She said that she hasn't healed from a lot of stuff that she's been through so she's just reacting off trauma and sometimes when you do that you do what's the most comfortable for you even if it is toxic
@@glowshow8930 yesssssssss. I was a teen mom later to marry my childrens father and after me going through and learning myself I realized the toxic relationship I was in and left and raised all 6 of my kids on my own. Now they are all grown taking care of their families I am a proud mom. It took me a very long time to go through growth but when I did I knew a change was very much needed. There was no guidance for me I didn't know how to be a mom I learned that my children need me just like I needed them and I thank God for them everyday.
the mom's eyes are dead...it's kinda scary. Her trauma is way too deep for her to be around the children or ANYONE else for that matter. she definitely needs trauma therapy. she needs a village. I love how the daughter expressed herself and the ADVICE Karamo gave❤❤❤ I wish the both love, support and healing
What do typical 15 y.o have about a choice. Circumstances and choices can be conflicting. Judgement is what conflicts it. Understanding and further more knowing can really change ur projection.
Probably because she became a 15 year old who had a baby, lost her sister and adopted her sister’s children at 23. My comment doesn’t negate her daughter’s feelings or experiences. The daughter as the first child has experienced adultificatipn by seeing her mother being repeatedly abused. Sad all round.
Leave Black People ALONE and stop it with the self hate speech. HUMANITY is broken! Humans from ALL walks of life, race, nationality, rich, poor are broken. I hate that people are so lazy and uninformed and ignorant and brainwashed and stupid that they think and make statements like you did🙄
Mother's always want you to respect them no matter what they do to how they make you feel They think it's ok just because they are your mother and that not right Because u human being and still deserves respect to
This statement so true, my bio mom gave me up for adoption at birth and the way she is is very challenging for me to handle at times. She told me I needed to respect her but I had to let her know, you have to earn my respect. You can’t expect for me to respect you when you continue to be disrespectful to a son (me) you didn’t raise. I had to come to realization that my bio mom is toxic and doesn’t take accountability. Btw she kept my two older brothers and I’m the youngest and gave me away.
When the momma said she was trying to reconcile with the man who abused her, broke her leg and the daughter said “NO”. This poor woman took on a LOT at a young age, assumed life was always gonna be that hard, chose hard men to be with, making life harder, etc. Whew, often times Karamo gets to the heart of it ok.
Right, her mom need to heal and seek counseling. It’s some underlying issues that she needs to come up out of and one of them are attachment issues with these men.
Mom doesn't want to feel the very thing she does to her child. How this dude got you on crutches, and you're on NATIONAL TV DEFENDING HIM!!!!??? Mom is proving all of the daughter's points.
dealing with toxic relationships especially when they involve a parent are incredibly challenging and emotionally draining but i'm so so glad she got on the show she's incredibly strong for sharing her story and setting boundaries cause i can't imagine being called names by my moms significant others !
Me too and thanks for being kind with your words! I see people in the comments gossip much over other ppl mistakes and choices if she didn’t have the tools or didn’t o own then we can atleast show compassion but if she knew and said she was aware and don’t care then that’s something else ❤
A man’s abuse put you on crutches, but you want to reconcile? A man said he would kill your kids, but you want to reconcile? It’s sad because I know she doesn’t have any positive, protective males in her life that would kick his ass!!! File charges and leave that man in his struggle.
Ladies don’t listen to people who say if you’re a single mother you won’t get love or can’t have a quality relationship. If you do the internal work and make better decisions in men you can have genuine love. Speaking from experience 💙
Mom clearly has PTSD from her toxic relationships and life. When you aren't getting treatment, sometimes it causes triggers that make you lash out because your anxiety is sooo high. I hope she gets the help she needs. It's not easy.. Peace and Love
The mom got her nerve. That’s not the daughter’s fault you took your nieces and nephews in. That in turn took away from your child. Her child has suffered. The mom needs help.
My heart breaks for these ladies! So much trauma is displayed, but the realization of the toxic cycle is key! Praying for healing for this family dynamic. 🙏🏽 ❤
I understand the mom’s hurt but mom you silly. It’s a lot of back-and-forth. I understand where the baby girl feeling is coming from as well. I really understand all the underlying trauma everybody’s going through, but if a man threatened to kill my kids, he probably gonna catch a bullet himself, so ain’t no reconcile.
I've watched Karamo for a while now since his show was new. I always sensed his gentle yet no nonsense demeanor but overall was indifferent to the show in this world of everyone seemingly having a talk show. Karamo has completely won me over. Him and his show are needed. Hes specifically bringing help and healing to the black community and giving them a safe space and safe words to unpack our collective trauma. This is who Kevin Smmuls should have aspired to be like. Uplifting black ppl and women not beating us down. He even gave the mom an affirmation and gently introduced the concept of mindfulness! I love it! Protect Karamo at all costs.💖
How did the show change from being about the poor daughter to all the excuses of the mom. Speaking over her daughter as if to say I don’t care how you feel.
Because everything the mom went through the daughter had to experience. This is just the road to recovery for the daughter; helping the mom recover first
If you listened.. she adopted her sisters kids after the fact her sister passed way! She wasn’t just “popping out kids” when you have a child and she get pregnant at 14 don’t say nun
First I’d like to acknowledge all that gorgeous melanin God blessed the beautiful daughter with. I hope she can have the soft life she wants. It’s clear she’s a protector by nature and has a lot of passion. If she desires children, she’s going to make a wonderful mother. ❤
Great advice and looks like progress but the mom is way too broken to be ready. She needs serious therapy. She doesn't realize that choosing abusive men around her kids is also abuse towards them
Yea, and it’s kinda sad that’s what it’s come to. I’m also 17, we shouldn’t HAVE to work to take care of our families. She wasn’t working to afford luxuries or live in the house, she was working to help pay for the roof over her family’s heads
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Mom needs to be thankful for the bravery of her daughter reaching out for help; if she takes the steps Karamo offered and owns them, mom will be saving her future and that of her kids. God bless them.
this episode was beautiful. more than anything i would love to point out how mom was open minded to hearing how she went wrong and acknowledging it with everything in her. praying for this entire family to have an easy life ❤️
This is a tough situation, because both of these women obviously need to heal. I understand the mother is hurting and is going through a lot, but she can recognize and see that and just never took those steps to get help. Because when you’re a mother it’s not about “i’m scared to get help” or “i don’t have the time” because it’s not just about you anymore, It’s about your children. And i do see what the daughter means on when she comes to her mother about her feelings she starts to guilt trip and that’s a terrible habit she needs to get rid of before none of her children want to confide in her. AND CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW SHES TRYING TO RECONCILE THINGS WITH A MAN WHO THREATENED TO SHOOT HER KIDS? I understand not wanting to be alone, but again it’s not about you anymore, it’s about your children. I feel like she had to grow up too early and didn’t get to experience those teen years & get to heal from everything she’s gone through and this is the result of that. The daughter is admirable though, even with all she’s going through, she’s worried about making sure her siblings are taken care of and being defended even when the mother won’t. And if the mother was already so stressed, i’m confused on why she would adopt the cousins?? There wasn’t any other immediate family that could’ve taken them in? I hope both of them heal from everything though & can put this behind them. Our community is so torn and broken, we need to heal each-other not bring each-other down.
I'm so encouraged by this, Karamo...I'm from Nigeria, staying in Nigeria...hard life of a workaholic single widow of 32, yes... I once lived a soft life, now I'll keep working for my 2sons to have a soft life... Bless you, Karamo ❤
What I don’t understand is that how could women have a child and they are struggling and then have more after when you know that you’re struggling? Then they continue to date and lay down with men instead of giving those times to their children. Your kids become traumatized as well right along with you so you gotta get help with all that traumatization. The mom really need to leave those men alone and work on herself.
i don't feel bad for this mother at all. she isn't taking accountability.. woe is her.. go get therapy & be there for all them kids you got & took in. period.
I think your statement is insensitive. Everybody pushes therapy like it's inexpensive. She barely has money now. She has her kids plus her sisters kids.
@@shortcake9826 & i think you should stop talking to me. im tired of people acting like kids are inevitable 🤣🤣🤣 like stop laying down if you not altogether .. that sexx be fun, huh? 🙃
@@shortcake9826 everybody also laying down & having kids that they're not EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, or MENTALLY prepared for. so again, i don't feel bad for people ACTIVELY choosing wrong. you sound crazy rn. goodnight.
@@anastacia0189 lol I don't sound crazy you sound judgmental. Everyone doesn't have the luxury like you to go get mental help and it seems you don't know how reality works crazy person lmao good night
@@anastacia0189 Lol I'm crazy no you're judgmental. Everyone doesn't have the luxury to go and get mental help. You seem to not know how reality works but I'm the crazy one lmao!!! Good night
It do not give her the right to be rude to your kids, that’s why it’s good to heal kids do not deserve a damaged mother. My mom was a single mom but she never called me out my name or was rude to me. I am a product of a single mom. I’m the oldest and I seen everything she went through.
This reminds me of my mom & me. The men she chooses & the men she brought around us I seen everything. How they treated her & how being with those men affects our relationship because I see that my mom deserves more she’s just not ready for it.
I’m so glad at how the ending results. I feel like mom is internally hurting and I feel daughter is as well , but could be a little more empathetic. I’m glad they were able to see from one another’s perspective and I hope mom took this advise with her. Beautiful mother and daughter duo and let’s all break these generational curses 🫶🏾🤞🏾
Mama is making her kids pay for everyone else's bad choices and her own...yeah, she's broken, but she shouldn't task her kids with her healing. That's up to her.
I know this story far too well! I love yall for telling your story and walking into greatness. Because you all can and well have a better life. Childhood family.......Love you Sharetta You all will heal and help others.
Her losing her child and her sister doesn’t give her an excuse to be horrible to your daughter These moms give all the grace to these horrible men (trying to “reconcile” with a man that threatened to shoot your kids and put you in crutches) but when it comes to their children, especially their daughters, they are hard, mean, nasty, and don’t budge ever. No grace for the daughters. But all the grace for these horrible men. Absolutely deplorable.
I love this mother. She reminds me so much of myself. She is hurting, she was a young mother who did her best. I love the daughter too. I wish them both the best
I’ve been that Daughter too! Our relationship died decades ago but I held onto hope for our relationship. I was watching all of the fakery for decades more until I waved that white towel and threw it in…never to be picked up again. We haven’t spoken in about 2 years now. Do I miss her? I would say that lil girl does…the adult doesn’t. Men have always been in the forefront. She’s been married 3 x.
I feel you sister My mama was financially there but not emotional and verbally abusive I pray that your og fix this while she has a chance my mother passed in my arms and at that time and within the year before I forgave every bad name and action from her got to know her for the first time and cherished every moment until her last breath. I wish you the best mom n daughter because not a moment passes I don't think of my mama and smile I want your memories to be the same if not better 🙏
I don’t believe she’s a bad person she just messed up emotionally! My grandmother was 13 when she had my aunt! Made her naive fragile and timid !! But thank God she met my grandfather years later then she lived a life where she felt soft still challenging but easy to figure out cause the love from my Grandfather was there! He had been through some stuff too! But atleast they didn’t trauma bond and abuse each other over it ❤ I wish this woman and her daughter the best!
Ok her life is hard granted but why is you being the hard life to her kids. Shes grieving one kid while treating the ones that are alive like crap. First step is for her to take accountability for her actions! And then work on her healing journey.
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It's crazy that the mom is trying to reconcile with a man that threatened to shoot her kids
Lol, she dickmatized
N who put her in crutches 🩼
She said that she hasn't healed from a lot of stuff that she's been through so she's just reacting off trauma and sometimes when you do that you do what's the most comfortable for you even if it is toxic
@@stephaniecardenas652 word!!!!
The Mom is a Pick Me!
The crowd hella vocal today 😭😭😭😂
Fa real... Oohin & Aahin at every damn thang. 😂😂😂
HMMMMMM😂😂
Hella vocal 😂
I was saying the same thing 😮.
LMFAOOOOOO righttt😂
Mom is deflecting! Every time her daughter says something, she deflects. None of that has to do with her being mean to her kids.
I agree
And the daughter sorry bothering her mother to have her at 15 GREASE FACE
I was thinking the same thing
yea this is my aunt shes so disrespectful to her kids and i cant believe she ended up the way she did im truly surprised
When she said “I didn’t give you less I just had less” omg that hit me as a mother I felt every bit of that
Okkkkk
@@glowshow8930 yesssssssss. I was a teen mom later to marry my childrens father and after me going through and learning myself I realized the toxic relationship I was in and left and raised all 6 of my kids on my own. Now they are all grown taking care of their families I am a proud mom. It took me a very long time to go through growth but when I did I knew a change was very much needed. There was no guidance for me I didn't know how to be a mom I learned that my children need me just like I needed them and I thank God for them everyday.
the mom's eyes are dead...it's kinda scary. Her trauma is way too deep for her to be around the children or ANYONE else for that matter. she definitely needs trauma therapy. she needs a village. I love how the daughter expressed herself and the ADVICE Karamo gave❤❤❤ I wish the both love, support and healing
The problem with the mother is that she never experienced being a child and teenager. Since 15 years of age, she’s had to be an adult.
She chose to get pregnant. Her outcome is a result of her poor decisions.
@@the_all_blue_does_exist716I believe that’s what she said just in another way 😂❤
@@Aduninyc a much more polite and passive way but sure
Bingo! A child having a child. What should a typical 15 year old be doing?
What do typical 15 y.o have about a choice. Circumstances and choices can be conflicting. Judgement is what conflicts it. Understanding and further more knowing can really change ur projection.
Her daughter is more mature then her own mother.
Probably because she became a 15 year old who had a baby, lost her sister and adopted her sister’s children at 23. My comment doesn’t negate her daughter’s feelings or experiences. The daughter as the first child has experienced adultificatipn by seeing her mother being repeatedly abused. Sad all round.
Our community is so broken. I'm so glad karamo is helping to heal those things by using his platform
It really is. It’s so sad.
🙌🏾 I wish us all a happy healing ❤️🩹
Not just our community.
Leave Black People ALONE and stop it with the self hate speech. HUMANITY is broken! Humans from ALL walks of life, race, nationality, rich, poor are broken. I hate that people are so lazy and uninformed and ignorant and brainwashed and stupid that they think and make statements like you did🙄
@@V1S10N. idc.
Daughter is BEAUTIFUL 😍 omg!
Who told you that? 🙄
@@TF-gf3fs her eyes
She really is so pretty 💕
@@TF-gf3fsYour mother is definitely giving wet dog smell and gremlin looks.
She definitely is.
i love black folks, the lil “mmmm”’s when karamo starts preaching is SO FUNNY. 😭😭
Exactly
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I hope the daughter heals and gets that soft life she deserves. It can be attainable if you don't have that mother's mentality!
Mother's always want you to respect them no matter what they do to how they make you feel They think it's ok just because they are your mother and that not right Because u human being and still deserves respect to
This statement so true, my bio mom gave me up for adoption at birth and the way she is is very challenging for me to handle at times. She told me I needed to respect her but I had to let her know, you have to earn my respect. You can’t expect for me to respect you when you continue to be disrespectful to a son (me) you didn’t raise. I had to come to realization that my bio mom is toxic and doesn’t take accountability. Btw she kept my two older brothers and I’m the youngest and gave me away.
Yep! And they also forget that the decisions they make don't only affect their them anymore, you can't always be selfish when children are involved
@@helpkelp3595 you’re exactly right
Exactly. My mom was like that. She was very controlling and disrespectful to me. I’m 32 years old. Enough was enough.
When the momma said she was trying to reconcile with the man who abused her, broke her leg and the daughter said “NO”. This poor woman took on a LOT at a young age, assumed life was always gonna be that hard, chose hard men to be with, making life harder, etc. Whew, often times Karamo gets to the heart of it ok.
Right, her mom need to heal and seek counseling. It’s some underlying issues that she needs to come up out of and one of them are attachment issues with these men.
The daughter can’t express how she feels and how she’s been treated without the mom talking about her own issues. This is why therapy is important.
Mama's broken......☹💔🙏🏿
Very broken
Mother, you do deserve a soft life and your daughter is going to be your 'savior'. Lean into her, instead of pushing her away.
No one DESERVES anything except to be given life, after that life is earned not given
Noooo! Mama needs to save herself! That's not her daughter's job!
I know ❤
Mom doesn't want to feel the very thing she does to her child.
How this dude got you on crutches, and you're on NATIONAL TV DEFENDING HIM!!!!??? Mom is proving all of the daughter's points.
My mother not perfect but I’m so grateful I don’t have a mother like the ones I came across on this show !! Thank goodness
Good for you 👍🏾
No seriously
@MECEY3284 yup sure is☺️☺️☺️☺️
Whew mine too, she's far from perfect but at least she's not stupid
dealing with toxic relationships especially when they involve a parent are incredibly challenging and emotionally draining but i'm so so glad she got on the show she's incredibly strong for sharing her story and setting boundaries cause i can't imagine being called names by my moms significant others !
Me too and thanks for being kind with your words! I see people in the comments gossip much over other ppl mistakes and choices if she didn’t have the tools or didn’t o own then we can atleast show compassion but if she knew and said she was aware and don’t care then that’s something else ❤
@@Aduninyc ofc love
Hurt people, hurt people. It's not an excuse but it does explain a lot. I feel bad for the children but I can see the mother's pain.
If you threaten my siblings it's uP forever over here too Sis! Y'all gone be alright❣️❣️
A man’s abuse put you on crutches, but you want to reconcile? A man said he would kill your kids, but you want to reconcile? It’s sad because I know she doesn’t have any positive, protective males in her life that would kick his ass!!! File charges and leave that man in his struggle.
Ladies don’t listen to people who say if you’re a single mother you won’t get love or can’t have a quality relationship. If you do the internal work and make better decisions in men you can have genuine love. Speaking from experience 💙
I needed this episode to be longer .. there’s more layers to this . But I’m glad the mom actually was open and heard what was being said
you think that the mom heard what was being said? nah she was listening just to get defensive and talk again.
My kids went through the same thing with their mom, but thank God I was stable enough for them to be with me🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mom clearly has PTSD from her toxic relationships and life. When you aren't getting treatment, sometimes it causes triggers that make you lash out because your anxiety is sooo high. I hope she gets the help she needs. It's not easy.. Peace and Love
The mom got her nerve. That’s not the daughter’s fault you took your nieces and nephews in. That in turn took away from your child. Her child has suffered. The mom needs help.
My heart breaks for these ladies! So much trauma is displayed, but the realization of the toxic cycle is key! Praying for healing for this family dynamic. 🙏🏽 ❤
These moms putting their issues on their kids is awful...we gotta do better!..its a cycle...I'm glad they are working together to end it
I have NO sympathy for the mom
If she knew better...she would have done better.
It’s so much deeper than your comment
If you haven’t been there you will have no idea but I do understand
I understand the mom’s hurt but mom you silly. It’s a lot of back-and-forth. I understand where the baby girl feeling is coming from as well. I really understand all the underlying trauma everybody’s going through, but if a man threatened to kill my kids, he probably gonna catch a bullet himself, so ain’t no reconcile.
I've watched Karamo for a while now since his show was new. I always sensed his gentle yet no nonsense demeanor but overall was indifferent to the show in this world of everyone seemingly having a talk show.
Karamo has completely won me over. Him and his show are needed. Hes specifically bringing help and healing to the black community and giving them a safe space and safe words to unpack our collective trauma. This is who Kevin Smmuls should have aspired to be like. Uplifting black ppl and women not beating us down. He even gave the mom an affirmation and gently introduced the concept of mindfulness! I love it! Protect Karamo at all costs.💖
How did the show change from being about the poor daughter to all the excuses of the mom. Speaking over her daughter as if to say I don’t care how you feel.
Because everything the mom went through the daughter had to experience. This is just the road to recovery for the daughter; helping the mom recover first
if she doesn’t realize it now, it want always be a black eye, crutches, or broken anything 💯. we all can have a soft life but it starts WITH U first.
Exactly👏👏
I don’t know why the mom thinks it’s a good idea to keep popping out children while being alone and unmarried
This is a real honest question that I have. Not to be disrespectful or act high and mighty, I just want to know why?
If you listened.. she adopted her sisters kids after the fact her sister passed way! She wasn’t just “popping out kids” when you have a child and she get pregnant at 14 don’t say nun
@@dasanimoss7998 true, but she birthed 4 and then have her sisters kids.
@@shanny0971no she birthed 2 and adopted 3. The three are her sisters kids. The sister passed away
@@dasanimoss7998She had 2 kids while being unmarried! She adopted her sisters 3 kids, but she still had 2 kids without a husband
Women stop.picking men over your kids,and I believe the daughter was helping the mother.
The mom literally went from crying to a straight face idk about you but that says somthing.
Wow her daughter is BEAUTIFUL..I WILL PRAY FOR HER AND HER MOM... THIS IS SO SAD THE MOM HAS BEEN THRU ALL THIS HEARTACHE...
First I’d like to acknowledge all that gorgeous melanin God blessed the beautiful daughter with. I hope she can have the soft life she wants. It’s clear she’s a protector by nature and has a lot of passion. If she desires children, she’s going to make a wonderful mother. ❤
I hope Mom can change her perspective of what it means to be a woman and mother ❤
You get what you give out. People need to respect one another
Great advice and looks like progress but the mom is way too broken to be ready. She needs serious therapy. She doesn't realize that choosing abusive men around her kids is also abuse towards them
She's selfish not broken. Only care about her needs and wants but not her kids. I have a mom like this so I recognize the behavior
Mama in the pink coat felt ALL of that 🫶🏽
Just because you had it rough doesn’t mean a verbally abuse your child
Seems like the mother will accept any man who will make her feel wanted because she doesn’t want to be alone . She doesn’t know how to love herself.
The silly gasp from the audience. Lots of teens start working at 16.
not to take care of their families
Not because you gotta step up and be a psudeo parent and help with bills
Started at 14.. still working at 17 like???😭🙄
@@jamilladanaeyeah but most of us who feel the need to get a job at 14-16, most likely are taking care of themselves and their families.
Yea, and it’s kinda sad that’s what it’s come to. I’m also 17, we shouldn’t HAVE to work to take care of our families. She wasn’t working to afford luxuries or live in the house, she was working to help pay for the roof over her family’s heads
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
How did you do it? Do explain please 😯
My family have been into series of sufferings lately
All thanks to Renee Marie Harrison
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Renee Marie Harrison.
I do know Renee M. Harrison, I also have even become successful....
Mom needs healing and deliverance.
mom is looking for the love she didn’t have at a young age i wish them the best we much not out moms down no one’s knows when our doors are close
YAS Karamo! You dealt with this relationship 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Both women are so beautiful 🥺❤️
Ha!
Blessings to this woman and her kids , I’m crying and I don’t even know this woman. Bless you queen.
Mom needs to be thankful for the bravery of her daughter reaching out for help; if she takes the steps Karamo offered and owns them, mom will be saving her future and that of her kids. God bless them.
Can’t nobody tell me nothing bad about Karamo!!! All this healing is doing is a gift from God!!! Thank you
The mother is beautiful she loves her children and she’s trying
I love when the daughter said "how you expect me to respect you and your cussing me out" you better speak girl💯
this episode was beautiful. more than anything i would love to point out how mom was open minded to hearing how she went wrong and acknowledging it with everything in her. praying for this entire family to have an easy life ❤️
That daughter went through alot of pain i hope that mom can get redeemed with better decision making
This is a tough situation, because both of these women obviously need to heal. I understand the mother is hurting and is going through a lot, but she can recognize and see that and just never took those steps to get help. Because when you’re a mother it’s not about “i’m scared to get help” or “i don’t have the time” because it’s not just about you anymore, It’s about your children. And i do see what the daughter means on when she comes to her mother about her feelings she starts to guilt trip and that’s a terrible habit she needs to get rid of before none of her children want to confide in her. AND CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW SHES TRYING TO RECONCILE THINGS WITH A MAN WHO THREATENED TO SHOOT HER KIDS? I understand not wanting to be alone, but again it’s not about you anymore, it’s about your children. I feel like she had to grow up too early and didn’t get to experience those teen years & get to heal from everything she’s gone through and this is the result of that. The daughter is admirable though, even with all she’s going through, she’s worried about making sure her siblings are taken care of and being defended even when the mother won’t. And if the mother was already so stressed, i’m confused on why she would adopt the cousins?? There wasn’t any other immediate family that could’ve taken them in? I hope both of them heal from everything though & can put this behind them. Our community is so torn and broken, we need to heal each-other not bring each-other down.
I'm so encouraged by this, Karamo...I'm from Nigeria, staying in Nigeria...hard life of a workaholic single widow of 32, yes... I once lived a soft life, now I'll keep working for my 2sons to have a soft life...
Bless you, Karamo ❤
Finally a mom who really listened and wants to work on it
If mom is hurting,so are are her kids .they hurt when you hurt.
What I don’t understand is that how could women have a child and they are struggling and then have more after when you know that you’re struggling? Then they continue to date and lay down with men instead of giving those times to their children. Your kids become traumatized as well right along with you so you gotta get help with all that traumatization. The mom really need to leave those men alone and work on herself.
i don't feel bad for this mother at all. she isn't taking accountability.. woe is her.. go get therapy & be there for all them kids you got & took in. period.
I think your statement is insensitive. Everybody pushes therapy like it's inexpensive. She barely has money now. She has her kids plus her sisters kids.
@@shortcake9826 & i think you should stop talking to me. im tired of people acting like kids are inevitable 🤣🤣🤣 like stop laying down if you not altogether .. that sexx be fun, huh? 🙃
@@shortcake9826 everybody also laying down & having kids that they're not EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, or MENTALLY prepared for. so again, i don't feel bad for people ACTIVELY choosing wrong. you sound crazy rn. goodnight.
@@anastacia0189 lol I don't sound crazy you sound judgmental. Everyone doesn't have the luxury like you to go get mental help and it seems you don't know how reality works crazy person lmao good night
@@anastacia0189 Lol I'm crazy no you're judgmental. Everyone doesn't have the luxury to go and get mental help. You seem to not know how reality works but I'm the crazy one lmao!!! Good night
I feel like he gave this mom a pass and I’m irritated
God really uses KARAMO ! I love this
Mom and daughter and wish them the best
When her daughter said she felt all that... I felt that.
They was a beautiful episode ❤🫶🏾
It do not give her the right to be rude to your kids, that’s why it’s good to heal kids do not deserve a damaged mother. My mom was a single mom but she never called me out my name or was rude to me. I am a product of a single mom. I’m the oldest and I seen everything she went through.
Karamo you really hit the nail on the head. You are the best!! I have learnt a lot listening to your show. 👍🏽👍🏽
Ms. Purple is a beautiful lady! And her skin 😍
The mother went through so much. Too much.
This reminds me of my mom & me. The men she chooses & the men she brought around us I seen everything. How they treated her & how being with those men affects our relationship because I see that my mom deserves more she’s just not ready for it.
I’m so glad at how the ending results. I feel like mom is internally hurting and I feel daughter is as well , but could be a little more empathetic. I’m glad they were able to see from one another’s perspective and I hope mom took this advise with her. Beautiful mother and daughter duo and let’s all break these generational curses 🫶🏾🤞🏾
Hey Y'all come in and have a seat!
Heyy how are you doing
The extra commentary from the audience lol are they making them do this?😂
Mama is making her kids pay for everyone else's bad choices and her own...yeah, she's broken, but she shouldn't task her kids with her healing. That's up to her.
Growing up fast is a hard pill to swallow…I pray the both of them win🫶🏾
“You don’t have to be sorry” YES TF SHE DOES!
I know this story far too well!
I love yall for telling your story and walking into greatness.
Because you all can and well have a better life.
Childhood family.......Love you Sharetta
You all will heal and help others.
Her losing her child and her sister doesn’t give her an excuse to be horrible to your daughter
These moms give all the grace to these horrible men (trying to “reconcile” with a man that threatened to shoot your kids and put you in crutches) but when it comes to their children, especially their daughters, they are hard, mean, nasty, and don’t budge ever. No grace for the daughters. But all the grace for these horrible men. Absolutely deplorable.
These the Episodes I be looking for!! These teach me so much about my mom and me as a son sometime this perspective is needed to see the other POV
every episode makes me cryyyy . i just love this show sm ❤
I FELT THAT!!! ALL THAT!!! EVEYTHING!!! That felt and sound so powerful as simple as it sound and seem ❤
I love this mother. She reminds me so much of myself. She is hurting, she was a young mother who did her best. I love the daughter too. I wish them both the best
The mom pissed me tf off 😒
Karamo you continue to be amazing! Continue helping others heal 💯🙏🖤
Karamo you are right on point 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 as always 👍🏾
I’ve been that Daughter too! Our relationship died decades ago but I held onto hope for our relationship. I was watching all of the fakery for decades more until I waved that white towel and threw it in…never to be picked up again.
We haven’t spoken in about 2 years now. Do I miss her? I would say that lil girl does…the adult doesn’t. Men have always been in the forefront. She’s been married 3 x.
Karamo you hit the nail on the head❣️this was so awesome, I think you made a genuine breakthrough with both of them💯 Aloha from Hawaii 🌺🌈🌴🤙
The crowd need to stfu😂
😂😂😂 seriously
Right, just listen....
Right😂
I just was thinking the same thing 😂😂😂😂😂
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm 😂😂
This is how my mother acts
I feel you sister My mama was financially there but not emotional and verbally abusive I pray that your og fix this while she has a chance my mother passed in my arms and at that time and within the year before I forgave every bad name and action from her got to know her for the first time and cherished every moment until her last breath. I wish you the best mom n daughter because not a moment passes I don't think of my mama and smile I want your memories to be the same if not better 🙏
This was an amazing episode of healing. 👏 Karamo is truly gifted. ❤
ur message are effortless and clear. and heartfelt keep the vibes coming❤❤it
The crowd 😭😭 “mmmm”
I don’t believe she’s a bad person she just messed up emotionally! My grandmother was 13 when she had my aunt! Made her naive fragile and timid !! But thank God she met my grandfather years later then she lived a life where she felt soft still challenging but easy to figure out cause the love from my
Grandfather was there! He had been through some stuff too! But atleast they didn’t trauma bond and abuse each other over it ❤ I wish this woman and her daughter the best!
I feel the mom saying im sorry coming moreso from all the names she called her and some more things she said
If this isn't my mama it's scary and it's the fact they don't understand their children's frustration.
I understand the daughter and her feelings but she has to let her mom say enough is enough
Ok her life is hard granted but why is you being the hard life to her kids. Shes grieving one kid while treating the ones that are alive like crap.
First step is for her to take accountability for her actions! And then work on her healing journey.