutely, literally everyone told her not to do so, and she still did it and for what? To latter on get married at Vegas and then divorce and be jealous of every girl he gets closer with, then have a baby together but still not wanting him to marry her or date anybody else?! So yeah in this case I agree with Dr. House lol
Emily was was right for not trusting Ross around Rachel. I mean she literally went to stop their wedding and she was still in love with him
but she ended up not doing that
3:18 2 things i notice: The way Chandler looks at Monica and THE red sweater
Emily got traumatized by what happened at her own wedding ( and the airport scene towards her honeymoon surely didn't help). Plain and simple. She ain't evil, she's just damaged. Hating her doesn't help anyone.
I honestly felt awful for the character. I have no idea why Rachel and Ross were playing the victim in this scenario, they truly were selfish
Rachel is not the victim. She went to England to break up his marriage.
WE ALL HATE EMILY!! 😌
@@enelmartodoesfelicidad I don't hate Emily but I HATE Rachel the brat.
@@dietrichjoanne and left PREGNAT PHOEBE .
I feel like a lot of us have been in Joey's shoes where someone in your life is in a horrible relationship and you desperately wanna say something and try to get them to see the relationship isn't a healthy one but also don't wanna have the person push you away either. Several times with different people in my life I've just wanted to shake them and be like "wake up already!"
@B Anger is justified, completely taking over a persons life or making them crawl trough the dust to make up for it is not. Which is what Emily did after the wedding. Telling somebody to stop seeing a friend, to sell all your stuff, to move to a different place, to be constandly checked up on, and pretty much give up everything that matters to you to just not lose 1 person is very unhealthy. I'd be pissed too if somebody I married said the wrong name. At that point you have to make a choice, and not a rushed one. Do break off the wedding, but not yet the relationship. Take a moment to really think things trough. Can you forgive and move on? If so than properly forgive and move on and dont try to control their lives and dont ever use it as a means to guilt trip in the future. If it goes well you can always marry later. Can you not forgive and move on? Then dont try and break it off respectfully. There is no future if you cant truly move on from this.
Same... i have seen my friends being hurt by the same person and in the same way as i had anticipated. Once i said it out loud to a friend which obviously she did not take very well and went with the guy anyway. She cut ties with me over it but i hear she ain't happy in the relationship. I hope she realises it and gets the happiness she deserves.
I completely understand how you feel. I feel that way about the relationship of my brother and his girlfriend. Everyone sees that she is not right for him except him. It's just so difficult...
@@thedragonfaequeen girl I understand 100%! It's the same for my brother and his wife. She has never been right for him,treats him like crap,it isn't a partnership it's what she says goes,he has become a person I don't even recognize when once upon a time we were best friends and she has COMPLETELY turned him against us. She makes up lies about us constantly and she gets his mind twisted and he just goes with whatever because otherwise it's a constant fight. It's INFURIATING!
@@perfectlyimperfect2368 I feel so sorry for you and your brother. I can relate quite well with you. It really is infuriating indeed! And even though it feels impossible to, the only thing that we can do is to let that person go and just pray for him that he will learn the truth in time. But it is really difficult. To me my brother is one of the most precious people there is in my life and he deserves an angel.
Emily demanded all these crazy things, in reality she should have just ended it at the wedding. Seems like the rest of her actions are just her self sabotaging the relationship mixed with punishing Ross.
*edit* didn’t mean emily wasn’t justified in her frustrations, just think it would’ve been better for both of them if they ended at the wedding
@Toofacedbaby05..Well yes, hence controlling Emily made Ross miserable. Lol
Nope... Ross should have ended things and let her go...he is the one still in love with another woman but because his pride won't let him have another failed relationship...he tries to do everything Emily demands and came up with that bs about being married and being an adult.
If you have to sacrifice a lot to keep something...is not worth it... sooner or later, all the frustrations will catch up and you will realize how much time you wasted being miserably.
She did end things right after the wedding, but Ross kept calling every single member of her family, begging her to give him another chance. She relented and told him her conditions, the conditions were harsh and severe but how could it be otherwise after what Ross did ? He wanted them to try to make their relationship work no matter what so that's honestly not on Emily if she wasn't comfortable with him being with Rachel so much. It actually makes A LOT of sense.
@@shanouboubou Begging to be given a chance doesn't mean she has to be unreasonable. I can understand her pain but her actions can't be justified.
@@karlos777x He said someone else's name, it's not like he cheated. The one making the unreasonable demands is emily, not ross. He was willing to make things work but she made it impossible.
That "compromise" speech might be one of my favourite acting moments from David Schwimmer in this show. You feel the frustration and weariness in him, and it really adds a lot to Ross' character, in my opinion.
Everyone was angry at Joey for being honest but Ross was very clearly not happy, no matter what he says. Joey was the only one that had the balls and cared enough to do it.
Ross is the one who create this mess..he just used Emily for his sh*tty feeling...he is not the parameter to see things like he is victim..
@@tingle2323 Didn’t say he was the victim. I just said he wasn’t happy.
Yes. Joey was not very bright, but despite that he was the ONLY one to have the guts to tell Ross the truth as a friend. Even though Ross just got angry at him, he really needed to hear that.
We should all be so lucky as to have a friend who cares about us so much that they would risk our turning on them to tell us the truth.
Ross lecturing people about how they don't know what it takes to make a marriage works and it's all about compromising has to be one of the biggest jokes of the show
He would know best. The rest of them have never been married. His last marriage ended through no fault of his own, his wife turned out to be a lesbian. And co-parenting with her and her partner whom she left him for is a great example of understanding compromise.
@@propogandalf except that one of the biggest flaws in Ross' personality is the fact the he doesn't compromise, his relationship with Rachel is the biggest example, but it happened with everyone, Phoebe was the only one able to break him. and he was wrong about this, his relationship with Emily was beyond saving, I found very surprising (and stupid) that she didn't stopped the wedding after what he did
@B I don't think forgive someone is compromising, and with Emily he said himself he was doing everything she asked so she would agree to see him.. also there's a lot of examples of how bad at compromising he was, almost every single fight with Rachel, almost every fight he had with Monica if not all, etc. but I agree how they were not fair with Emily, and honestly most viewers are not fair with her either, everyone talks about how unreasonable she was as if it was her fault and the whole situation wasn't worst for her.
I loved all the characters except Ross and Rachel. They were perfect of each other in the worst of ways
@@propogandalf him failing a lot of mariges makes him a marige expert? excuse me what. and since its a Tv show we can even see into the future and know none of the people hes speaking to will fail their marige.
Unpopular opinion here, but Emily was uprooting her entire life to be with someone who she didnt trust but wanted to make things work with. She was the one sacrificing the most here, genuinely trying inspite of her reservations, and her paranoia concerning ross is kind of justified, considering how little time had passed since ross and rachel were together (and him saying her name, obvs). I dont think she handled it perfectly, but shes not the villain they set her up to be, and Ross handles all of this terribly (but I think we all agree at this point that ross is the worst)
I agree,just because Ross was the main character all his crappy mistakes were justified,we came to justify that he didn't trust his partners because of what happened with Carol but now when poor Emily became paranoid because of what Ross did to her,everyone hates her....She was willing to leave behind her entire life in London for Ross!!!
I agreeee
I agree with all your points. Except Ross isn't the worst character in the series, a close second sure, He was controlling, paranoid and possessive. But in my honest opinion, Rachel was the worst character in the series. How many of Ross' relationships did she sabotage just because she thinks she loves him(Julie, Bonnie, Emily, the saleslady from the baby store, and many others) and when ross inevitable ends his relationships with the other girls for Rachel. Rachel suddenly decides that she doesn't want Ross again. And the cycle continues. Oh and lets not forget Rachel's other big hits like saying "Yes" to Joey's "proposal" just after giving birth to her and Ross' child. I mean come on.
@@elijahbunagan8603 LOL YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD. RACHEL AND ROSS WERE THE WORST!
THANK YOU!!!!!! 🙌🏼 Somebody say it! It really bugged me that they painted Emily to be the villain of this. Could she have done things differently(like dump Ross cause he wasn’t good for her), sure. But to act as though her requests are coming from nowhere - oooo!!! Lol. Burns my bacon…
3:17, Ross says "when one of you guys gets married" and Chandler immediately glances at Monica.
And Mon giving Chandler a slight glance back like "be cool!"
“Joey said hence” lmfao hahaha always made and still makes me laugh.
I like that even though Phoebe's last bit was played for laughs, it shows that she'll march to the beat of her own drum. Just because Ross raised valid points doesn't mean she'll change her opinion.
I always hated the fact that everyone and especially ross at many occassions always treated joey like he's not a grownup or like he is a child. That's so rude. Like the time when they were playing Chandler's dumb states game.. Ross did the same thing
Yes. Joey being concerned about his friend and honestly addressing what he thought about Emily was great. But Ross was just desperate enough to make his marriage work and hurt his friends, not that he was IN love with Emily. 😐
Why is everyone putting this show under a microscope lately? Lol it's just a sitcom for fuck's sake
I love Joey so much, but admit it, we would all treat him like that. He's a child, he is very naive and can be even stupid sometimes, and we love him for that. But Joey is a great friend, he always tries to make things right when it comes to his friends, i don't really see where he behaves like a grownup here, he's just caring. And i don't remember when someone in the group made fun of Joey's personality before he says something stupid, but even now and then, every single character gets teased in the group, Joey is not even a prime target here. It's called friendship.
P.S.: Chandler didn't mean to embarrass Joey in the states game, it's just a game🤦♂️
Look at how Joey treats women and relationships for most of the series. He IS dumb and childish. Of course responsible academic Ross would talk down to someone like that.
Man it's just a funny show don't take it seriously just watch and laugh
One of the main things I love about Joey is that he’s always honest & blunt about everything, and how much he would look out for his friends even if it means might hurting their feelings or them getting mad at him.
It was Ross who begged Emily to come back. And after what he did at the wedding any normal person would have acted like Emily did. There was no reason to hate her. Rather they could have given the couple some more time and space!
Exactly! That he and Rachel did was afwul. Yet somehow Emily is a bitch and we all have to hate her.ughh
No any normal person would have just ended things not make the other person change everything about their lives she was definitely being petty.
"Any normal person would have acted like Emily did".
No, honey. She have every right to be upset, jealous, sad and all of that. But even if Ross was the one who begged her, SHE was the one who ACCEPTED give him a change. She wanted to control his life to a extremely toxic point, she has no excuse to be like that. She choose be with him when she did not trust him.
Sounds like u really want the friend group to break up
Not just the wedding. He was going on his honeymoon with the woman whose name he said at the altar. All people talking about how she expected him to change his whole life are ignoring the fact that he was expecting her to be all alone on a whole new continent to be with him.
Lmao I really don't blame Emily for this. Fact is Ross said his ex-girlfriend's (Someone who he still hangs out with) name during the vows. Of course she is going to be feeling insecure and worried. She also can't let Ross go because she loved him. Fact is Ross shouldn't have even considered marrying Emily if he still had feelings for Rachel.
I mean he should’ve dated anyone really. He would ruin his own stuff because of her.
@@blindpeopledostuff3587 Dating other people and moving on is fine, but marrying a person when you have one foot in Rachel's door? Not fine :)
@@blindpeopledostuff3587 exactly he needed therapy in my opinion
They knew each other less than 3 months before they decided to marry. That decision alone made them BOTH idiots right from the start - you should not marry someone you have only known for such a short time. You don't know anything about the other person at all.
If it wasn't this that broke them up (had the actress not gotten pregnant and been written out of the series this way), their marriage would have fallen apart within less than a year anyway. Because they didn't really know each other.
Making Ross cut Rachel out was one thing. But forcing him to sell all his furniture was very controlling.
ross was wrong about the “ compromise “ thing. this wasn’t compromise. this was emily forcing ross to stop talking/being friends with rachel, selling all of his stuff that had rachel “ cooties “ on it, making him move so far so he was away from them.. this wasn’t compromise at all & it bothered me so much that he said that
I don’t blame Emily for acting the way she did at all. I probably would’ve reacted worse than her if that happened to me!
so u r worse than emily!!
Isolating someone after you chose to continue to get married isn’t okay. I get why she’s upset but legit having him move away from anywhere close to Rachel which also takes her away from Monica his family. She’s taken him away from his friends. If she really doesn’t trust him, she shouldn’t have continued to stay at him. Being controlling aint it either. Especially since she was doing this from another country.
@@lyndseycorley1750 so to play devils advocate here…Ross desperately was trying to get back with Emily and she reluctantly gave him another shot. I mean how would you feel if your partner was always hanging around your ex after they said their name on your wedding day?
@@lyndseycorley1750 And She was willing to move to the US away from her family and friends so Ross could be with his son. And he could always be with his friends even if It was not everyday or week
Good that u r empathetic and honest about that.
I swear if my husband to be says his exs’ name at the alter, I will act worse than Emily. Don’t get why people hate her. Rachel was the one selfish appearing at the wedding after Phobe tried to stop her many times. That’s not cool.
But the thing is Rachel not even confess to him before marrying Emily. You see what I mean? Ross is the one that had Rachel on his mind and mistakenly said her name, with or without intentions. Who knows
@@hanax1860 Rachel mostly does this every time Ross moves on happily. Ross said her name because he saw Rachel there at the wedding when he did not expect her to be there. He was already a bit worried that she didn’t want to come. So, when he saw her there, he must be thinking about why she decided to come after all. And I agree that it was totally Ross’ fault for saying out her name but you see, people are hating Emily for it. I just think Rachel is as much to be blamed for this situation because what the fuck was she thinking of accomplishing by going with Ross to their honeymoon after what she had done? So, can you really blame Emily for wanting Ross to stay away from Rachel if they want things ti work out between them? And I think Emily says not to see her until things got better with them and then they’ll see if it’s okay with them hanging out again. She forgave Ross, decided to leave her home country after being humiliated infront of her family and friends like that, and also saw them both going into their honeymoon. If anything at all, they did Emily very wrong. Asking Ross to get rid of all his things is not very reasonable but I can understand where she’s coming from. The hurt and the humiliation but also Ross wanting to work things out with her, not to mention she loves him too so, I don’t blame her at all. A lot of us would have done worst.
And then she was going to get married again, calls Ross on the eve of her wedding and wonders whether they split too soon? Yeah, she is likeable all right.
P/S I dislike Phoebe.
@@bahma810 I think people judged her not because she was getting married again. You missed the point. Also, if we’re talking about the entire situation with FRIENDS, is she the only one who made unpleasant decisions? Look at Ross and Rachel too. Rachel ran out on her wedding, Ross got married and divorced so many times, so who’s likeable and who’s not?
But okay. I would like to respect your decision. If you don’t like Emily, you don’t like Emily. It’s all perspectives. I felt otherwise and think that she was wronged.
@@bahma810 I love Phoebe. She’s amazing. Don’t dislike anyone in FRIENDS to be honest. I think Ross’ acting was amazing. With each season, he got better.
A lot of situations in Friends are spun to favour the cast and make them look like the good guys, but actually more often than not they show themselves to be horrible, self centred and entitled people lol. This was one of them. Ross F'ed up not Emily. The only thing I judge her for is not having a bit of pride, sticking to her guns and never seeing Ross again
I get the premise of keeping the main cast together but man, looking back...the writing and hoops to through keeping it like that was quite absurd.
@@ADifferentVibe How I Met Your Mother does a way better job of that. And they don't always spin it so the main cast is in the right
@@gerstein03 exactly. If Friends is the expectation of life relationships, HIMYM is quite close to reality.
@@ADifferentVibe And then the ending happened
@@ADifferentVibe i watched all 9 seasons of HYMIM. Could barely laugh at ten episodes. Very disappointed. It's personal i know, but how can you call reality the stupid things go on in there.
Joey is a friend we would all love so dearly to have. He knew, he was gonna be shitted on either way, but just went with his true feelings. Now that is a true friend for life!👏🏽👍🏽
3:12 😂😂😂
“Ross, we do not hate Emily. It’s just…..she’s never gonna be in the main cast.”
If you can’t trust your partner you shouldn’t be with them. You don’t order them to cut people they have known most of their life you should just leave them and move on that’s how I feel
Exactly.
The thing is, Emily clearly wanted things to end when she was staying away from him, and it was Ross that kept pestering her to come back to him. So of course she would have conditions based on his behavior.
A lot of people hate on Emily for setting boundaries as if she was the one who wanted to continue with the marriage.
@@victoriavaldivia515 totally agree, adding to that there is a limit of trust too, after what Ross did (twice, at the alter and at the airport) no wife or fiancé would be capable of trust
@@victoriavaldivia515 Yeah, but her conditions were awful. That's the thing. If she didn't trust him anymore that much, then she shouldn't had try to be with him not matter how much he insisted.
@@stanbtsforaclearskin Or maybe he should also do something.
Chandler : "what's that , rocks ?"
Ross : "This is my collection of fossil samples"
Chandler : "So , rocks"
Underrated moment , but hilarious 😂
Chandler: Why is this box full of rocks
Ross: I don't tell YOU how to live YOUR life!
He should say ross instead of rocks . Which season is this
1:48 😂😂😂😂
That Chandler cracks me up.
It wasn't saying the wrong name at the altar but seeing Ross with Rachel on airport that broke Emily's trust and I don't actually blame her.
"Because its not all laughing, happy, candy in the sky, drinking coffee at Central Perk all the time." - Most of Chandler and Monica's marriage on the show.
You know I agree with Joey, asking Ross to stop seeing Rachel is one thing but asking him to get rid of everything he has just because Rachel had touched them is a little extreme and she is basically asking him to stop seeing his sister and friends because like Joey said they are not going to stop seeing Rachel so Ross is going end up losing his friends because he is desperate to make this marriage work
Ross taught me to never get married
You can get married.... Just say the right name in the wedding
@@aruth1049 uh, there's far more too it than that with Ross. First wife was a closeted lesbian, second was mad at him for saying the wrong name, but she became far too controlling and wanting to watch him like a Hawke, and third, yes, we know, Vegas wedding, but he wanted to try and make it work, but she was straight up arrogant and toxic.
@@psyke_out hey bro, I know you're Geek Dude but still, u have to realize Sitcoms are not always exactly like real life lmao
Dude..maybe there's a one person is complete u... don't u want it?
@@noorazimah6570 believe, you don't wanna read all the responses I have to that
You kiddin me, they cut Gunther's "I'll buy everything?!" He stole this scene actually lol.
Absolutely. RIP
I honestly don't hate Emily. I think she was completely justified in asking Ross to stop being friends with Rachel because I honestly think she wouldn't have 'enforced' that demand for long. Nothing of Emily's suggested a controlling or toxic nature. She was a sweetheart who was just flailing because the chance she had taken with Ross had backfired so phenomenally (not to mention in such a humiliating manner)
Ask him to sell everything Rachel touched is toxic and controlling. And maybe ask him to stop watching Rachel alone is acceptable, but ask him to stop being friends with her and not see her even with their other friends around is, again, toxic and controlling.
Even if most of the fault is Ross for still in live with other person, say her name and go to the honeymoon with her, totally breaking the confidence; SHE decided to give him a chance when she didn't trust him, that was her mistake, and try to control his life is another one.
Both were wrong here, they were denial, none of them loved each other at that point.
She just sounded desperate and upset to me. And it wouldn’t of been so bad if Rachel didn’t live with all of the rest of his friends. She didn’t say he couldn’t see anyone else. It’s all just bad because of all the other ties. She just wasn’t a normal person for him to leave alone.
Making Ross move and sell his stuff is controlling
Her flailing doesn't make it productive or really justified to be so cold, controlling, and demanding. An ultimatum like Emily's is super destructive to a relationship. And would never help build trust with Ross again. No marriage counselor, therapist, or psychologist would tell Emily this was a good thing. Or an acceptable thing. WANTING to do it, different thing. ACTING on it, very much another.
I agree that it's totally realistic for her to want Rachel out of his life. I don't know anyone who would honestly be okay with their SO remaining best friends with a person they've f**ked multiple times. The problem with Emily is that she went too far to control his life. Her demands were unnecessary, petty and crazy.
Phebe "You guys hang out at the coffee house way too much" as if she is excluded 😂
"You have not idea what it takes to make a marriage works...." Ross, 3 times divorced 😂😂
"You have no idea what it takes to make a marriage work", says the guy who failed at it three times.
"how about we have this conversation when one of you guys gets married?"
Chandler inmediately looks at Mónica
Chandler pointing out that Joey said hence was priceless. It’s cool, EVERYONE in the audience hated Emily
chamfer?
@@arne8381 I JUST opened up the link again and saw what I typed
I loved that too 😂
I didn't
we can always count on Joey
3:44 The jaw-breaking wisdom of Phoebe 🤣
The way Chandler looks at Mon when Ross talks about marriage ♥️
Y'all hating emily for nothing. It was all Ross's fault. What if your spouse said wrong name at the altar?
thank you
First be mad, then maybe try to understand why it happened instead of being closed minded. And I also think that the British accent has to do something with all the hatred lol (even if I love it)
Exactly
Then I wouldn't have married him. Seriously why did she go through with it if she was that pissed?
@@happymittens92 exactly, all ppl who liked the actual comment are to be avoided lmao
I think your friend having a partner you don’t like is one of the most relatable things ever.
Well that's why many couples fall apart because friends put their mindset in it
I love how chandler briefly looks at monica when ross says 'when one of you gets married'
He did not just call everyone immature when he's the one who made a whole mark-your-territory at Rachel's work place lol
3:21 apparently ross has no idea how to make a marriage work either tho
That's the beauty of that line. It's called irony.
@@phillipcummings3518 yea obviously why did you feel the need to tell me that haha
@@brauchefeuer why did you feel the need to make your comment?
@@phillipcummings3518 because i was just anwering to your comment but i really wasnt tryna be rude or anything haha sorry if it may have come off that way
the friends were terrible here lmao, how are u going to blame emily? she literally moved to the US for him, gave him a chance after saying his ex’s name at the alter.
No. The marriage had no chance after ross said rachels name. That was the point.The friends realized ross and emily were just in denial.Not to mention how rushed the whole thing was.
And when she came back, she saw her husband going to the honeymoon with the same girl whose name he said at the alter.
@@killerdiva7771 but both of them wanted to give it a chance to work things out cause they both were in love. They did Emily wrong here. If it was me who was humiliated at the alter like that in front of people who mattered the most to me only to see that they both were planning to leave for the honeymoon together that was for them and receiving all the hate just because she’s not the main character? Woah! I stand with Emily here as much as I love Rachel.
@@killerdiva7771 also don’t forget Ross was the one who was harassing Emily non-stop because he wanted another chance. By the sounds of it, Emily was ready to move on but Ross pulled her back.
@@friskecrisps8038 monica forced him to do that tho.
Joey is being a real friend here 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I like how at 3:17 chandler looked at monica when ross asked about the marriage thing.
3:17 - 3:18 Chandler looks at Monica when Ross mentions marriage😭 my heart ♥️
this is irrelevant but i just noticed chandler looks at monica at 3:18 when ross says “...when one of you guys gets married”
But like Ross shouldn’t be talking about how a marriage works because how many times has this man been divorced and I need a friend like Joey. except for carol Emily was straight toxic making a man throwing away everything from friends to furniture
He's been divorced just once before Emily and he Knows how painful it is. that's why he is ready to go any extend to make this marriage works.
He has spoken with experience. None in that room except him, knows better how an marriage works.
@@gatreddiramesh yes exactly
Also carol was lesbian it wasnt exactly his fault 😔
@@gatreddiramesh I’m not talking just about that season I’m talking about the whole series he & carol , him and Rachel , him and Emily
@@jackielilly3318except emily none of them were his mistakes. It was not his fault that carol turned lesbian. With rachel he was drunk and she gave the idea of marriage. He was married to carol for a long time he knows abt marriage better than them.
Emily was not wrong though. Their hate for her is just biased
Too a point. I hate Rachel don’t get me wrong, she’s a self absorbed spoiled child. Ross is a whining insecure psycho, they are both horrible and deserve each other. Emily was right to have a fresh start, new stuff new place. But to expect Ross to never see her again when she’s roommates with his sister and friends with all his friend is too far.
They were both idiots. They got married after what, like three months. They’re definitely biased in thinking it was just her. Ross was an idiot for proposing and then saying the wrong name
Yess
She is wrong if she thought getting rid of the furniture would solve the problem of her husband being in love with someone else.
Emily was wrong just like Ross. Both were denial, none of them loved each other. Emily had every right to feel like that, but she had no right to control her husband's life and decide everything only because she's the one giving him a chance. To that point it was just pure manipulation, if he didn't do what she wanted, she would leave him. Pretty toxic, even if she was the one who decided to give him a change when did not trust him.
The way Chandler looked at Monica in 3:18 🥺
Ross acted so maturely here, I really liked him... After all what he did to Emily, she can't be blamed.
She can be blamed for staying... Like the relationship just became even more toxic without Ross...
Yes, and Emily leaving her home city, family, and all her memories is nothing, right?
I don’t blame her but making Ross sell everything that Rachel touched is going over board
People don't understand that feeling don't have switch off on button. It takes time to move on. U really give a person benefit of doubt U r in love with
@@Fingerscrossedout well ross did go to london to beg her.
i think they all never hated emily until the wedding even for a bit afterwards, they all started when she made Ross stop seeing rachel, making him move, getting rid of his furniture.
Well, she acted pretty reasonable up until Ross said Rachel. From that point on, it was doomed for the both of them.
@@BG12sofia it was doomed the minute they decided to get married after like a month
Joey is one of the best characters ever created. Period.
Emily’s Ultimatum was quite reasonable. It wasn’t just about saying Rachel’s name at the altar but Ross still had baggage with Rachel.
The reasonable thing would be just follow her life, if he still has a baggage she won't be his heart owner soon....
That's just abusive as fock
It wasn’t reasonable at all. Rachel was Ross’s sister’s best friend/roommate and she lived across the hall from Ross’s two best friends who were also good friends with Rachel. The only way for Ross to stop seeing Rachel was for him to see his sister and his friends less frequently. That’s not reasonable.
You mix up love with control. Doesn’t work like that. Not that I’m the expert though. 😅
everyone seems to forget that not only did he say Rachel’s name at the altar but was about to go on their honeymoon with Rachel the day after. Emily loves him so she wants to find a way to be with him despite the major trust issue he caused, and of course he cannot be friends with Rachel. She didn’t ask for the friends to chose sides or anything, and they don’t have to, why are they all getting involved I don’t know.
Ross is somewhat right about compromise.
Ever heard about india??
Divorce rate is less than 1 %.
In villages where i live, it is even less than 0.001 %, that to with more than 90% of marriages are arranged marriages..
Here people compromise too much, .
I don't know why i am saying this, i am not even married 😂😂
The divorce force
@@kprathamesh3564 i think india may have the opposite problem, there being such a stigma towards divorce that people stay in bad marriages, just so they don't have a divorce on their record.
@@rishabhanand4973 thats what i was saying, compromise.
@maroxa's condo yes, in this situation, he was being controlled. But in general, he is right that you need compromise to make a marriage work. Still not a fan of his condescension though.
Chandler’s comedic timing is so underrated
Phoebe's ending scenes comments are always the best!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Joey just wanted his friend to be happy.
He is so sweet.
Ross do make good points. And good job on Joey for speaking up to a friend. That's what good friends are for
Joey was the one person to call Ross out about how toxic his marriage was really was.
I wish the camera got Chandler's reaction to Joey saying "hence." He's slightly visible, and I think that could have potentially been a hilarious moment between the two actors.
Joey always kept it real and I respect that.
"Joey said 'hence'". Fantastic writing.
chandler and joey look so cute in this episode 😭
Thank you Joey for going to essential.
It was the best for the group, for Ross and for Emily.
If she couldn’t forgive Ross and trust him, it would never have been an happy marriage and it was better for her to be free from Ross.
And in some way, Ross telling Rachel’s name was a good thing. It shows everyone that he was still in love with Rachel and he shouldn’t have married Emily in this condition.
No one is really to blame, everyone were just handling their feelings.
I understand Emily's anger. After what Ross did, ofcourse she's gonna have trust issues. But the thing is, she should've chosen to walk away instead of making Ross do all this coz she's essentially breaking up a group of great friends.
She was obviously going insane. Torn between her love for Ross and her hatred of him for saying Rachels name.
Ross should have been the one to walk away.
Well Emily is leaving her home friends too..how come it's wrong to make him come with her...is breaking the friendship..their friendship is big but not her home and friends
@@footballnerd277it's all happen because of Ross..why to blame of Emily..he used her ..he was in live with her ,he rushed marriage ,he make her insecure but for love she tried to have one chance...it's funny how u PPL make those look like victim when they r the perpetrators..
she did walk away, but then Ross begged her to give the marriage a 2nd chance and said he'd do anything for her. When she named the price, Ross couldn't pay it. So it's Ross's fault tbh
When joey seems like the logical person you know something has got to be wrong with the situation
Compromise doesn't mean one person sacrifices everything while the other one gets to keep everything. Everyone has a past. And all couples have to accept their partner's past.
"You have no idea what it takes to make a marriage work."
So do you, Ross.
Selling his staf is nothing considering she moved to NY for him
Why does Phoebe always concludes the conversation with hilarious timing of words?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i love the speech on marriage from the guy who got married and divorced 657 times on the show.
Joey said Hence 😂😂
Lmao. I'm Dead🤣
Chandler: "Yeah, I know, we're losing Ross, Joey said hence" 🤣🤣🤣
Actually in reality Emily should have just left Rose n end the marriage when he said Rachel's name. Instead of asking all these trying to break the groups n making her the bad guy.
She did. Ross begged her to come back. Of course Ross to do his adjustments after 1 saying the wrong name in the alter, and 2 attempt at going to their honeymoon with the woman whose he said in the alter.
The whole thing was fucked from the get go both of them should have just called it a day before they even got married tbh