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[@MsPrettyPrettyPlease]

Is it just me, or is it weird that the earrings were borrowed for a night when H forgot her own earrings, then she continued to wear them, all the way to taking them on vacation? Why wouldn’t they just be returned the next morning after she needed them?
Also the “putter” analogy, why does the guy have to ask for the putter back, you would know every single time, you use that putter, it’s not yours. So, if someone lets you borrow something, and they don’t ask for it back, it becomes yours?!
Anyway, off to borrow some expensive things, because if they don’t tell me how much it’s worth or ask for it back, that means it’s mine! 😂

[@cyn3971]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@007nadineL]

Heather can be thoughtless

[@jameshaddan8538]

Plus when you borrow those things and don’t bother to return them, you can point the finger at the owners and tell them it’s their fault because they set you up for a fall. 😂 It’s a whole new way of viewing the world, I had never thought of before.

[@MsAngelia26]

No Shame. None. Appalling

[@monismusings]

Not your business. Not your problem

[@FoodiesLikeUs]

Why didn't you ask her how you can replace them when you lost them? Simple issue to resolve. I don't get it.

[@AskMarkWard]

When you loan something to someone, are you supposed to say, "don't lose it"? I always thought that was assumed. Borrowing something usually means that the item will be returned (no matter what the cost) and one should not have to continue to ask that something borrowed be returned. From where I am sitting, it doesn't matter if it is worth $3 or $3000. If I didn't want it, I would not have it. So, I am going to want it back. I find it odd that expense is the issue. If it's not yours, it is NOT yours. WEAK argument IMO.

[@suchamaven]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@monismusings]

Imo. You need a life

[@amyf7339]

This response by Heather is a reflection of how shallow she is

[@AskMarkWard]

@@amyf7339 Agreed

[@dashboard-11]

You'd be surprised! You would think it's a given to return something you've borrowed but many people don't.

[@PrestonVincent]

It starts at 37:45 mark where she talks about the drama with the earrings FYI ✌🏼

[@BklynNY471]

Thank you!

[@giovannagonzalez6247]

Mvp 🏆

[@CreativeLab12]

Thank you!!!!

[@karlee3095]

I would have texted my friend and offered replacement soon after if I lost her earring(s) no matter what they cost. That part I don't understand. Anyways, glad it was paid back but sad a friendship was lost over lack of trust--which is basically what this is.

[@Allia1982]

You’re the best.

[@CreativeLab12]

Why is Heather always in some sort of friend drama??? I take it that It’s always some of else’s fault. Young child syndrome???🧐

[@suchamaven]

Wait a minute - I'm the youngest in my family, too, but I own my bad actions and apologize when I'm wrong. If I'd lost something I'd be replacing it real fast!

[@juliadrischler1]

Her friends are celebrities and rich people. The most dramatic people to walk this earth

[@MsAngelia26]

Yes, serious youngest in big family energy. No self-awareness, entitlement. So insane

[@amandamcmillin4697]

I think the hypocrisy and lack of self awareness is beyond assinine.

[@dollymadeson3963]

Said the troll 👿

[@alexialanda27]

It doesn't feel good to be accused of being a thief, however when you borrow something you return it, you don't wait for them to ask for it back. It doesn't even make any sense. It also sounds like you're blaming her for letting you use something so expensive. Whether it was $5 or $5,000, the price doesn't matter. You were her friend and she trusted you with her personal belongings. You're a grown woman, take accountability and learn from this experience.

[@208traderjoes]

You’ve never had money

[@007nadineL]

True but a friend doesn't stab you in the back for it
Helloooooo

[@ShindlersFiist]

@@007nadineL hi

[@ShindlersFiist]

@208traderjoes you've never had money who are we kidding ?

[@monismusings]

Not your earrings. Not your problem

[@melindaarndt7695]

Oh, Heather.....even if the earring were values at $1
🤦🏽‍♀️

[@cyn3971]

"there was no conversation of don't lose them or nothing"
Heather, I know your Mom and Dad and surely your Catholic School girl upbringing taught you better that if you borrow something, no matter what the cost you return item and if you lose item or break it, you replace or reimburse for item.
This one is on You, Miss.

[@Jewelznme]

Wow that’s low bring up her deceased parents.

[@cyn3971]

@@Jewelznme you must not listen to the show much and your comment, that's another real reach 🤣 have a super day!

[@007nadineL]

Heather just sounds like she's saying her gf gave zero hint that they were expensive earrings

[@cyn3971]

@007nadineL just curious...whether her gf mentioned the cost of earrings or not... how is that relevant in reference to the principals of borrowing?

[@littleladybugmom]

No no no, you give back ANYTHING you borrowed regardless of the cost of it.

[@tsunamimami1]

Im sorry but even if SHE offered for you to borrow them how could it be a planned attack? Did She know if she let you borrow them that you’d lose them? and then shed be able put you on blast months later? Lol make that make sense girl… also, she shouldn’t of had to even ask for the ear rings back to begin with.. ever. You should of promptly returned them and if u knew you lost them rather they are $20-$90 or $900 asked her to send you the link to them and rebought them for her, without her having to ask you too. You said she mentioned it once as a”joke” with a laughing emoji and that’s clearly someone’s way of passively bringing it up- which she shouldn’t of had too to begin with since you borrowed from HER. So the fact she had to bring it up- get ignored cuz her text didn’t seem urgent or serious enough for u to think she actually wants her item back.. to then her having to ask again and be ignored for a month.. for that to then lead you to decided that it was all a planned attack is INSANE… truly. She didn’t give it to you she lent it to you. To borrow. Doesn’t matter the cost. If she wanted to attack you she would of said you could borrow them and then go behind your back and tell everyone you STOLE them … that would be an attack and accusation.. but to borrow something then not return it and then say that was a plan attack is something I can’t even comprehend… if you lose something of someone’s- you replace it, immediately.Without them having to ask. Period.

[@suchamaven]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@andrealee8561]

I don't understand how it's a planned attack on heather n why .

[@lavenderamethyst6050]

Are you all dense? The planned attack was Jeff talking about it on air and having Kelly Dodd chime in. That was the plan, that’s what Heather is saying.

[@HikerGirl13]

because apparently everyone is jealous of her. Jealous. It’s like being jealous of ugly leather pants 😂😂😂😂😂

[@lyssi9310]

I mean, clearly there are multiple people feuding here but calling it a “planned attack to try to destroy me” feels like a stretch. None of these people are innocent, including Heather. I’ve been a juicy scooper for years, so before anyone decides to call me a troll, take a deep breath. This podcast got me through the pandemic, I eagerly look forward to Tuesdays and Thursdays, but the lack of any accountability on Heather’s part is fucking weird. There’s a constant excuse for everything and a constant sense of “okay but I’m actually the victim and it’s everyone else going after me for no reason”

[@lorrainebettencourt8009]

Heather did choose the wrong people to trust....she can learn from that..Heather has more real friends than any of the chumps..dating back to college. decade's..these people were not her friends

[@patricaowens]

@@jaydepage6665SHE IS.

[@pqm2012]

Agreed. Been a long time fan, been to live show....but lately doesn't feel the same. The JL whole thing didn't care don't know them and they sound awful. JM I could see both points but left a bad taste. And now she is attacked? They might be horrible people but thinking everything is an attack doesn't let room for growth

[@dannyg1440]

A pile-on, yes.

[@Fivetimesthree]

Imagine if you lost and earring and were careless about it but then your friend talked on a famous podcast about how you’re a thief. Heather isn’t overreacting. This went from being a negligent friend to be defamed as if this was done with intent to steal.

[@katenew1613]

"this was a planned attack" 😂😂😂

[@gretchendantico4851]

Also she is WAY over stating what Jeff said. She’s making it sound like he made serious accusations. No accountability, I guess Chelsea was right…

[@bellabowen3247]

😅😅😅

[@sarabecher434]

Heather I’m a juicy scooper but the words I’m sorry and accountability on your free RUclips goes a long way. Love you but not loving this recent drama.

[@jenna.w.9041]

Most people (I think) who borrow items and lose them or damage them, reach out to the lender, let them know and inquire immediately as to how to replace the item. Uncool to put the onus on the lender. Shame, Heather. Shame.

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

No shame for paying, timing

[@monismusings]

Shame on you for assuming you have a say jn something you know nothing aboit

[@marniets]

Why is this all about the value of the earrings? If you lose something that belongs to someone else, you replace it, no matter how cheap or expensive.

[@007nadineL]

I 100% agree but a good friend should stab her in the back over it

[@cd3848]

Why does it matter how much the earrings are? They didn't belong to you. That's so careless and you're so flippant with your explanation.

[@208traderjoes]

Gawd! Grow up! Never had money I assume.

[@cd3848]

@208traderjoes not sure I understand your comment or why you're so agitated by mine, but even if a friend let's you borrow something that costs $5 you should treat it like it costs $500, because it's not yours. You shouldn't have to tell your friend to be careful with your expensive earrings, they should be careful anyway because that's what adults do.

[@SNL14]

Anyone who’s ever lent anything out knows how uncomfortable it can get when the person you lent it to doesn’t return things. It’s awkward. To assume she predicted you would need to borrow jewelry, then knew you wouldn’t return them right away AND lose one as part of a planned attack sounds insane. You’re trying to blame a friend for trusting you? Pretty sure you put her in an uncomfortable position even needing to ask once for them back and she got mad then vented to someone that escalated things. Saying it’s a planned attack was literally the last thing I expected to hear. Jeff took it too far but it all could have been avoided by being a better friend.

[@miriamk6950]

👏👏🙌

[@208traderjoes]

Oh grow up!

[@SNL14]

@@208traderjoes Get a friend. It will be a nice change.

[@ShindlersFiist]

Yup !

[@ShindlersFiist]

@@208traderjoes lol stop trolling

[@PierreHNica]

So they planned hoping she would borrow the earrings and somehow they also planned her loosing them… sure 😂😂😂😂

[@kimberlyfry1512]

The whole planned attack doesn't even make sense. How would they know in advance she'd wear them to another event and lose them? She's delusional. Maybe she does have a brain injury. I just don't know how she thinks this excuse makes any sense 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Nicole-Beezu]

I think the only thing Heather did wrong is not caring about losing someone else's earrings. That's pretty careless. Otherwise I think Jeff is acting like a complete piece of sh!t. There is no reason for him to be this angry and bashing her to the extent he has. Does seem like he has an agenda. Its just way too over the top.

[@OweeGigi]

Well do we actually perceive Jeff to be a stable-minded person? That man can't keep his own life together yet rages at others to take attention away from his own shit life.

[@dannyg1440]

That’s just who he is. He eventually treats all his friends, boyfriends, and bystanders that way.

[@patricaowens]

Yeah,that’s what he does to everyone that he comes in to contact with.

[@OKI4life]

He’s the King of Confrontation behind a 🎤

[@OKI4life]

@@dannyg1440but that doesn’t necessarily make him friend worthy so to speak.

[@jessican2165]

I love you Heather but this ain’t it. You have taken zero responsibility for anything. What a weird way to look at things. The value of the earrings is irrelevant. For someone who loves to give PR advice to people, you sure are dropping the ball here. Disappointing.

[@suchamaven]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@Rayadogs10]

👏

[@Glav0126]

Jewelry thief is a stretch but you fucked up from the beginning not telling her they were lost🥴🥴🥴 you knew you had them the whole time, she shouldn’t have to ask for them lol. You know that’s not right Heather come on!!

[@HikerGirl13]

why i thought she’d come on here and be humble is my mistake. “i’ve never lent real jewelry”… the same. the same. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@pamelabrown5034]

The little digs she has to make is uncalled for just say your sorry and all move on . No need to say well I’ve been married for 25 yrs blah blah .

[@Goldenroadie24]

This is cut-and-dried. You borrowed something. You give it back or you pay for it. It is ridiculous for you to say that she didn't ask for it enough or make a big deal out of it. And then to have the unmitigated Gall to say you are being ambushed??? LMFAO 🤣

[@Nocturne22]

Heather needs to pay for it. However, her ex-friend shouldn't accuse her of stealing. People lose things and it sucks, but it's not like she still has the stupid earrings and wanted them all to herself the whole time.

[@sarastewart2633]

What friend is going to make a big deal of it and ask for it in front of others at a social event? She seems to be providing more evidence that the friend, was indeed being a friend, not out to get Heather.

[@monismusings]

Not your business. Not your friendship. Not your problem. Move along

[@Goldenroadie24]

@@monismusings same back atcha B

[@TheBL_]

It doesn't matter how much the earrings were. You borrow something, it's your responsibility to return them. If you lose them, it's your responsibility to tell them and offer to replace or pay for the lost item as soon as possible. The person you borrowed from should not have to chase you down for MONTHS to get the item back. The only reason you said you will repay her is because you were called out on it publicly. The audacity of saying it was a set you up to bring you down because they are jealous? UNBELIEVABLE. Stop blaming other people and making excuses, Heather. Take responsiblity, repent and be a better friend.

[@golfer462]

STFU she paid the ponzi schemer’s wife back.

[@philiplong7390]

Well, I totally disagree We know who said this on their radio programme that nasty piece of work who can't keep a boyfriend. If the woman was a true friend why not mention it pravialty or say something before?. I think you are probably more like her friend who gossiped behind her back., She did not chase her and you believe that nasty piece of work.

[@rar371]

No one cares. Get a life.

[@theresaterry164]

I agree with you, Heather has burned many bridges…… does she get along with anyone ….?

[@mirandam5746]

I like Heather but she seems to never take accountability or twist the story to make herself in the right.

[@theviviassam]

So not only did your friend know that you'd need to borrow her earrings, but she also knew that you'd lose them and then concocted a plan to discredit you? Unless your friend has psychic abilities, it sounds a bit paranoid to me.

[@andycakesends]

HOW just how would someone PLAN to make you borrow their earrings then PLAN to make you lose those earrings then PLAN that you wouldn’t reach out to ask how much to make the check to replace them for 😂 That friend is POWERful whooo hooo

[@freedomring757]

You missed the point. The plan was not for Heather to borrow earrings and lose them. The plan was that instead of asking Heather to replace the earrings the “friend” waited until she was on a podcast and then publicly accused Heather of stealing them. Even though the Friend had texted Heather about other subject matters, and had seen Heather socially as recently as June, without mentioning the earrings. Sneak attack.

[@andycakesends]

@@freedomring757 according to Heather 🤷🏻‍♀️ I myself am going to simply remember how she treated her other good friend Justin 🫠

[@Rayadogs10]

Right?

[@Rayadogs10]

@@freedomring757 one hopes you don’t have to REMIND a friend to return something and then get blamed for you losing the item and not saying anything

[@KMKSARQK]

Love Heather, but just wondering why she didn't replace the earrings no matter how much they were worth?!

[@pkkonz6900]

Heather, it's the point that the value of the earnings (in your mind) is the value of importance in addressing your friends request for HER earnings. That's wrong. 😔

[@Katiekay.]

so Jeff and what's her face planned for you to lose the earrings and dismiss it for months??

[@lavenderamethyst6050]

Are you all dense? The planned attack was Jeff talking about it on air and having Kelly Dodd chime in. That was the plan, that’s what Heather is saying.

[@annan.3283]

Planned attack sounds like paranoia. She trusted you with her earrings. Some people feel awkward asking for their stuff to be returned multiple times and add emojis to their texts to downplay the awkwardness. It would be rude to ask you for it at your birthday party. You take no responsibility for never addressing to her that you lost her earrings even if you thought they were cheap.

[@viva5526]

i do agree

[@user-lx2fh9ev2d]

I don’t, I think that’s obviously what it is. A spitefully planned attack

[@freedomring757]

I believe the “planner” accusation is levied primarily at JL, not the lender friend. For what purpose did JL make this issue public when the lender hadn’t? It does seem like a planned attack from his perspective. Which is not to say that Heather gets a pass for failing to return the earrings. Two things can be true.

[@PrincessChelsy]

I’m well aware the scoopers will slaughter me because this isn’t a fawning post. I’ve been a subscriber for almost as long as you’ve been on RUclips. I enjoy you interacting with the reality folks. I like you humor and takes.
What I do not like is you assuming it’s your friends responsibilities to peruse you for an item that whatever or however it happened, you borrowed. I’m pretty sure your friend didn’t say here’s a gift.
This is personal to me an this has happened twice to me. Never again. If I lend you something, no matter if you didn’t aske initially, you are borrowing. I had to chase these girls down for simple gold hoops. Why? Why is it me job to hunt down my items? It’s not.
Not one apology for the misunderstanding even. I got that, too. Jeez.

[@Jewelznme]

Because we don’t know them, ALL we can do is assume. So let’s calm down and stop assuming. Enjoy the content!

[@cyn3971]

​@@Jewelznmeyou don't need to know the people, to comment on what's right and wrong.

[@suzanne8535]

It is not our business, it is between her and her friend!

[@cyn3971]

@@suzanne8535 that's rich, they've made it our business and are asking us to pay to get more details about their business.

[@PrincessChelsy]

I know. Her friend hatched this evil scheme to take Heather down by plying her with drinks and forcing these Costco earring on her. Then, in an even more evil twist, they took her out to a bar that does what???? IT ENCOURAGES DANCING!!!! It's must be the only one on the island, because what bar ENCOURAGES DANCING?!?!?!?!?!
So, it was all an evil plan." I mean, come on.@@Liz-in8lu

[@pqm2012]

Love heather and all but lately everything is an attack? Either she surrounds herself with bad people or she needs to learn something. Pay more attention because the earing and for example liking the mean comments about Justin was according to her mindless. Well, maybe it's time to be more mindful and more accountable. I think she is from what she says here but sometimes the "whatever" attitude is healthy but sometimes we get lost in it. Either way something has to change, be more mindful either ofnyour reactions ot the people around you.

[@Jewelznme]

Or who she hangs out with.

[@marycalolefsin9717]

A matter of time before a VPR falling out

[@BriannaBa8]

she's already changed, for the worse. She used to be likable. The reason she always has drama now is she seeks out celebrity friends, not necessarily good friends

[@kathyquinn3224]

HM makes a lot of money on her pay wall for all her drama!

[@SweetDee_67]

What Justin did was sandbagging. He said he was her friend yet when she did things that upset him he didn't bring them up to her to give her an opportunity to apologize or take the feed back. He held them all in until she did something that was too much for him THEN he tells her oh yeah by way not only am i mad now but here is a list of everything you have ever done to piss me off even though I didn't bring it up to you at the time. Heather stated she didn't know he had had a problem with so many things until he listed them on his pod. I have actually done this to a "friend" (I was the one holding resentment she didn't know about) then I realized I was the horrible friend because I could have brought it up and given her the chance to make it right them move on. Instead I waited until I was furious with her and wanted to run down the list of how she wronged me for so long.

[@msnyx823]

So you borrowed her earrings and lost one. Why did you not tell her and offer to pay for them? Irrespective of how much they cost or you thought they cost. If you did the right thing, then they have nothing to attack you on. Claiming this is an planned attack is making yourself the victim when you are at fault.

[@CouchDetective]

Why didn’t the woman who owned the earrings directly address the issue with Heather? She insisted Heather borrow them, she saw the video…. I’m sure Heather wasn’t try to steal anything, as she continued to communicate with owner of the earrings for months… why didn’t she talk to her instead of going behind her back and talking to people who have issues with Heather? When will people be accountable for their own things, it was on her to initiate that conversation. No matter how much the earrings cost, friendship is far more valuable and to use to misunderstanding to publicly shame a person, who believed they were a friend… is really messed up. I would like to know if the earring owner is also friends with Megan… because I bet she is, and I bet Megan has been litigating her case since she straight-up bulling Heather. All of this reeks of jealousy.

[@CouchDetective]

This person insisted she borrow it… meaning Heather didn’t ask to borrow them. Which means it was probably an afterthought because it wasn’t something she had intended to do, she probably borrowed them to be nice because the woman insisted she borrowed the earrings. Listen to Jeff’s show, even he said that this woman always insists people use her things… why? People are responsible for their own property, and if a person just hands out their stuff to others without establishing conditions of use or giving all the information (like price or personal value) they should expect that they could lose those items. Because life happens. Things get lost. It was on her to contact Heather and explain the situation and she didn’t, so Heather assumed, as anyone would… because what rational person let’s casual friends borrow expensive jewelry, that it wasn’t a big deal. If people don’t want their things lost, they shouldn’t let people borrow them. To then use that story as social gossip with people she knows are looking for reasons to not like Heather . That is not how a FRIEND would handle the situation.

[@CouchDetective]

Is it really though? It’s thoughtful to let someone borrow something and put all the responsibility of care of that item, without telling them the value or giving an expected date of return. Sounds like a test to me. The thoughtful thing would’ve been to talk to Heather directly when a conflict or resentment was felt because friends give each other the benefit of doubt. And sadly, I think that this is all there is to the story. And in the aftermath of a pandemic, where millions of people lost everything, this woman’s earring is so out-of-touch it’s unreal. This woman needs to grow up and stop loaning out her things so she can feel validated from some weird form of show-and-tell.

[@savageaxe]

@@CouchDetective You have your head deeper in Heather's hindquarters than Heather herself. It's pathetic.

[@msnyx823]

@@CouchDetective she did that. Heather didn’t respond and sort it out. You can’t ghost someone and then blame them when they get annoyed about Heather not resolving the issue.
What needed to happen was Heather needed to be accountable for the fact she lost the earring and ask how much they were. Then repay the person. That’s the accountability needed here.

[@kimberlytay]

A planned attack? At what point do you take accountability for anything?

[@208traderjoes]

When she does something wrong, she excepts responsibility, and takes accountability. When she doesn’t do anything wrong, she doesn’t.

[@mariag2454]

Love ya heather but apologizing from the beginning would have stopped all this. This is all too much

[@JuliaMerulla]

I'm disappointed that it got to this point. All Heather needed to do was tell her friend the earring was indeed lost and ask how to replace the pair or reimburse the cost.

[@lavend111]

Next time you let a friend borrow something, make sure to tell them not to lose it.😂

[@suchamaven]

I always thought that was implied, but I guess for some people these thing have to be spelled out. 😂

[@MichaelWydra-wi8nr]

jeff is a bully and a dick. I dont like how he aired out everything with Julie and Brandy, same with this situation. I do think Justin could have been handled better but nobody is perfect but Jeff is mean spirited.

[@patricaowens]

I agree.

[@lorrainebettencourt8009]

👍

[@allytrudie864]

He is a self aware and proud sociopath. Never let someone like that in too close, always be friendly and keep at arms distance. Why would anyone willingly forge a deep friendship with someone who intentionally causes your life unneeded drama over and over? He doesn’t have the ability to love and bond like a normal person. Something happened to him.

[@CocoKmimi]

I love you Heather. BUT your response to earring situation is messy. You need PR who can help with this stuff. Not Peter who is an echo chamber of messiness. Here is an example of an emotionally mature response: “i feel awful that I did not let my friend know that I lost her earring immediately. I have reached out to my friend and apologized. Additionally, I will pay for the lost earring. I wish I handled the whole situation better.”
OWN your part without all the blaming.

[@Kathleenpoors]

Reality TV stars great catches? Most are narcissistic alcoholics. Can’t trust this guy or your take on this, Heather.

[@allbutgrey]

Yup. Painful to watch 🫣

[@suzanne8535]

She does not owe us that, it is between her and her friend.

[@CocoKmimi]

@@suzanne8535 her ENTIRE existence is making her private life a public cash cow

[@suzanne8535]

@@CocoKmimi you are talking about her Patreon which is not her entire life. Her Juicy Scoop podcast is free. She gets to choose what she shares on her Patreon, that is the difference.

[@mariag2454]

Just curiuos. Whether you knew if the eartings were real or not, they still weren't yours so why not tell her you lost one and offer to reolace them ?

[@syreetathibodeaux6114]

I wonder if the person ever asked her about them or just kept it as a “gotcha”.
Heather is busy running an empire and probably didn’t think twice about the earrings. Bad manners yes but not malicious. Right ?

[@Mattslittlesister55]

Wait was she saying the women planned on heather losing them?

[@rachelwinchenbach6102]

The question should be “why would she even loan a pair that expensive out WITHOUT making sure Heather knew they were expensive??!!” I bet those earrings weren’t even $50 and Heather got screwed over not once, but twice by this “friend!” I hope she wiped her hands clean of that person. Clearly the person wanted their 15 minutes of fame! Well now they lost a great friend and a lifetime of Juicy Scooping!

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

Despite real or not, the earrings were given to borrow, and if they get lost then it shall be a lesson to the individual who lends, sorta buyer beware, one cannot expect any financial recovery from this situation, especially when it comes to statute of limitations, my wonder is why complain about missing earrings now versus many months ago!?!? Once someone becomes a bit famous, the sharks will circle round to threaten with fins showing.
Heather should not offer any money for the earrings because if she offers any amount of money then she could perhaps/ potentially/ might 🤔 owe some sort of liability.... again though Heather doesn't owe any money!!!!.

[@jameshaddan8538]

Heather, I love your show…but “planned attack” ….that seems a bit far fetched. Maybe it’s time to take care of yourself a bit now and take a little break.

[@Micmac24]

I guess Heather will never learn to let the guest talk! 🙄🙄

[@simonecrawford1619]

Why you here? Instead of hate watch go volunteer maybe ?

[@Micmac24]

@@simonecrawford1619 yer funny 😄

[@patricaowens]

@@simonecrawford1619well said.

[@patricaowens]

⁠@@Micmac24Yer not.go away.

[@007nadineL]

Ikr

[@ShartySpice]

Is anyone even actually listening to any of this? It's so awkward listening to her talk about non-nonsensical fluff whilst ignoring the 800lb gorilla in the room.

[@RaisedEyeBrew]

I’m choosing to ignore the drama and just enjoy the Contant from everyone

[@stacylight6683]

I agree with the other posters. If you borrow something it should be returned. If you loose it you should call and take responsibility. The person you borrfrom should not have to ask for is back. Its all about taking responsibility and accountability. Just apologize and say you handled it poorly.

[@stacylight6683]

The whole planned attack feels paranoid and not being in touch with reality. I'm not saying things like that don't happen but not in this situation. That is going to continue to fuel the fire. I don't know maybe quite hanging with the Vanderpump people because it sounds like something they would say.

[@rosemoore437]

I’m sad about Justin. That sucks. I hope you guys resolve things some day.

[@jenv1234]

Oh no shoot I must’ve missed that did they get in a fight? I love Justin

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

I'm sure they will, no matter what it'll all work out

[@rosemoore437]

@@jenv1234 you have probably figured it out now. I listened to Justin talk about it on his podcast, and then Jeff on Sirius. Jeff sounds like the shit stirrer. It’s sad.

[@user-pu7fc3mu2b]

Heather, I can believe the earrings story until the ‘planned attack’. This is from spring 4+ months ago and you think she knew that Jeff and you would have a falling out and so she waited to use it against you?That is a stretch. Also, even if something is $20, if you borrow it, you owe it to pay back not just ignore it cause you thought it was $90 and so you don’t give it back.

[@golfer462]

It was definitely planned.

[@tammybrown6076]

Heather! Just own it when you make a mistake! Especially if it’s someone you call a friend!

[@HikerGirl13]

We all know you didn’t even reach out to her until you found out that it was brought up and you didn’t even let her know that you lost them… $10 or not

[@007nadineL]

What?

[@Jaedoe888]

I am a Nurse with an earning fetish. My patients love checking out my earings as they match my scrubs. If i loose one side i keep the other side hoping the lost one would be found even if its years later. So i will be MADDD if some one borrow and loose my eari ngs and act so nonchalant about it. Just saying!!!

[@pineapplepam5392]

When they run out of bashing you for content, you will still be writing your own material, doing impressions, and the best interviews. Your talents run deep and they can’t hold a candle to you.

[@patricaowens]

Yep,that’s the problem.They are jealous of her and it shows.Justine will soon find out about Jeff.

[@pineapplepam5392]

@@patricaowens exactly. She’s her writer. The talent, her own manager, her own publicist, writing, she drastically avoids politics, I respect that.

[@rebeccaedwards1125]

Did she return the one earring that she didn't lose? Lol. There are far too many people talking about how she takes advantage of situations, for it not to be somewhat true.

[@videovixens]

Your flippant attitude regarding the earrings says a lot about you. Whether you deemed them valuable or not, you should have returned them, or at the very least, offered her compensation once you realized you’d lost one. A “planned attack” by a friend who was kind enough to offer you earrings makes no sense. It seems you’re finally being called out for your selfishness and lack of care for others. Where there’s smoke, there’s fire. 🔥

[@theviviassam]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Mike-se6ft]

This earring thing could have easily been resolved with a simple apology and reimbursement. Shocking the lack of self-awareness and accountability. We teach young children to do better than this.

[@viva5526]

she let it go too long. big mistake. this could have been avoided.

[@Penellabella]

Did you not listen? She said her friend messaged her and asked if she had found them. This implies there was a previous conversation where Heather told her about earrings and would have apologized. Heather thought they were all good. Espelcially considering the friend attended her birthday party since this happen and never mentioned it.

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

She paid for them, and she paid for them, and she paid for them... timing

[@Sunshinestatejen]

I hope Tommy Manzo goes to jail for 43 years. Poor Dina and her husband. Dina deserves to live her life not having to be afraid of her ex husband. Shame on Carolyn and Dolores for writing letters on his behalf.

[@teddybearhead87]

I was shocked at how hard jeff came in yesterday, but it does seem like you're making excuses rather than apologising. I just dont think you can blame her for not chasing you down enough when she was kind enough to lend th3m in the 1st place and then after all that to return the money with an attitude is not the happy positive pers9n we all know 😕💛

[@BriannaBa8]

she's changed. Money and fame-hunger have gotten to her. The little smirk when she mentions her Patreon is gross.

[@shalynnbates7084]

I love your show and you. But if you borrow something from someone worth a $1 or $10,000 you should always return it and they should never have to ask you for it back you just return it! Lessons learned! ❤

[@Kolleen8570]

Heather, you are missing the point. When you borrow something (regardless of value) it’s your responsibility to return what was borrowed. Knowing who you borrowed from and where you went, I believe you knew they had some value. Even if they cost $20, why wouldn’t you reach out to (a) apologize for losing them and (b) offer to reimburse or replace the item. When you don’t own your part, you look bad. That is why you catch heat because you complain about others (even the person who’s earrings you lost) and still your explanation on this Juicy Scoop puts the blame on her for (a) not telling you the value of the earrings and (b) not asking you multiple times to return them. When you are the loaner it is so uncomfortable to ask and ask for the item to returned. That was your responsibility and you still are not owning it. Wow!!

[@susanstremlau-marionmossfl4520]

Exactly!

[@stacylight6683]

Yep. I totally agree and made a similar comment. With that said its none of Jeff's business to bring it up .

[@suchamaven]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@umokay5516]

Uh, it doesn’t matter if they were expensive earrings or not, they weren’t yours to lose. A classy person pays the friend back (although Kelly Dodd is saying you didn’t even look for them either.) And this in the heels of it coming out you don’t pay your guests and blackball them from other shows. You always slam Peter for being cheap but sounds like birds of a feather to me........ It’s time to take accountability, Heather.

[@maryh6953]

Heather - I have loved you for a very long time now 0 you have brought me so much laughter and joy. Stop being a turkey and make amends and be nicer to your friends!!! WTF girl....

[@paularose331]

If the earrings were a planned attack, how would she know you were going to lose them? Not logical. Also stop trying to make money on the hurt you caused one of your good friends telling people to go to your paid account to hear your story is so disingenuous. Maybe pick up the phone and talk to your friend privately make this better not a money making scheme.

[@lavenderamethyst6050]

Are you all dense? The planned attack was Jeff talking about it on air and having Kelly Dodd chime in. That was the plan, that’s what Heather is saying.

[@alysiaaltizer602]

But you borrowed them, correct? Why wouldn’t you immediately reach out and let her know you lost them?

[@LorrieLogan]

Yes, it isn’t high math. I lost them and I will replace them and I am sorry.

[@Penellabella]

Did you not listen? Heather said the friend messaged and asked if she ever found them. So obviously there was a previous conversation where Heather told her about losing them and obviously apologized. Heather asumed they were all good since she went to her birthday party after all this and never mentioned it.

[@ScubaSteve3560]

​@@PenellabellaI was under the impression she never responded to that. And then when she retold the story with an example she left that part out

[@pyewacketpeggy8329]

She did. It wasn’t a issue until the Jack ass that is decided he was bored, wanted some attention, and decided it would be fun to destroy yet another woman’s career.

[@marissatraino9955]

@@LorrieLogan😊😊😊😊😊

[@gillianegan4876]

This has all become so ridiculous, these people are meant to be friends! You all have valid points and you've all made mistakes. If you lost someone's earing, as difficult as it is telling someone. You should have apologised and paid or replaced them over a lunch.

[@mariamulero6822]

Very disappointed in the "excuse" about the earrings. Planned attack seems paranoid to me. No apology whatsoever. This is not about earrings anyway, it's about the whole Justin fallout. I unsubscribed. I don't plan on paying a penny for the extra scoop. It seems like a pattern at this point. Cause drama to make more money off of us. Isn't the ad revenue from all the ads in one video enough? Like they say, if there is a common denominator, you, then you need to look in the mirror and figure out why this is happening.

[@208traderjoes]

Then go!

[@marycalolefsin9717]

We were all on your side when Megan was so horrible to you. Jeff didn't even really call her out. Very much a mixed reaction with Justin but I believe you need to apologize to Justin in my opinion. Jeff was horrible to you on the radio however i believe you were in the wrong not dealing with the earrings. We just want to hear the the juicy scoop hopefully without you as a subject. Your show with Fortune was great on Tuesday, i laughed so hard. I hope you you are taking in why people are critical, it doesn't mean we're haters.

[@meaganedmiston4129]

Did you ever try to tell your friend that you misplaced one of the earrings? It seems that if you tried to find it by calling and looking for it yourself, you must have known/thought that it had some value. Maybe it could've all been handled privately if you told your girlfriend during the trip when you lost them or as soon as you got home unpacking.

[@kikixoxo2127]

I have always enjoyed Heather and Juicy Scoop -- I don't know the truth but I believe Heather. I think she's a good person and dealing with fame and money -- and the people who chase it can get very ugly. She worked hard and it's paid off tremendously -- I think a lot of people are jealous of that.

[@patricaowens]

They are all Very jealous. You can tell by the way they are running their mouth.

[@MsAngelia26]

This comment is from her mom. Lol. Please

[@meroagogo]

So it was her fault you lost her earring because they were not costume jewelry and fine jewelry? pffft. That is a crazy justification. You know you should have made it right regardless so there was no fuel for their fire because this is exactly what they want-- you making yourself sound like the victim. It's ok to have been in the wrong; I wish you had just said I fucked up, that is it. Had you, it would make them look like the assholes but your response makes it all questionable.

[@suzanne8535]

Great show Heather! All the drama is your personal business. I think it was smart to address the earrings. Good job 👏

[@JuicyScoop]

Yes! Thank you!

[@lauram8554]

I thought you would make some kind of apology or have a vulnerable moment about what has been happening 😮

[@lauram8554]

​@wendywacko8813 not sure you're correct

[@ShartySpice]

Nope. She's trying to pretend it's not happening but girlfriend looks like she ain't slept in a week lol

[@chrishalious8194]

THAT'S HER BEST LOOK@@ShartySpice

[@rachelroberts3628]

Stop bullying someone online … you are no better if you taunt someone

[@jai_m28]

apology 4 what?? all the lies being told about her, this is high school bs by alot of mean girls & 2 childish boys , it's ridiculous, they r tryg 2 cash in on heather & baiting her, just vile people

[@user-bk1eq3ps2b]

That’s a pretty delusional take one the earrings. Just apologize you got caught being a grifter.

[@ShartySpice]

Girl nobody cares about Bravo celebrities. We want to know what you spent that PPP money on!

[@chazracarpenter2820]

a house in the desert.

[@56ttamer]

Heather, you need to take a minute. And look at yourself in the mirror. If you keep having all these issues with friends, who is the problem? Take some accountability - your losing the earring is your fault! You protested way too much!

[@suzanne8535]

They were not her friends to begin with.

[@patricaowens]

@@suzanne8535No, they were not.

[@kristindoan9105]

What is missing here is an apology. You were wrong for borrowing the earrings and not returning them on your own accord. Your friend should never have to ask for them back, regardless of what you assumed they were worth. Taking some accountability and admitting you made a mistake would be the right move.

[@golfer462]

She doesn’t owe you an apology. F off!

[@stonedbynita6879]

I agree.

[@rar371]

We are here to enjoy her podcast. She doesn’t owe us an apology.

[@patricaowens]

@@rar371You are absolutely correct.

[@klaaguiby1225]

… I missed the part where YOU need an apology for something you have NO part in. The audacity I swear 🤢😑🙄

[@gratti0370]

A good Catholic Girl would not have acted like you have recently! It's time for confession and say the rosery 3 or more times. Amen.

[@susieq727]

I love your tank-“whatever, who cares” It’s PERFECT! Let this stuff slide off your back. They say, it’s lonely at the top. Don’t let them bring you down. I see turmoil on the other side, and they are trying to bring everyone else down with them. We love you!

[@patricaowens]

Yep,l agree.

[@arianadavila685]

No accountability 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@babblet3601]

I admire her for keeping her show what the show is meant to be. I personally dont want to get into the mess so i appreciate it.

[@HH-gv8mx]

It’s so 8th grade.

[@OKI4life]

Nobody deserves an explanation of the earrings except for the lender of the earrings.

[@macn3793]

All you had to do was apologize, not double down and feign ignorance about the value of the earrings. Be the bigger person

[@HikerGirl13]

She has no idea what that means

[@kdholden]

If they can prove her wrong, let's see the receipts. I for one would like to see the text messages, DM's, voicemails. I won't believe it until I see it. 3 sides to every story.

[@suchamaven]

​@@kdholdenIf I borrow something I return it ASAP - not wait for the lender to have to ask for it. If I lost something I borrowed, I would tell the lender ASAP and ask if they would like me to replace the item, or reimburse them for it. I wouldn't say they shouldn't have lent it to me if it was valuable, or would mind it being lost, or never returned. I wouldn't make excuses for myself and basically blame the victim for my bad actions.

[@silaszephyr]

I definitely want to hear your side of what’s going on publicly, but I’m not gonna go behind a pay wall just to hear it. Unfortunately I guess that I’ll only know Jeff & Justin’s side of the story which really sucks 😢

[@simonecrawford1619]

Too bad for you!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you stuck with Metro PCS too?

[@ClementineDaydream]

Oh did you find a way to get Sirius xm for free?? If so, please share!

[@MM-ci6tc]

Heather is playing it right. Playing the game like the major players. Keep it pushing and ignore the haters.

[@Jewelznme]

@@GG-kk9dr in Taylor’s words “you need to calm down”

[@HH-gv8mx]

Who is she supposed to refund? And for what?@@GG-kk9dr

[@hazelwormwood]

Totally agree-- this idiocy over earrings is such a reach. They act like she was held at gunpoint stealing them, when in reality, if it was such a huge issue, you'd think something would have been mentioned to make it right before publicly accusing Heather of being a thief.

[@kathyquinn3224]

The woman asked for her earrings several times months ago! HM didn’t tell the woman she lost one of the earrings till recent!

[@HH-gv8mx]

Who lent Heather the earrings ? Was it Kelly Dodd? She seems like the only likely person that would say something in the saying, like this out in the public before even confronting Heather about it privately.@@hazelwormwood

[@anku1813]

That’s why I never borrow or lend anything from anybody. It doesn’t matter if earrings were real or not. You borrowed the earrings, you lost one and you should have admitted that you lost it and you should have asked how much you own her

[@carolineoram5113]

Very sad- between friends. People should respect the work people gone through. You work very hard. Stay well heather. One love

[@user-cs3sr9jf5x]

She loaned you the earrings and ask you about them after you lost one. What was she supposed to do be like a credit collector and stay after you. YOU ARE AT FAULT. Hope you have learned a lesson from this.

[@patricaowens]

What’s it to you?

[@ClementineDaydream]

Well yeah, it is up to us as individuals to state our needs and boundaries.

[@Goldenroadie24]

This is cut-and-dried. You borrowed something. You give it back or you pay for it. It is ridiculous for you to say that she didn't ask for it enough or make a big deal out of it. And then to have the unmitigated Gall to say you are being ambushed??? LMFAO 🤣
1:13:27

[@shannysunshine8389]

Agree💯

[@TheLauraLedesma]

She paid it back, I do think it would be kinda dumb to loan expensive jewelry to anyone except my daughter or granddaughter. She should have said something like "Here, you can wear these, but they're expensive so be careful". I totally see Heather's point. She paid her back.

[@susanrampersaud]

you lost one earring, but did you return the other one that wasn't lost? did you text her back right away and offer her $100 bucks for the earrings you lost?

[@007nadineL]

Yes exactly. But I'm sure her frienenemy had decided to let it slide in exchange for other friend benefits and so didn't ask for what she supposedly wanted

[@007nadineL]

Yes. Heather sounds guilty of thoughtlessness
.

[@monismusings]

Not your business

[@pineapplepam5392]

They expect you to accept everything about them, but hold your traditional values against you. I am woke as a joke, but can totally respect your choices.

[@marib8797]

Heather you have a huge following! I look forward to your videos every week! Keep your chin up. #teamheather!!!

[@JuicyScoop]

Yay! Thank you!

[@gretchendantico4851]

This is just so odd. You borrowed earrings and lost one. You should have called when you returned home and apologized for losing it and offered to pay for them. How do you blame the girl for not hounding you. Take accountability for your actions.

[@mantronixtube]

yes!!!

[@tinasa1]

She’s just gonna delete this comment. She’s going through and deleting any comment that doesn’t tell her she’s amazing. I’m so disappointed that she never takes accountability or admits she’s wrong.

[@iBRINGpeace2day]

The more I learn about her, the more I regret all those years paying for her Patreon. Supporting her with money is out of the question for me.

[@mirandam5746]

These freeloader activities, no acknowledgement or care for others belongings 😅

[@patricaowens]

@@iandbobert6368WELL SAID.

[@hurricanekitty6736]

Hey girl, I’ve been sticking up for you this past week, however, it’s not very easy when I haven’t heard your side. I don’t know why you only explained it on your patreon? It’s not like those rich people you wouldn’t want to hear it don’t have the money to hear it, but us little people don’t have $20 to waste to hear your side of a story. I really want to have your back but ignoring it to your audience unless we pay you is a bit fuct up 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@pamelot7040]

Big mistake on her part. I see the enticement of making the $$$, but then everyone is mostly exposed to the other side, which is obviously on a pounce on Heather mission, and you have to pay to hear her side, it doesn’t look good.

[@LorrieLogan]

She owes it to her listeners to communicate her side on her station. Too steer her listeners to Patreon is totally VULGAR.

[@herbertlongfellow7702]

Maybe we have enough of the just of the story now not to have to know more. Heather can move on now. I find Justin and Jeff rather mean tbh.

[@haley9965]

Totally agree!! It also comes across as a cash grab by forcing ppl to pay money. Besides, with all the suspicious “scandals” going on recently, I’m not 100% sure this is all real. I’m know JL is catty, but really? You’re willing to throw away a friendship of 25 years? They’ll have a reconciliation podcast in a few months after everyone’s lost interest & the money dries up. Remember, if it’s hard on us, it’s hard on them too. Maybe not as difficult, but they’re still losing money with the rising costs. I’m over all of it!

[@rar371]

It’s stupid, petty shit. This is really none of the fans business. Just be happy and enjoy the podcast.

[@vr1934]

You’re great to listen to but it’s hard to hear that someone is so different in real life…. being humble genuine and honest is a great quality….you should share the wealth with the people who keep you entertaining and have helped u stay financially stable …..greed brings people down every time . U didn’t seem like a lady who would be so dismissive and Insulting of a friends property for so many months.Nobody likes to have to ask for their things back and then be told it didn’t seem like it was worth anything …..apologies go a long way…u have started to come off so angry and jealous for awhile now ….example? Bethany …someone that is hustling just like you.. don’t lose your endearing qualities because you’re hanging with a young popular cast ….it won’t last like ur true friendships .All of this “pay extra to hear more personal drama” is terrible …but everyone is doing it now.If the earrings were three bucks you are so wrong and you’re trying to play victim we have all been in her place why would u of all people want to borrow fake stuff u really thought they were from Claire’s we aren’t stupid and your friend had u add insult to injury on that …….That happened long ago how was it a planned attack..Jeff is brutally honest but honest…….you can’t apologize and u keep saying people are jealous of ur career instead of just realizing that u are just like the rest of us money won’t mean a thing in the end it’s all about how u treat others We are just”subscribers”but without that it’s all for nothing ..we recognize 😂when someone is being deceitful get back to being kind honest and humble so we don’t start lookin elsewhere for some housewives recaps❤❤ and

[@BriannaBa8]

I've already started other pods and unsubscribed to Heather. She's changed and only cares about surrounding herself with celebs, empty friendships. She didn't care about Justin's birthday. She spews anti-trans things. Listening to her now feels icky and negative.

[@dannyg1440]

Love Juicy Scoop! If I never have to hear behind the scenes drama about a podcast again it will be too soon! Keep up the good work, Heather! 💪🏼 💕 🍨

[@JuicyScoop]

Thanks for listening

[@ShindlersFiist]

So much drama. So much! 😂 lol

[@dawnbG]

Yeah I quit! I’ve been listening for years but I’m done

[@mantronixtube]

LAME . YOU should have told her immediately and YOU should have asked her if they were expensive and YOU should have replied to her messages and YOU should have replaced them …. instead you’re trying to be the victim . is that the lesson you preach in your family ? just ignore it bc unless the person tells you it’s expensive or whatever it’s no big deal ?!
wtf seriously

[@208traderjoes]

Pious much? I bet your one of those born again Christians that are so loving & forgiving.

[@laffietaffie]

Was in a college class with Adam a long time ago... remember him as being a very nice, down to Earth, collaborative, well-mannered and responsible person who had cool stories to share about his internships in L.A. He wore glasses and his hair was a bit floppier, longer + blonder back then, but he still pretty much looks the same.

[@DeanBeanSubmmarine]

41:15 I agree Heather. I think Jeff is pissed that he had to apologize to you for megan. He is pissed that he has had to reassure you of his friendship. He is passively aggressively retaliating against you with the Justin situation & this earring situation. He is pissed you are independently successful. You don't have a Corporation breathing down your neck like he does. He is envious & contemptuous of you. Get away now.

[@patricaowens]

He’s so jealous it’s pitiful.

[@dianewilliams2789]

I am stunned by what has gone down since the Megan thing. I think that event started all of this. Understand that these people really never were your friends.

[@patricaowens]

I hope that she sees that now. They are all two-faced, and most are liars.. 90% anyway.

[@fushee123]

so glad you talk about Sister Wives...Ive been painfully watching this show all these years. I've never been able to look away...How can a show be so utterly boring yet so interesting at the same time?? Janelle has always been my girl!

[@judymurray191]

Painful is right. I quit watching when Meri was so needy for Cody’s affection and he was so mean to her. I wanted her to walk away.

[@amyreed110]

Heather, you are a very kind person. She should have said the earrings were expensive, or not loaned them to you. Let these people go. This is on them.

[@heidiclark8309]

I just LOVE that you are keeping your show professional!! So hard for women to achieve what you have done and I have been so thrilled to see your success. Stay the course and I am sure your content will win ❤❤❤

[@JuicyScoop]

Thank you so much!

[@mycatsnameiskaren8253]

​@JuicyScoop You got this girl. We've got your back, front and sides! ❤

[@patricaowens]

@@mycatsnameiskaren8253Absolutely,we are not going anywhere.

[@juliablair4963]

The way you describe what happened with the earrings is 100% believable and makes sense. I’m glad you are riding above the crap! Love to Heather!

[@JuicyScoop]

Thank you so much!

[@mycatsnameiskaren8253]

#TeamHeather

[@theextensionacademy1985]

agreed!