Back to Basics Homemaking/ Living on One Income (Soft-Spoken)

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

Комментарии • 41

  • @elishaowen7489
    @elishaowen7489 29 дней назад +6

    This is so helpful thank you! My fiancee and I don't come from money and are currently saving to buy a house and get married. We're both working two jobs and are limiting our social life over the next two years to make this happen. Hard work but the goals are worth it! x

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  29 дней назад +2

      You both are awesome, Elisha! I am rooting for you!
      (keep me posted on how you're doing! ) I am proud of you.
      xoxo,
      Lindy

  • @liljemark1
    @liljemark1 Месяц назад +9

    I loved the part about giving the gift of poverty to your kids. I wish my wife agreed with that philosophy 😂 Thanks for the relaxing video!

  • @melissag.1335
    @melissag.1335 24 дня назад +1

    Hey! I just had my baby boy 5 weeks ago. Feeding him now and I so want to start saving and budgeting but get overwhelmed. This is EXACTLY what I need. Relaxing tips will help so much as I transition from my career to a SAHM. I’m so thankful for your insight and experience along with your stories of how you raised your home with the love of God. ❤ TY!!!

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  24 дня назад +1

      Congratulations on the new little one, Melissa! What a blessing!
      Thank you for the nice comment. : D
      I want to help young mamas out as much as I can.
      Take care!

    • @melissag.1335
      @melissag.1335 23 дня назад

      @@Southernladyasmr you definitely are helping us out here in the ASMR community. Ty!

  • @Angelonmyshoulder
    @Angelonmyshoulder Месяц назад +5

    This was an amazing video Lindy!
    I love the tips, ideas and reminders.
    The presentation is so important and one I’ve been neglecting lately so thank you for the reminder

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you, sister! (Did you notice my gorgeous new "Kim Design Exclusive" mic cover?)
      ; )

  • @brittanyelizabeth3801
    @brittanyelizabeth3801 26 дней назад

    I love listening to your insight! You’re an inspiration to young moms.

  • @olivviiaa
    @olivviiaa Месяц назад +7

    Yay! I love watching/listening to your videos while I do my classwork for my masters program. Your channel is the only thing that works for me while studying. Thanks for the consistent uploads and comfort. Much needed as I head into my third semester of grad school 💕

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you so much! I am so proud of you for getting your masters degree. What are you studying?

    • @olivviiaa
      @olivviiaa 29 дней назад +3

      @@Southernladyasmr mental health counseling! I will be a mental health therapist come December 2025. Also: ahhhhhh I'm dying on the inside because you not only liked but also replied to my comment! It's like meeting your idol LO

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  29 дней назад +1

      @@olivviiaa.🤗
      That’s awesome that you’re going into the mental health field! I’m very proud of you!

  • @figmentasmr
    @figmentasmr 28 дней назад +3

    Such excellent advice! Meal planning is crucial to keeping a food budget manageable, but it's been a struggle for me lately. I love the idea of having each day dedicated to a specific recipe and putting those suggestions on rotation when people get tired of them.

  • @nickywiedmeier6770
    @nickywiedmeier6770 29 дней назад +2

    I love your videos, Lindy!
    I feel like you and I live both very different lives and also wives that are very much the same. The way life worked out for me. I am a single mom of 18 month old being home with her as much as possible was so important to me. I searched for jobs and finally found one at a hospital where I work from 2 PM to 7 PM Monday through Friday and then all day Saturday. I’m blessed to have lots of help from my mother and my sister. My sister will take her all day Saturday and then I’ll help with her daughter on Sunday and my mom helps me in the afternoons so that my daughter only has to go to daycare a couple hours a day just two or three times a week. It is such a blessing and I pray I can keep the schedule going as she gets bigger so that I can homeschool her and spend all this time with her. I love all your budgeting tips off income, but I was able to make it work so I just want to tell anybody out there if you need that second income or you’re a single parent you can. I did have to pay for this type of job but by swapping childcare with my sister and doing different kinds of hours, I don’t need to pay for childcare anymore and my daughter and I are very happy to live frugally We love all the free activities. The library puts on every week as well as only asking for museum and passes for Christmas so that we can utilize those all year, Picnic dates are our favorite weekend activity! I appreciate all your videos and also your tips and tricks in this one!

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  29 дней назад

      Nicky, Your comment made me smile and my heart swell! You are a great example of the saying "where there is a will, there is a way."
      I'm so proud of you, little sister! So grateful that you have family nearby to help, that is a huge blessing!
      You Rock!

  • @katiesvedberg
    @katiesvedberg 24 дня назад

    Julia Pacheco is a great channel to look at for meals on a budget. She has a LOT of content on meals done cheaply. 👌🏻

  • @Loolaarosalie
    @Loolaarosalie 26 дней назад

    This was amazingly helpful! I am obsessed with the way you talk it’s so eloquent and beautiful! Really feels like a warm hug listening to you ❤

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  26 дней назад

      I’m glad it was helpful and thank you so much for the nice compliment🌞🤗

  • @user-ml7nc8qe8c
    @user-ml7nc8qe8c Месяц назад +2

    I love watching your videos and just listening to your voice. Your subject matter is amazing and most important you are not a cookie cutter of the other ASMR channels. I think I could just sit and listen to you recite the alphabet! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤can’t wait for your next video! Riva

  • @Esme0285
    @Esme0285 29 дней назад +2

    Hey sweet Lindy!!! Amen Sista!! I did the same thing raising my family almost the same way…. It will pay off even if you can’t see the end of the rainbow it’s there. I also bought store brand products as well most of the time. Oh 😮 that was such a sweet thing that your son said to you….😊 when you spent the day together!!!! I know inside you felt like a job well done when see your children living the way you spent years as a mom, teacher and a role model to them and course with the help of Chris as well. It was well worth the time and effort….everything you taught them and it’s stuck in their little heads and they genuinely appreciate how they were raised with the morals and values you set. My Son❤️ is a minimalist He had the gift the poverty taught to him as well, so he has a respect for money. I was taught the same way, but doesn’t mean you don’t like nice things. Just buy them when you can afford them. That’s one of the things that I love about you and your channel the fact that you’re not pushing constant product like I see so many people on other RUclips channels doing…I am not talking about partnering up with a brands you truly believe in. I mean people are just buying and buying all kinds of stuff just for the sake of it, it’s so wasteful. It’s so refreshing watching your videos because you do not push products that I know are not worth the money. The quality 99% of the time is not there. I don’t live that way. I rather buy something better even it’s a lot more expensive if I know, I’ll use it for years one of the main things is handbags I always invest in really good handbag that I use for 10 to 15 to 20 years because I buy a great quality sometimes less is more has been my motto. This is a great inspirational ASMR video and I hope that all the young ladies and men on this channel take everything you say and think about long and hard about the education you provided here tonight. As always, Lindy it was a pleasure seeing you have a good week. I’ll be thinking about you. I hope everything is getting cleaned up after the storm hopefully they’ll get done soon.Love,Esme💕🌸🌼

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  29 дней назад +2

      Hi Esme!
      Yes! Quality items win out every time! I am going on year 10 of wearing a classic looking dress that I bought in 2014. I love it and still get compliments every time I wear it.
      On the other hand, I am a slow learner, because I've spent way too much money on Amazon clothing that wears out or loses it's shape after the third washing.
      It's hard, but I've had to force myself to stop shopping for clothes there.
      Also, thanks for noticing that I don't push products. I promise to only tell you all about things that I actually use, love and are beneficial.
      Talk soon!
      xoxo

  • @asmrallison3304
    @asmrallison3304 25 дней назад +1

    I love ASMR and homesteading and I was just thinking about how different those two things are and how probably no one likes both of those things and then I find this video😂 excited to watch more!!

  • @kateweber3131
    @kateweber3131 27 дней назад +1

    I am a busy working mom of two and dinner is one of my biggest challenges. I will be trying your meal planning method. Thank you!

    • @Southernladyasmr
      @Southernladyasmr  27 дней назад +1

      You are very welcome, Kate! I’m rooting for you, little sister!🎉

  • @hughs591
    @hughs591 23 дня назад

    Pleased to hear you promoting the drinking of tea. In the UK of course we “live” on it but I always associate the USA with coffee . . .

  • @user-ix8gn7jo4v
    @user-ix8gn7jo4v 25 дней назад

    ❤ sorry it's been awhile I've been going through some stuff. Moved to Indiana.

  • @amybyrne1257
    @amybyrne1257 25 дней назад

    I feel like my anxiety would disappear if I could just spend a couple weeks in the south with positive people like you. Why is Ireland so far away 😂

  • @Alex-mx6mu
    @Alex-mx6mu 28 дней назад +1

    more on this topic

  • @mrgeek434
    @mrgeek434 Месяц назад +3

    Your accent is so charming

  • @elii12307
    @elii12307 Месяц назад

    Great video, thank you 😊

  • @mre_physvids
    @mre_physvids 28 дней назад +1

    This video excellently illustrates that it’s not necessary to speak in slow-motion, elongating every word to be “ASMR-effective.” That being said, soup…hot or cold…for breakfast is a bridge too far.