Destroying our lives through lazy or fantasy thinking | Conor Neill | Leadership

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  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

Комментарии • 44

  • @akaMitchRace
    @akaMitchRace 4 дня назад +1

    Great Day Conor..I’m really enjoying your videos and your content and most certainly finding your topics super helpful and enlightening at this Growth stage of my life. Keep up the fantastic work sir.

  • @gamal01
    @gamal01 2 года назад +15

    Looking back I've seen where a lack of this led to bad decisions, but from marriage to fatherhood helps to push back on lazy thinking once you accept the challenge. Good one Conor 👏

  • @kamikazeneko9070
    @kamikazeneko9070 28 дней назад +2

    Your videos are the real self improvement videos not like most Sudo self improvement gurus I already love each video you make

  • @sattyb
    @sattyb 2 года назад +8

    Thanks Conor. I’ve noticed the habit of journalling coming up in a a few of your videos. It would be great to have a post on exactly how you structure your thinking through writing. This could be through examples of some of the questions you ask yourself and the process you go through. Just a suggestion and thanks for taking the time to put all this great content out for free.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +2

      I have a few old posts and videos on journaling here’s one 3 Benefits of Keeping a Journal
      ruclips.net/video/Niou-6HrqVo/видео.html

  • @hermawanaan5684
    @hermawanaan5684 2 года назад +3

    I loved the part on your daughter's story sacrificing job offers. thank you.

  • @Wisdom-u1u
    @Wisdom-u1u 2 года назад +4

    Thanks ! Dear ! Conor Neil for such a Lovely Message , God bless You and Your fly 🙏.

  • @dovetales3
    @dovetales3 2 года назад +4

    I love this! I believe that a perspective of positivity will literally blind you to any negativity!

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +3

      Positivity is great... except when it means you ignore the signs of decay

    • @dovetales3
      @dovetales3 2 года назад

      @@ConorNeill very true! Thanks!

  • @Everydayexplorer786
    @Everydayexplorer786 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful talk.

  • @AllanGildea
    @AllanGildea 2 года назад +2

    Cheers Conor, timely and pragmattic input.

  • @ChrisAutodidacte
    @ChrisAutodidacte 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Conor ! Great thoughts to think about... again :)
    That inspire me that "Freedom is also the ability to choose our constraints"

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +2

      Dan Sullivan describes 2 types of freedom - freedom from and freedom to... "freedom from" is that you don't "have to" do anything... "freedom to" is the freedom to dedicate and commit yourself to a cause that is important to you

    • @ChrisAutodidacte
      @ChrisAutodidacte 2 года назад

      @@ConorNeill Yes, I see the idea :) Thanks for taking that time to answer me ... I must tell that you are my main reference when I want to motivate my audience ! Your simplicity and your humanity is a real inspiration to me ! Thanks again for your generosity ...

  • @alexanderlyon
    @alexanderlyon 2 года назад +7

    Great stuff, Conor. I notice when I'm tired (late afternoons and evenings) or just plain worn out, my thinking gets black and white and is usually very unhelpful.
    My classic lazy thinking is falsely believing that because I didn't accomplish all 10 or 15 items on my to-do list, that means I didn't succeed that day.
    I try to use my mornings, when I'm sharpest, to do that type of journaling you mentioned, and then I use that clear thinking and momentum to plan my day and take action.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +2

      Tiredness and stress really reduce our thinking

  • @user-vv3ft5nx6e
    @user-vv3ft5nx6e 2 года назад +2

    Thanks.... it's certainly compelling

  • @mkltxo
    @mkltxo 2 года назад +2

    Great advice! Thanks for sharing!

  • @Jansher01
    @Jansher01 Год назад +2

    Thank you conor, it was a great reflection ❤

  • @visalusanson
    @visalusanson Месяц назад

    Sounds True ❗️
    Solid Advice
    ✔️

  • @deaddrink9150
    @deaddrink9150 2 года назад

    Lazy thinking is something I have when I’m tire . Nice view .

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +1

      You and me both... stress, tiredness, being in a rush... all reduce quality of thinking

  • @vildanb8038
    @vildanb8038 Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @iakguui976
    @iakguui976 2 года назад

    How've you Been ?? Im happy to have Seen you in This beautiful nature. Where IS this place ??
    You're a Light into Our lives.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад

      Thank you - this is the Montserrat mountain, about 40kms outside Barcelona

  • @jean-victorcote5825
    @jean-victorcote5825 2 года назад +5

    Lazy thinking by people you depend on can really mess up your life.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +3

      wow... now that is a whole new video in itself!!! good perspective... how to spot when others are living in fantasy thinking... I love it when people say "no" or are conscious about their capacity (skill, time and motivation) to deliver on their promises

  • @hannaraoul7731
    @hannaraoul7731 Год назад +1

    Yes, :) very true

  • @dkidder1367
    @dkidder1367 Месяц назад +1

    i can't stand when youtubers say "quit your job". Well, are they going to pay my bills? I agree, Incrementalism is the way. I know people who have told me for years what they'll do, and i tell them to just let me know when they do it, and stop telling me about it. They get angry at me, but the fact is that they never do what they said they would.

  • @phk8411
    @phk8411 Месяц назад

    Mk. Interesting 🤔.. mahalo from Hawaii..

  • @dienand_gaming
    @dienand_gaming Месяц назад

    Every job suc… have positives and negatives 😊

  • @Mashburn007
    @Mashburn007 2 года назад +2

    Just by reading the title i know I am guilty of it way too much than i could say,
    I call it the Walter Mitty effect (~fantasy thinking) good movie tho 😅

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 года назад +2

      I like your name for the effect! good movie ;-) 🎥🎥🎥

  • @Undermineded-333
    @Undermineded-333 Месяц назад

    We don’t want much

  • @marcin3136
    @marcin3136 12 дней назад

    Probably Messi, Lewandowski and even Szczęsny :D, as footballers have to do exercises and things they don't like :)))

  • @Fred-q1x
    @Fred-q1x Месяц назад +1

    I tuned out when you used a casino owner as a positive example. Exploiting other people's vulnerabilities and gambling addiction is not my idea of a positive role model.