For anyone reading this, it does irritate me when someone is in an abusive relationship and other people are telling the person to leave them already, that irritates me, let me tell you it’s not easy, because it gets worse and the abusive partner can still get after you and will get worse and us girls don’t have all the courage to do it or still trying to gain more courage to do it, Ik what this girl is going threw I’ve been in her position 2 times, it took me 3 months to leave my ex and 2 weeks to leave my other ex, it wasn’t that easy, (I’ll add a comment on how I was able to do it) so please before to tell the victim to leave them already please just be their for them and look after them and take care of them. Ladies if your dealing with the same situation let me just say it’s going to be okay, and Ik you’ll get threw this, you are not pathetic, you are worth every second and you are beautiful inside out❤️please tell an adult if your bring abuse
1st ex: This ex was also a cheater btw, what I did at first was let him hang out with his other girl and he wasn’t even abusing her that’s what ik, I talk to his stepmom and told her everything, (btw we were in long distance and he said threats and bullied me with horrible words) she then took his phone which mad me block him on everything, o tried to block him but Ik he’ll try to get his friends phone to try to talk to me, when he got his phone took in away I texted him how I was done how it was over then I block him. 2nd ex: (Idk if I would call him an ex because I wasn’t sure if it was official, but I never liked him to began with he was forcing me to date him) So he was using me and cheated on me as well, so what I did was I would avoid going to school and I would have my phone off a lot and I would hid during school, and I texted him a lie how my parents didn’t want me to date him no more and if I did then they would home school me and take my phone and I told him bye, for the rest of the month I was hiding with my guy best friend (who I started dating 1 month and a half after this ex) luckily my ex got expelled 2 months later. (To this day I’m still dating my guy best friend who I mentioned and he’s protecting me and making sure my exes don’t find me or talk to me)
@@flipaclipdaniella-animatio2220 it's acting, the person who plays Alex's didn't like playing the character, a lot of people didn't like him bc of how good he plays the character
Alex is lucky Natalie didn't go to her father about the abuse. He would've beat him Black and blue. Good for her for having the courage to leave the domestic relationship and seek help before it was too late. Great short film.
Whoa! That phone call argument screwed with my PTSD BIG TIME!!! Wish I knew what was going on, so that I could have prevented all of those stupid calls. GIRL! It's not your fault! He's trying to control you! GET OUT!!! The whole, "It's your fault that I'm mad because you didn't answer" bullcrap is ridiculous, and they pull the, "I'm sorry, I worry about you," stuff. It's crap, and you boys that are abusive need to let a girl breathe, take responsibility for your own emotions, and quit lying to us to control us. Why don't you man up, and be like all of the good guys. Shout out to you guys that are there to protect us, and trust us. You're the real MVP!
Abusive relationships are extremely unhealthy and on the rise... Teenage girls experiences are 1 in 3 and women 1 in 4. These ratios must change, in fact become non existent. DONT BE THE JUDGE, BE A FRIEND and get help for someone you may know that is in this situation. Its not easy to "just walkway or leave" this type of relationship because the #traumabonding is VERY real and difficult to break. There is a massive psychological component to this type of relationship that many do not understand, unless they are in it. Resources are EVERYWHERE for you to get help and support and leave the hell you are living. I am a survivor and it took me 8 incidences before I finally left my abuser. My main motivation to get out were my kids. I had a place to go to, my parents, but not everyone has that option, so leaving often times is even ore difficult. BUT PLEASE KNOW THIS: If you think you can "change" or "fix" the problem, you are mistaken and are only putting yourself (and your kids) through serious danger, because the types of men that are abusive are not wired "normally" as a healthy minded human being. These people have been through violence themselves and perpetuate that violence subconsciously, and are in need of serious life-long treatment and self-undoing. (this goes for anyone, including abusive women towards men). PLEASE DO YOURSELF OR A FRIEND A FAVOUR and ask for help. YOU cannot do this alone. And you deserve to be treated better!!!!! Shawn is making a VERY valid point!!!! PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE of thinking that having a baby is going to make anything better, because you will be bringing an innocent life into the dysfunctional mix....and will be sentenced to 18 years of having to deal with your abuser!! And you will be put through double the hell!!! (I should know, I have been through and am still going through it) #domesticviolence #datingviolence #abuse #intimatepartnerviolence #familyviolence #traumabonding #teendatingviolence National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 BREAK THE CYCLE!!!! If you look within your own community, you will find resources available to you.... YOU WILL BE HELPED. There is life outside of an abusive relationship and YOU WILL become the happy person you once were after removing yourself from one. I am sharing my experience in the form of an upcoming book: 121 Deal Breakers!™ "What every woman must beware of before sealing the deal" as well by music through my upcoming Album: "Sayin' Goodbye" I have posted videos regarding abusive relationships find them here #121dealbreakers YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Connect via: Twitter link: twitter.com/121dealbreakers Facebook link: facebook.com/bibianacecala/ Google+ link: plus.google.com/u/0/+BibianaCecala/posts
With these men it's not just about the respect . They have serious emotional problems,and the deeper you get Into a relationship with them they Will put you down and make you Feel your the problem not them And won,t face thier own problems The longer you are with them They will wear you down And you will have no confidence. In yourself convinced you are Destroying the relationship. They are very arrogant and self centerd
I would of broken up with my girlfriend and it happened to me 2 years ago and I did the right thing she was abusive well there's a time and place for everything including contacts like kissing and cuddling I broke up with this girl her name was Andrea and I did the right thing to let go and sail away from her
I'm a guy, but if I had been in Natalie's shoes I would have dumped him right then and there if he threw my purse. Not to mention Alex is just a....well I'd rather not say it in a public forum. I say both women and men have the right to be happy, healthy and loved in ANY relationship.
Reminds me of a beautiful girl I knew who dated the handsome high school quarterback and endured his emotional and physical abuse for two years. He hit her one too many times and she finally dumped him after high school even though they were engaged. Her problem was she had to have a hot guy--the hottest guy, regardless of whether he was a selfish, abusive bastard. She ended up dating a string of hot guys who were abusive jerks, all the while ignoring the geeky guys who were her true friends.
Who is this other girl that Alex kept talking to other than Natalie at that party? Also, if Natalie can’t talk to Fernie even though they are just friends, then why is he talking with that girl? I simply do not understand the double standard.
why didn't she just leave? any type of abuse...physical...emotional...sexual...needs to be dealt with immediately...by leaving...by going no contact...whether it be a woman or a man...also, she should have called the authorities and taught the guy a lesson...again i'm not saying this just for women...women are just as violent as men...maybe even more so...the video is stupid...it actually promotes violence and stupid narcissistic selfish behavior...i'm gong to say the same old message...don't take things that alter your consciousness...know your surroundings...surround yourself with diverse loyal people who are smarter than you...who you can learn from...and better yourself...video assessment...bad message....period.
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One thing I learned is that if you don't eat on a Hispanic house/family they know something is wrong
They have sixth sence, especially the moms and grandmothers and I should know I'm Latina 😁😁
And they didn't get a strange vibe off the douchebag ex?
Micheala Kratt oh wow
Another thing you should learn is to never live in a Hispanic house
@@goodra999 Alex is a douchebag
For anyone reading this, it does irritate me when someone is in an abusive relationship and other people are telling the person to leave them already, that irritates me, let me tell you it’s not easy, because it gets worse and the abusive partner can still get after you and will get worse and us girls don’t have all the courage to do it or still trying to gain more courage to do it, Ik what this girl is going threw I’ve been in her position 2 times, it took me 3 months to leave my ex and 2 weeks to leave my other ex, it wasn’t that easy, (I’ll add a comment on how I was able to do it) so please before to tell the victim to leave them already please just be their for them and look after them and take care of them. Ladies if your dealing with the same situation let me just say it’s going to be okay, and Ik you’ll get threw this, you are not pathetic, you are worth every second and you are beautiful inside out❤️please tell an adult if your bring abuse
1st ex:
This ex was also a cheater btw, what I did at first was let him hang out with his other girl and he wasn’t even abusing her that’s what ik, I talk to his stepmom and told her everything, (btw we were in long distance and he said threats and bullied me with horrible words) she then took his phone which mad me block him on everything, o tried to block him but Ik he’ll try to get his friends phone to try to talk to me, when he got his phone took in away I texted him how I was done how it was over then I block him.
2nd ex:
(Idk if I would call him an ex because I wasn’t sure if it was official, but I never liked him to began with he was forcing me to date him)
So he was using me and cheated on me as well, so what I did was I would avoid going to school and I would have my phone off a lot and I would hid during school, and I texted him a lie how my parents didn’t want me to date him no more and if I did then they would home school me and take my phone and I told him bye, for the rest of the month I was hiding with my guy best friend (who I started dating 1 month and a half after this ex) luckily my ex got expelled 2 months later.
(To this day I’m still dating my guy best friend who I mentioned and he’s protecting me and making sure my exes don’t find me or talk to me)
If I could "like" this a thousand times I would. Well made video. Relevant to modern issues and to the area I live in.
The acting in this is actually really good
Max Payne it might be true not just acting
The acting is good
@@flipaclipdaniella-animatio2220 it's acting, the person who plays Alex's didn't like playing the character, a lot of people didn't like him bc of how good he plays the character
@@eveanimates7526wait how do you know
Alex is lucky Natalie didn't go to her father about the abuse. He would've beat him Black and blue. Good for her for having the courage to leave the domestic relationship and seek help before it was too late. Great short film.
Natia Black agreed
@@dianachin4849 is it his eyes?
@@alyssadisla9743 Natalie and Alex are both not black
@@goodra999 think so
Alex is lucky than Natalie
Whoa! That phone call argument screwed with my PTSD BIG TIME!!! Wish I knew what was going on, so that I could have prevented all of those stupid calls. GIRL! It's not your fault! He's trying to control you! GET OUT!!! The whole, "It's your fault that I'm mad because you didn't answer" bullcrap is ridiculous, and they pull the, "I'm sorry, I worry about you," stuff. It's crap, and you boys that are abusive need to let a girl breathe, take responsibility for your own emotions, and quit lying to us to control us. Why don't you man up, and be like all of the good guys. Shout out to you guys that are there to protect us, and trust us. You're the real MVP!
Abusive relationships are extremely unhealthy and on the rise... Teenage girls experiences are 1 in 3 and women 1 in 4. These ratios must change, in fact become non existent. DONT BE THE JUDGE, BE A FRIEND and get help for someone you may know that is in this situation. Its not easy to "just walkway or leave" this type of relationship because the #traumabonding is VERY real and difficult to break. There is a massive psychological component to this type of relationship that many do not understand, unless they are in it.
Resources are EVERYWHERE for you to get help and support and leave the hell you are living.
I am a survivor and it took me 8 incidences before I finally left my abuser. My main motivation to get out were my kids. I had a place to go to, my parents, but not everyone has that option, so leaving often times is even ore difficult. BUT PLEASE KNOW THIS: If you think you can "change" or "fix" the problem, you are mistaken and are only putting yourself (and your kids) through serious danger, because the types of men that are abusive are not wired "normally" as a healthy minded human being. These people have been through violence themselves and perpetuate that violence subconsciously, and are in need of serious life-long treatment and self-undoing. (this goes for anyone, including abusive women towards men).
PLEASE DO YOURSELF OR A FRIEND A FAVOUR and ask for help. YOU cannot do this alone. And you deserve to be treated better!!!!! Shawn is making a VERY valid point!!!!
PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE of thinking that having a baby is going to make anything better, because you will be bringing an innocent life into the dysfunctional mix....and will be sentenced to 18 years of having to deal with your abuser!! And you will be put through double the hell!!! (I should know, I have been through and am still going through it)
#domesticviolence #datingviolence #abuse #intimatepartnerviolence #familyviolence #traumabonding #teendatingviolence
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233
BREAK THE CYCLE!!!!
If you look within your own community, you will find resources available to you.... YOU WILL BE HELPED. There is life outside of an abusive relationship and YOU WILL become the happy person you once were after removing yourself from one.
I am sharing my experience in the form of an upcoming book:
121 Deal Breakers!™ "What every woman must beware of before sealing the deal" as well by music through my upcoming Album: "Sayin' Goodbye"
I have posted videos regarding abusive relationships find them here #121dealbreakers
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Connect via:
Twitter link: twitter.com/121dealbreakers
Facebook link: facebook.com/bibianacecala/
Google+ link: plus.google.com/u/0/+BibianaCecala/posts
Wonderful Video! Thank you for helping spread Awareness on Teen Dating Violence! Definitely using this in my classroom
Daniel Aaron Garcia Jr. Thank you! Hope it has been useful in your classroom 🙌🏼
Ikr great video!
You can't blame her for choosing him! Guys never show their true side until they've made you fall for them
Guys always show the dark side
@@alexthehomboi yes and women are pure deities that are always victims correct
@@Clashinite the women are on the good side
@@alexthehomboi lol
that guy needs to treat her with respect, period.
AGREED
With these men it's not just about the respect .
They have serious emotional problems,and the deeper you get
Into a relationship with them they
Will put you down and make you
Feel your the problem not them
And won,t face thier own problems
The longer you are with them
They will wear you down
And you will have no confidence.
In yourself convinced you are
Destroying the relationship.
They are very arrogant and self centerd
I would of broken up with my girlfriend and it happened to me 2 years ago and I did the right thing she was abusive well there's a time and place for everything including contacts like kissing and cuddling I broke up with this girl her name was Andrea and I did the right thing to let go and sail away from her
we know
I'm a guy, but if I had been in Natalie's shoes I would have dumped him right then and there if he threw my purse. Not to mention Alex is just a....well I'd rather not say it in a public forum. I say both women and men have the right to be happy, healthy and loved in ANY relationship.
You can say he’s a douche burrito and that’s ok
Yes
Alex is a fucking bastard
@@goodra999 Alex is a douchebag
“Go get your knock off coach purse” 😂😂 bro bro is a savage
Alex is a jerk
Principal: What you got to say Alex
Alex: Well it started off with Facebook
Alex: I’m sorry
Principal: Alex I hate to tell you this. But you're suspended for two weeks. By the way, I called your parents
In the long run, all that wasn’t worth it
The girl looks pretty without hair in her face
You’re right she does
That guy was punching above his weight anyway
He kicked her and kicked the sand at her
those actors are from where i live!
el paso ?
Mexico?
Modelxoxo 24 no El Paso
@12:42 may be Scenic Drive in El Paso. This was where the beginning of "Manos: The Hands of Fate", one of the worst movies ever made, was filmed.
El Paso TX
him: Did they give u a ride
me: Duh, what does it look like.? Now get tf away from me..I would rather hang out with ppl that don't hurt me.!
Alex should stay away from Natalie
One thing I noticed here is that if you're part of a Hispanic/Latino household where you don't want to eat it means they know there's something wrong
Just break up with him already! Get help!
Call the police or 911
and this is the reason why I never date.
Sorry to hear that
She looks pretty with her glasses on
If me and my GF we’re together and saw a guy abuse a girl like that I would beat the guy black and blue and my GF would keep the girl safe
Yes
Natalie should beat up Alex
Me too.
I GOT OUT OF A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP DOMESTICALLY I JUST PAUSED HIM
I'm very happy to read that, nobody deserves to be beaten by a jerk.:)
I'm glad you got an abusive relationship
Good job dumping your abusive boyfriend
Good
@@shinobidragon999Bro what
Reminds me of a beautiful girl I knew who dated the handsome high school quarterback and endured his emotional and physical abuse for two years. He hit her one too many times and she finally dumped him after high school even though they were engaged. Her problem was she had to have a hot guy--the hottest guy, regardless of whether he was a selfish, abusive bastard. She ended up dating a string of hot guys who were abusive jerks, all the while ignoring the geeky guys who were her true friends.
are you a nice guy?
@@goodra999 it’s for you to find out if he’s nice or not
Next time, date the nerds
I know her pain I used to get abused
I’m sorry
Sorry
Great video awesome message..
why are you guys saying " break up " even though it's not real and its a short film about an important issue but it just makes no sense
Breaking up is real
Abusaive relarionshops are real tho
I would never put my hands on my girl
Who is this other girl that Alex kept talking to other than Natalie at that party? Also, if Natalie can’t talk to Fernie even though they are just friends, then why is he talking with that girl? I simply do not understand the double standard.
Great acting ❤❤ I was impressed
Her friend is much cuter...
No
No.
No..
No
No one cares
Also Girlfriends can be abusive too
Of course, gender don’t matter when the person is abusive they come in every shape and form sadly 😭
That girl looks like Selena Gomez for some reason
Oh you mean Natalie?
She does look like Selena Gomez
Pongan los subtítulos en español 😣
I'm. Gonna cry:(
Angela Luv :,(
Sorry ma’am
why didn't she just leave? any type of abuse...physical...emotional...sexual...needs to be dealt with immediately...by leaving...by going no contact...whether it be a woman or a man...also, she should have called the authorities and taught the guy a lesson...again i'm not saying this just for women...women are just as violent as men...maybe even more so...the video is stupid...it actually promotes violence and stupid narcissistic selfish behavior...i'm gong to say the same old message...don't take things that alter your consciousness...know your surroundings...surround yourself with diverse loyal people who are smarter than you...who you can learn from...and better yourself...video assessment...bad message....period.
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I got ou a abusive reletionshe too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
naw it da serious thing
-_- then get help!
he must have really hurt your eyes to cause horrible sight so you cant see your spelling
I really really really like the girl who got dating violence way fucking better than the boyfriend on this video
This is so sad. One day I would like to see a girl beating a boy. Just because a girl is weak they think they could do anything they want
Parvana Rahimi there is a video where the girl abuses the guy on Ok Inc.
All men should learn to never ever hit women
@@elianaben300 a jealous Vendetta
I would never hit a Woman. This guy is disgusting.
i wish they made more of de"if u see ureself would u see abuse"
When the person who is playing Alex is your cousin 👁👄👁
fr!?
Men get abused too!
Who gets abused more?
Men or women
@@alexthehomboi not the point. Neither one should be abused by their partners
@@alexthehomboi White Knight
@@StoryWriter1209 correct
That girl had the same name as me
Natalie Rivera creepy
*wow spoopy*
That’s cute
I shouldn’t never be back with my boyfriend
Why did she say sorry to him at 14:16
Alex tried to kiss her but she blocked his face from kissing her
Natalie said she was sorry for being such a prude
She most definitely needs help
Natalie is my fav character
NO NO OMG OMG UM NO just ...
Damn do it hate school
Of course
I have that same bedspread. Lol
Omg 😂
Lilly Myers
1:40 yeet
Natalie didn’t want a kiss from her daddy
What does cayate mean?
U mean callate? Means shut up in Spanish.
14:59 THIS IS ASIA!
The full video is English
my name is in this....xD
I am Anthony Barbosa
Alex luck LOL be Wii be her by boyfriends
Omg
Natalie's cute I must admit
:/
😂😂😂👌🏼
I think she was just being too sensitive
She was trying to protect herself from abuse and violence