What to Do When You Feel You’ve Been Cut Off in a Relationship?
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- Why do people avoid difficult conversations? One time or another, we have all been recipients of a cold shoulder or cut off from a friendship. This is not a nice feeling, but remember this is not an indictment on you, Dr. Laura explains.
What to Do When You Feel You’ve Been Cut Off in a Relationship?
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Dr. Laura for your much needed help. Thank You! 🥰
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I love your makeup today. You look amazing Dr Laura.
Thank you!! ♥️
Sometimes being cut off isn't a "surprise." Every time I've cut somebody out of my life (which isn't often) - they know exactly why I've done it. Usually it's because they've overstepped a personal limit or a boundary I've set and expressed (multiple times), and I finally got tired of it and let them know this wasn't going to happen anymore, and that I was terminating my relationship with them.
Gunner is that you? 😅
Best advice ever! Thank you
You're so welcome!
Great advice!! ❤
IF SOMEONE HAS A TRIED AND TRUE HISTORY OF NEVER ACCEPTING ANY BAD CHOICES AND BEHAVIOUR..ITS A WASTE OF BREATH
What a cute shirt! Love it.
People get defensive when you try to explain your side and sometimes it’s better just to walk away.
She looks GREAT today! Good topic today as well.
She does look enviably great.
Hello Dr. Laura, I started your book. "The feeding and proper care of husbands." About 100 days away from marrying. Thank you for your guidance. Thank you for tools for a life long marriage. Im going to subscribe and keep up with your wisdom. Im excited to find you active here.
I have some good advice. Been happily married almost 50 years. Keep your disciplines. Be independently cheerful. Have some independence. Have happy activities together. Make life pleasant for your partner. Communication is key. (In a non-emotional way) let things go. Be patient. Use your brain and always take into consideration the other person when making plans. Have some things separate. (Toothpaste). Date nights. Shared values. Shared respect. Compromise sometimes. I’m happy my husband is kind. I’m always reigning in my bad mood or itchiness. No one is responsible for your joy except you and God. Get help if you need it .
I've heard the term "joyful defiance" recommended when you feel (not feel, are) abandoned. Remember to move. Remember to do things you love.
People are sometimes stuck with relationships with people they don't actually like (for a variety of reasons) and eventually act on their feelings. It's not nice, and the other can be surprised, since the rejector could never address the things they didn't like about the other person.
Thank you for this !! I was cut off by my siblings and it was a trauma I’m still healing from.. betrayal from my family
You’re most welcome!
A lot of Wives "cut their husbands off", yet still expect Wife treatment for years and decades. Not the same, but essentially the same mechanism, with a little more distance.
can you do a talk about a "newbie'' being shunned by a group of women. this happens to alot of women when they move into a neighborhood or take their kids to school. a pecking order kind of thing. two or more women will not allow a ''newbie". It's kind of like this talk today but the cutting off is done from the start LOL can you discuss the dynamic and a good solution for the ''outsider''.
I experienced this. Navigated it successfully. Maybe get to know them by themselves. Invite one of them to your home or ask if their child could visit their child for a couple hours. Get to know each other. Another option is to not care about it.
This has happened to me and finally had a chance to talk to her and she said she was mad at me about something that happened over 50 years ago! I then realized that something was going on with her brain, maybe dementia? I have not talked to her since thought it was best, try to talk to her daughter she just stayed silent so I figured she didn’t want me to know am sad about it not mad.
My mother was 82 and her friend cut her off but yes it was because the friend had dementia. I love people. Sometimes they walk away. It happens.
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Disagree, wow. Escape route is right, away from unwell, unhealthy people. You don't take into account people that did try to resolve the issues and nothing gets resolved.
She's talking about her own mother.
Yolanda? How did you know that? Did she ditch Yolanda, or vice versa?
@@MrRJMGREEN VICE/VERSA...Yolanda passed and was found partially decomposed after being gone for 2 months.
Stop. We don’t know the circumstances. It could happen to anyone.
@@jayniekinser7029 We know her mother was deceased for 2 months before anyone found her
On a side note because someone goes out drinking on an occasional weekend does not make them a drunk...if that's true- you drink wine Dr. Laura means your a drunk then... let's settle down a little bit with that.... you're getting a little carried away with yourself on that topic... the tables have turned you are now being evaluated... I request you stop drinking completely. No Wine, no nothing... now I'm concerned about your stories of drinking on your sailboat... perhaps it's time to put the bottle down Dr Laura.... you've been drinking.... you can't have it both ways... you've admitted drinking several times...
Excellent comment James 👍
I’m a fan of Dr. Laura. In all fairness, you probably have your own drinking problem.
@jayniekinser7029 no..i drink twice a month at dinner... drank on the weekends so it didn't interfere with work when I was younger. She needs to make a correction in her belief system... it's ok to criticize....she can handle it.... also you're insulting me and you don't know me I'm stating a fact through my olfactory nerve system which are my eardrums synapsing to my cerebral hemisphere. So through the philosophical process of deductive reasoning you said something worse than I did
dr. laura, it would be better not to line your bottom eye lid. it emphasizes the droopy and ages you. the older we get the less makeup we need.
Geez😮
I think her eyes look beautiful. I always underline my eyes a bit at 72.
Do you really think she needs advice? She looks at herself. And I don’t agree with you.